It was actually 6 days that’s why I lost the case cause that wasn’t made clear enough

Yeah buddy would have come back home newly single

If you both are actors playing out a skit, that was a good skit and resemble real life occurrences. If not, I wish you both success and love.

​@@JohnRenaissance😮😢😊😊😅

@@JohnRenaissance 6 days, 6 months. No cruise 🚢 ship is at sea for that long. There are ports that they stop at so he could make a ☎️ call. I hope she is really done with him.

Good girl

I'm HAPPY FOR HER! STAND YOUR GROUND SIS

Right!

See why beautiful black women all way want a pretty boy get you a work brother you no this is reason we lose are beautiful Queens to white boy and other this coming from a black man be looking for a Black Queen all my life and I live in ATLANTA

Long B4 that‼️ That was hardly her first disappointment with him. And, after 5 years, he's still not sure if he's the one.

Girl, even before that! You just leave for two days and gone six months? Nope!

@Traci Draper yup that part!!! And we all know he wasn't innocent on that cruise, which is why she was only invited once and coworkers think she's his sister! He might have a sister but is her name Angel?! He's still immature. And they leaving court- he talking but are you gonna do me like that..I mean yea..you already did...

same

@@drapertraci7 😂

I agree Meghan

Exactly 💯

Touche!!!

Amen.

Fr like how else do you need him to tell you, he’s just not that into you.

I felt that too... woooow

I love when she drops that one

My daughter's dance instructor references this quote!

Who are the single mothers in the screen at the back cheering for the girl??? how about they put men there too??

@@TsarOfRuss men have to register to become part of the virtual audience. I do see men but there are more women. It comes down to who applies to be part of the audience.

Thank you!

@@angeldequen1211 your welcome 💛. You deserve the best! Yes we all do, but your personality and attitude is the best. You are a real Queen. Bless you so much 🙏💕

When a man is ready, you will not have to ask him to do anything. He will do it!! From day one the man that became my husband, was there for me & his actions matched. It has nothing to do with you, he’s not ready!!

Angel deserve better he not ready run . just saying 😢

This the one frfr 💯

Must be an Aquarius male 🙄

😂😂😂😂right!!

read him for filth 😂

Lmao

That's gonna be me but I'm the equivalent of Weird Al Yankovic. 😂

😂😂😂😂

Way... too long! One year. See that dude with his family and friends, your family and friends, at your jobs, in stressful times, happy times, church, shopping, and go to marriage counseling. Never a man who is away. If that is too much work, just make yourself the best you can be. ❤️❤️❤️

Lol that box couldn't have had nothing but a pair of boxers in it

Thank you 😊

Wasn’t she! She cut him off at the pass every chance he took to lie.

He was just using her as a place to stay when he got off that cruise

I can’t believe the judge said that.

At

Then that right there is the problem. If their is something that is making you question whether or not you can trust your man then he shouldn't be your man.

@@Tonnnnia 100% correct...If I have to guess/wonder ...you are NO Longer my man!!

yup agreed

Agree... secret life written all over that

She didn’t coin this. But yes, it’s powerful.

Yesssss

Hey it’s john from the vide. That was actually the biggest miscommunication. I was gone 6 days not 6 months lol or that would be very shady. Have my own place in Chicago. But nonetheless she was right I wasn’t exactly ready for a commitment that big. And we’ve spoken and made amends. She’s a great girl just want on the same page and I apologize for wasting time cuz I know she is older

He doesn't appear to have any redeeming qualities; very much a stereotype. But sis has to take accountability for allowing such a dummy to continously devalue her! How many times does someone get to tell you they don't want you before you get the message! He's not even a good catch!

Don't feel pity for her she handled him like A Woman she took all her power back on this episode and had him begging her in the end!

Men who want to marry, marry. There’s no prolonged periods of uncertainty that entails years. Women need to discern this early and set a limit on the relationship from the first month. Let them know up front, we are not dating for 3 years without a ring at the end. A man who wants to marry will marry you in 6 months to a year of dating.

