SEX IN MARRIAGE IS BORING?! How God Chose My Spouse Q&A Part 2

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This is part 2 of the "How God Chose My Spouse" Q&A.
Watch Part 1 here • DATING IS NOT BIBLICAL...
Time Codes
Intro 0:00-0:42
Did you entertain other godly guys while waiting 0:43-5:12
How do you search in dream interpretation 5:12-8:34
How long did it take for the guy's eyes to open? 8:34-13:21
How did you remain patient while waiting 13:21-16:44
Does God matchmake others like he did you two? 16:45-18:27
How do I deal with age gap in marriage? 18:30-21:27
How do you stay hopeful and in faith amidst storms? 21:28-23:35
How did you deal with the spirit of lust? 23:36-28:40
Do you think the process would have been easier if you were friends first? 28:41-33:08
Was it easy for you to quit your job when God asked you? 33:11-38:31
Outro 38:32-41:44
Prayer 41:44-42:46
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Links:
How God Chose My Spouse Part 1
• HER STORY: GATHERING C...
How God Chose My Spouse Part 2
• HIS STORY: TIMING, SEA...
Credits:
Filmed and Edited by @TheDelphinator
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@QueenZsWorld 3 ай бұрын

This is deep, thank you both for sharing. What I love is how the BASIS of this marriage is each of your relationships with God. Marriage should not be the only time someone "get's dreams from God". Marriage should not be the only area we have to trust God in. For Del, it was surrendering her career, pride, her ambition; for Sam, it was trusting God in his life during a rough season where his identity and safety were under attack. Both learned to hear God in multiple areas of life. So it is with us. God is watching to see how we respond to the things we go through. Where do we run to? Do we ask His opinion on choosing friends? a job? a city to live in? a car? Our walk with God will be reflected in every area of our lives. Yes, in our marriages too, but that is only one part of the picture.

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Very very well said. So glad to see you received all this insight. Thank you! Thank God!

@oluwatoniakinwande-fidelis2688 3 ай бұрын

On waiting on God for him to speak if the person he told you about is not coming, it is important to note that God will give you instructions on what to do, either to keep waiting, forget about it or even tell you what to focus on. Truth is God knows exactly how long we can last in the waiting room, he knows our frame and frailty.. most of all God knows what he wants to achieve in you and with the situation TRUST GOD! God knows best and gives the best gift.

@Men_After_Gods_Heart 3 ай бұрын

Yeah this is More than truth,,,while in the waiting period, there is always an instruction, or a condition to be fulfilled by you"like you should introspect yourself n decide if you are ready?,if not work out on areas that Holy spirit will show you

@tislouise 3 ай бұрын

Hmm… “the flesh wants to seize your destiny… it wants to give you a lower vision than what God intends for you.” 🙌🏾

@CharismaJenn 3 ай бұрын

"GOD WILL WORK WITH YOU TO THE DEGREE THAT YOU ALLOW HIM" THANK YOU JESUS.

@oludayobalogun47 3 ай бұрын

Many thanks to you two and the Lord will make your home sweeter, am a marriage counsellor the past 24yrs & I appreciate you two so much, I pray the Lord will continue to open the eyes and ears of our young ones because God's Love is so profound and God can be very direct and specific depending on your walk with him. The secret is in our one on one relationship with him. Greater grace & blessings for you two. Shallom

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Amen! 🙏🏽 Thank you so much.

@peacemowete 2 ай бұрын

I found this KZfaq channel after Pastor Nathaniel posted a video of yours on IG. But right now, I am just so glued to your channel.

@user-qn1qm7ov5j 3 ай бұрын

POWERFUL COUPLE. cant wait to have my own kingdom marriage testimoy.

@tillyjoy-zb2nz 3 ай бұрын

“When conviction, destiny and moment meet at a point, that’s when you’ve found the person” Wow👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@joannakolawole2378 3 ай бұрын

This was profound. My take home is to ask God for the interpretation of dreams, and for me I’ll say for the interpretation of some of His words to me. It’s important to know exactly what God is saying before running with my own interpretation. Thank you so much💛

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@khomotsomaele2091 3 ай бұрын

Bro Sam is definitely the loud one 😂😂😂😂

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 I need to screenshot this and send to him STAT!

