Dating App Red Flags 🚩 - PRETTY BASIC

Dating App Red Flags 🚩 - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 173

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2 жыл бұрын

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Sound the alarms! Alisha is officially back on the dating apps. SO, of course the PB girls HAD to dedicate an episode to the infamous issues that arise when dealing with ghosting, replying and flirting virtually. The girls give their listeners advice on how to respond to certain messages, how they would respond to prompts, and their red flags and green flags on the apps. This episode is a hoot and a half and the PB girls dole out some quality advice, so tune in!
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@taysworld7959 2 жыл бұрын

The world ain't ready for when alisha find her true one. That will be the power couple of the century I just know it. I feel like alisha needs a confident man who knows what's up but is also able to read a room and can be fun in a social setting but is also down to hide out for days on end. Remi and cal are everything and I can't wait for alisha to have her lil fling

@susannahviolet3325 2 жыл бұрын

Oh definitely. I think the universe is just waiting for the perfect guy for her. She deserves the world and needs a guys who matches her energy. Really anybody would be beyond lucky to be with loshy, and I can’t wait for the day that we see her with someone she truly loves.

@Fringinto 2 жыл бұрын

He is getting ready! Still needs time to be the perfect guy for her... but he is coming!!!

@chaoticscone8530 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha: You know what, I am lonely Remi: Good! 💀I mean we know what you meant but 😂

@janecooze1767 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the blue eyed thing soooo much, they’re so cold looking haha brown eyes are so warm and inviting

@kareenakapoor1320 2 жыл бұрын

2:28 isn’t it weird how alisha never tells remi anything (dating, being sad, etc. ). But alisha tells the people that remi is extremely close with and the people that remi introduced alisha to. Idk I can’t imagine being this close and not sharing that type of stuff with each other but going to people you’re not as close with and sharing extremely personal stuff. And the worst part is that the people she confides in always gossip and remi ends up finding out!

@dlfe494 2 жыл бұрын

Righht? I thought the same.. whenever anything happens to me the first person i tell is my best friend, and i always wonder if they truly are that close🥺

@IWishIHadABetterURL 2 жыл бұрын

She kinda mentioned it in the last podcast but I think it’s bc Alisha doesn’t like worrying remi! Jokes on her tho bc our sweet angel rem is always gonna worry a little, in the loop or not 🥲

@kareenakapoor1320 2 жыл бұрын

@@IWishIHadABetterURL ya maybe I get it the first time but this is the second time and it’s about something remi cates about so much.

@shakibi952 2 жыл бұрын

@@IWishIHadABetterURL I mean it wasn’t anything worrisome. She didn’t even tell Remi that she joined dating apps again… it’s nothing deep, in fact Remi would rejoice but alisha made the conscious decision to not tell her

@Sama_681 Жыл бұрын

I understand her it’s like when you have anxiety sometimes we worry so much of the people the closest to us because we feel like maybe they would judge me or this or that not because she doesn’t trust rem but because she feels anxious and not because she doesn’t care but because she cares way too much so it’s easier to talk to other people idk I’m always like this with my closest ppl

@TheLifeofKiara 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this episode. Ugh I am the same way Alisha! Overthink freaking everything but I swear I’m a cool ass chick once I’m comfortable with a person lol

@Fringinto 2 жыл бұрын

hahaha I love the "I swear I'm a cool ass chick one I'm comfortable" 😂😂😂

@kellieseki 2 жыл бұрын

@rachelw4584 2 жыл бұрын

I would LOVE to see this episode with some guy perspectives, or even LGBTQ perspectives on dating and dating apps. My friends and I would ALSO discuss how curious we were about what other girls profiles looked like to men, or what their red/green flags were for our profiles. Would be super interesting to hear about :)

@nicollecordero5889 2 жыл бұрын

omygosh would love another pretty basic x zane and heath unfiltered about this topic!!

@berthagarcia1993 2 жыл бұрын

Idk why Zane came to mind when Alisha was describing her type 🤣

@shhhimnothere.2878 Жыл бұрын

Pleaseeeee I have been manifesting this. Ever since I watched both their podcasts collabs, I hoped something would happen. Like pleaseeeeee Alisha is so freaking perfect.

