+ivy this is my life.

every time I see his face, my heart hurts

+T.j. Rakes I think can related to at least one of daughters song

everyone

+ivy Watch the music video to Hoppipola by Sigur Ros! Old, but happy people :)

Micah Buzan You right

Or we can turn that suffering into bitterness and hatred. More than one option...

Don't be naive. We can also damage others so that we are not the only ones hurting. And it happens A LOT.

I agree, it's better to cheer people up when they're going through hard times. Try to live life the best you can

The ancient Greeks know it better 2.500 years ago. Life is full of pathos (suffering) and they thought that the only remedy for mortal men is eleos (compassion in Greek). Greek Tragedy can teach all of us...

mind blown..... :o....first and second album titles

OH SHI-

I feel like i'm already gone

why havent i got this yet-

😈😇

You're not crazy at all. It's even the opposite, you're in good mental health. Hearing sad song make actually people happy, by a cathartic effect. It's like allowing our emotions to be express, by the media of art.

"makes me feel alive when I don't want to be." This really got me. :'( ♥

yes, completely get it. when I feel low or raw - "how" by Daughter - or music by Olafur Arnalds embrace me....

You could not have explained it any better. You need a specific mind set to truely appreciate Daughter. You can just have them come on in shuffle and truely enjoy it

Wow! Best compliment ever

I imagine her thoughts to be very intelligent and empathetic, just like her music.

Somehow elderlies sounds derogatory in my head, but I know what you mean. Old people are cute.

+Edward Marshall Yeah the "lies" part seems as if although we know it wasn't intended to.

+Edward Marshall Did you know that referring to old people as "cute" is actually quite demeaning? Not trying to be mean here, I just couldn't help but comment because in your reply you state that "elderlies" is derogatory and then you go on to call old people "cute." There is an ongoing agreement in our culture that it's okay to refer to elderly people as cute, and yet it only reinforces a prejudices ageism, there is a loss of respect and dignity when people who have lived the extraordinary ups and down of an entire lifetime are reduced to being "cute." Old people know more emotional, mental, and physical pain than anyone, they know the spectrum of human diversity and experience, "cute" was the first 10 years of their life, what of the journey that followed the next 70 years thereafter? I'm not so sure cute is the word I would use to describe such an immense achievement.

Darren Brown I would more describe it, "wise."

Nice long post but, not sure what you're talking about. Maturity has little to do with age and (to an extent) experience, and so does respectability, seriousness, etc. I wish people would/could think before attempting to (supposedly) correct others, or upvoting someone's comment... sigh...

Much love, peace and hope to you as well, hope you are doing well.

I say as I hit replay and cry like a baby.

I only watch this if I know i'm okay with bawling my eyes out for a bit. My grandmother had dementia and lived with us when I was a kid and it was so hard to watch her go thru it and then to find out it could run in the family.....It's over for my grandmother but the thought of my mom or sister getting it wrecks me.

thanks!

Emmy Engström No worries!

+Belinda LD Thank you so muuuch!

... Sit in silence, let the picture soak

I'm not sure about the "clothes off" I think it says "coat off"

same, though sometimes it was kinda funny, when I would bring a friend home she would say like "oh my grandson!" and my friends would get so confused. But yeah she always forgets her mother died and sometimes doesn't recognise my grandfather so that's really sad.

My mother works at a hospital for the elderly who have Alzheimers, and just hearing about the families breaks my heart. My mother comes home and tells me about her patients (of course not specifically, that would break the confidentiality) and they don't remember their own children or grandchildren. It breaks my heart just thinking about the patients being so confused and conflicted. The family crying because they have lost their loved one. I really feel for everyone who is going through this. You can get through it.

+Jacob Toles Thanks for sharing. This song and video is beautiful and terrifying at the same time.

+Alexia Figueroa Alzheimers is terryfying. It's like the're not dead yet... but the person they were is no longer here.

+Jacob Toles last sentences are one of the most beautiful words I've ever read there on KZfaq. Thank you for it, mate!

Sinto muito, muito!

@@arianicardoso1388 obrigada!

May your father rest in peace.

jmtothemusic god is def a pos if he is out in the sky. Looking down at us suppose to be protecting us.

Some of us don’t even get that. But we do all die and get to keep nothing we’ve gained. That’s the one undeniable truth to life.

crying

@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 If there is a god, he's definitely a piece of shit. It's why I stopped believing.

SERA Xx

Did you remember to call your nan?

Great idea. Life is short and too many people forget about their parents and grandparents.

❤

Thank you for such powerful and consoling words.I myself currently struggle with depression, anxiety and post traumatic stress. I'm so grateful to be reminded that through the grievances and the hurt I have suffered, there is beauty in the world and I can be an avenue of perpetuation of said beauty.

