Did You Fall In Love With Who They Pretended To Be?

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LaTonya Cole

LaTonya Cole

11 ай бұрын

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@lavondapayne4957
@lavondapayne4957 4 ай бұрын
Girllllll, she read him like a bible scripture 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
DID!! As she should have.
@amydk274
@amydk274 4 ай бұрын
Amen sister!!!!😂😂
@daddylightsministry106
@daddylightsministry106 4 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@freenchrist2935
@freenchrist2935 4 ай бұрын
She undressed him with the truth! He can't even hide!
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Could not hide! I know he wanted to though.
@skettistraps1108
@skettistraps1108 4 ай бұрын
His face when the judge said she didnt wanna waste her time 😂😂😂 exactly judge! He can play thise other women but he isnt fooling you!
@shanellem6310
@shanellem6310 4 ай бұрын
That's a narc for ya! Her honor hit the nail on the head. When my narc ex-husband showed his true colors and I learned that I wasn't crazy, that I wasn't the problem, I learned about narcissism. I recognized that I had been hoodwinked my a covert narcissist and that my Mother was one. Once I learned what narcissism was, I started my exit plan. All his behaviors & manipulations no longer worked on me. I could see the BS before it came. I can now identify narcs & narc behaviors like a pro. I have taught my kids about narcs calling them wolves in sheep's clothing. There are many narcs out here in the world these days, and I want my kids to be able to identify them & run far away. Life's too short to deal with/accept their BS. Period.
@FreeToLove999
@FreeToLove999 4 ай бұрын
​​@@shanellem6310Congratulations, SiStar! And so glad that you are rearing your children not to dance with narcs. 💙💙💙🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👍🏾🤟🏾😊😇🥰💯💯💯💯💯
@user-ig7qm2uw8j
@user-ig7qm2uw8j 5 ай бұрын
Wow, I felt that. Judge Toler will get us all into changing our thinking.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
Yes, she will!
@vidaholmes
@vidaholmes 4 ай бұрын
Judge hit him with the wide receiver 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@churchsbiscuits
@churchsbiscuits 4 ай бұрын
“He didn’t burn your clothes, he burned your cap gown..” 😢 My ex didn’t want me to go back to school either.
@user-qv6uj7vd6r
@user-qv6uj7vd6r 4 ай бұрын
I could see the look of Shock and Awhhh on his face with his mouth wide open!!!
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Yep! Somebody finally figured him out!
@shaylagoogle3097
@shaylagoogle3097 4 ай бұрын
Beautifully said judge Lynn, looks like she needed a smart woman's perspective and she got it. Learn to see the signs of control and isolation. This is why when my friends or family date it's important to have them around or tell them what's going on so you can get another perspective.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Agreed! Learn the signs and when you see them don’t ignore them.
@deerose6045
@deerose6045 5 ай бұрын
I just found this and I love this Judge.💗
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
She’s full of wisdom. Love her.
@Mel-yv8mw
@Mel-yv8mw 4 ай бұрын
"to learn how to not be pretty" wow.
@daddylightsministry106
@daddylightsministry106 4 ай бұрын
Wow, that's crazy!
@ashleygoodrich3294
@ashleygoodrich3294 4 ай бұрын
Protect this Women💯
@sarahdoanpeace3623
@sarahdoanpeace3623 4 ай бұрын
Yes 🙌 this was my life twice, NEVER again! Thank You God for delivering me from this evil.
@keishasmith379
@keishasmith379 5 ай бұрын
Real talk for real.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@HandsofGlory1
@HandsofGlory1 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Judge Lynn. You just shared what a true covert narcissist is!! My covert ex tried to unalive me twice, sexually assaulted me several times and I felt all of this. I'm narc free and rebuilding my life... Slowly but surely
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@ubad1981
@ubad1981 4 ай бұрын
You are worth it my dear
@HandsofGlory1
@HandsofGlory1 4 ай бұрын
@@ubad1981 thank you
@hawamussa2727
@hawamussa2727 11 ай бұрын
I love this woman ❤
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 11 ай бұрын
She speaks the truth!
