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@HappilyCommitted
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@johnpeden2039
@johnpeden2039 Жыл бұрын
As someone who cheated on the love of my life.. I can honestly say we as men can change. But we have to want to make that change. As far as me, I spoke to a therapist and was serious about making efforts to change and be better, and that's what I did.. Stopped putting words together, and started putting them into action.. I was very fortunate and lucky that my girlfriend took me back, and it made our love stronger then ever.. Karma really got me for what I had done.. What we as men need to realize, is that our choices not only impact us, but it damages the women we love.. the women we are supposed to love, support and protect..
@spencerallcock3463
@spencerallcock3463 Жыл бұрын
Hey man, this has been my situation as of recent. Would I be able to ask for some advice?
@tiggerligger4943
@tiggerligger4943 Жыл бұрын
dude i was about to ask you the same thing
@franklin2141
@franklin2141 Жыл бұрын
If she takes you back she’s going to cheat on you
@johnpeden2039
@johnpeden2039 11 ай бұрын
@@spencerallcock3463 Absolutely
@johnpeden2039
@johnpeden2039 11 ай бұрын
@@franklin2141 Then I look at it is this, Karma comes for us all, if you take someone back, and that person has shown they've changed and has gotten better.. And you take them back, so you can get revenge and do it to them.. Then that means that person is going to receive there Karma, and it's going to be twice as worse.. All you can do is put it in God's hands, and let it him deal with it
@mungulenimarlon7573
@mungulenimarlon7573 9 ай бұрын
The problem is once you are cheated upon,trust is gone and just gone, even if the cheater changes,u will not trust what they do
@4629dt
@4629dt 8 ай бұрын
so true. I am going through this right now, and it's the 2nd time she has done this to me.
@claudia3539
@claudia3539 7 ай бұрын
@@4629dt third time is the charm. A third will happen
@user-gi9ft8lb5y
@user-gi9ft8lb5y 2 ай бұрын
NEVER TAKE THEM BACK! The first time is the hardest, after that they start getting smart about it and you will spend your life wondering where they are and who they are with. Your life and piece of mind are worth more than any woman. Take it from an experienced man.
@kingcalliv2646
@kingcalliv2646 Ай бұрын
6yrs of relationship and she get attached easily to her workmate. Sht broke my heart into pieces. I don't know where to put my anger on, everyday i thought of killing myself. i dont know what to do.
@nickcortese990
@nickcortese990 8 ай бұрын
I cheated on Every GF I ever had including my fiance who I have been with for 7 years. My heart was pulled out of my chest when I found out she was having an emotional affair. Getting a taste of your own medicine is probably the best thing that has happened to me... "Forget the circumstances and REMEMBER the lesson"
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 8 ай бұрын
We're so sorry to hear about this!
@SuperGremlin-kt2yt
@SuperGremlin-kt2yt 10 ай бұрын
Neverrr go back ladies. Take it from me it gets worse. Dont do it!!! Save yourself.
@bslangable
@bslangable 8 ай бұрын
like these ladies you're talking about don't cheat..c'mon.
@Adiscretefirm
@Adiscretefirm 11 ай бұрын
Let them work on themselves and try monogamy with the next person they find. Why would anyone fight to be with someone that doesn't respect you or care if they hurt you?
@AviDoug
@AviDoug 11 ай бұрын
My girlfriend of a year cheated on me. She was my first relationship ever in 22 years (i waited to find someone I felt connected to) and I was devastated. Getting cheated on is awful, and for a first relationship, the way it happened unfortunately ruined my optimisim on the potential partners around me and ever getting back with a cheater if it they were to pursue it. I never believed in "the one", but i know cheating is awful and shows a lack of spine for those you are commited too. I can't imagine those who have had partners longer can re-attach broken love strings as they once were.
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
You NEVER reattach broken love strings as they once were because you'll never get the old relationship back. You focus on building a new relationship with the person.
@Tate-nj5jo
@Tate-nj5jo Жыл бұрын
Hey I have one for you, Married for 45 years, I knew her for 50 years total. She kept her affairs secret. She was an expert. WOW never even thought she could be so deceiving. I trusted her, she would say she was at Church decorating for a wedding. Church was used for a cover. Who would think a Woman would be a Cheater at Church. The Church Staff had her back, they offered a place for My Wife to hide and possibly were part of the Club. Calvary Chapel Burbank Ca was our Church for over 20 years. Both my wife and I served doing different things useing our talents to Bless our Church. I was an Electrician and handy person, my Wife being great at everything we were a great team. I feel total betrayal from everyone involved.
