Sorry to hear this! I'm going through the same thing.

Ruined how

It's not ruined. You are going to get stronger from this. Seek God, God will help. I've been actually winning against my immigrant spouse, she is going to meet despair for the rest of her life for all eternity messing with me.

I feel sorry for you.Many people are still falling for foreign spouses everyday.The plot gets thicker.We will all learn our hard lessons.The cruelty is immense but don't forget to cry and move on.

@@jmonie02 there is no god

Did he get deported ?

@@maggysaintil787 still in the process…

How can you do a class action lawsuit on an individual matter?

@@stevenroshni1228 I’m aware it’s an individual issue. It’s also a nationwide problem that exists affecting many sponsors. That would be the premise for a class action lawsuit. To hopefully change current laws.

Very manipulative.

It happens a lot because system has loophole. Foreign spouse simply use American citizen for their green card benefit pretending they came with good faith but all they want is to entry is USA. why? Because compare to many third world country American income is way to higher. Person who make hardly $200 a month in their country start making $4000 a month in usa for same job is what their motive. The system loophole they use against American citizen is simply call cops against you and lie thay you been abusive without any proof of abuse they will get restraining order on American citizen and boom they got their greencard. It is very unfortunate that American citizen not able to get justice in these types of cases.

@@SpeakingTruth24 we will see on my case. You can still blast them on the hall of shame. You can call these mofos out. Fortunately my green card spouse committed perjury and lied on all official documents. I suggest Americans start putting restraining orders on these scum bags.

@@jmonie02 I wish you all the best and I hope you get justice. Please keep us updated with your case.

Yep i was with a narsestic pathalogical mental, pbysical abuser, trauma bounded 6 years, 🙏🌈🤞next month im hoping to get my devorce final, my friend karma is real and i pray believe me they walk around thinking they get away with this behaviour, but what goes on behind closed doors karma the nuniverse will give them all they deserve any fighters like me will get all good karma 🌈🙏

Because there is nothing else you can do. No lawyers, no help, even its scary to notify because I heard some stories. It's like free pass to scammer and fraud people to scam American citizen once they get here we can't do nothing.

How do you notify authorities.

Only if she sponsored them. Who knows, but since you sponsored her she may have helped get them over…

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

So sorry for you as well! I’ve been there with my ex. I know you feel horrible yet know you’re not alone and it’s not all your fault. Some people take your kind heart and use it against you. So that part is on them. You don’t have to prove anything to USCIS, just tell them is all you can do. I did so and they definitely investigated my ex for marriage fraud. He’s not looking good in their eyes and May or may not be deported. What’s your status now, are you done or working things out may I ask?

@@marandacoley9827 hey lady, these stories never stop. I feel so bad as an empath seeing and hearing the same stories!

@@MarriageFraudSurvivors I completely agree

Can you tell me where he from?

Omg

Damn shame you should of hold it send a letter and send it back smh

Make sure you report him

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Hi I need advice please how do I contact you?

I need help too as fraud marred

I need help because he just got sworn in December 4 and in January 2021 he closed our joint account in January 4. Than moved out while I was in work January 21st. He is nasty and mean now and admitted he only married me to stay in the us only and he didn't love me.

@@cyberwuz69 sorry to hear that you can call me please if you can help me951605019

It's ALL a Scam. They ONLY want Citizenship!

@@thespy7795 it was. We, his friends were all enraged. She had the audacity to flaunt the fun she was having exploring downtown seattle with friends etc while her husband was depressed. He even sponsored her brazillian butt lift and many more. Poor guy, he couldnt revoke her greencard anymore. It wasn’t conditional as it was a 10 yr greencard visa

@@sammeya5324 My wife did the Same thing.

It can still be reported and it will be investigated if you have proof...

@@MarriageFraudSurvivors she tried to file a domestic violence case against the US citizen. She claimed her husband was abusive even before she came to the US lol. Idk what happened to them. The guy felt hopeless and probably thought there’s nothing he could do. He had evidence but his apartment was rummage and all of them are gone now

It would be extremely difficult, and not worth the government resources, to put someone away after they've become a citizen

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I need an assistant as well

she probably learned her lesson and decided to be loyal with new one🤷🏻‍♂️

@@AshTheDuke😂 yeeea that’s what she learned lolol

It could go either way

Definitely withdraw your sponsorship AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, but if you didn't have a prenup and/or postnup, it's fairly likely he'll be entitled to a "fair division" of whatever money or property you gained during the marriage. Do a consultation with a lawyer in your area who knows your state's laws, because the laws vary by state. Definitely do that soon, though, the longer you stay married the more likely he can get more assets, and possibly alimony as well. Good luck!

