"There is a cost to that"... I think it's near impossible to calculate the cost - or rather the savings - of not leaving people behind in poverty. When everyone has a good life and a decent living standard the whole country blossoms.

20 years in my country and she still doesn´t have a clue of things here. We must be more mysterious than I thought.

We mostly use the Jante Law to kick upwards. Not so much downwards.

I think this conversation explains a lot about why Americans are often less liked than ‘other people’. Every trait in the Danish culture is compared to American culture as if latter is a kind of baseline. And in doing so, making a lot of far-fetched conclusions.

I wouldn't say I ever had a bad experience with customer service in Denmark. I'm Danish myself, so I understand the nuances in the language. Most Danes try to be friendly with one another. Sometimes you might have a bad experience in a clothes shop, but it's mostly very young employees.

We do have customer service here in Denmark, you will just have to ask for it. I actually hate to go to a shop where the clerk follow me around, or keep an eye on me the whole time. I feel like a criminal or i have done something wrong 😅 I think it it is really normal in Denmark to ask for help from a clerk if u want help and then they will do evrything they can to help you to find the thing u need. And if i go out to eat with friends and family it is because i want to have a good time, talking and use quality time with them and not a waiter. I find it annoying if the waiter is hovering around me and asking me if evrything is okay evry 10 sec. So i actually like it how it is 😁 And another thing is, that in Denmark you actually get a good wage so u dont have to kiss butt to get a good tip to get food on the table.

As a dane, this was 57 minutes of absolute nonsense.

A caricature of Denmark from a caricature of an American

Selling books about how it is in Denmark, that doesn't mean you actually got a clue. It just means you're good at marketing.

With its 5,894,687 inhabitants (according to the latest estimate from the CIA World Factbook), Denmark has won one medal per 535,880 inhabitants. In comparison, Russia has won one medal per 2,004,518 inhabitants, the USA has won one medal per 2,964,588 inhabitants, while China has "only" won one medal per 15,885,201 inhabitants. So even though the Danes are not so competitive in sports, we still manage very well and we have fun in the meantime.

I think so many Swedes working in Denmark is only partly explained by the currency difference, as many Swedes worked in Denmark before the recent rise in the value of the Danish crowns. I think it is better explained by Denmark having a much more flexible employment market. It is way easier to fire people in Denmark than in Sweden, and therefore employers are much more willing to take a chance and hire somebody they are not 100% sure about. Denmark have a so called Flexsecurity system where it is easy to fire people, but we also have fairly generous unemployment benefits.

Interesting to hear. I am a swede living in DK since 20 years. I recognize many things that you say. Also the swedes doesn't like 'bragging' in the 'american' way and talking with a loud voice or all the time without pauses. Even in your own garden, you keep your voice low and don't play music outside, not to disturb your neigbours. You don't interrupt anyone speaking. A thing that has changed here especially after Covid is, that I often find myself in conversations with strangers in all type of situations from meeting somebody when taking a walk, on the train, in the shop etc. - also sometimes ending up in deep and interesting conversations or just having a laugh together. I think it is very valuable to start to learn danish as soon as you move here. You can have up to 3 years of personalized, high quality full time studies for free close to where you live. It ends with a very formal exam with grades. Very usable if you want to study or work here. Doing that, is very well seen and appreciated and opens many doors. Danish is extremely difficult language to learn to talk, if you arn't very young. In some cases you also can get economical support during that time to be able to focus on your studies. But I think that you must start your danish studies within 3 months after moving here to get it for free. English of course is always working also in many work places, because the danes speak english very well, but mostly with a strong danish accent. Neither I, have had any problems with custum service here. Yes, I agree that people are friendly and patient even if there are some language difficulties or confusions leading to misunderstandings, just that I do my best to be understood and be kind. I don't agree with you, that 'danes' talk and act in a flat manner'. That is really an interpretatoin from your personal side or american conditioning, not catching the nyances of verbal and non-verbal expressions. There are clear nuances but sometimes subtle. You have to learn the 'tone' they use, to catch if they are glad for, dissatisfied or hurt with something you say. You learn that in The School for Forengers. They can express anger very direct and especially the younger generation are more expressive emotionally. The oldest generation are keeping what they mean more tight to the skin. You don't talk about money or politics if you don't know the other very well or' have a sense', that they mainly agree with your views. It is important to show respect for others views in the way you respond to what they say. To do that is a high way universally is my experience. There are clear differences if you live in West Jutland or Copenhagen area. I love this country and am greatful for the security and help we can get here when in need, even if I have to pay 8% more in taxes here then i Sweden and the cars are extremely expensive. Normal full time week day work is 37 hours/week. If you work evenings/nights/weekends you often work less week hours total. It is not expected to work extra without being compensated extra economically. The 'rush transport hours' are 7-8 and 15 - 16. After that you see people in food shops, fitness, or just at home. PS! Here it is time for a 'lagkage' (a cake) when you have something to celebrate or you are sad - when you meet, get back from a holliday, birthday, see a friend, a success .... Yes they can drink a strong beer late afternoon together before leaving the job, especially at manual jobs. I think people drink less and less and if and how you do it is depending on the sub culture which you are around. 20 years ago many were smoking. Now only few do. You 'underdress' or better said dress relaxed also in 'white colar jobs'. 🌍🍰❤

