It's almost like you put two people with unstable trauma together that they both are gonna perceive the other as dangerous and work themselves up.

"She fucking sued me" Wow it's almost like threatening to off someone has consequences

Personally, I fail to see how threatening someone with physical violence is a joke. That's always the cop out statement people make when they get called out for saying something gross. I would have more respect for Bobo if they straight up said that they'd spoken out of anger and don't really intend to inflict harm on DD. That being said, they should both simply leave each other be now. They're clearly not friends. Why have anything more to do with one another?

As many lawyers say "Don't film your crimes. If you do film your crimes, don't post them on the internet." Threats of physical harm are a crime. Especially if you actually know the person. The Cease and Desist was very warranted. That said, Bo&Co are fully entitled to their opinion and emotions. They just need to edit better and learn to let things go. Jealousy, Envy and Hatred (whether they feel justified or not) will eventually tear them apart. Please get help (not reddit). For those that don't like Kya being the 'face' of DiD, be a better one.

Honestly? It wouldn't really matter if Bobo WAS joking.. DD is going through a whole lot of other BS right now and DD was right to be no-bullshit about it. If you watched DDs video, they explicitly said they aren't going to sit idle and let it happen all over again. 'Look where keeping quiet got us before.' At the end of the day, Bobo has harassed them before so DD is right to take any threat seriously. Bobo should not have said shit to DD to begin with, especially not with what DD is/has been dealing with. Enough is enough. People are only mad at DD because they're not letting people use them as a door mat anymore, God forbid.

"We can hold people accountable without hating them". Sometimes I wish people on that subreddit took their own advice. Bobo asking on there what she can do to make it right is a little bit of a taste of what DD has been dealing with for a long time now. Every single time they come out with a video, no matter what it's about, people flock to that site and post shit about them. Kya can lay out all their sins and apologize until they are blue in the face, and someone will always find something that they missed, or say "Not good enough". It's maddening and it's toxic.

Context has only affirmed my opinion about Bobo seeming like a massive POS. "I would beat the shit out of this person, how dare they not shut up about online hate they get, they should be DEAD" "Oh no, I was just joking, how dare you take me threatening and harassing you seriously!!! You're abusing me!!!" Meanwhile they're bestie with Kya's sexual assaulter... Literally zero empathy for this snake. The BraiDID logs were crystal clear, they were toxic and abusive in their friendship, and them continuing to downplay their behavior and make the person they hurt out to be the bad guy for cutting them off after giving them way too many chances just shows the kind of people they are. As if that wasn't enough, they also associate with these two?? Yeah, in the bin with all of them.

"hypothetical aggressive situation" is giving me the same vibes as "consensual workplace relationship" ☠️

Maybe I'm slightly biased but BoBo's attitude in that video really sets my teeth on edge. Idk exactly where they're from but they sound fairly local to me and they're behaving exactly like high school bullies do, the voice they're using is very much a condescending "I'm 100% better than you" attitude that's used to indimidate people into silence.

“They would be fucking dead” yeah that’s also a threat

Oh boy, where to start: Ok, so I really don't think Bo would physically attack Dissociadid, but honestly her/their behavior in this video makes it seem possible that they could do anything out of anger. Bo also took a lot of low blows: poking fun at Kya's housing (which would be extremely triggering with all the doxxing going on), CATS?!?, and clothes. It was insulting and below them, Bo can do better than that. With very few exceptions, DD's videos have been completely professional and respectful, no matter what the topic. They can be firm for sure, but I've never seen this kind of threatening, atrocious behavior. I don't know them in real life, but online, even when speaking about horrible things, they still make a point of telling people every time NOT to spread hate to others.

Also how come when DD gets death threats and harrassed on the subreddit and kiwi farms it just "comes with the territory" or is earned, but when Bobo or other creators get critiqued or threatened by DDs fans it's Kya's fault? There's so many double standards in both Bobo's video and the entire community

Vangelina I swear you're my hero when it comes to understanding things happening in the did community

Am I the only one that finds it weird that DD is consistently referred to as "she"? Most other people in the DiD creator community get "they", and DD's host isn't even female identifying anymore. It's odd to me.

