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Do Girlfriend Allowances Enable Transactional Relationships ? || Thought Digest Ep04

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Thato Rampedi

Thato Rampedi

Күн бұрын

Description :
Today’s episode of Though Digest , as they usually are , is packed with some light hearted conversation, as well as some weighty and controversial takes on some of the most spoken about topics!
The podcast episode is split into four segments , with the first being a life update - the ladies share what they’re excited for in the month of April and what the audience should expect from their individual content creation journeys.
In the second segment , Caiah and Mpho discuss a usually female-centric topic [ which can prove quite educational for both genders ] . Their topic of choice in this episode is : Feminine Hygiene + Skincare.
They share their hygiene routines , and some hacks to combat excess perspiration + hyperpigmentation. Feel free to share some hygiene hacks of your own !
The third segment is a short game , and their game of choice this week is “Guess The Celebrity”. Mpho shares some well known information about a South African Celebrity, and Caiah has to guess who she is talking about.
Finally, the crux of the episode is their breakdown on “Girlfriend Allowance” - a widely debated topic all over the world. Their discussion is sure to rattle some feathers, and make some people rethink the entire idea! In addition to the conversation on girlfriend allowance, they discuss the role and importance of money in relationships and how the absence or excess of money can affect relationships.
Feel free to engage in the comment section below and share what you think! What your personal hygiene tips are and whether you expect a girlfriend allowance or not? And why?
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@lindyzindela
@lindyzindela 4 ай бұрын
Accepting money from a man, will automatically make me feel like I owe them so I never accept it😭✋️
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
I hear this yoh😭
@nontobekoprecious4895
@nontobekoprecious4895 Ай бұрын
that's exactly, how i would feel aswell, but this podcast has really opened by eyes!!
@marie-clairemangue6396
@marie-clairemangue6396 4 ай бұрын
Mpho just casually comes on here and speaks facts
@thandi_khesa
@thandi_khesa 4 ай бұрын
You guys are sure you're under 25 mara, you're always making me questions my life choices as a 27 Y/O😂😭 you're wise babies, one thing about women of God...they have maximum wisdom.I love you guys so much and I look foward to another episode of thought digest every week❤
@tshephanglegotlwane1498
@tshephanglegotlwane1498 4 ай бұрын
something about these babies i tell you, ma2K surely had something we missed in our up bringing.
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😭my feelings are still hurt that Mpho didn’t tell me I had lipgloss on my chin the whole time. Boooo 🥫🥫😂
@MammiDearest
@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын
I’m sorryyyyy 😭😭😭
@thandi_khesa
@thandi_khesa 4 ай бұрын
😂 the amount of times I wiped my chin, she did you dirty girl. You better come with a very challenging game for her to loose next week. Love y'all ❤
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
@@thandi_khesa😂Say LESS !!
@thandomagubane4193
@thandomagubane4193 4 ай бұрын
I lowkey thought you got hurt
@HopeASMRR
@HopeASMRR 4 ай бұрын
I did not notice it till you brought it up Caiah😂😂
@Thokozane_Raidar24
@Thokozane_Raidar24 4 ай бұрын
Nah Caiah is very smart no leave her alone she's the type
@genuinejay7696
@genuinejay7696 4 ай бұрын
This ladies are young but have so much wisdom ❤
@AndiswaVilakazi-jx5qf
@AndiswaVilakazi-jx5qf 4 ай бұрын
No Clicks should partner up with Caiah
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
🥹YOH LETS SPEAK IT INTO EXISTENCE
@ndumiii
@ndumiii 4 ай бұрын
We could be “Digesters❤”😂😂 because the digestion be so reallll over here🌚🤭. Or ‘Thinker Dees’. Not sure why ke but sounds cool in my head😂
@sanelisiwenyathi7053
@sanelisiwenyathi7053 4 ай бұрын
Mummy dearest should 100% do more KZfaq if wants to she will be able to held it. Caiah please hype her as much she hypes you ❤
@yonelamabaxa9833
@yonelamabaxa9833 4 ай бұрын
💸💸💸💸 Literally live for these every Monday. Thato really did a thing with putting y’all two! Lalelani , y’all have a regular degular and a loyal supporter over here!! Stay shining ❤️❤️❤️
@minortrapminortrap4099
@minortrapminortrap4099 4 ай бұрын
As gents let’s admit this podcast puts you on real game😭
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😂😂fr ? How so ?
@minortrapminortrap4099
@minortrapminortrap4099 4 ай бұрын
@@CaiahM yk when yo homies give you that “this is what it means when she does this” advice? Y’all actually tell us Wagwan in her complex mind😭
@zulumichaeljackson
@zulumichaeljackson 4 ай бұрын
Real😂😂
@Walubita_Charity
@Walubita_Charity 4 ай бұрын
I literally listened to the podcast on Spotify and still came to watch it on here😂😂I have to see the chefs that are cooking
@MammiDearest
@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын
Wabona wena you are a star ❤️❤️❤️
@Kganya_Makola
@Kganya_Makola 4 ай бұрын
And most of us are not depressed, we just dont have the amounts of money that makes us feel comfortable💸💸💰💰💰💰
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
I COMPLETELY AGREE
@OlebogengMosime
@OlebogengMosime 4 ай бұрын
Mpho and Caiah you give us so much light
@rethabile4127
@rethabile4127 4 ай бұрын
No because Mpho carrying a pad and lip therapy in her bag is SOOO real😭😭😭
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😂😂no no no guys that CANNOT be the standard