@debbiethomas9991
@debbiethomas9991 Жыл бұрын
Wow.sorry that happened to you The people at the church should be a shame too they she have been talking her out of it instead they helped herWith her infidelity that sad when you can’t count on Christians steer you the right way again I hope you moved on for the better of your life sorry that had to happen to you
@greenonblack2790
@greenonblack2790 10 ай бұрын
i hope you heal brother p.s find another church
@blueciv
@blueciv 9 ай бұрын
Hey i feel for you i'm 45 and was married for 22 years when my situation happen. She left and then came back and left again. The second time it didn't hurt but the kicker is she came back again and wants to work it out. Every time she left it was only for a week or so but it still stung. I took her back because of my vow. Till death do us part(WHAT GOD HAS JOINED LET NO MAN TEAR APART) even though I took her back it does not mean that I took her back like a wife there is no trust Faith or believe that she won't do it again I will not be the one that separates a marriage that God has put together if she wants to leave she has to leave I will not leave her.
@Whatyousayin24
@Whatyousayin24 6 ай бұрын
⁠@@bluecivHe said you can leave for adultery.
@sharonvass8700
@sharonvass8700 7 ай бұрын
No never take back a cheater they obviously don't care they are hurting you they don't care about you they have lied
@georgevue8175
@georgevue8175 10 ай бұрын
17 years ago the wife cheated with a coworker. Hindsight I so wish that when I found out I said nothing and simply disappeared, with me out of the way the other man could have moved in and permanently taken her off my hands and today I would be a million times happier and so would she.
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 7 ай бұрын
You still can.
@TheJBeck1
@TheJBeck1 Жыл бұрын
I love what you said that you have to finally love yourself. You Must feel safe secure and whole with the other person. and you have they’re constantly ready around my dear back every chance I get I’m secretly talking outside to the person and on their laptop. I finally went to Scottsdale Arizona to doscoveri there were so many guys that are truly loyal and trustworthy that want one beautiful woman to share their life with and now that I know that I feel stronger. I’m going to get my divorce after 32 years. Thank you for telling everyone out there that you must put yourself first you can’t keep trying to protect a long-term marriage that was ridden with Betrayal. When the betrayer continues to talk to that person and communicate with them and meet them it won’t end and there really is nothing you can do it that point.
@bystandersarah
@bystandersarah Жыл бұрын
People get so hung up on whether something they do can be called “cheating” or not. It’s really just a linguistic lack in our language I think…you must ask yourself, “does this action break the trust or betray the trust the other has in me?” If it does, or you think it might, don’t do it. People will call it cheating only for lack of a better word. The emotional effect it has on your person is the same. It’s betrayal.
@mljrotag6343
@mljrotag6343 7 ай бұрын
If you have to hide it, it's cheating.
@MikeThaPhilosopher
@MikeThaPhilosopher 10 ай бұрын
This video should be titled “Never Take A Cheater Back” that is the ultimate level of disrespect. If they cheat on you it’s something that they want that you don’t have. If they’re cheating it means they are either in denial that they don’t want the relationship to end or they’re to scared to
@cafelatte1124
@cafelatte1124 10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Also, the thought of "taking them back" automatically comes packaged with distrust and all the BS drama you don't want to deal with.
@matinaki1644
@matinaki1644 9 ай бұрын
​@@cafelatte1124exactly. I believe it is only the ones who don't actually care for their partners (but care/like being in a relationship) who manage to not have trust issues. They are like "who cares as long as I get to live in the house, have my children etc".
@cgerdowsky
@cgerdowsky 9 ай бұрын
That's not all true. Women f up just like men do
@Jay-vv5uw
@Jay-vv5uw Жыл бұрын
To cheat they never truly loved you to begin with. Taking them back is just leaving room for more pain and disappointment. Everybody knows this but will readily deny it
@11even99
@11even99 Жыл бұрын
this is such a close minded comment. people cheat for so many reasons.
@FlyGuyDrec
@FlyGuyDrec Жыл бұрын
False , someone could love you and still cheat tbh
@nathanielflar4941
@nathanielflar4941 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why people say that.. of course you can love somebody I've Loved women and cheated on them but I came back the difference is is when women love you and cheat on you they tend to leave you and go with the person they cheated on
@aarondoesnteat1694
@aarondoesnteat1694 Жыл бұрын
gahahahahahahaha
@tatianadaniel3569
@tatianadaniel3569 Жыл бұрын
​@@nathanielflar4941Treat others the way you want to be treated.
