How to Date Us 101 with Soobeanie (박수빈)

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What are your dealmakers and dealbreakers for a relationship?
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@elehagd 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like Ashley's whole high school era could make a good plot for a movie lol

@ginaverso 2 жыл бұрын

Ikr! She always has the best stories lmao

@ELmayberry 2 жыл бұрын

right 😲

@salimahadilah 2 жыл бұрын

couldn't agree more lol

@ElenyM 2 жыл бұрын

That’s high school in nyc for you 😂

@ecstaticnature480 2 жыл бұрын

fr. she got the hottest tea to spill

@bepu27 2 жыл бұрын

Harry: *Listing his rules for his partner* Me: *AGRESSIVELY TAKING NOTES*

@victoriacisneros17 2 жыл бұрын

Crying cause that’s me

@CS-jr4vi 2 жыл бұрын

WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN

@ingridalexsia 2 жыл бұрын

sameee

@awryti0796 2 жыл бұрын

Hahahaaa 👍👏

@vmateo2842 2 жыл бұрын

YAS

@meynq 2 жыл бұрын

I live for Peniel and Harry's mental breakdown as the ladies enumerates their relationship rules 😭🤣

@sinknarnia 2 жыл бұрын

they are looking a little traumatized 😅

@TheFunnymaker1 Жыл бұрын

@@ComedyGlor no the person is talking about the list they made about what they‘re looking for in a partner

@esteespimi8891 2 жыл бұрын

Love the fact that Ph-1 is so into hosting at this point that he can easily lipsync Peniel's intro, mistakes and all :D

@thebradelonge5758 6 ай бұрын

I legit thought it was him hosting at the start 😂

@mmkkika 2 жыл бұрын

i like how everyone was laughing at first about 4 of them having a child but a little bit later Ashley already talking how kid should tell “us”, thank you ph-1 for this community scenario😌

@angelleejieun1004 2 жыл бұрын

The rules segment just really showed the difference between men and women. Can’t stop laughing how concise the men’s rules are, while the girls wrote complex sentences. Lmao

@ivak8988 2 жыл бұрын

the girls rules kinda childish LOL

@dn12345 2 жыл бұрын

It seemed like the guys viewed their partner in a more fundamental and feature aspect (possessive traits) but the girls looked for specific behaviour or habits (actionable traits). Really interesting dynamic.

@tainanking 2 жыл бұрын

Basically it’s just saying that girls want to control the guys. And then the guys rules are wanting the girls to be controlling lol. It’s like polar opposites

@whenraindropsfall 2 жыл бұрын

usually I’d think guys’ requirements are superficial ie fat ass etc and girls more realist but this completely surprised me lol

@naanoou4836 2 жыл бұрын

The way I related more about the boys rules and I'm a girl lol

@regheimbeck 2 жыл бұрын

I’m low key tight how y’all skipped over ph-1’s college probation story 13:00. I really wanted to hear it 🥺😭 Great episode though 💕

@norabarlai6288 2 жыл бұрын

Yea. what's up with that?? I want the tea

@navi3430 2 жыл бұрын

Omg same! I wanted to hear it!

@lialia-qf4qh 2 жыл бұрын

Yeahh. They end up not talking about it

@seriseri3024 2 жыл бұрын

yeah lol thought I was the only one thinking abt that

@acheljin 2 жыл бұрын

Same... I was waiting 🤣

@greynana 2 жыл бұрын

"This is why i think boys and girls can be FRIENDS" i lost it hahahaha

@conniekoo 2 жыл бұрын

“It’s hard to ignore a dog” And with that, I instantly connected with Peniel.

@humblepebble 2 жыл бұрын

2:10 Christine's reaction to Peniel telling Harry that she's a fan is so cute hahaha! It's like on her mind... "It's our secret!!!"

