Right

Korean women are just as loud, has no one watched a Kdrama?

She isn't hiding what she feels she honest about her reaction and I love that about her.

Every couple have their own dynamic, they sound normal to me, she def a good wife to him and please, why it is always about Race ( black )? Stop it .

Me as a black we always joking about the money . Like if my sis asks me to get something to eat, I said pay me first And we make a deal Just black things, that some people wouldn't understand

The nagging is a lot severe in korean household 😭😂

@@jul2447 haha ikr. Nagging to us means we love each other haha. No nag, no love. The louder the voice, the deep our love is. 😂🤣

I’ve met quite a few “loud” Koreans so I was surprised that they even made those comments. There’s a culture shift happening over there. Maybe the older generations was known to be quiet or soft spoken but that doesn’t seem to be the case anymore

@Roar That’s what I thought too. Maybe in the first place, she doesn’t really like Gladys.

@@nala4286 Nope...she should live like the locals and assimilate into their cuIture...she lives in Korea

Thank you!!!! Absolutely love how you picked that up

Well, let's put it in a different view, the lady was cooking! She didn't have time to pay attention to what they were saying. At least the husband could help with the cooking... that's what I'd do.

@@carkodyou seem like the type to always find a fault in people and things.

@@carkod shut up

@@dieu5041 hahahah XD

Lol that's a stretch

"I want attention"

Such a good cook! I was so impressed with her cooking!

@@zekayman how is that stretch ?

@@jadapinkett1656 yes you do that’s why you are acting like bish

Yes, I saw the typical Korean family we usually see on these type reality shows, where they fuss and nag at each other but you still see the love and care. Plus this is not a fresh newlywed couple, they've been married for a long time so no surprise the fussing, lol.

@@vonzilla2082 they seem like very normal family to me , I always talk loudly with my family , it normal

Wait, who is saying she is horrible? That’s crazy. She seems like a very good person.

On this Korean show called "Backstreet Rookie" and another show called "Tale Of Nine Tails", there were Korean women who were portrayed as being LOUD and ABUSIVE, but it wasn't painted as bad as Asians ALWAYS paint BLACK PEOPLE. EVERYONE else can be whatever they want to be except for BLACK PEOPLE

Some people want to start drama out anything

yep we also so loud people think we fighting but we just having normal conversation 😂

My house at this point is not a normal house anymore it’s an animal park

Also my family madam. Who have louder voice.

My house too🤣🤣🤣

@@naawam3027 hHahaha fr arabs families

and he has a big ass head mode enabled too

@@dddaaa6965 grow up

@@biegebythesea6775 What are you talking abo- *instantly turns 80 years old* -WHAT??? NOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is completely normal. Humans (& chimpanzees) evolved in a patrilocal social structure, where men stayed in their territory with a coalition of their brothers and male cousins, while women moved between different male groups.

Well hopefully we've progressed beyond that, but this case is a bit different. We know the father is familiar with Ghana as he worked and setup businesses there and met his wife and underwent both cultural marriage system. So I wouldn't doubt his comfort when dealing with her family. Though I may be assuming, living condition in Korea is probably much better especially for their daughter, who, likewise is doing well in school ( education is good! ). It just makes more sense for the whole family to adjust to Korea, (I think.)

​@@coles5451 so men haven't evolved past being monkey?

@@user-tl9ji5pd7t Well at least not the men in the hunter gatherer tribes that anthropologists study.

Damn, that is messed up

That lady was rude and horrible to that man.

@@Handlemenice Not you judging a 9 min video 💀 you don’t know these people

@@clockingthetea I don't care if it was 2 seconds people always judge you from the first moment they meet you. The mother and daughter were both rude to that man and loud so if the boot fits.

@@Handlemenice lol that’s literally how families are, also little girl? You mean his daughter? When aren’t daughters annoyed by their dads. Stop projecting

@@Handlemenice They’re a family!! Do you think families are constantly acting all perfect with each other? Get a life.

To the Asians watching it comes across as loud and rude. Like you said to Africans it is not. This is cultural.

