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I really feel you Peniel. Every once in a while someone will mention “did you hear __ and __ broke up?” and I’ll just be like “they knew each other???”

Peniel is that friend > Someone: "why did the chicken cross the street?" Peniel: "wait, what chicken?"

ashley was right, btob are literally friends with everyone in the industry. rookie groups, girl groups, senior groups, you name it. And according to btob members, Peniel has the most female friends in btob. He's close with EXID, AOA, Twice, etc, even Sejeong said that Peniel is one of her closest idol friends. He definitely has the scoop.

bruh peniel really is me in my friend group but that's bc no one tells me anything haha

If jae has the "interESTingggg~", than we got BM here with his "yeah yeah yeahhhh~".

plsssss make an ep talking about sasaengs, since this is a platform with more freedom you should take advantage and address their toxic culture!!!!

Has anyone here ever have someone say "Don't say anything, keep it on the down low" but the same person literally tells EVERYONE!?

10:26 *Ashley to Peneil:* He's just very slow like he doesn't catch on very quickly. *Peniel:* Gossiping about me in front of me. HAHAHAHA i laughed way too hard on this 😅

Peniel has the scoop, he just doesn't know he has the scoop!!

Peniel knows whats going on in peoples lives but he just aint a messy dude I respect that we all need to aim to mind our business!

Peniel: "i don't have good back either, i can't be bending that much, man" Also peniel: always bending at least 3 times after group greating

The amount of ship videos on KZfaq is terrifying. There is no group that is exempted from this...Sometimes, rumours from fans get so hyped up that even websites publish articles about them...When I see those types of videos or articles pop up, what Peniel said is what I always worry about: that these ships or rumours may potentially ruin a friendship because I know I'd feel very awkward with a friend if I had dating rumours with him/her. People did that One Direction too. Years later, a member admitted that those romance rumours about him and another member harmed their friendship because he would stay distant from him to avoid further rumours. It's so sad that people's "entertainment" is harming friendships. Plus, I don't understand the point of doing that...What benefit do you get from speculating about someone's personal or romantic life? It feels as though people these days want to live vicariously through others. Also, what you guys said about 95% of things we hear about celebrities being untrue reminded me of a webtoon called Lost in Translation. I really hope it becomes more popular because it shows how rumours can harm celebrities and can be far from the truth.

Can you guys talk about how idols need to hide their dating life and how they sometimes fake their personalities when being natural and honest should be the right thing to do?

I agree with Ashley, people usually gossip because their own life is uninteresting, so they are always curious to know what other people are up to. It's kinda sad really.

For a second i was really impressed with how their clothes hair and makeup is literally the same in every episode but then realised that they probably filmed them all on the same day 😂

Peniel so laidback cause he’s sitting so comfortable and dressing so casually . Like just hanging out with friends hahahaha.. Peniel My role model 💪🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Peniel: They make KZfaq videos on this stuff?!?!?!?! Me: He is soooo clueless 😔😂

i love it when BM said nice words about Super Junior. I remembered when KARD was on SuJU TV and BM said he wanted to get along with Siwon and there was Heechul who loved BM's wide shoulder 😂

Naaah..Peniel knows a lot, he's just being respectful of others' feelings and privacy. Remember on the topic about cheating t and when he was asked about a situation about breaking it to someone that their significant other is cheating on them? He said he considers how the person might react to the news. That's just how he is. He's a nice guy and probably, just acts clueless so no one pushes further on the topic. And that's how you end gossiping, let it end with you. ♡

Being a Suju fan, it makes me happy hearing BM name them out of all the people he could think of, they get so much online hate (speaking of gossiping), it feels nice hearing someone that actually met them tell that they are nice to other idols.

Personally I HATE GOSSIP, but I can't help but hear what the word on the street is. I won't talk doo doo on people but I tend to listen to the doo doo. Trying to stop bothering with gossip all together. Lol

BM: Its ok, one day ill be bigger than you. TELL THEM KING also, I love ashley´s voice so much, is so niiiiice, and peniel is always so funny ashdhgh

"Peniel's an angel" Ohh that rumors been spreading for 8 yrs now. He rlly is an angel and a social butterfly. Soon we'll see him fly with the wings of an angel and a butterfly.

After more than a decade of being a kpop fan I’ve learned to never believe a scandal/rumour about an idol until there’s proof or the company makes a statement. These days the younger fans jump on the hate bandwagon so quick leading to cancel culture. Anyway love you BM, Ashley and Peniel

i love how diane's role changes with each podcast because for hdigh and the tablo podcast, she's practically a cohost at this point but here she's just the natural laugh track.