@tabithaadisa2017 3 ай бұрын

Thanks so much Sex can be an act of obedience in marriage not necessarily pleasure 😮 We're learning 😊 It's not the sex outside that's sweet but the disobedience 😮 Mic drops guys. More grace

@ogechaakor3202 3 ай бұрын

Woah😢

@user-rj8cq4lf4n 3 ай бұрын

God bless you both ,the conclusion of the whole matter is to have a personal relationship with God . Powerful 🎉

@maloni_c 3 ай бұрын

The Insights from this Series 👏 I've seen a lot of QnA's but this is awesome! Thank you for being so vulnerable & transparent! You didn't gloss over any questions however repetitive,hence you attached to it the Seriousness it deserve!! You're Such an Honorable Couple,God truly is A Perfect Matchmaker ❤️

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Thank God!

@Listentomusicist 3 ай бұрын

Such a needed a powerful discussion! Amen 🙏

@lula2504 3 ай бұрын

I'm the first one 🎉so excited

@heyOmotayo 3 ай бұрын

This was soo good, Delphine❤

@graceetvhost2885 3 ай бұрын

Soo good . Bless you both from glory to glory 🔥 🎉❤ 🙏🏾

@EmpressCreationsx 3 ай бұрын

Yayyy I’m here 🎉🎉 been waiting. You ppl should just be dropping them now. I enjoy listening to you guys. God is so timely with your videos too 😅

@glorycarriersrenmow 3 ай бұрын

❤ I love listening to your words of wisdom.

@simi-oladinni 3 ай бұрын

kaiiiiiiii your insight on lust I love it deep!

@barbaramoss-zf9ip 3 ай бұрын

WOW! This is so good. Timely! You are answering questions pertaining to my questions about my concerns.

@hakayi9130 3 ай бұрын

I love you two together. Its beautiful to behold what the Lord did and is doing. To Him be all the glory. 🙏🏽❤️

@fayekelly4420 3 ай бұрын

I can see the benefit in asking God to show you your mate, and not doing the dating scene, because in marriage you'll have the rest of your lives getting to know one another, and will not have practiced breaking up, ie heartbreak, and divorce.

@whateverthejourneykeepwalk336 3 ай бұрын

Very insightful as we continue to learn God continue resting your grace on us

@barbaramoss-zf9ip 3 ай бұрын

Blessings! Your story has been so encouraging as I presently can align with Mrs. Delphinator's story of knowing and waiting. I have watched the parts so many times just to glean from it and as a source of encouragement as I WAIT! So happy to.hear from you both today. ❤

@Praise-El 3 ай бұрын

Brother Sam speaks wisdom, kaiii🔥🔥, God bless you Sister Delphine

@dorcasbwire5612 3 ай бұрын

I am just grateful to God for engracing you to film continually Thank you for sharing

@khomotsomaele2091 3 ай бұрын

I'm so thankful for you too. Blessings always ❤

@HisInitialDesign 3 ай бұрын

Del you’re so gorgeous sister! Okay back to the video 😂❤

@ROSEQUEENETHNWACHUKWUNNE-xh3ge 3 ай бұрын

This is a great teaching, encapsulated with great wisdom. I'm inspired. Thanks

@deborahobulor6800 3 ай бұрын

You both are a blessing

@joelinekitenge9683 3 ай бұрын

New subscriber!!! This video and the others I have watched made me want to suscribe. Thank you both for your wisdom!! God bless you all

@afroingaround 3 ай бұрын

Love the hair!!!! And the insights of course 😄 thank you!!

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@oluwadamilolaaishat2754 3 ай бұрын

Both of you guys are so wise.

@marykhang5230 3 ай бұрын

Watching your Faith in God and the way both of you speak about God has strengthened my Faith. Truly a blessing to see such strong Faith filled couple. Thank you! ❤

@mymy22able 3 ай бұрын

Your story is a huge blessing. We need this in the body of Christ this is extremely important and sensitive topic. Getting a partner right is surely underrated. May God continue to bless your union in Jesus mighty name 🙌 allow oga to talk a bit more haha

@chinazoucheaga4825 3 ай бұрын

May the Lord help us to be faithful through all the seasons of pruning in our lives

@lula2504 3 ай бұрын

Love the fits

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Fits are from @eu1987studios on Instagram

@paulaganbi5236 3 ай бұрын

It’s the way Sam makes Delphine subtly chuckle at the end for me , that was beautiful 🙌🏾…I’m Praying for the same anointing when me I marry 🙏🏾😂. Thanks for the videos guys

@hildaking3338 2 ай бұрын

21:50 This part is such a beautiful reminder. We know to love Him because he first loved. It seems like we put in so much to keep it together but in the real picture, He’s holding us up. God is holding you up. Rest in that ❤️.