To be honest this whole system drama is getting progressively more and more... exhausting. Everyone here is just... young, and traumatized, and highstrung.

I think it is a little hypocritical of Bobo & Co ti critisise DissociaDID for the harrasment perpetrtated by some of their supporters whe some of Bobo & Co's supporters are denying DissociaDID's DID diagnosis, and as far as I have been able to tell she has not calledout or critisised any of them for this. Also I thik we need to aknowledge that influnceres have a very limited ability to prevent their followers from engaging in harrassment, it is important that influencers make the point of saying that it is wrong and not to do it, but some will anyway.

Bobo honestly came across very jealous of DissociaDID at the end and its such a shame :( I think they have both made mistakes. But even mentioning physical violence, be that a theoretical or not, is never okay imo. Bobo lost the high ground when doing that and they can't get that back now.

You can't joke about unaliving someone and just say "sorry". Just one subreddit away from seeing the reality of stomping on someone face or knocking their lights out. On the other hand calling people out because they give passive aggressive advice is just low EQ move.

Tbh - as someone who is objective here - a lot of what boba says are huge contradictions or hypocritical statements. For example “why would anyone pretend to be poor” before directly accusing Kya of pretending to be poor 🤷‍♀️ I get they wanted to rant but, from the sounds of it, they don’t have their own opinions figured out.

someone once said “if you’re the only one laughing, it’s not a joke”. threatening violence against someone isn’t a joke :/ i hope both Kya and Bobo, and their respective systems, are okay. it sounds like Bobo is struggling at the moment, but that’s no excuse to threaten anyone. but they do say that when someone is backed into a corner, they’ve had their flight option taken away, meaning the only option left is to fight. and we all know content creators can’t escape the internet. not an excuse, but possibly a way to reason with why they would say something so awful? i just really hope everyone in this situation is okay.

I watched bobos video and it truly felt like they were jealous of what DD had. There was definitely some sort of falling out I have no idea what happened but bobo does seem unhinged with rage both at what happened and a lot because of jealousy.

As I said on Kya's post about this; sometimes ex friends are the worst/hardest to heal from. That said while I can see both sides of this at least in why Bobo is upset and why Kya feels threatened, Bobo didn't help by posting at all and making it public. Maybe if they had posted and made it private or for friends, it'd be a different story. Their saying "It's my community"; yeah, but it's Kya's too and with all the stuff Kya's been going through, Bobo tossing their opinion onto that fire didn't help/doesn't help. It *seems* that Kya just wants to move on and do things with her life, but people are adamant to drag her back into floundering BS and quite honestly that makes me feel for Them more than others right now. Admittedly I don't follow Kya anywhere but KZfaq, and I've only seen a few videos from Bobo, so I'm missing a LOT of context, I'm sure. I also think that all the posts that use "Chloe" instead of Kya's name is absolutely disrespectful. While I get why - they don't believe that Kya has DID and so aren't going to respect it - by that line of thinking, they shouldn't be respectful of anyone who has DID, as "proving it" is near impossible. (That's a personal irk though) Right now I'm very much for team "Both need to walk away, pretend the other doesn't exist and live their lives".

So I watched Bobo’s original video before this drama kicked off. Two thoughts: 1. ‘Joke’. People are using quotation marks because it wasn’t really a joke as such. It wasn’t funny, she was angry. Instead she used ‘joke’ after saying what she did to clarify that she wouldn’t actually do those violent things. 2. I feel like without the Reddit that likes creating drama hardly anyone would have even seen this Bobo video. She gets very few views and this rant was quite a few minutes in. It came across as a rant to get stuff off her chest to a very small amount of viewers. Before DD posted about it the video had few views and only like 2 people commented.

The way bobo is shouting at their cat is a little bit stressful to see. I know editing and online persona are a thing, and closed doors could be hiding a lot, but watching Kya interact with their cats is lovely. It makes me long for a cat of my own. This is one of very few clips I've seen of Bobo, and the way they interacted with their cat was just quite sad to witness

In addition to my previous comment, in the 4 hour video Kya discussed a controversy regarding Bo never getting their portion of their money from a livestream. They later made a statement that Bo has now been given that money. I believe Bo admitted it too. This positive interaction has been completely ignored. Bo's comments suggest jealousy and resentment, not valid arguments. I want both people to be able to speak their mind and have their voice count, but this is exactly what NOT to do.

