THANK YOU for talking about not wanting kids. It’s OKAY to not want children! It doesn’t say anything about you as a person, it doesn’t make you any less “worthy” as a woman (🤢), and it’s an OKAY thing for men and women to say! Thank you for help normalize this!!
@bigbiemacaw2 жыл бұрын
my aunt didn't have kids she always stuck to that so when she first held our newborn i seen the regret on her face, shed have made a fab mom,
@Bekind12952 жыл бұрын
It’s also not a great question to ask anyone. Your choice.
@paula56822 жыл бұрын
@@bigbiemacaw it is better to regret not having kids than to regret having kids, because the first is horrible for you, and possibly your partner, but the second one involves another living being that depends on you and will definitely feel that regret
@carlibrianna032 жыл бұрын
I don’t want kids (I’m 18) and people keep saying I’ll change my mind. I don’t think so but similar to Kylie if I do get pregnant whenever I’m married, I’ll be excited❤️
@ingridmulder49842 жыл бұрын
@@carlibrianna03 my daughter doesn't want kids either, she's 25 now. If she changes her mind (I don't think this would happen) she rather would adopt a child. She says their are to many kids who don't have a home and parents.
@silverlining91202 жыл бұрын
Kylie is absolutely beautiful. She doesn't need makeup or to be dressed up.She's simple and radiates.
@saras-ut6eq2 жыл бұрын
agreed
@nicolepapole2 жыл бұрын
I've said it before and will say it again, I am SO glad Kylie stepped out of her comfort zone and decided to come on KZfaq. She's a pleasure to watch.
@shirleywarner88312 жыл бұрын
It is nice that Shelly has speaks highly of Kylie's dad. So sweet that Kylie loves Jared.
@lindsaydavis92182 жыл бұрын
I just want to say that when I first heard of Kylie, long ago before she was ever really seen, I always had this vision or opinion of her that she must not be so much into her family. I just really had a different opinion of her! And I feel awful about it because once I started watching her I literally love her!!!! She has the sweetest soul, the nicest/funniest personality! She just seems like so much fun to be around! And she definitely seems like she loves her family and all of her siblings! Watching Kylie on KZfaq or even Instagram is the highlight of my day ☺️
@nanamure1232 жыл бұрын
Yeah and please stop comment every time
@lindsaydavis92182 жыл бұрын
@@nanamure123 I can and will comment as much as I want to!
@aliyafenske88502 жыл бұрын
They saw her, but they lived 4 hours apart & she also just didn’t want to be on camera so they didn’t film her. They still saw her
@lindsaydavis92182 жыл бұрын
@@aliyafenske8850 I know.
@neshapruitt47562 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I ever thought that she wasn’t into her family but I agree with everything else 1000000% ! She is so sweet and kind spirited ❤️❤️ and comment as much as you want ‼️ that’s why they have comments
@loriwest87002 жыл бұрын
My favorite Shelly advise is…there’s more at the store.
@victoriamoore62622 жыл бұрын
I actually say it all the time because of her
@evelinedieleman2 жыл бұрын
In what context do you use it?
@adriennecastro31272 жыл бұрын
*advice
@bigbiemacaw2 жыл бұрын
I'm the same my macaw breaks so much and my mother gets so upset, its only stuff, she got super upset over the remote controls death, its 20 euro not the end of the world. She hasn't noticed the pot in the hall is missing yet. Lol
@ginawhite14512 жыл бұрын
Yes. She said that and I stole it 😅
@eyeluvku2 жыл бұрын
I don’t want kids until I turned 30 then I started to think about it. When my partner and Decided we did I had a lot of problems and the fertility clinic said that there was too much scarring so I couldn’t sustain a pregnancy. I had my daughter at 34 and my son at 37, and they are both my blessing from God!❤️
@vsamantha022 жыл бұрын
Great job Shelly and kylies dad to raising such a great women.She's such a positive attitude and she seems like such a fun person to be around. You guys are like twins have that same mindset and she said she is like her father so I can only imagine she must be spit of her mother and fathers personality . Love you both
@angelagovig14502 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love watching Kylie. She’s such a natural on video! Her smile, tone, personality, everything! So glad she took the plunge into KZfaq.
