10 Signs You're Married to the Wrong Person

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6 жыл бұрын

Whether you're married or thinking about getting married, Daniel Ally shares a few signs to look for that could potentially harm your marital relationship.
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@georgemypuppy 4 жыл бұрын

Who the hell gives this kinda of advice....and he didnt mention withholding intimacy....liers/cheaters/ and manipulators/golddiggers need i go on....these types of people who just dont care.... here is the answer stop making these idiots feel like they are in the right when they are clearly wrong, Appeasing people when they are wrong breeds nothing but contempt and all you want to do is run...nothing like talking to a braindead bag of bones...when all they need is to be gassed...i refuse to make people think their right when its clear that after years of banging your head against a brick wall its a clue that its time to leave and seek out some type of happiness before its to late...we only get older and time disappears then your a day late and millions of dollars short....move on from these losers while your young recognize the signs early in the situationship...good luck people...Peace

@TheBkdot 6 жыл бұрын

the first sign that you're married to the wrong person is if you're looking at this video wondering if you're married to the wrong person.

@SV-pn6wz 5 жыл бұрын

TheBkdot 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@toy5309 5 жыл бұрын

Lol..facts..lol

@terrymoore2 5 жыл бұрын

Yes so true because when you’re in love you won’t want to hear or read anything negative.

@KK-de5ty 5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha that’s true though

@lilithmoon3178 5 жыл бұрын

lol agreed

@TheDaughterOfYah_ 9 ай бұрын

10 Signs 1. Misunderstood by spouse 2. Don't share the same passions 3. They don't know your work 4. Lack of support 5. You have completely different spirits 6. Disagree with money 7. If they cheat on you 8. They lack ambition 9. Takers 10. They don't care That's all folks!

@JM-lx9jo 10 күн бұрын

🙏🏼

@Drea12_. 5 жыл бұрын

How about a partner who stonewall's you.. doesn't show ANY type of love or affection towards you ..you feel lonely..unloved... unwanted and disrespected

@TayIorSwifft 5 жыл бұрын

Same here

@Dawnofabrightday 5 жыл бұрын

I’m right there myself........😥

@jackatomin 5 жыл бұрын

No sh*t! Or the porn addicts.

@MelaniaRose 4 жыл бұрын

Move on life is too short relationships aren’t meant to cause pain all the time

@vibekes2416 4 жыл бұрын

Andrea Laforest I'm no expert, but therapy is very important to try saving a marriage. But most important, dont rush into a marriage in the first place. We need to take the time to really get to know the other person first. 1-2 years is not a long time if we are supposed to be with them for the rest of our life.

@reddiamond9585 Жыл бұрын

This hit home! I realized after 17 years of marriage that I really don’t like my husband. He’s very high-strung & easily frustrated. It’s like walking in eggshells everyday being around him. I’m not perfect but we definitely have different personalities and now that I’m in my 40’s, I prefer more calmness in my life. My husband isn’t calm. I feel constantly disrespected and under appreciated. He may feel the same because I’ve started giving up. My husband has some wonderful qualities, but his negative side is starting to outweigh the positive. Ugh. I love him but I don’t like him.

@charlottejara3 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like my situation

@magretbryan4472 Жыл бұрын

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@magretbryan4472 Жыл бұрын

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@niksomerford Жыл бұрын

I can imagine my wife writing this.

@sbaby-np5hy Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh it's like you live in my house.

@ksuxaksks 5 жыл бұрын

What if you are the one always trying, loving and communicating, but they just don't care?

@Drea12_. 5 жыл бұрын

My point exactly

@3Bros001 5 жыл бұрын

Well if u like black men in your man 😏

@korrythatsme1356 5 жыл бұрын

Ksenia Chervonaia my husband made me bitter towards him because of this

@suesuez8452 5 жыл бұрын

M facing the same situation ,he just don't care .

@risenforth96req34 4 жыл бұрын

@@suesuez8452 he does he just doesnt know that because he is so immature

@oshunblessedbe4416 4 жыл бұрын

You don't reccomend divorce unless he cheats on you?? What about physical abuse What about mental abuse??

@Twinkie989 4 жыл бұрын

Oshun blessed be totally invalidates everything else he had to say. I’m stuck with a narcissist who has daily temper tantrums. He has already been told I am leaving when the kids are old enough, but he won’t deal with reality. When we were separated before, he stalked me.

@SabaFrida 4 жыл бұрын

Oshun blessed be My ex husband hit me u left I vowed I would only leave next husband if I get cheated Now I’m abused mentally like crazy Now I’m thinking f marriage it’s a joke and yes I’m highly religious even then

@taniaen6124 4 жыл бұрын

I think those reasons are pretty obvious.... thats why he doesn't bring those up

@elizabethcoyoc2489 3 жыл бұрын

@@Twinkie989 I am going through a very similar situation. I am planning on leaving him. But I am afraid if he will stalk me.

