Questioning Our Relationships With Religion ft. What We Said - PRETTY BASIC

Questioning Our Relationships With Religion ft. What We Said - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 171

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This week the girls are doing a legendary podcast swap: Remi and Alisha are joining forces with Jaci and Chelsey from the What We Said Podcast. In this episode, they talk about many topics, including: friendships and how they evolve with age, marriage and motherhood; establishing your own beliefs and re-navigating your faith; Mormon-Tok (artisan sodas, Vegas, um…SOAKING?) They also tackle self-acceptance and finding your “ride-or-die” bestie.
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@rosangelicajuarez6663 2 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait for you to have Aspyn on! 🥰

@TheLifeofKiara 2 жыл бұрын

Omg yes!!!🙌🏽💚

@jessica_chanel 2 жыл бұрын

Yes please 🥹💗💗💗

@shanzehqureshi3284 2 жыл бұрын

Did they say they will have her on?

@rosangelicajuarez6663 2 жыл бұрын

@@shanzehqureshi3284 no, I’m just manifesting it 🙈

@shanzehqureshi3284 2 жыл бұрын

@@rosangelicajuarez6663 WELLL it’s possible cause Aspyn is in LA so let’s manifest it :))

@Bronnybronny 2 жыл бұрын

I was born and raised Christian and the older I get, the more real my faith becomes. It grows stronger and I grow closer to the Lord - even though my environment is ever changing. Praise Jesus, my Lord and Savior. ❤

@MeganNicolee1 2 жыл бұрын

The religion talk is something that needs to be talked about so much more! Growing up Catholic than later a Christian my whole life there is a lot I have had to unpack as I got older and had my own morals and thoughts that differ from what I’ve been taught. For me, my parents have allowed me as I grow older not being forced to go if I didn’t want to it became my choice and I believe that needs to be done more so for kids growing up. Love this honest convo!

@ccap3211 2 жыл бұрын

I was raised catholic too. You do know that Catholics are Christians right? Christianity is an umbrella term.

@chocojeanine 2 жыл бұрын

This episode is so different!! I absolutely love this deeper and more sensitive subject

@trinityrodriguez1716 2 жыл бұрын

This podcast was so genuinely refreshing….it was so easy and nice to listen to. Sometimes I find myself listening to podcast while doing things and missing the full convo but not this one! I was able to clean my whole house while still listening to everything

@dancesing116 2 жыл бұрын

Okay I’m only 13 minutes in and I love these girls already! I had NO CLUE who they were. But coming from a religious “boring” girl that grew up in a small town. I LOVE their relatable wholesome personalities! I feel like I can actually relate to them!

@Christine-bd5ze 2 жыл бұрын

Their podcast what we said is so good!

@sav4929 2 жыл бұрын

i am OBSESSED w this collab omg ! ok green flags in a relationship.. probably has a good relationship with his family, dresses from respectable stores LOL, & able to repair things around the house. i’m picky HAHA love you both!

@awesomeangelene 2 жыл бұрын

Chelsey is so underrated. I love her!

@kassydirone 2 жыл бұрын

THE CROSSOVER EPISODE IVE BEEN WAITING FORRRR

@xbeautydanix 2 жыл бұрын

I already listened on Spotify but I swear I’m gonna have to watch again with the video I’m so in love w this collab

@Em-or-ii 2 жыл бұрын

What a great collab! I always love and appreciate how open and honest you guys are on the podcast, even if it has to do with difficult subject matter 💕

@TessalRomero 2 жыл бұрын

I’m 25 and everything you guys were saying about religion resonated with me SO much. You don’t understand the anxiety I’ve had realizing I don’t have the same beliefs as my family. Realizing I was brought up one way and now that I’m older and experiencing life for myself it’s made me feel so alien. I really really hope this is something you guys can speak more on. It has literally calmed me down so much to know I’m not alone and my thoughts are shared. Thankyou, you all have beautiful souls 💕

@jesusvelazquez313 2 жыл бұрын

I truly feel like the luckiest person, I just went on lunch and I get a new PB episode, #blessed and highly favored, love you guys thank you for the content. ❤️☺️✨

@AmaniHanna 2 жыл бұрын

Loved the maturity of this ep. More of this, please.