@@nesadcruz7840 maybe East Asians. There are plenty of loud Asians

@@sei7730 not in the same way. The comments here were about how the wife and daughter talk to the man. Whatever Asian, East, SE Asian or South Asian the way parents are supposed to be respected is culturally similar.

@@nesadcruz7840 actually, many Asian ppl in the comments were defending her… including me (even though I’m only half) it’s not majority Asian ppl who are calling her loud and ima leave it at that….

@@nesadcruz7840 how is she not be respectful. There are so many West Asia is such a loud culture. You can’t throw Asia in a box and only acknowledge East Asia

가나는 이번 월드컵에서 우리를 도와줬고, 가나의 골키퍼는 정말 열심히 골을 막았습니다. 가나 화이팅. 🎉

Agree! Haha her voice is so cute too

Her skin colour isnt Korean at all. She has some of the dad's facial features

@@lindc1070 so? She’s still korean regardless

@@ashleyluna6912 half Korean

@@lindc1070 So....Korean. My half siblings are still my siblings and half of my heritage is Japanese. I am Japanese. If an ice cream is half banana and half strawberry, the whole ice cream is banana and strawberry.

It's not taboo with Asians families

Children should be financial literate at an early age. So they would not struggle when they are adults.

@@chun_lisfii3596 Pls don't call urself as Asians,just say u a Korean. I am angry when ppl say that to me that I'm Asian! For god's sake, I'm proud to be in my birth country n of my ethnicity so it has not nothing to be with the Asian!

@@maggiesweet7049 wait.. So now korean are not in asia?

@@maggiesweet7049 lol what? Korean, Japanese or whatever we are both asians. It is just a general term to use and nothing to be upset about. Same with Europeans and Africans, if you want to be specific then you can say which part of asia.

The house looks quite expensive to rent, the mother-in-law was very nice to pay for it

It looks so tacky to me 🙈 but to each their own - tastes are different everywhere

I knew that a black person lived there before i saw the wife because of the style of the place lol. It is well done very homie

@@airmanjones18 what are you saying?

@@Handlemenice there are just certain ways black women decorate their homes. We know the difference

and he has a big ass head mode enabled too

@@dddaaa6965 why do you keep saying this? grow up, talking about a child like that. what a disgusting man. don't have kids and don't ever be around young girls. you're a creep.

@@dddaaa6965 😂😂😂

and he has a big ass head mode enabled too

They were done for the show. I’m sure he looked a lot younger 18 years ago when they were married.

And since when that white dress is korean culture?

@@sabcam2000 the white dress is neither of their cultures

literally doesn't show Koream culture, its a Ghana outfit and white wedding outfit

@@sabcam2000 exactly what I'm wondering

Yeah ME TOO like I'm Korean and my parents would be nice to ANY person that was my S.O. .. while pretending they don't want to shower their love on them XD Wish more parents would be like mine because although I'm Korean I had my share of discriminating Korean boyfriend mums because I come from a poor family

Mother In law gave them money to live in that house. Koreans and Asians in general are very traditional and stay within race. In their culture it is extremely frowned upon to marry outside the race been like that for thousands of years. Once she saw she was a good woman she opened up emotionally and Financially to her.

Everyone is not down with interracial or integration like black people are. And that’s ok. His mother doesn’t have to like or accept her.

It's sad but i can understand, it's not the woman personally, it's normal to be with someone who is within your culture, it's strange to most ethnicity to date outside nevermind marry, Puerto Ricans are a little open to cultural differences because we are mutts but we tend to stick with what around us as long as people look nice are working cooking and cleaning to busy for drama, welcome for the most part.

@@8213apice its not ok to reject family due to racism. What is wrong with you?

Best comment here

@@johannliebert2870 awww thank you.

and he has a big ass head mode enabled too

@@dddaaa6965😂😂😂😂

@@dddaaa6965 you're a fkn creep

Her kips in Korean ended my life she is gold. she has a deep affinity with the language for sure

Fr

Purr

Thank you for bringing the words out my mouth. People act like it’s a crime to talk about money. She knows her husband better than everyone else.

