The Hustle Before Becoming Idols w/ Ashley Choi, BM (KARD), and Peniel (BTOB) I Get Real Ep. #4

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3 жыл бұрын

On this week's episode, our hosts relive the struggle for that paycheck before their debuts and side gigs that helped them make their way. And then there's Peniel who just jumped straight into it from high school. Everyone's journey is different and that's beautiful!
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@DIVEpods 3 жыл бұрын

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@marialovesmarklee 3 жыл бұрын

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE UPLOAD TABLO'S FULL PODCAST

@andriawilson782 3 жыл бұрын

Can they talk about fake/shady friends?

@annabelle371 3 жыл бұрын

andria Wilson ‼️‼️‼️

@PinkRose0910 3 жыл бұрын

If that person has a business degree maybe they could get a job at a music company, or start a KZfaq channel in their free time. Or maybe eventually open their own music company? I feel like artist would like working for someone for appreciates music and enjoys making music.

@HarpreetSingh-lx1qu 6 ай бұрын

Man BM saying that you should allow yourself ups and downs is key. I’ve been focusing on the up for so long that when I finally lost my streak. I fell sooooooo hard and for years . I finally gave myself a chance but it gets so hard cause environment is crucial to. I was not only beating myself down so hard but others around me weren’t much help either. Instead I would just slipping hard because of who I had with me when I fell. I finally have a a supporter’s and I’ve accomplished a lot more than I ever thought was possible for me. And if I feel low again that person picks me up. I hope to have them forever and repay it to them.

@C_K33 3 жыл бұрын

I can't with Peniel, he looks so calm and then he goes his favorite subject was lunch 😂😂😂

@alicia4830 3 жыл бұрын

Istg that’s every Americans favorite subject 😂😂😂

@ishaali3459 3 жыл бұрын

and ashley facepalming 😂😭

@Raebeanie 3 жыл бұрын

That was definitely my favorite subject too😂

@thiraniperera3904 3 жыл бұрын

Same though😂😂

@yeontan7566 3 жыл бұрын

That's everyone fav subject 😂

@LeviosaWing5221 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel's "Never mind we talked too much" Honestly if this podcast is like 2 hours long I'd listen to the whole thing more than once.

@imhyunhyun 3 жыл бұрын

Yup me too. 😄

@michanghyun 3 жыл бұрын

hahahhaha me too!!

@sofiainhuma3507 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@kalyssaa 3 жыл бұрын

exActly its so entertaining that i don't even notice the time

@justhere750 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@ddzgdt 3 жыл бұрын

bm: yo make kids laugh by talking about farting and doodoo peniel (27), ashley (28): HAHAHAHA

@shes.2 3 жыл бұрын

luvblue00 what is a doodoo?

@kyleekim461 3 жыл бұрын

@@shes.2 poop

@casandraogoe8394 3 жыл бұрын

That was so funny I really love BM 😂👏

@once4all125 3 жыл бұрын

yall im applying this tip as an ESL teacher HAHAAHHAHA

@kmz8157 2 жыл бұрын

Hahahhahaha

@trixie892 3 жыл бұрын

Imagine BM actually marrying a Chinese girl for the extravagant wedding only to find out that traditionally the groom pays for it lmao

@rachelruthching8761 3 жыл бұрын

was gonna say that hahaha 😂

@AstarionWifey 2 жыл бұрын

He would end it before it even began 😂

@AstarionWifey 2 жыл бұрын

@J thelo324 no you don’t HAVE to 😂 it’s your choice

@AstarionWifey 2 жыл бұрын

@J thelo324 no it isn’t That’s old school tradition

@princessconsuelabanana-ham2480 3 жыл бұрын

"7 years without pay" "And she happy as hell!" THIS PART IS GOLD

@amsrroleplaylila7173 3 жыл бұрын

What part is this?

