They don't have the same values

this two are NOT compatible

Steve's facial expressions make my day every time

Definitely not compatible.

Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey look so simliar to me LOL

'what can I do today to make MY marriage better?' Whoa Whoa Dr.Phil shouldn't it be 'what can I do today to make OUR marriage better?'

oh my god, you can see Steve saying " shut up, shut up" with his eyes lol ya this relationship is not going to work and I would be surprised if they were still together now.

Seems to me they are t meant for one another. Those are some serious values to be disagreeing on. They need to find soneone with shared values.

Why are these two people together in the first place?

simply hyphenating one's name isn't what causes a relationship to be unbalanced. The initial subject was about her last name, yet so much other stuff seems to be an issue. this isn't about a name.

What?? dating for a year?? thats nothing

I would love to see a follow up on this couple. Marriage takes a lot of work.

These two seem too strong will in the wrong way for this relationship to last.

My my my that's all I heard

ermm ya i don't think they should get married.. they want different things out of life

I agree with both Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey! They do not need to get married at this time. They both are about themselves. Like Dr. Phil said please do not lie to the man just to get married. I liked his concept on emotional integrity. I am the same way. I told my husband the truth. So many women do this just to get the ring. It is best to be honest and let him decide whether he wants to take it further or go their own seperate ways.

Steves face- classic LMAO

The bald brothers from other mothers

Sound advice. Especially the part of Emotional Integrity.

I'm so glad Dr. Phil caught that the young man kept saying "my"- MY house, MY kids, MY food. Honestly a maid, a nanny, & a chef can take care of all those things for him. She wants a more equal marriage w/ them sharing the responsibility for something they would share together. I see why she is resistant to what he wants because it seems like his plans doesn't include her 50/50 but more of him owning her in a way. I agree with Steve and Dr. Phil, their values don't match enough for them to wed.

Emotional Integrity!!!! Well said Dr. Phil!

Dr. Phil hit the nail on the head in many ways, by saying that I want you to be home to cook my meals, raise MY kids and clean MY house then you can see that he doesn't see their marriage as a true partnership. This may work beautifully for a woman who wants nothing more than to be a traditional wife however, be cognizant that people change, grow and evolve over time and those needs may change. His comment about "playing independent" as long as you come home and do what I just stipulated would be a source of contention for Brittney in the long run when you consider her specified needs. I agree with Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey

I love Steve's face!

What I'm hearing is I want this I want that from both of them that's the problem. They're both in a relationship they're supposed to talk these things out together so they can both be happy in the end with what they want. Communication is key if you don't have that then don't waste your time

They ain't even together no more. Ask me how I know

Wow, I think Loren has a clear sense of what he wants in a traditional marriage as does Brittney (in a marriage that has a blending of both traditional and non traditional roles) however those needs and desires may not necessarily match up. I honestly feel as though their differences are clearly defined, can these two really compromise on things they feel very strongly about?

My father died when I was about fifteen and he doesn't have any sons and I feel like I should be the one to carry his name.

good advice. these "small discussions" will turn into nuclear war if they cant find middle ground that they are both pleased and satisfied with before walking down the aisle. and sometimes you just have to swallow the big pill of admitting "you were a great bf/gf but you wont be a great husband/wife to me"

These two should definitely not get married if they do divorce will be a definite in their future. They are way too different.

I don't agree with the marry your daddy comment

My family wouldn't be able to survive on one income. We need both my parents income to survive. Bills and food.

Bruh ya need to talk to a pimp named Slickback.

I come from a culture where women do not take their husbands last name. The way it is viewed is that it is not about the name. The persons involved know they are married and act as such and respect each other. Still in many marriages the roles are very defined. Personally I have been married for almost 15 years. My husband and I have a Christian marriage. We are very connected spiritually and although I have asked him about changing my last name or even adding his, he is opposed to it.

Oh no! THis is a disaster waiting to happen. I can't believe they can't see it. They are so getting divorced, that is if they even make it down the aisle.

My, my my....He better start saying we we we and our our our. :-)

The guy wants home cooked food, and a woman who can take care of his kids- and she can work if she wants , he's willing to help out. i dont see dat as a problem

1:23 LMAOO Steve's face

life is about choices. find a happy common reason to be together with or without the last name change

Steve is making some weird facial expressions! haha

I agree with everything the girl said BUT ... I'm not a fan of hyphenated names.

they make some points. I hyphenate because I was doctor somebody before marriage and established. my maiden name is uncommon and there are no children due to medical issues. Love is what rules here

Yes...next question.

I don't see why he wants his girlfriend to be purely a housewife. Personally, I want to do it all as a triple threat. When I'm married, I plan on being educated with my PharmD, a cook, cleaner, career woman bringing home 6 figure, wife, adoptive mom, and look good doing it.

