Ain’t no way a woman like her is letting a dusty like that run circles around her. No Way !!

He's got a duffle bag by the door, he doesn't pay any bills.... yet she's "afraid of the unknown". SMH

If you feel temporary why hang on to him you got your answer.

I call them Backpack Ninjas because they don't want anything and they will take their backpacks and pick up with another person at anytime.

She gotta get some standards. Just look at him😎

Its him trynna hold his smile and laugh back for me

Woman, get your life for you and your children... JT's insight on her is what she needs.. Thank you, JT she needed to hear your message.

By her listening and crying, the judge spoke to her like a real mother should. And that's seem like that's her 1st time she felt a mothers love

She is already making it on her own, why is she afraid, she also beautiful

Ain’t got a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of. She has a codependency issue and she’s not putting herself, her children or god first at all!!! She needs some help!

Man I miss Judge Toler ❤️💯

Preach! The incredible Judge Lynn Toler dropped Gems 💎 I really hope this young lady believes it and stop chasing this man

The judge gave her some good advice, it’s ok to be alone, that man adds absolutely no value to your life.

As women we put too much focus INTO a MAN, seriously it’s sad there’s no way I’m gonna feel temporary to someone and still be with them. We have to keep God 1st at all times, let God lead you this is too much. She’s still married, ur bf don’t help you financially. You have to spy on him, just way too much.🙄 the Judge is right, he should be ASHAMED as a man. He can’t even offer you anything.

His funny looking tail should be kissing her feet 😂

Lol look at him, girl let him feel temporary. He looks beat 😂😂😂

So glad Judge Toller hit her with what we were all thinking... Holding on to someone who makes you feel temporary just because you are afraid of the unknown will destroy your progress hopes and dreams because you can't focus on your next level. She is beautiful and I pray she gets to a place where she realizes she is more than enough.

With all that said.......... why do you keep him around?

Dont nobody work and only can pay a light bill and food. She need to get divorced and kick this dude and his duffle bag on .

Yes, Judge Lynn gave her such a gift. I hope she utilized it. I wish I could have hugged her.

Street Dysfunctionality at its finest

Absolutely nothing to offer at all

He’s been with you 9 years and hasn’t married you? That’s saying something and far from temporary. Edit: Wait she is married to someone else? Damn!

She’s wasting valuable years of her life on a man that doesn’t value her. She should move on and live life. Idk why she’s settling for this.

I don’t understand why people waste the energy checking phones. I can’t check nobody phone that can only pay the water bill in his household

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

Judge ... It's called privacy, I don't want his password and I don't want him to have mine !!! No questions asked ❤😊❤

That dude was 31?! He looked like he was pushing 61 with black color in his hair and mustache. Did he look older to anyone else?

That poor Young Woman, you can see that she was very attentive when Judge Toler "gently" gave her a stern talking to.... She listened....I hope she's learned...

My goodness, a piece of man is not better than no Man!!

Everybody bypasses the fact that SHE HAD KIDS ON HIM! AND SHE IS STILL MARRIED!! When that happens to a man he develops his own world, lives in it and survives on what he has in his heart which in this case is “her”. They are both completely WRONG! On the flip side they need to go their separate ways.

Lmao!!!Damn Judge..get em !! Smmfh.. definitely not adding

you sold yourself for nothing..words cuts me right trough my heart.felt that JT

How can he have a temper when she's paying all the bills? Honey, I hope you are long gone from this light blocker!

Whew ion see how women don’t know when they are being used🤣🤣

You don't have him. Your wasting your time. You can't be afraid that doesn't want to commit. She is wasting her time. She. Loves her children. Worry about them. They love you and you love them . Show him thee door

Dude needs to run. NEVER get involved in a relationship WITH SOMEONE WHO'S NOT DIVORCED

SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️ look at him please! Girl! She gotta do better! And she definitely can!

