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Courtney Ryan

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@trublgrl
@trublgrl 11 ай бұрын
"I'm really proud of doing it, but the people who buy it are disgusting." _No, that's not how this works._
@G4M3R-4-LIFE
@G4M3R-4-LIFE 11 ай бұрын
Its like she thinks this is a dating app. She only wants single, attractive men to peruse her content lol.
@kerripendragon4888
@kerripendragon4888 11 ай бұрын
She's disgusting also, like her clientele. A hoe attracts Johns. Simple.
@ab62051
@ab62051 10 ай бұрын
We used to call them "prick teasers" (polite version) Now we can label them as "only fools models"...same old ending... enjoy your cats.
@syttorak7629
@syttorak7629 10 ай бұрын
Oh my God yes what is wrong with these toxic feminist types? Keyword toxic. Big difference from regular feminist etc. I've never seen one of them that makes any sense. Them: "so I chose to hit myself in the face with a hammer. now I hate hammers because they hurt"
@CigaretteCrayon
@CigaretteCrayon 10 ай бұрын
​@syttorak7629 there's no "regular feminist." Everyone under 70 is inculcated into the Mis-education of Feminism.
@randythemitoman
@randythemitoman 11 ай бұрын
She sells herself online and ends up not feeling great about how it makes her feel. What a shocker.
@pleasedonttemptme5963
@pleasedonttemptme5963 11 ай бұрын
True lol
@ReformedSooner24
@ReformedSooner24 11 ай бұрын
exactly. she dehumanized herself and now feels the effects of it.
@steventipton5130
@steventipton5130 10 ай бұрын
But at the same time she won't ever stop until someone physically stops her sounds like a death sentence
@tomgreene121
@tomgreene121 9 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@Anth369
@Anth369 9 ай бұрын
You’d think it’s common sense and something that would be before you start…. It apparently people are dumb as dogshit and it takes reality to hit them in the head before they realise what is completely obvious to others.
@peteranon8455
@peteranon8455 7 ай бұрын
She's the bartender that hates the alcoholics.
@palnagok1720
@palnagok1720 3 ай бұрын
I 'll drink to that 😊
@TH-eb5ro
@TH-eb5ro 2 ай бұрын
Most do or at least tolerate them while they charm them out of their money. A bartender is a salesman.
@janicefinch3563
@janicefinch3563 2 ай бұрын
By that logic though being a bartender isn't shameful so being an OF model wouldn't be shameful.
@zhollamychalis4252
@zhollamychalis4252 2 ай бұрын
There is a joke about dudes drinking in a bar that go out the back door to drain the lizard and all have an encounter with a dude wielding a baseball bat. Bloody joke applies here. Sadly.
@ninjacat777
@ninjacat777 4 ай бұрын
Who would have thought that mental health would be tied to self respect?🙄
@gypsywoman9140
@gypsywoman9140 3 ай бұрын
A lot of girls are sold the lie that promiscuity and hyper-sexualizing themselves is empowering. Just look at pretty much any music video or women's magazine. Ffs even the superhero chicks need to be sexy and hot! The dudes just fly or skip about in glorified Spanx and shove a balled up sock or sausage down there to appear more endowed. And for a time, SW can *seem* empowering. "I'm making money doing stuff I used to do for free for guys who aren't even here anymore!" Or whatever. But the reality eventually creeps in once someone starts dirty talking in a really degrading way. Just because someone is getting paid doesn't mean they want to be spoken to like that by strangers or even their chosen partner. Disrespect is disrespect regardless of monetary transactions or line of work. Even strip clubs have their rules and bouncers to protect the performers; just because you paid for a lap dance doesn't give you the right to grope or say nasty things. They're still human beings with thoughts and feelings regardless if their clothes are on or off. You can request they remove garments; you do not need to call names. (Guaranteed; the ones that turned her off were saying things like "you dirty sl*t" and worse in a horny way. I'm not sure anyone enjoys being called that by randos, even if they are paying.) If someone wants to be called things in a feisty way, they'll let you know.
@nowyouseeme3402
@nowyouseeme3402 3 ай бұрын
Imagine that?
@nickeni3050
@nickeni3050 3 ай бұрын
Nearly sounds like fantasy and hate for progress & women empowerment🙄.. the old tale says, "If the children won't listen, let them experience"
@rogersam1294
@rogersam1294 11 ай бұрын
It's hard for me to sympathize with the person being featured. She exploits men's biological realities for money and self gain and still finds a way to shame men about it. Ugh.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 11 ай бұрын
This is a great point as well and it certainly crossed my mind while I watched. Definitely inspired my “you attract what you are” point lol
@kylemacdougall8355
@kylemacdougall8355 11 ай бұрын
Also, it's very bad business sense to sell people a product and then shame them for wanting to buy the product. Make up your mind! Do you want people to buy your product or not? Anyone with an ounce of sense knows you don't treat your loyal customers that way...they're the reason why you still have a job.
@TheCommunistColin
@TheCommunistColin 11 ай бұрын
I mean, there's definitely still stuff to shame there. Did you hear the part where men with wives, girlfriends, and children were subscribing to her content and making explicit demands of her? I think that's always still worth shaming. We shouldn't make excuses for those kinds of guys.
@Earthling.7
@Earthling.7 11 ай бұрын
​@@TheCommunistColinthey do it because women allow this
@ghostflame9211
@ghostflame9211 11 ай бұрын
​@@TheCommunistColin maybe we just need to bring shame back in general. shame husbands for not being faithful, and shame OF models for making it so easy for husbands not to be faithful. used to be he had to pay a pretty penny for an escort and meet at some motel 6 or whatever; now it's a simple $5 from the comfort of his home or wherever he has internet access.
@ericcline2350
@ericcline2350 11 ай бұрын
So a woman that does sexually explicit things for men to make money is shocked that men send sexually explicit, unfiltered messages. For fcks sake, the lack of accountability is staggering.
@grinningchicken
@grinningchicken 11 ай бұрын
It’s a bit like if I’m an NFL player but I’m shocked and appalled that anyone would watch such a violent sport and ask me for comments on NFL games. And I’m stunned that my knees are terrible and I’ve lacerated my spleen and broken my collarbone. Why can’t they just write me checks and buy my jersey
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 11 ай бұрын
"Accountability is like kryptonite for modern women" - K.S. RIP
@porteauloin
@porteauloin 11 ай бұрын
I scrolled down the comment to exactly fint your comment. The two side pov of a situation is so so frustrated
@respectdawildo_danjones508
@respectdawildo_danjones508 11 ай бұрын
Exactly, it’s beyond remarkable just how delusional and insane these types are
@hdshjs
@hdshjs 11 ай бұрын
Where is your praised accountability when it comes to those man with wifes and kids that slander and send most disgusting messages to OF workers? Why don't they show it to their bosses, customers, their parents or kids? Why are you not condemning them? Where is the accountability suddenly?
@johndough8219
@johndough8219 3 ай бұрын
“If you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you” We all make our choices. When you dance with the Devil, you've got to be ready to suffer the consequences.
@xcosmiccrunchx
@xcosmiccrunchx 3 ай бұрын
Eventually, the piper is going to want to get paid.
@boogiemcsploogie
@boogiemcsploogie 3 ай бұрын
Satan wants his pound of flesh, and he's going to get it
@Tenebrisvis
@Tenebrisvis 3 ай бұрын
Some people don't know they're dancing with the devil... totally different subject matter I got into business with the wrong company owner thinking they were a good person and I got burnt and I've never met a more disgusting evil manipulative self absorbed individual in my life but it happened and I was attacked for months and months almost a year now and shit still goes on even so that I've taken legal action. Some of us are so caring and kind we give other the benefit of the doubt. But where there is money there is greed where there is greed there is the devil. The entire world is captized off of greed I hate to break it to you but it's everywhere and people are forced into it... people do it because they have too not because they want too... because we made it a necessity to live.
@nickeni3050
@nickeni3050 3 ай бұрын
@@Tenebrisvis Even the ones who know like to downplay it and deny that it's harming them
@johndough8219
@johndough8219 3 ай бұрын
@@Tenebrisvis I'm sorry that happened to you but it emphasizes the importance of using your brain. Do your due diligence. Find out what you are getting into. Learn the consequences. You can't blame someone for taking advantage of you because you are st*pid.
@gudni9060
@gudni9060 10 ай бұрын
Not only are the top 20% of men on Tinder ruining men for women, but now the bottom 20% of men on Only Fans are ruining men for women.
@mba2ceo
@mba2ceo 3 ай бұрын
lol
@TheONE10X
@TheONE10X 3 ай бұрын
Underrated comment imho. The plot thickens
@TheSergio1021
@TheSergio1021 3 ай бұрын
And women are ruining themselves in the process for no reason
@Spike2276
@Spike2276 3 ай бұрын
Nope. OF women are ruining men for themselves. When she is willing to do what is basically SW, of course men are going to treat you like a lady of the night. Why would she expect to be treated like a princess? It's not horny men's fault that they are horny and she sells pics of her body. It's the logical outcome.
@LordMellington1668
@LordMellington1668 3 ай бұрын
Top 20%? Barely 10%, probably. How many women would treat respectfully a man who is the 17th best man of a city with only 100 guys?
@optimusprime6436
@optimusprime6436 11 ай бұрын
"Its fun, its art, you make money" social media is the end of humanity, no doubt.
@Jay-fz6oz
@Jay-fz6oz 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@j0fiz986
@j0fiz986 10 ай бұрын
Art haha … womens power is in self delusion. It’s truly amazing. She justifies corn to herself by telling herself it’s not corn, it’s art
@johnbernhardtsen3008
@johnbernhardtsen3008 9 ай бұрын
I am a photographer at heart, I love George Hurrells photos in general, his pictures of old school Hollywood stars is pure art! Women shoving items up their holes for all to see is art these days?!!! kind of twisted!
