​My Dear viewer, I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.' Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids. And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN This my plea to you my faithful follower. Yours Monica

A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.

My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏

She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above GOD will bless you my sister

This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories

Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia

First wife is always blessed as the founder of home

What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.

Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl

, I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃‍♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get. , instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant. Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul. After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.

"if you've never sinned stone this lady" Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.

To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN

May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.

First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round

This is an eye opener for me... Needed to hear this

Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen

This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .

This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears

Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria

I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut? I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her... it never did until the man got sick. Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.

The first wife must be very prayerful.She is a wise woman hakuna mahali alitusiana or fought a physical fight .He fought on her knees and she has won

Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.

Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview

She's very eloquent n understands the meaning of real confession, repentance and forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?

Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.

she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son

I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..

She deserves forgiveness,how I wish my stepmother see this,she been hell on earth putting a barrier between us and our dad

The tears I cried in 2019 and the tears my son cried in 2020 are about to be answered...God of vengeance hurry for us please 🙏🙏

I like the way Monica ask questions, very effective and efficient. Monica,you are full of wisdom, may God help you always.

She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....

Wow that heart is genuine and the request for forgiveness is deeply true.. my classmate Vicky God has heard your request. you're forgiven🙏

Great job Monica as usual, it’s wonderful to see someone taking full accountability, may God hear your repentant heart & heal your spirit,my hope is that in our country or rather African culture we are going to start distributing the shame evenly, it all started with this man who knew very well he was married when he began chasing after her

These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.

Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers

Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭

Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!

Thanks you for being brave and sharing your story and accepting your mistakes.

A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird

The man was wrong not the woman, he could have respected his marriage and be the mature person blaming women is not fair

A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice

She is such a strong woman, and accepting her mistakes! May the goat wife find in her heart to forgive you💖💕. May God heal your babies, nothing is impossible with Him🙏🙌

I'm not judging,but I will say this,when you're consciously sinning,accept punishment yako kama umefurahi😐.God forgives but Jehova renders justice properly 🤷

One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond

another woman did the same to me and even went to a point ya kuniambia...."usifikirie huku utarudi tafuta mbaba akuoe"those words burnt my heart so much ..i cried to God na for sure he answered me Ngai gutiri thoome atoooe ..This woman deserves forgiveness...lakini mimi huyu wangu i will never forgive her ever ..and she will continue to suffer forever

Who are we to judge this lady?! I love this lady. She's very genuine and God fearing and that's enough for me.

I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression. Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them. Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick. I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single. Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.

Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife

So emotional,I should urge the first wife to forgive this woman and others should learn from her

This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!

Victoria 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You are a brave woman May God bless you and your children Don't worry God does not look for the perfect ones,He perfects us. Thanks Monica for the interview.

Kagoni ni wamaka!! Even me and I believe the real wife has cried earnestly to God through prayer.Dont joke with prayers.Prayers move mountains and go far.Let it be a lesson to all ladies who are in the same trap.She is bold and very strong to speak out.May the real wife accept her apology.We have all sinned and have fallen short of God's glory.For the sake of not missing heaven because of bitterness and unforgiveness its better to forgive.Shalom.

Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me

You have done the right thing and your courage is in another level, forgiving yourself is the most important thing even God has forgiven you

God has no problem forgiving, but we live with the consequences of our actions. This man never accepted you as his wife; he introduced you to his family as Victoria, not as his wife.

Wonderful realizing and repenting may GOD hear your prayers

Realizing mistakes makes us human

Victoria is a class act. Full of wisdom, humbleness and above all, ability to self correct. She loves God and his creation. She is not just seeking God’s mercy, she cries for the healing of his creation-the hurt first wife. You can’t find a better human being than Victoria. Victory unto her.

Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance

Ooooh what a testimony Victoria God will bless and place you in space

Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you. Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you. We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you. All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️

I know the first wife(real wife) a beautiful woman of God, a loving mother and grandmother. She's my friend in Church. So prayerful and dedicated. I never knew what she's been through until recently. Oh my GOD. I CAN ATTEST TO HER GOD. INDEED GOD FIGHTS FOR HIS OWN. there's so much I can write here but lemmy just pause for now.

