Shame shame vlad, more great men under a mil than over. Bad metrics dood. No intelligence of life exp in that comment

Nothing new tho

That is a constant. Women love valuables and Kids. Men love wife and kids. Hence Men love unconditionally. Women love conditionally.

@@healthnurture8025 damn...

@@healthnurture8025oh please. Stop the lies. Men love on the condition of the woman looking hot and young. If the best wife gets fat or sick, men are statistically more likely to leave. Men have entire families on the side and you come here thinking they love their wives unconditionally 😅

Women are only with you based on what you can do for them and how you make them feel

Women have saturated the job market after they started working, unlike when Vlad was younger and I was younger. So now wages aren’t good and prices are high due to women in work place and fed. So now women make more and men don’t but they want a man who makes a lot but is like 1% of the men population.

I love when the conversations are i depth and constructive, real life shit. fck the gossip, drama, he said she said,

My take is if you in a relationship married or otherwise and you guys together maintain your household......so be it .....a dude letting his woman take all the weight is pathetic.....nowadays it's very rare for a dude to take care of everything and be respected as the head of household in all areas without a woman feeling salty at some point ....sad how there Mother's showed out in the end

Well that's your grandma's fault for taking it 😂

Wow🤕

You better have checked her for disrespecting your wife

Since your mother has so much smoke for your wife, make sure NOT to invite her into anything where your wife is included. You need to make it clear to your mother that disrespect towards your wife will not be tolerated .

@@AyesheIsAlwaysLovelyhe’s a mamas boy, you know he won’t do that

Sorry Young Blood But .......WE DON'T GET TO CHOOSE OUR PARENTS and I say this....as someone who. i can say blessed with a mom who protected me the best she could. and I known of PLENTY who's story is a Mirror of your story. - My Condolences to you sir'. Keep Up The Fight - Keep That Positive Energy Flow. your going to need it NOW more then ever !

Dodged a big one!

My ex was evil, too. Many women just don't have the capacity to love. That's a foreign energy to them.

@@KtotheG to bad most men don't learn this until older.

I'm in that boat right now and it's sinking fast.

They are Satanist’s prob have a life insurance policy on you too.

He wasn't shit.

Makes you question what they previously said about being a man don't it? He did everything he said what makes u a man just to not be appreciated by the person he did it for.

@@HitmanHimmy between what I experience with women, friends and even my own family I've came to the conclusion life is only about power. It's not about God. Love family friendship. It's about power. You have power. It's about whatever you say it is. If you get some power you can either be a hero or a villain. Try to not let anyone get power over you because they might be a villain. Work hard to become Superman.

I'm sure there were things the husband did that y'all didn't see.

@@lisai2110 there is no excuse when a man handles his business and the relationship made it that far together...

Never give up. It's not easy, but make sure to get up and get out of the house every morning.

All things pass and tge good things will come around,life has its ups and down. Stay strong and focused.

Dust yourself up. Take the first step, second step, and so on ..............

Yes, hang in there. Being in a simular situation I pray that God helps me to the other side. I'm ready to leave it all behind for a piece of mind.

You ain’t gone like to hear this big dawg but someone gotta let you know the real. If they still alive you gotta move like they dead, if they dead you gotta move like they alive and left you. You can always make a new family, find a new job, make a new kid. Shit your story might just be starting. The one thing you can’t give yourself is another you, love the one you have now because truly love isn’t part of this world right now.

My mom treats my dad like shit now in their 70s and he treated her like shit when they were in their 40s. The deserve each other and if you were a kid that grew up with a dad who hardly came home and was screwing chicks on the side, you would understand why

@@HarmlessCommentthat screwing chicks on the side ruined my relationship with my dad. It’s unforgivable for a man to selfishly disrespect your child’s mother and the children. How could you not have resentment and anger for the guy that intentionally hurt your own mother?

the sad part is it might happen to them as well cause they believe their manhood comes from taking care of women when it should be how much stress they can handle When a man thinks he's a man based on how women perceive him, he will always be different in different eras cause he just wants to appease a woman. Once he isn't needed or can't provide for her the same, she will not respect him anymore cause their foundation was based on him taking care of her!

