Tips to everyone (to go with Crys tips): - Date yourself. - Learn to love yourself. - Learn how to be alone. - Find out what you like and don't like - Be forgiving of yourself and any mistakes that you make on your journey. - Learn how to identify red, orange, and green flags by your own standards and not that of others or the society at large

Thank you for sharing sis❤. I remember when you’d taken a trip home (I think) and when you returned you didn’t vlog for a few weeks. Shortly there after you were moving out and you stopped mentioning your husband. My heart broke for you because I knew you were getting a divorce. That sounds crazy but sis I’m a few years older than you but I was watching you do exactly what I did when I was going through my divorce. I’ve watched you do the work over the last year, to heal and to discover your true self. Thank you for living and standing in your truth bravely not only as a woman, but as a woman of color. So many of us don’t believe that we are worthy that we are valuable that we deserve everything. Thankfully, I was able to learn those lessons after my divorce and I am so happy for you and for your continuous growth. Once again, thank you Miss Crystal Nicole❤❤❤

As a married man, I often say this and people think I’m being mean. Everyone isn’t meant to be married. The number of divorces and marriages solidify this stance. People can be great within or without marriage. Why put yourself through so much turmoil based on a societal pressure. Social media has made people think that there is no work involved in marriage, and when you put on “magical” rings you sail off in happiness in the sunset. It requires a ton of sacrifice and being selfless. Also, sometimes the trauma that some people experience is irreparable which rules them out of being able to be married. I’m sorry, but I just want people to be the best version of themselves.

Sis, you said a word. We absolutely cannot live without from God. I always say im rocking with Jehovah because Jehovah’s rocking with me. Im proud of you.

Sis you are so speaking the truth, see I'm about to be 64 years old, and everything you are saying is on point, I'm so glad you are speaking on this and too this emotion, and I thank GOD I'm not that older person that feels I am too old and you can't tell me anything, I love learning from you and other young men and women you can still help even us older ladies, LOVE 💓, love, love you sis.

SO GOOD! ✅So well organized ✅So thorough ✅So edifying I am beyond proud of your grow but you conviction to give back to your community the wisdom you gained . Love you to the moon and back 💞

You spoke the truth when you said that God is the only thing that is consistent and we are responsible for our own happiness. It’s a struggle to get there but it’s doable.

I'm happy that you're talking about this. I knew you would, when you were ready, so I'm happy that you've gotten to a place where you are happy, at peace with the results, and are willing to share it with us. Cyber hug 🤗

Love that you used God’s name…Jehovah is the only consistent thing in this system…I felt that!!! ❤❤❤❤

From the end of last year, I realize that I have extended myself too much, to my detriment. I continue to do so into this year. I felt so overwhelmed a few days ago that I just broke down. I praying for change. I don't want to do it alone, I am seeking the Lord. I will keep going no matter how many times I fail.

So true and 💯 in agreement. Jehovah's love is all we NEED!.. thanks sis❤

Blessing to you on this new journey Crystal Nicole ❤

Great video. You spoke straight facts. ❤ I really resonated w when you talked about not relying on external factors to make you happy 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 I love your outfit and makeup here, you're gorgeous!

love your content. Keep up the good work sis!!

This information is so spot on! I especially agree with Crystal saying we are the first generation to try and change the narrative I'm 36 and didn't learn to love myself until about 28 by then I had been in two toxic relationships and dealt with DV I had children so it was a different process being I couldn't 100% focus on myself but I've learned those same principle of self love, happiness not depending on your partner etc. crystal definitely is dropping gems and I'm going to start using some of those tips to grow further... I am so glad you are sharing this part of your world with us. I'm here for it ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I wanted to provide and update on this comment at the time I wrote the top portion I was in an eight year relationship with someone I thought was my forever. I'm on day 5 of that relationship imploding. I have a lot more to learn (the learning never really stops does it?) I'm rewatching this now with new eyes it's painful but now it's really all about me and my children. ❤

Your inner glow is definitely shining through! So happy for you as you navigate life after difficult times ❤

Glad that you are now sharing your experience with us.

Loved this episode and all the gems your are dropping about growth...your growth journey has led you to where you are now and it shows...you are literally glowing from the inside out😍 ...I also loved the reminders about Jehovah being the only external source we can truly rely on ...so true...keep shining❤

Congratulations! Great vlog!!❤❤❤❤❤

Well hello Ms Crystal Nicole🙂 I'm a long time subscriber.. I'm happy to see your growth and maturity ...you glow from the inside and out. Life is about learning and growing..constantly!.. Keep up the good work on yourself and your channel🙏

Yeah I was bullied a good bit too in school and I swear that helped shaped the person I am today. I was NOT confident and didn't really speak up or speak my mind but I see a big difference in who I was then and who I am now and I'm just proud of me! I'm glad that you found yourself crystal! 🥰

Great serie and your top,/ makeup are absolutely beautiful ❤

Happy for you and your new journey as Crystal Nicole. I pray God continues to heal you through these times. But I must say, I miss Benji 😢, I miss you too❤

OMG Crystal! You sound like me. I am currently in a breakup (separation) and I am doing the same thing. Forgiving myself was the hardest! I really took the time and asked myself " Why am I like this? Why did I make certain decisions? What shaped me to make these certain decisions? Got to the root of that ( which did stem from my childhood)letting that person go and discovering who I am and who I want to be. Studying and leaning in Jehovah's Love . I could go on and on but I am gonna stop here. Proud of you!!!