@princessconsuelabanana-ham2480 3 жыл бұрын

AMSR Roleplay LiLa its at 37:30 😊

@ChinXinYing 3 жыл бұрын

Still curious how did they survive all those years. Those poor idols who didn't get paid a single cent 🙃🙃

@melt9863 2 жыл бұрын

@@ChinXinYing ..,probably relied on their parents

@AstarionWifey 2 жыл бұрын

@@ChinXinYing parents or they did part time jobs just to have food and a roof over their heads

@yikes3145 3 жыл бұрын

This episode is just BM, Ashley and Peniel's quarter life crisis

@Blue-iv5fv 3 жыл бұрын

Ashley: "but what if a not nice person does that..." Peniel: "like you?" Ashley: *gives Peniel a death stare*

@TheZxandra12 3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA the way she glared at Peniel was so funny to me

@timothyvivero2524 3 жыл бұрын

I was about to comment this.. its like he was about to kill peniel. 😂

@sophineb9545 3 жыл бұрын

i agreed with his thoughts though! horrified when she asked 😆

@kjRikS1423 3 жыл бұрын

I love her death stare

@isa_ysj 3 жыл бұрын

What part is that?

@aestheticbpsvt776 3 жыл бұрын

I really need an episode where they talk about bonding with their teammates and their experiences after debuting

@astriyustinakambu2812 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@aeriberry 3 жыл бұрын

Yessssss

@kalyssaa 3 жыл бұрын

ashley/bm: sits normally peniel: criss cross applesauce 😤😤

@ameyaachivukula 3 жыл бұрын

Criss cross applesauce...lol 😂

@naila6603 3 жыл бұрын

the only real way to sit

@kalyssaa 3 жыл бұрын

Naila Alam all fax no printer

@melt9863 2 жыл бұрын

What happened to his shoes lol ?

@wenawena709 3 жыл бұрын

"You're a baby.." Melodies always fondly call Peniel a baby even if he's not the maknae..

@andhiniretno3886 3 жыл бұрын

hahaha even eunkwang calls peniel baby, in wgm when peniel sit next to red velvet yeri eunkwang said they are 'the babies'

@lizchellepilorin 3 жыл бұрын

BM: What was your favorite subject in highschool? Peniel: LUNCH 😂 Same Peniel! SAME!!! 😂😂😂

@joselinealice9028 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@teresa8020 3 жыл бұрын

I realised that Ashley's mid 20's were probably a time of grief and darkness. But she definitely rose up! And is so strong.

@keylock_345h6 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome back to Peniel being a big mood.

@billybaecyrus 3 жыл бұрын

He truly is me in every situation

@k-poppersince0951 3 жыл бұрын

I’m pleasantly surprised. I had no idea he was this funny 😆

@grisselhernandez6878 3 жыл бұрын

BM: the kids attention span was so short Peniel: just like me 😄 😂😂😂

@jongmikim602 3 жыл бұрын

Best grades “Math... but I hated it.”

@cynthiachang3139 3 жыл бұрын

It's almost like Peniel is high everyday when rlly that's j his personality

@ItsBrittanyLajoyce 3 жыл бұрын

Ashley said she made NO money for seven years she went right out with it!

@lebana 3 жыл бұрын

Brittany Speaks watch her vlog where she gets her first paycheck. She literally cried and I almost cried with her.

@emmanabi1283 3 жыл бұрын

@@lebana what's the title of the video?

@BT-hx7kx 3 жыл бұрын

@@emmanabi1283 I believe its the first video in her adulting series, just look up her name and adulting series

@emmanabi1283 3 жыл бұрын

@@BT-hx7kx ok thanks !

@huffletuff7 3 жыл бұрын

very normal for kpop idols unless they make it big

@colourless6312 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel is that person who never knew what to be growing up, never knew if he's ever been cheated, never had bad issues with housemates and never had trouble starting a relationship. Like he's so chill, and I like that about him

@adriennek2050 3 жыл бұрын

wish i could be like that

@xOrdinaryNerdx 3 жыл бұрын

@@adriennek2050 Same.

