There's a saying: "Stop forcing kids to have a relationship emotionally abusive family members. You aren't teaching them family first, you're teaching them that regardless of how someone treats them, they're supposed to love them unconditionally, and that's not a good lesson."

"She's not my child anymore because she brought me to court" sounds super toxic to me.

The hurt in the daughters voice at the end.. made me so sad. Theres alot more to this story and im glad she chose a toxic free environment for her environment for herself and her son.

The grandmother didnt appear too dysfunctional, but you can tell by how the daughter spoke at the end there was clearly way way more to their story. Sometimes, mom or not, toxic family members have to be removed out of one's life in order to have peace in one's life. It's always sad when children & their parents are not on good terms. 💔

Mom says she is a very independent person,but her daughter has to help her financially!!!

The end said it all to me. I can’t imagine a mother saying “she’s not my daughter anymore.” These are two bitter women. I hope they find healing and peace. 🙏🏾

As a mother I could never imagine saying the things she said about “being done with her daughter”. And as a daughter I could never imagine closing the door on my mom. Then again I was blessed with the best mother anyone could ask for. I pray this ladies can resolve their issues and move on pass it.

It angered me to see the judge violate the daughter again. The mother is clearly cold and abusive. Some people are toxic and shouldn't be in your life, even if it's your mother.

There’s more to this story for sure cause there’s no way this daughter feels like this about her mother over some bills/cell phone. Judge Mathis would’ve dug deeper to see what’s really going on to expose this toxic relationship. I pray they both find peace & forgiveness🙏🏽🤍, but it doesn’t mean they have to be around each other.

lawd that wig is sending me 😩😩

🛡 It is our parental duty to PROTECT our kids, even from TOXIC family members!

This is crazy . Mother and daughter disowning each other over something so simple but i guess we don’t truly know the real hurt there ….

The mother is a cold narcissist. Kids don’t act that way towards their parents for no reason

This is beyond sad. My prayers to them. They should make it right before it's too late.

What kind of parent disowns their own child? Ma'am, she probably learned a lot of this toxicity from your example.

I can’t see as a mother, talking down about any of my children.😢 the sad part is I hear this A LOT!!!!

My heart goes out to the plaintiff. I know exactly what its like to have someone in your life with the title behave as anything but. People dont view financial abuse for what is, and with mothers like her its the tip of the iceberg. God bless her and her son 🙏🏿 The moment the mom started badmouthing saying she drinks, etc I just knew it. I hope she finds the healing she deserves.

I don't agree with the judge. This grandmother is toxic. I wouldn't have her around my kids.

Good example of a bad mother/daughter relationship.

I know its hard to believe but sometimes you have to cut granny off. If her mother can say "She's not even my child anymore" why would she would bring her son to her? If she isnt her child then hes not her grandchild.

Parents have a right to keep their children away from toxic ppl even if they are family members

The judge needs to stay in her lane. She's only heard 5 minutes of a case and believes this grandmother should have access to the grandson. No ma'am, we are not exposing children to toxic family members.

Honestly I can't even watch the mother vs daughter cases because of my own toxic relationship with my mother. Blah it brings back trauma 😣

Listen, removing a toxic relative is fine, but never wish bad on people. They both need therapy whether it be together or separately

My heart goes out to the daughter. That mother is evil specially what she said at the end. It's always, always family that hurt each other. Sometimes it's just best to stay away for your own sanity because there's just no fixing that mother I knew she was evil the minute she walked in the court. Like I said unless you live through that you can't tell. I can spot an evil mother a mile away

The nerve to call someone else a leech when you're leeching off your own daughter!

What a shame to bring family to court for such trivial matters.

The mother is a messy disgrace, the daughter needs to cut this toxic mother out of her life.

From how the mother said "she got money" that tells me why she didn't feel the need to pay no bils.

Judge stay in your lane if grandparents are toxic no they shouldn't have access to the child you don't know everyone's family stay out of it

If a mother says she doesnt know what happened to their child, I look at that mother sidewise. How could you not know? Where were you? Obviously, you don't know everything your children do or go through, but that statement just reeks of negligence to me. My mother doesn't know every little thing about me, but she knows all of my moods, she knows when I'm sad, she cries for me and with me, she laughs with me, she talks with me, she's THERE for me. I tell her many things. I trust her. This case disturbs me so much. Everyone deserves a loving and present mother who speaks life and love into them.

Crazy! I would never not be close to my mom over ANYTHING material or money

Nah judge if the mother is a narcissist she gotta go!!!!

