My mom didn't understand and blamed me. Said I was an attention seeker. She already takes my every word with a grain of salt

I told my Mom and she blamed me for everything, they were several family members who did those things and much more. All my extended family blamed my baby body for what they did starting at when I was 4 years old simply because I was born female. I don't trust my family anymore nor will I ever again.

30 year old women crying watching this. I wish I had spoken up

"you were only nine or ten years old you didn't know what was happening" i needed to hear that

a mom we all deserve

My mom just said "but they said you wouldn't be able to remember!!" then covered her mouth and said "I mean- you probably just imagined it". Yeah, I don't talk to her anymore.

i appreciate how she didn’t force her to report it against her will

"you were only 9 or 10 years old, you didn't understand what was happening" I wish someone had said that to me when it happened..

wish my mom had that same response when I told her my story

i wish i had a mom like that for my situation of what happened

I wish her mom’s kindness, understanding and not blaming her daughter were more common responses.. I rarely cry watching something, but this was heartbreaking when everyone was laughing no one noticed her silence that says so much.. I love your animation and your drawing style!! Love 🖤

I love how this pops up Like 20 minutes after I just had a melt down thinking about it

I wish my mom reacted this way with love and understanding. Her response was to just ignore me and never talk to me again.

My mom lied and said that’s not what happened, even though I was the one who experienced it. And she said it wasn’t that bad. I wish I had a mom who stood by my side like this.

I had a brother named jayson, and one day he came in the living room and it all went wrong. And that was the day i never forgave him nor talk to him...

I remember when I was 12, we were having a VBS thing at our church. I was my first VBS in GA so I was excited. There was a boy there. He’d always stare at me. I didn’t really care at the time, considering that he just might be really observant. He then started to get… touchy. He’d always grab my arm and touch my sides. It made me uncomfortable, but I was afraid. I was afraid of being stern with him. I was afraid that I was actually in the wrong. He’d grope my chest and my body in ways that make me want to vomit my organs out and cry. When I told my parents, I’m so grateful that they understood. But when they asked me why I didn’t tell them, I didn’t respond. I remember when my dad asked me, “Did you not tell us because you were afraid?” I just broke down, sobbing and I nodded my head. As a toddler, I was always crying and complaining about random crap, my parents would tell me that I would be fine and to stop being dramatic. Of course, yea, I was a big dramatic person, but I think all those times left an effect on me. I was afraid that if I’d told my parents, they’d reject me and blame it on me. The days I was in VBS, I usually wore a big T-Shirt and biker/workout shorts, nothing special. I sometimes thought that it was my fault, that maybe it was my fault that somehow, too much of my legs showed or something. I’m glad that my parents took action and protected me.❤

I love how she has such a close bond with her mom and that she was able to speak up ;)

This vid deserves to get viral, this kind of topics need to take more than serious...

My mother told me it was my fault. I want a mother like the one in the video.

My mom never had that courage to speak out, she just ignored all the things like they never happened to me,, yes those things still haunts me..

This made me tear up. I went through the same thing a decade ago and man, I never felt so related. It’s sad that I connect so closely to this but it’s true. Problem is, I don’t know if I should say anything about it. I’m scared to be known as *that* person.

she's so lucky to have someone to have her back like that, my mom was a complete disappointment shoving my confess under the rug after it took me so much courage and time to say it

when i told my mom she cried with me and told me it wasn't my fault. my dad went ballistic

Thanks.. Thank you so much... I love this, even if it’s a long time ago, I felt so stupid. I still remember those years, I feel like crying so much now.... When I told my friends, They thought it was a joke, when I told my Family members they Shouted and scolded me, when I told my parents, They shouted at me and told me to stop lying. And it continued.. I didn’t know what to do.. I listened what he said, I want to cry so much, I’m happy that I saw this.. And lucky he’s gone now, I don’t want to talk about it, but Thank you so much! ❤❤

I wish I had a mom like that my mom doesn't believe me

I Was Sexually Abused At Age Ten. When I Tell My Parents That I Still Think About It They Tell Me "It Was Years Ago" Im Like "Does That Matter?"