Withdraw that affidavit of support!

I’m with you

Sorry to hear this has happen to you. Call the bar Assocation to find a good attorney, my husband uses me for a green card. he sent 15,000 back to his country over 7months period. We need some immigration laws change no one is protecting the citizen.

I believe you

unfortunately these are hard lessons to be learned.foreign women are not who they present themselves to be.

There needs to be more protection for US Citizens who fall victim. The government needs to implement more safeguards in the event that suspicion has arised. Like sending the foreign spouse back to their country for a specified amount of time and if during that time the two can work on the marriage then maybe they can return. If the foreigner doesnt put forth the effort then let them stay in their home country. At least this gives American citizens a chance to decide if they want to keep the person or not and if not then they dont have to be subject to 10 years of financial responsibility for a scammer.

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@@SanDiegoImmigrationlawyer Help

the embassy should stop allowing this way of achieving green card

Wow, my sympathies. He sounds like a real “bumba clot”.

@@princessmarlena1359 Thanks, it’s all good. I’m suing him!

Thats' what I wanna know. I love foreign women, but why does a foreign spouse that is genuine has to pay the price for a disingenuine one. but my advice. Don't bring them to America. They get corrupted.

@@jmonie02 lol it's either that or you deal with American women

@@nicolechagara hell no.

@@jmonie02 me as a green card holder seems like i will be single forever 🤷🏻‍♂️

Any updates?

If he abused you. Let USCIS know. They can deport him based on that alone. I believe

My husband got his green card and because it’s a ten year he says that they can’t do anything to him and he is still married to me he wants to wait his three years to fixed his girlfriend s papers still being married to me I wanted to know as well what can I do I have proof of his adultery and pictures of his hand and her together and I have is daughter that lives with me she knows about the affair

You are frauded dear...it happened too much?

If they get their 10 year card then u really cant do anything to them anymore.

Imagine if Americans could do this to their American exes. Ruin an Americans life because they didn’t like the breakup. Total abuse of power to use the government to ruin a persons life. Horrific.

@@dianeacevedo5252 you still can do something if you have patience. The first is to report him, if you're sure he used you. And it will be addressed once he applies for any benefit. So no, they won't go lock him up, yet they will eventually investigate. If you want to know how I know... just ask! Thanks 😊

12 year daughter together? No, cheating is not fraud.

@@Dina0180 Thank you for your thought. However, I will just paste this here for your information: "Yes. If you have had an extramarital affair within the Good Moral Character period that is required in order to naturalize (usually the past five years), it is possible you might not qualify for U.S. citizenship' Whether you qualify in spite of your extramarital affair will depend on the facts and details of what happened. While an extramarital affair does not automatically disqualify you, examiners at U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) are taught to ask more detailed questions if they find evidence of an extramarital affair. If your affair led to the breakup of your marriage within the Good Moral Character period, they will likely deny your application".

@@demetrios3232 there is a lot to consider. 12 year old kid together is a big factor in her favor. How long have they been married? If she used her husband for some benefit, she would not stay married to him for long.. I don’t really know, to be honest. Also, how would her officer find out about the affair unless she tells him herself.. but I don’t really know the specifics of the case and I’m no expert in these things🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t know anyone in a situation like that

@@Dina0180 Thank you. Yes this case is very unusual. The couple had their daughter 10 years before they got married and had been living in Poland for almost 16 years. Got married 1.5 years ago in the U.S. Too complicated. But the foreign national, in this case the wife, who is in her 2nd year of the conditional green card has told and even written to her husband, that he is only her husband on paper. She has also told their 12 year old daughter that she's only with daddy for a green card. She has said please stay married to me for 9 more months, then you won't see me again. The husband even suspects that she has another man waiting in the wings. It is much more complicated than that. But thank you for your reply.

@@demetrios3232 yes, it smells like fraud 🤷🏻‍♀️. I guess it’s up to husband what to do to her. She needs his signature to remove conditions and receive a permanent green card. And he will have to attend green card/citizenship interview with her, I think. Idk If she can do it on her own.

