Divorce Court: Alafia vs. Divinia

Divorce Court: Alafia vs. Divinia - Workplace Romance

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Divorce Court - Alafia vs. Divinia - Workplace Romance - Season 17 Episode 87 - Full Episode
Was a woman's jealousy the downfall of her relationship or was her intense jealousy justified by her man's actions?
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@kmiller6587 Жыл бұрын

I can’t imagine a man moving in after 3 months, being unfaithful, treating my children poorly while not helping financially, and still having access to my home, babies, or life. He was literally just a warm body that took up space and stressed that household out. It’s one thing to sacrifice my sanity, but I’m not sacrificing my children’s sanity.

@lalamaker5693 Жыл бұрын

Well said!!!

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

lol, he was her personal vibrator with a pulse and a little bit of conversation

@twin35 11 ай бұрын

OK 100% I feel you on that for real no to the no no no

@dnyce8224 11 ай бұрын

Best person for children is their parents.

@shirleyrussell7089 11 ай бұрын

SHE IS LUSTING AFTER HIM.

@desmondlester1790 Жыл бұрын

Why are these women so desperate for a man?

@vanessakenney3144 Жыл бұрын

SMH, It is something else to say the least

@veeee3247 5 ай бұрын

When men say things like you’ll die alone.

@emilyfeagin2673 11 ай бұрын

Tell me my kids ate too much? His stuff would have been outside that night

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for her, she seems to be a good woman who was desperate for a man but dudes a straight bum

@ladayaowens4665 Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry but I don’t feel sorry for her. She let this man come in and run over her and her kids. I bet her kids couldn’t rest in their own home. If she want to let someone take advantage of her that is one thing but when kids are involved she needs to advocate for them because they don’t have a voice

@valpooh7532 Жыл бұрын

Nah. It’s all on her. She’s way too gullible. Especially claiming to love a man so early.

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

@@ladayaowens4665 i believe she learned her lesson in all that, but you know how relationships go, im sure she was being genuine and thinking he was going to change his behavior which im sure he was lying and never had any intentions on changing

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

@@valpooh7532 i mean he was basically preying on her, until she got wise to his lies and mind games. Thats how i know she a really good woman and was a little desperate, most women especially black women not given no man that much benefit of doubt with as many times as she gave him.

@mariebaldwin439 10 ай бұрын

You said it lol

@highlander666 Жыл бұрын

Another pointless relationship that shouldn't exist. Ill never understand why people are willing to stay in relationships they feel the need to resort to "detective" behavior to keep. There isnt enough love in the world to make me want to start investigating someone im with, that's idiotic🙄

@TheCakediva08 3 ай бұрын

Perfectly said! I don't even need to post my comment

@NotYourTypicalNegro Жыл бұрын

I don't understand why she brought him on here if all this was going on with him. There are a lot of women who just live to catch a man in something. Go through his phone, go through his social media, tracking him... It's just ridiculous. Let the man go the FIRST time he proves unfaithful and untrustworthy.

@SpiceItUp_5150 Жыл бұрын

I like your name. 👊🏾💪🏾🙏🏾 I told you this before. 😊

@BreannaJoleigh Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@theolamarshall-bernard Жыл бұрын

Amen

@bucko4534 Жыл бұрын

Some when are just thirsty af He has that slut look

@Remember_Eden Жыл бұрын

If you are a dude, then don’t bother yourself with the why of it. Just know and accept it or not.

@shay-rae138 Жыл бұрын

she must have low self esteem cause ain’t be way no woman should be staying with no man that cheated on you and he is living in her house 🤦🏿‍♀️ On a serious note she shouldn’t bring any man around her kids.. that’s quite disturbing

@claudetteyoung9011 Жыл бұрын

OOOPPPPPSSSSS Judge Lynn ain't playing with my man 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 11 ай бұрын

Every time dude opens his mouth he tries to justify his craziness 😂😂😂😂

@dr.majidahsmith9006 11 ай бұрын

It's OK to be alone. Move forward.