@uncrunch398
@uncrunch398 8 ай бұрын
Proved by mods harassing those being honest with them about it and treating those as hating harassers and banning them for "reason" labelled as something against ToS. The world will continue to function only if justice is brought back to the justice system and every platform adopts due process. Unbalanced messaging, esp enforced to be, is dangerous for all.
@chadbennett7873
@chadbennett7873 8 ай бұрын
It truly is ... and none of these young girls realize it is forever! Hope the money buys them something nice, it won't be a future.
@BS_Profile
@BS_Profile 11 ай бұрын
Much like she's fed up with running into vulgar and disrespectful guys, its just as exhausting being a single guy on dating apps and constantly coming across women that only seem to be interested in your wallet when you're genuinely trying to meet someone.
@jessyjames7508
@jessyjames7508 11 ай бұрын
Intentionally selling pics to men that are willing to pay you is no different than hooking. Of course she is attracting the worst men in the world. But, to be disgusted with men while selling them sex is a contradiction. Just think about how her potential daughters will see her.
@Rosetta-gp9mk
@Rosetta-gp9mk 11 ай бұрын
No offence, but if you can’t provide for your wife and kids, I don’t know why you’re even dating. If you aren’t broke you have nothing to worry about. Unless, of course, you want women to do house work for free and still go to work and take care of the kids…
@TheParasoulja
@TheParasoulja 11 ай бұрын
Or women that do Onlyfans.
@johnallanson5152
@johnallanson5152 11 ай бұрын
What is onlyfans?????
@brownsense1
@brownsense1 11 ай бұрын
​@@Rosetta-gp9mkand here comes the shame. If a guy is actively dating, that means he probably has some form of resources. The issue is these women think it isn't good enough for their average looking ass. When I get to my financial peak, I won't be settling for no average looking chick who thinks she deserves somebody that's resourceful and is basing it off of how she treated some pookie in her past. FOH.
@discord_and_entropy
@discord_and_entropy 9 ай бұрын
when you said "you are what you attract" it made me grin because i have attracted a VERY WEIRD girl. my family always said to stop being weird so women would like me, but i didn't like the boring normal women, and who i ended up with was this wonderful weird girl who we frolic around in our itiosyncratic glee!
@ggrthemostgodless8713
@ggrthemostgodless8713 4 ай бұрын
Well, you accept your level or area.... but this woman in the video refuses to accept this is what she is, this is her level. Taking this step is already a selective process, even if she says she did it for "artistic purposes". LOL
@TheSelflessVibe
@TheSelflessVibe 4 ай бұрын
Yep, "You are what you attract" is a very stupid thing to say, particularly in dating, where you want someone who brings you something new, different.
@nokateno
@nokateno 3 ай бұрын
@@TheSelflessVibeI think he was agreeing with the quote.
@TheSelflessVibe
@TheSelflessVibe 3 ай бұрын
​@@nokateno indeed
@lindseyw9192
@lindseyw9192 3 ай бұрын
That's so sweet! i am happy for you :)
@ScrubDaddy265
@ScrubDaddy265 2 ай бұрын
She changed her narrative multiple times with no recognition that she had done it. “I’m not going to stop, but I don’t like doing it.” No accountability.
@nikolavisnjic9799
@nikolavisnjic9799 18 күн бұрын
Stupid af, that's all there is to it...
@dudeguyme1
@dudeguyme1 11 ай бұрын
It really goes both ways. I'm losing my attraction to women. Everywhere online I'm bombarded with content designed to lure in my attention featuring very pretty women, and it all feels like a waitress trying to flirt with me in hopes of getting a big tip. With so many people being content-minded, all this overflows into real life, making interactions feel like targeted ads and manipulation
@brendanrichart4804
@brendanrichart4804 11 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better
@QuartuvLarry
@QuartuvLarry 11 ай бұрын
On top of that, they lose interest when you DO show attraction 🙄😔
@velveetaslingshot
@velveetaslingshot 11 ай бұрын
BOOM. Even here this prostitute in denial is disgusted with men because she doesnt get to have her cake and eat it too by taking all their money and also being treated like a queen.
@raijin7707
@raijin7707 11 ай бұрын
@@QuartuvLarry lmao that's a lose lose situation. The only way that works is to push pull, if you don't know how to do that they will always loose attraction. If I really care I'd at least do that If I don't care that much and she's only the type I'd smash I won't do as much push pulling I'll just try to see if I can get them cheeks. If she's playing hard to get or go cold on me oh well, she wasn't worth my dedication she was already passed her prime there's no way I would have got off the market for her.
@florianlaur5300
@florianlaur5300 11 ай бұрын
@@QuartuvLarry Exactly. Basically, dating only seems to work for sociopaths. If you can't stand the woman you're dating and thus don't mind to treat her rather horrible and with disrespect and not caring about her, THEN she chases you. But as soon as you treat her kind, she thinks "hm, this guy is boring, why does he give me everything i want? I NEED drama!" and she leaves. It's basically like a warped version of kindergarten. Obviously, there's no point in doing this to someone. If you love them, why would you? And if you don't, why would you? For "fun"? How can it be fun with someone you can't stand?
@johnbaldwin2904
@johnbaldwin2904 11 ай бұрын
It's not about hating, it's about accepting accountability for your role in choosing this lifestyle.
@FactsOverFeelingz
@FactsOverFeelingz 11 ай бұрын
My sentiments exactly
@littlejimmy7402
@littlejimmy7402 10 ай бұрын
She said something about other "real" sw. OF is real SW, don't fool yourself. Pimping yourself for $5/a month (or whatever) is still getting pimped. Pimped to people who like their 5*x werkers at $5/month. You will get so many sic effers. It's not fine art, it's cheap purient consumer art. Don't be at the whim of cheap consumers, or don't be a sold product at all. Life feels so much better that way.
@jimmcneal5292
@jimmcneal5292 10 ай бұрын
​@@littlejimmy7402OF is better than sleeping around. A virgin who has OF is incomparably better as option for stable relationship than woman without OF but even 1 previous sexual partner
@littlejimmy7402
@littlejimmy7402 10 ай бұрын
@@jimmcneal5292 If you want to marry a corn star you can.
@jimmcneal5292
@jimmcneal5292 10 ай бұрын
@@littlejimmy7402 I definitely wouldn't marry non-virgin. Probably wouldn't marry a girl with onlyfans too, but out of two aforementioned options the girl with OF is much better candidate to be a concubine, all other things equal
@jeezymay
@jeezymay 10 ай бұрын
...and when good men tell them this will devalue them, they accuse us of being oppressive and controlling
@Tetradepodmelontea
@Tetradepodmelontea 3 ай бұрын
Mainly because its double bind. When girl is virgin, good men are mad, because no "test drive". When good men get that test drive, they leave to find another virgin, if unlucky Non virgin end up unmarried(because the same good guys are not into girls with too much test drive trials behind), and left to buy themselves life with their already ruined body. Men are never accountable, for some reason, for pressure zeros to get to high body counts. Good men never marry their first girls for life.
@DressedForDrowning
@DressedForDrowning 2 ай бұрын
and insecure.
@musikeradaw
@musikeradaw 2 ай бұрын
As an actual creative it irks me when people in the sex industry say that they’re creative …. It’s such an insult
@qb4428
@qb4428 11 ай бұрын
Attention, ladies: If men can get you for $5/month, they won't pay with a relationship.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 11 ай бұрын
Great point
@ForTehNguyen
@ForTehNguyen 11 ай бұрын
*surprised pikachu face*
@TheCommunistColin
@TheCommunistColin 11 ай бұрын
I've never really understood this argument. Is it really "getting" them if you buy from their OF,? You get to see what they look like naked, sure, but you don't get to hold them, you don't get to feel them in your arms, you don't get to hear them say "I love you" (or you don't get to hear them say that and MEAN it, anyway), you don't get to go on dates with them - all you get is the pure visceral lust of seeing an attractive woman nude. But that's not really "getting" someone in the relationship sense. A lot of OF subscribers delude themselves into thinking otherwise, that their subscription "means" something, but they're just paying money for porn.
@PaperRaines
@PaperRaines 11 ай бұрын
And also..... Attention men: If you can't afford her for $1000/hr, she won't sacrifice her assets for a relationship with you. Our society, has a problem. And I'm not sure how to bridge that gap. I'm not even sure there's a desire to do so at this point 🤷🏾
@qb4428
@qb4428 11 ай бұрын
@@TheCommunistColin Yeah, but it's only $5/month, so who cares? It's good enough to get off, and that's all these guys want.
@ajtaylor8750
@ajtaylor8750 11 ай бұрын
That is the reality of being an adult: you have to live with the consequences of your actions. She chose to be an OF model, so she has to deal with the potential mental health issues and negative reactions associated with it. That said, the guys who shame women like this yet subscribe to the content are extremely pathetic.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 11 ай бұрын
Agreed from start to finish. Thanks AJ! Have a great weekend ❤️
@ajtaylor8750
@ajtaylor8750 11 ай бұрын
@@AlexanderSkinnerVids That made me hit the facepalm. Like darling c'mon now 🤦
@Heeroyui752
@Heeroyui752 11 ай бұрын
Preach
@PaperRaines
@PaperRaines 11 ай бұрын
@@ajtaylor8750 men have been hypersexualing girls and women for..... forever! Subsequently illiciting and soliciting sexual activity from those girls and women, and then turning around and shaming them, or worse abandoning them, sometimes even when pregnancies are involved. And women; it can be a whole other topic why, have been participating in this behavior in the entire time of civilization. It's been a vicious circle of the darkest pits of humanity for thousands of years.... ....... I don't understand the accuracy or the value, of putting blame or responsibility on modern day women using websites. It's just a cop-out to find an easy answer, instead of diving into complicated and uncomfortable conversations about who are as humans in the societies we designed intentionally. You can't cover all of that in forum comments
@thrilla72
@thrilla72 11 ай бұрын
I don't think the people who shame are the same people who subscribe...I could be wrong though
@rollin_rome3962
@rollin_rome3962 3 ай бұрын
Pray for her. She is feeling what it feels like to “sell your soul”.