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@san_mathfractions321 2 жыл бұрын

Is she really, though? He looks like he’s kidding.🥲

@humblepebble 2 жыл бұрын

@@san_mathfractions321 that too... Maybe she's not really a fan and she is reprimanding Peniel 🤣

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@san_mathfractions321 2 жыл бұрын

@@humblepebble with that Peniel, you’re never gonna know when he’s kidding.

@breatheforgot7581 2 жыл бұрын

I love this episode, it’s feels different from the rest cos they all look comfortable with each other. The part where they wrote the characteristics for their partners is my fave and got me really cackling at 1 am 😂

@navi3430 2 жыл бұрын

Same 🤣🤣

@tainanking 2 жыл бұрын

Well they were already all friends except ph-1 but ph-1 is good with everyone except Christine so like it just works

@ELmayberry 2 жыл бұрын

had me dying 🤣

@daracristinafernandes9108 2 жыл бұрын

I love it when Ashley's friends participate in episodes. I laughed a lot in this episode, especially at the time of the lists about partners (ph1 and Peniel's lists are exactly like my list) I feel like Soobenie and Ashley described a character from a book written by a woman hahaha I really liked

@Dowoon_is_a_drum 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to Soobeanie's stories about her curfew and her relationship with her mother, I found myself relating to them. My mom is also like that

@flywithbees 2 жыл бұрын

Do you know in what group she was in??

@Dowoon_is_a_drum 2 жыл бұрын

@@flywithbees in Blady, se was known as Tina.

@flywithbees 2 жыл бұрын

@@Dowoon_is_a_drum thank you

@tainanking 2 жыл бұрын

I mean just imagine a mom having only one daughter. Def gotta try and keep her as safe as possible. Especially considering it looks like her dad passed or something like that

@chocolatos1003 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy seeing ashley get excited having her bestie as guest 🥰

@milly9086 2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't get over how cute Holly is. The fact that she walked in well uncle Peniel was talking and went stright to aunty Ashley like 'pay action to me.' The fact she so cute and she has the best cue to walk in is priceless. Harry has the cutest dog in the world. Also dad (I'm not sure they the aunt or uncle.)

@niavbad 2 жыл бұрын

I lost it when Harry said “right, Ashley?” (14:55) HABAHAHHA i love them

@cristinec.119 2 жыл бұрын

OMYYYYY I AM LOOKING FOR THIS KIND OF COMMENT, I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT WAAAH!

@brendaperea_ 2 жыл бұрын

My sister jokingly said “OMG they’re dating” when he said it Ashley 😂😂😂

@ajihrakhayel 2 жыл бұрын

I noticed this as well then I found your comment. Hahaha I feel like they’re dating. Are they tho?

@mushroommalo 2 ай бұрын

hahaha the clowningg im dedd

@ronnilyncerujano8321 2 жыл бұрын

i like it how Harry started from not wanting to have a child to being interested into having one(ep with Tablo), and now he is setting the rules for his future child.

@merve.864 2 жыл бұрын

I'm falling for Harry in every episode more and more, this man has a different charm

@somtounigwe8160 2 жыл бұрын

I found it interesting how they were struggling to come up with rules for their kid cause this is something I've thought about: we might rag our parents for some rules they came up with, forgetting that they were probably our age when they had us, and still figuring out their lives like we are. Like how my mom was 23 when she had her first child, that's YOUNG. Obviously mistakes will be made, but it can be easy to forget that our parents were just tryna do their best. Looking forward to the next podcast! :)

@oharayoung4992 2 жыл бұрын

Lol my mom had me when she was 17 or 18 and my grandmother was 15 when she had her lol they were both young but both ended up being great parents…and back then once they found out the were pregnant they both had to get married in which they did…anyways im just bored telling my life story lol i hope you have yourself a great week 👍

@somtounigwe8160 2 жыл бұрын

@@oharayoung4992 You have a great week too!