I think we all have friends like Ashley, BM and Peniel. The one who knowssss every gossips in town, the one who like "okay i knew that" and hype the things up and the last one who know no shits at all and no idea the things even exist🤣

THANK YOU FOR THIS PODCAST. This is what all Kpop fans need to hear. I'm tired of those shipping videos and speculations. It seriously can harm friendships/relationships with members in a group OR friendships/relationships of a group with another group. This kind of insight in the idol world is much needed. Ashley, Peniel, and BM are literally telling it like it is, and I definitely think we need more shows/radios/podcasts like this for idols to have healthy and real conversations. Idols are literally people, we need to realize this.

i really love the fact shinhwa take care of peniel back at 2016;;; that's so sweett🥺☺

Peniel is clearly as clueless as I am in the friends' circle cause I don't ever see clues or hints.

Ashley's right. Peniel sure knows a lot. He's just loyal and good at keeping secrets. I love him for it.

"if we cared about our own lives as much as we cared about others i feel like we would be much more successful and happy" YES.

*Peniel is that one friend in every group that we all just stare, sigh and shake our heads at but honestly love and would fight anyone who even looked at them the wrong way in a second.*

Gossip is like a food recipe, once you share it, people add other things to make it tastier...

Peniel is learning so much with those podcasts XD he's is always like "serious?!" "wait did it happen" "WHAAAAAT??!!" 😜

We need a school episode!! I want to hear their school stories and advice they have ♥️

Ashley knows a lotttt. The speculation, the matching clothes etc of idols and the videos of the idols that the fans ship.

can i just say? one thing i really love about this podcast is that the three of them are genuine friends. i think it's what makes this podcast so charming. they all have different personalities/perspectives, but they know how to be receptive of each other and they can tease e/o without being cruel.

WHO’S BEEN WAITING FOR THE VIDEO TO SEE THEIR EXPRESSIONS?!?!😭😭😭

Apparently, "Gossip refers to talking about someone or something with another person or a group of persons. Rumor refers to spreading specific information about someone or something that has not been verified. In other words, it may be a truth or a falsehood."

Big Matilda, Penelope and Ashley are back! 😏

I've heard gossip about me being scary as hell but when people meet/get to know me they're always like "you're not as scary as i heard".

I liked how BM randomly praised SuJu. This podcast is really interesting. Great to hear idols my age share their experiences and outlook on life

32:07 "the hell just happened?" is pretty much the national anthem of peniel🤣

I love it how Peniel is always that clueless guy😂 he’s basically me around my friends

Ain’t gossip just talking about other people in general. But as someone with a boring life I agree with Ashley lol it’s entertainment for my boring life

19:55 EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXACTLY. lack of fulfillment, or lack of importance, leads people to either violate confidentiality or create falsehood. and whether what they're telling others is true or not, someone else will value that, either as information or as entertainment. that in turn will make the gossiper feel valued, and increase the likelihood of them continuing the behavior.

I feel like BM is so genuine I envy his friends for having him close to them. I have no close friends like that 😩

Regarding dating rumours, I think like 'shipping' and actually believing that two are dating is different. Like when someone 'ships' I think it's more of just them saying oh they would make a cute couple but then actually believing they are dating, that's when it can get toxic.

They're relationship are really good! I love how Peniel can be friend with anyone and still keep their secrets but feels like an innocents hahahaha

10:05 honestly, Peniel here is relatable af... I'm always the clueless friend too 😂😂

BM giving a shoutout to SuJu made my elf heart hella happy

every shipper is embarrassed bc of this podcast and it really makes me happy

My heart just fly when i heard shinhwa’s name from peniel.. I always find that shinhwa are very nice , super funny and a humble seniors. To come out from peniel’s mouth and him telling this on a podcast.. i must be right then☺️ love shinhwa & btob both 🧡💙

I'm just like peniel, usually the last to know. But I'm also the best person to tell secrets to, I forget in like 5min. It's never getting spread

Italian Lavely and Hidden here! I love you all so much!!! BTW: "...with our hosts Peniel (of BTOB), BM (of KARD), and Ashley Choi" (of Ladies' Code) -.-

It's so sweet that Matthew gave Super Junior a shoutout! They're huge seniors but I've never seen them being anything but extremely open and welcoming. I love that that's true behind the scenes too! SJ and Kard shot an episode of Super TV I think?? and I remember Heechul, Siwon, Hyukjae and many others were SO sweet to them. Love to see how humble they are.

Peniel *panicking : I don't have a good back either man, I can't be bending that much... 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Their expressions is the best.

