Dear Helpline: My adult child just disclosed they were sexually abused

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Stop It Now

Stop It Now

3 жыл бұрын

Recording of live webinar on January 13, 2021.
Description: No one is ever prepared to hear their adult child tell them that they were sexually abused. Support is limited for non-offending partners and caregivers, and there is even less understanding of the experience of an adult, who finds out that their child was abused but they never knew about it and only now as an adult, has their child disclosed the sexual abuse they experienced. In addition to a wide range of emotional reactions, there also questions from a broad scope of need - from “Do I press charges now?” to “How could I not have known”. With the help of our guest expert, Mel Langston, PhD, LPC, founder of MOSAC, Mothers of Sexually Abused Children, we discuss both this experience and what we can do as caring bystanders and professionals to address healing and recovery.
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Users ages 14-21 with concerns can contact WhatsOK (whatsok.org). WhatsOK is a website and helpline that offers free, confidential support and resources to youth and young adults with concerns about safe and healthy sexual thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
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@SurvivorRevive
@SurvivorRevive 2 жыл бұрын
I came forward when I was 27 (I'm now 41). My mother has been a god awful p.o.s. about it. Not only did she not believe me, she went on to spread lies about me for speaking out. I even went to great lengths to obtain evidence including an audio confession from him. Also notable, she hasn't been with him since 1982. He also had a drug addiction, tried to kill her, cheated on her and left her and my sister in 40k worth of debt to "go find himself." If you are reading this and you are leaning towards not believing your child, know that you never deserved that child in the first place and you are causing an enormous amount of further damage on top of the trauma they are already experiencing. What kind of parent chooses not to believe their child then plays the victim? It's just so sickening.
@divaelizares7910
@divaelizares7910 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I really needed to hear this. Prayers for all our precious children.
@stopitnowus
@stopitnowus 11 ай бұрын
You're welcome! We are so happy this resource was useful to you.
@graciefernandez6336
@graciefernandez6336 4 ай бұрын
I need help on how to help my 30 yr old son to open up on this subject. he mentioned he remembers something about being abused, it's affecting him so much. I like to learn how to start the conversation so he can feel comfortable opening up.
@stopitnowus
@stopitnowus 2 ай бұрын
We're so sorry to hear that this is happening, and apologize for the delay in responding. Please feel free to reach out to our Helpline (www.stopitnow.org/get-immediate-help) directly for more information and guidance. Take care, Helpline Staff
@raquelgonzalez4044
@raquelgonzalez4044 2 жыл бұрын
Where do I find the chat room for this site?
@stopitnowus
@stopitnowus 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Raquel. Thanks for watching! Our chat support matches you 1-to-1 with an expert counselor. We also offer phone and email support. View full contact details here: www.stopitnow.org/get-immediate-help
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