@nookieham2798 Жыл бұрын

He doesn't want her. He wants a place to stay while he lives his life. That's it. That's all. She needs to see him for who he is because he is definitely showing her. Although, it may be mixed signals, he is exposing his true self.

@toniawilliams2410 11 ай бұрын

I can't stand a ninja that wants to run a household and regulate but ain't doing right himself. You out here lying and cheating....talking about how he was raised. Boy bye 👋🏾

@1234532785 Жыл бұрын

I could see through all his BS the moment he opened his mouth. Sis if you don’t KEEP HIM OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!!!! Ain’t no 🍆 that good to be allowing drama and chaos in you and your children’s lives. Let him go bum off someone else! It really is okay to be single.

@twin35 11 ай бұрын

You don’t even know a person in three damn months 😅

@lorenzosfunchannel9940 Жыл бұрын

Judgen Lynn is so incredibly wise! I miss her so much!

@bbiodun Жыл бұрын

The term for him is "Yoruba Demon". Lol! 😅

@valpooh7532 Жыл бұрын

How do you fall in love with someone within less than 6 months. She’s gullible and he worked his way right in.

@shanimorrison8730 25 күн бұрын

I did we celebrate our 20 yr anniversary this year but I guess there's different circumstances I was 16 he was 17 when we met

@hateisforlosers6116 Жыл бұрын

Ommmmg she moved him in and she had kids😮😮😮😮😮😮 these women are crazy. They arent your kids !!! And you arent married, what right do you think you have to discipline her kids.

@dnyce8224 11 ай бұрын

True

@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын

They don’t need to be together

@ruthjohnson2710 Жыл бұрын

I agree

@detroitlegacy 11 ай бұрын

No way she should’ve let this man in her home with her kids! Especially as a virtual stranger with apparently questionable morals. Any empathy I would’ve felt for her is negated by her complete disregard for her children’s well-being.

@matty7757 Жыл бұрын

How he isn’t even paying dpl and water but feels like he can regulate shower times and what lights are on

@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 11 ай бұрын

Basically he was never attracted to this woman.

@laura4495 Жыл бұрын

Yooo that 'trifling individual" comment was so smooth. I had to rewind it. 😅

@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын

Both of them need to read a book

@BREEZYM6015 Жыл бұрын

Which book?

@charlottewilliams8982 10 ай бұрын

@@BREEZYM6015 One of Judge Toler's books.

@ILOVEMUSIC2MSV Жыл бұрын

Living with Mom is surely a sign. She was desperate for any man. Why should Judge Toler have to tell her what she already know. It surely wouldn't be me.

@sandrarice4197 Жыл бұрын

Why would you want to stay with a liar and a cheater? There are other fish in the sea. She deserves better. Young woman, have some self respect. Don't tolerate this kind of behavior. It's like Judge Lynn says, never make someone your number one when you're not their number one! He's using her for a place to stay-comfortable living. He needs to be put out like yesterday!!!

@RacieRain 11 ай бұрын

What's up with these women moving in any random man in around their children and then take care of the rando. Then he's a so called business owner but can't afford his own place. Red flags. Nothing makes sense.

@JuanitaPerry-ir7bt 9 ай бұрын

All I can say is that situation was felonious!!! No matter how low my self esteem was, no way was a man living with me and my kids. I would've been setting myself up to go to jail.

@09tlong Жыл бұрын

Women let’s just choose better. This shit is ridiculous. 😮😢 we gotta know better at this point. Sheesh

@SuperSweetness1986 11 ай бұрын

Come on ladies!!! Never put up with crap just so you would not be alone!!! Especially when you have children!!! Always be careful who you are bringing around your children!!!

@cutthechicken194 11 ай бұрын

Why are these dudes jumping into anybody bed just for a place to stay? How come these dudes have no pride, in working or self respect in maintaining a roof over their heads

@CeCeMe1 11 ай бұрын

GURL....what is the purpose of you coming on the show??? You kept finding evidence and facts so what is the purpose of all of this???

@maryburke7850 Жыл бұрын

He’s lien!! Manipulator!! Karma!

