poshpearls23 I would be tired too climbing mount MISERY !!

poshpearls23 i agree 100. she seems low-key crazy... her excuse is I didn't know what was going on... for everything... I'm willing to bet 25cents that she has some mental issues she is emotionally all over the place... and his won since he still gets all the time with his daughter. But don't let me get started on him

Nothing else was clearer than, I was tired. lol

RancisGamer 25cents omg lmao!!!!!!

When you are depressed and have a mental issue it's easy not to understand what's happening around you. That's why it's so important to have support, he clearly saw that something was wrong and that his family needed him or have someone to help her. The misery was his in the making.

Seen so many people like this. Mentally and practically this guy has already divorced her, all they need is to make it official but he can't even care long enough to do it. SMH.

Totally agree... Might be a sign of PTSD.

The people who are in the army/military/navy, etc cannot show emotion. They are trained not to show emotion. I watched my sister graduate from the Air Force and she did not look happy. Emotionless. I was told that they were trained to not smile, not show emotion. My bf was also in the military. He said the same thing. I also watched paternity court, there was a woman in the military and she did not show much emotion at all about the situation. I didn't finish this episode of divorce court yet though haha. I mean he could very well be done with her. At the same time though, it could be the training he had to go through.

@@brittanyyoung5874 I was in the military, and they do not teach lack of emotions for every situation. They just don't. But, being deployed to a war teaches that. You could get killed being wrapped up in your emotions out there in the field. I might've been one of those dudes had I been deployed. I served during peacetime. But, I came out of the military with my emotions intact. I think people were probably that way before they served. It just amplified how they already were.

This guy was tripping. He was angry at the wrong person & then he gives away his daughter & the dog was next.🥴

Aquarius1983 I think the same thing they both look off too me

Aquarius1983 I agree!!!

exactly.. and the judge had decided this dude was at fault before he said a word. He was in the Navy, deployed on a ship.. he did the right thing by having a stable family member care for his child. So many things are skipped over to damn the man, it's borderline ridiculous.

+J. Jnz he was not deployed when this happened with our child . out of the 4 years he deployed once for 6 months . I agree she did have some bias but most of it was true . he was not deployed when we lost custody .

Nancy Pikul it still freaks me out that people from this show actually respond to the comments. Don't mind us here in the peanut gallery, we are just reacting based on the information presented. We only get a few minutes of a produced show to form our judgments. Don't take any of this personally.

Women are socialized from girl hood to take care of others and support others. Can that be said for boys?

@@rosej5029 I believe in some socialization but I think a lot of it is biological tendencies. There is a reason why 'nurturing' jobs like childcare, therapy, are women-dominating. I think women 'naturally' care more about other people's feelings, have more emotional intelligence, etc. Men tend to be more selfish.

@@NaomiIsSoAwesome98 my mom got sick a few years back, and it was just me, her, and my brother. I ended up quitting my job to be her full-time caregiver. My brother got mad that I would not put her in a nursing home, and he has cut off all communication with us for four years. I don’t want to be a nurse or caregiver. It’s not something that was ever fostered in me and I don’t enjoy it. But I love my mom and will do whatever I can to take care of her. My brother, on the other hand, loves himself. He will do whatever he can to take care of himself. I know not all men are like this, but it seems like men are, in general, more self-centered than women.

Tasticks526 I learned this the hard way. Leave him!

Wow! That last true statement hurt my heart as a woman. Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you twice... Powerful and hurtful. I like it!

#tolerisms

I got post partum psychosis and this same thing happened to me. CPS told me I will not get my son back and the judge backed CPS because they lied to the judge. My caseworker was my seargents wife. The CASA worker later on told me that the caseworks get paid per child they get for the more kids they take.

Wow, @@sarahleroy465 Can't believe this crap happens and that the hospitals are in on it. They know what happens to new mothers, yet they call in those jerks to take babies away from their mothers? Something is twisted & wrong about that. Jesus, take the helm.

very much so

AJH 723 My thoughts exactly. This is just weird.

He's a weak husband. Woman habe hormonal issues after pregnancy. Our hormones are spiked for 9 months all the way til the point where we are considered legally mentally ill. Then they spike again at birth to help with milk production and labor. Then the hormones levels lower over 6 to 3 months.

@@brishaberries0101 years.

He's evil. He wanted to destroy every trace of her. He labelled her crazy and had help doing it

tiptip7 most white people cases are everywhere

Natalie Brown-Brewer * Sounds like their marriage is in a Pikul.