Steve made NO sense on the last name part.

why they being so damn complicated.. marriage is also abt compromise and if they couldnt stay at home and figure the last name out then it says alot lol

Love this!!!!!!!!!!!

Steve Harvey! WHOOOO!! And Dr. Phil! WHOOAAAAWHOO! YOU BOTH SHOULD HAVE A SHOW TOGETHER! I LOVE YOUR ADVICE AND SENSE OF HUMOR. I JUST HAD TO WATCH THIS TWICE AND NOW IM DEFINITELY SHOWING THIS TO MY BF BECAUSE WE'VE BEEN DATING FOR OVER A YEAR ALSO BUT NOW... NOWWW... WE HAVENT TALKED OF MARRIAGE YET.... BUT THE ADVICE OF YOU'VE GIVEN TO HIM.......ETC....WHOOOO WEEEEEEEEEEEEHHH! I LOVE YOU BOTH!!!

I like Steve Harvey , and Dr. Phil they both have a good pointers to give to this couple here. I personally think if most newly engaged couples would talk with people that have been in a marriage for more then 10 years ,just before they get married .It could work for them .However not everyone has the same sentiment's on marriage .

This is some fantastic advice.

LOL WHY STEVE LOOKING LIKE THAT!!

1:22 - 1:25 says enough.....

Man this discussion was so brilliant. Its very informative, especially for muslims like me

LOL @ Steve Harvey's faces!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I like Steve Harvey , and Dr. Phil they both have a good pointers to give to this engaged couple here.

Good guidance by Dr. Phil. Brittney is fine

01:21 - 01:24 :D I luv how he sais "Whoooh" :)

Steve I'm looking at your face you are a hoot man!

Mustaches.

Its almost as if Corey sees their married lives as two separate roles running parallel to one another

As a whole they seem not to be compatible, but as for the name I don't think it is a big deal. This might be because I was married at 29 and I had established more than say a 23 year old but I am hyphenated, but our son has my husband's name solely. We are both perfectly content with it. It was not me being disrespectful nor is not being proud of my husband it is simply a name I spent much time developing and crafting, it is my father's name but he and I have no bond. I responded to is last name as easily as someone saying my maiden name. If something as small as a name change is and issue I agree with Steve, staying in the dating zone.

We could do like other cultures and just give you all the names of your ancestors.

This funny Steve. DangerMan

well said!

6:40 Steve's wife. So beautiful.

She could hyphenate her last name. Its the best of both worlds. Her old and new lives merging together.

Preach man preach!

It should be about them not just my it should be our!

Continuing with my previous comment. In the culture that my husband and I come from it is not about carrying a last name but about being committed to each other. I have seen many US marriages where after all is said and done the wife is unfaithful to her husband. So it is not about a name it is about commitment. How sacred are your marriage vows to you? How serious were you when you made them. My husband and I have more than a physical bond, it is a spiritual bond. God is the center of it all.

Hell yeah

Go girl!

Why do couples not exchange each others' names instead of the woman taking her husband's. s

yes

Of course, if i ever get married, i'll take my wifes last name, no matter what it would be, cause i hate my current one.

Aman :)

I think they can work it out. Nice couple.

In my culture, we don't take the guy's last name ( the father has that right). Also, we divide the responsibilities.. Men work outside and we work inside, raising the kids and doing house chores.

A wife is a partner. She does not have to take her life's partner last name period.

love that..... but its not me its us :-)

iv been dating my man for four years

hmm... neutral woman on the panel perhaps? i think it falls nothing short of ridiculous to expect one adult to compensate for two because of their gender. . . how is gender relevant to having to cook? or having to care for the children more? it's a partnership in my eyes that requires mutual respect and understanding of the other individual. I'd like to keep my name because it's me. I like it. and any issue with that is supremely egotistic.

wow

yes they should

This dude sounds like Big Sean lol

I will use my name and bf name when we get married... We talked about that alot and after many arguments we compromised and he got that i want my dads name to go on and he got that i was not being petty was important to me. :)

Good luck guy... 👀

in this day and age, a women doesn't need to

my not ours smh

Hi

He's cute!

Some men look good bald Steve Harvey is not' one of them

His opinion is as good as any1s opinions are like assholes we all have them

when Dr. Phil said that she's drop dead gorgeous he shook his head No and according to body language experts that's a sign of lying... just saying.

Wtf is he a expert on? ...last I checked he was a comedian confused ppl follow any1

drop that weave

I wouldn't even like my wife to be "independent". he really needs to bolt from this relationship. Dr. Phil gave excellent advice after he got all the info!

Gag

classic older woman

I want a shorter last name hahaha joke...it really doesn't matter my gosh I just hope it's not hard to spell lol

Check my dog out! Looking for Steve Harvey lol

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