@nitijani16962 жыл бұрын
I love how respectful Shelley is of Kylie's decision to not have kids. Every woman is different, and I'm so happy they love her for herself. Kylie is going to be the "fun aunt" at all the family parties. People really need to realize that kids is not the goal for everyone, and that's completely fine :)
@crazylicious852 жыл бұрын
So refreshing to hear how civil custody was! It’s very rare!
@MargaretHill65_2 жыл бұрын
Kylie is so gorgeous and smart ! Can do decor like no other . It’s all ways just stunning . Love all of you ❤️🙏🏻
@Paula_KentuckyRed2 жыл бұрын
I love Kylie’s positive attitude! She’s so beautiful, a natural beauty, she’s just got this glow about her and her smile goes all the way to her eyes! I love her style as well. Her decorating is always so warm and inviting! Loved this Q&A ‼️
@lillipad35032 жыл бұрын
Kylie is simply the BEST. My granddaughter is Kayleen, but we call her Keili too.
@pearlydiamond2 жыл бұрын
It was like meant to be with Kylie and her lifestyle. Without kids she gets to enjoy her time with her parents on both sides all while still being surrounded with the love of her siblings. You never have to experience baby fever because there's so much love in youth of all ages to go around. She gets the energy to live her best life sharing her gifts and joy through her talents. You can see what a blessing she has become.
@Choleh222 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy to me that when I first started watching Crazy Middles, Kylie was so shy and didn’t want to be on camera ! Crazy how a couple years changed that, I love her personality
@Joseph-zd7kg2 жыл бұрын
She is such a down to earth person. Love her personality
@phoebebuffay15662 жыл бұрын
omg i totally relate to kylie on the not wanting to have my own kids. like i love kids, i just don't want them for myself, lol. i've always known as well. i LOVE that kylie is open about this!
@koala68422 жыл бұрын
Having no child of your own doesn't make you less of a person. Kylie is awesome as is! Your body, your family, your choice 👍
@kumquatmanager57992 жыл бұрын
I've really loved watching Kylie come around to social media. She's so much fun to watch!!
@susiesantino56252 жыл бұрын
Kylie's laugh is so cute! Your guys relationship is so lovely and it's great her parents put the child first not pettiness.
@cherryramos83662 жыл бұрын
Added questions please: How much of your interior design taste is in Shelly's house and how much is Shelly's and Jared's? Where do the decors go after each season? Love from the Philippines
@joni52432 жыл бұрын
I just love Kylie! She is such a sweet caring person.
@melissamagby69422 жыл бұрын
My husband never wanted kids of his own but for the last 10 years we have been married he has stepped up and been the best role model for my 2 boys. My boys bio choose not to have a relationship with them anymore when they were 8 and 10 years old. They are now 18 and 20 and consider my husband their dad
@joanneforrest18302 жыл бұрын
I love Kylie 🥰 I also love the relationship she has with you and her dad and that you respect each other and that has to make life easier for everyone.
@jay-ostar84942 жыл бұрын
It was so great getting to know more about Kylie. She’s so bright and bubbly. I’m so glad so stepped out of her comfort zone and started being on camera. God bless you both.
@kathe.o.2 жыл бұрын
Kylie, you will NEVER be "old now." She is one of the lucky ones, who have the bone structure & skin that just doesn't age. Kylie will forever be the BIG SISTER. Her kids have 4 paws 🐾.
@sarabrown26632 жыл бұрын
“It never felt weird cause it always felt right” -Kylie. I LOVE that!!!
@maradavidsvlogs81572 жыл бұрын
I love Kylie, I think Kylie and I have the same mindset just to capture moments and memories to look back at for her is her works on her home. I always told myself when If I have kids, I'll capture most of everything and keep it as memories for them to look back at when they're grown.
@nicolebroaddus42252 жыл бұрын
Your test person ever Kylie. I mean it, I've never seen someone so positive as you are. I love it, much love to you and your family.