That last bit at the end of Bobo complaining about what they have vs what DD has is a weird tangent. Are they jealous of DD?

Honestly, what do we expect from a community of severely traumatized adults interacting with severely traumatized adults? I understand wanting to stop the stigma, but I swear, the drama caused by traumatized people gets messy and smears the stigma rather than stopping it. As much as I understand and relate to them wanting to share their life stories, I feel like the educating part should be handled by neurologists and specialists for this reason.

Thank you for uploading the edited version, this was a nice way to hear a nuanced and relatively objective account of the situation without having to dive into it myself, which, as you said, can be a slippery slope and not good for mental health.

I found it telling that Bobo made reference to Kya's housing situation and her two Ragdoll cats. Considering what Bobo has disclosed about her current financial hardship, I wonder if there is an element of jealousy at play here.

i really just wish people would focus on their own healing instead of constantly tearing down eachother thank you for this video! i’m a longtime subscriber of dissociadid so i know i’m probably a bit biased. i really appreciate your unbiased way of looking at this, it feels equal and i hope i can learn to see things more evenly!

I don’t understand why Bobo is calling a 3-br a mansion?? It’s…a normal sized house. Sure, it’s a lot for one person and I wouldn’t get one that big, but it’s not abnormally large. This entire video (Bobo’s) was just uncomfortable to watch. She seems obsessed and honesty it’s hard to trust anything she’s saying because it all seems like it could be dramatized. Shouting at your cat is…interesting to do while you’re shaming someone else for “bullying” people.

Wait bobo literally just said it's not okay to make videos online attacking people if you don't agree with them. And then attacked DD for doing it as Bobo literally did it through the WHOLE video and threatened assault 😑 she also said she'd call her a c*** which was the other argument about calling someone a t***

It seems like bobo has been following the Reddit and kiwi farms and is getting more and more separated from reality. Like Disocidid isn’t perfect but bo and a few others in the community are getting unhinged after following kiwi farms like Chris-Chan

I guess I don't understand the full situation, but I don't consider one person posting a TikTok calling someone else a twat warrants calling them a bully, joking about physical harm, and saying they should be dead. Now if there's a lot of harassment happening behind the scenes, record everything and bring it to the authorities. Otherwise I'd say just disengage.

in my opinion no matter how many followers you have or not, you should not be making shitty comments just so casually. the moment you decide to be a content creator, with zero followers, you become a public figure able to be scrutinized. kya is an easy target for people, and i personally believe people are capitalizing on that and then turning around and claiming "small creator bullied by big bad million follower." no one is as rude and as bitter as an ex-friend who feels wronged, and that's what this feels like to me. kya was wrong a lot, that's true. but why is it that kya needs to ignore all the bullshit that's being said about them while bobo and others can just slag them off? they should try taking their own advice.

I hate that Bobo is calling it a "joke" She is obviously angry in the lead up to it, and they are not on good terms so therefore they are not in a frame of mind or a position to "joke". I HATE when people back pedal about something bad they do or say and just say "but it was a joke.. lighten up" There is ZERO funny about what she said. Even if it's one of her alters... she has to take system accountability like the rest of us multiples.

Honestly i don't understand why the did community hates disociadid so much, like bobo literally hates dd more than team piñata and that's a huge red flag. I used to think bobo was a cute girl but she is scaring me now, she need to log off internet and get help asap she was fucking shaking in anger about DD when she should be more worried about TP. She seem really delirious

Jesus the way this video comes across is that they're jealous. They probably have valid points, I'm not super into the DID community, but it's hard to see their point when they come off as petty.