Lol, you reminded me of that car commercial 🤪😂😂😂🤣

Should I be laughing at this comment? Lol... Had me rolling though. But I agree come on man I was on your side somewhat until the end and you kept the dog. Lol... Something is wrong with him. Well both of them. But great comment. Lol

Brandi Miller i was being silly but i was shocked after he didnt follow the ruling

Tameisha McGruder I know, but it tickled me. I guess without knowing you I could imagine your facial expression behind it. Lol.. But he's mentally sick and unstable. Something's wrong with them.

The dog should stay where the baby is.

Thats because hesna total d*** head

sunshine73308 probably because they're still in court. And a careless statement might be costly.

Farrah Array I disagree....she was completely nuts and he got the child away from her...she wasn't in any kind of reasonable state to be consulted

Beast Lee He was not rational nor considerate. It was done out of malice. She was suffering from postpartum depression. He could have gone about it another way. He's like a robot...he does whatever his mother tells him to do. He's nonchalant and as u can see, he refuses to give her custody of the dog? Why? Because his mother is in his ear. He's a grown ass man operating like a 4 year old.

It seems that everyone is excusing her behavior and his is being scrutinized.....I am not gonna say what his intent was....I can't say it was maliscious.....I wasn't there I am gleaning from the situation....it seems as though he did wjaybhe thought was right at the time because of her irrational behavior...I have to respect that he was in unfamiliar territory and reacted as best he thought

Beast Lee ....I don't excuse either of them. They've been reactionary to outsiders. It's time for homeboy to let go, pure malice are their actions. Neither of them seem to be concerned for their child.

MaGritte McMaster to me he seems to be the one concerned...he got the child away from her and was double crossed by a relative but is still living the child ..same kinda thing happened to me as a kid...my grandparents adopted me to help my mom and themselves.....adopting me made me eligible for an SSI check that they were gonna split with mom and when I turned a certain age they were giving me back to her ....they didn't even though my mom lived with me from time to time they used the law against her...there was nothing she could do legally...he is in the same boat...my judgement is based on experience....also experience being married to an emotionally disturbed person....she is like my soon to be ex wife...she can appear normal or even like a victim but she is really irrational and unreasonable she is just very good at hiding it ...but for a little while..sooner or later ppl soon see she is unreasonable and sociopathic...I just had to leave ..like the dude said I was just tired...everyday was a conflict....if Ib was 15 mins late getting home I'm cheating..if another woman walks by I'm staring at her and she is ready to fight....if things don't her way she throws fits and makes threats.....so like me he left to live with family until he can disassociate his name and things with her...I can come off as cold him because one wrong move and she will use it against me ..If I express any kinda frustration she will use it against me ....I can tell she put him through the ringer and he just has nothing left ..like me....I am JUST getting back to feeling human and it's been almost a year

I'd say! Omg.

Marie Butterfly she looks old too I can’t believe she’s only 32

Ya but what do you look like without that hair hat and loads of makeup?!?

Stocking Anarchy why is no one talking about how their last name is pronounced like pickle

That military life is not easy by any stretch! I definitely understood Nancy's statement about losing her identity this can happen when your married to the military! also if you the spouse does not have a Friend or Support Group your world will be cold & lonely place even with kids. and don't even get me started on when a deployment rolls down the line. lol / smh

I agree .