@@TheHarryDunne maybe she hurt him, and that was his only way to get payback If he really was foul he would have left, and took you with him. Or just left the family all together, but as children in this society we don't see our mothers as foul even though a lot of the things they do are foul. It's a gift and a curse. The gift is you connect with someone. The curse is because you connect with a foul person your life will be the same UNLESS you acknowledge who your parents truly are, and try to be different. Once you pick sides, you will become the person who side you took!

Seems like u side with your mom though

Thanks April

@@vladtvplease stop talking over your guest and allow them to complete their thought.

This is why some men end up beating women. The disrespect

​@@hbdhbd6611This.

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Well said sir

Facts

Nah you 💯 on that! Bingo!

And dj vlad and DL hughly are in they 50’s so they mothers are from that generation everybody loves bringing up saying when the women was soooooooooo much betterrrrrrrrr and wifey material lol….if women back then didn’t appreciate men can u imagine how if u give your all to a woman from this generation how she going do u?lol

My sentiment exactly. You cannot take these guys serious just running off at the mouth and talking big to puff themselves up..

​@user-eq9zc3mey7i yup

@@tonysnow2224Well put.

Trick mentality

This is pimp talk

That is pure nonsense! You don't speak for "God".

@@onceagain6184 1 Corinthians 11:3 Genesis 2:18 Ephesians 5: 22-33 Proverbs 21:19 Proverbs 27: 15-16

​@@everett894Don't waste your time

@@everett894 NONSENSE. FAIRYTALES

Why don't you just block her

Don’t date women who are transactional… find a woman who wants to build. Human life is fragile.. it’s almost impossible to rely on one individual to provide.. it’s crazy women fought for equality just still be a liability financially. Some of these women so selfish they make 6 figures and still don’t want to pay any bills.. must be nice huh ? To find a sucker to pay all the bills (because he only feels like a man when he do) while she spend her money on material things and trips

Exactly bro! We have to stand on shit.

I've never understood keeping in touch with an ex. Especially one that burned you. It makes zero sense

Stop keeping in touch with her bro. Stop being her toy and grow a pair.

wow

No judgement included, but that is still selfishness

U cant buy respect

Those women were bad people. It’s not about the money. The bigger question is, why did their fathers choose them? VLADs mother sounds like she may have been a narcissist. DLs mother too. But like i said in another post… those kind of nasty, mean spirited, mean girl women ALWAYS have husbands. ALWAYS. Kind women like Michelle Williams from destiny’s child are perpetually single. 🤷🏿‍♀️ men need to explain this.

That's what they saw when they were old enough to see but when they were young and blind how did he treat her when they were babies and younger???? A woman don't forget...

They’re really feeding their own ego

Exactly

There's always more to the story the children don't know what their parents relationship behind closed doors were do they!

Some people lack self awareness

You don’t know the dynamics of their relationship. Simply that.

DL has actually argued that he did not value his wife or treat her the way he should have for a period of time. He respects his wife. His wife is not his mother. The idea is to be the provider because women respect providers but never be in a relationship with someone who would take you providing for them for granted.

These gentlemen are carrying out their duties, on behalf of their fathers, and the scriptures in “honoring their parents.”

@@meeraftaddesse8956 everyone don’t want a provider. Did you bozos ever consider that? Stop infantilizing women. Women these days want a partner.

Seriously I was confused because the front end of what they were saying didn’t match the back end of what they were saying. Smh

​@GauchaisProverb that's exactly what I was thinking... I can't tell if they was trying to motivate men or warning men about "being a man" I think vlad and DL going home and tell their women " Bitch, on second thought... your ungrateful ass about to pay some bills around this camp!" 😮

Bars. Don't save these heauxs.

Clearly you cannot take what comes out their mouths seriously.

​@@GauchaisProverbi think DLs saying when his father died his pension and life insurance left his mom money to live off

Right bro! It makes no sense! Ask for your woman to contribute. Don’t give her a free ride only for her to be ungrateful and work against you!

