The fact that a man can't be authentic with a woman without her loosing attraction is just sad.

When a man learns to love he must also bear the risk of having hatred - Madara Uchiha

Listen to this man, I have made this mistake so many times because each time I believed she was different. Forget all that romantic nonsense and focus on your mission in life. If she wants to leave, let her go and improve without her.

The man himself, glad to see your face again. It has been a while.

Looks like he put on some muscle . This man saved me from depression and taught me how to deal with women. Much respevt

Don't tell her you love her, show her you love her. Actions speak louder than words.

Five years of Chris-ONE common Theme = STOP BEING NEEDY!!!

Even if she says I love you, it means nothing, its just a fleeting feeling.

When a woman says to you "i love you", you must reply back "i know".

The more I realize that everything you said is actually right the more I hate the idea of dating.

A woman testing is a staring contest. Never blink. Actually punish her by going off grid. Make her not take you for granted.

Easiest way to get rid of any woman is to tell her that you love her. I knew that secret long time ago. If you no longer want her just tell her that you love her and she's gone without any fight. It works for me all the time.

Men have to be mysterious and be more of a challenge to women or else they will never be able to increase her attraction for them.

Not all girls are the same! I've sent her good morning and good night messages since the beginning, and she sends them back, she even sends first good mornings if she gets up earlier. We've been dating for close to 6 months now. I first said, "I love you" to her on Christmas eve, and she said it back and that she's been thinking it a while, but didn't want to be the first one to say it. We zoom chat most nights for about an hour or more before bed, and we always say, "Love you!" before the end of the calls. Her attraction has grown for me more since saying, "I love you". She is a little emotionally needy, and went through some trauma a bit over a year ago. She is super sweet, kind, and cute. Besides emotional needs, she is very low maintenance. As an empathetic person, I thrive off of encouraging her and making her feel loved. And she thrives on the love I provide. Things started off really slow. She liked me for my character and kindness, and now she's even more attached with the emotional connection. We've had issues, and we've talked through them. I always encourage her to speak her mind about her needs, and hold back no concerns from me. Her needs revolve around being loved and appreciated, and she shows love and appreciation in return. If she gets even a feeling that I'm unhappy, she tries to comfort me and make things better. I truly believe we are meant for each other. She was my first kiss, my first cuddle, is my first girlfriend, and the first I said, "I love you" to. First and only. We even talk about the future and marriage. So in conclusion: Don't believe everything people say about relationships on the internet. Every girl is unique, and there's one out there perfect for you.

This guy is a genuine guru! If more people would really listen to him, they would save themselves heaps and heaps of heartache/rejection with women!

If a woman doesn't say "I love you" after 6 months or a year, she doesn't love you.

Yea those messages get you no where. Don't believe women that say they like that stuff

Wtf, i can't even say good night to girls without turning them off ? Wtf is wrong with these creatures ?

those type of texts just signal "needy behaviour"

I don't mind the animation but I love it when you are there spitting out advices. Makes it more believable.

The main man himself, loving these direct videos, keep em coming!

The thing to remember to stand back and look this relationship over. Ask yourself is she really worth all the baggage that she is bringing?

All that is needed is, am I really vulnerable to just actually care about your unique existence without needing anything in return. Doing something doesn't mean you care or love, cause doing isn't an emotion.

You are saving thousands of relationships man! More power to you.

2:27, His silence and reaction said it all 😂 2:28, he wanted to say "simp" so badly! Lmao!

I can't find the words to say thank you! My new girlfriend is testing me all the time. She is a true challenge to me. I feel so comfortable with all these tests, because i can handle them, having read until now some parts of your book and by watching your videos! She has already praised me, all of a sudden for my reaction, when other men staring to admire her beauty, while we are together.. Greetings from Greece! Keep up the good work mate! 👌👌

I've done this twice; telling the girl I loved them first and this was what happened. It was clear as day the attraction began to disappear after telling the woman I loved them first. I made a vow never to be the first to do it again.

502 likes, 0 dislikes... clearly I am not the only one who found this eminently relatable.

Yeah women also say i love more when they are cheating.

my ex didn't respond to me for 4 days so i dumped her and im glad , any women that would ignore my textes and i barely bother you , yeah its time to move on .

I absolutely made this mistake a couple times before I learned this. Tell her you love her and a girl who’s crazy about me is GONE!

I can tell women obsess over this guy he totally gets it.