@hateisforlosers6116 Жыл бұрын

That's what caused the problem, you were still dating other people!!! What is with people wanting to move in together as soon as they start sleeping together. We'll if he's a wolf in sheep clothing how did you end up with him for 2 years.

@Charles-ix5jc Жыл бұрын

Having social media almost 100% of your life isn't helping this relationship stuff either

@genesis9087 10 ай бұрын

As a mother, you can’t be moving like this. She didn’t know if that dude was a child predator or serial killer. 2 months????? Wtf is wrong with ppl. I know this is old but I still see stuff like this today. How horny can you be to endanger your house like that.

@FullofSouthernCharm 11 ай бұрын

Why are men so comfortable with moving in with women they don't know and why are women so comfortable with allowing men whom they don't know to move in with them?

@zmatthew91 8 ай бұрын

We're not. If I got to move in with you I shouldn't be with you point blank period.

@FullofSouthernCharm 8 ай бұрын

@@zmatthew91 very well said

@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын

That not. Love you can do bad by yourself.

@Afrolatinalexi 11 ай бұрын

Are women this desperate!! As Lynn's exact words he's told he don't love or like you every which way to Sunday..cheats on you and gets mad w ur kids ..Honey men come and go ..THESE ARE UR KIDS!!!😡WAKE UP

@dnyce8224 11 ай бұрын

😂🤣😂🤣. Men aren’t supposed to come and go. You’re supposed to get married, have kids, and raise the kids together. The come and go stuff is the problem in the first place.

@Afrolatinalexi 10 ай бұрын

@@dnyce8224 your right,!you suppose to find one, marry THEN HAVE kids..( who knew 😂😂😂) honor and cherish ur wife/ husband...👨🏽‍🏭

@susanrodriquez1024 5 ай бұрын

If she is a stalker??? Why would you want to be with her? Answer: the guy needed a place to live and live off of.

@susanrodriquez1024 5 ай бұрын

He has no right to discipline her children.

@anquentinwilliams2764 Жыл бұрын

I hope all the women see this guy lol.

@keishasmith379 Жыл бұрын

Both ppl are ridiculous. Why do all this checking and finding out things then stay with the person after all that. Leave or stop complaining. Its not this hard to be with someone, if it is leave. Ppl act like they must stay with someone to prove something to them. Makes no sense. Ppl are getting older but not smarter. Everyone simply needs a place to live.

@sarahjoemama1990 10 ай бұрын

I’m shocked that he admitted he just wanted a place to stay but they are all the way to this point…. Wow

@sharonewing2284 11 ай бұрын

Let him go he aint worth it. Split the business and move on.

@peacheslove3499 11 ай бұрын

He was using this woman for a place to stay

@briannoland3544 Жыл бұрын

Would like a follow up

@annamariegowithme 9 ай бұрын

She said it was " Love " 😅😅 What's love got to do with it 🎶 How about love yourself first

@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын

He cheated

@theresabeard5733 8 ай бұрын

What's love gotta do with it.He played her and used her because he needed to get out of his mamas house.Let him go.When a man shows u who he is believe him the first time.

@northern179 Жыл бұрын

How do you love a guy whose Mean with your children, firstly..pLZ

@DaniWoodson1 10 ай бұрын

God I miss this judge on this show!

@meghanwilliams4295 Жыл бұрын

Smh....ladies, ladies, ladies, please listen.

@JackJobs-uy5xt Жыл бұрын

Judge should ask her if the kids father is in their life,It don't seems so,

@jesstheromantic 8 ай бұрын

Sometimes I wish she would slow down and really give people a play by play on how they were messing up and what to do differently. When Judge is sick, she is quick to leave...I really hope they heard her.

@1234j Жыл бұрын

Looks like he done wrote a book in 2012. Called... The Guide to a Healthy Relationship 😂😂😂 describes himself as an actor and relationship expert 💩💩💩

@LeauxNBehold Жыл бұрын

Omg lmaooooo

@annaprice7276 11 ай бұрын

Unfortunately there are alot of men looking for a place to stay & alot of thirsty,lonely women out there. So it's easy for the men. #sad

@saturnladee110 11 ай бұрын

It's almost common now. Every time I meet a man. 1. Who do you live with 2. Can I come over. Pathetic.

@larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 ай бұрын

Maybe she feels that with children it's hard to find somebody and she's lonely.

@susanrodriquez1024 5 ай бұрын

Most likely.

@mearly7047 2 ай бұрын

Do not allow anyone mistreat your children

@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 10 ай бұрын

This is her fault FOR ALLOWING IT.. WOMEN NEED TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THEIR FOOLISHNESS IN THESE CLOWNS THEY CHOICE.

@ivyg4075 Жыл бұрын

Great episode

@ladayaowens4665 Жыл бұрын

I bet she stayed with him…smh….

@TheCakediva08 3 ай бұрын

Never ! I repeat NEVER EVER allow a man to move in with you! This means he is a bum! Trust me it is better to be alone!

@pumpkinpatches67 11 ай бұрын

If you’re confused about what’s going on in your relationship. You’re not in a relationship simple! You confused why he trying this person or coming from this place leave.

@CoolGirl-wf7nt 10 ай бұрын

It should be no surprise that someone that you have known only one month and move in after three months. Has you feeling a little insecure?

@carolejean8110 3 ай бұрын

He moved in after 3 months of dating, he is paying only cable and phone bills and he wants to "discipline" the children and feel about "the man of the house". Sir, after month #4 you should be out.

@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын

The young ladies, a stocker

@larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 ай бұрын

People don't ever talk cause we don't want to know the bad because we are hoping for the good.

@tonjahoward9583 10 ай бұрын

In the words of my Mother😮 "Mommy may have, Father may have, but God bless the Child that has it's OWN!"

@BlackPanther-qu2lh Жыл бұрын

This case was a waste of time

@kaponikabell1355 10 ай бұрын

Nah 3 months too soon to be living with anyone you really dont know especially with kids

@denezebootle 6 ай бұрын

Every time these people plead a crazy case where the other person obviously does not want them, Judge Toler asks, "Why are you with him/her?" The answer: "cause i love them" Listsnnn, if that's your answer, you need to reevaluate your situation. Nobody should be used or abused. I would rebut that answer with "but do they love you?".. causs if they did, they would respect you, consider your feelings, and show you better than they can tell you. His presence aggravated me, and she had the nerve to bring this turd around her kids.

@jackiwilliams9297 Жыл бұрын

Preach JT🎉

@jujubean9267 10 ай бұрын

These women are so foolish. You moving in some dude after 3 months with your kids! You can barely trust family.

@kattiethomas4687 11 ай бұрын

This session is not going to help him.

@wordplay6665 11 ай бұрын

Why else did he move in quickly with her 🙄

@sandrarice4197 10 ай бұрын

She deserves so, so much better!!! I'd rather be alone than put up with his nonsense and foolishness!!! You can't make sense out of nonsense! Ladies, valie yourself! Never give a man your whole heart. This man is so foul and trifling. He's a parasite feeding off a good woman until he uses her all up. Ladies, don't let this happen to you. Wake up!!!

@casperbrewster8689 10 ай бұрын

I have no time to track and follow no man and want💯

@kattiethomas4687 11 ай бұрын

You just got there,those are not your kids 😮

@larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 ай бұрын

Women need to find something else to say besides "because I loved him". What does that mean? What does "love" mean to you? What was he doing that made you think "love"?

@sumbynum Ай бұрын

Because they don't like to admit their inadequacies. It's easier if they say that- they feel as if they can deliver that line more Oscar worthy than the last. It's also that they almost don't realize the statement itself "because I loved him " sounds like a cliche now. (Happens to dudes too, but it mostly seems like women tho the message is the same for whatever kind of relationship)Even though this is an older video -the same rules apply. It's OK to admit that you didn't love yourself enough, Or you didn't want to be alone so that's why i put up with crap instead of leaving and bettering myself. You won't be the first person nor will you be the last... But hopefully in time people will learn their lesson and not think that they're going to be able to change the same issues that have been occurring time over and time again... belive in yourself, love yourself, know your worth, and be kind. Judge toler gives a a lot of great advice. Have learned quite a bit watching these. I'm a giving person myself, gotta good heart- all that jazz. Had to learn the hard way that not everybody is going to Go about things in the same mannerism that I do just because I exercise it. And that is okay sometimes just to set boundaries and be stern even if you got to get me if the first 9 times you're kind about it And still didn't register the 10 time you gotta be mean. I say all that to say this if you gotta go through all of that that's not really love. It's just familiarity and comfort...