I cant really agree on the i only have 8 chair's so i can only feed 8 people, that is not how we do it where i come from, and i am from Fyn in Dennark. If someone ask if they can bring a person or pesons it would be a yes, because i will always have room for more people, it is no problem we just put more plates on the table and find another chair and maybe be a little more crammed together. And i grew op with the saying "hvor der er hjerterum er der husrum" translated directly it means, Where there is heart room there is house room or more correctly where there is space in the heart there is space in the house. And the thing about not giving Kids dinner if they are playing with my kid is not because i dont want to feed other Kids if they are playing with my kid, but the Kids parents are probably waiting with dinner when they get home so it would be totally rude of me if the kid already ate and cant eat anything when they go home for dinner, so it has nothing to do with me not having enough food, but it is really normal to eat dinner together with your family in Denmark so we expect the kid to eat when they get home. I of course also have my Kids friends eating here, but then they would have to call their parents and ask if it is okay that they eat here so the parents dont expect them for dinner at home 😊

I think there is one thing people forget, when they talk about 'hygge'. It is a concept in use throughout the year, but the main reason it arose at all is because of the dark winter. That is when we turn our houses into 'hyggelige' (cozy) places. Personally I love every season, and I don't long for the summer and the light when it is winter, but enjoy the winter and the darkness while it is there. I think every season are special and I think we are lucky to have them all.

To me you describe Denmark from what I as a Dane have as stereo types of copenhagen....

I am from New Zealand and have lived in Denmark for 27 years. I have also lived in America for 6 months and have family there. I enjoyed visiting USA but wouldn’t want to live there again. I didn’t feel safe at all. Service in restaurants or shops was annoying in USA, particularly in restaurants where they never let you relax and enjoy your meal. They rushed you because obviously they got more tips with more customers. Even on fortidspension ( I have Parkinson’s and stopped working as a nurse 2 years ago), I can still afford to eat at restaurants and travel. As a single parent I raised 4 kids now adults, all got university education paid for by taxes. One of my kids, now adult, is disabled and sits in a wheelchair but lives alone (just got married so now lives with wife), has a degree from university and teaches. He has paid help 16 hours a day thanks to our taxes. That would never happen in USA or NZ. My life would have been very different in USA or NZ. Yes young teenagers drink a lot but most Danes enjoy alcohol without getting drunk in advance as she said. Danes complain about things much as in a family everyone complains about their family but no Dane I have ever met would want a system like USA. Just recently the government proposed tax reductions and the majority of Danes were against it. Do you speak Danish because it seems to me a lot of your views on Denmark are not accurate However I do agree dinner parties are usually more formal and there are more rules around food, particularly Christmas or formal parties. I found that fireworks was the thing that freaked me out the most. Particularly New Year’s in Copenhagen. The way children are raised and approach to showing kids how to kill animals is similar in NZ. Thankfully nudity was pretty normal at home in NZ and that wasn’t a problem for me moving to Denmark. I love it here and have a much better quality of life here than in NZ. Wages are great here and I couldn’t afford to live in USA or NZ. I would not want to live anywhere but Denmark