@axiom9624 3 жыл бұрын

can we just appreciate these strong intelligent TALENTED human beings and the people they’ve become because of the struggles they’ve opened up about? that’s brave

@navi3430 3 жыл бұрын

They're really admirable for the way they handle their struggles and came out so strong!!

@marshae.theteacher 3 жыл бұрын

When Matthew was talking about teaching kids... that hit me hard lol. I teach toddlers and it takes so much emotional, physical and mental strength to keep their attention and make their day fun and full.

@jasminegarza7246 3 жыл бұрын

yes I agree!!

@desireeskumachan 3 жыл бұрын

Hey that's so cool! Sending you appreciation

@marshae.theteacher 3 жыл бұрын

Raven Llya thank you 🥺

@luvirogue4238 3 жыл бұрын

Me too I like being around kids and coming up with new ways and games to keep their attention on the class but OMG some days are just so challenging

@marshae.theteacher 3 жыл бұрын

Luvi Rogue it really takes a lot of mental and emotional strength. And patience!

@ItsBrittanyLajoyce 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel is very mature and calm he gives me a Pastor feel

@husainifachri 3 жыл бұрын

hes a Buddhist monk, cant you tell? ahaha

@tnuggz6223 3 жыл бұрын

Fachri Husaini bruh that’s hilarious hahahah

@muti7880 3 жыл бұрын

he's a monk

@wenawena709 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha...but yeah, he's a Christian.

@veritush 3 жыл бұрын

Pastor Peniel is a great solo act name

@ivybaylon7642 3 жыл бұрын

I choked up. I totally agree with Peniel. If you have a stable job and you really love something or you have the passion for something, for example, music, do it as your side job. Peniel explained really well. like what ashley said, it's more on the realistic side. but I guess, if you can support yourself financially without your main job, then you can give it up and pursue music. Because at the end of the day, Happiness is all that matters. you cannot live your life unhappy with what you're doing. *I'm also speaking for myself, I'm 25 and i'm having quarter life crisis as well as worldwide pandemic which really affected my career as a dentist lol I'm having internal breakdown while listening to this podcast* hahahaha

@betelgeuse7557 3 жыл бұрын

i hope the pandemic end real soon and you can have your stable career again and find your true happiness alongside😉.. have a nice day💙

@ivybaylon7642 3 жыл бұрын

btob melody thank you! I hope so too! For now our top priority is our safety! Stay safe melody! 💙

@Naamy19X9 3 жыл бұрын

@@ivybaylon7642 This pandemic has highlighted the importance of savings. At least a year's worth of savings.

@crazysmilingdonut804 3 жыл бұрын

The older I got (I'm 36 now) the more i realised that the whole make your passion your job is bs, cause it only works for 0.01% of people. All my friends have jobs that are good but not amazing. At least they dont hate their jobs. They dont have to worry about having enough for rent, food etc since they all earn really well. Their real passion are a part of their free time. Some are in a band, others are powerlifter or coaches etc and it works. I work for an public health institute. Its a good job and I dont have to worry much about money (i work 40h per week) while in my free time I'm a coach and powerlifter.

@jilliannathan6985 3 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna be 25 in 2 months with an upcoming quarter life crisis because Im so stuck and don't know what to do with myself 😅. I just keep telling myself everything will work out. I hope everything gets better for you, keep safe.