@parisalena 2 жыл бұрын

i enjoyed this episode so much!! like what Remi said, so insightful!! glad I got to know Jaci and Chelsey here, you guys are beautiful and have very actress-like faces ugh loveee

@kelsielewis22 2 жыл бұрын

Watching this episode made me feel like the 5th person in the room I love it🥺❤️

@IconVlog. 2 жыл бұрын

100% feel the same way about Instagram Alisha. We know that deep down perfection is the goal and we’re trying to shift back into being authentic so it’s kinda like a constant trigger that if we finally let go off we would probably feel a lot better

@wendygutwa558 2 жыл бұрын

this epsiode was so good, I loved hearing about deeper topics

@kaileydavis2650 2 жыл бұрын

The podcast collab ya girl needed!!!!

@Olivia-hx2in 2 жыл бұрын

Okay but Chelsey saying birth was like having the best poop of your life… SO TRUE 🤣🤣

@jongarcia9735 2 жыл бұрын

I loved seeing how passionate Alisha was about talking about the religion topic - loved seeing this side of her!

@annacate4141 2 жыл бұрын

The collab we’ve all been waiting for

@gracebaker15 2 жыл бұрын

My two fav podcasts together! It’s like a dream

@alexayoung5502 2 жыл бұрын

This was such a good convo! I grew up in a religious household and this honest convo about finding what you actually believe gave me such peace of mind that other people feel that way. Thank youuu!

@savannahmaurine333 2 жыл бұрын

i’m so glad how respectful they all were of the mormon religion. there is so much back lash on the church and everyone is so rude towards it as if it is the only religion with “rules” remember we all have agency and a choice to make and if you feel like the church or your religion isn’t what’s right for you then that’s okay. Anyways thanks for being respectful

@asmaa_vlog_85 2 жыл бұрын

I feel happy when I get a notification that you have uploaded a new video 🥰😘😍. Thank you very much for uploading the video. Your videos fill me with so much positive energy 🍓♥️🥰😍♥️

@sandyz8035 2 жыл бұрын

I think I found my new favorite podcast hosts! “What we said” you have a new supporter!! 🙂

@chloe_evans 2 жыл бұрын

the outfits keep getting better every week😍

@nelsyhernandez2756 2 жыл бұрын

One of my fav episodes! I have heard of Jaci on TikTok but I truly loved getting to know her personality! All of you girls are so pretty!!!

@elbabriana2678 2 жыл бұрын

the trigger warning at the beginning warmed my heart so much. thank you

@shannonmckay1852 2 жыл бұрын

i REALLY appreciate their talk on religion. as someone who is in a similar situation, i really appreciate how they didn’t bash on mormonism and rather they explained how different it is for everyone. I am the exact same with the idea of being a positive influence to the younger kids in the church but also allowing myself some leeway and defining my religious journey as my own. i feel like a lot of people view mormonism as small cultural things rather than the actual doctrine of the church. growing up with siblings who are full fledged members and other siblings who have completely left, i can see both sides, and it’s nice to know that there are people in the half and half situation like me. after all, being someone with liberal and progressive ideals, it’s almost impossible not to be half and half when it comes to things like this. thank you for this very open and nice conversation

@royce8 2 жыл бұрын

I can't even begin to tell you both how grateful I am for your podcast. I have learned so much about communication from you both and share the lessons with my daughter! I would love some advice for teens. It's hard being a teen and I'm trying my best to support my daughter but the world, social media and boys is so hard to manage. Plus friends coming and going is so hard to watch her experience. Thanks Queens 👑🏰👑

@Heyyitsnaenae 2 жыл бұрын

As someone who grew up catholic. I relate a lot, on shame and questioning a lot on what I actually believe in and a lot of my friends feel the same way too.