Bobo comes across as incredibly bitter and jealous of DD, all I hear is that she’s deeply unhappy with her own life

I'm very grateful that you've taken the time to sort through this mess. It seems very much like everybody involved is coming at this from a place of trauma and self-defense. I wish the best for the whole community and healing for everybody who has been hurt

I’d put joke in quotes too, since it’s not a joke at all

I’m really only connected to the KZfaq side of things so I want to Thankyou for digging through the trenches as it were. You help make things make sense. 😎

Thank you for always following this subject! I found your account through the original DissociaDid drama way back in the day and have been following you ever since!

The accusation that DD gets away with everything is *wild* to me to be honest.

Engagement chitter! Thanks for the live, love! It was one of the better streams I've been at and I'll be sure to pop into the next one I can too! I hope both Bobo & Co's and DissociaDID's systems are doing okay and can finally just put all of this to rest.

God I wish Bobo would pull the mic from their face. It's so hard to listen to the mouth noises 😭

Tbh they just sound jealous AF. Literally acted like they didn't care if they got cancelled then were so quick to take it back and apologize 😂

Thank God I'm not super out as a system anymore. The community makes me paranoid.

Vangelina, I know this is strange to say, but you are literally the only person I trust to report anything on the DID community and I appreciate you keeping up to date because I just get so damn confused otl

I really don’t understand what DD has done wrong. They get tons of hate in their comment sections and all over subreddits and stuff. Bo saying all of that stuff then pulling the “but I don’t want to start drama” innocent face bs feels insanely manipulative to me. I don’t think DD is affecting Bo or their community but she’s the one causing a scene 🤦🏼‍♀️

Bobo complaining about DD having money and having expensive items comes off as very immature and like theyre jealous

Seems like a lot of simultaneous projection *and* jealousy from Bobo, honestly. One second she's getting mad at Kya for not properly looking after Kya's own littles, but then goes onto threaten Kya, which would inevitably end up hurting the littles considering, y’know, Kya and their littles are the same person. Doesn't compute. Lots of little hypocrisies like those, where she's chastising Kya but then doing the thing herself, which makes me wonder if other accusations towards Kya is stuff Bobo is actually the one doing and she's projecting that out and onto others. Also, as other people have said, hurt people hurt people. As someone on the spectrum, I'm very aware that like attracts like. Most of my online friends are neurodivergent in one way or another, and sometimes it's great. Other times, especially regarding issues related to trauma, the damage can be devastating when clashes arise. Some people, who probs won't read this comment now tbf, need to understand that Bobo isn't just some random online person to Kya. They know each other and have met in person, probably still know roughly where each other lives at minimum, and so Bobo could super easily turn up to where Kya is. That's what makes a threat so scary and credible, imo. I know we also need to be careful to not demonise people w/ mental illness, but we can hurt people in various ways whenever our issues are left unchecked. If Bobo felt righteous in "stopping" Kya, by force if necessary, then they might well have sought to act on it. It's also super frustrating that Kya is being held responsible, still, for Pinata's actions. Kya didn't know until the news dropped, and yeah, they didn't throw Pinata away completely right away but...so what? They needed time to get all of the facts, process everything and decide what to do from there. That's normal. Enough with the blame games now ffs.

Oh good! I wanted to see this part of the live only but I was busy. Sweet thanks!

"we like to know what people are saying about us" that's exactly your problem right there 😬

Wait, Team P is still on the internet? What in the actual Kentucky Fried Chicken?

Sustainable for one person is not sustainable for another. I don’t know Bobo & Co not have I listened to their content but it just seems like they’re upset about things that don’t necessarily have anything to do with them. Like Kya having a nice house and nice things doesn’t mean they aren’t struggling. Court proceedings are expensive especially when they are drawn out. My point being you never really know what someone has or someone is going through just by looking at them.

I love your nuanced and discerning assessments!

I’m blown away that people are backing bobo… do they have no empathy for what DD is going through now with Costa? And to now threaten them on the internet? This is ridiculous, especially coming from another individual with DID. I guarantee, if DD had made a video with this kind of information, bobo would have dragged them through the mud. There’s a difference between airing dirty laundry for drama and actually working through a situation helpfully for both parties. Funny how bobo just wants to forget a real threat of physical violence, but are fine calling out the stuff DD has apologized for.