@ifeomaifeyinwa6918 3 ай бұрын

On divine preseversation! Kai, God is wonderful. When He has drawn the line, there's no power in hell, not even yourself that can exceed it! I see it every single time, and I marvel at God and His love for me. I can not thank Him enough!

@digital-manufacturing 3 ай бұрын

When you talk about the preservation of God, I think it is a great experience and an important part of achieving the will of God. When someone is wholeheartedly waiting on God I believe He will take away unserious people and ensure guys and ladies that are not his will for you never locate you.

@ijeomanwanosike6390 3 ай бұрын

If your trial produces joy, then yoi have gained the requisite wisdom for your life but if not you may have just wasted your time. Sam Wonder!!!! I love this duo so much and I'm grateful I'm listening to them in my single days, more grace to you both🥺🙏

@jemimaadesinatoluwalase9542 3 ай бұрын

Watching this video and all I'm seeing or what God is showing me is how much he loves me😩❤️ and how he's important in every aspect of my life. Thank you for sharing 🤗😩✨. God blessings always ✨

@jemimaadesinatoluwalase9542 3 ай бұрын

*he's interested*

@theresaisaBIGBOSS 2 ай бұрын

I admire the way you look at your husband. Continue with God's great work, both of you. 🙏 🙌 💪

@thelovely961 3 ай бұрын

Hey guys! I think with the first question why it may have been asked again or what people may want to know... or what I want to know from the first question is were any other men approaching you in this time, did you entertain the conversation at all or turn them away, what did you say to them for example? Lovely video again guys and you both look so good in the brown. ❤

@56manya 2 ай бұрын

You two do complement each other so well, Delphinator is like me, lol, straight bam! bam! bam! Sam has gentler approach to how he answers the questions. We are more answer oriented, and we in our minds forget to see that the other people need to be carried through the process gently till they get to the answer. I am learning though it’s good to be gentle just because I know the answer shouldn’t make me rob the others of the process of getting to the answer. Being Christ-like is a process Lord help us. And until am like Him I am still not finished even with my quickness to answer, it’s such painful lessons but, hey, it’s part of being a child of the Great Kingdom of our Father.

@ibiereogolo7263 2 ай бұрын

I am this point where i do not know what is happening in my life, but i want to marry according to the will of God. Thank you so much because your marriage journey is soul lifting. i jotted down prayer points from it and i hope and pray that God will give me the man that He prepared for me. i hope to come back and testify..

@anonciatahyppolite1677 2 ай бұрын

your faith in God will make you wait .It was hard for me to wait as I got closer to the words as the dreams and vision become a way of spiritual connection we have now. And you need to remember Sam, the Holy spirit is the connection needed so waiting has to do with preparation of each partner.

@tabithaauma1532 3 ай бұрын

Am learning ❤

@sarahpaun9688 3 ай бұрын

I am in waiting season and I hope soon will end. Pray for me 🤍🙏

@user-eo5rm7sc5i 3 ай бұрын

Wow thank you Sis Del n Brother Sam.. We really learning a lot, God help us singles to obey His will... God Bles your Marriage with more love, Wisdom n understanding in Jesus Might Name. ❤❤❤laview all the from Zimbabwe🇿🇼.

@zaneleJoseph 3 ай бұрын

The fornication part was so powerful, I had to write it down.