As someone who has been in a similar situation (spouse moved out THREE DAYS after getting his GC), once they have the 10-year Green Card you have already proved in immigration's eyes that your marriage is bona-fide. If you truly suspect fraud, you must separate immediately and you can alert USCIS to your suspicion, but without hard evidence that your spouse had fraudulent intent at the START of the marriage AND totally tricked you until after they got their Green Card, then you're pretty much out of luck my friend. In the eyes of immigration, someone wanting to leave after getting their Green Card (even RIGHT after) doesn't constitute fraud, unless you can prove that they only married you in the first place for the immigration benefits. After everything you've already done to show immigration your relationship is legitimate, it's nearly impossible to go back now and say it wasn't. A lawyer I consulted told me I had better odds of becoming a millionaire in the lottery than being able to prove fraud in my situation. It was the worst pain I've ever been through and so humiliating I don't even have words to express it. We went from celebrating with family and friends that he would get to stay, to him moving out and saying it wasn't working out, all within one calendar week. Wouldn't wish the pain and humiliation I experienced on my worst enemy. Consult a lawyer immediately about your case. If you stay with her you can't report it later, so choose now what you want to do, and understand that most likely making a complaint won't do anything. Good luck

Where is your wife from?

@@DarthFurie Same nightmare here...fake green card wifes vanishes...11 reports to USCIS tip form I cant get anything done..And I know it was total fraud..no kids..side guy etc 100s of reasons..

@@JasonKale did your wife confess or just totally disappear? My spouse told me TO MY FACE that he had never been in love with me and that he would have never had children with me. Five years and all my dreams down the drain. I've even heard of people finding texts where the spouse confessed it was all for a green card, and even then USCIS didn't do anything. It's so crazy to me how people can get away with this. It's so easy for them, no wonder they keep doing it

Sorry to hear this

Thanks:))

Yes only if he becomes a burden to the US, otherwise no...

That is marriage fraud. Report them to the USCIS and Department of Homeland Security

this is why i can’t get married i regret having green card, i feel like complaining about these issues directly to a journalists in my country

This sounds complicated, please contact a lawyer to get help!! Good luck

Get the proof of his new marriage. Get an ANNULMENT. Send it to USCIS and a letter explaining everything. Every detail.

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@@SanDiegoImmigrationlawyer ok but as long as I'm not charged a bunch of money for some advice or a question. I also recently filed for a divorce as well. We were married this past September

Try to get recordings of what she said

@@happygolucky4394 I did 1 day when she called Russia mad.. Blows my mind a person changed so much...smh

@@donnagpalk912 TRUST ME! YOU HAVE NO IDEA..what state are you in? Makes a big difference

@@happygolucky4394 Tennessee

@@donnagpalk912 I can only say so much or else…😬it’s been made clear to me..

Speak with an immigration attorney! Contact your state representative office to see if they can assist you in this matter.

Hey...is there anyway I can get in contact with you? I have some questions and answers too

@@Conscious423 Yes

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Go with your instinct! He’s playing you for sure!

why is it wrong to doubt?

Tell him for you to move forward he must take a lie detector test

Don’t use the government to destroy his life if you break up. It’s not his fault that the US uses you to give him freedom. If you do ruin his life and goals, it says a lot more about your character than his.

@@firstlast9916 no, he shouldn’t be lying an using people for a green card! There are other way than marriage, if you marry and deceive you deserve whatever bad that comes to you!!

I'm so sorry this happening to you. If he is aggressive with pls get out of that relationship and file a restraining order. These people are crazy for America they will do anything to get here and stay.

Be careful bc they are so desperate and have such a warped sense of entitlement. Been there done that!

Not necessarily

Yes!!! It truly is!!! I made this stupid mistake.

I did too. Going through it now.

I agree, as someone who has done it and was used. I stupidly sponsored his Green Card so that we could build a life together, he moved out 3 days after he got it. USCIS was no help, he got to keep his Green Card. Would never advise my worst enemy to go through this process, Americans get used every day

True

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My wife left 2 days after her card came in I have not heard from here since dec 20th and she ran off with our son

It IS a scam! My Dominican wife did the same thing to me. She is 34 years younger than me. She cheated and had a baby. I NEARLY sponsored her. We married in her country but she had an online affair with another Dominican American man. I could feel she didn't love me. When I gave her the money to come here, she went to the Man's be house and they got married. She divorced me in the Dominican Republic without my knowledge. Protect your Brother. Immigration will not help men!