1) hypocritical to call out Kya's tiktok about that commenter that Kya apologised for, then did this "joke" threat and tried to apologise for it in much the same way. 2) weird to list a content creator coming out as trans as being as cancellable an event as james charles texting a 16 year old I'm sure they meant it in a different way to how it comes across but that part of their video sucks

Vangelina, looking forward to seeing your video about Team Pinata updates. I didn't realize that they had rebranded and were still on the internet.

DID gave them a cease and dissist

Thanks for the video - I always find your viewpoints very fair, balanced and pretty eloquent too! Looking forward to future videos

Oh cool, this is the three hours, in parts. Thank you for leaving the live up a couple of days, it was good catch up time. I'll watch this too, for views and the algorithm.

I don't fully know the tiktok situation with Dissociadid, but if what Bo was saying is true, then yeah they seem to be in the wrong. However, I DON'T understand how Bo can say "Dissociadid is keeping up on us DID creators" and act upset by that and then not only admit to following Dissociadid drama, but aggressively respond to it with what appeared to be a threat. It's clear to me that this is unhealthy- like when a youtuber obsesses over hate comments and keeps responding to them and commenting on them. I understand wanting to address things you deem to be wrong, but it's just not healthy to follow things that are clearly upsetting you.

Thx for posting this! I only knew some details and this safes me hours of scrolling^^

personally i didn't like how bobo was acting in the video, it was quite triggering even when DD is triggered they are mature about it and take a step back bobo just comes off as jealous and bitter, so they obsess over ways to poke holes in DDs image just like everyone else on the reddit and kiwifarms i also just disliked how bobo constantly misgendered DD (kya&co's tiktok - which bobo admitted to frequenting - has its pronouns as they/them) as well as intentionally using their legal name, chloe personally i think actions speak louder than words, the way bobo acts on their twitter, on their youtube and also taking low-blows at kya (about their success, their living arrangements, clothing and cats) is just... so incredibly inappropriate having a discussion about someones actions in their community has nothing to do with their income or living situation i think DD making the community post was honestly reasonable since they were getting asked about the video often supposedly, i think they also responded maturely, which bobo didn't in our opinion again, i just think actions speak louder than words, bobo seems obsessed and is being hypocritical, while kya is just trying to move on from everything, they don't even talk about any past issues online unless it's contextual and tbh, the comments DD made on tiktok were too much but not really uncalled for - i know if an online stranger tried to tell me how to manage our system littles i'd be really annoyed, it doesn't come off caring like they'd hoped, but DD didn't need to call them names at all i know they do consider their tiktok more personal and less professional like their other platforms which are under the DD name, so maybe that had part in how they responded i think also DD is very private about their littles due to safety (jade once made an entire video on this) so i personally think that's another entire facet anyhow, as a system ourselves we can honestly say the drama in the DID community is just stressful and triggering for everyone that takes part, it well and truly plays into the stigma and ruins the image of our community bobo thinks they're being a knight in shining armor bringing all this up but realistically it's just shitting on top of a huge pile of pre-existing shit thinking it is getting to the heart of the issue - it's not... in saying that they seem like they're not in a good mental space and obsessing over DD is really not helping that *at all*, i hope they find some peace and stability soon it's easy for things (like their past with DD) to sort of egg on IRL issues, such as their home life and the other things they chat about in the video in our experience it (something like their bitterness toward DD) can become a really easy tool to latch onto and channel heavy feelings into it feels better in the moment but long term it's so unhealthy, we've been there and it just isn't anything but digging a deeper hole for your mental health tbh anyhow, in our personal opinion we think it's best everyone moves on with their seperate lives and focuses on the goal - destigmatizing DID/OSDD, being kind to one another, furthering research, helping newer systems feel supported, so on sorry for the long opinion, it's pretty multifaceted and we tried not to leave a stone unturned thank you for the video, it was really helpful as usual!

It's so funny to watch all these people supposedly advocating for mental health and supports and such just constantly attacking each other and doing things to traumatize them then getting mad when they do it back

DD isn’t suing her. That’s another lie.