@BrianaB3 2 жыл бұрын

I need more podcasts!! 😭 I listen to them when I workout

@ellamcknight7227 2 жыл бұрын

LOVEDDDD this episode. They had the best personalities

@tiaratran 2 жыл бұрын

in a trance but forced to be so present is the perfect way to describe birth. I had unmedicated births as well and I also loved the experience! also enjoyed this entire episode so much!

@jessiirees 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this episode! It was so relatable

@mackenziemoore4855 2 жыл бұрын

So excited for this!!!! 🥰

@gentorres7567 2 жыл бұрын

Love the religion talk and adult friendships talk. Such a lovely episode!!!!!!!!!

@simikaur8543 2 жыл бұрын

I am a Sikh and that’s something I’m really thankful with my religion is that it’s based on equality and believing that you’re superior then another is seen as cowardly and ignorant.

@luvvy888 2 жыл бұрын

“Hiiiii Uncle Timmmmm” REMMIIIIIIIIIuhhhhh I’m dead babes 😩😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

@teresadepp6321 2 жыл бұрын

Omg, can you create shorts and reels of what they were saying regarding friendships? Like from 24:56 to 26:00 should be quoted, shared, and lived by, by everyone! As a 31 yr old female and mom, I will def share this podcast episode to my daughter in the future. I love you, ladies! Thank you for being great role models

@YouJustGottaLiveIt 2 жыл бұрын

JACI IS THE WISEST GIRLIE a true real queen lol LOVED this podcast!!

@totallyfab95 2 жыл бұрын

loved this episode! so good and interesting ◡̈

@samanthakavanagh7034 2 жыл бұрын

ouuuuu perfect timing.... just putting my little one down for a nap! mama gets to watch with no interruptions lololol

@asimplelife7026 2 жыл бұрын

Wow thank you for this conversation

@kristing1350 2 жыл бұрын

Jaci is legit hilarious on tiktok! Love her channel tooooo!

@Ashleiie1 2 жыл бұрын

Love the episode! 🥰 Where did Alisha get her dress from? I absolutely love it 💕

@allisonryan4432 2 жыл бұрын

I haven’t had ig for three years. Everyone says “don’t you have fomo or miss it” literally no. Nothing changed except my anxiety going away.

@andreamendez2295 2 жыл бұрын

One of the best episodes girlies 💖💖

@lynaer3055 2 жыл бұрын

Yess a religion episode. I love this

@samanthagutierrez7319 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS EPISODE. growing up in utah i agreed so much with everything said. also kinda selfish but im really wanting to gate-keep soda shops 🥰🥰🥰

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

LOVED THIS EPISODE

@BasicChey 3 ай бұрын

The pain free birth course is actually amazing!!!! I took the same course and went unmedicated with my 1 month old. We need more positive birth stories!! 🙌🏼

@owlover2437 2 жыл бұрын

THIS IS THE BEST COLLAB EVER OMG

@hannahelliott269 2 жыл бұрын

could have watched this collab all day

@cosimadden4436 2 жыл бұрын

I love Pretty Basic by far my favorite podcast. You guys have helped me navigate the beginning of adulthood, and I can’t wait to see what else I’ll learn. My green flags in a friendship would be friends that aren’t controlling over what you do, friends who understand your boundaries, and friends that also want to talk about your life and not only themselves. 💚💚(apple should make a green flag emoji)

@jordanjulian8197 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I seriously love that Remi and Alisha are getting all these Mormon friends and seeing how cool we are 🤙🏻✌🏻

@weirdcrazygirl1156 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I am currently 20 and I am now at that stage of try to figure out if I still want to practice the things I have been believing as a Christian, bc the thing is I don't agree w/ a lot of things that we are supposed to believe in, but also having a grandfather as a pastor does hinder if I rlly want to explore it

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

y’all are the best i’m going thru withdrawal from heroin and u guys make me feel better and give me strength thank you so much

@ItsNicoleAnderson 2 жыл бұрын

You got this!!! Praying for you and your recovery🖤 (in a non condescending way lol)

@ccap3211 2 жыл бұрын

Are you doing it cold turkey or with medication?