Haha

@@Drewcat07I agree.

Because most men (especially black men) are just plain stupid and weak when it comes to these crazy selfish women.

ALL women are not like this. Many women are with men who are horrible providers and are basically slaves and work horses in their relationship and still walk on eggshells. I wouldn’t. But i have close friends who do.

We need each other more than we know.

Vlad is a cornball. All he has is money

Because the respect of even 1 woman will make the world see you in a more positive light. Women claim men run the world but that's always been a lie. Even when they wearing the Hijabs and are covered from head to toe, it's women calling the shots. Women don't have the pressure to rise to the occasion that a man does and could never understand what its truly like to be a man.

Seems like it...

@quanbrooklynkid7776 it's like if a dude don't have the basics like his own place, car and job he'll get overlooked. But the same guy leave chick's alone and grind for a year get his own basics stack a little bit. He'll have self confidence then he can pull a couple chick's. They'll notice him then. Just like we do.

Damn

They dummy’s

Amen to that..big dummies as Fred Sanford use to say@@ProofThatAstrologyIsReal

They were caught up in projecting their machismo

@@ProofThatAstrologyIsRealthey really do it to feed their own ego. That’s why they talk crAP about other men

You made yourself her genie, that's your error. It's not all about her. She's supposed to be devoted to you.

I tell my son “twice as much is never twice as good”.

Spoken like a black man that wants to blame a woman for his poor choices and lack of drive😂

You need to choose better🤣

That’s bc they’re not the first choice ..

​@@latoriawilliams5423that's what Chris Rock said

@@LifeEntityyes he sure did say that …. On his comedy special. I forgot about that 😊

Boo hoo

​@@user-os3fz1yt6fno doubt I loved that I wasn't if that makes had all the freedom in the world got to living at an early age , I understand shit 9th kid 5 years after my closest sister my mom was done I was grateful she was batshit crazy by the time I was done I suppose, come to find out from about the time I was six she took life insurance out on me and my nephew 😅

@@JoeBlanton-wq3sm no one cares

@@user-os3fz1yt6f not even I you twat.

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You’re absolutely right, unless they include the child into the drama!

@@brem8918 one thing I learned is you never know your parents relationship before u was born, the private conversation behind closed doors, what happened when u was at school. You love yo parents, now if they abuse u that’s another story other than that u have no clue as a child what’s going on.

For real. I tell my children that if they hear us argue. I tell them we have known each other WAAY before you were thought of, “mind yours and don’t take (Ours) personal because it has absolutely nothing to do with you”..and they get it now.

Vlad lacks emotional maturity

Let’s put the labels to the side man. I don’t care who you are to me if you’re inflicting pain on a person bcz of your treacherous reasonings then i can’t respect you

My mom did too when my dad was sick. She treated him the same way she did when they met.

💯 ❤️

It really hurt. I'm living it, too... 🙏🏾

Why they making kids and taking a wife then?

@@BonusHolehe’s wrong. Most men make enough money to provide for a family. What he probably means is that those same men probably can’t afford to live a certain lifestyle by with his money only

@@BonusHolethat’s the entire point. As much as we shit on women for having kids when they’re in poverty or otherwise unable to parent properly we need to hold men accountable for creating children they can’t afford to take care of properly. No matter how you look at things kids are expensive. From the every angle you can think of they cost money. I wish people in general spent more time thinking of the cost and emotional labor that goes into creating life and take that more seriously. These kids are being failed by irresponsible breeders.

@@babyshaq05235no that’s not true. If you are making less than 100K you likely can’t afford to raise a kid in this world. Most men are barely making above 50K. Let’s be realistic, day care alone costs at least 1000$ a week and that’s if you care that they aren’t messing with fentanyl in the back (if you from NYC you know what I’m talking about 🙄). If you don’t want to like in poverty and struggle or raise your kids in the ghetto or want to provide a decent home you need to be making at least 100K.