@blueside8240 3 жыл бұрын

Hearing Ashley's story makes me want to see a Chinese wedding

@mikaellamartinez1275 3 жыл бұрын

Its fun but depends on how traditional the parents are but in the end its super fun and crazy too

@bidariamerika3120 3 жыл бұрын

Mikaella Martinez especially the food, dan its just like a feast

@mikaellamartinez1275 3 жыл бұрын

@@bidariamerika3120 agreed

@brotherhood4018 3 жыл бұрын

It’s totally fun cause i surround by chinese tradition 😊

@crystal2157 3 жыл бұрын

i had a makeup artist for my aunts wedding when i was 6 years old 😂😂 we eeextra

@pransiyaolor3305 3 жыл бұрын

“Aww you’re a baby” “Sure” PENIEL WHY

@kyungsoo 3 жыл бұрын

BM: I need someone to come to me to look for something me: /slides into BM's dms to ask for a rolex/

@megyeoo 3 жыл бұрын

for a person who “claims” to feel lost since young, peniel honestly give the best advices. especially the part about pursuing music or get a 9 to 5 job. thank you peniel

@geannepaulettebaldovino1269 3 жыл бұрын

When peniel said “i had no idea what i wanted to be” I FELT THAT

@teresa8020 3 жыл бұрын

Can't get over Ashley's death stare when Penielle said "like you" lmfao. On the floor.

@sisimariab 3 жыл бұрын

It's time to get real with Ashley and her friends Penelope and Big Matilda time to listen to it (visual)

@nataliegomez8967 3 жыл бұрын

yo this just made my fucking day

@bangh.sutoyo3748 3 жыл бұрын

I can't with Penelope and Big Matilda 🤣🤣🤣

@lostgirlwanted025 3 жыл бұрын

Every time I hear BM talk I realize his way of thinking is the sweetest and he needs to be protected

@emdyey09 3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with Peniel’s advice. Work as an accountant while you’re young & create music on the side. Spending your time doing something you don’t love sure ain’t fun, but the money you’ll save from it will enable you to pursue what you love doing after. Reality is, if you later on decide to go back to employment, it becomes difficult to find companies that hire someone older, with health issues and with no experience.

@taylorfarfan5028 3 жыл бұрын

BM talking about quarter life crisis, being at 25, and here I am, with 29 years old with a life crisis, depresson and anxiety. But hey, at least I had fun with this video.

@lousbruise 3 жыл бұрын

you are not alone, im 33 and been having job/life crisis, depression and anxiety too.

@kpoplife8223 3 жыл бұрын

Same boat my friend . And i hate it really... keep trying my best tho...

@kima_95 3 жыл бұрын

Currently 25 and have been having life crises since 8-11 every 2-5 years. When he said every 25 years, I just laughed aand thought 'that's cute'. But good luck in life fellow sufferer, hopeful we'll get to enjoy and thrive in our lifetime. 👍🏽

@bluemoon1875 3 жыл бұрын

When ashley unnie said she didn’t get paid for 7 years made me think how many idol groups are there that haven’t get paid for their hardwork yet? But she’s still happy i respect that a lot.♥️

@joannagrace9305 3 жыл бұрын

*Don't be afraid to take risks. You'll be surprised where those will take you.* BM, 2020 ❤

@Farmanimals98 3 жыл бұрын

Work the job you hate to support your passion. Its just more realistic.

@user-zr3og2ln1f 3 жыл бұрын

Or start from young age so your parents support your passion

@nessrineboukhari0167 2 жыл бұрын

And more miserable

@hollywoodisasataniccult4022 2 жыл бұрын

Idol life is a gamble. If you lose it’s really hard to get your life together again. Not having had gone to school and with your age increasing plus for boys they have to go to the army for 2 years. And when they come back their like what do we do now?! It’s tough and so even if you have a miserable job don’t leave it. Do the thing you love as a side thing until it gets big. You still need to make money to accomplish your dreams.

@medioreblatherskite 3 жыл бұрын

What if they speak about growing up Korean-American in American then moving to Korea. I wonder if they were seen as too Asian in America or too American in Asia. Edit: I'm Asian-American and I want them to speak about their experiences too lol the 'Growing Up Asian' memes have become popular and the hosts seem like such a relatable bunch despite them being famous celebrities.