Lots of people will hear Daughter and automatically call the band's music "depressing" because they don't know what depression really is. Something being depressing is more than just feeling "sad". The only ones, like you and me, that can understand it are those that have gone through depression. So yeah, I get why the happy people would misuse the word, lol. But could this music help enhance people's depression? Maybe, but it doesn't for me personally. As someone that suffers from mental illness, depression being part of it, since I was a teenager (in my 30's now), I can safely say this type of music doesn't depress me at all. If anything, it liberates me. It feels real, and I can relate to it on many levels. If I need a good cry, it's always there and lets me release all of my feelings without hurting myself. No amount of "happy" pop music or banging bad ass metal can ever hope to do an inch of what Daughter and other talented musicians do for me. Music has played an important role in my life, and I honestly believe that without it, I would have killed myself when I was much younger. Obviously, Daughter and other music, is different for everyone, but for me, for someone that has suffered depression, anxiety, and more, since I was a kid, I can say this music is both freeing and comforting for me. But I do think you're right that this music can help motivate you into doing something to make others happy, or just to live your life more fully since tomorrow is never promised to us.

Thank you for this. I find it strange when people call sad music "depressing" or avoid it for that reason. Sadness isn't a bad emotion and expresing sadness through music can be beneficial.

Its a beautiful pain, she gave birth the next generations and can now rest in a heaven, she won't be dead here until she's forgotten.

​@@Angel-sd5nc which will be soon though, like we will all be forgotten soon

@@HaleG9 if there is a god, he'll remember each and everyone of us, so we'd never really be truly forgotten

Hope youre ok, its hard it really is and it may not get easier but you get stronger and better over time.

Thank you. ❤️ it never gets easier to feel, but it does get easier to try to remember only the good memories because once they’re gone that and their belongings are all you’ll have to remember them by.

I was you (in terms of discovering Daughter) few months ago and I have the same to say about this amazing band...including the stuff about some video these days not actually going with the lyrics. I guess I'm old school... My favourites are Youth, Medicine, Still and Smother...

+Zerosinz 300 me

Zerosinz 300 i did

Zerosinz 300 arky

Yes yes and yes..... I am trying to stop

I'm bawling my eyes out crying, help ;-;

+NatalieCatMeow This video is extremely sad... I think you didn't understand it's meaning haha

i did understand it lmao ok

NatalieCatMeow Then if you think it's not that sad you're stone hearted haha

uhm?? i said i didnt expect it to be as sad as it is lmao, you took it the wrong way

NatalieCatMeow I read "it's not that sad", OK I'm sorry, my mistake hahaha

Strength and Guidance

Elizabeth Grace Shit, that would be hell. I send you my condolences.

I'm so SORRYYYYYYYY!!! I love you and her! I could just imagine! My heart goes out to you! Live for her ! Don't ever stop!! I love you

My heart goes out to you and your family.

I know my comment doesn't mean anything. But please stay strong. At least for her.

+xChaiTeaLatte I let out a little squeal haha

same. it was bad lol

I SMILED THE HELL OUT OF LIFE AND BEGAN DANCING AGGRESIVELY

I was not even warned about this... you can imagine how loud was my screaaam

+xChaiTeaLatte It was a warm inner smile, for me... felt like I finally meet an old friend again. lol, this probably sounds cheesy :s oh well. I _felt_ it.

haha. Dont give it to me! *passes to the next person

+Amanda Mckenzie haha what

Thanks John Smith. I will.

lmfao

WHAT THE HELL

@@mariajuliaferreiragarros8692 I mean it’s there own music video.. so yeah lol

@@afecx8249 yeaahhh i see it... I love how many references daughter puts in their videos

You're neither wrong nor right. Music (and poems) have always been meant to be interpreted by the listener/reader. Some musicians understand this and refuse to tell their fans what each song was inspired by, what it means to them personally. Everyone always listens to a song and then wants someone to tell them what it means, what it's about. I just like to listen and feel the music, and come to my own conclusion. I do like to hear other's thoughts on it, which is why I read and commented on yours.

And the new one too!! The director of "Doing the Right Thing" and "Numbers" deserves an award... Absolutely amazing, breath-taking, genius, and beautiful videos (and I can't wait for the third!!)

Firas Hasan get a dog.

Me too oml

so am i :(

😣

”I can’t think of getting old it only makes me want to die “ Paramore describe it perfectly

Tasneem mg The pessimistic ideology is. "Each day I live, I get closer to tragedy, and ultimately, death." The optimistic ideology is, "Each day I live, I get more and more opportunities to conquer anything I want to." Im afraid too, but thats not how to think. And too all of those who are going through family members with alzheimers, Im so so sorry. I send you my condolences.

+animecraycray When?

Frname @2:48 you see are the kids from the wild youth album all grown up, i know this from the face paint

animecraycray Isn't Elena supposed to be one of the kids on the album cover? Always thought it was a photo from her childhood

Frname oh wow, im not sure about that

+Frname actually is a photo of her from her childhood.

*literally oops

Спасибо, только хотела зайти туда, а тут! Спасибо!!

You god