@AstarionWifey 2 жыл бұрын

Uhhh my mom had me at 30

@somtounigwe8160 2 жыл бұрын

@@AstarionWifey Yeah I mean my mom had me at 33 lol, hence the emphasis on "probably"

@zia8188 Жыл бұрын

Same, my mom had me when she was 23

@navi3430 2 жыл бұрын

The chemistry between Ashley and Soobeanie is beaming ✨

@navi3430 2 жыл бұрын

@三木Asenath It is so cute!

@genz_fides5842 2 жыл бұрын

ASHLEY's whole life can easily be turned into an amazing netflix series ... seriously.. it's so relatable and interesting.

@dickidsrip5262 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like the chemistry gotten so good now between Ashley, Ph-1. Like its been good for a while but Harry gotten more comfortable with the host role etc. Like they all shared enough personal stuff to form a friendship. I love u guys.

@ellie1448 2 жыл бұрын

"What neighborhood do you wanna live in?" Omygod my heart-

@KP-pn6zd 2 жыл бұрын

43:24 was so relevant to bring up. It’s so true that some in-laws are really forceful and cunniving to their son’s wife ( specifically in south asian culture I feel) . Honestly, this issue needs to be addressed in like a whole episode itself and how to combat this problem. Thank you for bringing it up!

@inaayasiddiqui6380 2 жыл бұрын

omg PREACHH because im south asian and this is EXACTLY how in-laws treat their sons wife :(( its a cultural thing im sure and its fucking aggravating

@stphb2699 2 жыл бұрын

It's for sur will be a big épisode. The difference in education or any subjects are very very differents between East and Weast. For exemple, me, i understand the respect you have to do in front of elders people in Korea, but sometines they abuse their ''power'' and can be bad, or the foreigners in Korea you can see the wall they have to destroys before been accepte in the korean family. For sur some cultural things shock me in education or some other things but it's the same in Europe or usa. But like, when i watching episode of TV reality in Korea, i be like the mom come to their appartement and change what she wants and the person who is foreigners is not okay, in result '' the mom in laws is angry and you have to make excuse '', i'm like ''you serious right now ?!'' 😂

@bruh-nj5hm 3 күн бұрын

Rly? But my grandparents are just super chill and they stay out of their kids' business.

@ellie1448 2 жыл бұрын

"Right ashley, okay?" Omygod

@sickkswiftiee2409 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 😄💕

@Okayme8080 2 жыл бұрын

For real 🥰🥰🥰

@gerlietorejo4680 2 жыл бұрын

Hahahha i thought im only thinking like that 😅💗

@ellie1448 2 жыл бұрын

@@gerlietorejo4680 my heart can't take it

@MsSmilingorange 2 жыл бұрын

I felt that too oh gosh

@vivianp5805 2 жыл бұрын

harrys face when the girls are reading their list is so funny while peniels like yeah yup i already know 🤣

@cozykiinss 2 жыл бұрын

Ph-1 with holly on his lap is the most sweetest thing 😭

@kristelclarisseanonuevo9686 2 жыл бұрын

I love the rules of pH-1 and peniel since it's very general and realistic like a laid-back relationship, but ashley and soobeanie's rules are hilarous, it tells so much about girls. Love this episode! ♥

@Dowoon_is_a_drum 2 жыл бұрын

What an episode with two special guests Soobeanie and Holly 😍😍😍😍😍😍

@siriih.974 2 жыл бұрын

OH MY GOD THE LISTENERS WITHOUT THE KZfaq VIDEO WOULD BE DYING AT @29:13 When Harry says "Well what if YOUR childs or OUR CHILD brings a boyfriend or girlfriend" SURR DON'T GIVE US A HEART ATTACK LIKE THAT!

@lalisa_lia9040 2 жыл бұрын

I chocked on my water when Ashley started gosh these guys should be comedians

@sofiya320 2 жыл бұрын

tell me im not the only who got butterflies when harry asked ashley(technically them but yea) 'what neighborhood do you wanna live in?' 😭✋

@Gal_Tan 2 жыл бұрын

Same girl! Same! 😅🤪

@nrlznrl966 2 жыл бұрын

which minute is that pls 🥺

@sofiya320 2 жыл бұрын

@@nrlznrl966 at 27:20 ❤️

@noemicasillas8488 2 жыл бұрын

Yesss!!!!