@medioreblatherskite 3 жыл бұрын

@@joyskapali9774 I personally am from a state and school where there a mostly Asian but I didn't feel out of place. When I moved to my Asian country for college, (I see you US college debt, you suck) I was seen as too American despite knowing both languages well.

@thinkerbest6448 3 жыл бұрын

Ok, I vote for this topic

@ivofspds 3 жыл бұрын

Like speaking about their experience being a TCK? ( Third culture kid )

@umieamira4958 3 жыл бұрын

Tablo and eddie talked abt it on his podcast but I don't rmb which ep

@nessie4215 3 жыл бұрын

@@ivofspds that's different. If you are American but your parents are from another country it's not TCK. However, if you are American and your parents are Korean and you guys moved to, let's say, Spain at twelve and grew up there, that's TCK. But having parents from a different country doesn't count. Moving to another country when you are 17/18 and up also doesn't count.

@tatanluna6646 2 жыл бұрын

Peniel gives me vibe of that one kid who doesn't has dream, don't know anything, so chill and laid back but at the end he's the most successful one

@palemitagianina4592 3 жыл бұрын

another reason to love peniel; he ALWAYS give a mature, relateable, realistic advice(s), like i can easily try his advice, really nice;;;;

@melopurin1678 3 жыл бұрын

These three is a perfect lineup for this podcast. I saw that BM and Peniel often hava a really different perspective like they were really opposite to each other. But then there's Ashley who could keep the balance between the two. And they're considerate to each other too. Nice!

@navi3430 3 жыл бұрын

They're a perfect fit for these podcasts!

@navi3430 3 жыл бұрын

The fact that they all never had the intention to become Kpop stars and all came to Korea around 2010-2011 basically means that they were meant to be friends by destiny. God was like, "These three need to be together." 😂😂

@nadiranursukma386 3 жыл бұрын

peniel face's panicking when ashley said "I didn't make any money for 7 years" 😂

@veritush 3 жыл бұрын

that screenshot is priceless meme material

@ptd92 3 жыл бұрын

So Eric was on to something when he introduced Ashley as your local kumon teacher?

@veritush 3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing!!!

@aurathenomnom 3 жыл бұрын

The way i fully understand Ashley, I'm 19 but I've been having those thoughts, wondering why I'm so laid-back and chilled and I'm not particularly career-oriented, especially in my family where people are super money oriented and your career is like your everything, people want to know what are before they want to know who you are. Tbh if i have money for sushi on the regular I'm just fine. I think the manner in which our society works now, is that it attaches our value and worth as human beings, onto our level of status, money, relationships. Seeing Ashley already being 28 and still vibing with our shared mindset has really helped me feel this amazing level of peace, and helped me realise that I'm not alone. Remember my beautiful people, there is no one-size-fits-all formula to living life, success looks different for everyone and as long as you're breathing, I'm really proud of you, thanks so much to this podcast for giving me this new outlook.

@iluvmugglenet2564 3 жыл бұрын

BM:There's a gang of sugar mamas out there! Peniel: really? How do you know 😏😏

@michanghyun 3 жыл бұрын

hahahahaha everytime someone ask Peniel a question about his life he literally doesn't know 🤣🤣🤣

@m0t0madre 3 жыл бұрын

slowly but surely this podcast is becoming my favorite. this trio is hilarious

@ekhos.echo. 3 жыл бұрын

I forget sammy and BM are homies :( I hope they hang out

@heartsofhearts 3 жыл бұрын

*I just have a thought! I want to see BM and Jackson Wang in the same room. The energy of the room will be off the roof.*

@navi3430 3 жыл бұрын

For real!

@HarkamaljitK5 3 жыл бұрын

The newest episode made that happen for us! 😭

@heartsofhearts 3 жыл бұрын

@@HarkamaljitK5 *It's manifestation and keep saying and thinking about that does it*

@user-xr1er7jn2j 3 жыл бұрын

you got your wish!

