is everyone in new zealand so weird

I'm not sure which one dodged the bullet.

Jess is attracted to people who are “cool”, much like someone in high school would. Also, she wants babies right away. Damien should gladly accept the rejection.

"Guys are intimidated by me..." oh geeezzz not another one smh

Did this guy have his first drink ever on a show? 😂😂😂

This episode was CRINGE!!!! "You're so exotic looking..."

She is a total Red Flag!! She acts closer to 13 than 23, all the comment about babies, the lack of empathy. But really, both are too young, too immature. Another very bad date!

Damn that girl was a savage telling him she needs someone more manly

Guy is the total opposite of a player, and the girl ain’t no prize, one of the most awkward dates I’ve watched

ANYONE who's thinking about dating this woman needs to watch this so he can see what she's really like on the inside. If he decides to date her anyway, then he deserves the wreck that awaits him. No class, no manners, no elegance. At all.

"I just need someone more manly -- no offense." I wonder if she knows what the word "offense" means.

It was really funny seeing him try to stomach that rose. She was incredibly mean by that short, sharp “no” and suggesting he wasn’t manly. Likely that people aren’t intimidated by her, they find her rude.

Very lucky escape, mate!

He was veeeeerrrryyyyyy nervous . Also not authentic coz he didn’t get the drink he really wanted

omg!! she was just plain rude,on tv saying he s not manly nd why did she embarrass him by asking to see thr dance then! it was obvious when she paid the bill but come on,instant No nd in front of his face i need someone manly!! eww what a behavior

I was cringing through this entire video. I've never seen such and awkward date!

It’s weird how she acts laid back but is so uptight in reality

I don't think I've ever seen the woman on a first date insist on paying the whole bill! Also, when being asked whether they want to see each other again, she was rude to the point of being brutal. Saying "no" immediately and harshly, then saying very bluntly to his face that she needs someone more "manly" than him - that was uncalled for on her part and showed a lack of class and manners. On the other hand, the guy is immature, conceited, and doesn't know how to treat a woman like a lady imho.

They both are something else……..

She’s got the crazy eyes. He dodged a bullet there. He deserves to meet someone nice.

She is unhinged

I love to hear the line, "guys are intimidated by me because ...." We all know where this is going.

She is no prize. He’s a sweet one. 💜

People from New Zealand are socially awkward.

Both equally incredibly cringe

At least she did the right thing by paying for the meal when she knew she would never see him again. Saying he wasn't "manly enough" was brutal though. Just say you didn't feel a romantic spark, it's honest while not making the guy need therapy lmao

Unpleasant girl...

When there's no chemistry, there's no chemistry.

She acts like a 13 yr old.. the minute she said he was “exotic” that date was over 😂😂 he was too fast on the dumb jokes.!

Only 1/3 through and I feel so embarrassed for both of them. They are both so utterly weird. I guess this is the universe sorting out all the undesirables ... natural de-selection !

that fist bump/high five at the end said everything.

That goodbye was so awkward, like something out of peepshow

Pays the bill to assert her independence and basically emasculates her date. Then says she wants a manly masculine man 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you are in your masculine, you are not going to attract a masculine man because similar energies repel, rather than attract. Going half if she didn’t like him, would have been enough, and more respectful towards him.

"Why did she pay the bill? I don't understand." To emasculate you, my friend. To emasculate and humiliate you. Good riddance to her.

When someone has to announce what they are saying with the statement starting with "Honestly..." It tells you that this person is not always telling it like it is ...only when she clarifies it .

My mans ordered a drink he knows nothing about

Why are they all a bit nuts on the nz version... Are they a fair representation of people there..?!

Wow she has some issues 😅

wow the Host is so bad and bartender isn't the best either. The UK crew set the bar.

She was SO RUDE And she De-masculated him at every opportunity. She didn't deserve to have a date with Such a sweet and lovely Man

"You look so exotic"... he's not a zoo animal! If anyone is ever considering saying something like that on a date, just don't. It is not as complimentary as you think it is and should probably be kept to yourself.

He's handsome, she's barely average. He's sweet, manly enough, she's mean without a drop of sensual allure. He's polite, she's rude. He's tolerant, she's arrogant without reason. He tries to get along, she tries, successfully, to make him nervous. He deserves a better match, she deserves time alone to introspectively evolve.

He dodged a bullet

What a Muppet with the wine 😂

The paying for the bill means she doesn't want anything to do with you.

“My French accent gets girls in bed”… girl run. Mr Promiscuous capital P.

Always that phone call.......🙈

The ice is broken. 😂

No need for the not manly enough comment.

That girl is gonna look back at that video in 10 years time and cringe. I do recognise it's edited but she clearly needs to work on her speaking skills. She emasculates the guy and disrespects him.. If the other guy said something similar, there would have been an guardian article written about him.