@sofie32332 жыл бұрын
Best not test
@NeverEverAlexEver2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always found it so weird how they would say Kylie didn’t want to be on camera or on the channel… when she’s SUCH A NATURAL ON CAMERA. I wasn’t expecting the kind of personality she has based on the way it was said. I thought she’d be far more reserved. She has such an infectious (and dorky) way about her. Very fun! You want to be friends with her! You would never know she was outside of her comfort zone!
@KrissiCreates2 жыл бұрын
What a great video ! I love hearing and learning more about Kylie. She's such a beautiful mix of her parents, after seeing her Dad in one of her DIY videos. Such a joy to watch her and see her excitement over all she does. Love and hugs from a Kansas Grandma ❤️
@chrisgortonuk2 жыл бұрын
Hi! I've watched your channel for about 2 years and I love it! I love how positive you are!
@authorlydiagreen18622 жыл бұрын
Kylie, you are amazing. You have been blessed with a wonderful husband and siblings and your happiness just beams like the sunshine. Keep being the amazing young lady you are. God bless you.
@asbpo732 жыл бұрын
Kylie is beautiful, and she gets it from her lovely mom!
@laurablanco32412 жыл бұрын
I wish i had Kylie’s attitude! she seems so happy and positive all the time! 🤗
@ninamarsuello25672 жыл бұрын
I love this vlog so much. I can really see how close your bond is even though you lived far from her for some years. And I so love that Kylie decided to be on camera now because she is such a ball of energy 💖💖💖
@alisonbarnes47732 жыл бұрын
Love y’all’s mom and daughter relationship 🥰❤️
@SRHS832 жыл бұрын
It just means you and Mark are the best Aunt and Uncle ever. You get to spoil all of them. LOL
@molls1272 жыл бұрын
they aren’t aunt and uncle tho they are sister and brother-in-law. they are aunt and uncle to koda and also lacey’s baby
@andreabag112 жыл бұрын
Kylie is amazing, sweet, funny, positive and DIY Queen. I really love her and wish her and Mark best in their live. I also love how she is still looking for something new and is full of energy.
@deborahwolff55982 жыл бұрын
Loved learning more about Kylie! She is a natural in front of the camera. The two of you have so much love for each other. Kylie could do beauty videos also - she could call them Beauty and The Builder! You both are great!
@HowCaseySeesIt2 жыл бұрын
Kylie is such an angel. Such a sweet and happy soul! I loved the advice she gave.
@nandinos2 жыл бұрын
This was so much fun! Kylie is such a lovely human being!
@daphne101202 жыл бұрын
I love Kylie! She has such a beautiful heart and seems like such an awesome person.
@chelsie_h38772 жыл бұрын
Just casually dating 2 people 🤣 I need to know Jared’s reactions to that lol
@MB-gb2zp2 жыл бұрын
It's not that unusual to date more than one person at a time dating and being in a relationship are two very different things as well
@mjtraggis41392 жыл бұрын
I remember a CM vlog about the older kids and it was mentioned that Kylie didn’t like being on camera. SO GLAD you went out of your comfort zone! You REALLY need an HGTV show. 💕
@hufflepuffwannabe2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that you mentioned that your interests changed over the years like how you did not used to enjoy working with your hands. I like the idea that we can change and our interests don't have to be in line with consistency
@kameshnigovender88072 жыл бұрын
Kylie is such a sweetheart. I love her character and creativity! ❤️🇿🇦
@amymartin1202 жыл бұрын
I just love Kylie so much. She has the best energy. Thanks for the Q&A.💜
@nevsgreens2 жыл бұрын
i love that we are finally getting to see more of her !
@paulettajohnson83262 жыл бұрын
I love Kylie! She is so inspiring. I love her personality and positivity! She is a great big sister to all the kids and you can tell how much they all love her!
@Hamsyong2 жыл бұрын
Kylie, thank you for that great advice it helps me to stop overthinking. And realize that they're just thoughts, and most of the times aren't the reality.
@davisje08202 жыл бұрын
Awe, I’d love to meet Kylie’s dad. He sounds like a great guy
@Djscartoonuniverse2 жыл бұрын
He does appear on her channel
@nonondriessen2 жыл бұрын
You can see him on her channel in a DIY project.