@heartsofhearts 3 жыл бұрын

@@user-xr1er7jn2j *It's been happening a lot. Thank you!*

@nheyem1201 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel's reaction when Ashley said that she did not make any money for 7 years was everything 😂

@tsumugi677 3 жыл бұрын

7:58 Peniel: Wait what?,I don't think I've seen anyone passing flyers inside a mall. Philippines: Let me introduce myself

@jihoonloverskim3661 3 жыл бұрын

Quarter life crisis BM : 25 hit me so hard. Ashley : I want to escape from everything Peniel : Do I have that crisis? Me : I'm 37 and still have that crisis.

@fate-. 3 жыл бұрын

BM: Your favourite subject? Peniel: Lunch. HE IS A WHOLE MOOD.

@whatchahowsya8688 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel is the prime example of not needing tons of education to speak wisdom and truth. I get what BM and Ashley is saying, but unfortunately that's not how life works. Being realistic while still focusing of your passion on the side isn't a bad idea.

@hazalatl186 3 жыл бұрын

The way BM is talking makes me feel less stressed tbh he speaks very wisely

@devastados 3 жыл бұрын

this episode went deep fam im 25, graduate and unemployed, so going through my quarter life crisis rn...

@prachik5910 3 жыл бұрын

Same I am 23 and waiting for a job since 1 year

@Elyw22 3 жыл бұрын

same same *sighs*

@alishauvais3646 3 жыл бұрын

THIS PODCAST SHOULD NEVER END. NEVER.

@soulofocean4709 3 жыл бұрын

There's such a huge difference between people raised in different countries and people born in Korea. I wish all Korean idols were this confident and understand that it's okay if it doesn't work out . You can always go and start something new. A great message here guys. Good job. I wish many youngsters listen to you all.

@nnnacy1159 3 жыл бұрын

Fav subject: lunch Best subject: math I can only relate to the first one, peniel

@kiyoomisakusa4212 3 жыл бұрын

Literally no one: ... Not even Peniel: ... Not even Ashley: ... Not even the HIDDEN KARD: ... BM's tanktop : *BIG TIDDIE GANG* 😂😂😂😂😂

@navi3430 3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE that top on him haha xD

@gioiamariella Жыл бұрын

i'm two years late to the "Get Real" podcasts and all I can say is that I'm the same age as BM was in this podcast and this episode really hits very, very close to home. My quarter life crisis came to me during the pandemic & it was SO BAD. but they're right, it's never too late to actually find the things you wanna do in life.

@patg9787 3 жыл бұрын

BM is not only the Big Tiddie, he also have a big heart❤

@beifangxuanwu4903 3 жыл бұрын

BAHAHAHA that death stare Ashley gave when Peniel said "like you"

@helenjennys7874 3 жыл бұрын

Ashely and Peniel have that Sibling vibe and energy AHHAHAHAA

@aishaaa13 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate to almost everything Peniel said in this video. Go with the flow, not knowing what to do or what to become in the future, feels like being the only one who doesn't know when everyone knows their goals, a little bit envy to people like BM who knows their dream and pursue it hard and able to achieve it. Getting realistic answer for the mail. And even getting confused whether never have he's having quarter life crisis. I love this episodes! Bless for you three and the people behind! 💙

@rjkore5229 2 жыл бұрын

As a lawyer I sing in musical theatre & with my band as a hobby... i get the best of both worlds so agree with Peniel!❤💪

@rocacore 3 жыл бұрын

Had a painting session listenin to the podcast with a mini crisis here and there, this feels like listening to older siblings advice and i'm here for it

@jhoebish 3 жыл бұрын

Who would even try to reject a flier from a boy who has plastered that kind of smile?! Like, GHORLLLL??!!

