Although it is sickening, maybe the age of consent was 16 in the state they were in. Laws definitely should be changed

@@SymonnePat Age of consent for 16 and under vary for sure. In some states, the age of consent is 16, but there are sub laws to it. Like in Utah, you can legally consent at 14 as long as the person is no more than 4 years older than the 14 yr old. But an age gap like this with a 16 year old? I couldn't do it. And that's coming from a woman who met her soul mate with a 20 yr age gap... But I was _32_ when we met and he was 52. Strange to some? Maybe. But I was a fully grown adult. I would never at 28 years old sleep with a _child._ Age of consent or not. But, I'm also one of those people who are slightly hypocritical when it comes to younger women and older men. Entirely depends on the age of both, the situation in which it happened, and is there a power difference. Most people assume because my sweetheart was 20 yrs my senior he was somehow in a position of power. Depends on the person's maturity all around in all aspects. So basically... I believe each case is it's own unique case in which I'm not to judge. Just something I wouldn't do myself is all. 🤷‍♀️

Came to say this. Age of consent or not 12 year difference on a 16 year old is a predator

@@ebonij1985 Agreed.

@@ebonij1985 I guess as an adult woman, I can only go by my experience. And at 28, I had an 8 year old daughter. As a mother and adult woman it disgusts me more with much older women with younger men. In this case a child. So, like I said, I'm a bit hypocritical. But when I had my 20 yr age gap we were both grown adults well beyond 25. When our prefrontal cortex is beyond fully developed. I have less of a hard time with that. A child is a child. But there are many cases that need to be looked at individually. Some young women and men are way more mature than their same age peers. I was one of those and so is my kiddo. As people have said to us both many times: "Old souls." But there are still lines that should not be crossed and man or woman, 28 and 16 is just not okay. 🤷‍♀️ Totally agree.

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Truest statement ever.

He also said they met when he was 19 or 20 soooo someone is incorrect. Nevermind that sorry but 16 is legal age.

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@@life.with.too.many.animals9411 Android no one

@@judithbackward.5269 what does that even mean ? That makes no sense in reply to what I said..

I'm druuuuunk because of your advice lol hahahaha

I'm destroying my liver.

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Drunk like a skunk

On me

I concur. She fails to address predatory or pedophilic behavior. Very disappointing

I agree. This isn’t the first time I’ve noticed this!

She cant rly do that because he is innocent until proven guilty and that could be a major defamation claim if not true got to know ur laws before judging

@@richbabe7836 She cant rly do that because he is innocent until proven guilty and that could be a major defamation claim if not true got to know ur laws before judging

@@misslc7864 She cant rly do that because he is innocent until proven guilty and that could be a major defamation claim if not true got to know ur laws before judging

I have to back track when he said I was graduating high school

He said she met me when I was 19/20.

She should get arrested

I def had to start over after he said graduated high school i missed the ages initially...i had to do the math like wait a damn min

@@barbararoole4000 People clearly don't listen

The New Jersey Age of Consent is 16 years old. It's not morally right in my book but it's legal in NJ.

He said he didn't meet her until he was 19-20. He just graduated late.

lime light nah when he moved in he was 18/19 just graduated high school ... the baby was 2 years old then... so he met her before ... I’m thinking sophomore year? Age16/17... which should be 16.... or even 15 years of age for some people 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Kia Lii He says at 17:00 they met when he was 19/20

Toni-Ann when I commented I heard it right after I was going to edit it ... and say they gave two different answer ... so I understand now .. so yep at first he said he didn’t have a place just graduated high school.... that time the kid was already two... cause they reconnected when the baby was two... then later I heard it... they met when he graduated.... so lol one is lie😂😂😂 and I believe they met when he was15-16... but idk them so I’ll never know😟

I never understood. For me once u cheat u gotta bounce because i deserve loyalty

Because sometimes we think ppl can change. Or maybe the love we have for them will guide them into change. Low self-esteem also plays a factor.

I think it has to do with low self esteem, you think nobody else would be interested in you. So you settle. Everyone should know that they can be traded, if it has to be necessary, in the relationship.

@@FollowPickMeekPodcast you got it👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

So many factors - Time, love, self esteem, why did it happen? Investing time into someone is a lot of energy and sacrifice. Many people don't want to spend or feel they have the time or energy to go into another relationship, so they try to repair the one they have.

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I wish it didn’t bother me 🤣 cus I really want to finish this episode haha

He said he was 18 or 19 when they first met.... Reality check: she had no business messing around with any man 12 years younger!!!

She just foul

@@Nicki1969able I don't think he is right about that because she said that they met 10 1/2 years ago, that would make her 27.

@@nicolea5796 ohhhhhhh okay.... Foul 😳🤔😟

You know???🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂

🗣🗣🗣 facts!

No

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Me to hahaha 😂😂😂

Now i am walking around the house talking to myself saying Irena you know. Yea i got to eat you know. Then wash my hair you know. 😂

You know?😂

Irena Deacon Henriquez 🤣🤣🤣

And her with the "um...um...um" 😂😂

exactly! she was 27 and he was 16 when they met. she didn't reach out to him after the pregnancy until the child was 2 because he wasn't even of age!

Some states age of consent is 16 or 17.

