I know it's great, I too never thought of it this way. I've put this on Facebook, more people should think like this!!

Stay away from lust, you will figure out most of things in life

@@Matharuclasses indeed

@annesmeets9304 How has your journey with Sikhi gone,since its been 8 years?

TheUltimateGemini me too . Disliked before but now i like it.

Exactly same here brother

Then u must press the like button for sure😅

Haha same

i realize I'm kinda off topic but do anyone know a good website to watch new tv shows online ?

You got this

Read about your glorious history punjaban khatri or khtrani

tryna be like you ma bro

Golden Memes lmao you can, there’s a shabad on this as well, but it can only be with your husband. Or wife.

Absolutely...but people now relate it to keeping kesh and tying turban only... I believe if you have worked on these 5 sins , you achieve patience to grow and keep hairs...

@@Matharuclasses it's all about how much nam guru ji gave you and with enough kirpa just do an experiment do nitnem and sukhmani sahib for 40 days and not go out partying or in any kind of bad sangat and than 40 days later try to to go back into your old sangat you will feel anxiety like your soul is taking stabs

Exactly thats my point why marry?

@@summer7529 you marry because we are people of family.

Ceòl gu bràth o

+Jatinderpal Singh Same here... Now to implement....... arrgghhhhhhhh

+suhani kathuria I understand this is an important issue for you but Sikhi teaches us to act from higher principles of Truth, Contentment, Compassion, Justice and Forgiveness. You should make your own decision after consulting your parents, his parents and him. Sorry cant do more, we are not really trying to give relationship advice to people.

+14dhat16 I think finding the right sangat who inspires you is best!

join local gurudwara seva community u will find your answers

harry blaze lolll with Mahraj's kirpa I got my answers a year ago. I've been heading in the right direction and path with His support. The power of Ardass is amazing & like the other Gursikh said; changing your Sangat really helped me as well.

Do meditation

Yeah that is what I think as well. No matter what religion or culture, I don't see dating involved in them. Maybe there could be a few cultures where they date. But I want to know why was dating promoted so much in the society. Maybe it helps government or corporates in getting more money and it doesn't let families get too rich. Since dating and all those divorces costs a lot of money.

The one on your right wrist I've been looking for that specific one for a long time now

+Raggamuffin23 anandpur sahib and amritsar sahib these 2 places have all sikh articles of faith

+divnoor singh thanks very much, I've been looking around the net and can't find one that even comes close

Nanak satuguru tina milaya jin dhure pya sanjog 💫

He's basically saying that first the families will get involved, see if they're thinking/values/ outlook is compatible, then they would ask the man and woman to meet and see if they are compatible. If everything is matching then you go ahead with marriage.

Well ur gonna talk to the person so...

Some points are exactly true like they can live in other century.

start with listening guru bani

do the research yourself.. find it..its out there.

Yes, if you want to become a Gurmukh, the 5 kakaar are important :D

There's an app called sikh world, it has a lot of information on sikhism, maybe it will help

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Ask giani Ji at Gurdwara Sahib

Most Parents are only scared because they feel that kids might not be serious and they will look like idiots in front of the other family.

It's a gamble. If we look at western marriages today, their divorce rates compared to arrange marriages are extremely high. Of Course there are going to be exceptions that's with anything in life but generally his message works out better.

bob bobby i feel like in brown arranged marriages the rates aren’t that high because it’s not ideal to divorce in our culture. I know so manyyyyy of my friends parents who really shouldn’t be together- including mine too but they don’t/wouldn’t separate but i’m guessing it’s because kids come into the equation. Although, i agree with you dating is a gamble

@@jessica9911 there r ways to make things work in marriage like celibacy ....

In this day and age, girls are more educated, have careers, drive etc and will not put up with the rubbish our generation put up with, nothing to do with "lab" marriage or arranged 😡

get married to her..what are you waiting for.

both of you as Sikhs in Anand karaj

Nice question. Could you tell us what happened with both of you? I hope everything went well..

Is she still with you?

+Sahij Gill Tnx

After 'parents' accept the rishta is ok, then there is no harm in going to Guru Sahib to seek blessings, otherwise it is just being clever after having found ones own partner, like what happens in camps, and shamefully Gurudwaras as well.