@lilromance95 3 жыл бұрын

Twinkie I left my husband and he pressured me to return

@MakaZama 4 жыл бұрын

I am soo married to the wrong person and it’s killing me, but I cannot get out at the moment. Its inevitable one day we will divorce. I’m soo tired

@onlyshortvideos2621 3 жыл бұрын

Same here its also killing me

@blessingsmwale8004 3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@kellydeunshakeable7959 3 жыл бұрын

Me I do hold on because of my kids ..its killing me more I can imagine

@josetteblue123 3 жыл бұрын

So am I, I pray I leave him and find someone better.

@barrybleich3455 3 жыл бұрын

I've been with my wife 23yrs no love told that I'm annoying told to shut up all the time she complains about money but won't get a job house is a mess but she's home all day I got to hunt for clothes on 3 floors of my house to find a pair of socks I'm mentally drained I try to save money she says I'm hording money I look forward if there's a rainy day.

@thinkb4udecide6 4 жыл бұрын

1.They misunderstand you 2. They dont share you passion 3. They dont know your work 4. The Lack of Support 5. You have Different Spirits 6. Disagree with money 7. If They Cheat On You 8. They Lack Ambition 9. Takers 10. They don't care

@theong9454 4 жыл бұрын

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@mariojackson4773 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@SaraVV Жыл бұрын

upvote this summary

@lalapsy23 4 жыл бұрын

I am divorced and I'm so happy. It's the best thing I have ever done. They were wrong for me. Everyone knew and saw apart from me - big sign!! I'm so glad I'm divorced nothing compares to that freedom ♡♡♢ Love and light

@adriennehankton4963 3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree

@roccisteele345 3 жыл бұрын

On my way out I can see the light!!!!!!!

@theanimationstation1574 3 жыл бұрын

I'm in rout to Pray I get there dude just make reasons/to stay when you knoe what u got move on life is to short

@nicoleyap6070 3 жыл бұрын

Did you have any children with this person? If not, then it's easier to get out.

@TiffahLabeeb 2 жыл бұрын

Same!!!!

@sometimesreviewsandthinkin5056 6 жыл бұрын

I left a bad relationship. Not compatible. I am happier now.

@alexnguyen2557 4 жыл бұрын

@Victoria Akomolede technically the biggest reason a divorce happens is when a couple doesn't communicate anymore and communication is the biggest reason why most marriage failed

@zubair1749 4 жыл бұрын

How plz tell

@zubair1749 4 жыл бұрын

Plz tell

@dinaweets6471 4 жыл бұрын

What do I do if I have kids I want to get out but what about the kids

@clementwang7097 3 жыл бұрын

@@dinaweets6471 i think you need to talk to a divorce consultant.

@EddieLeal 4 жыл бұрын

Resentment and indifference are two of the biggest relationship killers.

@recabitejehonadab2654 3 жыл бұрын

Resentment 👍.

@denisepfahl3147 Жыл бұрын

Contempt is the killer of any marriage

@globetrotter6404 4 жыл бұрын

There are worse things than Infidelity like emotional abuse, shutting down from your partner completely. It's time to move on before you go into the cheating loop.

@endingiswashing7813 Жыл бұрын

Cheatng .. so evil criminals contrl evrythng...but is evrythng undr contrl? So watchng sx shows to lov shows all pesnl prvt

@rebeccalucas6063 6 жыл бұрын

I agree with what you brought up, except infidelity being the only reason for divorce. Abuse either physical, psychological or a narcissist is dangerous, and can cause a lifetime of trauma, PTSD, suicide attempts (I lost a friend recently from suicide because of years of narcissist abuse from her spouse). Abuse should be added to this list no bruises or broken bones needed to show abuse. I agree wholeheartedly with the rest of the list however.

@monicanath4859 5 жыл бұрын

Rebecca Lucas yes-people can be very difficult to deal with-that is no life!

@UKnowMeIMURDaddy 5 жыл бұрын

A good marriage is when a wife understands the back of her husband's hand.

@gustavusadolphus4344 5 жыл бұрын

SouthToledo Ohio030276 OH SHIT that’s a hot take

@had2chopit2 4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. I believe some people just have a hard time with their own boundaries and then allowing abuse to happen. I got real lucky when an abusive marriage was ended by estranged narcissistic spouse, years later I realized that I didn't give the supply by allowing me to be abused, emotional and verbally, physical abuse was different being three times the size of the abusive wife.. I was ignorant

@dianebennett1661 4 жыл бұрын

You got to follow God order vengeance belongs to the lord and he will repay

@ruthmegela2781 Жыл бұрын

Just don't get married, live your life and enjoy it without any obligation

@lesleycronin832 Жыл бұрын

Marriage is a trap

@mirza5746 4 жыл бұрын

The basic reasons are: High egoes. High sarcastic thinking they are perfect. Lacking manners of talk. They are very attracted to money. If they have interest on others affairs. If they don't believe in good and bad. Maintains too much secrets for therself. Very dramatic with their approach (stubborn).

@s9ka972 4 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said... Me and my wife are mostly same.