@zhollamychalis4252
@zhollamychalis4252 2 ай бұрын
No victims. Only volunteers...
@nikolavisnjic9799
@nikolavisnjic9799 18 күн бұрын
I pray for hungry children, people intentionally starved to death, and people who die for a valiant cause. I have no prayers or tears for people looking for being animals for easy money and calling it "art".
@yukia.animation
@yukia.animation 3 ай бұрын
I'm a female and I just never understood what part of "I'm a fine piece of meat, come purchase bits of me, shower your animality onto me" sits comfortable in a person's psyche. I mean I understand when people have to resort to sex work when financially desperate, but when one of my female friends opened up their OF not for desperate reasons, in my mind was like, dude.. that shit's donna backfire at you mentally. The money's not worth it. I just told her be careful, and let her do what she wanted..
@Ryan-cb1ei
@Ryan-cb1ei 3 ай бұрын
People always act like it’s lucrative thing and that’s contributing to the problem. Even you sort of implied that when you told her the money is not worth it. The average OF girl makes like a hundred dollars a month, not even. 95% won’t be able to make any living off OF, if not more, and few will be able to make it much of a side hustle. They’ll likely be worse off than when they started and will have a lot more difficulty in other aspects of life because of it, namely in dating and relationships.
@yukia.animation
@yukia.animation 3 ай бұрын
man.. that's rough. And a hundred bucks to sell your conscience? Can't imagine..... @@Ryan-cb1ei
@DefaultFlame
@DefaultFlame 2 ай бұрын
I think at least part of it is because they (women who start an OF for extra spending money) think, consciously or subconciously, they can distance themselves from the fact that they are selling sex. On camera or in person, you are still selling yourself as a product and other people will treat you the way you treat yourself. I think another part is that current society lies about sex work not being a shameful occupation.
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
Who in the western world has to resort to sex work? Give me a break, there are jobs out there, nobody needs to do it. I get on chatting apps and every other girl is trying to sell something, it's getting insane.
@Casual_Talk
@Casual_Talk Ай бұрын
​@joschmo4497 Facts! They WANTED to do it just like choosing to be a thot. I'm glad someone like you has that mindset. Millions of Jobs going around that they could do but decide to go for being a online prostitute. I agree. Also, OF can be around forever. Her bosses or managers could come across her past. Same for a future spouse. She made herself a piece of meat and sees the reality of being treated as such. Nothing Empowering and artistic about being a online prostitute. Not to mention many OF girls sleeps with clients in real life. I agree that no one should resort to onlyfans and I wish it was banned or never existed.
@TheParasoulja
@TheParasoulja 11 ай бұрын
I can't sympathize with someone that judges, condemns and blames people for buying and engaging in content she is selling. Accountability is extremely lacking here. She brought this on herself. No one forced her.
@shanaqbaimuru
@shanaqbaimuru 11 ай бұрын
I agree 100%.
@giscardstanleybrutus4286
@giscardstanleybrutus4286 11 ай бұрын
Yep👍🏽
@camilonattor
@camilonattor 11 ай бұрын
yes, but she is also regretting it, how many women on OF are going public about something like that? could you name a few? doesn't something like this actually reaffirms everything we criticize about what is wrong with women?
@shanaqbaimuru
@shanaqbaimuru 11 ай бұрын
@@camilonattor She is regretting it BUT she says she will no stop, and yes, this is a great point for MGTOW and for Red Pill, at the same time.
@jeremystonell690
@jeremystonell690 11 ай бұрын
​@@camilonattor Don't judge them by their words, judge them by their actions. If she says she regrets it but continues doing it, she doesn't regret it.
@RyanPaly
@RyanPaly 11 ай бұрын
What's insane to me is that even after she expresses how much this has messed her up she still plans on doing it
@richardlyd7450
@richardlyd7450 11 ай бұрын
It's the programming she's conflicted with and her internal emotions
@HysteriaXHF
@HysteriaXHF 11 ай бұрын
She has no other skill or talent, all she has. Plus she likely makes more money then any other job so she is stuck with the money issue.
@richardlyd7450
@richardlyd7450 11 ай бұрын
@@HysteriaXHF it shouldn't be about making more money??..it should be making enough to live comfortably and having time for work-life balance...also enrichment of positive people (family and friends) around her so she can grow into a all rounded human being...but that's all she's doing is causing mental health issues for herself and other people in her life...
@jackal1743
@jackal1743 11 ай бұрын
she said it herself, its pride, and arrogance.
@matthewchristensen9342
@matthewchristensen9342 11 ай бұрын
She's only complaining because she wants sympathy and the attention that brings. So that someone will make her feel better about her choices, so that she can continue to repeat them and profit from them.
@stormthrush37
@stormthrush37 11 ай бұрын
17:38 Great observation about the bad ways we define success in America. You never hear things like "that person is at peace and no longer lives paycheck to paycheck" defined as success.
@alexboggs6416
@alexboggs6416 11 ай бұрын
So she turned herself into an object and then is shocked when she's being treated as such.
@DefaultFlame
@DefaultFlame 2 ай бұрын
Sell yourself for money, be surprised that people treat you like a product they can buy, blame the people buying what you are selling. Yup, definitely a woman.
@janicefinch3563
@janicefinch3563 2 ай бұрын
​@@DefaultFlame And the men that pay for OF get mad at the OF models for providing a product that they benefit from. Both men and women suffer from this thing called cognitive dissonance.
@DefaultFlame
@DefaultFlame 2 ай бұрын
@@janicefinch3563 Yeah, no. The men who pay for OF and the men who complain about OF are completely different demographics.
@janicefinch3563
@janicefinch3563 2 ай бұрын
@@DefaultFlame I wish that was always the case but it's not. Yes there are men that condemn OF and pornography that don't engage with it themselves, but there are a surprising amount that do. Just take a look this very comment section. I've seen comments from men saying they shouldn't be condemned for paying for and watching porn. They believe the blame entirely falls on the women. Also look at the Whatever podcast. It's not a coincidence that their audience is made of guys who dislike OF models, but those same OF models subscriptions shoot up when they appear on the show. Even in real life I've met guys that don't understand the cognitive dissonance of engaging with porn while condemning the women who make it. I hate to break it to you, but men can also be hypocrites.
@E_Reich
@E_Reich 11 ай бұрын
She makes it sound like everyone in her life didn’t tell her these consequences before she chose this line of work.
@marcusherts9345
@marcusherts9345 11 ай бұрын
I bet she doesn’t struggle with spending the money she earns from it, That’s why she’s not quitting..🤦‍♂️
@jamesgames4330
@jamesgames4330 11 ай бұрын
I dont think so, I think it's like a lot of things in life. You can "know" the risks or possible costs but not really KNOW the cost or risks. Its like learning the hard way, we all have at least one if not more instances in our lives where our parents told us "you shouldn't do that, trust me, I know/have been there" but we ignore their advice or disregard it. Our modern society and culture is one focused so much so on the individual experience that we are practically taught to ignore others experiences to aquire our own instead. The overwhelming mentality of "just because it didn't/doesn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for me!" It's just one of the side effects of where our society is at in this time of transition from one standard and norm to a new one.
@alexsherel3344
@alexsherel3344 11 ай бұрын
She’s like that dude in jail for selling heroin.
@bastidface
@bastidface 11 ай бұрын
@@marcusherts9345 Clearly she wants her cake and eat it. To her, the only flaw with OF is the "disgusting" men who use it. If her subscribers were all perfect top tier single men, with Harvard degrees, who treated her like royalty and never jerked off to her content, she'd have no problem with it. Unfortunately for her, no such men would ever need to subscribe to OF.
@bobballard387
@bobballard387 11 ай бұрын
@@alexsherel3344 she a dumb ass to me eye
@stevec3526
@stevec3526 11 ай бұрын
50 years ago in college I took a class in Deviant Psychology. One thing we discussed was the known psychic damage that occurred to sex workers. Her comments and laments backs up what we discussed 50 years ago.
@Rigidflex17
@Rigidflex17 11 ай бұрын
As a cop it was sad to watch "Sex Workers!" go from naive & lively to dead inside. Even without drugs and alcohol (usual) it didn't take long. Great informants but little else to recommend them. They disappeared after a couple of years or died, usually by suicide.
@geodude9395
@geodude9395 11 ай бұрын
American Women want to be Men. Transgender Men want to be women. It’s weird. It’s a mess. Capitalism (Capitalizing) and Feminism fucked them up in the head bro. I learned my lesson. Abandon these schmucks. Stop encouraging these women and supporting this platform.
@leroyrussell8766
@leroyrussell8766 11 ай бұрын
This is so true. I was in the Navy. I got out after 6 years. My sister's best friend, who was always cute, and shy, and sweet, decided to put herself through college by being a stripper. If she did anything more than that, I wouldn't be surprised, but I'm willing to bet she did, but maybe it was just stripping. Either way, she was a changed person. More harsh, more serious, less friendly, less sweet, no more natural sweet smiles, an angry look in her eyes at all times, more masculine, etc... She was changed, and obviously damaged. Not at all friendly, like she was before I went into the Navy. Stripping/sex work had definitely left it's mark on her.
