A very sad thing is that this kind of misunderstandings happen more in a real life than in soap operas.

You can actually feel both of their hearts breaking in this scene.

this scene breaks my heart. Patrick's acting here just blows me away!!

Wow, you could see Bobby wanting to cry in this scene. I could see why--that was a sad clip

Pam had the courtesy to listen to Bobby but he did not do the same for her. I feel sorry for both but especially Pam here.

i remember taping this episode!

I still remember that scene as if it were yesterday, how sad is that?

Very sad. Pam and Bobby were one of TVs all time best couples.

I need tissues.

Damn. The Perfect Couple rent asunder.

They missed the boat here....Upon conclusion of the show's run, they shld have reconciled their marriage n the final scene,...Jr is sitting alone at the dinner table, thinking about what use to be....Doorbell rings, it's Ray & Donna, advising they had healed the wounds n eloped n will be living at SF while the shopped for a new home, Door bell rings, it's James n his family advising they had discussed it, and decided to return b/c family is important n Debra-lynn made James realize the importance of father/son bond (Somehwhere the scene Jr slips Debra-lynn an envelope full of cash n a thank u note),doorbell rings, it's Lucy-Mitch, have decided to relocate back to dallas n will being staying at SF while they shop for a new home,Door bell rings, it Sue-Ellen n Johns Ross, Sue ellen broke up with her man n she n John ross will be returning to SF,Door Bell rings, it's Miss. Ellie n Clayton...Miss, Ellie only says 2 words "I'm home".....fade to back with a full dinner table with much chatter like the old days.

Pam deserved this very anteriorly. She can never come across to a wonderful man like Bobby. But Bobby is crying, I think he is so weak towards Pam, can be defined a bit stupidity.

OOhhhhh yeahhh baby, the oldest MAN trick in the book, she dumped him, he begs her back she wont come back, but then he tells the ol ive thought alot about it and we dont have the same feelings anymore so Pam, IM letting YOU go, and the woman starts sniveling and boo hooing everytime baby!!!! Always works like a charm!