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

@@ItsNicoleAnderson thank you so much ❤️

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

@@ccap3211 i have suboxone thankfully but even with that it’s still hell on earth but it’s getting a little easier every day ❤️

@ccap3211 2 жыл бұрын

@@8CheerleadingGirl8 thank god you have that at least. I much prefer subutex over suboxen though!

@Lana-zl6yr 2 жыл бұрын

I loved you guys together!

@HA4203___ 2 жыл бұрын

This is so different for me as a born and grown Muslim. As someone who was born Muslim, it’s something I found for myself at the beginning of university. It’s been my life line and guiding light. It feels like everything else is white noise.

@billie4767 2 жыл бұрын

i agree with this, Muslim too. Alhamdulillah!! But I think for many like a LOT of Muslims too, the whole ‘shame’ thing is a big thing that stops them from seeing the religion and the people as different things

@KelseyHazelKeller 2 жыл бұрын

Omg cant believe you got kendall jenner on the pod

@evelynespinoza6854 2 жыл бұрын

OMG I LOVE THIS

@kirstieallerheiligen9603 Жыл бұрын

Love this!

@Bronnybronny 2 жыл бұрын

It’s so interesting to me how I constantly hear people talking about deconstructing their religion and “unlearning” it rather than finding it & subscribing to one… just… idk so interesting - especially when people say it’s “so hard.” Idk just very interesting.

@gchrunner9 2 жыл бұрын

I grew up catholic and having to go to church ever single Sunday until I moved out. None of my siblings and I go to church anymore because it was just a negative experience with our mom. She'd be full on yelling at us before church to get ready or over anything and then act like she was so holy. When we saw how she would be so mean but yet go to church we just knew that going didn't make you a better person. So my siblinga and I are all good people but find different ways to better ourselves that we know actually work. Like therapy, which my mom refuses to go to.

@summeradillard9295 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been waiting omg yesss

@kate_dana 2 жыл бұрын

Rem girl please where is your dress from? STUNNING captivated by that royal blue, already purchased the Lululemon scuba full zip in pastel blue because of you 🙌

@estefaniabartes Жыл бұрын

This podcast is si good 👌

@abbyganley4335 2 жыл бұрын

Green flags: When you point out a cute guy and you think that they will judge you on stalking the guy, buy they don't. They actually encourage it and hype you up. Another green flag is not gas lighting tou after a break up( just had recent experience)

@LJ-qq3lb 2 жыл бұрын

My green flags are a bestie that supports you, doesn’t judge you, and is always down for a late night treat run

@OneHeartBeats 2 жыл бұрын

You girls are such great strong smart role models

@nicoleyoshihara4011 Жыл бұрын

There are good religious upbringings, lifestyles and beliefs. As a cradle Catholic and now adult it is so amazing to believe in a faith and church that is true, good and good community ❤💕 Especially love Traditional Latin mass (only receive Communion if done the Sacraments through Catholic Church)

@madisonbreeden8452 2 жыл бұрын

OOOH. As someone who grew up Mormon and converted to Christianity in college I LIVE LAUGH LOVED this vid and convo 🤌🏻💖👏🏻

@ccap3211 2 жыл бұрын

Are Mormons not considered Christians?

@madisonbreeden8452 2 жыл бұрын

@@ccap3211 no! they dont believe in the trinity! Their belief is that Jesus Christ is the literal son of God and the Holy Spirit is a separate being too. Cant really consider them christians when they worship a different God altogether.

@ccap3211 2 жыл бұрын

@@madisonbreeden8452 don’t all Christians believe that Jesus is the son of god?

@natasham7421 2 жыл бұрын

Also, this is a great conversation.