@bigbiemacaw2 жыл бұрын
hes on her channel. he comes across like a big teddy bare
@nonondriessen2 жыл бұрын
@@bigbiemacaw he even reminds of Jared. Kylie is having the love of her dad and step dad.
@crazychaoticlife94382 жыл бұрын
Kylie is so amazing & she has such a beautiful smile!!! She is so kind & caring. She’s a WONDERFUL big sister!!!!!
@findmeintime11 ай бұрын
Grammy's "A thought brought it, a thought can change it" harks to the idea that a thought becomes your words and words become your actions. If the actions/outcomes are not desireable then a thought can change that..
@5331342 жыл бұрын
She’s so pretty and looks just like Shelly!
@ameliaabrams48399 күн бұрын
My best friend is 41 has no kids she loves travel and fashion and spoiling her nieces and nephews so I applaud people who are living their best life and choose to do so with no kids
@livsephton92 жыл бұрын
I agree with Kylie, I work with kids in a youth club and I am planning on becoming a teacher but as of right now I don't have any plans to have kids of my own
@Rxcki_Introvert2 жыл бұрын
Aww I love Kylie she’s such a bubbly sweet person she so reminds me of Scarlett johanson
@crazychaoticlife94382 жыл бұрын
The way Shelly looks at Kylie! 😍
@lisapully92742 жыл бұрын
This was so much fun! Thank you for her interview... Thanks for answering all the questions.
@nikkih6392 жыл бұрын
So glad we got to learn more about Kylie and get one on one time with her. Love her positive vibes and what a great soul she has. About the not having kids thing. There's nothing wrong with that. I don't want to have kids either and people have always been like it's such a loss, you're so great with kids, and you were born to be a mother. For me I come from a complicated family I raised my brother most of his life and I ended up raising some of my cousins throughout the years as well because of family situations. I was in high school with my baby cousin sleeping in my room helping take care of him. So now I feel like I'm good, you know been there did that. My brothers turning 25 this year and he has a really successful life. A fancy degree I can't pronounce and a great job and a girl friend he loves with solid plans for his future so I feel like I'm like mostly retired now. He's good. One of the cousins I raised just graduated high school and got a great job. I feel like I already raised children and I'm done. Plus if i ever did have children i adopt or foster because there are already enough kids out there who need good homes. I was a foster kid myself so its always been important to me and stayed close to my heart. Its why i love the crazy channels so much and everything you guys stand for and do for all these amazing kids. Also my dogs are also my children too. I love them so much!!!
@rebeccafoltz63902 жыл бұрын
Kylie you are my favorite, I was laughing so hard when Lacey told her she was pregnant because her reaction was exactly how I would react and it’s Hilarious! My husband makes fun of me because when my daughter went to science camp I lost it and he asked me what’s wrong? Why are you crying? I answered I don’t know and I cried at least once a day for three days. Lol he then asked is this how you will react every school year on the first day laughing . My daughter is my best friend so it’s hard for me. She just started high school this year and this was harder than turning 40 especially because she was home for two years. I love Kylie she makes me smile and laugh so hard every time she is in a video. Oh and I would have just moved kind of kidding if a lizard evaded my house I can’t do bugs but that video had me crying from laughing! Please keep being in more videos. You are my smile on a horrible day!
@lillylem2 жыл бұрын
Kylie, you are amazing! Your energy is just a positive force to recon with....I'm so glad you have more interaction with the family. Its probably easier with the family living in Phoenix so yay to that! Oh and your blue eyes just sparkle!
@elainetip67952 жыл бұрын
You are the best divorced parents ever , kylie you are beautiful inside and out ❤️
@sarahdevon93292 жыл бұрын
Shelley you are glowing!! beautiful inside and out and each one of your kids have that same glow may god bless you and your beautiful family
@arianav46272 жыл бұрын
It is so nice getting to know Kylie more!! I love her personality!! 💕💕💕
@scrappingscootergirl2 жыл бұрын
First of all, I love that photo!! You are beautiful! Shelly where did you get the heart holder thing on the back of your phone? Glad that there was no pressure or animosity making you choose between your parents! I love Kylie so much, she is awesome! My favourite Kylie quote ever "It never felt weird because it always felt right"!! I don't think you need to justify why you don't have or want kids! Its your life, your choice! Love Kylie's kind loving fun relationship with Jared!
