Once i found out God can lead us to our spouse. The bulb went on and my mind was made up that this is actually the easiest way to go about things. God really does the heavy lifting for us. No number of dates or cohabitation can ever prepare you for the future. Only God holds our future. Truly, It is in our best interest to trust Him in everything. His will=His process=His timing ❤ Thank You Samm n Del for your obedience to share.❤
@tabithaadisa20175 ай бұрын
True
@TheDelphinatorTV4 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@AnnaAbang-yy5ms4 ай бұрын
Wow true
@Blessed-ly6kr4 ай бұрын
Amen So true. 🛑 Putting time limits on God. He spoke a whole 🌎 world to have light in one day. Can he do the same for us?!
@mymindtrips5 ай бұрын
Overtime I started to have the mindset that I have to know my husband for at least a year but some marriages like yours are making me see a new perspective that even 3months is possible. Just let God lead
@ronkeeunice55005 ай бұрын
Knowing the man ahead isn't always easy to deal with as a lady but it's a beautiful thing Sha ❤
@lilyd475 ай бұрын
@@ronkeeunice5500 with God all things are possible. Marriage instead is a journey and we are consistently growing and changing, getting to know ourselves how much more our spouses. So the idea to give 1 year, we will be doing it on our own which might work or not work. Rather than lean on the matchmaker to help us and direct us. Thank you Lord Jesus ❤️🔥
@ogochukwuprecious93134 ай бұрын
@@ronkeeunice5500yes, I've been wanting to make this prayer of knowing him first, but deep down, I know it won't be easy and that's why I haven't made that prayer yet😂😂😂. I want him to show up and let God open my eyes to see him
@katieecat4 ай бұрын
They had long delays right before courtship
@oluwatoniakinwande-fidelis26885 ай бұрын
I do not believe in dating too. And it feels good to know that someone believes that also.
@racheldteye5 ай бұрын
I don’t believe in dating as well. I’m glad more people are talking about this
@tiyang444 ай бұрын
Agreed
@Gozyrim4 ай бұрын
The entirety of this video resonates deeply with me. I equally didn’t believe in lengthy dating. My prayer was God send me someone who is true to you and good for me. And that was how it happened for me. God actually hears all those tiny little prayers we make. Mine was a verrry long distant courtship for 5months and my husband proposed 3 weeks after physically meeting me, he knew and I knew and God settled it. For me as well, what i appreciate most in this first year of my marriage is not in the butterfly moments but the things that make me very uncomfortable and humbles me. The Wait on God, and THE CALLING TO BE AND DO BETTER! God bless you both for sharing your journey with us.
@CharismaJenn4 ай бұрын
Prolonged dating just promotes sexual immorality, people just keep sleeping around, dumping and being dumped in the name of dating, then it becomes a vicious cycle. We thank GOD for Ministers like you that HE has equipped to guide and help preserve the morals of this generation.
@mymindtrips5 ай бұрын
I thought I was crazy when I would say “what was the point of dating “ because whenever people used the term it was often a license to sin or a means to let’s see how this goes. It never made sense to me.
@yearinsolitude5 ай бұрын
God hasn't shown me my husband. But one thing I've been convicted of is not dating. I don't need to date to find out if this is who God has for me. It's not a popular belief though. In times when it seems impossible, God always sends some form of encouragement. This video actually happens to be one.
@rachaelbempomaaapenteng48884 ай бұрын
I don't believe in dating too and it's so refreshing to know that I am not the only one
@dokedensiuya15595 ай бұрын
Sam Wonder is DEEP!!!!!!! My God! God bless you guys.❤ The Lord keeps you both in Him and for Him.
@oluwakemioshunkeye5 ай бұрын
Facts, it’s not about the destination. It’s about how I’m letting God work on my heart through the journey. God changed my prayer point from “God provide me a godly spouse to “God prepare my heart now, make become more like you daily as I wait for all the things you have prepared for me in the future”
@AB24Shine5 ай бұрын
This was great. Something I saw on social media recently that gave me great perspective is “dating and relationships do not equal proximity to marriage”. It’s true. God’s timing and His hand are the best.