@maximilianocisneros2102 3 жыл бұрын

I love this podcast, they know how to talk with the audience. I want Ashley part rime job, sounds like fun

@kalyssaa 3 жыл бұрын

11:00 i can't not hear is eric saying "is it ur favorite girl group member or is it ur local kumon teacher"💀💀

@ireneliang234 3 жыл бұрын

LOOOL Peniel! "Yeah there's a saying- Oh nvm... we talk too much." So cute and thoughtful!!

@DeliaX 3 жыл бұрын

Didn't expect to burst into tears while watching this.. BMs words at 33:02 hit me so hard because I have such a strong desire to create and it's all I think about while I work my 9-5 corporate job. I want so badly to take a risk just once and to try commit to something that makes me happy.

@nelbiebs4552 3 жыл бұрын

"Sugar Mama" PENIEL! WTF 😂😂😂

@tegoshin 3 жыл бұрын

I love these series and it’s so nice to hear Peniel, Ashley and BM talking together~!

@user-ji7lw5jc3r 3 жыл бұрын

Ashley: People will tell me.. people look at me be like, "Why are so chill? you're not in a position to be chill right now!" "You should be so driven" "You should be so ambitious" "You should have fire in your eyes" "You should just be so greedy" And then I was like.. "Why? I dont care about success.. I dont care about money" like it is nice to have but it's not like "omg I need to be rich, I need to be successful!" some people look at it "oh you're not passionate you dont really wanna do this.." Why being passionate is a must? Why people think having a mediocre life is a bad thing? Is really it bad?

@CourtneyNicloe 3 жыл бұрын

Tbh success and mediocrity are subjective. You just gotta do you. As long as you, the individual, are happy f- everybody else.

@fatimakhapoli358 3 жыл бұрын

Looks like everyone laughs when it's about doodoo and farting because peniel and Ashley laughed!

@dementedchris 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel’s always seems so chill that it surprised me how his advice encouraged setting realistic goals: get your 9-5 sorted out, and pursue music on the side. 💙

@evelynkim6515 3 жыл бұрын

YES IM SO EXCITED FOR THIS EPISODE I LOVE THIS PODCAST SO MUCH

@anae.juarez1969 3 жыл бұрын

i came to listening ashley's story. She had the most interisting stories

@reggie3152 3 жыл бұрын

I never get bored with y’all’s podcast! :))

@tanyya2203 3 жыл бұрын

I love this sooo much. I don’t listen to any podcasts but this is just fun. Kinda wished they would read more concerns/problems from fans. Other that that this is literally the best thing to watch

@shaniatala4051 3 жыл бұрын

Ugh I literally just love listening to BM talk 😭💗

@heyitsmeh8465 2 жыл бұрын

I wish we have that system in Malaysia. Where we can try out classes to know which one we actually like and have passion in😣

@daepits 2 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@ezzye73 3 жыл бұрын

I like that BM talked about the "quarter life crisis". It's a real thing. And Peniel's fact that he didn't know on what he wanted to do. Society has a set of like targets that we are expected to reach to a certain age and to be honest i feel like that is overrated and like Ashley said you torture yourself trying to make it.

@Lorena-OT7 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel is so freaking funny with that wedding ring. Lol

@joyatzshen9195 3 жыл бұрын

My first time watching a conversation this long w/t getting bored..im a btob fan and i love how peniel answers with all sincerity but in a cute and smart way..this maybe the reason why sungjae loves him so much cos they both look smart and witty.,i love how respectful the convo goes ,not being sarcastic or trying to overpower one another👏👏👏

@siouxzieq17 3 жыл бұрын

BM is "The Kardfather"!! 😂🤣🙏🏼👌🏼

@rithanya_mahesh 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Penelope, Big Matilda, and Ashley are back!

@kosukenamekawa3270 3 жыл бұрын

Peniel is so funny 😂😂😂

@paritashah4650 3 жыл бұрын

I relate to BM so much. As soon as I turned 18 I started thinking about my career that within a year I was so worried I got into depression and the Covid lockdown made it even worse. I turned 20 this march and I started going for therapy and have realised that everything happens at its own time. That if I have patience and work hard to achieve my goals I can do it.