@dian277
@dian277 11 ай бұрын
gotta tell it to the men who support prostitution. there'd be no market without the demand.
@justacoginthefkery
@justacoginthefkery 11 ай бұрын
@@Rigidflex17 yeah, treating ppl like sh*t or just a thing to be used us a drain on ppl. It doesn't apply only to sex workers, but also ppl who are bullied, neglected, repeatedly lied to, etc etc etc.
@homeslice1958
@homeslice1958 5 ай бұрын
This is my first time watching you, Courtney, and I love your compassion and wisdom. The subject of this video is actually pretty heartbreaking, but a subject that needs to be addressed. One thing that struck me was when the woman who has an Only Fans account stated: "I never want to please a man in any way, shape or form". The sad part is that pleasing another person (not just physically, but also emotionally and relationally) is a part of our identity, and something that we were created to do - with one person, in the context of a committed relationship. It's really encouraging to me to see this message being put out there in a public forum.
@toxicink72
@toxicink72 3 ай бұрын
Her: its damaging my mental health Also her: I'm not going to quit because i like to see everything to the very end. I wont quit unless im physically stopped. Willingly damaging your mental health. Until the "very end." Please realize what you are saying girl
@yepyep6916
@yepyep6916 11 ай бұрын
Humans have a very carnal side that comes out online. Even though she’s disgusted by her lustful male audience, her lust and greed for money and attention makes her as equally as disgusting. The customer and clients relationship are dependent on each other. She is not a victim
@bumpercoach
@bumpercoach 11 ай бұрын
she was indoctrinated w/ anti-family brainwashing for decades so also NOT not a victim but yeah she chose to make it worse
@ariathyf144
@ariathyf144 11 ай бұрын
It's a mirror of each others issues really.
@anthonybasile6079
@anthonybasile6079 10 ай бұрын
Would co-dependent be an appropriate characterization?
@bumpercoach
@bumpercoach 10 ай бұрын
only a victim of herself and refusing to take responsibility thus repeat offends
@yepyep6916
@yepyep6916 10 ай бұрын
@@anthonybasile6079 … symbiotic may be a better characterization
@cras17
@cras17 11 ай бұрын
She exploits lonely men and then trashes them and calls them disgusting. And then the "I'm not a quitter thing was bonkers". Imagine being hooked on drugs or something and then saying "I'm not a quitter" lol. She was all over the place. That's fine if you are just working out your thoughts, but you need to do some self reflection to collect your thoughts after. I doubt she did that.
@geegee_509
@geegee_509 11 ай бұрын
I agree with your statement but the Red Pill men also exploit men. They just have a different way of making lonely men give money.
@billytessio6326
@billytessio6326 11 ай бұрын
"I always see things to the very end..." clearly she hasn't asked herself "to what end?" If she doesn't stop now the end is gonna look a whole lot worse than it would if she quit now.
@thehollyduckie9002
@thehollyduckie9002 11 ай бұрын
@@geegee_509W statement
@stevestruthers6180
@stevestruthers6180 11 ай бұрын
I have zero interest in using OF. Men who use it are simps who are happy to pay out large sums of money to get precious little in return.
@upajekka8055
@upajekka8055 11 ай бұрын
clearly pointed out the mistake she has been repeating over again again this thig has no end she will go back for money and men will keep watching her. this shit is so toxic
@gandalf3453
@gandalf3453 10 ай бұрын
“True success is being at peace with yourself and what you bring into the world” couldn’t have said it any better. I’m just trying to be a good man, getting better everyday, and letting the world rage around me. Treat people right, that includes yourself.
@danny3982
@danny3982 6 ай бұрын
I just can't wrap my head around how someone can sell explicit photos/videos of them doing embarrassing things for money. These women are selling their souls for money. I feel really bad for these women. OF needs to stop.
@ryanscottlogan8459
@ryanscottlogan8459 5 ай бұрын
If you are making 500 a day you think otherwise.
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
They never had a soul, and I don't feel bad for them. Stop treating them like victims, they're the drug dealers.
@jesseforce9933
@jesseforce9933 11 ай бұрын
She acted like a 304, invited anybody into it, and then got treated like a 304...My God, how could this have happened!
@ridethelapras
@ridethelapras 4 ай бұрын
@@mmm-mmm Type 304 into a calculator, then turn it upside down and see what it says…
@0i0l0o
@0i0l0o 4 ай бұрын
@@ridethelapras 😂
@ReStellar
@ReStellar 3 ай бұрын
​@@mmm-mmmA 304 is girl who behave and essentially live like a prostitute, or act promiscuously with men, like women who like being cat-called for sex. (Note. I just learned this a few weeks ago myself. lol) Jesus Bless! :)
@tiffanyr.l.peters4226
@tiffanyr.l.peters4226 3 ай бұрын
It took me a minute because that is my area code, lol
@TheONE10X
@TheONE10X 3 ай бұрын
Legend says the Elders have been contemplating this for millennia
@Plazali
@Plazali 11 ай бұрын
Her: it's so degrading mentally and I hate it Me: mhm mhm facts yeah no yeah it is. Also her: I don't wanna quit and I won't Me: WHAT 😭😭😭
@stormthrush37
@stormthrush37 11 ай бұрын
Money's probably too good. Principles are easy to discuss but it's a lot harder to walk them when you take an honest look at how hard it's going to hit you in the pocketbook. Why do an entry level job like waitress when it's quick, easy money to take your clothes off? Of course you don't realize all the other drawbacks like stalkers and losing faith in people until later.
@patrickh5490
@patrickh5490 8 ай бұрын
I imagine part of it is that she worked hard to build up this business/income and to give that up is difficult to accept.
@heybra8941
@heybra8941 7 ай бұрын
She's abit tarded... Not much maturity or accountability on her part
@greglane501
@greglane501 7 ай бұрын
It makes her too much money. She gets to sell images of herself online and make a nice middle to upperclass income without putting in any real work. In reality, if it lasts her for about 10 years, she could retire and live comfortably for the rest of her life.
@harpo627
@harpo627 4 ай бұрын
I just want to say, thank you for “speaking the truth in love”. You are honest, but gracious. It is really refreshing, and very needful. I’ve found it so distasteful when I’ve heard various people speaking truth with contempt and disdain. You have a kind spirit. Please keep doing what you’re doing! ❤
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 4 ай бұрын
🥺🤍 you are so kind, thank you!
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
Maybe part of the problem is they never hear harsh truths, contempt and disdain. That's why so many women go around thinking everyone who criticizes them is a "hater". Some people need to hear harsh, unfiltered truths. Some people need a gentler approach.
@PsychicRenegadeTarot
@PsychicRenegadeTarot 3 ай бұрын
I just kept imagining my family members finding my content and that was enough to make me not do it. 😂
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
I would've ghosted you the moment I found out you even considered doing it, that the only thing that stopped you is the idea of your family finding out.
@C0ach33
@C0ach33 11 ай бұрын
Actions have consequences. She forsake her morals and values for a quick buck. She reaped what she sowed.
@SuperArt7
@SuperArt7 11 ай бұрын
Facts...can't go complaining now. The reality is the money probably slowed up and she got hit with a rude awakening
@mr.hardtruth8026
@mr.hardtruth8026 11 ай бұрын
morals ? did she kill someone ? its just a body, getting naked. go to some tribes and being naked and showing boobs is normal and no woman can make money from being naked. Its just that in our world they made being naked bad
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 11 ай бұрын
Gentlemen! Passport bros! and Invest in chewy and Pets shops. "All the single ladies! All the single ladies!" Beyonce predicted all this!
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 11 ай бұрын
Accountability is kryptonite to modern women. especially OF women.
@Danny328DT
@Danny328DT 11 ай бұрын
​@@laturista1000Do you think it's because of parental issues in the household? Most households contain single moms raising their children and lack father figures.
@ClellBiggs
@ClellBiggs 11 ай бұрын
There's such a weird dynamic here. She feels bad about the way men interact with her on the service and calls them creepy without seeming to realize that what she's doing is just as creepy if not more so.
@christoph3187
@christoph3187 11 ай бұрын
She also doesn’t want to stop in spite of all the things she states and how it is negatively affecting her mentally.
@Exxeron-ob3tv
@Exxeron-ob3tv 11 ай бұрын
@@christoph3187 There's science on that. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jLSaosZixrWre2g.html
@tino5735
@tino5735 11 ай бұрын
Right? Kinda don't get to complain if your living is made by giving your audience mental illness in real time.
@andrewmackenzie325
@andrewmackenzie325 11 ай бұрын
Solipsism manifest
@patricioperez8047
@patricioperez8047 11 ай бұрын
More than that, she is contributing to create the creepy men she despises.
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 4 ай бұрын
I've met a lot of women in my life. Their past experiences with men very much shape how they are, for better or worse. To deliberate seek out the worst men for the worst experiences is self-sabotaging in the extreme.
@avasdv
@avasdv 4 ай бұрын
Do you think it's the same in reverse, how the past experiences with women shape a man ?
@DefaultFlame
@DefaultFlame 2 ай бұрын
@@avasdv Yes it does, though it seems to me that it shapes more how men interact with women while for women it shapes more how they see themselves. On average, of course. YMMV.
@countryfrau8328
@countryfrau8328 2 ай бұрын
Very interesting and a difference to ponder.
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
@@avasdv I've spoken to hundreds of women, and I truly mean hundreds. The more in depth I got to know them, the less I want to do with them. When I was younger, I used to be romantic, now I don't want much to do with women past getting off. The more I learn how women perceive relationships and just small insignificant daily interactions, the more disgusted I become. I used to think women were the romantic gender, oh boy how wrong was I.