@AFH_NatureEssence5 ай бұрын
The first thing that caught my attention was “the spirit is in the blood”! Loveeet!!!❤
@tabithaadisa20175 ай бұрын
Thanks Delphy and your hubby. Kingdom is the way to go!! We use to think dating for data(get to know ) is sensible but the devil is in the dating market big time. Hearing God and waiting on him is the safest place and you guys are embodying that for us so well. More grace on your marriage ❤❤❤
@vivianchidimma84785 ай бұрын
I love the part you said you'rent trying to be successful and not just creating content rather hear God and do what he says.💘🔥Am blessed!
@lula25045 ай бұрын
When Sam speaks 🎉 thank God because the wisdom wow .
@tonyadebonojo5431Күн бұрын
My my listening to Sam at point 17.02 to 22.26 and watching Delphine during that time you know they both are in sync. The careful use of language during the span, the amount of doctrine, the care to be careful to mean what he is saying without over sweeping, is admirable. I see that we have a deep Man of God indeed. I have picked up so much from the span in question especially although i have been blessed listening to the entire clip. May the Lord God who brought you together uphold and water your ministry in Jesus name. Amen
@TheDelphinatorTV21 сағат бұрын
Amen & Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you for your kinds words Will definitely show him this comment.
@tonyadebonojo543111 сағат бұрын
@@TheDelphinatorTV Thank you sincerely Appreciate your response
@IsaiahEbere-bz3jv5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing... God is fixing the church by fixing families and ensuring his children marry in his will And oh my Delphi you are beautiful 🥺😩 I love your dentition... You look like an ibo person, are you 🥺
@mayibongwenkazimulo29345 ай бұрын
Thabk yoy Del and Sam for obeying God and sharing your story. Im Greatly encouraged because at some point I asked Gid where my husband was and who He was and to my unexpectation He showed me the guy and told me it was not time yet and hence am waiting. So hearing your testimony i realise I am not crazy and i did not mishear God because turns out it happened to someone else so the possibility i heard right has just increased. Aside the peace am experiencing on this journey giving my mind some evidence is helping me on the journey. Thank you.
@judycelestin9833 ай бұрын
Once GOD choose for you On my part I don't think there is no reason of going back The other relationship is already over And that's when GOD STEPS IN
@Glorysplendor4 ай бұрын
All of your videos are really coming to me timely cos your first video on how God chose your spouse really strike a cord in me and was like a form of confirmation for me, i see myself going on the same line of waiting as yours right now (God telling you about your spouse first). It is so strong that God is perfecting everything to the glory of his name.. will love to share on your platform when its finally done.....
@beverlypowell31864 ай бұрын
We are married to God first until God brings you your spouse
@similoluwaawoyele-finni55645 ай бұрын
Ow! I believe this video is for me. Thank God for using you to reassure me of His great plans for me.
@marynabbanja5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 for sure, David in Psalms is so many of us. I love his rawness with God. Yess been encouraged to continue to take my feelings to God. 27:41
@gracekyalo92555 ай бұрын
My God! So timely 👏 Thank you for your obedience and quickening🙏
@khomotsomaele20915 ай бұрын
Never disappoint with authentic conversation. So glad I found you ❤
@natashaobuseng303528 күн бұрын
Amennn❤Your submission to the Will of God is amazing!
@lilyd475 ай бұрын
It is far far better to be in the perfect will of God, which means being patient as he set the stage up and bring you together in due time. Thanks for sharing your testimony may God continue increase you all and favor you❤
@tiyang444 ай бұрын
You just explained my thought process of dating. Not necessary to do to find the spouse. Just ask God and wait.
@tillyjoy-zb2nz5 ай бұрын
I really like how calm Samm is yet speaks so manly humbly and with such depth. Please the last part of this video was not completed🥹🥹can Sam please complete what he was saying about “waiting honourably, try not to go back to your ex, and being truthful to yourself seek counselling and having pple around that make you feel better”……🤔🤔🤔 I feel like it’s a very important thing he was saying and I could relate personally but it didn’t land well so I didn’t quite summarise his point. Please
@faith4today4 ай бұрын
Yes, I think the best way is to wait to hear from God about who to marry versus pursuing someone you have feelings for, because even if they are a good Christian but not God's choice for you, then you may end up heartbroken.