One day more ppl will understand the absolute vilification of DD and they will feel ashamed for what they did. hopefully. idc about details. No one deserves what she went through online. and if what she said about the assault from the so called "friend".... i don't have words to explain how awful that would be considering everyone assumed she was just lying.

All I can say is Reddit is a toxic place (sometimes, unless you can find a decent one, I don’t know) and people have so many different opinions that almost anything goes, but threatening someone? Yeah. Not a good look.

I really don’t know enough about this whole thing to have an opinion one way or another but if this girl was trying to get important points out there for the first time, she totally lost everything she said by making that threat that everyone is now so focused on. It sucks for anyone that is upset and trying to make a point and it gets lost in one detail that everyone fixates on, whether or not it’s deserved

Heya, I'm half way through the vid rn! I'm ngl, I think that Bobo's remarks were disgusting and out of line. They did take accountability and edit them out tho, so that's the end of that for me. The only thing that irks me about this situation atm is the ppl who were - and probably still are - defending Bobo's remarks. I'm honestly surprised by the amount of ppl who are willing to play devil's advocate and justify bad behaviour just cause they dislike DD. I saw one person go so far as to claim that what Bobo said was "banter", which is complete bs.

I realise the irony of posting this on a drama video/channel, but this is what I posted on DD's clarification post (after Bo worried they were being sued when it was just a warning). "I haven't watched the vid or anything and if they had beef with you or disagreed/disbelieved what you say they could take it up with you. You haven't said anything against them that I've seen beyond "we're aware they have said this". I want to support/enjoy all of you, it's a shame the friendships broke up but I feel like some of it should have been between yourselves or in private group chats unless it's a "this person is a genuine danger to their community/other people and here is why" type deal. Otherwise it all becomes hear'say and fans being pitted against one another whether the people involved asked for it or not. "We stopped being friends because of conflict that could not be resolved and we ask you to leave both us and them alone regarding this" from all sides should have sufficed. This sorta thing happens in private friendship groups too but it's easy to forget that when audiences are involved and people feel entitled to know/debate on every lil thing going on between people which just fuels the flames." I'd like to add given this context that neither party, from what I've seen, in any of the dramas with the friend group, has asked fans to go after the other creator nor have they condemned it. So I don't think any party should blame the other for their fans.

Anyways, "hypothetical aggressive situation" is quite literally what a threat is. And "joke" feels like a euphemism here. Either way, a lot of this back comes down to ppl calling anyone who says sth they don't like an ab*ser, "you're an ab*ser, no YOU'RE the ab*ser" and this is not sth only happening in DID online spaces but sth I've encountered in irl activist spaces for example. Defo a sign that both parties are emotionally activated, which makes sense giving their respective backgrounds. I don't think social media is always the best place for traumatised ppl bc there is often so little nuance, which just feeds into already activated nervous systems. An activated traumatised brain will see things very black and white, with the purpose of identifying (possible) threats. Personally I really try to take things online w a grain of salt and assume we can't know the full story from a social media post. It can get exhausting out here, yet social media is also an important gathering place for disabled ppl who can't access offline public spaces as much. Sorry for rambling without a concise conclusion lol

I don't think everyone should just shrug off what Bo has said. A few people have come out throughout the years saying similar things about Kya.

But why is it okay for bobo to say, sorry, at that is not okay.. but it is not okay for DID for saying sorry for her mishaps?

Thanks for posting this, I had to leave in the middle of the livestream just as it was getting juicy.

I'd like to understand the drama but she's incoherent and I can't catch her points at all. What did DD do to BOBO?

That narcissistic smirk that Bo has throughout the whole video, just says it all... It's so hard to watch someone pretending to be "afraid" and speak their "truth", while they speak this way.

I love how you explain your human before you start your vids

You mentioned Pixielocks, I actually knew her locally years ago

Wow! That transphobic as hell comment about Nikki Tutorials that bobo made was uncalled for.