@janicefinch3563
@janicefinch3563 2 ай бұрын
But maybe it's a good thing that she's seen how men truly can be. So many women are too trusting and then find out the man they love is paying these OF models. She even admitted some of them have kids.
@PerfectPencil
@PerfectPencil 2 ай бұрын
Considering how much pain she is in.. its kind of insane to hear that she intends to "see this through until someone makes her stop". She's destroying herself due to pride.
@YesPlease1
@YesPlease1 11 ай бұрын
Yep. She's seeing the horny, desperate, sleazy side of men because she's sharing the horny, desperate, sleazy side of herself. The men are a reflection, a mirror. She shouldn't lose hope or attraction to men. She should learn to value herself differently, create a different energy and attract a different energy from men.
@hkh5655
@hkh5655 11 ай бұрын
Yeah, but she's lacking the self-reflection for that to click. She still thinks her sleazy side is art.
@jameslebeau7078
@jameslebeau7078 11 ай бұрын
Too late for her, nothing but eee-motional DAMAGE!
@TexasLonghornRanch
@TexasLonghornRanch 11 ай бұрын
No high value man is gonna wife up an only fans model. She’s a 304
@danwarner7816
@danwarner7816 11 ай бұрын
Truer words spoken
@bogdankovalenko5096
@bogdankovalenko5096 11 ай бұрын
Too late. She is done
@jesse_campbell
@jesse_campbell 11 ай бұрын
120ish years ago, my great-great grandfather talked to my great grandfather about the girls who worked in saloons in mining towns. How depressed they were in private; how the life they were leading was a dead end; how they were likely to randomly end their own lives. Same still holds true today. Just online instead of a saloon.
@shady_the_one
@shady_the_one 11 ай бұрын
Dude fucking, this also explains why dumb shit happens here lol
@ShadowPhoenix82
@ShadowPhoenix82 11 ай бұрын
Yeah, so many people want to claim the world is getting worse and the good old days are gone, but nothing's changed at its core. The world is as beautiful and horrible as its always been.
@Suzette-gb7uj
@Suzette-gb7uj 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling the story of your gg-grandfather and great grandfather. It’s insightful. I am a firm believer that the majority of people working in the sex related “jobs” do not want to be there. The fact that our culture has worked so hard to sanitize/legitimize it, in my opinion, is actually more harmful than helpful for the people that are caught up in that vicious cycle of degradation.
@matejfele9971
@matejfele9971 11 ай бұрын
​@@Suzette-gb7ujThey make good cash while f***** strangers, it's their choice.
@florianlaur5300
@florianlaur5300 11 ай бұрын
"I owe my soul to the company whore"
@bluestoryb1288
@bluestoryb1288 3 ай бұрын
The truth is that for one woman that regret, there are dozens who are happy with it riding on their Porsche, traveling and outsourcing their DMs to some dude in Asia and not dealing with all that tough messages! So it's easy money and everybody is happy in general.
@countryfrau8328
@countryfrau8328 2 ай бұрын
See how naive I am! I never even thought that they may outsource their DMs to somebody else!
@olyneshkova
@olyneshkova 3 ай бұрын
When the disgusted are gone, the ones left will be the disgusting.
@RayBetterThanEvilCanival
@RayBetterThanEvilCanival 11 ай бұрын
Edit: You’ll never know what my original comment was. Trolololololololool ha ha ha ha!
@Oneshotkill-op9kk
@Oneshotkill-op9kk 11 ай бұрын
Wait till she gotta tell future kids about it ha
@Db-pq7zw
@Db-pq7zw 11 ай бұрын
Wait till her looks go and has no back up plan
@Seoul_Seeker
@Seoul_Seeker 11 ай бұрын
Must not have watched the whole video. She's extremely jaded now and is a man hating feminist. She uses the guys she comes across as a wallet and nothing else.
@5150pop
@5150pop 11 ай бұрын
Should she actually stumble onto a taker, she”ll keep the OF a secret until one of his buddies shows him….then it’s bye bye and she won’t understand why….silly women
@timbrown6629
@timbrown6629 11 ай бұрын
​@@Db-pq7zw What looks?
@darkchildwhat1
@darkchildwhat1 11 ай бұрын
Can’t believe that this isn’t obvious to everyone.. if a girl did porn in the 90s, she’d be shunned by everybody! Now they’re amazed that people have issues with onlyfans which is just porn
@Mastermind111111
@Mastermind111111 9 ай бұрын
I think the difference is most of it is solo, not with a man, and it is more private. But yeah
@Bearded_Tattooed_Guy
@Bearded_Tattooed_Guy 6 ай бұрын
The may think, well feel, it's more private, but it's the internett. That's the whole point to start with. Harsh outcome, but they played this game willingly.
@KillerLettuce
@KillerLettuce 4 ай бұрын
I don't think there's anything wrong with doing porn, but its not a job for everyone but everyone thinks they can do onlyfans and be okay. I saw an interview with a porn actress that said unless you're already a very sexually active person above the norm before starting sex work and enjoy it for what it is you really wont enjoy doing it as your job.
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
@@Mastermind111111 Oh I don't care. More private? No, it's more public than ever. I do not care to investigate what type of porn a woman did, it's porn. I'm not interested in context.
@Michaelengelmann
@Michaelengelmann 7 ай бұрын
Every woman I saw on social media, they shared their OF saying they’re the top 0.2% 😂 literally I’d say 98% of what I’ve seen, it was that. Someone is lying
@kupotenshi
@kupotenshi 2 ай бұрын
Do the married men cheating on their wives through OF receive any negative societal consequences? Absolutely no judgement on her, I hope she heals.
@kevinp8108
@kevinp8108 11 ай бұрын
It's ironic that she calls her male fans "disgusting" but what she is doing is disgusting! What type of men was she expecting to attract while doing Only Fans??? I'm so tired of women complaining that there are no good men out there to date! There are tons of good men out there but these women always gravitate toward the "bad boys" and when they get hurt by those men, they always say that there are no good men! Yes, there are good men out there but you choose not to date them!
@danwarner7816
@danwarner7816 11 ай бұрын
True that
@mannygonzales1985
@mannygonzales1985 11 ай бұрын
Story old as time. Nothing new under the sun.
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 11 ай бұрын
With the amount of reach OnlyFans now has, it's safe to say that there are plenty of outwardly good men using that platform.
@coolbreeze5683
@coolbreeze5683 11 ай бұрын
Most good women aren't complaining that there aren't any good men. The good women are with good men already. Somehow, the type of woman shown in this video are the ones some men choose to listen to and conclude that "all women are complaining". IG and OF model types are not the majority of women. They are the fake ones and usually the loudest. The good women usually aren't like this the same way the good men aren't usually the alpha gym bro caricature.
@mannygonzales1985
@mannygonzales1985 11 ай бұрын
@@coolbreeze5683 Hey hey, I’m a hardcore gym guy, and good/nice guy. Guess it’s not very common but still lol
@samsutera2452
@samsutera2452 11 ай бұрын
“Expressing myself through my art” “I’m not a quitter I want to see it to the end”, absolutely ridiculous response, what she means to say is that I’m making good money with the little work and resources I’m putting in. No man that I know sees this as art they see her as an object or an chance to feel something. It’s all about money on her end and men getting off and finding connection to a fake relationship. BOTH PARTIES ARE WRONG
@coolbreeze5683
@coolbreeze5683 11 ай бұрын
Some women need to wake up and stop referring to anything sexually suggestive as "art". Art implies there's talent. It doesn't take talent to take your clothes off. "Empowering" is another stupid way of describing it. If you're hooked on money and attention, that isn't empowering. It's sad.
@habsom1406
@habsom1406 11 ай бұрын
@@coolbreeze5683 So true, good point, totally agree with you.
@Kreymore
@Kreymore 11 ай бұрын
If she could regain her dignity by removing the content but had to give ALL the money back, she 100 percent would not.
@nildabridgeman8104
@nildabridgeman8104 11 ай бұрын
She's deluded... It's the modern day version of the old fashioned nasty PEEP SHOW that used to litter Time Square Manhattan before Time Square Church & Rudy G cleaned it up
@respectdawildo_danjones508
@respectdawildo_danjones508 11 ай бұрын
@@Kreymoreshe literally says “there’s no amount of money you can give me that would make me give myself away”… but also that she isn’t quitting, so idk wtf she’s talking about at all, there is an amount of money, you have been purchased, that’s your value, the delusion is strong in this one
@TheErikBallew
@TheErikBallew 7 ай бұрын
As far as I can tell, women think we're nasty and unworthy regardless of what we do.
@johannesschmitz6370
@johannesschmitz6370 4 ай бұрын
Not all women think so. I know a bunch of women who are just people like you can and me and appreciate anothers presence
@barrysnelson4404
@barrysnelson4404 3 ай бұрын
@llamababiezhellyeah4637 I think, if you will forgive me, that you can not see through a man's eyes. Your reply was that men should ignore the damage being inflicted on them and offer women masculine strength and romantic love. That's not how it feels to us. We have been on the receiving end of 50 years of man hating feminism which has reached the stage of declaring that masculinity is toxic and that all men are trash. I have been married for over 40 years but women then were different. They teased and manipulated men but fundamentally, they appreciated us and wanted to receive love and give love in return. I believe the modern woman is quite incapable of love, being tough, calculating, demanding and disappointed with every man who is available and certain that she deserves the best (and richest). We men can see this. We aren't stupid. And BTW, of course there are still happy relationships out there. The problem is that the marriage and birth rates have fallen to unbelievable lows and the percentage of single person households is approaching 50% in some cities.
@Blondie77128
@Blondie77128 3 ай бұрын
Not all women think so. Depends on the man’s behavior, attitude and treatment of others. There are lots of good men out there.