@SabaFrida 4 жыл бұрын

Shit u just described my husbands personality

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@nomathembadzinotyiwei8077 5 жыл бұрын

This is some of the best advice I’ve heard so far. Marriage really takes patience and good communication. However that requires a level of self-awareness that many of us don’t have. I cannot explain my mission, vision or purpose to my spouse if I don’t know or understand it myself.

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@Mark70609 2 жыл бұрын

Communication is harder than it seems.

@doreenmoshier9847 4 жыл бұрын

OMG IM NOT EVEN 1/2 WAY THROUGH THE LIST & I REALIZE WHAT A MISTAKE I MADE! I ask for a good Christian man that loves Jesus as much as I do that doesn't drink smoke or do drugs. What I got, I found out later after marriage, was a narcissistic, lying, agnostic, abusive, man that is an alcoholic & smoke. We are separated now but I was trying to work on it because I don't believe in divorce. Oh my gosh I'm stuck. Wow! How revealing this video was

@makimak7703 3 жыл бұрын

wow really why my wife is a taker abd never appreciate all the things i done im Christian im scared of GOD dont leave me.. i dont believe in divorce she got a attitude of a camelion change color when your out if sight then she attack.. Now im stuck whit a big lagguage in my back .. i must remove it and be my self and pray to GOD.

@temjenkrazy 2 жыл бұрын

If you were not able to find out that you husband was not doing smoke, drink or drugs, and having good Christian values during your courtship time. I seriously think you have some serious lapse of judgment issue too.

@wms72 2 жыл бұрын

I asked God for a good Christian man, too. Got a psychopath who POSED as a good Christian. Beware!!!

@mattgaetz3376 4 жыл бұрын

This video made me realize i need to divorce ty.

@lizwick 4 жыл бұрын

Matt Gaetz I know I need to divorce. I’m with a negative person who doesn’t value me.

@berels3655 4 жыл бұрын

Same😩 can't wait to divorce.

@jays4dayzllc164 4 жыл бұрын

me too

@elsanatsopiyan3125 3 жыл бұрын

😲😲

@BG-sq7zf 3 жыл бұрын

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

@jrcruz8968 3 жыл бұрын

Once he or she makes you feel like you are roommates, then that is time you need to get out!

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@charlottehanna790 2 жыл бұрын

Truth

@Nur100etc Жыл бұрын

This is really good. But another one I would add (related to a couple of the others) is: THEY DON’T SHARE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR. I think this is so important! For instance, one partner might like to engage in teasing and intense sarcasm whereas the other might feel genuinely insulted by that. Or one partner might like to make witty remarks in a dry fashion and feel profoundly disappointed when their partner never “gets” it.

@ainaazain1351 4 жыл бұрын

serious question : do we really need to have a partner?

@skullgarden2417 4 жыл бұрын

No. Of course not. Some people just don't do well in relationships while others thrive.

@javieraponte5159 4 жыл бұрын

No we don't, and if you do, you have a dependence problem, just like an alcoholic needs alcohol or a drug addict needs drugs, in order to feel good about themselves. In my opinion, this video is just politically correct bullshit. The bottom line is this, if you have to constantly convince yourself & your partner that both of you have to compromise & always meet their expectations all the time, just to avoid getting into arguments, you're both with the wrong partner, and just not compatible. Neither of you should have to pretend to be someone you're not, just to make the other person "happy". If you & your partner can't accept each other for who & what you truly are, you're with the wrong person, no amount of compromise is going to change that, that's better known as wishful thinking. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤷‍♂️

@nivedita_chakrabarti 3 жыл бұрын

@aranchaprashar3216 3 жыл бұрын

Some people don't like to be tamed!!!

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@mustanggt5713 4 жыл бұрын

Don't marry someone unless you are 1000% in love with that person and have dated for atleast 2 years and have been through good and bad times together.

@babykingandmamajourneyatbp9067 4 жыл бұрын

thats my problem i do love him 1000% but hes mamas boy

@will4evermoore 4 жыл бұрын

mikay pasaway take a step back and see what is what.

@johncronin3105 4 жыл бұрын

You should date someone for way longer than 2 yrs before marrying them. 5 yrs minimum

@katemaunder2080 4 жыл бұрын

We dated for 5 years and I was very deeply in love but lost all trust in him. He's a compulsive liar.

@daliben6972 4 жыл бұрын

@@babykingandmamajourneyatbp9067 😂😂😂mamas boy

@rodsmith9641 5 жыл бұрын

I regret getting married..I'm married to a immature little girl, not a woman..She the biggest mistake in my life!!...I want out but I can't leave my girls..6 and 1 yrs old . I put my happiness on hold for theirs

@danielallyway 5 жыл бұрын

Rod smith God will never put you in a situation that you could not handle! Make the best use of your relationship!

@cytokinesxx4271 5 жыл бұрын

Did she show signs before marriage?

@damarisndunge6090 5 жыл бұрын

But you chose her, what maturity are you talking of? Men you are cheated by young age of which it 1%marriage factor to consider.

@Stoneballer-bx1zu 5 жыл бұрын

If you can't stand who you're married to, the kids can tell. They're smarter than adults in that regard. Imo, staying together just for the kids is not a good idea.