@nrlznrl966 2 жыл бұрын

@@sofiya320 Thankyouu!!

@Dowoon_is_a_drum 2 жыл бұрын

My list would be: 1) Be respectful to yourself and towards others 2) Be yourself don't try to be someone else. 3) I am clueless when it comes to feelings and stuffs like that most of the time, so please if something is bothering you let me know. 4) I need my personal space and may not hangout with you all time but that doesn't mean I'm not interested in our relationship. 5) I hope we have something in common if don't we can find something we can do together. I'm willing to explore new things if those don't affect my morals. 6) Always tell the truth.

@kodzukent 2 жыл бұрын

36:52 - 37:28 damn peniel and ph-1 were sooooo silent they got nothing to say 😂 they be stressed while ashley was reading her rules 😂 actually the girls' rules are over the top 😂 but that what makes them lovable ♥️

@navi3430 2 жыл бұрын

Omg the way Soobeanie and Ashley automatically did their baby voices when they saw Holly is the cutest 😭 😭🥰

@acie9514 Жыл бұрын

Ashley looks so happy to have another girl in the podcast lol they're both such a vibe this episode :)

@ericsponytail4473 2 жыл бұрын

This episode was so good! Would love to see each host bring a friend for future episodes. Felt like I was watching a group of friends just hanging out. the ep flew by!

@ruthfour6839 2 жыл бұрын

pH-1 being a host is a blessing and that's the tea!! 😎🙌🏽

@jule12ify 2 жыл бұрын

sounds like Harry and Ashely’s household will be like the best of both worlds lollll

@nguyenvuquynhnhu2368 2 жыл бұрын

Every Ashley's friend one by one come to the Dive Studio but Rosé, i'm dying to see her appear here T_T

@kara_choreos_8128 2 жыл бұрын

I have been waiting for Soobeanie to hop on Get Real and let me say it was worth the wait. I love this episode and loved how all four of them interacted. Please have more episodes like this. 😁😁

@hopenobodynoticesthis 2 жыл бұрын

this might be one of the best fits of Harry

@minnyjyu 2 жыл бұрын

3:37 remember when peniel called out Ashley for not knowing how to pronounce c’est la vie? 😂

@reemalreem6259 2 жыл бұрын

Can we take a moment to appreciate how fine peniel is ? glasses looks good on him 🥰

@olaayupuspasari1333 2 жыл бұрын

Yeahh he’s so kyyuuuttt

@jenelynsamuel2227 2 жыл бұрын

He's sooo handsome

@alyshaj3187 2 жыл бұрын

42:10 Damn Harry asking Ashley to marry , but she straight up said NO lol. Anyways they hella cute together so imma lowkey support our brother Harry in this tho.

@chocolatos1003 2 жыл бұрын

Ash and Harry change their outfit while Peniel stick out with those lovely and boyfie material outfit that I love soooo muuuchh

@marialifeisgidle9437 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of Ashley! she went through a lot but still strong..Love her so much such a strong independent woman❤❤❤

@DeliaX 2 жыл бұрын

40:07 "THIS IS WHY I BELIEVE GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS" LMAOOOOOOOOO THAT SENT ME

@tuesday6928 2 жыл бұрын

harry and holly literally has the cutest bond

@daisy_iv 2 жыл бұрын

Harry seems to love doing the role play and i love watching him do those

@chloesalomon2913 2 жыл бұрын

I say all the time when it comes to dating. I don’t want to be your world, I just want to be part of it. Being ok with being by yourself is a big thing😌

@vivianp5805 2 жыл бұрын

i swear this episode was like 10 minutes 😩

@geekdiggy 2 жыл бұрын

49:55 every story ashley tells about the group makes me fall more and more in love with ladies' code. this is one of my favorite episodes!☺

@LifeisMelody342 2 жыл бұрын

I’d go with 49:11 though because it has more context on how soft cinnamon rolls they all are everyone can assume that Ashley was the hardcore leader but they all cry they all love each other and Ladies Code was basically the mold of how to be a strong girl group in regards to treating each other right even if things got dramatic.