Hey Guys!!! Happy New year! 🎊 Let me just say, not every women is the same. My current girlfriend was raised by a crazy mom, never hugged her, never told her she loved her. And when I made the mistake of telling her I loved her first.. she much later told me that When men say they love the women fast, she believes guys who love fast, leave fast. So she was hesitant to take me seriously. But once she saw me stay around and start taking care of things. She started to believe “well maybe he does love me & isn’t gonna leave me” So a year later, we have moved into our own place. Moved out of the house she was living in. And now, she texts me she loves me or feels loved & sometimes she’ll say it when she feels it. I did stop from saying it because I noticed that with her, she isn’t use to being told she is loved. So she doesn’t know how to react. So instead, I show her love with my actions like doing stuff for her, so she knows I am paying attention to her needs & showing her I am her support. She is no longer alone. Hope this helps for some!

This is exactly what I'm going through.. I've watch some of your videos and I believe you. Thank you for existing.

This twisted reality makes me to even hate the idea of dating

ANYTHING a woman says ... you should mentally prefix with "I think" and postfix with "... right now" Thus "I love you" should be heard as .. "I think I love you right now"

I am definitely here for this 2021 upload frequency!

The best in the business, bought your book, its excellent. I dont even need to read or watch other videos after that. Thank You

I’ve listened to the Atomic Attraction book. That book is tough. It will twist any man’s mind and kill off any beta male trait that they possess. Now I feel like my success rate with women has risen beyond 110% after listening to this book.

I am watching your videos from past one and half year and bought your book and now i never get panic when a girls pulls away or test me.

Texting has ruined relationships . Especially when you HAVE to rely on emojis to say what you feel. When your girl can’t be bothered to tell you she loves you and just sends a few hearts or something else. Sad that we can’t just be ourselves, tell the woman we love them without them running a mile

I tell her I love her, we are humans we express ourselves, if she loses interest then I will be happy to see her leave because she is not worth love to her. This is blue pill overdosed by redpill

Get his book! It is amazing 5/5💥

Two years following your valuable content. It's such a pleasure watching your channel grow Chris! Best of luck bro ✌️

Chris is the most underrated guy on KZfaq! LISTEN to him gentlemen! Guy is a beast

you are back, coach please stay safe there

Really like the style of these videos you are releasing now. Good work.

Your videos helped me a lot to understand myself and the breakup I had 5 years ago. Thank you

Space creates attraction. Only text to set up dates. Let her wonder about you.

Whenever my girl says, "I love you", i reply with, "Oh i know that 😏" Very rarely do i say, "I love you too"

Hey Chris, I wanna say that I bought your book and it has worked wonders. Not only for my love life but also for my day to day confidence. Thank you. Love from India.

This man solved all the puzzle and made it understandable 😇 Thank you bro

This guy is the best. He is massively and unjustly underrated. He should have 400,000 followers at least.

I'm a huge fan of you sir...i really improved watching you...love you sir.. RESPECT 💌

I have been thinking this lately thank you for this ❤️

The way he said JUST LET HER GO .. (06:15) respect for you 💯

Always have options. It's a win win; she'll either become jealous and secure her relationship with you, or if she truly isn't interested or is acting wishy washy... you'll have the option of dating someone else.

Makes you kinda question the entire idea of being in a relationship, don't it? Society focuses way too much on being with or having someone. Also, I mean they (women) push you to express yourself and then you end up questioning why you did that in the first place. 😆

I think something that will help men is this, “a woman will never love you, she only loves what you can do for her” The gaster men accept this, the easier will be to deal with women.

And if a woman is distant, then that's what she needs and if you don't like it, either talk to her or move on. Any person can become distant if they are unsure. If you told her you love her in 1 month she might be scared/unsure who cares. She is not ready to say it back but if she didn't run away, then she's still interested. And if she runs away, she's not for you or you didn't DO enough. It never matters what you say even though women like compliments. Men, remember, it matters what you DO! And if someone doesn't appreciate what you do, you don't need that person. Just walk away!

Man love this type of video!!!! Great to see u after a long time

I just wanna hear you man even if shit ain’t gonna happen thank you for Always making me feel hope.

Good to see you mate we need you more than ever things are just getting worse

I love ur book. It develops not only my dating life and also my daily living. Thank you men. You are the life saver of a man in this feminine era of our society. 👏

Man, this new setup is awesome. It's so fresh to see you like this. Loving it.

Don’t ever forget that you matter too and if anything, you matter much more

No matter how much I’ve progressed in life and with women , and I’ve always been pretty good with women in terms of getting dates , casual affairs , attention etc, I can’t help but look back and cringe when I see videos like this . Reminding me how when I had a few girls I ended up really liking in the palm of my hands when giving her next to nothing , then when I told them this , my feelings so to speak , everything went to shit. The confused feelings then ultimate discard . I can say I’ve learnt my lesson but I just wish I hadn’t fucked up by revealing what was my power before they had . Even with my successes now with girls I admittedly still get a bit triggered thinking back what could have been. I’ve got over the girls but it’s so hard to get over your weak moments you had with that person. Giving up your power to a girl and her walking off with it stings . Really wish I had that control and advice back then! Guys now have it in abundance with videos like this from this guy .