@RRGrowth
@RRGrowth 6 ай бұрын
My girl cheated two years ago, initially thinking it was just talking. Today I find out there were videocall, kissing, and hugging, the girlfriend has shown respect privately and in front of her realtives and friends and support in every step since. The question is whether to break up or give her another chance.
@lilli-.-
@lilli-.- Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It was very informative and felt genuine
@Patrickstarrrrr69
@Patrickstarrrrr69 Жыл бұрын
Rule of thumb my dad taught me: never take back a cheater. They may genuinely be sorry in the moment, but it subconsciously tells them you will let them get away with that behavior. Can they change? Maybe, but odds are they won’t. Find someone better or keep her as fwb full stop
@mrtwister9002
@mrtwister9002 Жыл бұрын
Why would you keep them around?
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
You don't keep anyone as an "fwb". It's either you're going to work it out with them or you're going to release them and yourself with love to go heal and find the person you deserve to be with.
@janettorres1492
@janettorres1492 Жыл бұрын
I honestly feel yes they can stop, fall in Love with yourself first
@momadewoodsigns1579
@momadewoodsigns1579 Жыл бұрын
I'm having a hard time focusing on myself, all my attention is on my husband. I'm so afraid he'll cheat again if I don't give him all my attention
@ZarriawithaJ
@ZarriawithaJ Жыл бұрын
@@momadewoodsigns1579 that's not healthy. Might need to seek professional advice.
@Whatyousayin24
@Whatyousayin24 6 ай бұрын
@@momadewoodsigns1579 hon, that won’t keep him from cheating. If you’re going to stay and try to work it out, seek professional help if he’s willing. Learn to love yourself just as much.
@Astrolovescrypto
@Astrolovescrypto 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I cheated on every girlfriend I ever had, until it was done to me which made me feel how disrespectful it was. I briefly lost my mind in a violent rage, but a few days later something in me clicked. “How dare you be so pissed at her when you’ve been doing it to her the entire time”? I have felt a love for that woman and appreciation ever since. If it was t for her I might have messed up what I have now!!!
@mittag983
@mittag983 Жыл бұрын
I hope she leaves you forever you don't deserve her
@reallife_daria4816
@reallife_daria4816 Жыл бұрын
I have a question I was cheated on by my boyfriend. He treated me like absolute shit the entire time he brainwash me into thinking that the things he was doing was love. So to add this man was cheated on. It widely affected him and he even mentioned it whenever we got together saying I’m not the best right now because I was cheated on in the past and I understand how messed up that is and I wouldn’t wanna do it to anybody. But he did it to me, and in the way that I found out it almost felt like because I let him walk all over me for so long and get away with it. He just did it on the open. Not thinking that repercussions would come to him I guess. Why would he cheat? I know you’re not him and I know he’s not you, but to read this comment and see that it is possible for somebody to reform. It’s mind boggling.
@IntegraDIY
@IntegraDIY Жыл бұрын
Simp
@sydneymanning9735
@sydneymanning9735 Жыл бұрын
@@reallife_daria4816 hey
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
Cheating on someone is an act of hatred. Prayerfully, she recognizes her worth and finds her husband who will truly love and respect her.
@carminefederico-rv7fg
@carminefederico-rv7fg 6 ай бұрын
Thank you. You save lives ❤️
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 6 ай бұрын
It is my pleasure, thank you for your kind words! Sincerely, Adrian
@Mr801guy
@Mr801guy Жыл бұрын
I’d love to access the 5 steps but can’t find it linked below…. Help
@michaelscott2929
@michaelscott2929 Жыл бұрын
my wife cheated and I left her and now she use my kids to try and find out what I'm doing which is sad
@jenniferflores6125
@jenniferflores6125 10 ай бұрын
My boyfriend cheated on me and continues to cheat on me & to go behind my back. I still stayed because I love him and because I have so much hope that he can change but it just seems like nothing is changing and I’m so tired. I can’t do this anymore. It’s painful.
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
I was getting ready to call you all types of birds and yamheads, but then my compassion set in. Go no contact and leave. Staying makes the cheating acceptable. When someone knows your love and loyalty is unconditional, they no longer have to respect you for it. It's human nature to take advantage of people and that's what's happening here.