@Emily-ii4md 2 жыл бұрын

OHMYGOSH my ex also had a FRAMED pic of him and his girl best friend in his room and she ended up being one of the reasons we broke up!!!!! also i have/had a guy best friend and your right….one dream or something can change the entireeee dynamic. but at the same time i had another guy best friend who was straight in high school and there were NEVER any feelings so it is situational! :) love yall

@Siennagehring 2 жыл бұрын

Utah girly here, loveee swig. Amazing + they need swig everywhere! Also… I feel like soaking is just a weird Provo thing. Never heard of it until I graduated college

@xobrook 2 жыл бұрын

The girlie in the Jean jacket speaks so well. Wow, I wish I was as well spoken as her ☺️

@tatianadiaz5391 Жыл бұрын

I love this episode! And the religion talk! And that you guys talk about your own experience. I think hearing from others experience help us to know we are not alone. For me, I’m not confused or anything about my religion, but I agree on how people in church can be so hypocritical when literally there are bible verses that talk about loving one another. And yeah whenever someone wants to leave we shouldn’t be pressuring for them to stay. Religion is a journey and a personal relationship between the person and the entity they believe in.

@nadiadansani2139 10 ай бұрын

I remember hearing about the bed jumpers

@CamillaLundberg12 2 жыл бұрын

Being Mormon I really loved this episode!

@ellennaomi8188 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha’s dress looks amazing on her

@annac9668 2 жыл бұрын

Unexpected Collab but sooo good ✨

@JillianDaigle 2 жыл бұрын

as a former jehoavahs witness, I relate. SCREAMED when I heard the word worldly

@gardeniajimenez5334 2 жыл бұрын

Same!!!!

@OneHeartBeats 2 жыл бұрын

🌈HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE💗☁️

@danineurohr 2 жыл бұрын

you guys should bring Aspyn Ovard!!

@niinaajokatzenborn8445 2 жыл бұрын

27:50 Jeremy watching & remi breaking his bestie heart

@8CheerleadingGirl8 2 жыл бұрын

love u guys

@creezhan 2 жыл бұрын

Love the faith content!

@christyyang93 2 жыл бұрын

Girls and guys can be friends, with boundaries. Personally, I'm friends with two exes. One where he's a friend of my friends so I don't see him unless there's a gathering. And one where he's a close friend where we will hangout and talk for hours. When we are in relationships with other people, one - I make sure my partners are okay with me hanging out with him (my current and past ex are LDR), and two - I maintain a distance with him when he has a girlfriend... In situations where she is not present, I make sure there's a third party (a mutual friend) hanging out with us. Just not to stir anything up.

@rachelhubbard6199 2 жыл бұрын

I think in many cases, the guy/girl best friend thing ends in one of them, or both, liking the other. However, just as siblings can have platonic bonds....non siblings can too. But I think that's more rare.

@jasminemarie6732 2 жыл бұрын

Alisha’s dress is so cute. 💚

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t know them before but now I’m hooked! I’m not Mormon but grew up in Utah in a very Mormon environment

@FreyaStendal 2 жыл бұрын

They are AMAZING! I am not from utah at all and they dont really talk to much about it. They are sooooo funny and have great conversations!

@WhitneySutherland 2 жыл бұрын

LETS GOOOOO GIRLZ

@alejandraf.8808 2 жыл бұрын

I would love for you guys to do a podcast with Desi and Katy

@beei3989 2 жыл бұрын

Best episode yettttttttttt!!!!!!! So fukin relatable, ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Lvv this

@nihu9654 2 жыл бұрын

i jusr saw they have matching friendship bracelets 😭😭

@andijames9967 2 жыл бұрын

Growing up mormon in Utah it is still so weird to me that anybody outside of that bubble cares at all about it. I've traveled all over and seen all kinds of different people from all walks of life. There is so much out there. So weird

@aidasa3791 2 жыл бұрын

All bubble communities including cults strict religions etc are like this. I totally get you