@Stoneballer-bx1zu 5 жыл бұрын

@@UKnowMeIMURDaddy You sound hopeful when you say that. Not everybody parties that way, bro.

@garynelson9538 4 жыл бұрын

I have ONE question. Every license in this country expires, so why don’t a Marriage License expires?? Ijs.

@pallavi08sharma 4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@nathalielanau5342 4 жыл бұрын

I agree..lol

@lanceli1971 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree!!

@lulue9424 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 yeah 100% agree

@jays4dayzllc164 4 жыл бұрын

Seriously

@momsacount Жыл бұрын

This video just made me realise that i am married to the wrong person. It is such a painful reality that i have to face. I hope to meet the right person at the right time because his actions show me that he was never the one for me. It is time to move on.

@Mzshey2006 5 жыл бұрын

Current situation while being .. married for 3 months . I can’t endure the addiction to Alcohol and Drug use. I’m drained Mentally, emotional and physically. I just want peace !! Nothing else !!

@chinocharles1755 4 жыл бұрын

If u want him to stop....then u just try drinking as he do

@LorettaGalvanni 3 жыл бұрын

Darling get out! He won’t change if he doesn’t really want to. I am not sure but if you do not have children this is the best time! I wasted 9 years of my life in horrible marriage sadly I stayed for the kids. Anyways he ended up getting a new girl and left. My only regret is not divorcing him earlier

@mimilalla6197 3 жыл бұрын

leave before you have kids

@andersonm9089 4 жыл бұрын

anyone who watched this is in the wrong marriage. I believe cheating is not the only reason that should guarantee a separation. People want to live, to love, and not to be bitter. After trying a thousand times, well, you can call it quit.

@NeilKudro 4 жыл бұрын

After 20yrs of marriage, my partner fits every one of these steps. Not sure what to do now. We are so far apart it's making my kids grow apart from me. I feel it's a losing battle.

@mellyg7741 Жыл бұрын

How are things now ?

@potatojoe1070 Жыл бұрын

Never let her dictate how close you are with your children. Even if you are apart, reach out to them. Call them, send them messages, show them care and love. Life is short do move on, but your kids are something you just don't give up on

@mellyg7741 Жыл бұрын

@@potatojoe1070good advice! I would never let my spouse put a wedge between me and my kids.

@joi12345678 4 жыл бұрын

This is why in my heart I Romanticize about marriage, but in my head I refuse to marry based on emotion. I definitely don’t believe infidelity is the only reason to get divorced. I feel like if you’re unhappy and you’ve realized that you’re loving someone else to the detriment of your own mental health and self love you should end it.

@c.a.bradley5848 Жыл бұрын

@JoiLove, I definitely have to agree with you. Protecting your inner being is vital for your sanity, else the harm done will cause irreparable disdain for humankind.

@irishissey2392 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I needed to hear that.

@halron9435 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you daniel..i am going through a rough patch with my husband.

@buffplums 4 жыл бұрын

This is papering over the cracks. When you’ve been married for over 30 years you know but the problem is at that stage you might have children or grandchildren

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@bigvalley4987 3 жыл бұрын

Yes because breaking up the family, will always change the dynamics of the family. But you have to do what you do, for your own sanity.

@positive_energy8259 5 жыл бұрын

I found this video so helpful, please people mind the other person as well. We are not the only ones who get hurt, we have to learn to understand and listen to what the other have to say, while we speak our truth!

@jamiesoutherland8884 4 жыл бұрын

Praise God Glory to God thank u Jesus for that key words about each other not one another

@oscarwilliamson1264 3 жыл бұрын

Positive_energy,I admire your lovely smile 😊!

@monibee1980 4 жыл бұрын

Why does this feel like the burden to fix this is all on the person who thinks they are married to the wrong person? Omg.

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@MusicMan-bj4pt 5 жыл бұрын

I see where your coming from though its up to the person and if they are not happy they should leave. The choice is up to each individual

@GregoryMcCarthy123 2 жыл бұрын

I’m glad I watched this because I realized none of these apply to my wife and I. It made me realize we are on the right track! Thank you!

@yolakahmathews6913 6 жыл бұрын

Mine is a pathological liar who no longer cares about our relationship, You are have a lot of wisdom for your age, once a gain what a lovely video.

@alliancemangalaboy818 5 жыл бұрын

Daniel Ally, Your videos are too inspiring and motivating, i've subscribed to your channel hoping to get more, thank you for the great Job.

@danielallyway 5 жыл бұрын

You'll be getting more!

@frankieroberson3398 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Daniel; Twitter & Facebook got a dose of this truthful video!!! :)

@oscarwilliamson1264 3 жыл бұрын

Frankie Robertson,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!

@MsSimpleMovies 2 жыл бұрын

There's no fixing a personality disorder. They can work on themselves, but the best thing is just to take each other in doses. Live in shifts. 15 years with a man with Avoidant Personality Disorder and Dependent Personality Disorder, and he still behaves like a foster puppy freshly coming from an abusive household, tail between his legs and saying I'm always angry. No, his mother was always angry. I'm just living my best life, dude!