Raygen Travis that doesn’t mean it’s right

Raygen Travis yes, that’s common knowledge

Mya L Wow

she was a grown woman with a teenager in high school! WTF? how about birth control? my goodness

More her than him

@@tyshanwright1890 oh, for sure. I don't really blame the kid, he's a stupid teen, he can have a crush on a teacher, who haven't at one point or another. It's still of course irresponsible to have unprotected sex, but she's a grown ass person, she shouldn't even think about him in that way, let alone have sex with him, let alone yet again unprotected sex... What's wrong with people.

You wrong😂😂😂😂

Lmmfao 🤣

Rochey C love your videos lady

Hahahahaha

Exactly!

She is a very good looking woman to this day and age

I still dont know lol 🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤣

She does indeed

Yep...she even do her mouth like queen Latifa

she favors Monie Love a Lil

Don’t insult Queen Latifa lol

She gives me baby d vibes

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Jasmine Elise love your videos

I've always been with ladies who were years over mine and we had more in common than every woman I dated my age.

He couldn't remember her because they only had a one night stand 3 years before meeting again...mind you he was an underage kid and she was in her late 20s also she gained a lot of weight, I would've been surprised if he did recognized her

Christine Owori she was a one night stand he wasn’t suppose to remember her

True i mean if u can't remeber people u slept with then it tells a lot 😂🤷🏾‍♀️

Metrii Whit I love New Jersey

He wanna know if you know 😂😂

CapAquarian Cancerian you be dragging your stories out like this🤣

😅 Same...

Coolkidz Media i do thooo

That was driving me crazy!!!! The stories wont even makin sense

Ikr

Ursula Dean seriously! I was wondering the same thing

@@rhiannabrittany13 I have a 14yr old son I feel the same way about my 16yr old daughter I wish a one would man or woman

I’m really hoping ged later in life. Not a teen...

Yesss 😂

Lol me too

Girl I was like..... Um.... Not her letting this man handle her daughter like that on her first time meeting her dad.

Yea.. He has a hard face.. She probably never asked his age when they met..

Maybe because is divorce court, not criminal

@@IraRochaa 😂😂

Period

Well it takes two to tango. It's never one sided fault

​@@IrenaDeacon It is when you're 12 years older than your partner. There's a reason life experience is very important to growth.

@@roslynhawkins1475 she never forced him. He never forced her to be together. They chose their age differences 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@IrenaDeacon That's great she didn't force him. It's also not the point. 12 years, especially when the younger partner has no life experience, is a lifetime. There's something wrong intellectually and with the level of maturity of older adults who get into relationships with people who've barely crossed the threshold of adulthood. The younger partner wants a new parent figure and the older person is surprised that this very unexperienced young person doesn't live up to their expectations of a partner. My 11 year old can cook a few things, that doesn't mean I would leave her alone in the kitchen and expect a four course meal for dinner.

lol

She is taller than he is,so at 16 what was the attraction. He's not big so unless he was a body builder back then she was attracted to little boys. Did I get that wrong.

@@karlgabriel2861, nope Karl!!!

@@karlgabriel2861 lol to each their own hahaah i am 34 and do u know how many 18 to 20 year olds approach me (they think i am younger). Nowadays age is nothing but the number and my husband is 8 years younger than me. Does that make me a perv ? No. Some men love older women and vice versa. Honestly I'm fine with everybody's choice as lomg as it's LEGAL😁🤷🏾‍♀️

@@IrenaDeacon NOTHING wrong with that,unless you started the relationship when you were 25. Even then you may have been mentally and emotionally compatible because some people mature quickly while others do so at a snails pace and then some are stunted. Those are just a few of the variables. I know some 40 year old men who are small statured and goes after very young girls not only because they can but because they are too lazy minded or afraid to approach women in their age group,so they choose to believe the young girls are attracted to them. IJS.

Theres no challenge involved in being a gigolo. All you need is a total disregard for your own body and health along with a dangerous thirst for money. A gigolo would sleep with anyone as long as they have something to gain from it.

She hooked up with a 16 year old boy. This is what happens.

@@shantelnate He said he was 19 when they met not 16

@@JuicedUpLemon true

@th1smomentisfate nobody changes that fast🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️well except for Kardashians and few celebs lol

Love this comment!

It is. And they birthing desperate, trifling males to keep the cycle going.

Agree.

That was a plot twist for sure: after reading everyone’s comments of molestation 🤯

He's covering for her. He was definitely a child when they had sex. When he said he was 19-20 I think he was referring to when they saw each other later after the child was born.

He was definitely around 15/16 when they met the first time. He said during the case that he is now 26..he graduated at 18 which is around the time that they met up the 2nd time. She had already had the two year old daughter by him. Which puts him at around 15/16 at the time when they initially did the thang..maybe even a little longer because we still have to account for at least 8 1/2-9 months of pregnancy..

Lol kinda sex hahaha

Yolani Vyolani she needs to start Skype couples now, do her own thing online 😌 I admire this lady

@@chantoldixon6773 me too it's like her advice is grooming me everyday

I like that you asked that question.

Yeah ppl not peeping that😂sis is a certified stalker. No way in hell that they were both there by coincidence.

Briaunna Birdi she says “umm” every sentence and he says “you know” every sentence. Hard to listen to for very long

Truth

Danielle CL I think some women like to be “caretakers” and try to control the situation. All she’s literally done is helped him stay dependent and NOT grow up through learning to fend for himself and actually DO SOMETHING with his life:

@mxlbabe he has said that he was 18 or 19🤷🏾‍♀️and yes if it was different i would say the same im not a hypocrite

@mxlbabe it ain't right if lady or boy are under 18. Above 18 it's legal

I got no idea YOU KNOW? 🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂😂

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