@maryvillalpando5041 8 ай бұрын

She not leaving they in matching clothes...

@jessicawicks8680 25 күн бұрын

This man is a narcissist . Run lady

@midnitemoon577 11 ай бұрын

*Liar *Cheater *Uses women for x, y, z. WHY BE WITH HIM THEN??? Cheese Louise!

@naready7050 10 ай бұрын

Some women, are just too desperate to have a man, and that is why they treat you certain ways. He was only with you, for shelter. Nothing else. Just sad.

@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 10 ай бұрын

This is why BM will never CHANGE.. STAYING.. CONDONES 🤷🏾‍♀️

@highlander666 11 ай бұрын

I dont understand all this bum sponsorship,if i even suspect a guy is interested in me solely for a place to stay or similar, i avoid him altogether. "Attributes"?! Hes not even attractive 😂

@FullofSouthernCharm 11 ай бұрын

Bum Sponsorship can I use that please...

@Faeth28 11 ай бұрын

She was not rolling her eyes she was stuck , shocked in her verbal communication. Just. W cause she didn’t present herself like the other woman he did not have to treat her like that.. she was literally just thinking and shocked at the same time .. he treated her very poorly .. for all we know the other girl could have been playing herself very maturely but could be sneaky too because why would she wish her the best of luck and all that then say she hope she gets the karma that’s coming to her like wtf.

@mariebaldwin439 10 ай бұрын

He is abig lier and he close to finding another spit and She will be in wind. LET HIM GO NOT WORTH IT😮

@JackJobs-uy5xt Жыл бұрын

Hi my brother you are not their father so I don't go their, today's men don't want to be no stepfather

@Dream-wu4bn 10 ай бұрын

He stumbles all over the question about bills...cheating...no birthday gift... excuse after excuse....she can do so much better...Judge Toler said it all move forward

@cadillacdeville5828 Жыл бұрын

People have business dinners

@edwinbryson8368 3 ай бұрын

I gone back to my daughters hud love like gods tremendous family showboat bye malumula chaw daag tot zien. Aw

@sharonewing2284 11 ай бұрын

He a mess

@JackJobs-uy5xt Жыл бұрын

Shei is looking for a stepfather she is sick,

@normajean7241 11 ай бұрын

What a joke of a woman and mother..this is what you bring to your kids...she worst than him..she keeps laying down with him.🙄

@kattiethomas4687 11 ай бұрын

Gigolo!I love him??

@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 10 ай бұрын

CHILE, I WISH I WOULD 🥴🥴🥴🥴.. NO THANKS. YAL CN HAVE EM ALLLLLL.

@jo-annbastings Жыл бұрын

That broad was desperate, another one in love with love.

@CeCeMe1 11 ай бұрын

He has the nerves to be an author about "healthy relationships" lol \

@shirleyrussell7089 11 ай бұрын

A SCRUB !!! A USER JUST LOOKING FOR A ROOF over his head PUT HIM OUT. He DOSEN'T LOVE HER let him live with the Woman he is going to see. SHE talking about she loves him she is INFATUATED or LUSTING over him he trying to tell her what to do in her own home with her children YOUR not the FATHER THESE MEN ARE TRIPPIN PUT HIM OUT. He REALLY IS NOT INTO HER.

@saramartinez1296 11 ай бұрын

Sheesh i love a man to come up in my house and tell my kids how long to take a shieer especially he just using her. Grant my man whos not my kids dad steps and helps me out alot but shit hes been in my life forr 7 years in octiber and he boughht us the house for me to raise my kids let me retire early to stay home w my autistic son and supports up. But hes not going no where he said.

@larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 ай бұрын

He don't know nothing do he.