;~``~; I was in the Miliatry...IT'S ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS I'VE EVER DONE!! I was young married to an "alcoholic abusive selfish person"..The Military are for the Soldiers and Family Members are 2nd!!!! He knew that!!! He is an undercover Vindictive Unpredictable person!!! YOU KNOW THIS!!!..He has no regard for you!! You helped him have a LIFE!! UNGRATEFUL HE IS!!!..The Military can take a toll on Marriages...High Divorce rates!!! Get counseling, Get yourself together, Find a tough woman attorney in your corner who will do your case PRO BONO!! FIGHT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND LEAVE HIM ALONE!!! ANDDDD GET YOUR DOG!!!! He's emotionally UNFIT...AND YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!! BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER!!! AMEN!!!! YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!!!! SMH!!! SADDDD HEARTBREAKING SITUATION!!!! STOP BEING NICE TO HIM AND DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET YOUR DAUGHTER BACK!!!! HIS FAMILY IS UGLY FROM THE INSIDE OUT!!! THEY TRICKED HIM; HE TRICKED YOU AND YOU CAN'T BE NICE ANYMORE!! GO FOR IT!!!! DOCUMENT VIDEO TAPE EVERYTHING!!!! KEEP A JOURNAL DATES/TIMES!!!! KEEP YOUR COOL NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS TO SHOW YOU ARE MENTALLY STABLE...COUNSELING WILL HELP YOU WITH THIS!! SHOW THE COURTS YOU ARE STABLE!! GET A PLACE TO LIVE, FURNISH IT, GET A ROOM FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND START A HEALTHIER WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM. YOU'LL LOOK THINK CLEARER AND FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF!! AMEN!!! TAKE CARE BE WELL STAY STRONG SAFE AND PROSPEROUS.. DO THIS FOR YOURSELF AND MORE IMPORTANTLY - YOUR DAUGHTER!! GET A DIVORCE AFTER YOU GET STUFF IN ORDER...JUST DON'T TELL HIM ANY OF YOUR PLANS ANYMORE...HE'S DONE!!! NOT EVEN A GOOD FATHER!!! DON'T LET HIM RUIN YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTERS LIVES BECAUSE YOU TAKE HIM BACK!! HE'S NOT GOING TO CHANGE!! YOU'LL BE SORRY IF YOU DO!!

No, she lost her daughter. The guy is living with the family member who has the daughter, so he didn't lost anything.

Tekishia Chambers and that’s all he needs to care about, he doesn’t love her so he shouldn’t have to. He’s probably MUCH more responsible than her, and kept the child AND dog because of that. She’s very immature and is still angry over their marriage, she could do anything to that poor kid.

MdniteEagl she also needs to lose weight

Why 🤔 doesnt she need the dog

Dream Queen we were married and together over 5 years before I got pregnant . Thank you

Hes just an uncaring unfeeling waste of space

She sure ain't missing any meals!

I can't th1nk of A b3tt3r name Nah I like Tommy

I can't th1nk of A b3tt3r name 😂😂😂

The most annoying episode ever.

Well said. They are messed up as one. I think there was a lot more to their story than told especially about the hospital. I think she is off mentally and got hot headed at the hospital locked herself up being a Bratz and caused chaos even threatened the staff amongst other things. So that's why CPS was going to step in and he had to make a decision quick which seemed to be the only logical decision he has ever made. I think that she didn't do what was needed to get her daughter before anything became finally. And that's real. The system does NOT want to take children from their mothers, period! So for the judge to make that decision it was a concrete reason. And they just didn't say. Something is wrong with them. I feel bad for her though. I hope she gets the hell she needs mentally and emotionally so she can live life pleasing to herself and get her daughter.

RancisGamer wat is airbnb

Venessa Lovero airbnb is a service where people rent out their homes for a few days for a fee like a hotel but cheaper. It doesn't make sense because she said she is homeless and broke so she can't rent or rent out as a landlord or tenant. And it would be cheaper to find a long term low income house situation. Unless she is renting a box out the back of a trailer from the trailer park I don't get it.

RancisGamer thanks alot

Missed court dates

Gwen Scott hmm🤔 I was thinking that. With both.

Gwen Scott he's too unfeeling to have BPD.

the only bit of emotion I saw was when the Judge gave the ruling of him losing the dog. The guy could just be a sociopath (not capable of empathy)

Y’all sound dumb, and are not licensed MH professionals. There are no sxs of Borderline Personality Disorder here. Read a DSM.

I have BPD. Nah. I wouldn't say he registers on a level with someone who has it. I'm not a doctor but just my opinion.

Lisa Liu that was hilarious

khristle floyd yea and whatever it is he didn't seem like he wanted to tell it for her maybe he he purposely acted like a jerk so she wouldn't come off so bad or they both covering up a lot could be possible

did you get custody of her?

Well thats a real joke

Debra Ward you have no idea what you are talking about . What you know is hearsay. I would say what I really think but I am not about Low blows . Please do not judge . Nobody knows our marriage better then us . I know where you got your information and trust me it's not from a person who is entirely innocent . Worry about your own family. Thanks

I was not disowned by his family prior to the marriage his mother was very close to us and we are working on repairing our relationship. Me a frank are also back together and are doing well everything that happened as pertained in the show was three years prior . We did the show with the promise of counseling and for other reasons . I shouldn't even respond to this but I figured I would clear the air . All that happened was a least a year prior to the show and it's heavily scripted . We are happy and very much together . Thank you

Wenneisia Jones his only mad because he wants out and she doesn't

Lol, I know right? He wanted the dog.