He got lucky on that one, he was going to say yes, I'm afraid. She was awful. How many men will she castrate, she's no prize.

"This broad has lotsa growin' up to do. You'll get there luv...lol

That's ok love, your face freaks me out 🤣

He doesn’t look half French at all😂 funny how dna sometimes work haha

Shes got sociopath vibes.

As a girl…girls can be so judgemental so quick and don’t give guys enough of a chance….all these dates I watch the guy is nearly always the one to give things a chance regardless of little dislikes

Please give this lovely guy another chance at the show ❤

She did him a favor.

Really polite and handsome guy

This girl was rude! ❤️🇺🇸

This was painful to watch.

He lost me at rosé, she lost me at being obsessed with babies.

Wow she was more manly than him 🤔

The guy is definitely full Indian, dont see the French in him

she's a bit special, isn't she..

These two were well suited. Thought highly of themselves. She thought she was much more attractive and a catch than she is and he thought he was more confident than he is. Either way, he was higher than her league.

At least she learnt that just having a caramel one doesn't mean he's your type LOL.

I don't normally feel an instant dislike for someone, but she just instantly made me retract. I feel like she has BPD or something. She reminds me of my ex friend - the red flags were there from the beginning. The two months I was friends with her were so insane - she put me through a lot. I can't believe I was friends with someone like that.

I remember being in a training provider, the person I met again knew her from secondary school, she said don't you mean girlfriend.

This lady a little crazy and not in a good way. Needs to filter her thoughts before speaking.

She got him a little tipsy and he got too comfortable with her.

This is sad as he is a really nice guy and very attractive, just is shy. The female is hmmmm ...... He will meet the right lady for him.

He definitely never had Rose before lol 😂 both were immature and this date was very cringe

I like how impish and spontaneous he was

.. he was actually really polite the way that he responded to her drunken tattoos... he was quite polite actually. i hope he finds a nicer girl to go out with. she might be masking insecurities with her behaviors. i have in the distant-ish past gone out with people i shouldn't hav,e in thinking that i should be more open minded. i have literally pulled my own arm to and then found out later that i should never have made those types of passes and mostly regretful for associating myself with someone who was badly mannered, looking and behaved. she sort of did him a favor because it seemed like he was going to go out with her again at first glance, which was not a good idea- even if he's going through something. it's not always "you" sir, just remember that ...

U are pretty cool - "yeah I am"... conceded much!!

Oh my god, who is this rude and abnouxious female? 🤦‍♀️ Good on him she said no.

They're both cray cray 😅

They’re two immature people looking for someone mature 😅 it was sad too watch almost.

I think Damien needs to sit and reflect on what her really wants and who he truly is. Seems like he’s actually a nice guy but he’s having an identity crisis.

Omg this woman is a beast. Watch out for your children!

Their whole date is wild but I’m so confused about the rose thing. “I’m judging you” weird thing to say and then very weird to choose rose, that is the last thing to not be “judged” on but like ok, maybe in france rose is considered cool idk… but then he doesn’t even like it?? So did he think rose was the most impressive drink? What did he actually want to drink? What would she not have judged him on? Why tf is she judging him anyway? I know there’s so many worse things wrong with this date but I’m just baffled at the wine part 😂

"Confident" aka Obnoxious vs Damian aka Rajesh Koothrapali.. 😂

So much weird stuff going on here

There nowt wrong with the lad. She had no chat, at least he was trying. He was gentleman. She wants a boyo, partying ect He was too nice of person for her.

I think she is a sociopath. It's not normal to seek to destroy your dates self esteem and confidence for literally no reason- other than because you aren't attracted to him.

Choose your punchline : A date told me that I wasn’t manly enough so I: 1- Took my hunting knife, left the elk on the table and left. or 2- I didn’t even bother for my nails to dry and left.

NZ had a couple of good ones but gotta say this was not one of them. I do not even believe these were real daters. Seemed like an act like watching The Hills

“My last girlfriend broke up with me 16 times for no reason.” Walks into the next frame on his hands. Why do I think this is hilarious? 😄

Bro had a glass of wine, then a gin and tonic or something, then a pint of lager. Decisive chap.

I think his looks spoiled him... Its as if he never had to work for it.

She is one of the most awkward women who's ever been on this show.

Red flags forever.

He's so handsome. Her chin was throwing me off, but nonetheless I was shocked at the end. Also, the waiter was straight out of 50 Shades of Grey 🤣🤣🤣🤣

He was kinda creepy talking about her butt like so many times. Its like calm down my guy. 😅😂

Damien, spend some time growing up.

Thanks goodness those two didn't have children together.

WEIRD

Intimidating ?? Nah When a guy wants a puzzle, he'll buy a Rubik's Cube 😘😍

I think she escaped from an asylum, I feel sorry for the man who ends up with her.