@SultryNeoSoul 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video 💯

@tan8576 6 жыл бұрын

You're genius Daniel Ally. Thanks so much. I took a lot from this video. It completed all my uncompleted thoughts.

@singingwindrider9881 3 жыл бұрын

He's my ex now. Blamed me for his unhappiness. He's still unhappy. I'm not. When he said he no longer wanted to b married to me, turned out to b great for me. I cried nearly every day/ night of our 17 yrs of legal marriage. I hardly ever cry now!

@cc6690 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you! Thank you😊

@andrew911dragon 4 жыл бұрын

I just simply cannot imagine what would happen if viewers take what you said seriously if they are in a relationship or are married to someone who is a narcissist, a sociopath or other extremely manipulative person......

@sumanmanghra6097 6 жыл бұрын

Great topic, came to me at the perfect time! Sometimes I get down about my hubby not being as ambitious or on the same spiritual path as me... we have money issues as a result and feel disengaged at times, but he's very loving and supporting and I know if I keep looking at the issues they will just grow however I still struggle to communicate with him, he doesn't absorb much what I say and even through email or written communication its in one ear and then out the other.... 🙄🙄🙄😩😩😩

@danielallyway 6 жыл бұрын

MrsBhangra ! Send him this video-and my other ones too!

@sumanmanghra6097 6 жыл бұрын

Daniel Ally my husband doesn't discuss money with me. I earn more than him and I think this bothers him though he doesn't say. I have told him about all my ambitions and savings I would like to make and also all my debts that I'm working on reducing, with my game plan. I ask him to give me a breakdown of exactly what he earns and spends and he never tells me. I ask him few times but don't want to nag either. I've sent him your video link but not even confident he will even watch it. We are on different pages ambitiously and financially and it does make me concerned about our future...

@obedaikins 5 жыл бұрын

@@sumanmanghra6097 I think we're on the same page

@obedaikins 5 жыл бұрын

@@sumanmanghra6097 we have the same problem with our partners

@kbank5259 3 жыл бұрын

He should be happy, my wife lies about the most stupidest things, i get depressed, i have problems regarding family with this women!!

@evagacula-servano2434 5 жыл бұрын

Thanl you,Daniel Ally!i think you know many things from money to love.God bless you even more!

@pallavi08sharma 4 жыл бұрын

Loved it .. superbly explained 👍🏻

@shivanisrinivas3913 3 жыл бұрын

I fell in love with this guy who was a completely different personality before marriage and now after marriage he is showing me all his dark sides and is killing me physically and mentally I feel like shit.

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@-gordon3817 2 жыл бұрын

He could be a narcissist. Many people enter marriage/relationships to people who appear loving and wonderful in the initial stages of the relationship then they are like a monster once you're married!! This is a primary example of a narcissist & it's important to realize that they don't change!! Emotional abuse is just as destructive as physical. Hence, start by watching videos on KZfaq about narcissist, so you can educate yourself about iy & learn how to protect yourself from a person who is one. You are worthy of being in a loving & healthy relationship!!

@NuLyteTV 2 жыл бұрын

I was dating someone who misunderstood everything I said. I was like gosh I can’t do this. I know the woman he’s with now and she tells me he’s dramatic and argumentative. I knew it wasn’t me 🤷🏻‍♀️

@christinamitrovich7554 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like my ex partner and he is father of my child.

@Lasbeth977 Жыл бұрын

Thank God you left earlier.

@marygoodman9530 4 жыл бұрын

Great video, very imperative everyone listens to this before marriage, yes together forever like salt and pepper 😊

@glenlambert8200 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for this video ❤️

@arabiannights7747 3 жыл бұрын

Bro mind blowing motivation speech really loved it keep up the good work🥰

@OneEyedLion 2 жыл бұрын

This can also apply to a potential mate. Another great video. You hit the nail right on the head.

@shonaosmond4886 2 жыл бұрын

One of the biggest signs I have that I’m married to the wrong person is that he told me I don’t know how to be a woman. His biggest need in our marriage is sex and I just had major surgery. He only cares about his own needs, he doesn’t give a crap about mine at all. Not one single one of my needs.

@paulwilliams5855 4 жыл бұрын

You right when it comes to to these points.

@hopeseeker97 4 жыл бұрын

I feel dead inside...miserable...broke...and angry. I feel more like a live in maid than a wife and mother.

@hopeseeker97 4 жыл бұрын

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@necoleyarde4880 4 жыл бұрын

Amen me too😑

@hopeseeker97 4 жыл бұрын

@Karen I lived that way for years. Please choose life. Work on you and who you are. I don't know your situation but I do know about living every day wanting to die. The result? I lost my youth. I missed out on life. I'm not elderly but I'm no spring chicken. Please seek help. Talk to someone. 😔❤

@MusicMan-bj4pt 4 жыл бұрын

I’m personally planning to always remain single marriage is not for me

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@pavasverma3525 2 жыл бұрын

I took my wife for a vacation to Bhutanto talk to her about the way she talks to me which is very rudely. We found all the time and she refused to get out of our hotel room & i didn't even. I just said sorry all the time & we roam around a little bit on the last day. I am never telling her my issues ever again. Just hoping to out live her & then spend few years peacefully.