@drapertraci7
@drapertraci7 11 ай бұрын
The whole truth ❤❤❤❤❤
@drapertraci7
@drapertraci7 11 ай бұрын
LOVE HER TOO!! ❤
@kaibungarose4207
@kaibungarose4207 4 ай бұрын
What a beautiful girl,to allow intimidation from the bully?
@21punchy
@21punchy 11 ай бұрын
The definition of narcissism
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@MsFox2u
@MsFox2u 4 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@angelakennebrew6565
@angelakennebrew6565 5 ай бұрын
I hope she heard that
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
I definitely pray that she did!!
@tiffanymcintyre8375
@tiffanymcintyre8375 4 ай бұрын
I love her ❤ she tells it like it is 💯💯
@baderinwa1
@baderinwa1 4 ай бұрын
Judge Toler was the smartest judge on tv. I miss her.
@Hokit
@Hokit 4 ай бұрын
Ms Gurl, Ms Toler AND Ms Kween 👑 She ALL that 💅✨💖
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
I love you Judge you has passion
@KHAIRYSHIM
@KHAIRYSHIM 4 ай бұрын
Thats a controlling narcissist do not settle for less.
@joynorwood1951
@joynorwood1951 5 ай бұрын
With all my heart, I love this judge ❤
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
She’s full of wisdom!
@user-um2fy3di1u
@user-um2fy3di1u 3 ай бұрын
I love her,she says ,what's on her mind and is usually right
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 3 ай бұрын
Yes, she does!
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
I do love this woman
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Yes! She’s full of wisdom and straight to the point! No sugarcoating , raw and uncut!
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
I love this woman
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Me too! Full of wisdom.
@cocot9414
@cocot9414 3 ай бұрын
I would love to see Judge Toler on another show of her own. I know she makes appearances on reality relationship shows but she needs her own show.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 3 ай бұрын
I would too! She’s still grieving the loss of her husband. I’m praying for her healing and hope to see her on the screen soon.
@cocot9414
@cocot9414 3 ай бұрын
@@iamcoachlatonya you should check out her 3 books. I've downloaded all of them via audible and man.... they are filled with the advice we come to love and respect her for.
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
The judge is good
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Yes, she is!
@ahumanlewis4793
@ahumanlewis4793 5 ай бұрын
Even the guy realized that is what he's doing and he thought about it for the first time.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@cassfolson5675
@cassfolson5675 4 ай бұрын
Speak the truth…😊
@diamond_gleeglows6513
@diamond_gleeglows6513 3 ай бұрын
That was me 7years…it’s like she read my mind..I looked at him and I said this exactly and I was done
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 3 ай бұрын
Glad you are free! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@user-ue2jh4ng4y
@user-ue2jh4ng4y 4 ай бұрын
He’s a WEAK NARCISSIST 😮😢
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Very much so! And I hope she picked up what the judge was putting down and left him.
@53RP3N75
@53RP3N75 4 ай бұрын
You shouldn't have to continuously ask for money when you're taking care of someone else's kid. You should know kids are expensive, that's common knowledge. And with his whole attitude, I completely understand why she would be snide when she finally got the money - which he's obligated by law to pay her anyway
@tenacious1
@tenacious1 4 ай бұрын
I wish someone would do it where are they now on these people. I would love to see if any of them have grown, matured or remain the same.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
That would be great!
@EverthingHer
@EverthingHer 4 ай бұрын
I said this years ago to a friend, now this is my life .
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
When you say this is your life, explain?