Bro she literally says men should.... Like stfu nigga

ikr

Lol I'm black and Korean and i look exactly like my dad but I'm just brown like my mom xD most of us that are blasian tend to just look like as my dad calls it "chocolate covered asians" 😅😂

@@letsnoraebang Was your mom or dad the dominant hair type? In other words, do you have thick coily hair or is it straight wavy?

@@shitpostcentral1802 my younger brother and i have loose wavy curls. Our older sister has the coily spring hair. Our hair is suuuper thick as well

@@letsnoraebang I saw a lot of blasians that were like that when I first started looking up what other blasians looked like. I’m also blasian and instead of looking more like one race I look like neither lmao. :,)

@Greggy Ramirez why do you think their marriage is an abomination? Please elaborate

@@granwilloctober7711 Because he’s racist trash.

He wasnt having much success with Korean women probably

and he has a big ass head mode enabled too

Right. But mfs don’t have a problem when Jessi is loud. When she’s loud, she’s “keeping its real”. Smfh they just don’t like black folks.

@@miichelle19 YALL said everything

😫😫😫😫😫

there was literally no part in this video where i thought she was rude LOL i deadass don’t understand how people come to these conclusions. it’s embarrassing really

@@miichelle19 SAY IT LOUDER

... I thought she was the daughter💀💀 she looks really really young and she's stunning!! I was so confused haha their daughter got really good genes

ME TO I WAS SO WERDIED OUT 😭😭

@@min.trusfrated ME TO

@@catherinesimps4u this woman should be paid good money for anti-age moisturizer ads/campaigns!!!😂

@@min.trusfrated exactly like my mom looks young BUT NOT AS YOUNG AS HER

I won't fo into why folks are saying this. I would be accused of bringing in the race card.

Koreans are intimated by their parents. They don't have that dynamic relationship.

@@eileeno9259 wouldnt say that. more than being intimidated, they are told to show respect in a certain manner. i too come from an asian household and the daughter seemed extremely rude to me despite having alot of banter with my family

@TVwriter23 don’t worry, you wouldn’t be wrong. People love demonizing black women and making them out to be rude and nasty. I’m sick of it

@@jerseygirl6221 me too! No matter what black woman do it's always demonised. We can't just be

ikr

@@mk4883 yep ;(

@@mk4883 That is true. Racism plays out differently in the USA, but that does not take away from the fact that racism and colorism is also prevalent in Asia and Asian societies, not just Korea. And I am saying this as an Asian. It just looks different.

She even learnt the language. Good on her.

@@mk4883 imagine that... looking at countries based on racism & the extreme of getting shot. Wow! I know it is real but if I/we thought like that then we're suppressing ourselves via fear. As a black british/caribbean female I have travelled a few European countries by myself & had the best time, I feel I've faced more discrimination in London than Spain, Italy, Malta or Amsterdam & I dont speak their language. ☯️☮

If we are not loud, we can't hear each other 😂 I hate how I want to be calm but get triggered because I have to repeat it what I have to say and at the end I just scream it to them that it looks we are mad. lmao

And my family speaks so freaking loud than them, perhaps it's gonna be 5x times louder😂

koreans have alot of emphasis placed on talking nice to your family. like im indian and if i were to talk like how the daughter did, i would be a very shitty person. people in korea just tend to not raise their voice since it can seem aggressive

@@k3vo592 that is not really very true though. People in Seoul or in the village side are very loud. Plus my Korean friends talking to their siblings are also very loud and snarky. Koreans can actually be so loud that sometimes at 3am on a Wednesday night I couldn’t sleep because people outside walking by and stuff were just so unbelievably loud.

​@@athenasuperheldin1017 there are obviously people who are loud in korea but it isnt the majority. many people there are soft spoken since being loud is considered obnoxious/too much. thats why the casters were surprised. my family is pretty loud when they speak but as we live in korea, we see how the public reacts to it and try our best to tone it down. which i dont mind since cultural differences exist for every country

@@k3vo592 Now we all can see how Coulter is cultivated. It really doesn't matter rather she is loud or not because your up bringing is vastly different. That's ok just remember when the shoe is on the other foot it could look a different way as well... Im sure you understand what I mean right?