@charlesdsouza3893 4 жыл бұрын

Dear Daniel, nice n useful talk, every married person has to listen and try to adjust in married life. yes thanks. Best of luck.

@vickyaaa 4 жыл бұрын

Do this also applied if the marriage age just 4 months? Because my husband and me have all the signs you said and I'm confused either give him some more time to adapt or I should just leave him asap before my heart getting more broken into pieces?

@fatmanslim4592 2 жыл бұрын

only 4 months?...did you just jump into marriage without it feeling right? Must have already felt the signs before wedding day

@kadaj187 3 жыл бұрын

you dont need 10 signs. just by clicking this video is enough

@lindariley3515 6 жыл бұрын

Good info.

@joshuacorbin221 15 күн бұрын

#2 is where I am, it's not ignorance of my passion, I'm up against true emnity against my passions. I can't blame my wife for not following my passion. The truth is I have chosen to forego passion, for a stable relationship.

@charlesdsouza3893 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Daniel very nice video, good advice to those who want to adjust their marriage relationship. Very useful advice for married people to become careful, how to understand, respect each other, care for each other, love each other, help, understand each other, not attack more about money. I liked this video very much, fortunately I got a good , caring devine wife, giving first importance to prayer, first preference to God, helping needy. Thank you very much for nice video, God bless.

@DougTozier 3 жыл бұрын

When you realize after 31 years that she still thinks she is the same 19 year old who stole your heart, and you also realize that neither of you are the same people you were so long ago and you made a huge mistake then which should not rule your life now. Not to mention you gave up everything to become what she wanted you to be; you need to rediscover that person you really are; and she is just like her mother.

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@drumsnbass Жыл бұрын

You’ve met my ex-wife I see…

@sadekibirch2209 3 жыл бұрын

I like what ur saying bro,great encouragement, communication and understanding is very important in marriage

@sadekibirch2209 3 жыл бұрын

your on point all what your saying is true so true,and many marriages would be safe if persons know these things.

@avinashkhopade4708 2 жыл бұрын

Superb explaination! Thnx a lot.

@NeilKudro 4 жыл бұрын

It's draining when I do my best work hard and it's never enough. What ever I do it's not much. If it's going to take the same amount of time to reconnect that means I will be over 70 if lucky. At this point I'm actually thinking weather to pull the trigger end this now and move on. But the only reason I'm hesitating is my three kids.

@sidrakhan4409 4 жыл бұрын

Neil P71 May God bless you and guide you through the right path.

@NeilKudro 4 жыл бұрын

@@sidrakhan4409 Update, Its sad to report I can no longer carry the burden sacrifice staying in the same house with my now I call ex wife even though we are not officially divorced. I just learned my ex is playing dirty listening to her controlling mother and family. She is now openly turning my kids against me. I tried my best raising my kids to love each other and to always act and behave as a team. If one suffers we all suffer and if one is happy we all are happy. I tried reaching them no matter what my ex and I decide to do or how bad our differences are we will always stick together as one. Now my wife managed to teach at least my oldest kids that there are two teams in our family. My team the father and her team our three kids and ex wife. My youngest son is not giving in that easy and I can see the frustration as she is trying it turn him against me. From what I can tell, she won't be able to because my youngest has good common sense for his age But my oldest kids are far gone in the head and will stand blindly with my ex. No matter what I now tell my kids I will always be there for them and will always love them until my last breath. I learned my wife is so brainwashed by her family and everything she does is against what I am trying to do.

@sidrakhan4409 4 жыл бұрын

Neil P71 Thats indeed a sad and most difficult situation to go through. I can only pray for you and no matter what stay strong and always care for your kids no matter how bitter the situation is. One day they will realize the whole situation and will come to you. Stay strong and never stop communication with your kids.

@alisalih1492 2 жыл бұрын

My wife is basically all of it without the cheating part. The problem is of i levave her then i have to pay the family 23k dollars. And there is a risk that the family might harm me. I might be killed by them, who knows. Im trapped, what can i do?!!! I want to leave but then i might get harmed and i have to pay à LOT of money. Its basically barcause of tradition. I really want to leave my monster wife. She is a narscissist

@johnsonpeterson1722 2 жыл бұрын

My ex wife always feel she was entitled to everything I had. And always wanted to drag me to divorce court, whereas when we divorce the person making higher profit. Which was me would have to give her a big amount of money. I avoided all this , through the hacker that saved my life. He provided everything on her phone, I had enough evidence to use against her.

@soundspecs3146 4 жыл бұрын

The ol’ switcharoo. 🤔 well played, sir.

@nivatrivedi2902 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely correct 👍,

@Peter_Parker69 4 жыл бұрын

my ex gf lied about not talking to her ex anymore. i dumped her and they became even closer. i considered it cheating , do you?