@elled.1890 2 жыл бұрын

I can imagine Alisha dating someone from IT, like a confident software engineer or a lawyer you know. Someone who has a regular job/business OR someone who is from another country? Why not? Like France, Spain etc 😍

@DaphneGsell 2 жыл бұрын

I am on the same wave as Alisha when it comes to dating. I want so bad to meet someone naturally but I’m forcing myself to use the apps. Trying to have a positive outlook !

@hateme2202 2 жыл бұрын

I met my boyfriend on a dating app, tinder, but we’ve been together 4 years now. Say in your profile that you’re not looking for a hookup but you’re not looking for an immediate relationship either.

@daniellemclean8171 2 жыл бұрын

REMI: Dating me is like: Seeing your waiter finally come out with your food 😍😍

@katrinalovesbeauty 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha is me whenever I have to prep for interviews. “Tell me about yourself” “……..”

@chenzayden 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha were literally twins 😂 I was literally born on the same day (2001 tho), obsessed with dachshunds, dealing with similar mental health problems, introvert until I know the people im with, and dating a Remi 😂 even my type is your type

@arianatorres5776 Жыл бұрын

Catching up on old episodes and my mouth DROPED when she said Moreno Valley. Crazy!!! Small world

@lissettediiaz 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I rediscovered your friend group! I used to watch all of you years ago and now I’m back! What was wrong with me? Why did I ever leave!? Love you guys soo much!

@noodle3851 2 жыл бұрын

You’ll leave again. Thats how it is you can’t be watching someone for a decade and not take a break

@julysunrush4483 2 жыл бұрын

Can relate! I only kept watching and following alisha but i've recently started to watch the others like remi's content again!!

@meganjohnson9964 2 жыл бұрын

You two girlys I look up to so much. & TK!!

@marianmansour473 Жыл бұрын

Me toooo

@blondiewithabook 2 жыл бұрын

I also need dating coaching from remi 😂 this is absolutely hilarious I’m dying love you girls

@RachelKizner 2 жыл бұрын

Remi is amazing at the way she can articulate her thoughts. She could have a podcast on her own and kill it with guests!

@alexandramariettelowe8550 2 жыл бұрын

you two doing the flags, “greeeeeeeen!” “redddddddd.” Idk why I thought it was the cutest moments 😂

@fridayswithlouise6698 2 жыл бұрын

First of all love you guys and second of all thank you for the last podcast, listened to the episode again today and I can somewhat relate to it so thank you, I'm glad you're feeling better

@CMRS0925 2 жыл бұрын

I always tell my single friends to meet guys from apps asap, as long as you feel safe and tell someone where you’re going and all that - it eliminates some of the annoying small talk and gives you more to talk about irl instead of judging based off texting. An irl vibe is more important than how someone texts imo, and a lot of my friends over think what they’re saying over text.

@CMRS0925 2 жыл бұрын

I was also against dating apps, but I mean we have all out on a cute outfit and extra perfume, gone to a bar w friends or alone hoping to meet someone - what’s the difference in doing that online

@laqaunza 2 жыл бұрын

I love games like this! Definitely want more in future episodes!🥰

@itsaniya6006 2 жыл бұрын

I love theses kinds of episodes because they’re just so entertaining to watch and so relatable and I just overall love you guys🥰

@mariahp.6993 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve said this for so long and this episode just confirmed. Alisha’s physical interest is literally Jeremy.

@daebella Жыл бұрын

didn’t she say in a truth or drink that he’s the hottest KZfaq boyfriend along w Alex terranova 😦😦

@lydiacoffey2003 2 жыл бұрын

When someone reaches out to me on a dating app if they say something quirky that has to do with my profile I really like that, because they are putting in the effort to pay attention to my profile.

@og.hails27 2 жыл бұрын

Happily in a 3 1/2 year relationship, off of TINDER 😂💖 and I was cracking up this whole episode y’all kill me. Love y’all slay this week beauties 💪🏼

@hateme2202 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha is so precious and hilarious!! I relate to how you think, and sometimes I don’t always understand how I’m feeling. Don’t overthink, just say what ur feel. It’s honest and refreshing. Love you

@4Tiffylovesya 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha, your hair looks amazing! Loving the brown on you!