I watched Chris' videos back to back for a week now I think. It put me into a whole different attitude towards women and its unshakeable. I like it! I will do everything in my power to maintain it!

Man new videos are awesome❤️❤️❤️

This guy is a king.

you could be a good looking man very intelligent and lovely personality but if your needy you will get rejected

Not long algo I read his book, and I consider Canwell the father of modern attraction. The book includes so many details and advices that you can apply on a daily basis, regardless where you are.

Hey Cris.. I love what you are doing and your work.. You change my life.. Thanks for your effort.. Keep doing your work.. 😊

Sir i hope you are in good health ! thanks for the motivation you have developed all this while for us ! *salute*

Chris i love u man To be honest thanks so far for the great content your talks are so specific and in depth and we rarley find some one who provides a content like yours big fan of you man❤❤

It's great to see your face. The animations are awesome too. Give both every now and again if you can

My girl already told me I love you and I still rarely say it back lol. And good morning texts? Forget about it

He changed his way to teaching

Chris Canwell is spot on as usual 👌

Chris embodied the message of this video when his phone rang, he picked it, then put it down again without looking at it or getting thrown off topic. This is it right there.

if you do it sometimes, especially way less often than her, she will appreciate it. but it depends on the girl. Some women will leave if they feel you're a cold fish

My mans still going. Nice.

You really helped me out, a great mentor indeed. Thanks!

Thank you so much. I wish I could learn from you during my first love, maybe I would not loose her.

I made the mistake of saying "I love you" to my ex-girlfriend first, she immediately started to behave like a bitch and after 15 days she cheated on me. After a month I found out and dump her ass. Lesson learned the hard way, NEVER tell I love you to a woman, not even if you feel it .

I like this channel you have a scientific approach in how to speak to women. This advice also applies to making friends, particularly friends who are popular themselves.

I think it’s perfectly fine for the guy to say I love you first. However the problem is IF he says it prematurely. The reason is if she doesn’t feel like he knows her well enough and has invested enough time with her or the relationship. But saying I love you first isn’t the issue, he should know without a doubt if she feels the same before he says it.

Used to send her those morning and evening messages for some time and one day I forgot. She called me in the morning almost crying- Why didn't you text me as usual? What's happening? Man if only I knew that was a sign of her being much more into me...

Yeah, don't tell her that you love her even after having strong feelings, even after spending months or years with her. Let me tell you, she's gonna find someone who will share their emotions fearlessly and pursue her because she'll think that they're more authentic because they've shared their feelings openly and they know how they feel. And you just sit there being a nerd.

His gf messaged him “good morning” at 4:40 and he was like “nope”

I watched this video and Now I know how I lost her and other girls in my past …. Its 110% true what you say

Started uploading videos right at the perfect time for my life again.. thanks a lot man

I read the audio version of your book but couldn't find a hard copy . Your book is the best when it comes to attractions & relationship . I also read red pill book but I found your book to be really helpful in order to make meaningful connection

Very elucidative and refreshing. Thanks a lot

Good to see you man... You and your videos have helped me alot :)

You can't be serious! One year, two years? Lol I love my man. He texts me "good morning beautiful" every morning and I love it. Men, just don't move too fast. Slowly conquer women and keep conquering every day until the rest of your life and expect things from women too. Don't be walked all over but it's your job instinctively to conquer the woman. With your actions and compliments! I proved to a number of men that they can conquer any woman they want if they are themselves. I absolutely hated that video. It's not about who says it first, it's about when it's being said. Useless piece of advice without knowing the situation of each couple! Love is a growing feeling. You can't love someone when you know them 2 months or even 1 great without going through thick and thin. You can like someone or be attracted but love... That comes with time.

As a lady watching this i have to laugh, ladies are told the exact same thing.... don't say I love you first, don't chase him.... if he's not texting, don't chase at all, give him space, if he doesn't come back then he was never truly interested in the first place 😅

King is back!

This only applies to women that you had to approach 1st from the start, but if a girl chases you a little bit in the beginning then you already know she loves you and it won't matter if you express lots of attraction to her this way. I mean how can she get bored with you after that, unless you act too needy with her?A perfect example of a pretty girl chasing you is if u are unavailable due to having another girlfriend at the time, thus brushing her off and she has to wait in line til your other girlfriend breaks up with you. If she becomes obsessed with u and tries to sabotage your relationship with your current girlfriend then she breaks up with you anyway for unrelated reasons then this ( homewrecker) inadvertently ends up with you later on then that's even more intense and extreme, thus harder for her to get bored with u.

You make me think giving up being single.