I understand where Judge M is coming from and why she always champions for families to work it out but she has to realise that her way of thinking isn’t always right! She clearly comes from a loving family, which is why she can’t imagine how a family can feel the way these litigants do and why family members decide to stop associating with toxic family members. Unless someone has been in that situation or lived through that kind of dysfunction and heartache, they will never understand. I myself come from a loving family and can’t imagine that I will ever be in this situation, but I can also understand that the only experience that I have, is the one that I’ve lived! So I would never tell another person what they should do in their situation based off of my experience, thoughts and feelings. It’s so easy for the judge to say what she says all of the time when it comes to family but she has to stop thinking she knows it all and that she is right, when all that she has is her own experience. Family or not, if someone is toxic in your life, you have the right to back away from them for your own sanity. If someone had a toxic friend or romantic relationship, I guarantee that the judge would tell them to cut that person off, so why should it be any different with family just because they are family? Toxic is toxic!

There's more to this story yall its more than the phone issue

This is so sad .. if she was on fire she wouldn’t spit on her ?? Her mother? There’s a lot of dysfunction in that family.. I wished the judge would’ve let her play the voicemails .. nevertheless this is a relationship me and my kids will never have !! The embodiment of love between us is too strong ❤

The mom is toxic she just disowned her daughter

She learned the bitterness from her mother so I believe her… hate the toxicity but You can’t have people who drain your soul and never feed it. I’m sure her and her son are better off without her 😢

Wow. *A mother and daughter relationship just GONE* Some of us whose parents are no longer here would *LOVE* to have just one more day with them.

I believe the defendant said something on the voicemails and I believe she owes for the monthly charges. The judge was unfair.

There's gonna be a day that they will regret the things they're saying. My mom passed away and I couldn't imagine not having a relationship with her. I miss my mom so much and we were so close. When one of them passes then it will be too late to fix things between them. They're both immature but I think the daughter was more immature then the mother and the grandson is the one that's going to really lose out. It's so sad that grown adults can't look at themselves in the mirror and look at the way they're acting. Smh..

When a person uses their child as ammunition to hurt another person, that's just the lowest of the low, because the person who ends up the most affected, is always the child...

Wow! God please let my daughters and I continue having a great relationship

I bet the defendant didn’t raise the plaintiff.

Toxic is toxic. Family doesn't get to stick around and act like that just because they're blood.

When she said lawsuits aren’t a career move 😂😂

This is so sad! Couldn’t imagine not seeing my granddaughter. And why is mom’s credit not good enough to get her own phone. This is just terrible! My heart breaks for them

Both of these ladies have unresolved trauma and it's heartbreaking. This isn't about a phone, it's about unresolved pain. I'm 45 and my mom is and will always be my best friend. I could never imagine life without her. These ladies can't be in the same room with each other and that's not good for the little boy. They both need prayer and healing

The mother should've never talked to the boyfriend. Why was he comfortable talking about your daughter??? Exactly

Girl sounds definitely spiteful. Ughhh poor mother

the indication that all grandparents are entitled to their grandchildren is not ok. There are some messed up ppl that you should not have around your child(ren) for their mental. Protecting your child’s peace is just as important as protecting them physically. (“She’s not my child anymore” didn’t help.)

Its annoying that the judge tries to give relationship advice about a situation she knows nothing about. That woman could be toxic and unhinged and she pushes that the son should spend time with her.

The ending said everything we needed to know… very sad case. 😢🙏🏾

So sick of the excuse “they’re still family” no, toxic is toxic. You have the right to cut anyone off who is unhealthy to you!! Blood ain’t thicker than peace of mind.

Fools say, "God bless her", then spew vile hate.

Let’s hear those voicemails from Grandma 🧐

Her personal life has nothing to do with a contract judge.

JM is spot on. All over a phone!!!!!!

The daughter got free child care and got angry when the ex and her mom was talking.

“she’s not my child no more” then that isn’t your grandson anymore! But her also saying she wouldn’t save her mother from a fire is why they have this relationship. They are the same.

Gosh…toxic.

It's saddening to know that things happen this way between individuals. It's important to remember that blood makes you related and not family. Family is work. Just because someone is a sibling or parent, doesn't mean you will get along or care to be around each other. Now, I don't think one should continue to harbor hatred toward another and should instead do the work to resolve the issue (even if without the other party).

I can't believe the mother said she's not my child how could she say that on national TV are at all so cruel!! Maybe she's not much of a mother.

Sometimes the judge needs to just rule on the case in front of her and stop trying to get involved in family issues. You never know the history behind these cases…

All of that over phone bill. She will regret disrespecting her mother in such manner.

It’s terrible seeing this. I’ve just reconnected with my mother after 7 years.

Feelings fet hurt and pride and ego takes over. Humble love always wins. If you cannot then you lose at life. So sad.

The mother is not a good example she is very immature. I’m wondering what did this mother do to her daughter that she feels sooo strongly about having nothing to do with her, secret abuse somewhere.

The plaintiff is so bitter. She sued her mother and needs to get over it. Holding a grudge benefits no one

Sounds like they use words as weapons. They are two peas in a pod. The best of enemies

I can't imagine suing my mother. There must really be some bad blood between them. How sad! The minute someone says "aks" instead of ask, I'm done. All this over a phone bill??? The bad blood runs a lot deeper than a cell phone.