@lorenaalmeida9738 2 жыл бұрын

I'm living for Peniel with glasses... yes, sir!

@tins_melo 2 жыл бұрын

Pls have part 2 with soobeanie again.. Plsss.... Felt like the talk was too short n I need moreeee 😂🤭🤭

@jessicafailschem 2 жыл бұрын

26:12 "We're all parents now. And we share the same child" That is some weird Harry situation right there...

@sofiya320 2 жыл бұрын

eunkwang precious leader 🥺💙

@inani671 2 жыл бұрын

Dating topics is never out of date!! 💖 please share more useful tips with us hehehe ☺️🙆🏻‍♀️

@Mel-oc7pi 2 жыл бұрын

26:38 for me, i wouldn't give money when they do chores because it gives the child a mindset where they do work for money, like personal gain. not just for helping out the family and the home.

@lizzy8559 2 жыл бұрын

Yessss exactly. I don't see many with this perspective but it makes so much sense. You don't get paid for chores when you're older, you just have to do it out of duty and self respect.

@maed3266 2 жыл бұрын

So true I agree

@artemis2luna 2 жыл бұрын

Good point

@hudehudeachichiwa712 2 жыл бұрын

Holly is so adorable wth! the way she greeted all the four omo..so cute

@dyraa.9876 2 жыл бұрын

Ily so much. Ash and harry, date each other already 🤧

@chocolatos1003 2 жыл бұрын

Holly seriously so adorable and can get along with everyone ❤️❤️

@gia_444 2 жыл бұрын

14:51 HMMMM ashley and harry... HMMMMMM

@nanan1295 2 жыл бұрын

Ph-1 yelling out STOP ASKING US had me dying. 😂😂

@choley8953 2 жыл бұрын

Watching Harry disassociate while the girls read their lists made my week

@sherinflaurensia818 2 жыл бұрын

Daddy when Holly appears: *smile; a proud daddy* And he's trying so calm in front of his daughter And that's so funny watching the guys' expression when Ashley starts reading her rules for her partner. OMG

@kimtaetae9800 2 жыл бұрын

Peniel and Ashley literally just exchange seats 🤣cute! .HAHAHAHHAHA

@precieuxx_9143 2 жыл бұрын

if harry isn't into Ashley then what is life?

@heyitsme5537 2 жыл бұрын

29:11 I thought Michael is gonna show up again….”Hey Ms. Choiiii” 😅

@boredom0808 2 жыл бұрын

Ayee you an OG listener

@gracechoe4598 2 жыл бұрын

YeaH!

@Buttercup8598 2 жыл бұрын

Harry's fit in this ep is immaculate

@audreyxandra 2 жыл бұрын

14:56 harry pointing it to ashley :v are they datingggg?

@dennissr1416 2 жыл бұрын

Time for teasing Peniel!!! I think he is like this because he is the maknae line. And they teasing their hyungs in BTOB often but in a good way, like a family. 💙 I think the most difficult to say sorry is that I thought that I have sufficient reasons but then I understand that whatever reasons I had, I caused trouble o hurted someone. And I have to apologize and then explain my reasons.