No she’s just loud as fuck stop acting like she’s not

Yup lol I have 4 bros and and 2 sisters u can just imagine sometimes u gotta find a quiet place in the house lol

Even my whispers are loud😂😂😂

Yeah it’s normal i was shocked reading these comments

During family gatherings it’s a scream fest. Anyone joining us would think we’re all arguing or fighting when in reality we’re just catching up 😂😭

@@xiomara4362 Exactly. So that no one misses out on the jazz or gossip😂

Phases my ass. Had I acted that way there would have been a coming to Jesus meeting. Then again none of us kids would’ve done that. Parents need to be parents and not friends or pushovers.

@@highonimmi your parents are twisted if they were going to end your life over such things. Why would you wish that in anyone. Take your abuse with you

@@mebeb6399 you don't even know what a coming to Jesus meeting means. it means you have to listen to your mistakes and now you have some grounding time to think about it. instilling discipline and consideration for others doesn't take being abusive. that's the problem with most of the young people today. you think if parents give y'all limits and provide consequences to your selfish and negative actions it's abuse. being grounded and removal of your toys with some chores isn't abuse. so now, the world has entitled people who think being a selfish schmuck should be applauded. no, it shouldn't be. if your parents are the ones working their asses off and doing without just to give you nice things then show some gratitude and respect to them. is that so hard? evidently, it is for you. "omg, you're abusive cuz i don't want to listen to you even though i don't pay for anything." why do i have this feeling this sounds like you? psychologists claim that since smart phones and computers came along with social media a new generation of narcissism has pervaded society. i agree. take your entitlement elsewhere. what the hell happened to kids and youth earning the little extras they want?

@@highonimmi dude relax

@@rooron3152 dude mind your own:)

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Not African.

The whole family is lucky to have one another so they are also lucky

The husband is lucky because he has an attractive wife...? That thought process always makes me wonder what a person keeps inside their own head.

@@mr.e0311 SJW

At first i thought she was the daughter 💀💀 she is so gorgeous.

She probably knew Korean before she moved there so it makes sense her husband fell in love with her due to her not only understand his language, but also understand his culture. One thing is learning the language and the hard part is learning the culture and accepting to live with it. She’s a strong woman for sure

@@seez6963 Stop lying

@@coles5451 no

@@seez6963 The mom looks like she's in her late 30s.

She a smart beautiful queen 👑

😢 😢 😢 Wah wah wah crybabies all day.

@@BigReggii what are you even referring to?? Stay on your short yellow bus and leave social interaction to those who have the mental capacity to logically function. 🖕🏽

I'm from Seoul and this program makes me so happy. What an amazing woman. I love her honesty with money too. It's so expensive to raise kids in Korea now. She is an admirable mother.

Behind closed doors is how it should be. No man wants to be criticised publicly.

Ignorance

@Mr Jaeger weeb thinking he can have any valid opinions

Bc they loud as hell

because they live in a cheap apartment where you can hear your loud ass neighbors

Maybe they aren't use to that volume of noise

And that is probably one of the reasons they've been married for so long. 😍😍😍 They communicate well with each other.

I think they just asked that because the daughter doesnt want to speak to her parents a lot. In korean, the word for puberty doesn’t necessarily refer to physical changes in the body, but more so personality/attitude changes of becoming a teen. So the fact that the daughter wanted to play on her phone rather than converse w her parents is why the host asked the puberty question:)

@@redrose2748 thanks for explaining that because I too was taken back by the puberty question.

@@alibalbee2883 No, you’re right. That is exactly why they asked that question

Koreans ask both boys n girls to find out if their behavior is hormonal.

@@redrose2748 this is what I thought. ESP in the context.

Life in Korea is better than in her country

She moved hoping for a better life. Its very hard in Africa.

People don’t wanna mind their business do they? And what if she’s loud or quiet or whatever , y’all acting like this man just married this woman omg this generation

Lmao Westerners demonizing Asians! What's new? not all Asian family works like that Asian men are way more loyal!!