He's definitely getting scammed, she wants to get a Green Card through marriage and help her kids get residency, too. If everyone is warning him and he won't listen, I guess he'll have to learn the hard way. I was conned by my Jamaican spouse too, except we met when he was in the US on a student visa and we lived together, 5 year relationship and 3 days after receiving his Green Card he admitted he never was in love with me, would never have kids with me, etc. Our whole marriage was just a smokescreen for his ploy to get a Green Card and eventually citizenship. He had me and everyone around me fooled, for some people from 3rd world countries they're very good at these games. It sounds like this girl isn't even trying to hide her intentions and he's still going along with it, that's pretty foolish but he's an adult so just try to warn him but he'll make his own choices in the end

@@thespy7795 Immigration doesn't help female victims, either...

I hope scamming him is not her intention. But I can understand your concern. You have people who are serious about love and relationship and you have some who just in for own needs. Time will tell

@Shadow11 please let me know the streets that pave with gold. I live in America 13 years now and I work for everything I accomplished. So let me know the street so I can get some of the Gold

It's too late.You should have acted faster.

@@bellbell872 hey bell I’m about to bring my wife to america how early can I act on trying to get her deported if she leaves me .? Im not sure if she is with me for the green card or not but I have a feeling that as soon she comes to america she will leave me and will be trying to bring her whole family to america

@@ThatGuy33121 Depending on the circumstances I will like to say it is usually very difficult to get them deported because immigration always considers that you are trying to do so because you feel scorned .It will be difficult for you to prove that she deceived you in order to get a green card.If you are already feeling that she is just using you to get into your country then It is preferable not to bring her at all.I can guarantee you that you won't win this case if you decide to deport her after bringing her.

@@bellbell872thanks for the reply so I tried to divorce my wife and send her back to her family but none of them wanted her back so if I was to leave her then she would have no place to go and would be on the streets in our foreign country now she is not talking to her family but I’m afraid when she goes to america that she will start talking to them and will be trying to bring all her family to america. I have rented a place for us to live in , in Iraq because my father kicked me out cuz he wants me to merry another wife on top of my current one he said cuz she will leave me when she comes to america ( even tho he brought her for me and he was her dad best friend when they were at young age but now they are not cool with each other ). So I rented a place for us to stay and I will be leaving her money to use since I will be going to go back to america to work while he wait for her I-130 , I’m investing so much into her and taking this huge risk and doing all the papers works and we have 2 babies together it’s so much of a risk for me because when she comes to america she can request divorce and be getting child support from for 2 children and I think I will be devastated mentally and physically after all the hard work I put for her and money I put into her. What advice or suggestions can you give me please. Thank you for reading all of this

@@bellbell872 hey did you read my last reply to your comment.? I would love your advice / feedback . Thanks in advance

How long did this person stay 🤔 after he or she, got the green card??

Me too. Spouse moved out 3 days after getting the Green Card that I sponsored for him. We had been together 4.5 years. Most disgusting thing I've ever had another human being do to me

@@DarthFurie They are crazy. I'd file for divorce the day she moved.

The same exact thing happened to me. He left 2 months and 21 days after we got married while I was already 7 weeks pregnant. Never seen him till date. Found out he was in a committed relationship. It's been 10 months since he left. Life is not fair, just have to accept your faith and move on with your life.

Build your case strong. Even if the immigrant is abusing you in any way (emotionally, verbally, physically, mentally) you can tell the USCIS and they may be deported. Immigrant spouses can get deported for abusing someone.

@@mikaeels.6477 wow dude, I'm close to the divorce date, and this message came up as soon as I checked on the status . It's been a disaster since i married this woman. She tried to divorce me in another state and claimed residency in a state that has no record of her. She is a mess. Started a business using a fraudlent, lied to everyone and everything. Why do they let these assholes in this country? I was here when I met her, very beautiful but deceptive as hell. I know people can use it for a green card, but hers in conditional. I'm 38, I don't have a record, and never abused anyone. It's like people can't just fall in love anymore. I literally work with kids and have gotten FBI background checks done, the only things I get are parking tickets. lol. Do you have recommendations on writing a letter? I literally did this alone. She left literally 3 weeks after getting her conditional green card and didn't come back. I saw her once, thinking she was going to get us an apartment in Maryland, so we can live and work there together. Nope. She wants to be ghetto. It's annoying. I am in therapy now and its considered narcissistic abuse. I hate this May deport, she needs to be deported. Fortunately, once the divorce happens, she can't marry for 6 months, and her green card expires in June. So she is screwed. I was told to hold tight before exposing her completely, so once this divorce ends, Im going to relax, but the whole world will know about this scammer.

what is vawa?