Wow this is one lady in a million

Waaaaaaah this story made me flow in tears because it's reminds me of my elder sister marriage which was so good until other woman came across , my siz went through hell the woman abused my sister so much but when God is on your side always you remain a Víctor today my siz doing well n her kids too ....but it took her a lot.

Thank you for sharing your story. This is a huge lesson to we young ladies who are about to make such irrational relationship decisions.

As Woman I will forgive her, her intention was not to break the family . The lord has forgiven her even before the co-wife forgive her. She is such a honest woman. Any child can be sick don’t believe in negatives , God will see you through. No one in this world hasn’t done mistake.🙏🏽🙏🏽

Talk to Pastor Kepha ..kuna Soul ties here..are your husband's parents alive?maybe they said something after you named your children after them! The pain and prayers of the first wife has reached God...please 1st wife forgive her. God forgives us who are you not to do the same!!

She is so bold and deserve forgiveness and a second chance

Those men who cheats on their wife may God punish them too, and to the side chicks don't be so happy when another woman is crying herself to sleep those tears are not in vain, I have gone through it I know what it means to survive it,

Beautiful soul, heart after God, broken spirit in our days there is this kind of girls we thank God Victoria thank you for brave act, May Almighty God bless you

I just love the ending, kagoni umemalizia vizuri saana,kudos

Love it that Monica gives people right of reply

For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.

She is a woman with a sweet spirit. May the Lord bless her children. No one is to blame, the man could have been looking for peace and comfort though in a wrong way. May God forgive them both.

Courageous and religiously principled, wish yu luck in all your future endeavors.

I just love this woman..atleast shès open her burweins and eyes na akajua alikosea kuharibu boma ya mwanamke mwingine...forgiven she is since ame accept her mistake and trust me u God will bless her & her kids...this gives me hope that the woman whom also ruined my marriage of 13yrs will soon apologise also though siwezi rudiana na huyo mtu but if she comes for apology am gonna forgive her

Since you've asked for forgiveness, God will forgive you

Victoria God will heal your heart. Thankyou for being soo courageous and inspiring young ladies to live right.

I pray that God may grant you peace, peace to the 1st wife and heal your children. You are a strong woman it's not easy to share such a story.

Thanks for being brave enough to come out

I don't know why Victoria is apologising she was married as second wife ...feel free mamaa kids being sick it's normal mahe dawa nimekuhona

I like ur courage Victoria, I hope and pray that woman will find a place in her heart and forgive you..

The power of a prayerful first wife💪💪💪💪💪It doesn't matter how long but wn it's God's time to revive your 'eaten' years,He makes a turn-up.Shed tears too for your guilt.Karma

I hope the one occupying the house we built with my husband sees this!

This is a lesson to all women and men doing the same "What goes around comes around"

Vicky God bless you !!!! You and your children are in my prayers!!!!

As a child underwent through much because of similar issues. But i thank God for He has remembered us in great way. His glory is upon us. Mam underwent through much pain and till today they still wonna humiliate her. But our love and support to her can't give them the chances.

This is the work of God; conviction. God is not a man. He will forgive you.🙏🙏 May his name be praised forever

Wow..she is a woman if courage. She has owned up her mistakes and God has forgiven you Victoria. Mimi nlitoka kwangu nikakuja dubai kufanya kazi ya housemaid nikaacha myoto wa 7mnths na wakati nlimaliza 3mths huku the other woman sent me a message mocking me to a point of telling me that i will go home in a coffin. So Victoria you have a golden heart.

Metha ya kagoni I agree with you.. May the healing power of God reach Victoria's children in jesus Big name. AMEN AMEN AMEN

Oooh you are a genuine woman talking the truth be blessed

Men (someone's husband is a no go zone) Ati this is my wife and this is so so (her name without any title hehe)

Monicah tuletee first wife pls.

The best show ever. Thank you Monicah.

Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made. May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them. God will use you heal many families. I salute you 👏

The only reason why she is remorseful is because things didn't work out and the guy changed. The guy stopped pretending and showed her who he really was. If things worked out smoothly we would not have known about her.

Athuri makamaguo mbeca ciathira agatiguo acoke kwa mutumia wake Atari kindu kana ee muruaru

Aki wanaume!!!! Ati alifanya introduction ___ huyu ni mke wangu na my daughter, and this is Victoria 🤔 who is Victoria to him? Much as we blame her, the man was also wrong

Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife. The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.