@sarahd8674 4 жыл бұрын

Peter Parker I feel that cheating is different for every person. If you discussed it with her and if she respected your thoughts/feelings then she would have not made you question the trust you have for her. My husband got so drunk at a military ball and put his hands all over another female in front of me and he looked like a rapist because she was so much smaller than him and she was trying to walk away. The only thing that got him away was me pulling on his ear to snap him out of it. I have been fighting with these thoughts for almost a year and gave myself an ultimatum, much more has happened as well. For about a year now we have been in counseling and all I seem to hear is that he has changed, you’re selfish if you take your baby girl away, or that let it go it’s been months ago... But as for right now, I think I want to get separated to heal myself which I deserve. It hurts so much that I never stood up for myself, that I always was silent or too calm when he was the biggest jerk and Always took him in.

@saraiahthurlow6670 4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@amazinggrace313 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@michellem7727 5 жыл бұрын

An amazing share from my husband tonight, I was a little put off by the title however, grateful I gave it a chance. Thank you for the tips and stellar optimism!

@danielallyway 5 жыл бұрын

Michelle M I’m glad you gave it a chance too!

@jamiesoutherland8884 4 жыл бұрын

@@danielallyway I"m so glad that your love 4 God and him working in you to help others in there marriages and other things you do for him out of love because he first loved u. Man you make me cry in a good way cause God used you to help me as well. Even though I lost what I had and had to learn and listen the hard way. Thank U Daniel and keep on for God .God bless u and peace always be with you wherever u go. IN Jesus NAME AMEN.

@Th3lite 4 жыл бұрын

All of the above applies and it's too much pressure for me to handle. It's weighing me down.

@Mark70609 2 жыл бұрын

Lack of support must be the big one. People become complacent and take the other person for granted, something special becomes something mundane.

@waynejohnson2894 6 жыл бұрын

You are truly a positive and wise person. All the problems you presented, you articulated practical solutions. Awesome man...awesome.....!!! New mentee head your way. God bless you!!

@lillianmupeta1835 5 жыл бұрын

I am married to a wrong person, and our marriage is not ordained by God. With children i have a high calling upon my life but every time i feel drained of my spirituality by my so called husband. Physically nothing is working for us. What can i do

@wamaithandungu43 5 жыл бұрын

Lillian Mupeta you have just described my life to the T.

@halron9435 5 жыл бұрын

Same here..when i say something he dosent understand me. He takes it seriously. I realised i have to explain myself. I said to him, dont you want to know me more, he said he dosent want to. Am so confused and a have a baby.

@che263 5 жыл бұрын

Me too. My parents and sister doesnt trust him anymore because sexual attemps when my sister is still young. He is like other person and he doesnt know whats going on with fhe family and whats the family's goal. I dont love him anymore and no trust anymore. The only thing that is keeping me from him is he takes care of my kid and the kid loves him. What should i do?

@kwesidiamonds8242 5 жыл бұрын

There is no marriage ordained by God , it's a personal choices and decisions which got you where you are now .There is no such as ordained marriage by God you made your own choice if it was not arranged marriage my dear .

@maslinebere2622 5 жыл бұрын

Lillian Mupeta Try work it out with him

@sivijuggernath 2 ай бұрын

The reason I am watching this is not because I am married to the wrong person but to try and understand my feelings better❤

@HealthyPlanet 2 жыл бұрын

Hi, thank you. I can think of how when a spouse talks bad about their spouse behind their back this could be another sign too. This is betrayal.

@karishmanegi438 3 жыл бұрын

The man I am married is so paranoid whenever I tried to tell him what her mom’s action makes me feel. He always blames me for my complaints

@paulmareva45 3 жыл бұрын

Wat do you expect him to do? Control his mum? U are making him choose btwn u & his mum its not a easy decision to make, to sumone else maybe ur mother in laws sister or brother,

@charlottehanna790 2 жыл бұрын

Narcissist

@cassiearrowood1471 4 жыл бұрын

i married the wrong person because of my mother wanting to married somebody i wasnt in love with now i am having anxiety i am hurting i am feeling stuck i am feeling like i will never get over this

@fatmanslim4592 2 жыл бұрын

oh god....never listen to your parents. They grew up in a vastly different generation and have different expectations and reality. Take their advice but follow your own gut. Thank god I didnt listen to my parents or else the rest of my life right now would probably be abject misery

@Tarron_Innovative_World 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video

@CookBookbyTalat 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video. Really very very useful.

@charishempress560 5 жыл бұрын

Well, I do feel like I'm married to a wrong person coz he doesn't care how I feel whenever he's hiding important matters to me. Like his drinking. I kept explaining him why it's not good when a person drinks too much and we always end up having a misunderstanding when he drinks. I've been very patient for the whole entire 9 years. He was always sorry about it ( for the lies ) but he still end up doing the same thing. We all know people who drinks a lot, mostly get into trouble. Sometimes, they didn't even know how they get to a certain place and how things happen, not sure how they get home etc. All I wanted is for him to be always safe and healthy but he never understand my point which makes me feel useless as his wife, his friend, his partner in life.

