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Tiffany Brown exactly! #byefelicia

Right!

DAWN, 'THE TRUMPET BLOWer'!!! I guess you like emojis lol. I totally agree with you though. Because we all know a lot of men don’t like to wear condoms because “it doesn’t feel as good.” Men think it’s the woman’s job to be on birth control, but none of them stop you from getting STI’s.

Boy, bye!

I M A QYN I screamed! Dis dude needs his ass beat.

I M A QYN i came here with an open mind but once he mentioned “while she was pregnant” i immediately was like oh stfu. She was carrying HIS child, a real man would actually want to protect her and take care of her while she’s in that position, the selfishness is on another level here.

Imbécil

Hahahahaha

Yessss

I felt the same way. I would be like if you wanna keep your 2 hands you better get them off me.

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I get the feeling she lacks confidence in herself.being together for the children's sake is one thing,but she needs to get away from him.maybe after this talk from Steve& company,he will man up,hopefully.

True i was so mad looking at that . If i was there i might have punched that MF face & say get your hands off 🤣🤣

He wants to get back in there , if they can't turn it around it will end. For the children find counseling, be honest about what your both want, make plans to take care of the children and move on.

Oufff 😮‍💨

Preach

Amen!!!

Typical man behavior. There's no reason for cheating. He cheated cause he wanted to. Not cause he needed attention

I stayed with my cheating husband for over 30 hears. The last time he abused me, I made a plan and walked out. At the time we had 2 grandsons. 2 out of 3 children said I was the unfaithful one and that was a lie. So...I lost 2 children and 2 grandchildren when I left. Should I have stayed to be with my 2 children and 2 grandchildren?

Yes, but you forgot, he needed attention.

+Jacob Delorme Most men wouldn't think twice to leave a woman who cheated. I don't know why women keep giving these men second chances. I understand it is harder to leave when there's feelings involved, but feelings can lead you down the wrong path when you're making a decision.

+ladynottingham89 I don't know if that's true. What makes you think women are more forgiving when it comes to cheating ?

Völundr Frey It's what I have seen from observing people. Most of my male acquaintances, friends, or family members have ended relationships and marriages immediately after the wife or SO cheated. On the other hand, I have seen women take the man back even if they split up for a little time. Note I said MOST men, not all. The ones that do take the girlfriend or wife back are in the minority. The wife has a better shot at forgiveness IF they have children,and as sick as it is, I've seen the guy who takes the wife back "get even" if you know what I mean.

+ladynottingham89 well sadly I learned the hard way. I had an ex girlfriend cheated on me with my best friends who told me and I didn't believe them. She admitted that she "kissed" one and I was like "k". And more recently I had an ex boyfriend who cheated on me that I know of at least five other people in the short time we were together. I took him back several times. But I do agree with you, but I think it has a lot to do with how society looks at woman.

I'm sorry you went through this betrayal of trust. What you can do is learn from the experiences and look for red flags in your next/current partner so it doesn't happen again. No guarantees in life, but at least red flags you can try to avoid.

I quite agree but a heart that loves should be able to forgive. I’m not glorifying cheating. It’s terrible but should let go

This is so true. It’s complete betrayal.

Did you see how casually he said “it happened when she was pregnant”, his face expressionless like this is something normal, like it’s understandable

@@kcee5119 I hope when a woman or a wife cheats on a man or a husband you can maintain this energy.

I don't get it either!

That there is the problem there is no real commitment. He left that relationship before he even cheated. When someone starts eating in another room that says that person don't want to be with you.

I think some women just stay thinking the man will change his behavior. However, the more she puts up with it the more he will continue to lose respect for her.

Girl, I don't get it either. Busta ass men. 10 years? Seriously! I ain't waiting 6mons. By that time a man knows if he wants to marry you are not.

Shawn Reed Exactly! Ain't no way!

No braids!!

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I agree.

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he's wonderful father .

"attention from females" "committed to one female" not how you talk about the mother of your child.