It’s hard sometimes to see representation, and this helps a lot thank you, even if it’s s story I’m glad they got to report him, I wish I got report all the people who did that to me and ofc I’m getting the helped needed even thought I need a new therapist

My heart goes out to everyone in the comments sharing their stories, and to the people who have stories to tell but haven’t shared them in the comments. To everyone reading this, you’re loved and you’re loveable no matter what you may think. You got this, and you’re strong enough to get through every challenge in your way. You got this

I sadly relate to this. It happened this year. Thankfully i knew what had happened to me wasn't right because i have a supportive mom.

i was also scared to tell my mom mostly because i didnt want it to be a big deal and i didnt want to run into him after people told him what happened but even after i told her i had to talk to all these people and it really stressed me out a lot and sometimes i kinda wish i never told my mom but if i didnt tell her then i would have to keep seeing him so i was kinda stressed about that as well but im also kinda glad i told my mom.

this would've helped me as a kid. i'm glad its out there

If I told my mom I would probably be disowned It wasn't a big of a deal.. he just made me uncomfortable He would often touch me in the most despicable ways I still feel his hands on me until this day :(

I told my grandma she yelled at him but just let it go I used to play with him and I used to love him but after that it wasn't the same every chance I had I hid from him but to this day he still lives with us

Your content is always so great, but this video in particular is just so relatable. Keep it up!

Wish I had someone by my side to tell me, It matters, even if it happened long ago. Wish I could tell my mom.

I told my parents and they told me if i wanted attention i could just ask (it wasn’t fake it was real it happened for 4 years by my own brother and they made me apologize to him. ME, TO HIM. I’m way too scared to tell anyone else in fear of the same thing happening again.)

And she reported but they dropped the case immediately :’)

I'm jealous of the sweets they are consuming. Damn it.

I like how there was a plus size girl, a skinny girl, and a more average weight girl. Nice diversity:)

I wish we can stop this from completely happening!

Yeah, this thing happened to me like 3 times…I told my mom, my dad and my sis that is a psychologist…but it didn’t work…I really have nightmares about it! I just hate that I am cute and I seem to be innocent! That caused my xenophobia!

I was 18 when mine happened. It was a party and i got followed. I get told its my fault for putting myseld in that situation. Told i need to let go and forgive for myself

This video made me realise i was sexually abused by my father… i hate myself so much because i can’t hate him. I try so hard but i cant.

I never went to mom, she died before I could talk to her and receive love and understanding from her. ❤ Your loved ones will support you not shame you. Go to them ❤

I wish my mom did that when I told her, I came to her crying and shaking and she laughed at me and told me to stop crying that’s not a big deal and that I’m childish, all I wanted from her was to hug me and tell me that I’m brave for talking and that my feelings are important and that I’m safe now. Now I think I’m ready to be there for my little sister and protect her from him or from anyone who would make her feel uncomfortable like the mom in this video

It’s a great idea to report him. She probably wasn’t the first he did this to, or the last.

I haven’t even open up to my mother about my assault. I only ever told her about my harassment.

I cant even confront my mom cuz I'm scared of being blamed

I was sexually assaulted by a ex friend of mine and when I told my mom about it she put her foot down and told me to block her on everything and make sure I was safe again

This is such a wholesome way to raise awareness on this topic❤

Growing up. Losing my innocence to my cousin when i was 5 while she was around 16 feeling like my body is not mine feeling insecure wanting to rip off my face because i look alike her Losing so much weight cutting my hair so short so that i cant see her in the mirror anymore. I am 15 now and i am still not okay.

Not sure why this popped up in my feed, but nice to see there are such resources for people who need it?

Well, at least mom is supportive. 😢

I was assaulted for the first time at about 9 years old. I was told that I let it happen. When i was drugged and assaulted in college, my now husband tells me that its my fault for putting myself in that situation.

I wish my mom was like this about it. 😕 I still think about it all the time, I was 11, Idk if this is normal but I think about hurting him.

I wish I was that one girl with the long legs like she never missed leg day

What do you do when it happens multiple times or from a family member?

I am crying so hard right now, I am living my through that little cartoon girl. I told my mom and she didn’t believe me. I told her so many times by so many people, and she never believed me…

I’m to scared to open up to my mom about it. I was only 7 and he was 5 so I don’t think that people would believe me. :(

i remember when i was touched when i was little and now looking at it i just realized that it was serious, sucks to suck that i still havent told anybody

I wish I had a mom like that

I told my mom I suspect my uncle did something to me when I was 4, and all she said was “well I pray he didn’t”.