I think that depends in your family. Some people have family who are only Sikh by label and wouldn't help out in situations like these.

+Sasha KSK It is unlikely a Gursikh would not have Sangat they can turn to if they do not have family support.

+Inderjit Singh I know multiple people who've made decisions for Sikhi and gone against their parents at the same time. I even know a woman who got kicked out of her house for believing in Sikhi

when u look for suitable partner for marriage and r ready to be married then u will have all the answers i know i am and i know what i want in my partner its the age that makes u wiser concentrate on goals and aims marriage is not a aim serving humanity and connecting to one is

Please speak to a doctor if its a medical problem or else Sikh Helpline

+Basics of Sikhi sir dnt mind but I want this ans from you cause doctor told me to remove these hair because these hair cause lot of problems for me like etching. but can I remove these hair according to sikhi

+learning boy if you shave it. you have to keep on shaving

Mind yobiz.. stop with the gibberish. In sikhi, you dont' cut your hair at all. As long as you stay clear & take shower everyday, hair do not cause any sort of problems. They actually help the body with the friction & actually REDUCE irritation that might cause itching.

Mind YoBiz whats your problem?

Are you a troll? What a stupid question. Watch the video again if you are serious.

Am also a sikh guy Mam and this sikh man who approached you is a "pseudo sikh". Sikhs don't drink, smoke, sleep around or disrespect women. Its a hukumnama from Guru Gobind singh ji (hukumnama means command/order). I personally advise you to stay away from this man and if you want to marry a sikh, then marry a religious/practicing sikh. But if you're in love with this guy then remind him of sikh gurus and their teachings. Nevertheless, this "pseudo sikh" is a pervert and should be ashamed of himself. You know mam, these kind of people ruin the image of sardars. Even I felt disgusted to read this. More power to you sister. Stay strong and all the best for your future endeavors! Waheguruji ka khalsa Waheguruji ke fateh🙏

stay away from him..he sounds like bad news..he is not a real Sikh.

@@mehar134 we have so many like this now....actual sardars r very less.

@@Matharuclasses I think same goes for any community/religion. Nowadays people in general don't follow religion, they just inherit the name and identity of a religion but don't actually practice it. This situation is way worse in western countries where more and more people are turning atheists. A true sikh will always remain gursikh irrespective of circumstances and will never behave in a shameful manner as described by the girl above.

Jabeen Sahera 👍👍👍

Well I am not sure about you but in my cultures if you don't have parents to begin with, your relatives or some guardian helps you get married. Any elder in your family who is married as well and has a good place in society. It could be your uncle and aunt but make sure they want good for you 😊 I hope it helps. If you want to ask more you can, i will try to respond if I could.

Matt Jones you should get married mate. find someone that will love, regardless of your condition. it may be hard for you to have those type of relations but I think you could have a surrogate. you shouldn't avoid marriage and stay celibate just because of your condition! God bless you with luck!

Thanks for the advice! :)

r u ready ? there r people who r healthy physically but still in pain emotionally they need someone to care u can be that person r u ready to be that person? when u start living for others thats true happiness make someones life excuses is what heart looks for control it

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I mean even medical studies showed with number of emotional and sexual partners go up the chemical which make the feeling of attachment and love and happiness drastically decreases with it so spiritual it doesn't make sense and scientifically it also doesn't make sense to have more than 2 relationships before marriage

@@gillharshgill8315 Many ppl do. It suits them.

Why do you need society's approval to get married? If you love your bf, you should marry him. Remember sis, true love is very difficult to find these days. Lucky are those people who get it. When you will reach 40s, you will realise this. Go ahead and show middle finger to haters

You can't have an anand karaj but maybe another way

U must take on Sikhi at least follow Reht n give head to Guru Ji

@@ggtt6122 i know 2 hindu people who had an anand karaj, the gurdwara did it

@@KVG822 well an anand karaj is only supposed to be between gursikhs. you dedicate your whole life to your guru. why would you make a false commitment to the guru? It doesn't make sense, just do a court marraige.

