DATING IN A WHEELCHAIR | TIPS AND ADVICE

DATING IN A WHEELCHAIR | TIPS AND ADVICE | HOW WE MET

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6 жыл бұрын

TODAY IM TALKING ABOUT HOW I MET MY HUSBAND. AND HOW I FOUND DATING IN MY WHEELCHAIR. WE ARE ALSO GIVING A LITTLE BIT OF ADVICE ON DATING SOMEONE IN A WHEELCHAIR.
We are showing you a cosy date night and loosely doing the husband and wife tag. We are sharing the story of how we met. Shaun has been amazing and really didn’t care about the disability. He was just amazing and just helped out where ever i needed it, but was just a natural. There is someone for everyone, and if you meet the right person they will love you for who you are, and amy disability will not be a factor to them.
After suffering my spinal cord injury i have really had to adapt in life. So Im sowing you my disability lifestyle to raise disability awareness. as a disabled woman and a woman in a wheelchair who is paralysed, I thought it would be interesting for you to see, and hopefully give you some inspiration and motivation so that you can live more independently. wether you are paraplegic or quadriplegic i hope that i can help you.
i have lots of interesting disability videos, a lot of videos on how to cope with a disability and living life in a wheelchair, wether you are a girl boy woman or man. i have some paraplegic exercise videos, and advice. its important to keep your fitness levels up as much as possible as this can when physically and mentally with depression.
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@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

Whats your weird habit? There was a time in my life when I thought no one would love me, or want me. I though no one would want to be with the girl in the wheelchair. Thats so sad, and not true. If they really like you, they will love you for YOU. Disability, just wont be a factor. xx

@ameliaholland8424 6 жыл бұрын

Wheelsnoheels - Gem Hubbard I’m still single haven’t found love yet I’m in a wheelchair

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

It will come at the right time. XX

@lilithpluto 6 жыл бұрын

I thought no one would love me as I am disabled, but in the end, my partner just took it in his stride. As I have become more ill and more wheelchair dependant, he’s been by my side through it all and is so caring. It’s the complete opposite of what I expected when I was younger. There’s love out there for everyone ❤️

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

awwww thank you for sharing. Its nice to know i felt the same too, but its just not true. There are caring people out there who will love you for who you are. :)

@ashleybrown5883 6 жыл бұрын

My disabilities got worse after I got married (and got older) and so my man was TRAPPED WITH NO ESCAPE! lol jk he takes it all in stride. It's not easy but we both work together

@clairebear229 6 жыл бұрын

Omg he is so adorable, I love his perspective on meeting/being with someone in a chair, like so what if you have wheels your still awesome, your still you. I wish there were more people like him out there xx

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

awww thanks for your lovely comment. xxx

@themainescratcher476 6 жыл бұрын

I knew it was obvious you had a very strong supportive husband , but after meeting him, he’s amazing!! He’s not only very helpful, he’s cute and he’s extremely funny!! And I for one know, how important laughter is !! So happy you were fortunate to find the one!!!

@timberry8675 2 жыл бұрын

I think it shows a respectful gentlemanly side to ask first before touching or kissing, consent can never be assumed

@AxelFurry97 4 жыл бұрын

You guys are such a lovely couple! My wife supports me being partially in a chair, despite just recently gotten my own chair. This video just shows what I'd show my wife before dating, if it existed about 4years ago xD

@AbilityStreet 6 жыл бұрын

This is great to see. I am 19 and have never had a girlfriend which although it doesn't really bother me there is a part of me that would like to find someone if anything its more societal pressure that gets me down about not having a girlfriend people saying things like "your 19 you should have a girlfriend by now" because its not the norm to not, When I do see a girl that I like Im to nervors to talk to her because one I haven't got any experience and two I think really stupid thoughts like "Why would any body find me attractive with the way I walk or the way my leg looks" This video, however, gives me hope and Sean seems like a top bloke! really well done and thank you so much!

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

awww Im glad the video helped. You must do what is right for you. Don't feel pressured. Try and build your confidence by talking as much as you can to new people. the more you do it the easier it gets. There is someone for everyone, xxx

@vanessavanderkramer6588 4 жыл бұрын

Lovely vlog! You’re a great couple! I really enjoy all your vlogs and appreciate all your tips on life in a wheelchair. They are so helpful!

@billm6294 6 жыл бұрын

This is so delightful...of course he's won the heart of one of the most interesting, sweet, and beautiful ladies on YT...I'm sure you two will provide inspiration to others!

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

thank you bill. xxx

@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

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@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

Hgg

@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

Gggg

@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

iloveyoujem

@msbobbygirl92 6 жыл бұрын

Haha! I loved this video! You guys are sooooo amazing! Why do I love this couple damn much? 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

awwww your so sweet Thanks for watching. glad you enjoyed. xxx

@KissesFromCanada 3 жыл бұрын

You two are so sweet. Thanks for sharing.