@@anniecheche2861 i have bipolar disorder i may become violent if such things happen to me am scared of myself (am green card holder nothing has happened yet learning from others mistake)

@Samuel Sweetmann I have been talking to her via video chat

Make sure you get a lie detector test, most likely they won’t want to

@@wolfxman69 did u pay?

@@roxjaw2895 no

@@victoriatrujillo8294 and you are right thank you ! Looking for love ❤️

Sorry sis but there is nothing much you can do about it

@Samuel Sweetmann hallelujah

Was your mom senile? How did she fall for that? USCIS needs to be sued for that. 76 and 22. A 54 year age difference, that was clear cut marriage fraud.

You guys are disgusting in the comments people's problems aren't a joke. Tamera I am sorry for your loss may her beautiful soul rest in paradise. Consult with a lawyer & give him all the info as soon as u can to see what he suggests & know that God and the universe will never bless him ever till he returns everythin he took from you, rest assured he will get his karma 10 times fold, what goes around Always comes around especially when people do others wrong, always. Sending love & prayers, hang in there sis ❤️

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I'm so sorry to hear this! I'm currently going through the same thing. My husband is on a Conditional green card, when I found out what he was up to I withdrew my signature on the petition. I'm praying they deport him for fraud, but it doesn't seem like they care about this type of marriage fraud they go after both sided marriage fraud. Who protect us as citizen. It's time for them to change some immigration laws.

@@marandacoley9827 I totally agree with you!

Wow, I reported mine and he's being investigated now. It took a very long time. And I wrote my congressman and President Trump...and he had a flag already from Jamaica, and shouldn't have been granted the visa in the first place. He thought he duped us both, I guess so now it's his turn!

@@marandacoley9827 Get your spouse on other things like Perjury. To be honest, these people don't live well anyway. Just be grateful for your privileges.

@@jmonie02 I wish I could. Immigration seems to not really care about this issue. They are looking for the ones who are getting paid to commit fraud. Its ok he will not have a good life. I believe what goes around comes around.

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Not just Orange county. Most of the Vietnamese women who come to the US are scammers.

Are you saying you got arrested? For what if so?

@@marandacoley9827 yeah because if you report fraud they are under impression you are willingly assisting

@@playboyreaper5966 Wow! Did they deport your spouse? I reported my Huband for fraud, and I have not heard from anyone

@@marandacoley9827 she’s in hiding don’t know don’t care

@@playboyreaper5966 Ok

Huh?

Men need to use audio and video recordings of the abusive women and send it to USCIS

@@diverstalkshit my Nigerian scammer was the abusive one. He pressed domestic assault charges against me. I was kicked out of the house and went to jail. I played a recording proving that I was the one who was the victim. The judge still found me guilty. The judge was also a Hispanic immigrant.

@@SongSingsSoprano I'm so sorry. Can't you appeal? There's also something called Brady Material that forces your accuser and the prosecutor to disclose what "benefits" he's getting for false allegations. Usually using the VAWA is protected and secret but it must be disclosed as Brady Material if the accuser is benefiting from the allegations. I had an attorney who's a national expert in VAWA and U-Visa fraud helping me. I have hours and hours of recordings of my abuse. I even have one of my abuser stating that I didn't have her permission to video tape her (verbally and physically abusing me). If you ask your attorney--even states that have two party recording laws exempt recordings as having an expectation of privacy if crimes are being committed.

@@SongSingsSoprano ok waht if during the covid my spouse was granted a 10 year visa and then came to live in the us with me, after that she provoked me with recordings of me cursing she never called the cops i called the cops they asked her if she wanted to leave she left and now using the recordings of me can i get the ten year visa revoked

Nuthin.

@Samuel Sweetmann what’s SOL?

@@ozkika5605 (S).hit (O).ut of (L).uck

He's a grown ssA man who is still in native country. If she left him behind, she probably found out he was scamming. She wouldn't just leave him for no reason.

@@SongSingsSoprano this is not always the case, is possible she got a wrong perception of him or she found another man

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The Philippines, huh? I just may check it out one day.

You're a sell out. Nothing is wrong with other races. If you think so then everyone is better than you.

Yea, I wouldn't recommend marrying and coming or staying in the states.

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Agreed

agreed and am very upset with men with green card of my country go back to their country to find a wife easily thinking without any future consequences trusting blindly