@Blondie77128
@Blondie77128 3 ай бұрын
@@barrysnelson4404Can agree with a lot of what you posted. I see young women these days and the attitudes and unrealistic expectations among many of them. How did their parents fail so badly. My parents raised me very well and I’m grateful for that. Been successfully married twice, first husband passed from cancer. Several years later I married a wonderful man both us us early 40s at the time. We are Gen X and definitely current generation of young adults are very different and not for the better.
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 2 ай бұрын
@@barrysnelson4404 You've summed it up beautifully.
@Humanaut.
@Humanaut. 3 ай бұрын
There's a great song by Morcheeba called [I] "Gained the world" [but lost my soul] that touches this issue in a great way. Lyrics: [Verse 1] I heard I lost it on the grapevine I must admit I had a great time There are words for people like me But I don't think there's very many [Chorus] I've gained the world and lost my soul Maybe it's 'cause I'm getting old All the people that I know Have gained the world and lost their soul [Verse 1] There's no persuasion that I'm into I've made some sense of what we've been through We should form a new foundation If we could find the right location [Bridge] Is it prey, on display I'm feeling weak
@countryfrau8328
@countryfrau8328 2 ай бұрын
Like it says in the Bible...
@jibberism9910
@jibberism9910 11 ай бұрын
What struck me is how she managed to put 5 sentences of content in a never ending speech.
@jackraptor1581
@jackraptor1581 10 ай бұрын
You noticed that, huh. Not only was/is “it” (assuming that thing is a female) extraordinarily ugly, but everything that spewed from its head hole was mind numbing, vacuous, pettily narcissistic flatulence. Its inability to understand context and its lack of self awareness was/is maddening. I mean, the sheer privilege it’s been afforded by America! In its shithole of origin, it would be beating clothes against the shore of some muddy river. I would wager it’s been given a free college education to boot.
@Flyinghotpocket
@Flyinghotpocket 8 ай бұрын
No kidding after 2 minutes of the speech i had to scroll to the comments to see what the actual fuck she was talking about doing. ah, Only fans, of course.
@cjanquart
@cjanquart 7 ай бұрын
She'd make a great politician 😆
@CarlosIowa
@CarlosIowa 6 ай бұрын
I agree. She needs to hire an editor. I was bored to death after 3 minutes. So I went to comments which was more jnformative.
@stephendempsey3305
@stephendempsey3305 11 ай бұрын
She had three options. 1. Marry a good guy, he might not be a Chad though. 2. Get a normal job, support yourself. 3. Be a whore, there's no turning back from this. She chose three and is now crying about it.
@jackbrightside
@jackbrightside 11 ай бұрын
zactly
@4SChris
@4SChris 11 ай бұрын
She will find a husband because too many SIMPS out there !
@anthony9013
@anthony9013 11 ай бұрын
She'll never find a guy she wants though. She'll have to settle for some sleazeball if she wants anyone. Cause no self respecting man is going to wife a whore
@ccastaneda669
@ccastaneda669 11 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing, she's crying about bad decisions. Now she's gonna have to live with them.☹️
@Leukick
@Leukick 11 ай бұрын
Crying about it? ... Or reflecting on the new things she learned from her experience? Not everyone knows the future, or what they'll discover about the new things they get into. The same thing happens with people's jobs or careers, sometimes it takes years doing it for them to realize how much they dislike it.
@oeckstei
@oeckstei 9 ай бұрын
Can apply this logic to almost any job or career path. Like becoming a doctor and thinking you’re not going to deal with difficult patients that won’t always take your advice etc…
@sydneyg4664
@sydneyg4664 3 ай бұрын
LOL
@TheOldmillstream1978
@TheOldmillstream1978 Ай бұрын
I don't understand social media at all. One time a woman suggested that I DM her, I asked her just how am I supposed to Depeche Mode you?
@vincentcantelm4992
@vincentcantelm4992 11 ай бұрын
Last 4mins of this video are gold. “Society defines success in such a shallow way.” And “True success is being at peace with yourself and what you are bringing to the world.” I couldn’t agree more. These statements hold soo much truth and are powerful.
@dmappzoom6778
@dmappzoom6778 11 ай бұрын
exactly
@AdamMCPA
@AdamMCPA 11 ай бұрын
"Society" is too broad of a term and population for assigning blame. There are plenty of subsections of society that don't define success in a "shallow way." Blaming "society" for having wealth worship is not a profound realization. It's a cop out.
@SharifSourour
@SharifSourour 11 ай бұрын
Very true.
@restingsmirkface
@restingsmirkface 11 ай бұрын
I was mostly with her until about 6mins in when after all that she said she'd never quit... Some people can't be helped. A walking contradiction from the first part of her talk.
@thechampagneroom1
@thechampagneroom1 11 ай бұрын
She doesn’t have a choice. She knows any good normal job is gone in her future. And you can forget about her being allowed around kids in any other career.
@waltermyers8891
@waltermyers8891 11 ай бұрын
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@treehouse8501
@treehouse8501 11 ай бұрын
same. what does that even mean "i would have to be physicaly stopped?" like have a horrible accident and be maimed for life and ugly? why cant this emotional and mental health issues be enough? she deserves what comes to her and what will never come to her.
@SPMinerva
@SPMinerva 11 ай бұрын
Its like when you try to help someone who falls down, you try to lend a hand but they refuse and instead sit there for 2 minutes. The only that can help them are themselves
@gloriahavland9844
@gloriahavland9844 11 ай бұрын
You can guide a horse to water but you can't make it drink. A friend's cousin got into OF and she's miserable, constantly complaining about it and always filling the void with materialistic things, she's currently on vacation in Fance (and even there she's keeping us updated on how men aren't s*it)
@Thecatnamedkiwi
@Thecatnamedkiwi 3 ай бұрын
I did for 1 month.....because i was brain washed. I felt disgusting and i still do even tho it was years ago. I regret it. It was absolutely super gross. These OF people are delusional and brainwashed....because i sure know that i was......
@michelguevara151
@michelguevara151 10 ай бұрын
'ladies', you make your bed, you must lie in it. responsibility. consequences. Gentlemen : *walk away*
@waitery
@waitery 11 ай бұрын
"Privacy and reputation is something that you will never get back." Supreme salient point, Courtney!
@mikelisteral7863
@mikelisteral7863 9 ай бұрын
shutup and take my money! i mean shutup and keep your money
@ru.kiddingme
@ru.kiddingme 3 ай бұрын
no. privacy and reputation can be reclaimed, but it will require time and persistence.
@leighsylvia1976
@leighsylvia1976 11 ай бұрын
Let's face it, we men are initially very visual (initially) when it comes to attraction to women. But, to me, the most attractive qualities in a woman are who she really is and how she carries herself in life. I'm physically attracted to my wife, but also, I love how she cares about others, and is thoughtful. She's a great mother for our children.
@TragicallyCharmed
@TragicallyCharmed 4 ай бұрын
And I'm sure you've always dated that way you've never been superficial and you have absolutely no psychological Hang-Ups here's your cookie
@wiseonwords
@wiseonwords 4 ай бұрын
@@TragicallyCharmed - Let me guess? You're on Only Fans, and yet bizarrely you feel morally superior to men! LOL!
@solarion9802
@solarion9802 4 ай бұрын
@@TragicallyCharmed lol You sound triggered by a guy that says he loves his wife.
@CaptCanuck4444
@CaptCanuck4444 7 ай бұрын
She should give the money back to the disgusting men then. That might be cathartic for her. She deserves no sympathy if she hates her customers but continues to degrade herself anyway - for the money. She's an attractive and articulate woman, presumably with a good education. She has many other options but plays the victim while continuing to cash the cheques.
@kinnish5267
@kinnish5267 6 ай бұрын
"for what does it matter if you gain the world but lost your soul" from the Bible
@Dogsday198
@Dogsday198 11 ай бұрын
Correct... stopping destructive behavior isn't "quitting", it's growing.
@iamLI3
@iamLI3 10 ай бұрын
problem is though she wont quit , because she has not actually learned anything as evident by this video , she will keep making the same kind of mistakes while abdicating all responsibility for them....
@20thcenturyboy85
@20thcenturyboy85 11 ай бұрын
To be LOVED for one's decency rather than one's physicality is priceless.
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 4 ай бұрын
Amidst the discussion on 'Why don't we see more women in S.T.E.M. fields?'...
@JasonMarshMusic
@JasonMarshMusic 11 ай бұрын
Twenty years ago, I briefly dated a women who'd posed for an adult magazine; she'd moved to LA from music school, had no money, and got approached by someone to pose. She felt gross afterwards. Nowadays, you don't need to be approached. It's easy to start making adult content, but there's a lack of awareness about the potential consequences.
@paulk8924
@paulk8924 11 ай бұрын
It's not lack of consequence. They firmly believe they are that special and exceptional, that it won't happen to them. That they'll be different. No matter how much you warn them. Hence why we'll state facts of the rule, they'll always throw in a exception because they internalize everything and they're speaking about them being the exception.
@davematthewes7446
@davematthewes7446 11 ай бұрын
Yup once your body is posted, it's forever. The OF lie requires that you have thousands of followers putting out cash. Most might be lucky to get a few hundred dollars
@jice7074
@jice7074 11 ай бұрын
Society use to tell women that was harmful to them. Feminism taught them to sell their bodies but negotiate the price, progressivism demands a no shame culture. We've allowed a very nihilistic culture to take hold.