@carriemoench35452 жыл бұрын
What a nice, loving relationship Shelley and Kylie have as mother and daughter, and best friends! Kylie, has bubbly personality like her mother. Love your video content Kylie.. wtg! God bless you and your husband. You are a vert talented person. Sending 🤗 ..CarrieJo
@hayleyt97492 жыл бұрын
I'm the youngest of 2 on my Mum's side and the 4th oldest of 10 on my Dad's side, with 4 half siblings and 4 step siblings. So I kind of relate to Kylie's comment about the split life thing😁 Loved this Q&A, Kylie always seems so fun and passionate about everything she does!☺️
@bigbiemacaw2 жыл бұрын
I didn't want kids till i got pregnant and had a still birth, then all of a sudden it became the most important thing in our lives, we had lots of miscarriage's 19 between Saul who was my 1st still born then after all that we gave up, then as soon as we stopped trying i got pregnant with the strongest little mite, she was so premature born at 7 months very similar to her brother but she came out fighting for her life, she never lost weight she just grew, all that time seems to have gone so fast shes 19 now almost 20 but she's the best,.. id have loved all my kids, ok yes some never would have been conceived because i would have been pregnant, sad but we still feel blessed with the 1 surviving child. Rip to my flock of my lambs
@kellybroady63782 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that is so much heartache 💔 glad you got your baby girl (let's be honest she will always be your baby) bless you!
@tjmunroe26152 жыл бұрын
Sorry you went through all that
@Tia.H2 жыл бұрын
My condolences to you and your partner for your losses! I can't even begin to imagine the pain you and your partner endured! I am glad that you've got your miracle baby, though. She sounds like she's the apple of your eye and so she should be!
@bigbiemacaw2 жыл бұрын
@@Tia.H @Kelly Broady @TJ Munroe it was a lot at the time but again with time we heal some, I often wonder about Saul most of all as i got to see him and hold him, but I'm super proud of Abbie , yes even with her 6 foot height she'll always be my tiny tiny baby, i could hold her in the palm of my hand at the start. Thank you all the ppl who follow the crazy channels are such lovely followers, i can only hope to grow half as nice a community on my channel, i'm here trying to learn the art of editing and omg its not easy,. If you like parrots living there best lives come give us a sub, there's only a few shorts atm but once i figure out this editing business ill be uploading flight & care videos
@katiemilwaukee40502 жыл бұрын
i can’t imagine going through what you have been through. you are so strong, your precious babies will be with you forever. ♥️
@jls25692 жыл бұрын
The advice your Grammy gave was great. So going to remember that!
@vanessavanderkramer65882 жыл бұрын
Lovely Q & A with Kylie and so nice to hear her thoughts on so many topics. I love her own channel and have been inspired to make a lovely autumn display in the entry hall of my apartment and autumn cushions for the lounge after watching her decorate her front porch, which is beautiful by the way. Yes, I would love so beauty tips also even though my skin is considerably older than either of you. Xxxxxx
@SnailWhales2 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who never wanted kids and got a surprise at age 40 and then a couple years later said having her child was the best thing ever. She wished she had known younger in life so she could have more.
@cinramirez86272 жыл бұрын
Kylie speaks with her hands! Lol My fiancé does the same, and folks who pass us up while driving, probably think that we are in some heated argument haha He’s just explaining the next DIY! 🤦🏻♀️🤗
@annadoyle71252 жыл бұрын
I'm exactly the same. I work in a school as a teachers aide ( we call them Learning Support Assistants in the UK) and I love working with kids but don't want any of my own
@marilynhilman55222 жыл бұрын
Kylie is such a beautiful woman both inside and out. My youngest son is now 42 and has never wanted children, again he is so good with them but doesn't want his own. His wife has accepted this and works with small children every day.
@Jesuscalmsthestorm2 жыл бұрын
Kylie is such a beautiful soul inside and out! I love her smile
@allisonmoore11922 жыл бұрын
Kylie is a delight! I would watch anything she puts on her channel. I'm here for it all!