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Rightttttt!!! He's a dog

Wow

Hes a dumb ass is what he is🤨

He does but this guy has no remorse I have a brother exactly like him who uses mental tactics, it took a while to realize it, I can't tell if he's a sociopath or just a narc

my thought exactly. it's like he is waiting for something better. and he had to be a brother. 😕

Right. Usually when situations like this happens, the man is just playing w/ the females emotions. She probably feels like she needs someone to be w/ & he knows that she's too weak to just up & leave him. Just like Marjorie basically said, she needs to demand respect & set standards for herself & her children, and if he can't meet them, she needs to move on b/c she can do bad all by herself.

abla kugblenu and his name had to be Dekedrius...got damn.

alwayz classy - Worst advise ever.. People can grow and plus they have kids together

For real

Right

It was paining me as if it was me being rubbed😂

Thank you. I would’ve boxed him right in the audience.

@@athenabanadoh5795 😂😂😂😂

I was looking for this comment they look like this has happened in there marriage before

@@torritwyman4694 We really must see differently what I saw was agreement and mannerisms built on a long time bond...

@@ndapandulashikongo6867 i can understand where your coming from i also saw the same thing u saw and a long time bond can be tested trust is very important.

@@torritwyman4694 most definitely your completely right.. ❤

@@ndapandulashikongo6867 its very important to look and analize both sides not just one

Adelaide Ayukegba right!

Because they are married how they gonna say that? Gotta make it look like marriage is the answer

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Because marriage is being touted as the ultimate fix-all for most relationship problems. Nearly half of marriages fail because of cheating, and marriage isn't always about love. I'm personally getting tired of people being so preachy about marriage. What works for you may not work for someone else. I've seen many commited relationships where there are no marriages. Being married doesn't mean that he/she won't cheat, and that ring isn't going to protect you from it anymore than religion will! And yes I have been married before, but he passed away. You can very well have a loving commitment filled relationship without that ring, which is really only a symbol.

That’s not what they’re saying. Don’t you get it.

Mya-Amor Lenin you’d be surprised

Mya-Amor Lenin it's not cheating at all unless he is sleeping around with a married female you may want to look that up

He probably never stopped cheating. A lot of men get caught and keep right on doing it but hide it better

I don’t know about the beautiful part but I dig what you’re saying

With 3kids it's difficult to get man

Smyrne Hawkinson amen!

Smyrne Hawkinson Fact 💯

I agree - it would be over. But, again, you would be absolutely surprised how many women would not leave. Worse yet, think about marrying AND having a baby with a cheater. And if you truly loved your man, even you, Smyme, wouldn't leave him. Why? Because you would think you have too much invested in this relationship and don't want to throw it all away.

@crooked truth83 That's good to hear. But...how long did it take for you to end it.

There are so many reasons why people tolerate it, though overall... I'd guess they can't picture themselves better off in a different situation.

Many times they do it for you because they don't want to break up your relationship with your father. It's sad what some of these mothers have to sacrifice.

shut up you are not in those ppl place ur not in their head or emotions so dont judge becos ur sitting well with your relationship try the shoes on 1st then u will see where it is squeezing ok I never judge ppl relationship becos ur not in there place ok just give your support and move on ppl lives are involved those innocent kids that didn't ask to be here ok

right? I love the lady in the blue dress. She said wait a minute now😅

If they choose to stay in an abusive relationship, they probably deserve to be in that relationship. You aint getting any sympathy from me. Enjoy the suffering.

Shut up

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SparticPro.. Yep and people who bring them in this world don’t realize is a life they’re actually creating, playing with, and some don’t even realize or really understand the concept of it.

SparticPro Right

SparticPro a game I refuse to play

SparticPro without marriage and it’s not a mistake as they are multiplying without law and god binding.

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So how did things go afterwards? PVEL.

I DT think so

That Part!

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Kay Xiong “worst parents” how so?