@estefaniamoreira4054 5 жыл бұрын

As women to women what I have come to learn most men, not all, have this thing called "dont tell me what to do" attitude. Idk why when in the end of the day as a wife or gf, you just care about them yet they dont get it. It's like children. You want them to stop doing something and you explain why this isn't right? What do most kids do? Do it again, again, UNTIL that thing you told them many times not to do actually harms them. THEN they will do something about it and all you have to say is I told you so. That's it. If you can't make him realize eventually he will have to do it on his own. As sad as it sounds.

@recabitejehonadab2654 3 жыл бұрын

People that have addictions are not worth having a relationship with. There is no future to have with an addict if they are only going to destroy themselves with drugs. Don’t get dragged into their hell. Life is short , find someone to be happy with. I would leave him in an instant. He’s not a man yet but a boy that needs to grow up and live responsibly.

@davidchapaexproaloudthecit1302 2 жыл бұрын

Thank for this video

@aveshekamati5178 4 жыл бұрын

🥰wow that's very wonderful 🙏✌

@ridusharma9761 4 жыл бұрын

How ironical ! The title of the video says 'married to the wrong person' and suggests in every point to try make it work any how. It's good to try and give your 100% in a relationship or marriage but once it's clear the person isn't good for me or simply if people aren't happy. I believe it's better to move on and give life another chance. Everyone deserves love and happiness. Cheating or physical abuse aren't the only good reason to take a divorce. Just not being happy in a relationship is also a major reason. Anyway, the points mentioned in this video to identify a wrong partner are quite realistic and true. Thankyou for that.

@alangeorge2224 6 жыл бұрын

Sir please do a video about HOW TO BECOME A GOOD LEADER..

@joaquinpasillas3736 2 жыл бұрын

All that advise is great advise, sometimes nothing that you have spent your life trying cant even began to sink in

@mariasalales631 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like my partners were drawn to me because I gave them a sense of stability and was respectful but I did not share their passions. I don't feel as if I stopped them from doing their passions but they did not turn it into a problem until much later in the relationship after I put so much effort into the relationship. I tried to participate in what they liked but I genuinely did not enjoy the activities and they would criticize me for such and make me feel incompetent. I encouraged them to find friends to do such and they would emphasize they wanted me to be their partner in such. I told them perhaps they needed a new partner that prioritized such activities and was just as passionate about those activities. I feel as if I always was clear that I'm not into extreme sports etc. That being said......always being reminded that you are not enough is draining.

@MusicMan-bj4pt 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve never been married or in a relationship. I’m still trying to figure myself out as an individual through JESUS since surviving being hit by a city bus through JESUS. I’m adopting many principles.

@recabitejehonadab2654 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@smchoudhary123 4 жыл бұрын

my wife doesnot like anything... just in mood of fight or irritated all the time

@fouodjimelachiostephaniemi7234 4 жыл бұрын

Give her affection

@mrsg7291 4 жыл бұрын

Communication is key

@recabitejehonadab2654 3 жыл бұрын

Communication and affection takes time and most guys don’t want to deal with it and the more their spouse is pushed the worse it gets and it never gets better. Better to go and and do your own thing. Most people wind up happier and being in a miserable situation. Most women find happiness through mail order catalogs and wine.

@makhosinidube7950 2 жыл бұрын

Divorce

@obama8452 3 жыл бұрын

You go girl!

@srsmithali 2 жыл бұрын

After 11 years, I just don't know what to do. I am not blaming him because the dysfunction goes both ways. However, I am in a predicament where my husband won't put in the work we need to build a healthy and happy marriage but he also don't want to agree to us divorcing. I cannot continue to live like this. We have kids and he is fine staying together in dysfunction for them. He thinks it's best the kids have both parents present. I disagree, my kids ask if we love each other and why we can't be like the mom and dad in cocomelon. I don't understand his motivation. He has no passion, we don't connect, we don't get along. We don't communicate well at all and most of all I cannot accept that the longer we stay together the less our marriage is. It is so sad.

@asifreedy5993 4 жыл бұрын

I feel i just need to go away... I want to die

@cookiecrumbs4852 3 жыл бұрын

You can trust me

@errandgirl48 3 жыл бұрын

Please don't. You are worth much more. Prove God. He WILL SHOW UP in the Name of JESUS.

@akrambaig2689 3 жыл бұрын

Don't think like that. I had the same problem. Im lucky that I didn't end up in jail.

@Mimi-ng9jn 3 жыл бұрын

💝

@DHARMAKARMA1915 6 жыл бұрын

🙏🏻Thank you, Ally❤️💔♥️🦋

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@adriennehankton4963 3 жыл бұрын

TOTAL NEGLECT no matter how loving and supportive I was. We shared the same Spirituality, but it seemed he didn't exemplify that to me. He alienated me from my family and friends, I was forbidden to go back for my Masters, and I wasn't "allowed" to study for my state board exams. I had to wear what he commanded, he would snatch the cable chord from the TV until he came home from work (then I could watch it), THE LIST GOES ON- WHEW!! Those are also issues I hope Daniel Alley can address. He has great points though.

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