@pist251
@pist251 10 ай бұрын
Dump him. You're young and pretty. Good people exists. Cheaters are scums of this world
@femalehobbitwithhairyfeet
@femalehobbitwithhairyfeet 8 ай бұрын
I feel the same way. I have shown empathy and compassion, I have extended forgiveness and love... To someone who won't stop betraying me and hurting me. I really hope that you find courage to do what is best for you whatever that may be, and that things have gotten better for you ❤
@tigermagda
@tigermagda 7 ай бұрын
Leave, you're already broken and it takes a long time to heal.
@billiemeadus9529
@billiemeadus9529 6 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter who love him and not think about it every time he cheats on you he’s putting your health at risk loving someone is not good enough to stay just saying get out now I love my ex with all my heart. He was also my best friend since I was six when he cheated on me I did not tolerate it, and I found a man who treats me right if a man cheats on you he has no respect for you. It’s better to be alone with me with a cheater think we are head, not your heart
@marielovelygold8337
@marielovelygold8337 2 ай бұрын
Got to stop reading these comments, yall depressing or maybe i am a fool.
@coldinfusion
@coldinfusion 9 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of kissing another girl while in a relationship and I can definitely say that mistake helped me become better because I would never do anything to even remotely hurt another woman again.
@Netrak16
@Netrak16 3 ай бұрын
I cheated on my bf once of 4 and half years but it was just a mistake and the time people manipulated me against him and my only mistake was I got manipulated and I started hating my bf and I wanted to leave him and the time I did this mistake but I got to know that I got manipulated and I realised it and now I love him like a crazy I cannot live without him but he found out I cheated and now he don't want me but i was a complimently different phase I never let anyone touch me before that neither after everyone has different story every couple is different I love him so much I want him back I want his forgiveness I'm ready for any punishment he gives me I'll put all my efforts and I'll never break his trust I'll listen to him all the time I want him back please someone help me😭😭🙏🏼
@mohcinebachri7084
@mohcinebachri7084 3 ай бұрын
i found my girl cheat on me with and other guy but she said that she love me and she can prove to me but i don't feel good when im arround her how can i do to fix that or forget her
@RoseSantos-qj4yf
@RoseSantos-qj4yf 2 ай бұрын
Everything you said was right on-point but don't forget about GOD when needed! 4+30+2024.
@SalmaMymoona
@SalmaMymoona Жыл бұрын
How to find wether they cheat u again
@PettyLabelle
@PettyLabelle Жыл бұрын
They never change . 😂 just walk away
@jvogler_art4708
@jvogler_art4708 Жыл бұрын
I disagree that they can never change, but i think its more so that even if they do change, do you even want them? The trust has already been broken and feelings for the other may have been shattered. That's something that can never change. Your opinion of them is damaged beyond repair. I firmly believe SOME people can change if they really want to, but you have to ask yourself do you have the capacity within yourself to accept them if they do? Most don't and most cheat again, so there is a huge risk in taking them back. If they aren't taking accountability for what they did and they aren't facing consequences and you just blindly take them back that's the mistake. Ultimatley the best thing you can ever do in this scenario is to just break it off in this scenario. Someone wronged you and showed they don't care about your trust, they don't deserve your trust anymore, but maybe someday, years down the line after some maturing that will change. Being content with the breakup and being alone is the best thing you can do. Personal growth. It's the grief and the hole in one's life created by a breakup that makes people stay most of the time, which i feel is the wrong reason.
@user-uu9cs1gi6d
@user-uu9cs1gi6d Ай бұрын
Hey ,,,,so I found out that my girlfriend cheated on me on several occasions while we are dating,,,after confronting her she told me that non of those guys mattered to her and that she only loved me ,,,she justified herself that it was when she was weak and drunk ,,,I forgave her on terms that if this happens again am gone ,,,but since then I haven't been feeling okay I don't know if I should continue or just break up with her
@Daytonaman675
@Daytonaman675 Жыл бұрын
Yes, but they have to own it AND change.
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
Would you hire an accountant who has admitted to bankrupting every company he's ever worked for in the past? 🤨
@joellindqvist6203
@joellindqvist6203 10 ай бұрын
@@TomikaKelly I'm sorry you are single
@user-no3tw6gk5m
@user-no3tw6gk5m 3 ай бұрын
My boyfriend had cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and we had stopped dating after 10 days he came again and asks to date again.. What should I do?