Kay Xiong Many blessings to you. Your very brave😊

Same here love...bless u

U "think" you chose not to be like them, but factually, the grace of God on your life made it so. Without meaning this to sound terrible towards u (bcoz I dont know u personally), don't give yourself all the credit for how u turned out! A greater power is working with you and thank God you have turned out good😉Food for thought🤔

MsEMworld wow, way to be a dick. Hush and let them be confident. Maybe they don't have the same beliefs as you.

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I would not have had the first kid. These women are dumb! Dummy! He’s not going to marry you, stupid!

...and yet she has THREE babies.

AMEN!!!

Akirra Raheem No man is going to want to deal with him and his three kids.

Well said

Akirra Raheem Exactly! I have several friends with 2 or more that have walked away and a real man stepped up. But the woman has to be done with the cheater and know she is to be respected and cherished. Then she makes room for a real man. Don't play that he is just over for hours to see his kids. Set boundaries. Stick to visitation agreement. It works.

My step father stepped up when he meet my mum I was 2 when they met and he has been more of a father than my biological father has..

@@susan72010 hope a good one comes my way,I moved away from an abusive disrespectiful husband

@R J damn son you roast the hell out of her

R J stfu

right and clapping when everybody else clap...😒

@@heathermcclain657 Ikr this pos has some nerve smfh

@J R is just a saying

livelifetothefull I totally agree. His facial expressions show no remorse.

It´s really disgusting. Men can be such pigs

Think it's a game to them to see how much that person will let them her away w.whether it's a women or guy getting cheated on.

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Ouch lol 😂

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I don't understand. Did someone cheat on Steve or did he cheat on someone?

@@queenkru1673.....this current wife was his mistress.

This makes so much sense. My ex bf cheated on me for the same reasons. This guy has low self esteem issues, has mama issues himself (probably didn’t get attention from his mother or caregiver), and isn’t in a good/secure place in his finances/career/etc. he’s also immature, and egocentric. She’s better off without him.

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Leave him

Women must marry up

It is so true.

I wonder who's fixing said dinner he's eating in another room. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I hope he got the meaning of those words, he might stay in a child’s play even after this good advice he’s been offered.Is even disappointing that she chooses to stay, but I know is for the kids in her perspective …..

I think the lady didn't want him in the same room. to the dog house he go

Exactly you got to know u love and want this

It's been 10yrs & 3 kids....I would've told him that 2nd or 3rd year. . . Marriage 💑 is the 🔑 🗝 she's beautiful she deserves someone else besides him anyway

@Tiana Bell how is marriage the key, the key to what??? It's just some title, it doesn't mean ur partner loves u more or less

no actually marriage is a slavery clause for men. Until significant change is done so both man and women have equal liability for marriages modern man will not get married.

No lmao no

@@karl8739 But they’re “baby daddies” though SMH It is backwards. People in our community will have a baby with someone intentionally (not talking about unplanned pregnancies), but think marriage is more of a sacrifice. What a joke. Get a prenup then if you think someone is trying to manipulate you. Tired of the excuses. I’ve been married for years because I don’t play the modern dating games. Slavery is being chained to someone you do not want to have a child with and paying support for 18 years.

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Thats sounds cool but i actually think its possible to get tricked in that scenario also. Guy says he wants to get married and time goes by and they dont. Yea she can break up but time still went on without it happening. What is the appropriate amount of time to say ok this person is not serious about marriage?

For sure. Todd wouldn't have been this nice

Lol

Lol

+Tanya Scranton Oh my goodness yes!!! Todd would have went in!!!!

Haha....."where is TODD CHRISTY"....ya, you right about what TODD'S response would be....hahaha 😆

Steve ain't messing up something that spiritual and that good and that fine. Not if he has any sense.

+Raja I wouldn't speak to soon....he messed up both of his other marriages

Girl we have the same name.

Ashley Johnson I just realize we have the same name. Mine is Ashley Johnson too.