God watching Bobo is ALARMING. Skittering about, ultra accusatory, like they're struggling to put together something rational. Behaving entirely like a scorned former friend with a more popular former friend. Like they're grasping everywhere for enough straws to make US feel like their argument is valid. The repeating of "bestie" in a mocking tone. Like if someone isn't your friend, DONT mockingly use bestie as a means of talking down to them. It's a bad look. Bobo just looks more and more like my abusive former best friend. The girl would invite me out with her friends and when they were more interested in me than her all night (since I had actually done stuff in my life warranting interest) she'd be angry. She'd tell me the next day or so that "they had been talking about you but I DEFENDED you" when ACTUALLY she'd go around shopping narratives until they didn't like me anymore. Some people are so stuck up their own ass that they think they're righteous in their actions. Bobo repeatedly uses that "amped up bad friend" tone like sickly sweet with a bite. Using whatever allegations they can to imply DD is a monster. like Bobo is such a fake mental health supporter. Certainly not doing the things you SHOULD try to do when you're trying to mend mental health. My therapist would be dying if she saw this behavior. Leading with the sharpest edge they think they have instead of leading with empathy or kindness

After watching Bobo and Co's video.. I can say that they make me so uncomfortable. I can't believe anything they're saying... I take anything they're saying with a grain of salt... even their DID... They are making a fool of themselves online... the way they complain all the time (about poverty, people, ... literally anything...) they are ALWAYS 'triggered' ... they shout at their cat. ... I don't think that being online is good for them... It's like jealosy mixed with very obsessive behaviour

I've followed the DID KZfaq community closely for 5+ years now, and it's really evident that one by one these creators are showing their true colors. It's really ironic that Bobo was bashing DissociaDID's reputation while actively flushing their own down the toilet. I used to follow Bobo and Co., but I got tired of their drama and hypocrisy, and I absolutely draw the line at threats of physical violence. That's no "joke". Especially from someone who has experienced extreme trauma to threaten someone else who has experienced extreme trauma... disgusting isn't a strong enough word for that behavior. The DID community just needs to leave DissociaDID alone already. They've been your punching bag for long enough. Move on.

All of this drama aside.. I never see anyone talking about this, but if Bo is really in such financial hardships that she can’t even afford food for herself, how is it responsible for her to have a cat? I’m not familiar with her living situations but as someone who has pets myself, it can be really expensive to take care of them, especially their vet bills. Idk I might be wrong, but I feel like if DD did this, the whole community would tear her to shreds for being negligent to animals.

Bobo girl seems as if she is on uppers or something? And why don’t people communicate directly with people that they have a problem with? Instead of misdirecting it to an audience? Passive-aggressive people do that s**t! This is as low as gossip. You all are straight out instigating bullies! In comparison, I honestly don’t see anything DD every did or say that was so very wrong to warrant this at all? I see a lot of wrongs on the other ends, a lot.

Omg… this is the first of your videos that I watched in quite some time and I‘m just realizing, that I really missed you and your content! I hope that you and your kitties are doing fine ❤️

Honest question though, kya's posts are pretty much all civil and professional except when they went off and called that one user a twat, all I've seen publicly on their end has been setting clear boundaries and sticking to them, even in the braidid situation where they shared screenshots they were all civil asking time and time again for their boundaries to be respected, should they have elaborated more in some aspects yes but for someone who was clearly triggered and needed some space could you really ask that of them? I'm failing to understand how setting boundaries and not letting people step all over them is bullying. Is it just bullying because kya has a bigger platform and can hold her ex friends accountable for things they said and did? How is it bullying when they are the ones bringing everything into the public eye and having their followers go after her and when she clears the air all of a sudden she is the one at fault? Make it make sense

I also found it odd when Bobo said they were one of the original 6 DIDtubers? Unless I misheard that bit? I don't know what they would mean by that ??

I enjoyed the live stream Wednesday and i was also glad to see Bobo in chat but i also felt bad for Bobo that they were being harrassed during the live stream. I wish Bobo the best and i hope they are ok. I don't wish for anyone going through that

i dont understand the whole "she calls someone s twat but when i do it i get chased off the internet" thing. why be mad at her? why not be mad at the community for being "unfair"? it just seems like misplaced anger and frustration being directed at dd. i'm not too well versed in DID drama because i only really watch DissociaDID's videos on youtube and tiktok so maybe im biased and/or misinformed, but i think everyone has a problem with reacting instead of intentionally responding (even if they are slowly choosing their words) which led them to coming to this conclusion of dd being the main problem instead of the community? i could think more but that section really struck me the wrong way.