There’s also a difference between an ultimatum and setting boundaries though. A while into our relationship (my husband-bf at the time- had already been talking about marrying me for months off and on), after a year and a half of long distance overseas, I told him that I wasn’t gonna keep doing it for much longer because I knew without a doubt I wanted to marry him and if he wanted to marry me he knew by that point too. I told him when we started dating that I wasn’t going past two years of dating without a ring because it doesn’t take that long to know if you wanna marry someone, and i was looking for a husband, not an ex or someone to wast a soul tie on. When I brought it up and reminded him that that was my boundary, he was perfectly accepting of it. Didn’t feel like it was an ultimatum at all. And now we’ve been happily married for some time. People mistake boundaries with people trying to be controlling. There’s nothing wrong with saying if this isn’t going there then I’m out 🤷🏻‍♀️ Women need to learn to stop being so patient with men saying it’ll happen when it happens. They know pretty early on if they wanna marry us or not. Allowing the drawn out crap is basically women hurting themselves. Can’t even blame it on the man at that point cause he already showed you how he felt

She is not a loser. He is. She was brave and determined enough to bring this whole relationship situation to court and be done with him. My respect for her decision to move on from him--the real loser..

@@faithwdeng absolutely sista. I have no problem with that. Even though my ex and I didn’t work out for other reasons, I respected the fact that on the first 3 dates she laid out how she wasn’t going to date me past 3 years without an marriage at the end of it. Nothing wrong with a woman laying out her expectations of the man and Vice-versa.

It's because of the "aesthetic." They look good together so she's telling herself that they'll do well together

Thank you for having common sense about their situation. Instead of talking down on the young man.

And what I know goes on in cruise line she needs to leave him

Amen..not rocket science

So true

Well written 💙❤️🤍

His face looks familiar to me like, he was on Divorce Court before

After 1 year with no definite plans, she should've moved on. He's playing with her; wasting the time she could've been with someone else that actually wants her and has time for her.

My daughter is a Libra too

She’s actually an Aries. I found out because her birthday is right before Diana Ross, who I’ve loved since a little girl lol. But yes, I have libra friends and y’all very much do operate in what is fair. That’s why we get along so well.

He was untrustworthy since day one.

@@theedspage indeed he was!!!

I heard that!!! Mr. Excuses!!!! I was like no way!!!!

A bum

😂

Yessss!!! I was like wait a minute 🤔!!! Because according to the ages Divorce Court put up they are only 4 years apart. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@TheeMichellesMind it could be that common core math again girl. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️.. Imma just mind my business 😶😶😶👀 👀

I thought I heard her say 6 years as well. I was so confused, I started counting on my fingers. 😀😀

@@minkki5656 no but Frfr.. Same!

Thanks

@@angeldequen1211 your very welcome

She really is. Terrible she allowed such a bottom tier dude to make a clown out of her. Like get your priorities in order lady! Could've spent these years expanding her horizons! 🙄

​​@@brooklyndecember Love blinds. Better late than never. 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏾💃🏽💃🏼💃🏻

Thank you

Thank you! Got it at Akira

Thank you !

@Angel De'Quen hold up. Is this the actual Angel from the show? If it is, girl, I hope you take my advice. You deserve better. Leave that trifling ass negro where you found him and do. Not. Look. Back!

@@andimproud yes it’s me …and no we are not together 🙏🏽

@@angeldequen1211 good for you, girl! Live your very best life!

@@andimproudLiving your best life is the best revenge.

He’s 28.

Right?! The math ain’t mathing 🤔

Or a woman says.....

Thank you! You too!

When a man treats a woman so deceitfully and disrespectfully, a woman's anger can build up to a boiling point. I would hate for him to marry her because his life could be in danger.

Thanks!

I’m not 😂

It's all going on Below Deck.