JesusisLove 30 Awesome username there! :-)

True actually where I come from its a taboo to disrespect a pregnant woman in any way cos its believed that if u do illl to her it may catch the preborn baby. I don't cheating never and ever

He’s selfish, self center & inconsiderate

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Ikr. I had a friend tell me that boyfriend and girlfriend was like the same at being married the look I gave like since win?

+Travis Hardy only differences are the tax breaks and the shared debt.

But its supposed to be a difference

Tyler Ramsey one is child's play the other is making a commitment before God.

Bianca Nauls it is a difference

Paula Cross agreed

Exactly. They did that backwards- children then hopefully marriage. She should have demanded wife status before committing to spousal duties

TrucketteTV MsMac duties?? Shouldn't feel lile you have to do anything

He too busy playing on social media

I wouldn't marry his ass! Because he will cheat still

Right

Thank you. No sugar coating.

Exactly

I agree

Very true, it's initially hard to start over. It's sad to see women have multiple children with a guy like that because I left after having my first. I gave him 3 years to get his ish together then I left. When you make the decision just do it and don't look back. This woman is working, going to school, and raising two other children while pregnant! He is truly a piece of 💩

@Natural Born Hustler✓ It's so hard to watch that part! Damn! I can't believe she didn't let him go right away!

Took me out 🤣🤣🤣

Disgusted

My dad had a second wife and another hidden family my mom stayed for the kids and we grew up with a house full of fighting, swearing and screaming. This’s just disgusting because it’s pure cheating but when women would realize it’s unhealthy to stay for the kids just take your kids with you and leave or just simply kick him out and a file a divorce case and marry another man that’s the solution

Thank you. Exactly. I always seem myself divorcing after my son is out of highschool but i know that my prime will be over. Not sure what to do anymore. How did your mother's decision effect you? I thought it would help him get through school with no problems. But i have seen the effect on adult men when their parents divorce.

Well, I heard a story of a woman who BEGGED her husband to stay when he was going to leave her with 4 children. However, when the last child was independent, she left her on a Sunday afternoon after a Saturday night of great sex, cooking a wonderful Sunday dinner and after he was seated at the table waiting for her the just freshen herself and join him. She had not forgotten the pain and humiliation of begging him to stay and had willed to do what she did that Sunday afternoon. PVEL.

I really need to get to packing

WASTED AND WASTING!

Ola Ladburney She's a very intelligent woman

@Maria B she sure did. These two are the last one to take advice from. But Bill and his wife, spot on.

Her last piece of advice, but that's about it

She stole a husband. Come on now.

@@MercedesAshleyOnline preach👏🏾👏🏾

and i bet he will do it again...if he has not already......

Caught that little grin. Known as the "narcissistic smirk" or "duper's delight". He knows exactly what he's doing, with no plans to change. I hope she left that weirdo.

marriage has no benefits other than an emotional feeling imo, the problem is on her knowing he cheated and is still with him... She should leave. There are unlimited single guys out there who would not turn down a date if asked... One of them will bend over for her even with her 3 kids if she goes on enough dates...

It's more sad that women don't realize that they don't have to accept or tolerate that mess. You can change or control anyone else. You can only control how you respond to what they try to dish out or whatever the case maybe.

Right on point! That should be the subject matter of the discussion, they have three kids without being married. That on its own, is a sign of no commitment. They are both cheating on God

It’s sad that this generation of women would accept opening their legs, being a mother, and not a wife

Actually it’s not this generation that does it to women. Women do it to themselves. The only problem this woman has is low self esteem. His hairdo alone shoulda been a red flag for her to not get involved. 👀🤷🏿‍♀️

kimberly329 , SAME! "I 'DOUBT' it 'TOO'!!" 😐

Once you go black you ain't

she could find another black..and get rid of this loser.

Black, white, yellow or brown. Just get someone who's loyal and only committed to you and the children.

LifeIsNotorious Right honey nooo While she was smirking with those others before before her... She thought she was the especially ☝ soooo now she in the Same residues They donot Cheating on them or WON'T be Unfaithful to them......