@trifinyallen7755 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, he is also the maknae in their friends group too

@aryelbrown 2 жыл бұрын

We better get that Harry probation story in the next podcast! 😩

@barbaramikaellamoraes8555 2 жыл бұрын

Funny how the partner rules for the guys are the bare minimum for any human being. I mean, if the other person don't respect other people and don't give you space they have problems, so for me those things should'nt be rules at the first place, you should'nt ask for someone to act decently. P.s. the synergy between you guys is on point, love the episode

@rufayda7813 2 жыл бұрын

Harry looks hotter than July in California

@thebeatsmelody395 2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that "right Ashley" 🤭 Anyway, I agree with the boys rules but I can squeeze one or two of the girls rules in there too 🥴😂

@rain-jpg Жыл бұрын

Just watched the shorts of Ashley's type list so I'm here to watch the full interview 🤣

@sofiya320 2 жыл бұрын

im not even half way the vid and i love it alr HAHAHA i love how in the first part when they were sharing experiences and peniel and ph1 were sharing men's perspective and ashley soobeanie's sharing the women's perspective and they'll have realizations afterwards is just so funny HAHAHAHA

@clementine.6.2.2 2 жыл бұрын

ph-1 and Peniel’s compatability is next level 😂

@bapfan12 2 жыл бұрын

My list would have been 1. Repectful 2. God Loving 3. Trustworthy 4. Compassionate 5. Family oriented Like the guys said: "As long as the guy is a good human being" the relationship should work. I believe that as long as you are two independent and settled human beings and you work as a team and communicate the realtionship should work.

@thehdose 2 жыл бұрын

ph-1’s face when the girls were reading their lists 😂😭

@Juli-ow5uc 2 жыл бұрын

This episode was so fun. We definitely need another girl as a host 15:40 😂

@rinnay.5515 2 жыл бұрын

Since ph-1 confirmed that he reads comments, this is just a reminder for him to stop scrolling and sleep well 😆💃

@Rhanesgotfans 2 жыл бұрын

Harry voice is so smoothing

@yourlocalfairyhere 2 жыл бұрын

I can only concentrate with your podcasts I end up rewatching everything, so it feels like a huge gift whenever we get a new ep. !!!!

@kerronwalker1589 2 жыл бұрын

I've never seen ph1 this funny before, his low-key trying not to flirt it's so cute 😊

@TPWK95 2 жыл бұрын

After 16 minutes, isn't Harry supposed to tell his college detention story?

@notperfectk858 2 жыл бұрын

I've been watching dive studios podcasts since last year and I love and enjoy watching them. 😃

@jdberja 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved this episode. I already knew it would be fun to watch/listen to from seeing Ashley, Christine, and Peniel together in their own KZfaq channels. We need Christine back for more episodes so Ashley has someone on her side!!

@sofialavapiz88 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been shipping ashley and harry since day 1 but this ep right here made me ship them more 😫💗

@lauricemaelabrador 2 жыл бұрын

Omfg! Me too!!!!

@noemicasillas8488 2 жыл бұрын

SAME!!!!

@bethr4149 2 жыл бұрын

gimme good timestamps

@hermoineeeee Жыл бұрын

unm she would drive him nuts…

@hiyniil 2 жыл бұрын

14:55 I feel like Harry and Ashley are dating and he's trynna point out sth making him uncomfortable but doesn't know how to talk to her directly :) But anyways, love their vibes and this ep is funny af.

@medico1012 2 жыл бұрын

U are not alone I actually want them togu

@brendaperea_ 2 жыл бұрын

Ohh my sister jokingly said “omg they’re dating, I know it” when this happened 😂 low key ship them 👀

@bethr4149 2 жыл бұрын

i think its bcs in previous ep she kinda implied very lowkey that she acted certain ways with her exes (im sure shes not that way anymore) and harry’s just like…ok ashley? dont be this way okay? but very subtly. love their growing chemistry 🥰

@kassandramilloroso5890 2 жыл бұрын

We didn't get to hear Harry's probation story. I listened to this last night but didn't finish the whole episode. And then, I dreamed about my cousin getting a probation and my aunt said he got Probation No. 1900 10. I googled it there's no such thing.... I think I was deprived of Harry's probation story haha

@Erii21 2 жыл бұрын

😩😂