@EverthingHer
@EverthingHer 4 ай бұрын
I was once first giving this advice, but then few years later ignoring the signs I’m in a marriage and it’s an unhappy one right now. I believe I fell for who he pretended to be not for the real person he is. Going against myself now to leave because that’s the problem now days nobody knows how to stay and fight through it with each other. People are so much more quicker to dispose the relationship as if marriage is disposable. I’m not at all perfect but if you could see everything from a spiritual perspective you will see I’ve done very little wrong and too much right.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Got it! Don’t go against yourself too long especially if it is abusive in any form ( mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, and especially physically). If you need assistance in any way, I’m here. 🙏🏾
@EverthingHer
@EverthingHer 4 ай бұрын
Thank you✨… trying to give it a gd fight and time.
@El_Roi75
@El_Roi75 3 ай бұрын
Come on sis 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Crystal-Love
@Crystal-Love 11 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, I sure did!
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 11 ай бұрын
Been there, done that. Not easy to heal from it but it’s possible. Blessings on your journey.
@4kgamer919
@4kgamer919 4 ай бұрын
and that’s how the judge was bait trapped in her life
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Says who? You? If you listen to the judge speak about her husband, this was not her life at all. Everything a person speaks on doesn’t have to be their experience, it could be someone else’s!
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
You give people a good deal
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
A good deal on?
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
He enslaved his you....... 😅
@debbie8016
@debbie8016 3 ай бұрын
She read my ex!
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 3 ай бұрын
A lot of our exes!!
@user-triniti3
@user-triniti3 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Smackwater587
@Smackwater587 5 ай бұрын
❤️
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@worldhealthrn
@worldhealthrn 5 ай бұрын
Did she leave? She does not look convinced she just looks kind of embarrassed... like she's going to go home with him to try and prove everybody wrong
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 5 ай бұрын
Not sure if she left him but it looks like she’s not convinced that he doesn’t love her. She probably stayed and he’s probably still doing what he was doing.
@user-ls9nt5zn6u
@user-ls9nt5zn6u 3 ай бұрын
I don't know this person and I'm not on love with no one but Jesus !
@ronaldcassetana9400
@ronaldcassetana9400 4 ай бұрын
What is the spiritual and the emotional part of the marriage, I understand the physical closeness part.
@sereneamani1713
@sereneamani1713 4 ай бұрын
How do you define the physical closeness (sex)? I deem spiritual and emotional as being connection on a higher level than physical. Knowledge of self and the other person and liking and loving all parts of them. Having a strong desire to be united with that person long-term, being concerned about their desires, having their best interests at heart. Being in tune to their feelings and thoughts. Also having a personal commitment to the person, the marriage, and to our Creator, who created the institution of marriage. For starters.
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 4 ай бұрын
His work s *will show him off
@stellarvgurl
@stellarvgurl 11 ай бұрын
What episode is this
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 11 ай бұрын
Not sure which episode this is.
@roadrunnerbeep5919
@roadrunnerbeep5919 8 ай бұрын
Albino Vs. Ortiz: Missing Manhood
@O8080808O
@O8080808O 4 ай бұрын
What Campus Court is this?
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
Are you asking for the episode?
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, this not who my Uncle is at all. My Uncle is a man of literature, art, science, who can pretend for a while life is not a grueling existence he saw growing up of a hard working man working sheet metal in the factory. My Uncle is a remarkable, talented escape from all that. Try and tell him who else he should be. Why should you not love him for that?
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
I’m confused? Is this your uncle?
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 4 ай бұрын
@@iamcoachlatonya well, I think possibly you and this judge experienced an ass-hole or two. And the men being nothing at all like my Uncle. That's all I was saying. This judge enjoyed the ass-hole experience so much, she may never recover.
@iamcoachlatonya
@iamcoachlatonya 4 ай бұрын
@thetruther954 😂😂😂 oh, you’re that person. Okay, have a great day!
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 4 ай бұрын
@@iamcoachlatonya I am not that person at all. Maybe someday you'll get the picture, but I'm not holding my breath.
@sereneamani1713
@sereneamani1713 4 ай бұрын
@@thetruther954 Why don't you just present the picture and stop game-playing. Be authentic.
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