I know right!!! Exactly what i was thinking!!

She is 44 and how should she look? lol

Aphro that's what a 44 year old should look like if you take care of your body. No drugs or cigarettes

she is Beautiful! I hope I look that good at her age.

Aphro she looks her age

Bree Reid Yes ma'am and some people learn this the hard way. it seems like she gave him one too many chances. rip to this marriage.

Believe me, women know exactly what they’re getting when they meet men like this. They find it “exciting,” and overlook everything, long before they actually get in a relationship with them. You get what you pay for.

rayhend100 i didnt sign up 2 B played and cheated on.... Never that. He was a liar and he hid things and God steadily revealed whom he really was....

Yessss!!!!

rayhend100 What about his behavior when they met led you to believe that she should have known he was going to cheat on her?

that part!!

ididntreallymeanit .... right, I was so confused. Got his nerve.

Lol..dats his son 2

Thats why he's upset! He was using her now the son comes and take some of that away from him

nathaniel james no, hes my son, not his...

It seems that way but you don't have all the details

Thanks... I have recovered and moved on. I never wanna revisit that chapter in my life again...

@@sidneyhill7064 Those are all the details. You must be a cheater yoself🙄

@@sheltiahill-matthews all the details are almost never brought out just like when people assume something about you or judge you, that's all I'm saying

@@sidneyhill7064 Are we related?

nobody deserves anyone

It hurts to know that the person you want doesn't deserve you

charmaine blackman yep

rayhend100 people are deceitful period, thats why U need 2 pay attention 2 all the signs.... Nobody ignores getting plaued, just 2 have sumthin 2 complain about... Really????

charmaine blackman no he's just an idiot. Got a good and beautiful woman and he's acting a fool.

Some guys ain't the only ones that sends the rep out for him in the beginning. Women are pros in that field.

that is so true lol

Elizabeth Augusta I have an aunt that is still married to the uncle I disown because he has 2 kids out of wedlock with the same woman.

Elizabeth Augusta Correct this Ultimate lady who expresses. Beautiy elegance and class with a great sense of intelligence this is a excuse of man, He can't even express is opinion & emotions for thos WONDERFUL Lady with grow up response and he's 45 years old RUN LADY RUN the elegent judge toller express her final oppion perfectly😃👏

He is definitely a loser.

@@NadiaGirl1 Is it my Mama? SMH. I just do not understand their reasoning.

Unfortunately, Shelita did not leave. As the update stated, she is STILL dealing with that loser husband and he is not complying with her requests. How sad is that?

Nah I guarantee she nagged him. When she stopped is when he started wanting her badly.

@@psmiththeking You’re Right On It. ✔️

I nagged the hell outta him😆

@@diamondisom2602 Real talk...

@Connie Burden I love it.... He was a serial cheater no amount of nagging would have made him act right...

same thing I said he crazy ass hell she is pretty

Terrence Barnes Can't figure that out .

100% My human

Boy my aunt gorgeous but my uncle cheated on my aunt with many women. In particularly one woman who’s fugly and has 2 kids with this lady. The daughter he has looks exactly like my cousin she’s 11 months younger than my cousin which means my uncle got her pregnant when my cousin was 1 month old a baby. Dude we were visiting at that time the family. We the rest of the family found out later so this secret was kept for 20 years. Then he had a son with the same lady years later. Mind you my aunt was 7 months pregnant with her 2 child she’s 40 years old and the pregnancy is dangerous and there were risk and my aunt wanted more kids. But she’s still with his he is a rich man but I don’t want a man like that.

The Healer University Looks is only part of the equation

ItzAGirlzWorld i have thanks

ItzAGirlzWorld I hope she finds anyone who knows her worth!!!! Period!

That is how we are raised in Louisiana. IJS.

@@sheltiahill-matthews I know that's right boo!!! So happy u did!!! 💓

Right ! She is so calm and you can tell that she’s a loving nourishing woman. This dude is blind as hell and does not deserve to have someone like her because he don’t even appreciate it. I wish I knew her 😭😭😭😭

SippinTea W/ Louise She sounds like Toya Wright ❤❤

Noviia. Right??? Not the regular screaming and hollering that's usually on the show.

Noviia. so true! For some reason I feel like they could be instant friends w/that cool vibe

Nothing attractive about that slow country shit

James Smith im not country at all. By all means not slow either... Very educated and successful.

.......and she is 44 years old too

When I read that I could hear him say it 😂

👏👏👏👏👏

He full of shit...

That's that nola accent baby!

Looking for her as I type this

Fatal Wound77 its called scoliosis...

Abi Al-Fala7i lololi

Christine Rutherford she looks 24.

How did it go?

Lololololllll...

You win?

Lmaooo. Looking for any reason to play them #’s huh? Good luck to u!

My Give A Damn Don't Give A Damn, Ms. Jody

You are so right

Let go! Focus on you!

You got this... You or the decider of your enough...

If you don't let go unfortunately you're still allowing it by staying and he knows he'll keep doing it; it takes more courage 2 walk away!!

@@conniemoore4801 This was 4yrs ago... Im remarried now and living my best life....