Laughed so hard when BM said "I broke it?" like dude 😂😂😂

i'm here for peniel but i have to admit that BM got my attention, i love his comment, advice and reaction. he such as a nice and thoughtful person, i hope i'm not too late for supporting him😭

meanwhile I'm that friend who's the quiet one but actually know a lot of gossip without meaning to because people just talk around me.. they gossip even when they know i'm around cos they know I'm a quiet person and probably wouldn't tell anyone

Peniel has to see BBYU couple's dating rumors lol

I wanna be friends with them all, especially Peniel. He's so chill but hilarious.

“I think ppl gossip and ppl spread rumors bcz their lives are boring. If we cared about our own lives as much as we cared about others, we would all be much more successful and happy.” True. Glad to hear that.

I love that Peniel is so clueless about everything 😭😭 he doesnt even know people make videos about idol gossip. he's just vibing, u know?

dispatch really needs to watch this lmao

SO MUCH LOVE FOR THIS PODCAST!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

I've just been binging i can't believe this was just uploaded

This is the first podcast that I have seen every minute of every podcast. I love it so much!!

My review for this podcast ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I've been waiting for this! I even turned on my notifications in this channel for this 💕

After only getting into the rabbit of Kpop a year ago I'm amazed and perplexed at the amount of member 'shipping'. I just don't get it, I might be old (30s) but seeing members interact just looks like close friends and a sisterhood, I don't see it as any more, but the amount of 'shipping' videos, twitter 'stan' accounts for it is just really really creepy. I'd love to know what you guys think of that, if it makes you act differently with members or act it up to help the hype.

They are such energizers. I feel so good every time I watch this

This is the only podcast I actually have notifications on!

I like this the flow of this podcast. Its like listening to your friends talk about things so relatable.

These guys are so funny, is the second time I get a recommendation on KZfaq from their podcast and I end up watching the whole thing

i genuinely love the thinking process of these people 🤣 this podcast is goooold

These videos are literally what keeps me happy every week

Honestly, this has got to be my favourite podcast of alllll time. Thank you for these podcasts! Appreciate all of you and wish to meet you kind humans someday (why am I always cringing when commenting ahhh but for real I mean it!)

wow i love this podcast. i just can't notice the time running when i listen to them. love this.

get so happy when a new ep comes out! love hearing their thoughts and experiences!!:) cant wait for more:)

I always enjoy their episodes!!! It’s really entertaining and you get something out of it every time. Love their chemistry too. It just works!!

Thanks for all the advice- not to mention how funny y'all are. You three are the older siblings I never had 😌

man yall are so funny & at one point i stanned all 3 of y'all's groups i'm so happy you guys are friends and have this content i love it🥺 pls stay healthy you guys thanks for everything that you do for us and everyone

Ah great just made myself some tea and cookies 😌 Perfect timing 💗💗

whenever i feel down i listen to your podcasts and that makes me feel better, so thank you ^^

♥♥♥ I think that is so appropriated those advices about staffs, social media and be aware of what you listen to and tell. Love your content

You know when you have a chill night out w your long time homies and ended up chatting till dawn about the wonders of the world, and the weird things/people tt you crossed paths with. Yeah, this podcast did that for me. Thanks, guise. This was dopeeeeee!

i really like this episode. It's so clear when they describe anything and make us understand what that means.

I'm really excited everytime #getreal has new episode. Peniel, Ashley and BM are like a breath of fresh air ❤️

I love to hear them talking, I haven’t listen to any of their songs but I love you guys

My country is in lockdown again... sigh... So I'm rewatching all the podcast videos.. always help me take my mind off things... Thank you Dive 💜💜

Someone introduced this episode on You tube vid. It didn't say the title but I reached here. It was very helpful for me. Thanks!

The friendship between them is so sweet to see. Wanna that kind of friendship.❤

Big Ups to @DIVE STUDIOS PODCASTS for uploading the full videos of the podcasts, really appreciate it. Definitely loving this panel talk, its great to hear from different people with different perspectives on the same topic.VERY insightful.More panels in the future. To Get Real : Can we have conversations on the social issues such as their take on Interracial dating, cultural differences, stereotypes,discrimination and personal experiences.

I love this podcast! It really feels like I’m hanging with friends :).

Aaaaahhhhh!!! Been waiting for this since the clips were released. ❤ love you three. Also BM: Super Junior. All of Super Junior are super nice. 💙💙💙🥰🥰🥰

Thank you for this educational talk show Peniel, Ashley and BM ❤️❤️❤️

so i watched this month ago and went back as irene's issue is still fresh edit: *currently fresh*