@elmahdi5
@elmahdi5 7 ай бұрын
I wouldn't know.because I would NEVER give a broad that opportunity. They can change, grow, and evolve with some other man. #freeagentlifestyle
@rattybee9831
@rattybee9831 11 ай бұрын
I cheated on my wife with some one and over a year and half she find out and I regret doing that,I was not able to open up due to what went through due to my past relationships so she suffered for it and I promised my self never to do that in life…and the love I have her has developed more than words can say and any one who is trying to cheat on their partners should stop because both partners will be happy when you stay together peace…and I am sorry for this and will not happen as we grow together and die together,any time I look at you I say how beautiful you are and I will love you forever
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
Prayerfully, your wife recognizes her worth and heals and finds the husband she deserves to be with.
@pist251
@pist251 10 ай бұрын
I hope she cheats back on you as you only deserve sadness
@standground7956
@standground7956 8 ай бұрын
*Cheating is never a mistake. Cheating is a series of planned conscious decisions, the cheater justifies it, they determine that it’s worth risking their current relationship to do so, then after further consideration- they move forward with the act of infidelity.* When you forgive a cheater and remain with them, they interpret that as a slap on the wrist. A man or a woman with no self control is a liability. *I can’t think of anything more degrading, humiliating and pathetic than getting emotional over or fighting to remain in a relationship with a known cheater.* Whether you trust them or not, it’s best practice to leave the relationship as they’ve clearly demonstrated that they prefer the other person. Hopefully one day your wife will recognize that and act accordingly.
@devonta28thKY
@devonta28thKY 8 ай бұрын
Everyone has either cheated or been cheated on. So now where do we go?
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 8 ай бұрын
people works this out in their own ways ❤️
@aurelia555
@aurelia555 7 ай бұрын
technically I had on him because I made an idiotic assumption about him fooling around on me. But he never was. I had talked abt it on my behalf because I had entertained and added some random. Who started sending unsolicited pics the same day. I didn’t know and my boyfriend seen it and happened to leave me. I don’t think it’s fair. I had anger when we talked in the car that same afternoon a week ago. I had him yell at me… we were so good we were just right. We were talking about moving we talked about kids. We talked about a lifestyle together. I don’t want anyone but him and I I don’t know why I had done it. Because of hurt and guilt for seeing his following. Not even on his phone but mine. Fast forward to today since this was only last week. And now he’s following some old chick he used to sleep with and it kinda really fkn sucks. I think he’s texting with her but there’s nothing I can do and I really ruined it for myself and him. If I think his heart is at where I think it is. We will be able to talk when he’s ready. I know things don’t come easy but he unblocked and followed her so quickly
@samuelmiles6807
@samuelmiles6807 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha.. no. They will just get better at hiding it..
@mittag983
@mittag983 Жыл бұрын
Facts 100%
@Varrio801
@Varrio801 Жыл бұрын
😔
@basedggallin4556
@basedggallin4556 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely seen it a hundred times even experienced it myself cheaters will cheat again if you take them back
@bhynniewta8393
@bhynniewta8393 Жыл бұрын
💯
@momadewoodsigns1579
@momadewoodsigns1579 Жыл бұрын
That's what I'm so worried about. He hid his affair for 2 YEARS!!
@user-sj6hp3lu6r
@user-sj6hp3lu6r 9 ай бұрын
My cheater is faithful when I'm around it's when he alone with women he has the issues but he claims he has control BS😂😂
@SetApart7Generation
@SetApart7Generation 2 ай бұрын
What about if your spouse that kept cheating?
@claudia3539
@claudia3539 7 ай бұрын
They do in my experience
@Faizaakhan528
@Faizaakhan528 Ай бұрын
He started liking a girl when we were on a break from our relationship.when we got back together ,he couldn't stop talking about her. Although they didn't have a full fledged relationship,he admitted he admired her and was attracted. What should I do?? P.s. he says he still wants me😂
@pist251
@pist251 10 ай бұрын
Never take a cheater back. FULL STOP
@user-wi2bi3fu4n
@user-wi2bi3fu4n 6 ай бұрын
I wish we can get more comments from men...i beg.