@XxX some next level shit,bruh

Harshjot Singh no He's not gf/bf. =More like family...after/brother

I meant father

@@trinityteeters8402 True.....and also at the same time he is much like a mother or a friend who guides and saves us at every single moment of life

@@CredowXD yes god's holy spirit is likened to that in character even Tho he's not girl. But my heart desires that all be saved Thru Jesus Christ. No one saves better than He does and none can even come close to a relationship like that.

Mehtab Singh but look at the divorce rates for western society (culture that dates) versus the rates for India .

Dalbir Brar that's a stupid argument to make.. the reason divorce's are higher in western culture is because it is socially acceptable. In India girl get beaten and abused by their husbands and still stick with them cause of fear of society shaming them it's patriarchal culture at its best. Look at domestic violence rate of western to India.

The main role of Sikh woman is to stand with his husband, if her husband is Gursikh. Only way sikh woman will get respect, recolonization, Identity etc if she is the wife of true sardar. Thats it. If her husband is Sikh, she will be automatically his Sikhni. So, she should always look towards her Sikh husband. And A Sikh should always look towards Guru. A sikh should have the Ideology of Guru, and his sinhgni should respect and follow his ideology. In this way both will have same ideology ,i.e Ideology of Guru, then they will live with harmony without disagreements or fight i.e Ideology of Guru. Thats how sikhi works or will work.

What a load of absulute hog wash. That is the most anti Sikh thing I have ever read. How can you sit there and spout such patriarchal and sexist remarks. I dare you to say this to mata sahib Kaur. You are confusing culture with religion. Sikhi teaches us that women and men are equal. WOMEN DO NOT NEED MEN TO "GET RESPECT". A woman gets respect from her actions and how she is seen through the guru. How can you sit here and speak such filth about your sisters.. she does not need a man to define her. that's what the guru's have taught us through the ages. I get you are probably from INDIA and not a custom to the thought of equal rights. but please don't go around speaking that anti gurumuck views. a women's"ROLE" IS the exact same as a man. we are all equal. I don;'t claim to be an expert but I can say that from what glorious stories I have read from the guru's equality is a total must in the Sikh ideology.

Satpal Singh Cheema if you are not expert, why are giving arguments. And i said her husband and Gursikh. I said woman has to follow her Gursikh Husband not ang man, what is wrong in that. And it is proved according to gurbani. A woman will have great fortune who has Gursikh husband of she want to go on Gursikhi path too. And you peoples are doing parchar all over the world that man and woman are equal. Tell me how they are equal. Tell me single line in gurbani which says both are equal. Man has different roles woman has different. In gurbani there are lines like "so kyon mannda akhiye, jit jameh rajan" this mean that we should not say woman to be bad, this doesn't mean that woman is equal to man. Offcourse sikhi is very much unique and extraordinary from other religions but this is not the way that sikhi is different that both are equal. Sikhi is different because sikhi clearly states the definitions of nirakar, soul, brahm and parbrahm. The focus of sikhi is on one, what is that one. But other religions are caught up in maya and there focus is not on one Lord.

Not much organised at my place,may or may not,may God help u

Visit the gurdwara and get in the community i think there is a chance but i dont know

Hi Emily. Get out there and get involved in the community. Volunteer and get to know someone as a friend and go from there. It is a little more difficult when coming from another cultire where the connections are not already there..but not impossible.. good luck.

Yes they do. At least where I live. When you have been in the community and gurudwara for long enough, they will start asking you if you are married or not, when you are of appropriate age for marriage. If you say no, they will ask why? Then you can tell them that you don't have parents or any family or any blood relatives. They will help you find a partner and get married. This exact thing happened to someone I know.

You can cut your hair for reasonable purposes of course so if you are having problems in that area then yh its a personal choice its not prohibited - cancer treatment for example will lose hair but the gurus are pro life so it is nothing wrong as long as it involves improving your physical health

Puneet Kaur I'm not a sikh but let me try and explain In the begIning bhai jagraj said to keep your hands forward and categotize. Marriage material or Dating Material. Don't fall for the heart also involve your mind.

no sex before marriage, fornication not allowed

Yes why not

@@desidhaliwal75 explain

Yes 1 soul in 2 bodies

Try to find someone older and respected in the Sangat (holy congregation) in your community and see if they can help.