I highly disagree with Kay in terms of “indifferent” attitude towards customer service. Customer service is also leaving your customers to have a good time in the company theyre in. When I go to a restaurant to eat, I also want to share a meal with friends/family without having to talk to a stranger who grovels for tips, assuring him every ten minutes, that everything is fine. I’m there for me. Not to support him and his family. Janteloven is also supportive in the sense that everyone in a company is encouraged to share ideas. If an idea is really good for the entire company and workforce, does it really matter if the janitor came up with it? In terms of friends … I wouldn’t necessarily say danes are difficult to befriend. I might be biased. After all … I am born into the culture. 😉 But unlike a lot of other countries, danes have a very tight friend group. A lot of us knows our friends from kindergarten, and stay close throughout our lives. So we have friends we’ve known for a very long time. And sadly … the thing about being a newcomer to a group … very hard to get “admitted”. So Kay is probably more right about that. But … once you’re “let in”, you often have a fiercely loyal friend for life. Who will defend you to the death. One of the favorite passtimes in Denmark is complaining. Are you really danish if you don’t complain - sort of thing. 😂 We are well aware of things not being perfect. And until it’s changed - we complain. 😂

Robert Greene's The 48 Laws of Power gives the impression of being serious and universal. "Janteloven" was meant as satire. Danish students can study wherever in the world they want-still financed [by the government]. You pay back later through taxes.

I find it interesting, that since I left school 30 years ago, I have never heard the word jante lov, unless it is in these youtube videos about Denmark... I wonder who you talk to. Have you seen how much individualists teens in Denmark are today? They may not be bragging about things, but there is deffently a "Me! What I want! Dont care bout the group" (both in positive and negative ways)

Kay is fascinating and I loved how honest she was. I’m going to Denmark and this helped

I'm 8 minutes in this interview and already I'm thinking WTF? Does this woman understand danish culture and mentality at all? I haven't read her books or heard her podcasts, but I sit here with a feeling of not really wanting to because of the lack of insight she have demonstrated within the first 8 minutes...... Sorry

Great video. Very informative!

Strange, she mentioned the Swedes as the “big brother”. In fact, it is the other way around and have been since the Viking age. From the Viking, we have learned that the Norwegians were violent once. They picked up a fight quite fast. The Swedes were the complete opposite. They didn't fight much, they were content in just a little. Kind of lazy, actually. The Danes were the clever brother, used their brains before going into a fight. Danes were the brains of the Vikings, Norwegians were the muscles. Swedes, the “boring” and a little useless brother, but he is our brother and still are. Have a look at the history. Time after time you can see the Swedes just copying Denmark, and they still do. The big one: Social Democracy. Denmark 1871, Sweden 1889. The complete Swedish system is a copy of the Danish. BTW, Germany copied it via Willy Brandt, Austria via Bruno Kreisky, Spain from Willy Brandt. Sweden is just a copycat, waiting to see what will Denmark do? I am fine with it, but don't make people think that Sweden is “Big Brother” here in Scandinavia. There is a reason why Denmark is way richer than Sweden per capita. We are the "Big Brother" and we still use our brain.

95% I agree as a Dane on what she say, I will however nuance some of the things, about really rich people with a lot of success like Elon Musk, we do have a lot of those think of LEGO, MÆRSK ect. it's very wealthy families that Danes are very proud of, there are people doing great in sports we are proud of, Restaurants getting prizes ect., the difference is we don't like if they think they are better, having more value as a person, but we do celebrate their success, we don't like bragging as she said and we don't like if when people think they are better if they have a certain job, that certainly not mean there aren't people who are and see themselves as part of an elite they just better not say it out loud. About drinking I agree there is a drinking culture and some people drink way too much, it is however important to know it is far far far from everybody, in my close family and among friends there are no heavy drinkers they actually rarely drink, same thing with hook ups yes there are a certain segment of the population who have a lot of one night stands but that is as mentioned a segment not the majority, way less than there are people who drink a lot, about nudity it has changed a lot the last 30 years a lot of people aren't comfortable with nudity and it's not only Muslims it's in general

I wonder why Americans think that Danes drink more alcohol than the Americans. According to the UN health organization WHO Denmark ranks as number 35 in the world when it comes to consumption of alcohol per capita. USA and Denmark are on the same level. I have visited the USA several times and stayed there all together more than 3 years. I have seen so many drunken Americans and the more I see of that and the drug abuse in the USA I wonder from where the Americans have got the prejudice that alcohol consumption is much higher in Denmark than in the USA.

excellent interview. enjoyed watching. thank you,

As an American (Puerto Rican) living in Denmark for 16 years, and the amount of ignorant generalizations is a theme throughout this video. Also the the way you describe the country, comes off with a lot of disdain. I couldn't think of a worst person to advise Americans coming to Denmark

As a Scottish woman who married a German and been here in Germany half my life I’ve forgotten my roots a lot but I’m fascinated by different cultures. I hope there’s a show about Scottish culture one time. Scotland seems to have a mixture of Anglo Saxon and Scandinavian aspects. Shy people who drink to overcome it and definitely the don’t get too big for your boots culture. I remember all my Scottish boyfriends were shy too.