@bumpercoach
@bumpercoach 11 ай бұрын
thats the deal they fail the marshmallow test
@AnthonySforza
@AnthonySforza 10 ай бұрын
Here's the messed up part, there are so many millions of girls on that website, that only the top 7% make $1000 a month. Yet every time I see one bragging about their placement, I imagine a guy bragging about being a baller for working part time at 7/11. Point is, remember back in ths day, when girls needed drugs, or crap tons of money to cross that line? Now, they're bascially doing porn for free. Think about this, imagine if millions of girls flocked to the strip clubs and dod all of the things, danced on stage, gave lapdances, etc... but at the end of the night, they were handed a $20 bill for all of their trouble. Now... imagine if those same women showed up, night after night for that $20. This OF thing clearly isnt about the money... that's how far off the rails we as a society have gone.
@heartofthelion6169
@heartofthelion6169 11 ай бұрын
People treat others in the way they present themselves. Her view of men is soured because she surrounded herself with sexual deviants that saw her as sexual object and not a person and now she’s seems to think most men are like that. That’s not the case. That’s just the bubble she encapsulated herself in.
@msessenceofreality
@msessenceofreality 11 ай бұрын
True but over 100 mill subs ON OF is rediculous to the few million creators
@florianlaur5300
@florianlaur5300 11 ай бұрын
Very true. That's a big issue I saw with most women. I no longer believe this "He was the bad guy, I'm the victim" stuff. Of course the guy is usually a bad guy, but those women CHOOSE the bad guys. They won't even see the nice guys or feel utterly bored by them. If I only met Lorena Bobbett kind of women, I'd also think they're all harpyies.
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 11 ай бұрын
Well said. Onlyfans, porn, the hypersexualization of women and modern technology has ruined male and female relationships.
@tujungite4914
@tujungite4914 11 ай бұрын
She's justifying, which leads to making herself right by continuing it. She's a self trapped being, a victim, which is a very low tone of beingness. This is not good. The service facsimiles kick in, and it's "them who's wrong," but she also knows she's wrong. This is obvious as you see her drop-down emotion tone to grief. A sociopath is someone who makes others wrong for the condition they themselves created. She's ethically doomed until she takes full responsibility. Don't call someone a role model when she's just a confused being. Being sympathetic to her doesn't break her overt motivator sequence. It gives her further justifiers to further enslave herself. Thus, her "quitter" type comment. That's a justifier. So she creates the overt again, motivates and justifies. The Dwindling Spiral. Basic ethics people.
@fruitloops3718
@fruitloops3718 11 ай бұрын
That was her choice. Remember my body, my choice. Well there you go.
@krunk485
@krunk485 7 ай бұрын
There is no sympathy in my heart for this girl. She chose her path and she needs to live with the consequences. Accountability for women is like sunlight for a vampire.
@baguingr
@baguingr 10 ай бұрын
Alternate video title: young woman realizes something everyone has known for thousands of years.
@painbody4249
@painbody4249 11 ай бұрын
All a woman has to do is have a conversation with a stripper for an hour to understand the mess they are getting themselves into. Strippers have the most authentic experience of that lifestyle.
@anon1878
@anon1878 11 ай бұрын
she think it's just a bunch of disgusting horny dudes. THe reality is that people are not paying these OF for fun, many will have issues with their previous relationships and are using this and other s*x workers as an outlet / distraction from their life.
@keithmoriyama5421
@keithmoriyama5421 10 ай бұрын
How do you know that?
@drfye
@drfye 10 ай бұрын
​​@@keithmoriyama5421 Usually the easier and faster you get money the bigger the consequences. Like a guy who becomes a drug dealer, he can make a ton of money very quickly but more then likely he's going to end up in prison or dead.
@keithmoriyama5421
@keithmoriyama5421 10 ай бұрын
@@drfye Do you actually know any strippers personally that are in that situation?
@drfye
@drfye 10 ай бұрын
@@keithmoriyama5421 🤔In what situation? When speaking of sex work in general, whether it's OF, stripper, Pronstar, escort ect it's pretty well established that your trading earning a sizable amount of money in a relatively short period of time in exchange for the loss of future employment prospects as well as the ability to be employed in a variety of industries such as teaching or childcare as well as personal and professional reputation loss.
@thebook2335
@thebook2335 11 ай бұрын
I left a job because it didn't align with my values, had rude coworkers, and I felt hollow when working there. I found a different job with kind, empathetic people for a 20% cut in pay and I'd do it again. Growing and surrounding yourself with good people is so important. I hope this girl finds whatever she is looking for.
@driftracerr34
@driftracerr34 11 ай бұрын
There are videos of her getting railed by bbc on the internet. Doubt she’ll find anything professional
@Exxeron-ob3tv
@Exxeron-ob3tv 11 ай бұрын
She's looking for cash, and got it. "Be careful what you wish for...."
@patc2515
@patc2515 11 ай бұрын
Well said. Good for you for making a hard but necessary choice. At the end of the day, going against our values and or just the decency of human nature always comes at a price that money cannot erase.
@ZacksRockingLifestyle
@ZacksRockingLifestyle 11 ай бұрын
Similar experience. Some things are harder these days, but most days I’m a good deal more satisfied.
@smug3636
@smug3636 Ай бұрын
I was watching a video about girls regretting OF, and suddenly I am hit with a reflection about quitting that is actually relevant to what I am going through right now... Damn, Courtney
@Mdjagg
@Mdjagg 3 ай бұрын
It's a shame that someone can attract the worst of a group, and then hate that group based on their own horrifyingly skewed perspective. I dont know q single person who would use only fans, or at least not openly.
@molassescricket6663
@molassescricket6663 11 ай бұрын
If anyone voluntarily lowers themselves to the gutter, for any reason, they can’t complain about what flows their way and they get covered in. Your video’s should be offered up to social academics! Great video!
@lewstherintelamon1377
@lewstherintelamon1377 11 ай бұрын
Isn't that a Monster Magnet song? "Bummer," I think, Something to the effect of "Some people go to bed with Lucifer,/ Then they cry, cry, cry, when they don't greet the day with God."
@user-is1yo3nj8p
@user-is1yo3nj8p 11 ай бұрын
She's exploiting the worst part of humanity and complains about results of attracting the worst part of humanity. Yet she's no quitter! Sounds pretty insane actually. Probably the type of insanity it would take to begin such line of work.
@rjframe4410
@rjframe4410 11 ай бұрын
OF aint the gutter, If a woman wants to take advantage of her looks to make money, fine. Who cares? I personally think sex work should be 100% legal. The issue is the internet is forever, and thats that. Realize that and then do what you want with open eyes.
@molassescricket6663
@molassescricket6663 11 ай бұрын
@@rjframe4410 Well in part it comes down to someone’s intention. As they say the devil is in the details, and if the intent is to take advantage of or manipulate a person, just for unnecessary personal gain, then that is lowering one’s self to the gutter. If however it is done out of necessity or desperation then that is an entirely different matter. If a woman has absolutely no other means of support, then go right ahead. I’ll be the first to legalize the world oldest business transaction. In no way do I look down upon that. But if it’s done like, this is no big deal, and it’s manipulative, or takes advantage because of weakness or for fun then that’s inappropriate and immoral. The other part is that society has these little things like morals, norms, etc., AND they are extremely judgmental, rightly or wrongly. This is the way the world works, right?
@rjframe4410
@rjframe4410 11 ай бұрын
@@molassescricket6663 MY point is that you dont have to be desperate to make money this way, you could legitimately enjoy it, thats fine. Fun isnt immoral, the ethical issue comes in when you couch it in manipulation and then shame folks for participating. Basically if you ARE going to do this kinda work, dont crap on people for engaging as customers for the service your providing.
@5150pop
@5150pop 11 ай бұрын
She grew a conscience…..but still 7 months into it, she’s taking every penny
@lisac.9393
@lisac.9393 3 ай бұрын
I hope she quits.
@tgoodfella
@tgoodfella 2 ай бұрын
Let's get this right she's upset for the choice she made but blames men that pay her for it. No accountability
@successvibrations380
@successvibrations380 11 ай бұрын
What pisses me off is that she says that men are disgusting but she has no idea what it’s like to be a man. None of these women know what it’s like to be a man. I don’t think women understand what it’s like for men, and what attracts us visually and sexually. Women will never understand what it’s like for a man and controlling your sexual urges. Some men can do it, and some men have a trouble.
@EvilFandango
@EvilFandango 11 ай бұрын
Sounds like she was calling men using OF disgusting and while from a man's perspective they may not be disgusting, they are simps however. C'mon man, paying to see naked ladies in current year?
@THX5000
@THX5000 11 ай бұрын
Don't ever expect a woman to care about your struggles. If you are trying to get rid of a woman, tell her that you lost your job, or have no money, or are depressed, or have cancer... she will dump you and start looking for another chump.
@successvibrations380
@successvibrations380 11 ай бұрын
@@EvilFandango Just because some of us men haven’t payed to look at girls on the internet doesn’t mean she can just look down on all men like that. The complete disrespect and disregard for men is disgusting and dangerous. We all know what is like as man and some of us are better than others but it’s no excuse. We need to be trying to uplift each other as men.
@anthonyesposito7
@anthonyesposito7 11 ай бұрын
She's complaining about the men but she is doing it lol. The point should be, she want to do it, maybe for the wrong but she's doing it. And men want to do want they are doing. No sex shame.
@ThZuao
@ThZuao 11 ай бұрын
True, the women who say shit like that are the same ones who will say "no uterus, no opinion" when men talk about women issues. But you missed her point. The kind of men who throw money at them can say some nasty stuff they wouldn't in polite company. I bet they take out their IRL frustrations on those girls. Because the veil of anonimity and such. Moreover, the kind of men who subscribe to them aren't the most moral of the bunch. And yes, if you subscribe to them for other reason than to distribute their pics for free to undermine this disgusting market, you're disgusting.