She was messing with that dude

He is using her for a place to stay and hes a babysitter.

to each their own. But this right here sounds like a job. I am not going to do all of this by myself. If I have to do all this by myself, father God will handle it all, with me by myself. What doesn't come out in the washing machine- will come out in the dryer. I'm not about to ask any man, for his phone to check, & to do this, that & the third. I have learned from my past. Thank you Lord. I know everyone has a story. I do not look or go backwards. I know what I'm supposed to do as a wife, mother & stepmother. For a grown man, not a little boy, in a grown man's body - already knows what a husband, dad or step-dad responsibilities are. If you can't it's time for you to kick Rock 🪨 and I'm throwing up the ✌🏾✔️ and you cannot come back. And this goes vice versa. But to each their own.

Judge Toler that's Y your Beautiful Marriage lasted so long . U are not jealous or clinkly

Send him to the streets. He needs to contribute, as a man towards the household, bills. He wouldn't get a home, just on electric, and food.

Shes way too desperate cause i cant understand why shes with him. She has serious low self esteem.

Can we stop in I will personally empower myself by belittling their own space in their device

She needs to let JJ from Good Times go

Let him go because he's not bringing anything to the table won't even pay for the light bill and those kids living there he would not be at my table please 💅

She finally got herself a husband a few years after this.

He deserved the sharp tongue lashing from Judge Toler! If you're somehow stiil with this Beautiful Young Woman, my hope is that you made a 180 Degree turn...

Neffiteria is such a pretty name.

As pretty as she is and intelligent, she can definitely do better than him. He looks .......welp 😮😮😮😮

Toxic Trauma Bonding= A useless relationship... Focus on yourself, and your kids, Ma'am...

I like being alone been in it threw it around it and finally 10 years ago I have been alone I am quite content.

I actually don’t have any pity for these women because bruuuhh that’s so so low. You can’t let someone do that to u for so long. Why keep a garbage like this for this long waaawwuuu😮

I can't with the plaintiff, but I tend to agree with him. I don't see any reason for my husband to be entertaining another woman in our home when I am not at home AND I don't know her. ALSO, everything that she says he has done, WHY are with him?

You control me

HIM????😮😮😮…her self esteem is hella loooooooww😢

what?????? wow....

You are a beautiful young woman do not let yourself be defined by a man you have two children that are more important than just some random man you can make it because guess what man let you down but God won't

🎯

She is a game playa. He will not marry her, she is very temporary.

Both of them crazy! 🙄

I'm a fan of DC 🤩🤩

Tell Judge

get on her too ewww look at him he offers nothing at all

This kilt me. She married anyways. Like both of y’all get y’all’s life 😒

She's a beautiful, women, why does she wanna be with this, man. You can get any one you like. Ditch, him and find someone who will treat you like the African American Queen you are.

Probably??? probably buy food?!!! Boil byyyyye

Ladies stop being so desperate 4 a man that this is what u allow. I encourage all 2 seek therapy & rebuild yourself b4 bringing any man in2 your Life. This is sad.

wORD OF THE dAY: both.

She beautiful so why she's settling for someone who do make her feel.....this is the nonsense I don't like....Black women stay in relationship were they not happy but once they decide to leave and find a next man ,he get the abuse that she was receiving...Lord help us

THIS SEEMS LIKE A 1942 MOVIE 👀👀

Cheated on him while he was n the military? Horrible human being

He doesn't have no money.

Bad energy wife

You feel temporary okay yea next episode I got a migraine now lord help me

And the one thing I have to say about the lady in this case the fact that she constantly thinks that he's sleeping around with other women I don't think that at all! I think he's a mama's boy and there's nothing wrong with that.. She just wants an Apex Mail but keeps settling for somebody that's five levels below that

Why do couples, have to share their password , to phone number

I wonder how long she stayed after this show.

The big question out of this whole thing is what does she benefit from being with this man... I know what he benefits from being with her is a roof over his head probably some nice sex and the fact that he gets to be around the kids that he cares about a lot even though they're not his... She should definitely give it a man that has children already in a house of his own

There must be a shortage of men

He’s 31 y old ?

Women just waste their time why do I still try to believe they won't waste mines silly me smfh

My phone password is my business, l have my own friends who trust me with there private business. They are not my wife friends, we could be having a very personal conversation. Also l have no interest in my wife friends and there conversations. Husband and Wife maybe one in name, but no matter what we are individuals.

She is the problem

WTH wrong with this woman