To say that there are "13 year olds rolling around the streets drunk out of their minds" is a wild exaggeration. Sure we might have tasted beer at that age but getting drunk at that age will lift eye brows here ad well. We do have very excessive drinking compared to other countries around us and it IS a problem for sure. But lets not blow things out of proportion thank you very much. I wonder where she lives and what realities she is faced with on a daily...

Regarding sports, we do have some fairly competitive soccer academies for a country of our size, but I guess that there is a difference between elite sports and normal sports.

as someone who lived and worked in usa i am happy for my experience living in the usa, and i went back to denmark after 3 years, and i was glad to ho back home, i was glad for theyears living in the usa, it gave a lot of good for my life.

Aahaa ha,. the danish krone is a little. stronger than the swedish ?, understatement of the day, 1 swedish krona is 0,,64 dkr today.

ROFLMAO, Denmark is supposed to have low alcohol prices. I went there for a new years trip and we crossed the border to germany to buy beer at a german gas station (~50% increase on the sales price for items), but ended up paying less than in a supermarket in denmark.

This highlights the reality that culture is more than just flags, food and sartorial sense. It is very much about perspective and attitude. And it can be nuanced to the point of concealment until a pivotal moment arises. Kay notes that much has changed in Denmark and her homeland, the USA. As with the various countries in which I have lived it is probable that little if any change at the societal level has been for the good. The reason? The growing sense of entitlement, itself a plague on any culture. My only experience with Denmark is a day spent in Copenhagen. I loved it and look forward to getting back. Thank you for your enlightening exchange. As a marketer I pulled from it some interesting points.

As a Dane, it's such a relief to hear a balanced, informed, healthy discussion about Scandinavian culture. No, it's not a paradise here; and it's not a socialist living hell either. I follow American news quite a lot, and I hardly recognize my own country in the very internal American debates where Scandinavian countries are portrayed as either a paradise or a terrible example - I often feel sort of used in that context. Your discussion has real curiosity and nuance; thank you🙂 - Oh, and yeah, I think you are spot on all points; also the ones that are less comfortable to hear.

Entertaining, but not true. One could argue that everything she says starts as truth; it's the dramatization and interpretation of reality that renders it untrue. If one watches this video without knowing the country, they would end up with a misleading impression. The first half is largely incorrect, while the second half seems more accurate, though not entirely. The aspects that are depicted accurately are exaggerated to the extent that the truth is abandoned, making the video suitable only for entertainment, not as a factual representation. Many of the points that are actually true could be seen as positive attributes if they were presented without the American dramatization and deliberate distortion of facts. However, with the distortion, they are negatively charged. One thing that is most accurately portrayed is the darkness and cold during the winter months, and that service in shops is worse in Denmark than in Sweden. I haven't been to the USA, but I hold a very positive preconceived notion about Americans and their culture. This is because I do not dwell on every negative detail I know or have heard about, but rather focus on what I perceive to be most prevalent. It seems that she adopts the opposite approach in order to produce the kind of sensationalist and dramatic content that is typical of American media. Just saying...

Regarding the 'brok' ( complaining ) i think its mostly about optimizing. We have all the infrastructure, and trained people. So why the waiting list, and lost time, to get things done. We ARE very practical people, and we know we CAN HAVE IT ALL, so it frustrates us when we dont! We have spilled blood, sweat and tears for MANY years, to have our society. We are a proud nation. If we fall we catch each other. We work to live, not the other way around. Yes, you are giving trust, but that dosnt mean you are ' in the circle. Danes are not shy, we are humble. Compared to other countries, we know the world doesn't revolve around us. And thats okay, if you dont like the smell in the bakery, just leave. ❤

Fantastic VLOG! I´m Danish and have followed "Kay" for years. Super Kay fan! Of course not all Danes are the same, but Kay usually hits the mark about us and our culture !Being it good or bad 🙄 ! Kay has been in DK for more than 20 years. She knows us and knows what she´s talking about 👍 ! I may not agree with everything, but I do respect her and - mostly - she is spot on and gets us Danes right ! As I said..., Good or Bad 😲 PS: As a man, I totally loved the comments about "Gender roles"! So F..king true 😁 !