@bethelspark7403
@bethelspark7403 2 ай бұрын
My gf whom i lives together with. What should i do. Should i ask her to leave my house first! Because waking up seeing her hurts me so much.. i love her but I don't know why she cheated on me with a so called friend
@bethelspark7403
@bethelspark7403 2 ай бұрын
She cheated
@Jr1ce
@Jr1ce 3 ай бұрын
I’ve cheated very early on in a beautiful relationship I had. The person i cheated with was very good at knowing how to get what they want out of me she is a very good manipulator on top of that she is the mother to my only child this isn’t to excuse my action of cheating because ultimately I made that terrible choice i didn’t even finish my girlfriend pops in my head as I was in the actual act I stopped and then owned up to it because she deserved to know. NEVER cheat ever it does so much damage to both people involved we tried working through it but she couldn’t get over it I mean how could you get over something like that but I promised her i would become a better man from that and that’s what I’ll do and continue to do if I get the chance to try again with her I’ll never make her feel that suffering again if not then as my punishment I will not take another woman because I don’t deserve it
@edilis784
@edilis784 10 ай бұрын
Once a cheater, always a cheater
@MegaFinalRound
@MegaFinalRound Жыл бұрын
If the wife makes the same mistake twice with their husband (they were caught cheating with other men at two different times in the marriage), does the wife deserve a third chance? The husband knows that the wife has a history of cheating in prior relationships.
@Patrickstarrrrr69
@Patrickstarrrrr69 Жыл бұрын
Why that guy marry someone who has a history of cheating? The reality is there are people who are relationship material and people who aren’t. She isn’t. He made a mistake. Plain and simple
@SacramentoNativ3
@SacramentoNativ3 Жыл бұрын
@@Patrickstarrrrr69 love
@tatianadaniel3569
@tatianadaniel3569 Жыл бұрын
​@@Patrickstarrrrr69you feel the same way if it was a woman? Would she have just "made a mistake"?
@trentwright9570
@trentwright9570 11 ай бұрын
I think one time can be worked through but if they do it twice, they need to become fertiliser so they don't hurt anyone else.
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 10 ай бұрын
Would you hire an accountant who has admitted to bankrupting every company he's ever worked for in the past? 🤨
@nicolasnolan1405
@nicolasnolan1405 9 ай бұрын
Me and my girlfriend were in a happily committed relationship. She has a bit of a history of cheating, but she was in a really bad relationship and me and her we went through a lot. She broke up with me because she said she wasn’t mentally in it anymore that night, I remember bringing her flowers, but I told her that I didn’t want to get back with her and that night she went and hung out with another man and she told me that all they did was kiss and she promised on her grandmothers life that’s all they did and she’s begging for me back, saying that she can’t live without me and she says that she just made a big mistake and then she realize nobody could ever replace me. Should I forgive her?
@standground7956
@standground7956 8 ай бұрын
Yes, forgive her and then tell her you’d never enter a relationship with her ever again. Grow some balls and find a different woman who wants and respects you, let the other guy have her. You’re no longer with her, right?
@frawldog
@frawldog Жыл бұрын
🎉
@jbouse64
@jbouse64 Жыл бұрын
Cheaters are trash and they will continue to do what they do. Actually believe you this planet not worth dog manure.
@ivankulola5847
@ivankulola5847 8 ай бұрын
You either the cheater or the cheated..no middle ground....stay hard
@shaaabhai282
@shaaabhai282 9 ай бұрын
I cheated on her.I sexted with other girls and got caught.I don't wanna loose her.What can I do to fix this?
@hayleysterling3598
@hayleysterling3598 8 ай бұрын
Control your sexual urges. My husband did the same thing but also met women and prostitutes. I don’t even feel attracted to him anymore because I’m so disgusted that he couldn’t control his sexuality, he let it control him. The effort that he put into finding women to catch that hit of dopamine from finding something new in those meaningless connections drove him further and further away from me when he made excuses for himself that he was “just getting a man”. If you can’t get her back, at least control your sexual impulses for the future and invest your energy in high quality women instead of women that are probably sexting many different men including you. If you want one woman to focus all her energy to you, you need to do the same for her.
@bslangable
@bslangable 8 ай бұрын
nothing, she's better of without you.
@mudknj3271
@mudknj3271 8 ай бұрын
Hi,im a cheater. I cheated on my girl to have an intimate relationship with someone else. I really dont have any kind of feeling towards that person who i had an intimate relationship with. It was purely based on the sexual tension that we had. I really have true feelings for the girl i love. Yet i thought I'd lie and keep things hidden. Now that im caught. I regret that i shldve said everything.but the problem is i was too afraid to tell her everything,coz i didnt want our relationship to brk..so i chose to lie.. but i realllyy realllyyy understand that what i did was wrong and i reallyy want to redeem myself.. i really want a second chance, do i deserve it tho ?
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 8 ай бұрын
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@chloenewton7257
@chloenewton7257 6 ай бұрын
No. U dont deserve another chance. U clearly don't love her that much if u felt the need to be intimate with someone else.
@tristinstorm5858
@tristinstorm5858 Жыл бұрын
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