If we as a society are OK with abortion, having children is entirely the choice of women. They can kill a mans child legally if they choose. I don't believe in abortion personally. But society in general does so children are on women and are a woman's choice. Women who don't believe in abortion also need to not believe in sex before marriage otherwise they are just a problem.@@dinkyboss

Vlad and DL are simps is what I take from this.

your dad is a wise man

YES, but your goal should be to never be dependent on her income. She WILL resent you. Especially if she has children who are troubled, but she works too much to give them the attention they need. I know women going through this and they have zero respect for how nonchalant their men are about how hard she has to work.and how they can’t see how little they have time to be good mothers. They resent their men, a lot!

Why don't you tell these women to grow up and put their big girl pants on and stop wining. It's called adult hood.@@brittneysperspective8433

@@brittneysperspective8433 Well I’m 14 years in 4 kids. She does good, I do good we work together. We want nicer things we both work. Also nobody carries all the load in my relationship. Not finically not with the kids. It’s very very balanced. I pick up from school. Take them to all their sporting events. Helping with homework every night. Because my gets home later than I do. I’m 14 years in deep worry about your relationship. This is true team work over here. We don’t live out of our means like most people. We have a nice house we bought about 10 years ago. No need to move into a bigger house. To try to keep up with the jones. We take 5 or 6 vacations a year. 3 with the kids 2 or 3 just us. Don’t confuse my wife with you ma’am.

Traumatized,he needs to speak to someone,at least him and DL have similar experiences

There is a difference between that, and a man completely relying on a woman. Or putting the families financial burden on his womans back. Women who have been through this, understand what they are talking about. I have a close friend with a man like this. He THINKs he contributes equally, and they have a 50/50 relationship, but they don’t. He does the bare minimum and she resents him. He will only work 30hrs a week at his job, and He pays the rent only. He contributes no other money to the household. They have never had a family vacation and her birthday is ignored every year. She handles the kids birthdays financially. They have three kids in a two bedroom. They NEED a bigger place. One of their children has to sleep on the couch cause they don’t have a room. They can’t move, cause he won’t work more and refuses to pay more in rent. My friend pays all the other bills which actually are more than their rent. (Car notes included.) she was 9 months pregnant with two jobs. While he only worked 30 hrs. Had to call her friends to borrow money. Her co workers were baffled that she was pregnant and working so many hours. But she had to to make sure their cats didn’t get repoed. She couldn’t understand why HE wasn’t embarrassed his pregnant girl had to work so much. He never budged to do more! That is not equal contribution and most 50/50 relationships are like that. The man simply does less while the woman does more. She has to come home and still raise the children. He did not see his families finances and social standing as HIS responsibility. It was hers, and he is just there to help out where he can. She dresses constantly. It breaks her heart they are in that small space, but he refuses to work more do they can have a better place. On Facebook he presents himself like father of the years.

True but still Most men pay majority of necessary bills. No matter how much shes paying.

@@travisstrickland7270 in what community? Not the black community. Men do not pay majority of the bills. Some not even half.

@brittneysperspective8433 Lol yea we definitely do. Many of yall just live in pookieville. U think that's normal 😆.

@@travisstrickland7270 most black men are “pookie ville”, you live in a dream world if you deny this. I live im Atlanta. Tons of success black ppl and is still common with BM that they make less than their partners and are financially dependent on their women. Most black men cannot afford to pay 50% of the bills, let alone mosr

This ain’t about mothers. They can have every other day for the year. This is for the FATHERS only.😢

EXACTLY!!! That's what theses dudes don't understand, the damage you do early on to the relationship is going to come through in the end.

​@HarmlessComment how about leave then? Dont stick around for 40 years and then play victim

So she couldn’t find forgiveness and harvested hate

@@elbowgang9715Oh, so its easy to leave a man who abusing you? Just cause a woman stays doesn’t mean she wasn’t a victim or it want that bad. Women stay for a lot of reasons, and reactive abuse is often a response to abusive relationships.

​@HarmlessComment the better question is why did he cheat? I bet her behavior had something to do with it.

My parents split long ago, but less than a week after my father passed, my mom was already calling him outta his name in front of us. Some of them really are evil.