@bakonafisatoumbebu574 Ай бұрын

I had to screen record that part so that I can copy later. It was so enlightening and vivid

@stelia-ladye7090 3 ай бұрын

Amen thank you ma for everything God bless you so much. What can one do for God to deliver them from demonic projections in the mind, and what can one do for God to answer his or her prayers. Please ma I need help please help me all is not well

@ukuchukwuodozi1316 3 ай бұрын

God is good

@VavelCareme 2 ай бұрын

The flesh wants to steal your destiny. Thenkuii 🙏🙏

@kimsvlog8765 2 ай бұрын

How do we tell if the dreams about someone is the one from God or God revealing more of Himself to me? I've had many about this man & the last I knew he was single

@user-lf7dx6ub6b 3 ай бұрын

Thank you ma But how are u able to to deal with your ex because am in this kind of situation and my boyfriend is not accepting it, he believes am just trying to reject What do I do

@lovethanidi7024 3 ай бұрын

Could you please tell me the exact prayer you prayed during waiting on the lord for life partner, am 41 and very weak to pray sometimes 😢please hold hands with me..God bless your family amen

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Hello, I don’t think it’s about an exact prayer. You just need to sincerely ask God and be vulnerable about where you are. Take your feelings to God.

@Prudhvi7777 3 ай бұрын

Hii brother Sam and Del, Iam very much encouraged and happy about works which god done in your life, I have question which is very important for me in my life i'll be thankful to god if you answer me,, Before my bapthisam i was in a relationship for 7years than after, god spoke to me that this relationship was the attack from satan, Than obeyed god's word and came out of my relation..1year back i kept 1week fasting and prayed for my future husband and god directly showed the person i had sensed the god soo much that he is the one,, Now all things are going well but iam frightend about my past realationship which was very long, please help to know do i really need to share my past relationship to my future husband....Please help me with your answer..

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

What's frightening about the past relationship?

@Prudhvi7777 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for the reply, iam frightened to share my past mistakes and the wrong things which I had done in my past relationship,, do i really need to share my past things or do i need to be quite and move on with my future husband...

@user-rj8cq4lf4n 3 ай бұрын

Fear isn't a good sign and it's not from God .Take it to God in prayer and let Him direct you

@TheDelphinatorTV Ай бұрын

It’s actually important to be transparent, so the devil doesn’t hold up your past as a tool of torment inside the marriage

@bibi_ola1713 3 ай бұрын

What were your exact prayers during your waiting season Del ? Before you knew it was Sam and after you knew it was Sam .

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

1. Before - Show me who my husband is. 2. After - If it is your will, reveal me to him too.

@GodIsWithMee 3 ай бұрын

@@TheDelphinatorTV I have emailed you, just wondering if you have received it🙏🏾

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

@@GodIsWithMeeResend it

@GodIsWithMee 3 ай бұрын

@@TheDelphinatorTV It is resent to you. Thank you 🙏🏾

@IB-hv7rl 3 ай бұрын

Remember Rachel gave birth to Joseph. He was sold into slavery. and then God redeemed him. Rachel is the mother of Joseph and Benjamin, who become two of the twelve tribes of Israel (Gen 35:24; Gen 46:15-18). Her maid Bilhah is ancestor of two more (Gen 35:25; Gen 46:23-24).

@AyewaGift Ай бұрын

Abraham waited for longer. Isacc was 40 as long as you heard from THE LORD go and sleep He will sort you out.

@TheDelphinatorTV Ай бұрын

Lol very easy to say until you're in it.

@AyewaGift 28 күн бұрын

@@TheDelphinatorTV Sis I am currently there and it’s not even Funny 😪 at all, in fact the LORD led me to this video to see that I am not mad. my response was with regards to the waiting time question , in essence what I meant or wanted to convey was that waiting time always varies with each person but THE LORD will always give us commensurate grace to wait, tho in our own view it’s frustrating and unbearable but just like yours it’s always worth the wait. I LOVE YOU SIS.

@olaseniadewole 3 ай бұрын

pls i didnt get the aspect that you said God can tell someone this is the person and you said you didnt want and you said your husband Sam has same experience, can anyone shed more light on that? Are you saying you can decide to tell God No?

@TheDelphinatorTV 3 ай бұрын

Yes one can decide to say no to God's choice. God won't force you. However, you will live with the consequences of your actions.

@olaseniadewole 3 ай бұрын

@@TheDelphinatorTV thank you for this, I just feel God always have the best, but He will give you His permissive will to choose, but I'd advise we accept God's will always, who tells you we are not leaving the best for the better.