As a Dane, I think that there is a lot of truth in this... I get annoyed by overeager customer service. BTW the dutch sociologist Geert Hofstede provides a framework that helped me understand the differences between the cultures that I met while living abroad.

When the GDPR was first implemented here in Sweden we had to remove every picture of the kids at the preschool. We started documenting "hands and feet", basically if the kids were playing with LEGO we'd zoom in on the hands. What we ended up with was 3-5 years of kids not having memories of their lives at the preschool. Sickening really because kids generally don't have memories from the years before 5-6 years of age. Good job, EU. 😡

She is nice.... Love from Denmark. Love u both....

Her comment about costumer service is completeyly bull, I'm a dane myself and have travelled to 60+ countries and can tell you that costumer service is rare to find in any place, even in the US

Look up "Average number of medals won per capita at the Summer Olympics from 1896 to 2020"... The US is far behind Denmark in that statistics

Not being that competitive we still have managed to be the Home of the largest Toy Company in the world: LEGO. One of the largest Transport Businesses: Maersk. One of the largest Brewery Groups: Carlsberg and several other well known Danish Companies!!! We are building amazing Transport systems like the new Tunnel to Germany, without any German help and the possible profit will be all Danish. And as a German Engineer told a Dane during a Premeeting for the Tunnel: For Germany this will be the Tunnel of a Century! For Denmark, just another Tunnel, Bridge.

Bad customer service is primarily a Copenhagen problem. E.g. Jutland is much more service-oriented.

As a dane, I think most of it is spot on.

Very interesting... Am I the only one who considered starting to count how many times she said that 😂

Gosh I could swap the word “Denmark” for “Provincial New Zealand” and nearly everything she mentioned would be true

Thanks for an interesting interview! I could recognize many things, and I was impressed that Kay has such an accurate understanding of the differences between Denmark and Sweden. Also yes, the energy in the US is amazing, and very different from that in Europe in general. That said, I think some things that are described as "Danish" are perhaps more about one specific Danish social class. A big class, but not all Danes, more like a third of them. And it doesn't have a lot to do with money. You can be a CEO of a global company and still be middle class in your habits and mores. And you can be a relatively poor fisherman and have a strong deep rooted culture that is very different from the one that is most obvious. The thing is that as a foreigner, you will probably never get to meet the other Danes and not at all get insight into their private lives. But that is the same in Italy and France (at least Paris) and probably countries I know less about. To be honest, there are some of the things that you talk about that I know exist, but that I have never encountered in real life. For one, in my circle of friends and parents at the local school it was a common saying that as a parent you could never know if you had zero kids for dinner or six -- because the children were always roaming about in groups and no-one knew in advance where they would end up eating. Sometimes the parents would come/go over too. Mirroring your experience of the Danish dating scene is mine of the situation in the US. I seriously never figured out how it worked! There are so many rules and stages that were impossible to understand as an outsider. I guess that is why this is such a good cross-cultural podcast. A small thing: the stories about the kids in prams outside cafés are nearly 30 years old, and back then it really was a normal thing. At some cafés you would see several prams outside while the mothers spent some time together indoors. Children sleep very well outdoors. There are several reason for why that changed, but I won't say crime was a big factor at all. One factor was that first Copenhagen and then the four other bigger cities changed dramatically after 1996, and after that, the space and atmosphere was not really as accommodating for prams and babies anymore.

About not giving kids visitng friends food at the dinner time. The rationale behind that is quite simple. If not agreed ahead. The kid are supose to go home and eat. Because a parent at home is preparing a dinner at home . not going home to eat = wasting food and THAT is a BIG no-no. So if your kid and the visiting kid both wants the visitng kid to eat. The visitng kid has to call home to get a permission to stay on and eat. The other parent are quite often also calls back and verify its ok. AFTER asking if it is ok to stay on. Because the visiting kid Intrude by "selfinvite" him self to anothers family dinner..

Hehe, I must admit the thing about conflict is not true at all. But I am damaged, I come from a fishertown and we fight about everything.