@beablenker7081 6 жыл бұрын

First off your choice in food is on point! Thanks for the advice ❤ you are a lovely couple

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

hahaha thanks. It was a goooooood burger. xxx

@jb173 5 жыл бұрын

When you love a woman who uses a wheelchair, being a "gentleman" takes on a new meaning. You still open doors for instance, but you also carry a bike pump in the back of the car. You learn how to move the rear axle on a new wheelchair to adjust weight distribution, so the love of your life doesn't flip backwards too easily and you can disassemble both front casters, clean out that long hair build up and reassemble in under ten minutes. Romance and closeness with a "wheel woman" also includes holding her hand (pulling) as we walk and being able to be her knight in shining armor when helping her overcome some of the obstacles that life throws at her. I miss My wheel woman who passed away from cancer a few years ago. I miss her every day!

@LifewithKat2002 4 жыл бұрын

You are a very special person and it gives me hope that there are people like you out there in the world I am so sorry for your loss

@davidjtefft 2 жыл бұрын

So the chief engineer dealsirector with the talant,the director of the tea m then no one has a clue wha info goes where

@notdaisyadoptme6907 6 жыл бұрын

Awesome intro. I loved this little chat. I can't think of a weird habit, but I'm always getting told off for leaving draws open!!!!

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

thanks x

@shaneluke346 6 жыл бұрын

Toonie Hub ... Hi Gem , I love Sean's attitude towards disabled people , I would like to find someone like him , I am ALSO disabled , I was born with with Spina Bifida / Hydrocephalus I am also a wheelchair user I live in Northolt Middlesex with a live in carer from miss Shane Luke LondonXX

@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

iloveyou

@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

Jemyoubetterseeyoulove

@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden 6 жыл бұрын

You guys are so sweet together! I do think a lot of people worry about dating with a disability or illness. I've only just started using a wheelchair, but have been ill a long time before I met my partner, so even though we've been together years, it has got progressively worse and it is there in the back of my mind, occasionally I worry about all the things I can't do. But, I try to think 'what if it was the other way round?' - If your partner got sick or became disabled, you would still love them just as much and want to help in any way you could.

@SweetLvyJaySean 5 жыл бұрын

omg you guys are sooo cute. i hope i will find this too one day.

@tntgamerdotnl 6 жыл бұрын

I love how loud you guys are haha 😂. Awesome video!

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

awww thank you ;)

@SandieRoberts 5 жыл бұрын

You two 😍 proper lol at this video

@ladyroxanew.600 6 жыл бұрын

So much fun..

@The_crippled_gamer 3 жыл бұрын

HOLY DAMN! okay before i continue i gotta say this.. i am wearing headphones and i expected this cheerful sims sounding music, and half of a sudden the sounds of chopping in my ears, it scared the hell out of me

@lilithpluto 6 жыл бұрын

My fiancé always leaves the lids off jars or just places the lids back on bottles and doesn’t screw them on! It’s so annoying and I’m constantly reminding him 😂 loved this video! You’re such a lovely couple

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

hahaha yep thats exactly what i do lol. But then my husband screws them on soooo tight too!!! grrr. thanks I'm glad you enjoyed the video. xxx

@oceanpoet1 2 жыл бұрын

such an adorable couple

@rockykoast7065 4 жыл бұрын

That was quite entertaining as well as being cute. :D

@tinachambers4887 3 жыл бұрын

What a lovley couple have a day love from TEXAS

@WholeFoodSpark 6 жыл бұрын

You guys are too funny! My weird habit is that I hardly ever fill up the Brita! Yep, I'm that person that pours the water until it's just above the filter. My husband wakes up before me and won't have water for his morning smoothie. I want a 5 gallon water cooler, but we don't have a car, and that's not something you wanna lug on the bus!

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

Hahahah thats hilarious. One of shaun's pet hates (apart from the lids) is that i don't fill the Brita up when I've emptied it into my glass!!! "why do you just fill it up?" But its all about spoon saving ;)

@lizdyson3627 2 ай бұрын

Prague is amazing.

@dannymcdonald1591 2 жыл бұрын

Ur such a lovely couple me and my fiancee r both in wheelchairs it's hard but it's all gd

@ameliaholland8424 6 жыл бұрын

Cute couple

@EloiseEighteen 6 жыл бұрын

I do the lids thing too! I forget but they are also hard enough to get off in the first place...why put them back on!

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

Yep Im with you on that ;)

@rockykoast7065 4 жыл бұрын

Erm..to keep flying insects & creepy-crawlies out? Everybody's different. I'm untidy but cleanly. :) Would I mind if someone left the lids off? I'd at least try not to...lol. More important things in life..

@rockykoast7065 4 жыл бұрын

@@Wheelsnoheels incorrigible ! LOL

@smallbustboy 3 жыл бұрын

Pass me the tissues aww

@wheelieblind 4 жыл бұрын

LOL that dog just keeps whimpering through out the hole video.