I understand Bobo is angry and that they have a different view of what happened between themselves and DD than DD's view of what happened. Even two people who do not have trauma could have a conflict and their views on the situation would differ. I don't think venting your frustration when you're angry and upset and posting it online is ever a good idea regardless of what the situation is or who you are. I don't blame Bobo for the harrasment they have received because no one deserves to be harrassed online but when you post about certain people/issues it does attract hate. I'm not saying Bobo shouldn't have made the video as sometimes that can be theraputic to get things off your chest but posting was not the best idea. It's always hard to heal and move past these situations especially when it's between two ex friends. As most of us on the internet weren't there no one can say for certian what did or did not happen and you can't invalidate another's feelings even if you don't agree with them. I do also feel like by looking in kiwifarms and reddits etc isn't the healthiest thing for anyone but especially Bobo in this situation as in my opinion it can only feed those negative feelings in Bobo and reopen old wounds. I think the best thing for both parties in this situation is to ignore the other and not mention them in posts or videos going forward. Regarding what Bobo has said about DD stating that they are poor I have never been under that impression. I know legal battles take a lot of money and DD has said that fighting Mr Costa has used all of their life savings but no where has DD said that they can not afford their rent, food etc to my knowledge. I feel for Bobo because economically everything sucks right now espcially in the UK where energy bills are super high and the cost of food seems to be increasing weekly and I hope that they are okay. I have not seen any evidence that DD has filed a legal case against Bobo though the community tab thread has said they wrote a letter to them so that would be a cease and desist which is not the same as suing someone. Overall I hope that Bobo is okay and is able to heal and move forward. I hope that for DD that they acknowledge Bobo's appology and they are able to move past it. No one should harrass or send hate to anyone but the internet sadly is not the nicest or safest place and some people will be hurtful. I hope DD doesn't make a video or address this situation further as it's not needed in my opinion.

Honestly, this is such a shitshow. Still, I couldn't look away.

It really does reflect her character though, regardless of what she wants to say, these actions DO REFLECT a persons character. To make a video ranting about someone else, does show how you behave as a person. I would not want to be their friend cause god only knows how she “rants” to whoever about whoever. Not to be trusted

KZfaq notifs coming in clutch

I usually just lurk but since you asked in the beginning if we wanted to get your thoughts on something... You could do a video on the whole Hogwarts Legacy boycotting thing if you wanted? It's a bit of a serious topic though (i think?) which you might not want to delve into, but I'm curious about your thoughts.

Physical assault isn't a joke. the fact people are so quick to write physical assault off as a joke is absolutely terrifying. I don't understand the hate directed at DD. Yes they're far from perfect but there's not a single DIDtuber whose not said or done something screwed up. I also don't understand why the DID community is okay with DD being constantly critiqued, questioned and abused... but the moment anyone else is critiqued they loose their shit. Also KYA IS NON BINARY!!!! the chronic misgendering is inexcusable as it speaks to a lack of respect in general to not just DD but gender non conforming people. It appears that the DIDtube community is insistent on making DD their scapegoat for everything. it's exhausting and as someone who learned about my own plurality recently, it's the DIDtube community that scares me. NOT DD

It's not bullying to sue someone who is threatening your life and harassing you unsolicitedly. DD is putting a clear boundary, that if you do not respect her she will follow her RIGHT to protect herself and that includes suing abusive jealous victim players who publicly try to defame and threaten her online. On top of that, she didn't even sue her, she warned her, with a cease and desist letter, yet Bobo is still trying to hype up her smear campaign towards DD.

Honestly, I don't know much about this drama going on, i have never followed it as I have never followed the DID community in general, just some creators and mostly DD, so well , my perspective is obviously narrow. But damn, listening to the clip from Bobo just didn't sit right with me... Maybe DD did wrong them in some way, but holy shit that tone and way of speaking was just so full of contempt.