Bad customer service is a distinctly Copenhagen thing (maybe Aarhus a little bit). Visit the rest of the country and get a very different and much better experience.

I would like to say as a Dane that we do meet in person but its not as common as in other countries. About being social in Denmark their is like a social code we follow so we dont upset each other. You go like like a compliment or comment about the person your interest in. Its important that you state why your their or its considered rude to interrupt someone. Dont go for small talk but do take a interest in people. Your right about it being confusing for guys to date women because of the lack of guidance. My best advice to men is to not care too much what women want because they dont know themselves. Lastly yeah Winther sucks but you get use to it.

20 years and stil clueless

First of all, I'm a Dane... SORRY... I know it can be hard to adopt to a new place, even after 20 years... But I DARE to say, that there is SO much more to Denmark and Danes, outside our capital... I know that we live in a TINY country. But I have lived in some of the most distant places, with the some of the MOST honest, warm and carying people... And yes, you don't get invited... But you invite yourself... Or visit a colleague, after work, and beeing forced to stay for dinner, by their kids... I have been in that situation a LOT of times... Do your kids do that in the US of A? The thing about living in Denmark, I think, is getting down to earth, be honest, and don't talk BS to anyone, or accepting BS from anyone... Take off your filter, whatewer you "THINK", and just enjoy life... I know that we are a bit cold and harsh, sometimes, but we just tell the truth. As a rule, we TRUST, and RESPECT other people, in some cases until proven otherwise...And dispite the law of Jante, we respect peole who made it BIG in this world, but like them not to brag about it... There is no need to... EVERYBODY already knows... Danes might seems cold, anoying and "not caring", but if you get close to us, you might get something in return...

Kæreste means dearest, as in she/he is the dearest to me. You can start letters with Kære (Dear) so and so.

Interesting culture

Am I hearing that right that she lived in NY in her early thirties and has been living for over 20 years in Denmark. Meaning she is now over 50 and dating in Copenhagen"?

We don`t need to be accepted by our new neighbours, why should we be of the same opinion, cause we have chosen the same "road".

Yes, remember the swedish gangmember who got sentenced in Dk for detonating a bomb in København, he began crying when he realized he would have to spend a long time in jail, in opposition to Sweden where gangmembers from muslim countries destabillizes the whole country without punishment.

There is no problem with being better than others if you are a team player because the others in the team feel secure as they know they always have a backing. Those who are less good are often information hiders, they try to hide the little they know as they feel it is their capital. The expert invents new all the time because they know the foundations of their trade. I don’t think Janteloven had as big an influence as earlier, I think it’s the philosophy of Hygge that permeates the society at all levels of our society, from our homes to work culture, to shops, to city milieu.

I am 63, and I have never heard the death penalty joke. It must be a very local joke.

Thank you for saying that our Healthcare is paid for by taxes. It drives me up the wall every time I hear someone call it "free Healthcare". A pet peeve of mine for sure. I know what people mean when they say that but, I still hate it 😂

Iam a dane i agree i 50% of what she is saying

The latest rape law have really hit the male population. Many males are not shy when dating, they are more scared. I would say any woman can get a guy convicted of rape, if they have been in the same bed. The law is very harsh towards the men. You basically need her consent in writing to do some bed gymnastics.

Actually --- about being introvert ? I Can´t for instance be in an elevator with a stranger and not start a conversation. so... not all of us danes are like that :) Just saying

One thing that is not true is about the home design.

🥰 you are wrong 🥰

Yes Danes drink a lot... but they are not the leading country in Europe

Danmark Til Ejderen 🇩🇰🇩🇰🇩🇰

Taylor swift talented 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀ lol / but competing thats why America excels....

forkert-forkert

But one is not going to get close with a Dane, by losing minds to trivial conversations.

About dating culture, but even more. its a hell to live in scandinavia.. everyone is equal! Oh no its not that bad, but its different frome other countrys on the earth! At first its the climate.. hibernating half the year.. go bezerk in summer, one need to adapt to that! Then to sex and relationship.. its kinda liberal in scandinavia.. its more about skin to skin contact to eventualy make it to a long lasting relationship.. its rather a "growing up" experiance! As a single middle age man I did do some "online dating" its often as bad one can think of.. becuse one seldome match up in anything.. exept that one is single and males/femals! Soo I have to complain, half of the femals are better educated and have higher salary, then I have.. they want to meet a male, thats equal.. have the same life expextations!