@coleenswaby-lawes22343 ай бұрын
Del I really admire your natural beauty. Your hair is beautiful, your complexion and makeup is natural and pretty. Your whole love story is inspirational. I am a divorcee. When I got married almost 28 years ago, I intended it to be forever, but when I entered into marriage I cannot remember ever praying about the matter despite my being a christian and believing that I was following God’s will at the time. I was abandoned and divorced until now I still do not understand why. But sometimes God takes things away from us that he knows is not right for us and I believe where God has taken me and where he is still leading me, my former spouse, could not or refused to go with me. I am now happily single. My marriage produced four offspring who are now grown up. My marriage break up could have killed , or totally destroyed my sanity but I praise God for helping me to come out of this journey a better person and closer in my relationship to God. My best wishes to you both as you continue to allow God to lead in your life (you are one flesh).
@katieecat4 ай бұрын
Woman i love your voice, so full of patience humbled by long suffering resonant bright a resilient power. 😢😂😊
@gloryfestus2146Ай бұрын
Both of you are already looking alike,GOD GIVES EVIDENCE EVIDENCE WHEN MAKE HIS CHOICE OUR CHOICE. MORE ABUNDANT ALL GOOD GRACE TO YOU BOTH IN JESUS NAME-AMEN
@judycelestin9833 ай бұрын
You are sharing what GOD wants you to share and guide other couple out there As a Christian pray is the
@CharismaJenn4 ай бұрын
Thank very much for this Spiritually well defined and detailed explanation man of GOD. I've been exactly in this situation where I have to ask GOD to guide me in making the right choice.
@TheEuniceAda4 ай бұрын
Is that your hair? It's so lovely
@bettinateodoro55655 ай бұрын
A Revelation to Me.Thank u. I Agree, Believe, Receive/Claim it/Done.It is so Victorious/ Glorious. Amennn.Hallelujah!!! 🙏🌈🔥💞👩❤️👨💍👏
@maloni_c5 ай бұрын
Thank you for holding my hand through my journey ❤❤ God bless you 🙏
@whateverthejourneykeepwalk3365 ай бұрын
The Lord be praised in your marriage always 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@unokanirelilington55735 ай бұрын
Once you get the conviction get it done📌
@magnusoluwakemi11345 ай бұрын
Welcome back for me 😂as an oldie
@TheDelphinatorTV5 ай бұрын
Ayyyyyyye!
@user-eo5rm7sc5i5 ай бұрын
Lov how my sister steers at him❤❤❤🎉🎉
@user-rj8cq4lf4n5 ай бұрын
So sure she didn't make a mistake 😂
@user-eo5rm7sc5i5 ай бұрын
@@user-rj8cq4lf4n true eyy 😊
@favour7845 ай бұрын
ThankGod for both of you. ❤ I have learnt a lot Thankyou.
@deborahjeremiaheffiong6445 ай бұрын
First to Comment. I was literally waiting for this.
@Listentomusicist5 ай бұрын
This blessed me 🙏🏾
@Exhibit_Obedience5 ай бұрын
GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH GOD!!!!!!! Getting my popcorn now, sitting tight 😅❤
@prettyshan17044 ай бұрын
Love watching you both! God bless
@judycelestin9833 ай бұрын
Dale you abswer the question Already 😂
@maryannodeh33875 ай бұрын
Everytime IV prayed IV been shown a particular guy for marriage I still don't know how to like him but he's the only one shown to me for marriage it's bn years but I still don't really like him
@alexandraigolo5 ай бұрын
If you really believe God is speaking, pray that God makes him attractive to you. If you pray sincerely and it happens, then you’ll know it’s God’s will. If you pray and you still do not like him then you’ll know it’s not God’s will. God will not force you to like him. Try again and see what happens.
@mayowaoyedokun98285 ай бұрын
I agree with you, Her will is important, i even believe if its God, He would have prepared her heart before she met the guy. Let her check her heart. What is it she doesn't like about him? Has God corrected her about it before. Or else, maybe its not God@@alexandraigolo
@maryannodeh33875 ай бұрын
@@alexandraigolo thank you
@oluwadamilolaaishat27545 ай бұрын
Del, God bless you. God keep your home. you are wise and say a lot i need to hear.
@user-lf7dx6ub6b4 ай бұрын
Thank you Del and Sam But Del pls how did you break up with ur ex and how did he accept it was it easy on him or did he beg to come bck
@kathradabeverly6695 ай бұрын
Sit!!!I needed to hear that!
@NessahAnthony5 ай бұрын
Thank you both. Learning so much 🙏
@doreenb.a51993 ай бұрын
I think you need to answer the question of re_marrying cause so many people need to hear that and might be able to access you.