가부장이 무조건 나쁜 것도 아니고 ㅋㅋ 그리고 우리나라 압도적인 페미 나라,국가여서 압도적 저출산 전세계 꼴찌 출산율인데 뭔.... ㅋㅋ ㄹㅇ 아... ㅇㅇ 영어권 영어 쓰는 새끼들 왜이리 맨날 PC적이고 PC충이 많고 SJW가 많을까? 에휴... ㅅㅂ 좌익 좌파들 진짜 개싫고 개토나오네 ㄷㄷ

@@user-yv7tz6sr8z SJW but your kind crying in USA when they get beat up. They can’t even fight so starting stop Asian hate.

@@wildearth3992 ? 뭔 개소리야 뭔 내가 징징,찡찡 거리는 것도 아니고 팩트인데 ㅋㅋ 우리나라하고 미국하고 같냐? 우리나라 상황 개좆도 모르면서 이렇게 막 씨부리고 남의 나라나 국가에 대해서 말을 막하는건 맞는 거임? ㄷㄷ 우리나라 남자들 자살 뒤지게 많이하고 있고 외국 해외로 탈출 개많이한다니까 정신 못차리네 뉴질랜드,스페인,스웨덴 기타등등 이런 나라나 국가들마냥 우리나라 페미나 젠더 어쩌구 ㅇㅈㄹ 때문에 나라 망하고 있다고 씨발아 좀 ㅇㅇ

There is such a thing as Too Much Information. Asians dont air dirty laundry in public. The hosts are laughing at her.

@@lindc1070 Will good thing that we all have our own minds and eyes to see. If they're laughing at her, I hope we can all ask ourselves what is the true reason? And, who would be the joke then?

I like the lady. I wonder what their love story.

Maybe they had married but don't have child yet. Here we said, when you had baby you will be monster. Lol you just can't be quiet.

Thank you. I look at a lot of Korean TV and they get loud as hell.

They tell black women they are "too loud" all the time. They don't like when we are not invisible and speak of for ourself.

@@locturallylocs9097 it's am American Narrative and the whole world ends up treating black women as such but come to Europe especially Italy,italians are loud and I like it.

@@LoliJRockDramaLover1 😂 I WAS JUST ABOUT TO WRITE THAT!!!! Yes I'm being loud right now. 🤣 I enjoy watching Korean movies and shows on Netflix. They are super loud. I like it though. Probably because it mimics the average household around the 🌎 world. I also see in those shows a lot of racism against darker complexions. Great couple. Love them. 💖🙂

Right?? How was that loud? And if someone were to say cultural differences, I would disagree because a lot of Asians I know are much louder than that

I'm Ghanaian as well...I guess we are technically loud compared to others and don't realise until someone else points it out

@TrollToll comments

Why should we Korean adapted to your culture? If we think you're loud then you're loud, who are you to decide who's culture is right?

@@free_manipur_from_india who the fuck said that dummy? Ur making koreans look bad

@@free_manipur_from_india lmao its not about being korean or black its the relationship of the couple in the video. If that is how the wife expresses herself then surely her husband must be used to it now. Its just playful banter 💀 who gives a fuck if you're Korean no one asked

My sister is going through this exact phase as a 12 year old. All she does is scroll on tik tok or go on discord calls with classmates. Wants nothing to do with family right now.😂

She rude asf. If that was a African man she wouldn’t talk like that because she would get put in her place really quick

Lol preteen don’t exist in Africa. You will get slap in the face for this

@@wildearth3992 chill out you’re weird asf

@@etherealhottie you’re weird for trying to justify her rude behavior by her being African. African children don’t talk like this to their parents and African wife don’t talk like this to their husband. Maybe in America you’re a like that but not in Africa.

Does it matter what race is interested in Japan who cares that’s just a Black American Stereotype people in Africa speak multiple languages what’s with the bubble😂

shes been living in Korea for like 14 years and married to a Korean guy. so of course shes going to have to learn to speak Korean

Why are you referring to us as blacks? Might as well say n i g g er. Smh

Truee. Like oh my god my family is part Congolese at my mothers side and my father is black American with the descendants of Ethiopians. I’m sick of the rumor of having people think that blacks can’t speak other languages as well. But to take another way of looking of it that’s how it is when if you’re black in America. Keep in mind black people with African descent are scattered around the across the world, we’re very diverse people. So Idc what they say about us all that matters is that if you know who you are and where your from, deep down regardless of our ethnicity/nationalities all that matters is if your heart is at the right place.