@ashleybrown5883 6 жыл бұрын

Wait! How old are they? She strikes me as being in her early 30s and him almost 40 but am I wrong?

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

hahahah your half right. But shaun is 50 this year !!!!!

@ZairaBandy Жыл бұрын

@@Wheelsnoheels it wasn't weird for your mum for a man older that you be your boyfriend? at 19 you were a child. Would you let your daughter do the same?

@bellelf666 5 жыл бұрын

When he was making the burger with beetroot and egg I thought 'huh, that's a pretty Aussie style burger'...Then I heard the accent! Lolol

@SohiTheTinyKittenHuman 6 жыл бұрын

As a person with PTSD I would really approximate it if my boyfriend asked before he kissed me. To me it would be romantic. ( single at the moment)

@karengriffiths8496 6 жыл бұрын

My hubby ha d an ex wife yo I was 18 he was 25 😂😂 you both cracked me up doing this

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

hahaha im glad you enjoyed it. :)

@trucktalkvideosandy8185 3 жыл бұрын

I'v been single since May and for many years i'v wondered what it's like going on a date with a woman in a wheelchair and could i take it further if i liked her ? I'm not disabled but only have five and a half toes...

@mr.garlicman3134 4 жыл бұрын

WAS THAT AN EGG AND A BEET YOU PUT ON THE BURGER ? IF SO THAT BURGER SOUNDS GOOD.

@danilove63 2 жыл бұрын

It’s an Australian burger! Love seeing Shaun keep the Aussie traits with burger and beer. Haha.

@mr.garlicman3134 2 жыл бұрын

@@danilove63 i am from the USA and never heard of putting Egg and Beets on a burger. That is why I asked you that question. Thank you for taking the time to answer me back about that. I will have to try that to

@summer_the_rae 6 жыл бұрын

Gem: I was only 19 Me: BUT MY MIND IS OLDER THESE NEW YORK CITY STREETS GET COLDER I SHOULDER

@shaneluke346 6 жыл бұрын

let's talk about harry potter They make a lovely couple , as she said he seem so caring helpful and understanding , oh and he can cook Love this video , love see more as I am ALSO disabled from from birth though as I have Spina Bifida / Hydrocephalus also use a wheelchair from Miss Shane Luke London England

@summer_the_rae 6 жыл бұрын

Shane Luke They are a lovely couple! I was just making a Hamilton reference

@zarabp123 4 жыл бұрын

Yas love the Hamilton reference 👏👏

@ameliaholland8424 6 жыл бұрын

I was cooking burger the grease went in my eyes that hurt I’m eye level with my stove

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

ouch. I didnt cook the burgers. But you can get a splatter guard to go over the frying pan.

@minkybaby1 6 жыл бұрын

I always have to have the volume on an even number. In fact most things have to be even numbers. Even down to the number of biscuits I eat.

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

hahahaha. I can relate to that one too

@btm6692 4 жыл бұрын

My wife and I met when she was a patient and I was her nursing assistant. This June we will celebrate our 28th anniversary!

@ameliaholland8424 6 жыл бұрын

Do u have any other social media I would love to talk email r something

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

Yeah I do, they are all linked on my profile. I get really busy though, but I always try and reply. x

@Litzie2129 6 жыл бұрын

Wheelsnoheels - Gem Hubbard Hey Gem, Have you guys ever had a bad fight and one of you left the house. Who is usually a the one to either walk/roll out or apologize? And has your husband ever used your disability against you?

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

hmmmmm I know this sounds crazy, but we don't really have angry arguments. We never shout or have heated arguments. We are both pretty laid back. we just bicker, but its more over the lids that anything ;) and no he has never used my disability against me. He is amazing and will always make sure I'm included. xxx

@Litzie2129 6 жыл бұрын

That it so great to hear Gam. Love always to you two. 💕💕♡♡♡

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support :)

@charlenewilliams9472 6 жыл бұрын

He sounds very English

@Wheelsnoheels 6 жыл бұрын

Yeah he is slowly loosing his accent. he has been here 15 years. He is actually in australia at the moment so he's topping up on it ;)

@clairesheret2663 3 жыл бұрын

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@willjohnson4454 2 жыл бұрын

I think you make all a big deal out of it You don't look at other people's relationship in the same way so the same way so what if your legs are unemployed you always find another way trust me I know I use a wheelchair myself I don't say I'm in a wheelchair I say I use wheelchair when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change

@willjohnson4454 3 жыл бұрын

Why make a big deal out of it so you're dating someone that uses a wheelchair and stop saying you're in a wheelchair you make it sound like a bad thing to use one This is why we don't have the same rights as other people or looked at the same way because you all look at it as something wrong

@timberry8675 2 жыл бұрын

I think it shows a respectful gentlemanly side to ask first before touching or kissing, consent can never be assumed