@lovethanidi70245 ай бұрын
Thank you del and sam God bless you both
@ifelolorunamanda5 ай бұрын
So timely, again. Thank you so much
@dianna03074 ай бұрын
Loving youre make-up
@gloryfestus2146Ай бұрын
DELPH U SAID "I want to hear from GOD &" "do ,not prove anything to" "anybody," this is where GOD IS GLORIED,YOUR KZfaq is just GOD,NOT FOR SHOW-OFFS, PLEASE KEEP IT CONTINUALLY JESUS REVEALING &JESUS & GLORIFYING, I SEE JESUS IN EVERYTHING YOU DO HERE BECAUSE U ARE STAYING BEHIND THE CROSS& ALLOWING THE ONE WHO DIED ON THE CROSS TO BE BEFORE,INFRONT OF THE CROSS, WE SEE JESUS IN UR YOUR TUBE KEEP IT UP❤ MUCH ❤ SAMDELPH. WE LOVE ❤U BOTH
@TheDelphinatorTV29 күн бұрын
Thank God!
@adeojofunmilolaesther21125 ай бұрын
God bless you both 🎉
@KDbelieves4 ай бұрын
BEAUTIFUL couple.
@judycelestin9833 ай бұрын
As you praying GOD will align each other to get strengthen through him with scripture and fasting and prayer God will make a way for you both 🙏 ❤️ 😂 amen FAITH THATS what GOD want you to share his FAITH Has increase in you both WHEN GOD choose for you he will construct the path 🙏 ✨️ 🙌 blessings 🙌 to you both 🙏 ✨️ Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 Jesus Christ ✨️ is the key amen 🙏
@sylviacabrera97664 ай бұрын
Hi my life is much different I am a married woman and it has fail I for 11 years now and am separated now and whil you all were speaking and happy for you don t get me wroung but my life is hurt and pain for my marrage
@temitopehassan934 ай бұрын
May God heal you completely and perfect His will for your life
@thinkpink39275 ай бұрын
I love Del's faith. However, Sam asked good questions that many people think about. People have choices and you cannot make them follow what the Lord is saying.
@glorycarriersrenmow5 ай бұрын
❤I love you both 💖
@nobantutebele5 ай бұрын
God asked you to do it for me.
@ibangasmart19685 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Blessed-ly6kr4 ай бұрын
I can see you are lead bi God. I think tooo long dating puts temptation afire
@BeingMrsO5 ай бұрын
fine girl Delo🤩
@TheDelphinatorTV5 ай бұрын
😘😘😘
@ritaozegbe12825 ай бұрын
So beautiful ❤❤
@chiomailoh13615 ай бұрын
I was holding God's trousers😅
@TheDelphinatorTV5 ай бұрын
😂
@_uduak_akpabio5 ай бұрын
🔥🔥♥️♥️
@adeojofunmilolaesther21125 ай бұрын
🎉
@maryannodeh33875 ай бұрын
Does Sam know who to relax n enjoy life/ marriage?he seems like he spiritualized everything not saying it's bad is he in love with del or it's God's will
@jlove33715 ай бұрын
He really didn’t spiritualize everything. He gave a lot of practical examples as well. Now I do think their relationship seems very mature.
@b-unique45655 ай бұрын
Dear Mary, this video isn't for you to peruse their body language in order to analyze the romance in their marriage. The video is for spiritual education as regards the institution of marriage, looking through their personal experience. We need to stop being too involved in people's lives in intrusive ways. I think it's toxic. Why're you invested in knowing if someone who's married is in love or not? Social media and the idea of fake romance it's painted has put false ideas in people's minds on how love should be shown or what love even is.
@LifeGivers-g2i5 ай бұрын
If you're looking for entertainment or comedy... You're in the wrong place These are instructions.... Besides you can't just use 45 mins videos to judge him. You don't know how many people lives God is saving through this video. Take the instructions as it applies to you and leave Sam's seriousness alone.
@b-unique45655 ай бұрын
People just want to see fan fare. Kissing, cuddling, touching between couples, so they can satisfy their ungodly validations. Newsflash, marriage is way more than that. And nobody owes you PDA for you to fawn over. I really dislike this habit of grown people gathering online to come sit and dissect the lives of people, judging, and deciding what is and what isn't.
@mayowaoyedokun98285 ай бұрын
What do you mean by being in love? Has been in love help anyone to sustain marriage?