I wish I could report that person too

This is the kind of mom we all need caring and supportive ❤️ 💕 💗

Even though parents love us unconditionally, they often fail to notice the turmoil going on inside their wards..

This is exactly what I needed to hear/see. Thank you so much

I just remembered something that happened to me. I had a meltdown and now I'm trying to prosses and calm down

Im struggling with this, I never told anyone, and years later my abuser burglarized a house and raped an underage minor, its terrible now hes a registered sex offender.

Only if my mom was like that

This was beautiful gave me chills

I wish my mom was with me when it happened 🙁 But I'm really afraid to tell her.

An experience not that similar to this happened to me about 3 or 4 weeks ago (im 10) I was just sitting class doing whatever and my classmate next to me started to clap his hand behind my butt but i didnt think tooo much of it and when i turned around to see himdoing is acted like he did nothng then, later in the day i was siting in my seat during dismissal and he slowly started to touch my butt (he is 11 or 10) when he made a small touch to my butt i thought it was an accident until his full hand touched my right cheek and i gave him a threat saying that if he touched me like that again i would beat him up, one time (i think on the same day idk) he used his hand to move my head in an inappropriate motion he even stared at my butt and said "Gyatt". The worst part is that i have to sit next to him in class i never feel comfortable standing in front of him in line and i hate him (i never told anyone about this and im too scared)

I told my mom I was hurt and needed support but I wasn't ready to elaborate on it. She kept nagging until I finally gave her the details. When I did, she asked why I didn't just say no and that I should've just put my foot down (he threatened suicide on the regular). In the end she was more upset that I had lied and made excuses over the fact that I was sexually abused. I don't feel safe to tell her anything anymore

This is brilliant.

Respect to the mom

I still haven't told anyone .

My family excused it as a schizophrenic episode but my episodes aren't like that. Mine are like not seeing cars on a busy road or not seeing students in a busy class room. All my senses are able to detect something that is there but my eyes kinda edits it put like editing a photo

GIVE ME A MOM LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW.

something that I hate is that family doesn't even talk about it and it makes me feel like all that trauma just came out of nowhere, is it so bad that I want to talk about it

Whatever happened happened and I can't change it obviously .. but idk how to cope with it coz the man who did this to me lives with me.. I don't go out .. I just don't do anything.. I cry and get over it and cry some other day..I only wish my mother would take my side and somehow she'll know I'm right and it's not my fault .. but she refuses and maybe that's simpler for her to believe the otherwise because it'll break her if she accepts the truth... but I wait for the day she'll undertand

When I told my mom, she freaked out that it freaked me out, so I lied

I'm 26 and was raped at 7 and at 23 in the army. I looked this up mid breakdown. I wish I could just get over it but I can't.

He was 4 years older than me when it happened.

I really want to be my attorney and send the scumbag away for abusing my daughter because one hope united doesn't care 📜👈😑 they don't care

My mom told me it was my fault and I should never have left the group home. It was abusive.

Okk I just started the video and the song in the beginning transported me😩 Great content than the name of that song will be welcome 😊😁🎉

I'm thankful that my mom response was nice after what I told her what happened

aww this made me feel better

I love u videos so much u made me so comfortable

I NOT telling my mum yet 😢

Wish all moms are like this

I never told my family

This happen to me when I was like maybe 7-8 years old and the guy was like 10-11 and he was doing unappropriate things to me and i’m still haunted by this day and I wish I had told his parents or my parents to do something about it but I just keep it a secret😞

To hear the fake mom say even if it was a long time ago it matters broke me

I love this video ❤❤❤😊

I didn't even tell my mom. Because she always told me I was an attention seeker and that I always try to attract men. And I knew she'd think that it was my fault, that he only did it because of my behaviour. I wish that there are a lot of mothers out there who are more like the one in the video.

My mom told me to let him do it, so he wouldn't get mad

My mom would question me first before anything else tbh

I do not know what to da I am just bored of my life now I want to give up from life there is no one who protect me

all mine said was they know me and i prob provocated... sometimes its making me sad even i know i cant talk with them in general after trying.. so i shut up and idk why they dont seem to like me that much no mattet what...