@_notyour_may28 3 жыл бұрын

I love BM and Ashley suggest the person who asked suggestion to pursue music career so that he/she can be happy the rest of his/her life. However I feel comfort by Peniel words to be logical. Sometimes, others can't see the whole situation when u have people or family to look after. At that time, we don't dare to take risks for our compassions. I have the same situation with the one who asked for opinion. All I can do at the moment is working 9 to 5 job for living cost and singing and composing at my free time for comforting myself. But it does work. I think... All we need is one really worked coping technique in our lives.

@shamei1212 3 жыл бұрын

I was also touching my feet when ashley said "stop touching your feet" M-maybe i also want a pedicure?? 😮

@Loulydollx3 3 жыл бұрын

Disgusting

@margarcia4841 3 жыл бұрын

this is so humbling. i remember being broke, starving, passing business cards to mail boxes just for people to see the value of what I do as a creative. tough times. they really ground and push you to want to live a creative path and test your loyalty to your craft.

@shadinal-shammari2378 3 жыл бұрын

bro i’m addicted. i’m binging all the get real eps. Help.

@anniehaa 3 жыл бұрын

This couldn’t be anymore representative of what’s currently been on my mind 🥺

@catbus3258 3 жыл бұрын

peniel is lowkey shy and awkward and it is ADORABLE

@cherrybars 3 жыл бұрын

I just discovered Dive Studios a few months back and I really enjoy GET REAL, KPBD AND HDIGH so much! It feels like I am just listening to my friends sharing stories. More power to you PENIEL, BM and ASHLEY! Please don't stop in making Get Real Episodes!!!

@sisimariab 3 жыл бұрын

Like how in the world they didn't pay for her for 7yrs omg🤦🏽‍♀️SMFH

@oliviadawt3851 3 жыл бұрын

Most kpop companies consider the money they spend on trainees as money they’re owed when the trainees debut. So like after debuting, they money they make goes to the company to pay off their trainee debt. But companies like the BIG3 entertainments YG, JYP, and SM and others used to do this but stopped a couple years ago because they said they consider the money spent as an investment in their trainees and they should keep the money they earn for themselves after.

@vilAvain 3 жыл бұрын

Olivia Dawt yea it kinda feels shady and scammy tbh

@lleucihill8508 3 жыл бұрын

@@oliviadawt3851 how do they survive? Are they given an allowance by their company or something?

@toto1712 3 жыл бұрын

@@lleucihill8508 the company provide food and housing, but that is pretty much it, I think.

@livainyangnyang6294 3 жыл бұрын

@@vilAvain but that is the risk u have to take tho. It is always risky to sign with smaller company because we are basically enrolling in their dance/singing academy with manager stylists and also mv productions. And boy I heard it cost a lot. So companh makes this break even system. It must have been a nightmare to some as soon as they realized that they weren't successful with their debut

@mojo8094 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a bit torn on the flyer part. It's always difficult for me to decide whether I should take the flyer, because I feel bad for the person doing their job and getting rejected so often, or if I shouldn't because printing those things is a waste of Earth's resources and I will throw it out once I'm out of sight anyway. I hate this form of advertising.

@XCornelia14 3 жыл бұрын

BM: What was your fav subject in high school? Peniel: Lunch. Always nails it!

@Raebeanie 3 жыл бұрын

This podcast is so dope!!

@kittyr7095 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like the person who mailed in wanting a career in music, should enter a writing academy (song writing) or music production company - this along side performing on the side (gigs, online) will bring opportunities and you never know where it’s going to lead. You could get paid well as a song writer and enjoy that instead, or you might really enjoy working in a music production environment OR you might meet some really good connections/get noticed and become an artist yourself. So I say this is a good option.