SHE DONT GET IT when she says we comeplain alot (BROK in danish) it is often with a glimbs in the eyes.. like sarcastic,, we no we have it made.. but its stil fun to complain... we want it to be even better... just chilling with the words ... she takes it way to seriously... sorry for my bad english!!!..

WE dont a lot and smoke grass

Yes wow you can even survive on a Donald job here, think they have to pay 22 $ per hour iin Dk, sorry was that bragging ?

What an unenlightened take.

U make them sound like shy emos that dont really have real money dont like lambos and need alcohol to even move xD ... , good ppl, they literally dont bother anyone...

There`s no utopias in the real world. Everything has pros and cons.

wow, an hour of clueless ranting.

Why Elon Musk was pronounced Elon Moosk ill never know though 😅

So people put in crazy effort to make their homes beautiful, only to rarely ever bring anybody into them? Very odd.

She must sponsored by someone who hates 🙄🇩🇰. She is lost and doesnt have a clue.

Kay doesn't seem happy to live in Denmark at all. Then why live there? (And by the way, she speaks lousy danish). And danish teenagers may be heavy drinkers but they have NO hazing accidents there!

Clueless... wild.

Why do she live here. Its like she hate everything about Denmark. Nu

I totally agree with this American lady.. She's so right about most things.. I hate that we have to hit 4 supermarkets to be semi satisfied. I say semi because i cant relaly find a lot of things i like in Denmark. I dont carw for the sodavand. The chips or crisps if youre English like me. The chocolate is a bit meh.. I miss a lot of stuff from England now, but i only found that out when i was a teen going back to see my family. Engkand has Ben Shaws Cream soda. Dandelion and Burdock and a few lemon and lime sodas that beats the stuff here. They also have crisps like Monster Munch. Salt and Vinegar sticks and Butterkist popcorn that comes in at least 7 flavours. Everything tends ro come in 7-8 flavours in England. Denmark has 1 flavor per brand. Only Pringels seem to have flavours. Popcorn in Denmark is not me as they bore me. In England i cant get enough. Denmark wins on the lose sweets though as they mix flavours up like a mad man. So marshmallow on one side and liquorice on the other is amazing. Same with winegums. UK and US winegums are sweets that makes you want to kill yourself. Its like eating a picture of radioactive Russian farmland. And where's mint Areos or Crunchies.? And why can you get the company fir the price of a chocolate bar in Denmark.? I paid 5 danish kroner for 2 Mars bars at the hotel vending machine in London in the 90's. You couldn't even get 1 in Denmark for 5 kroner at that time.. 2 liter soda in 2017 was 1 pound. Thats 2 liter of my fave soda for 1 quid.. And the rinning around to 4 shops is annoying. You need one shop that you go into and it should be better than Føtex. Lidl. Netto. Fakta and Bilka put together. And the size should be at least 4 Føtex combined. And why danes dont mind shopping daily idk.? I used to get on my bike and shops for a week. If i had a car i would shop for the next 4 weeks. It should be a monthly thing not daily. I get food delivered once a week now. And they hardly have anything a want. But thats the whole country.. HP sauce is 35+ flavours not 2 for christ sake.. And ehetes the fish and chips shop. The indian take away and the chinese.? In England every town with over 10.000 people has these shops within 10 minute walk. Here ive yet to see a take away that has those things. And i came in 1973 for christ sake... So no.. A weird idiotic way of providing things here.. I haven't bern able to have a take away at home for almost 10 years now. And they're 5-10 minutes away in a car. But nobody delivers for some reason..

"Elon Musk" and "Taylor swift" have special talents? I'm not saying we're all the same, but come on, couldn't you have come up with someone who's more interesting than that? haha

Impressive. Having lived in Denmark for 20 years, and still don’t understand danes or their culture. Maybe you should move back to the US… I’m sure they would love to have you

She never left USA? She has absolutely no idea anything about danish culture? What on earth has kept her here???? ******** Kære venner, rapporter hende for misinformation, dette er USA propaganda som skal stoppes!! *******

Omg .. some things she says are ok, others are completely nonsens .. haearing her i want to throw up .. she's been living in dk 20 years and she's clueless ..

Two strange ladies, more or less with strange understanding of society.0

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