Listen....you deserve more! I was in a disastrous toxic non-committal relationship for 12 years and had enough!!! 🥺🥺🥺I am married now to a COGIC Bishop and couldn't be happier!! 😀 It only happened after I DECIDED I deserved more! I met and married my husband within 90 days of making that decision!!! I will lift you before the Lord that He will show you your true value and worth!! We stay in these messes because we don't feel we deserve better. We don't realize our true value and worth.

Just that epic line, "He doesn't deserve me"...When a Woman finally realizes her Worth😍😘💃

I'm struggling to understand Wth he is saying. (currently watching the vid)

You right. Esp her comments about not just grabbing but romancing her. She knows her worth.

Amen

Ok but then we gonna be single moms

Speak my wise brother SPEAK!!!

Word!

@Mardarrius Morgan, you are way to young for this 40 year old woman. You ain't grown up yet, still a child. Immature and I bet you are not working for a company making $100,000.00 a year. Bet you are in college. Wait till you are 25 or 30 before you date, get your life together first. Look at this dude, he is still messing around as a married man. Just don't rush your youth. You are not old enough to carry a marriage with a child attached. Costs money to keep a woman and raise a child.

@@trekgirl65 Real Talk....

Startrek1965 I don’t think he was saying it in a literal sense. I think he was saying that this piece of work the woman was married to had done so little for her that even a 19 year old could come along and do better. No need to shame the man for being 19 lol

I'm crying laughing at that

🤣🤣

The right one has found me and I'm so very happy... Thanks for your comments😁

@@sheltiahill-matthews I'm so happy for you that a real king has found you

@@erinjohnson4273 Thank U so much... I'm so much happier now. Stay safe out there😷

@@sheltiahill-matthews I will

Snapped 🤣🤣. I guess that's why she knows to leave. He's not worth jail time at all

@@jobi-j 😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

JulySummers This! I hope she followed through on that divorce.

Nic Chole yes!

+Juliana Martinez exactly..!! u just read my mind!!😇

Susie Que just think of all the good men out there who will treat you right. but no man can love you right if you don't love yourself and respect yourself honey. hope you get the strength to do what you have to.

Susie Que and when God says move U will....

I ask the same question almost every episode.

Susie Que when its time 2 leave, U will leave, and nothing will be able 2 stop U...

a society where most of the men are raised by single mothers.

Amir Williams or is it a society where too many men abandon their kids and responsibilities.

A feminist one

Peaches Love in his case it does. He looks gross. Don’t know why she’s with him.

Peaches Love lol... ya....no

@@chrisbriscoe7138 he looks like he lives. RAGGEDY LOL

@@darknight602 no it don’t bitch

Yes she is

the projects.

Amir Williams intelligence can reside anywhere....

Contact her, she is getting a divorce 😂

Sheltia Hill-Matthews but not with this one ☝️

Aphro 😂😂😂

Aphro lmao

Aphro I thought the same

Aphro LL is older than him and makes him look like LL's grandfather. 😂😂

Looks more like E40 to me!! 😁😁

he does have a job it's called making mooey whatever it is he's making it and kick that lazy son out the houe you women are too soft

+Stephen smith -- I once listed my job as "making money" when I applied for a loan. For some reason, the bank denied my application. I think it was because I'm black.

Hang Tyme stop being black then LOL her son is lazy at lieast this men is doing some of us have to hustle for what we want now all of sudden it bothers her she's cute but full of it

+Stephen Smith -- I'm just old school. When it comes to money, I think the best hustle is a J.O.B. And I'm trying to take care of that "being black" thing. I drink only milk and bathe in bleach every day. No luck so far tho.

Stephen Smith my son was sick, and hes doing much better now. He was not the problem, my ex was... Now hes no longer my problem.

plummy221 same thing i thought lolool

plummy221 I didn't even notice that! Good point!

plummy221 Ahahah shit is real 😂😂

I cant believe he is upset her SICK son lives with her. That is game over right there. Id kick him out for that alone. how dare he say the boy needs a job when his lame old ass don't work. wow. Men like him should be ashamed. He has nothing! he should worship her, treat her like an absolute queen. cook, clean, I mean what does he do all them hours of the day? this episode is the first time I've written a comment I just cant get over this guy. his gorgeous woman can do better on her own or with a real man. I'm glad she finally sees that

plummy221 exactly! I was thinking of he says that one more time I'm going to scream!

She did herself proud. Classy, smart.

Your cousin is exceptionally well put together. She is a true definition of a real Queen. Your cousin is wife material ONLY 🗣️ so the king is coming because that's what she deserves and earned. You have a great cousin and a great woman to admire and look up to. 🍾🥂

If he said that one more time....ughhh

Thats like once every 30 seconds 🤣🤣🤣

Well, now he knows what she is saying 😂😂

simp.

Lame nigga is worried about a comment I left 5 months ago.

Its true. Amir is lame.

Lavonne Harris thanks...

Lavonne Harris thanks for your beautiful comment... I appreciate it...

Mashalloah

She doesn’t look black to me

Chiamaka Ifeoma Uzoma I though that too at 1st but looking closely...

Chiamaka Ifeoma Uzoma. She black, it's the hair throwing us off

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