@@onyekachukwumukwumereije799 Ethiopians were not enslaved, your fathers family came from west Africa

Right

That's probably why she seems irritated and "loud".

Yess!

That because u korean are yourself so loud and annoying, very rude. Japanese like me better

I don’t get it correct me if I’m wrong but aren’t every Korean “loud” when talking normally?

Ikr the korean lady keep saying they're loud like bruh it's their house and talking in their own family , they're not blasting a freaking microphone

Nope...she should live like the locals and assimilate into their cuIture...she lives in Korea...

@@oz1128 …..

@@oz1128 I've seen you said this on like every comment

@@oz1128 Koreans are loud so she is doing fine in that case.

She is lucky

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Oh do you remember the name of the documentary?

I don’t remember. All I do remember is that it was shown on the Arirang channel.

Please can you drop the link of the documentry

Can you please drop the link

I also want the link,pls.

Me toooo

Same

me as well, also that would be a help to their family income, i believe

Same!! They are funny

Same. The way they interact with each other is so authentic and funny at the same time.

Actually it's normal in my family too and my family are asian 😅

Perhaps if the hosts were Ghanaian and they lived in Ghana...this would be a different narrative? 😆

She isn't loud that's how the ghana culture is .

@Duolingo Owl Nope, Asian women are taught to be very quiet and meek. Complete opposite of black culture.

The world stereotypes Asian as quiet, and they don't complain about it. So when you go to their country, they'll stereotype you as loud, how's that unfair?

@@Cxs1a3 *African

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facts, the lady is for sure racist and probably bitter because of how cute the family is so she gotta find even the littlest fault

@@roarrrist they don't look cute

@@strawberrie6491 so do you

@@roarrrist so do i what? lol

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Exactly,she is only perceived as “loud” because she’s black. Like that was not relevant and how was she loud.And the woman even said the same thing about the daughter….

She is obviously not Asian not just appearance but behavior too. Maybe that is why there are such comments. Her behavior in Asia is seen as “ loud”, maybe not where she comes from. Its cultural differences.

Bcs of the cultural differences, it's not abt black. Even if other race talk like that its considered quite rude in Asia especially when u talk to someone who is older.

@@thursdayistheday exactly. Even If it is a white person the comment would be same. Even the way the girl sits, feet pointing at dad would be considered rude in most Asian cultures. The dad told her to look at him when talking to him, that too is Asian culture. Rude to speak to elders with this kind of Body language. Maybe in Africa Its ok? I dont know. But not in Asia.

@@nesadcruz7840 Yeah, my mom would literally smack me if I do that and maybe kick me out of the house lmao. It's considered very disrespectful here.

That's us Africans....trust me I know what you're talking about...I'm Xhosa(South African) and I kid you not....when we talk it's like we have speakers in our voices turned to a 100🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@issapurpleworldanddiamondl747 exactly and thats amplified if we're outside. I get embarassed when my mom picks up calls outside the house ause people turn their heads to see whose shouting. But hey it's in our dna

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ikr

I think modern-day Korea is trying to carve out a more refine personality, I notice the same thing is happening in the Middle East, even though Arabs are loud as hell, now everyone is being more cordial and forthcoming. I think seeing typically country behavior or ‘grona’ behavior as some West Africans like to say, can be annoying to some.

@@a.y.greyson9264 maybe they should repect their own cultural values instead of always trying to be the west. People are peeling and cutting their eyelids breaking their jaws and nose in order to look like a European. Been loud with your family as long as you enjoy each other is OK.

I think she's just being racist lol All of the sudden she puts a higher standard on that particular person when literally there are other koreans that are just as loud, warm, and open as the wife. She's for sure mad and jealous at the family dynamic, and I just know she's divorced

Stop being jealous. If she was white you wouldn't be saying that, racist biatch