@n1c704
@n1c704 11 ай бұрын
When women ask if a man would date them if they were on onlyfans, they never asked the inverse: would they date a guy that subscribed to onlyfans?
@bhart3321
@bhart3321 11 ай бұрын
Because they already know the answer, it's no of course not I don't want a pervert. Like so why would they think the inverse would be any different? The double standards & lack of accountability are just mind numbing sometimes.
@fitthickchic6732
@fitthickchic6732 11 ай бұрын
Genuine question, but don't most men use some kind of porn? A lot of men are paying for it. Aside from of maybe being more interactive, what is the difference?
@bhart3321
@bhart3321 11 ай бұрын
@@fitthickchic6732 No we aren't paying for it. When we want to rub one out we fire up Pornhub or XVideos or any number of tube sites for free. When we're done we don't even think about the girls or anything afterwards. Besides just because we find someone attractive or watch their movies doesn't mean we want to date or marry them. Do you envision dating/marrying everyone you find attractive? Of course not. Are you also going to tell me you'd be ok dating a guy that's banged countless women on film & probably even more off? No you wouldn't & studies prove it. Women don't want dudes with high body counts anymore than men do. Studies also show that promiscuity effects men & women the same way: Diminished ability to pair bond, increase risk of cheating, lack of impulse control, etc. These women & their customers are both simps it's just guys are simping for the girls & these girls are simping for the money. Thus neither should be taken seriously for the exact same reason, they're all exploiting each other as well as themselves.
@petroverba6054
@petroverba6054 11 ай бұрын
OF is also a learning platform, but its about sex education. you can find there courses about erotic massage, BJ technics, how to get down on girl, anal sex technics, etc. So actually it depends on reason why people are going there and which type of content they consume or produce there. It could be used for improving relations in real world.
@Naturefan354
@Naturefan354 3 ай бұрын
​@@fitthickchic6732Yes there is no difference. And 90% of women are already with men who look, pay and subscribe to porn or OF Of course they will never willingly admit it 😂
@BaaSicStuff
@BaaSicStuff 4 ай бұрын
Why would anyone think taking your clothes off for money would be a good idea? As for someone stopping it....that car payment you know .... eh 🙈
@ladyjulbug
@ladyjulbug 10 ай бұрын
In a way, I really understand her and how she's feeling. I felt so much of the same way while teaching, after I got burnt out. Like literally to the point where I don't want anything to do with teaching anyone else's kids ever again. I can empathize. Even the part about not being a quitter...I'm just so thankful I was able to quit for something better, because that mentality alone would've made it so hard to leave.
@grumpyschnauzer
@grumpyschnauzer 10 ай бұрын
Same… as a therapist I feel the same way. You see the machine behind the passion and it really sucks the life out of it. What did you end up doing instead?
@ladyjulbug
@ladyjulbug 10 ай бұрын
@grumpyschnauzer I got pregnant, resigned on maternity leave, took my retirement distribution early, and plan on homeschooling. I've been very lucky my husband was able to find a way to double his income, so we could afford that. I never wanted to feel so bitter about teaching and so disgusted by other people's kids, but...burnout just leaves you feeling so used and manipulated.
@p382742937423y4
@p382742937423y4 10 ай бұрын
I had the same. Taught philosophy and literature for some tears. And then after so much inpoliteness, agression, rudeness, entitlement I just felt: this is not for me. I got out as well. Now lets heal.
@ladyjulbug
@ladyjulbug 10 ай бұрын
@p382742937423y4 the healing part...I'm not even sure what that looks like beyond letting some time pass in my new life to get some distance from my old life. It's been 9 months since my last day of work...and I'm starting to feel less bitter than I felt while in it, but there's still this part of me that just wants to go off on all the reasons I quit.
@gohanson8846
@gohanson8846 11 ай бұрын
Don't expect a man to respect you if you don't have self respect
@silvergimmick4429
@silvergimmick4429 11 ай бұрын
Great video, Courtney! I closed my OF account (on the customer side) a month ago and I feel so much BETTER about myself. It's scary how addicting things like that can be especially when you're in an isolated part in your life.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 11 ай бұрын
Proud of you! 🤗
@msessenceofreality
@msessenceofreality 11 ай бұрын
Addiction to this content comes from hopelessness often. Got to invest back into yourself. Health and fitness, hobbies, career. You will attract a good partner. Perhaps in the states or elsewhere
@matthewcoombs3282
@matthewcoombs3282 11 ай бұрын
Porn acts on the parts of the brain that many recreational drugs. Good to put it behind you and concentrate on meaningful real life respectful connections with women
@Kroitk
@Kroitk 11 ай бұрын
Good job king, do NOT let temptation control your life and swerve you off the path of self-development and growth. Be better. Be stronger. Be the man that your grandfathers would be proud. You took a crucial step forward, now never return to that sad part of your life. Good job brother.
@tspencer661
@tspencer661 11 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Fielion
@Fielion 8 ай бұрын
So she says it isnt worth it anymore, but she also says she wouldnt stop... and she justifies it by saying that she isnt a quiter? She is lying to herself... she wants the money an thats it.
@vespasian8572
@vespasian8572 2 ай бұрын
Her use of the word "like" almost made my head explode.
@therod730
@therod730 11 ай бұрын
"I wont stop until I'm made to stop." These people cant be helped. You reap what you sow.
@JariSatta
@JariSatta 10 ай бұрын
Each thistle plant can produce up to 40,000 seeds Sow thistle, soon you'll have a field. Sow wheat, soon you'll have a field.
@coolbreeze5683
@coolbreeze5683 11 ай бұрын
"You are what you attract" is a very good point and is valid in all parts of life. It's surprising that you got death threats from women angry about your opinion of OF. I think you're very wise Courtney and, as a woman, I agree with most of your videos that I have seen. I think you speak for many women because you give a balanced view.
@shantimattie9916
@shantimattie9916 2 ай бұрын
As a former “SW” from decades ago, phone lines, then dancing, saying “I’m no quitter” is a bad sign. Because if you let it get to you enough, you will quit… everything… permanently. The negative energy can strip your soul. I left because I cared too much about myself to make enough money. Doing makeup for pron got the bills paid, ‘til I slipped the name of a casting director to an actress crying in a bathroom because she was being blackmailed into it by her co-star. I was blackballed after that. Playing a dancer in a film is better, but the jobs are few and far between. Young girls doing OF look down on strippers and other physical SWs, but at least they don’t lie to themselves about the self-harm that it does unless you hold yourself tight. We were lucky back then. No video, no proof. Married a man 16 years ago who doesn’t judge me or hold my past against me. We’re not rich but I have a straight job and we own our home. He’s retired and takes care of the practical stuff mostly while I cover the luxuries, mostly. It ain’t perfect, but it ain’t vanilla either.
@Palayedeuhm
@Palayedeuhm 2 ай бұрын
I feel bad that this person didn’t realize the consequences of her actions sooner. I hope she finds peace somehow
@starkilr101
@starkilr101 11 ай бұрын
Reminds me of what that elderly woman said in that BBC interview: “Feminism is good for any woman under the age of 30”. Fun and games until you need to move forward, more or less
@drip369
@drip369 11 ай бұрын
Women want the power of men, the privileges of women, the accountability of children, the responsibility of infants, and the superiority of God. And when they can't get any of this on their own what are they do? They blame men. I wonder if this woman is going to blame men for the faults of women doing whatever they want however they want just because they FEEL like it
@winstonsmith2022
@winstonsmith2022 11 ай бұрын
Amen brother.
@genshinsage
@genshinsage 11 ай бұрын
We cant let these women roam free with no accountability. Its time to hit the reset button
@powerhouse884
@powerhouse884 11 ай бұрын
Thats…… Thats a great point.
@powerhouse884
@powerhouse884 11 ай бұрын
@@genshinsage”We can’t let these women” Dude they not a Dog, just ignore them 😅
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear 11 ай бұрын
*entitled childish people
@markpozsar5785
@markpozsar5785 4 ай бұрын
My issue with this is that I don't believe the sob story anymore. I have seen many times before, that they choose a path knowing full well what it means then they reap the benefits but at the same time they also want to appear as a powerless victim so it is not their responsibility.
@brianb6924
@brianb6924 5 ай бұрын
She got into this business to exploit people. She knew it from the beginning. Nobody is forcing her to keep doing this. She's just as shallow as the people looking at her.
@professorlayabout4878
@professorlayabout4878 11 ай бұрын
Wow, who would have thought selling yourself would turn out badly? 😭
@spartjovic
@spartjovic 11 ай бұрын
Lack of values or rather good strong values are lacking these days.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 11 ай бұрын
Agreed
@zerpblerd5966
@zerpblerd5966 11 ай бұрын
morality values, good and truth values narcissism is the value-base in this era, and awareness with a care for doing different the avenue for change
@spartjovic
@spartjovic 11 ай бұрын
@zerpblerd5966 yup! I'd also add sadism is also on the rise. In fact three dark personalities - narcissism, Machiavellism, and psychopathy.
@OFallons
@OFallons 2 ай бұрын
So sad for this to even exist!
@barneymiller4088
@barneymiller4088 4 ай бұрын
I think this will soon resolve itself. I think we are months away from OF girls being able to cover their faces with AI filters that render them unrecognizable. I just saw a lip syncing demo which was still rough, but the rate this is improving is incredible. After that, the OF girl will be replaced with text prompts and AI. People can make their own prompts and see custom movies and have the models say exactly what they want.
@Daecoth
@Daecoth 11 ай бұрын
The saddest part is this heart-felt message won't affect those who are hearing it. OF "models" will keep doing it until the money runs out and the horny men will just move on to the newest model.
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