Sis this is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you! I was in a similar situation but I need to stop holding things in like the pain tears etc! Thank you for sharing that it’s ok to cry! I can’t tell you how often I choke back the tears and hold them in! It’s no wonder that I’m still devastated! You’ve been very helpful! Can you please give some suggestions on Journals? I’d like to get a good one! Anyway I can see your growth. Jehovah is truly blessing you with peace of mind and heart. Please keep educating us. I love you little sis. 👍🏽😘❤

I hear you...as long as our journey of self worth and validation dosent take us away from, make us compromise or its a justification to overlook God's laws and principles then that journey is worthwhile. Its the ignoring or dismissing of those laws and principles that lead us to make those regrettable mistakes in the first place. Wish you the best!

Needed thisss.

You hit on everything I personally did after ending my relationship of 6 years I definitely dated myself loved on myself turned to god went to therapy learned myself worth identified my boundaries and nonnegotiable I also forgave myself and that all helped me grow heal and evolve into a better person and that helped me to attract healed and happy people to me that would no longer bring down my vibrations thank you for sharing

You are a beautiful person inside and out. Just keep doing what your doing. Be very careful.

Thank you for sharing ❤ you are looking so beautiful!

you are glowing sis! greetings from colombia!

I love you Sis!!

You look amazing! Very pretty.

Congrats ❤️

Forgiving yourself after a divorce; I definitely UNDERSTAND this. I am still working on it now. I grew up the same way so I am struggling.

I’m very proud of your accomplishments, your dedication to persevere. Your elevation is incredible, keep leveling up, your hard work is paying off. Always have and attitude of gradual, stay prayed up, and continue to do you.

You just inspired me to do my weight lifting today at home! I follow fitness with PJ for women over 40. I’m 53, you can recommend this to your beautiful Mother, if she’s able to exercise! PJ has soo many good exercises for women over 40, and for women of any age in my opinion!

You look amazing!!!

Hey Sis 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️ I hope you are doing well. I know you look goodt so that's always a plus.

Love You!❤

She just want to re-introduce herself welcome the beautiful graces, intelligent, gorgeous Crystal Nicole Yes, I am here for it always been your day one

Thanks for sharing ❤

This video was meant for me!

All I can say Ms Crystal Nicole as I was driving in to work All I Ikeep saying was yep yep yep and more yep much ❤

Love you💜

Can you please talk about the hard truth of people leaving you over making healthy decisions and setting boundaries. People say they love you unconditionally and you start making moves to be better they not just take away their love but they act hateful. If you experienced that, what have you done to ignore or endure the hate from people you had a bond with at one time?

I remember when people said you were married but I never saw you with anyone. Makes sense

When I learned to sit with myself and be happy, God sent me my husband. I didn’t give up on love and I allowed God to work in and through me! My husband is God fearing and I couldn’t have asked for a better partner. ♥️🙌🏾

I was severely bullied as well 😢 those affirmations matter and also sometimes when we are a spiritual person, we make decisions based off others examples or what we think we are supposed to do but that’s not always what’s good for us..there is more than one way to live it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person cause you choose a different course. Also you don’t have to make mistakes to learn if you take the right course from the beginning but it doesn’t make us bad if we make mistakes it makes us human 😌 I also wish I had started therapy earlier it’s a miscarriage of justice in our community, religious and ethnic..we need therapy 🙌🏽 so many men and women that are religious need therapy 😢

Hello sis !! Can I get your lips combo? You look stunning 😍

Started following you during the pandemic. With all these new hair care products, will you occasionally go back to hair styling tutorials?

What camera do you use?

Congratulations beautiful im so proud of u keep get your blessings 🙏🏽😘❤️💋🫂

This has been amazing! Currently reading a self help book called Mrs. To Ms. by Stephanie Loide and it is helping me SOOOOOO MUCH! Definitely recommend to anyone going through a difficult situation. We are all healing 🙏🏾🥰

Wow I never looked at it like strings on a puppet that makes so much sense

Amen Crystal….. only God!

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Where is your top and necklaces from?

Raise as a JW I completely understand that that God‘s love in Jesus Christ sacrifice is the only thing that’s consistent in life, and I love being alone. Yes, I have a six year old that fills my life completely. He always add to my life but it can’t be Until I have God’s love in my life that’s the only thing that gets me up every morning just to thank him for getting me through another day of life

What’s the name of the self-help book?

I had no idea you were even married…and I’m slightly confused but trying to understand

I started watching you when I started doing twist on my natural hair, maybe about 2 years ago (I think) under your other name, curly cue I think) sorry I can’t remember the name, but, I know it hair curly in it.

Jesus is the only "external factor" that we should be leaning on. He's loves us.

17:02 hey beautiful , 17:52 Gods love I love this for me.

I disagree, this generation is following in the footsteps of others who showed me examples of self worth! Maybe not everyone in the past generations, but definitely some people from my past showed me examples of self worth!

Put God first next time

Now she’s reading from the script of a lifestyle scammer.

Do a red table. But do it the RIGHT way. How about you have HIM on a short video. And show people you can divorce peacefully. Let’s hear how he feels. 😐

Girl this is SOOOO good! I went through a self discovery journey(still going through it) after losing my boyfriend in 2021. I went through the worst time of my life, my darkest time. I learned through that experience that God is my source. You so hit the nail on the head with that point. I realized that I had put other people in His place and when I lost my boyfriend, I felt helpless, hopeless and everything in between. I had to learn to put no one before Him. I had to figure me out again. Learn what makes me happy. I put my all into becoming the woman I saw myself being. It has been hard but the journey has been so worth it. This video was amazing. I pray other young women find this and with your tips, gain understanding for loving themselves. It’s a beautiful thing. 🫶🏽

This video was deep.🥹🙏🏽