@idkjillian2 жыл бұрын
My sister is 12 years older than me and we have the best relationship! That’s my best friend for life ❤️
@evamack66502 жыл бұрын
Kylie is awesome! Love watching your videos!!
@halestormbaby32002 жыл бұрын
We love you kylie and support any and all content you put out! it never fails to put a smile on our faces and or teach/show us something fun or interesting! we just love you!! love this q&a!
@donnaevans20052 жыл бұрын
Kylie is so sweet! Thanks for letting us get to know her better through questions.
@pnwlaf2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this Q&A very much. I especially like your decorating ideas but also enjoy watching Kylie's diy projects come to life. I have 4 grand-dogs but it would be hard to pick a favorite. Being a mix of Australian Shepherd and Blue Heeler I imagine that Truffles is a busy doggo.
@kaylaangrand18682 жыл бұрын
Kylie’s so pretty,hardworking.such a wonderful and great person ❤️ your channel.Kylie looks so much like you Shelly,such a great sibling,aunt
@michellesteffen63322 жыл бұрын
Love you guys so much since I found you guys a year ago... I'm glad you are closer to Kylie but we still miss destiny. Gracie sounds like food you say grace before you eat if your catholic, Lutheran. Not trying to bring religion into it but love it.
@hizgrase2 жыл бұрын
I miss destiny too.
@karolmiller69842 жыл бұрын
I love watching both channels. Can't wait to see how you decorate for Christmas
@nonondriessen2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Shelly and Kylie and being so open, as always. In fact, when we watch your vlogs with attention we already knew the answers. Good on you Kylie to get out of your comfort zone. Your family is a great example of edu-taining influencing. Love and Respect!🥰 Btw: I highly recommend the subscribers watching the old vlogs!!
@jillroosa45392 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love getting to know more about Kylie she is amazing and very talented ❤
@shoelshickov2 жыл бұрын
Greetings from Argentina!!! South América Love your family!!! 💕
@margaretwhitehead48022 жыл бұрын
Can you have interviews with all the older kids?would love to catch up with all of them
@nataliebartolone89012 жыл бұрын
You guys make me so happy
@hellurmoto31632 жыл бұрын
Kylie absolutely is naturally beautiful and I love that she just looks great and oh, totally glowing!!!! I wear make up to hide my imperfections and today i wont wear any or maybe just do my lashes 👍👍
@sarahlangham6352 жыл бұрын
I have the same attitude on having kids- I had my daughter when I was 17 and I love her dearly, she’s 23 now and my best friend, but I never had the desire to have more. My husband who I met when my daughter was 4, was totally content with only having her as well. We are now 41 and empty nesters and loving life with no littles. I do love to snuggle others babies and I can’t wait for grandkids (if she chooses to have them). :)
@patriciakromrei54662 жыл бұрын
LOVE YA KYLIE, you are a great builder, designer & person in general.
@lejindaryjams2 жыл бұрын
Kylie is so so pretty! And a fun person to watch 🥰
@lynnesawri28052 жыл бұрын
Love love watching you two together such positive energy and fun. Enjoyed hearing Kylie’s answers and getting to know here better. ❤️
@sandywessalowski26652 жыл бұрын
I loved this Q&A. My best friend is the same way about not wanting kids. From the age of 25 she asked her doctor every year to get her tunes tied. Finally at the age of 30 she got them tied. People that don't know her well always think she was convinced by her husband to not have kids. We've been friends since junior high and now we are 45 she has always felt that way. It is not for everyone and that is fine. Me on the other hand always wanted kids and did not achieve that biologically. Since my husband and I were going back and forth between counties it was really in the cards for us to adopt. We have considered it! I love watching both your vlogs. You two are always so fun together.
@chukwumaadrianofrancisco5662 жыл бұрын
I agree with Kylie about having kids. I also don't plan on having kids or possibly even getting married.
@chrisswindells73402 жыл бұрын
Kylie is the best. Always such a happy go lucky person, Extremely talented. I love all her DIY’s. Thanks so much for sharing. That was so fun. 🤗