You shouldn't have respect for DL or Vlad. It was their fathers who did that. What DL was saying his a man should be is wrong. That's exactly what their fathers did and still got done dirty at the end of their life.

They don’t deal with them; they don’t argue with them.

Or what?

nigga this aint what they talking about 🤦🏽‍♂️

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Y'all love making up stories

Im glad the 1960s are over. Im not paying shit for a woman. Be strong and independent ladies.. That's what y'all fought for and I happily support not paying for a grown ass woman. Thanks America. Women lost value anyways. 😂😂😂

​@@ksager123 nd playing victim

My mom was very much like that. He left me every thing his pension and whatnot because I was 17. He wrote that I was capable of taking care of myself because she left us. She maneuvered it with the VA and social security that she was taking care of me. She had the same name as me and cashed checks. Eventually they found me. After she passed away. I told them I had no idea. They replaced the money into my son’s bank. I won’t touch his savings

Did you all ever ask your moms why? Why the animosity? I wish ppl asked their parents the hard questions ... just observing only gives us a partial perspective

​@nishashawn2021hell naw they ain't ask, because they are online lying. 🤣🤣🤣 They know thier Dads wasn't shit.

@@nishashawn2021 no I never asked. My mother admitted she ain't love my father. But without my father she wouldn't have survived. And my father held my mother on a pedestal so you couldn't say anything to her, about her, nothing. But it definitely made me view marriage as something I didn't want especially if that's what it looked like.

@@joyell821 lol lol

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Facts ....

About nonsense too

Damn... have a heart y'all...

Yeah, he thinks he’s the encyclopedia of everything

But you most likely a subscriber and watching.

@@bleakone9097ofc 😂

That's why many men are saying no to marriage and children. And society is getting angry at them. They think we were really put here to serve and save the world.

Yes it is.

nah you wit the wrong woman if your wife and kids dont respect you

@@gzstayreal That's just the thing... most modern American women are the wrong women. Look at our divorce rates. They've been over 50% since the '70s when second wave feminism kicked into high gear. Bad marriages are the norm, not the exception.

Its a child support thirst-trap, actually.

You are a deadbeat and want credit for being an adult. Who gives a shit if u work and pay bills.

Amen, only a fool would let a women dictate how he views himself.

Yeah bro these dudes with money are the last mf’ers to take relationship advice from

That’s not always true.

@@cleathercobbin6230 That's what most likely means.

Do I detect a little bias here!

😴😴😴

@@staffmember189nah your just making up your own little scenario.

I have formally charged my mother financial restitution for how she treated my father in the past. # Restitution movement.

U lying. He ain't even marry her ass or live in the same house as u.

Tryna tell ya! Nice hung wrong with having your woman contribute to the household! These dudes got it backwards!

I agree. If a woman is struggling or barely making ends meet and she meets a man who pays bills and helps around the house that shouldn't be looked down upon.

Diary of a mad black woman, she didn't flip for nothing 🙌

Well said. I was thinking the same thing.

These mothers need to start telling their kids the truth about their fathers. A lot of them would be surprised. I know one woman who didn't find out that her father had an outside child until after his death. Only then did she understand her mother's anger while she was growing up. He was seemingly the perfect father, but a horrible husband.

If that "95" refers to "1995" then you need to live a bit longer before providing input.

Instead of treating the man like shit on his death bed leave him and tell the kids the truth about y'alls situation instead going through hell

Most women don’t want a man who makes less than them.

Huh? 😒Care to Elaborate on this? If they are a family and living in the same household… both if their incomes are the families resources. Why does who spend what matter? Especially if the family cannot survive without HER income, and he’s does NOTHING to relieve her of that. That should be a man’s goal I think some men live in a dream world about money. NO woman wants to be a mother with small children to nurture, and STILL have to work 40hrs a week to make sure all the bills get paid. Especially when she has a man. When does she mother?

True.

I make my woman pay for everything.. idgaf I’m broke and cheap asf

​@@Helmuesi911😂

@@Helmuesi911🤣🤣

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I agree!