Where on earth are we? Suing one's own mother for a bill phone? That's pure indication of ungratefullness. Unbelievable! The world is going crazy. Her own children shall drag her in one day down the line. What comes around goes around.

Why did the grandmother have to take care of HER son while she went on vacation and out partying, where was the daddy?

There’s nothing wrong with the judge trying to create peace.

The judge just can't help herself from interfering where she doesn't have any business. She won't let them speak but she makes a speech.

This is so heartbreaking to see😢 I had to show my mom smh it can Never get this bad between a mother and her daughter 😩💔

I love judge Milian but she needs to stay out of people’s business. She doesn’t know anyone enough to tell her that she needs to let her see her grandson. Toxic family members, whether is a grandmother, brother, cousin, WHOEVER does not need to be around kids. We cut those people out!

This is the kind of "judge" that tells an abuse victim it's their fault "for staying". If ever there was something that you should pull down, this is it. The worst

The Daughter ending was Deep pain . If y'all only knew my life with our mother God bless her . My Grandma was everything that our mother wasn't. But dear God knows the truth .but I still love my mother from a distance . because I tried to help her out of all my siblings she tried me and said something to hurt my feelings . I didn't cuss her out or nothing I just back off and pray for her . Lord have mercy if y'all only knew she told us she never loved us it's nine of us living she had 11 kids my mother didn't raise none of us but I still try to help her and love her but I had to cut her off so she can heal herself just talk to her the other day and she said thank you she doing better to take care of her self it's Alot . But I don't hate my mothere but I feel the pain .of a mother not wanting her kids. 😢 But I been bless with my son. My only child he treats me soooo good and respect me I couldn't imagine not having my son in my life . Wow. What I did nt. Have with my mother I have it with my son. Thank you Jesus. And please stop saying hurt people hurts people .no the thing is some people are evil and ungrateful okkk wow

Wow, that hallway ending was really sad😢

My parent's had six children. We all grew up in the same house. Im the youngest. Five of us are normal. One of my sis has an attitude like the plaintiff. As long as my mom is doing something to benefit my sis everything is great. As soon as my mom disagree with her, she the worse mother on earth. Sometimes people feel entitled and has nothing to do with their parents.

Wow...I am so BLESSED TO HAVE 2 PHENOMENAL QUEENS...ITS SO SAD TO SEE A DAUGHTER SUING HER MOTHER AND VICE VERSA...NOT GOOD...REAL TALK!!!

Dang I felt that when she spoke at the end sent chills she is hurt 😞

The mother saying, "She's not my daughter anymore. Cross her off," was absolutely disgusting. That's not a mother.

I love when she comes back to talk after she rules.

Thank god JM isn’t a smith court judge. She thinks everything can be resolved. And that’s not always he case.

The reporter was wrong to chastize the plaintiff. The mother was wrong to disown her daughter. The daughter was wrong to say what she did about her mother Judge apparently is having some difficulties with one of her daughters because she has become very outraged with parents who won't let the grandchildren see their grandparents. She gets all angry and rarely lets the litigation tell their entire stories. unfortunately, there are much deeper wounds in this case than we will know

It's not often she stays and talks after she leaves the bench, I love when she does that. She doesn't do it often

That mother isn't toxic it's her.

Mom crossed boundary with daughter's boyfriend. The mom creates the issues, and wanted daughter to provide for her financially.

People who come have loving parents and a solid foundation. They will never understand how you can walk away from family. I've had to do it. I love them from a far. But for my peace, I had to say goodbye.. 😢

I don't care what my mom did. I'm never taking her to court.

Wow! That's so sad. You can hear in the daughter's voice that she is hurt. I pray that God repairs their relationship.

You can get a phone and not have credit‼️ The daughter could have gotten her mom a prepaid phone that works just the same, and wouldnt have to deal with this. 🙌

No grand kid is better off WITHOUT that lady in their life!

There are some deeper issues here, I think it has absolutely nothing to do w a phone. Judge was totally out of line. You can’t tell someone how to feel and you definitely can’t tell them what to do w their child(ren)! Sometimes it doesn’t matter who you have to cut out of your life, as long as it brings you peace and betters your mental health, do it!

So make her son be around a toxic grandmother??? Judge needs to stay in her place and focus on the case!

It took me a long time to realize my "family" is not family. It took me a long time to walk away. They deprived me, I didn't deprive my children. I gave them more by walking away. I lost a lot of respect for judge in that moment.

The daughter will regret her words for sure.

“She don’t love my son” I believe her! The way she disowned her daughter so readily n willingly I absolutely believe she ain’t got no love for that baby and milian just go fall for the whole cuz they related there’s love script.