@MomDateWithSashaJay 2 жыл бұрын

I love you girls! You are like my bffs without being my bffs lol. Thank you ladies for always making my Wednesday 🤍

@erinstef29 2 жыл бұрын

I had a conversation recently with one of my friends about funny or bad dating stories, I think it could be a fun episode.

@chloe_evans 2 жыл бұрын

alisha is the biggest white fox fan in this episode🥰✨

@kaylie.n.oconnor 2 жыл бұрын

When I was reading these hypothetical messages I would have a thought and Alisha would IMMEDIATELY say my exact thought right after 😂 I can just tell her experience with dating apps and my experience are equivalent.

@andreaugalde8787 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha I'm right there with u you are literally me. I hate small talk and I can't talk lol. Never know what to say . 🤣🤣

@jeri_chronicles 2 жыл бұрын

Screaming @ what ingredient are you missing? “Serotonin” 😅😅😅😅

@karengaray3348 2 жыл бұрын

Finally the first one something love the videos ♥️♥️♥️

@stevieheilman7513 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha’s impression of cal: “reeaally?” 😂

@AlishaMarie 2 жыл бұрын

🚩🚩🚩

@jenevieaboubakare1780 2 жыл бұрын

I love when turtle guy makes a surprise appearance hahha

@SelenaMarie. 2 жыл бұрын

Can I just say how I am so much related to these beautiful ladies?! We have a lot in common… From the last episode about Alisha… responding about Mental health… btw, I don’t have bipolar, but I do have high anxiety && mild depression… ILYSM!! 🥰🤗

@VanessaSilvaLosoya 2 жыл бұрын

My day is made so much better when there’s a new pod 😁

@Ladyluna444 2 жыл бұрын

Y’all up early I love it tho 😭❤️

@vanessaluz 2 жыл бұрын

I am Alisha during all these small talk situations 😂 I cannot deal with small talk on dating apps

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

love u ladies so much

@emersonesselstein7249 2 жыл бұрын

i love both of you!!!

@meganjohnson9964 2 жыл бұрын

You two girlys I look up to so much & TK!

@brittanyroby7017 2 жыл бұрын

I just got so excited I’m going grocery shopping perfect timing to upload 😭💞

@kellyfinley4419 2 жыл бұрын

Yes on the brown eyes and blue or green eyes being too intense. I have always said that lol

@MilesCrosby 2 жыл бұрын

Loveeeee this ep!

@gchrunner9 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this episode,so fun to listen to while I was at the gym

@sammyrivera4807 2 жыл бұрын

Worst experience a guy made a list of pros and cons about me and then sent it to me… then asked why I didn’t want to see him anymore

@nadiadansani2139 10 ай бұрын

I love a long description cause we can just get to it… buuuuut when they say lookin for friends they do be lying

@kallie4116 2 жыл бұрын

Wednesday’s are my favorite days!

@m_warren 2 жыл бұрын

I met my husband on tinder! We have been together for almost three years! 🥰

@alanastosic7425 2 жыл бұрын

Not them aggressively waving flags but casually talking 49:30 🤣🤣🤣

@CeliaDubauskas 2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t understand the fish photo until I went fishing with my step dad and when he caught that bad boy he was so proud. It was cute and then it clicked

@alisiahart7360 2 жыл бұрын

I related to alisha so much this episode. I hateee small talk and never know how to reply lol

@adrianarosas9983 2 жыл бұрын

The “tell me about yourself question” I would answer with what part like where I’m at right now in life or something else

@adrianarosas9983 2 жыл бұрын

That will make him wanna know there is more to you than anything else

@Platinum907 Жыл бұрын

I would answer “sure, you first.”

@Olivia.martens 2 жыл бұрын

i jumped when alisha said Mario kart. I would die to play you in Mario kart😩 best game hands down🤪

@zoeyb8888 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like you can tell a lot about a person if you asked the question “how long have you been looking for someone?”

@kate-ne 2 жыл бұрын

"That's Zora, Disney" my giiirrrrl 😂💀💕

@alexandrareid4100 2 жыл бұрын

I think she was Sora for Kingdom hearts, which is true

@kate-ne 2 жыл бұрын

@@alexandrareid4100 okay that's fair!! That would make more sense, I thought she was telling remi Zelda was Disney 💕 I stand corrected 😁

@iceyiana 2 жыл бұрын

No colored eyes are literally scary to me sometimes. Like especially bright ass blue

@elizabethgrace9643 2 жыл бұрын

every time i watch the pod i feel like i’m having a convo with my friends

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

such gorgeous gorgeous girls love u ladies 💜💜💜

@annac9668 2 жыл бұрын

Glad Alisha seems better 😊

@nadiadansani2139 10 ай бұрын

I definitely first joined the apps for male validation 😵‍💫

@taanvvii 2 жыл бұрын

not my reply in the thumbnail hahaha

@megburc 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha goes speed dating! A concept!

@maxenaaguto3 Жыл бұрын

Amazing video! God bless you all🙏🏽God is so good🙌🏽Jesus loves us all so much🙏🏽❤Turn to God He will guide you and give you strength🙏🏽Trust in Him🙏🏽

@LadyRosieRose 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to all of Alisha’s answers on her type makes me think we have dated the same guys in LA or come across the same profiles 😂

@nadiadansani2139 10 ай бұрын

We were supposed to meet at 11.. he didn’t show up till 1, AND I WAITED 🤡

@natasham7421 2 жыл бұрын

I think most of us are Alisha when it comes to dating lol.

@illuminatingwild 2 жыл бұрын

alisha haahhaahha i love that new girl episode

@baygoesmoo 2 жыл бұрын

THIS IS TMI BUTTTT in terms of dating… My problem is that I’m so introverted to put myself out there and when I meet new people I stress stress stress and when I know I have to take it to the next level is too much for me because I don’t think I like the idea of sex or having sex like girl I masturbate but that’s as far as I want to go and I feel like I can’t have a relationship without it help am i the only one?

@justlikeneon Жыл бұрын

Have you heard of the Asexuality spectrum? I've always felt the same as you and I finally realized I'm Asexual! It's way more common than you think. Hope this helps🤍

@BrianaB3 2 жыл бұрын

Your podcast ✅✅

@nadiadansani2139 10 ай бұрын

I knew where she was going with poppyseed 😂😂😂😂

@debbie9226 2 жыл бұрын

Fuckin’ Remi kills me!! I laughed so hard when she was laughing at Alisha 😜😜😜😜 this was so enjoyable to watch 🤍🤍🤍🤍

@elizabethboone4365 Жыл бұрын

I took notes on this shit

@elenasilva1399 2 жыл бұрын

I love Remi ! But the more I get to know them, I know I’m an Alisha!!!

@Olivia-hx2in 2 жыл бұрын

For remi I would say the ingredient is baking soda because she didn’t rise 🤣

@nadiadansani2139 10 ай бұрын

Peak of Covid, we met at a mall, and he doesn’t have a mask, so we’re sitting outside in the cold. My sister was there and due to the height difference thought I was on a date with a kid, aaaaand he grabbed my thigh and said I’d be fun or nice I can’t exactly remember to cuddle with

@tangerine33 2 жыл бұрын

6:56 Maybe he was 28 tho 😂 many guys in our age are looking like 40-50 year olds nowadays, it's concerning haha

@Lexaloodle 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same as alisha about light eyes and I have light eyes 😂 idk what it is but I prefer a darker eye color

@danineurohr 2 жыл бұрын

laughed so much throughout this episode🫶🏻

@otaku11bts23 2 жыл бұрын

As someone who is plus size, even having a dating app is a horror story. No matches, if you do get any they’re from creepy old men, knowing that majority of guys in your area aren’t your type for many reasons, also knowing that I don’t meet the beauty standard

@theresag.4188 Жыл бұрын

I can't wait to see what kind of guy alisha is gonna find. I can't picture her with guys cuz she never shows any of her relationships. I hope she finds an amazing guy!!!

@fgomez98 2 жыл бұрын

I met the guy I’m talking to rn on Coffee Meets Bagel and I absolutely love the app, would definitely recommend to anyone!

@shanzehqureshi3284 2 жыл бұрын

Is Aspyn gonna be on the podcast

@SelenaMarie. 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been talking with a guy since February from Tinder… FaceTiming, calling && texting. Just haven’t met up yet!? It’s just nice to talk to someone… I think dating apps are weird, fun && alot of work… but it could be rewarding at the end when you meet the love of your life… Plus, you get free food if your date doesn’t work out… just saying!! 😉