@lizwimasango6991
@lizwimasango6991 4 ай бұрын
Yes yes, I tried to be a girly girl and I couldn't
@lesegoboroto4023
@lesegoboroto4023 4 ай бұрын
Caiah's nails are sooo cute omg !!😍😍
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
🥺🥺twenkuu very mucchh
@noxolombutuma1915
@noxolombutuma1915 4 ай бұрын
Girl when u said every relationship is transactional😩😩😩 I became aware of it when I started out University. I totally agree🤧
@maija-lisadavid1154
@maija-lisadavid1154 4 ай бұрын
Mpho makes me so proud…she’s always speaking facts
@lydiangobeni9117
@lydiangobeni9117 4 ай бұрын
Definitely we want thought digest t shirts for Mondays 😅❤
@qaqambaRafu
@qaqambaRafu 4 ай бұрын
our name should be "THE DIGESTERSS"😭🎀
@Lerato_rrato
@Lerato_rrato 4 ай бұрын
Mpho and Caiah podcast really build up a womens mind🥹 Hope you'll got your note books to take notes❤ cause wow these women are so Genuine and unique🌸
@moreke10
@moreke10 4 ай бұрын
even us men🔥🤟
@Lerato_rrato
@Lerato_rrato 4 ай бұрын
Shout out❤
@tatendaac
@tatendaac 4 ай бұрын
Loved the episode! Love you both💕Mpho, maybe try not to cut off Caiah. I’ve picked up on that for the past few episodes. Seems like you cut her off a lot before she finishes her point. But other than that you’re both doing great💋
@MammiDearest
@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын
I also noticed 💕
@ThatoMakhalemele-jj8ed
@ThatoMakhalemele-jj8ed 4 ай бұрын
Waiting patiently😭thought digest is legit my fave right now ❤
@lydiangobeni9117
@lydiangobeni9117 4 ай бұрын
I literally waited all day for this notification 😂🎉❤
@thisisNoluthando.M
@thisisNoluthando.M 3 ай бұрын
One thing about Mpho? She will speak FACTS!❤❤
@SphumiSiwisa
@SphumiSiwisa 4 ай бұрын
Caiah's outro❤🔥🔥
@eddysweets
@eddysweets 4 ай бұрын
Guys thank you for your education podcast, i just referred my colleague at private hospital you guys talked about since she was complaining aboud her period taking longer than 2 weeks
@eddysweets
@eddysweets 4 ай бұрын
I also told her to watch and subscribe to your channel
@LeboMokwena23
@LeboMokwena23 4 ай бұрын
Happiness is a state of mind😊 "Only money that I want" - I Maleven's voice
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😭happiness really is a state of mind
@hlamilegodi3220
@hlamilegodi3220 4 ай бұрын
💵 💵 very educational all the time yeah money is a foundation in a relationship what's most important is having a man who knows manly roles he has to play like being able to support for his family ❤
@NosiphoHlekiso
@NosiphoHlekiso 4 ай бұрын
This podcast is the best thing that has ever happened to me
@AndiswaVilakazi-jx5qf
@AndiswaVilakazi-jx5qf 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for showing woman at a different good lens than what is usually shown and put on top especially negatively , mpst importantly the thought process because we relate a lot
@akhanisopangisa3549
@akhanisopangisa3549 4 ай бұрын
Caiah your recent “discovery” on money in relationships 🙌 honestly that’s a full topic on its own …valuable food for thought 👌
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
🤔perhaps we’ll revisit it in future ?
@neomnisi5611
@neomnisi5611 4 ай бұрын
Throughly enjoying this podcast, such wisdom filled conversations
@YangaKhetsekile
@YangaKhetsekile 4 ай бұрын
Caiah and mommy Dearest please I love it here ❤️🤭
@ndjamoo
@ndjamoo 4 ай бұрын
Our name should be the DIGESTIVE SYSTEM 😂😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😂😂now I KNOW you’re lying
@thandi_khesa
@thandi_khesa 4 ай бұрын
Not digestive system hle chomi😭😂😂
@nthabisengpearl5499
@nthabisengpearl5499 4 ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@GracefulYvonne
@GracefulYvonne 3 ай бұрын
Bathong 😂😂😂
@Nelafyed
@Nelafyed 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Keora28
@Keora28 4 ай бұрын
Might as well call this Masterchef cause y’all are always cooking🍲
@thailand_Devil
@thailand_Devil Ай бұрын
Mpho nd caiah you guys are so wise like most girls can rely on you based on life choices eyy❤
@Remza-Luv
@Remza-Luv 4 ай бұрын
I don't think love is conditional, love is a natural thing that we're born with. From a Christian perspective we Naturally love people. We meet you and I love you cause you are my fathers child, I don't have a reason to love you therefore that's the unconditional part of love. Now, relationships and association, on the other hand, have nothing to do with love but its rather a transaction. It's preferences, deal breakers, values, and principles. If you think about it when people break up its not that they stopped loving each other. They just stopped meeting the principles and values that you want for yourself. They are no longer the quality of human you want to spend your life with. You can't tolerate and withstand certain characteristics and traits that the person possesses. For example if we got married and we were both Christian and then suddenly I believe in a different God and you don't believe in that, it's a deal breaker, you divorce me because now I no longer align with your principles and you can't compromise yourself in that manner. You dont stop loving me. We just stop being compatible and walking in the same journey. So perhaps we should be cognizant of separating Love and Preferences etc. This is just my perspective... ❤❤❤love you ladies soo much, though your podcast is legit a girls best friend
@Remza-Luv
@Remza-Luv 4 ай бұрын
Adding to this for example when you're asked "what type/kind of husband or wife do you want?" , the response is not "I want a partner that I love" no, the response is usually based of character, principles, values, goals, looks etc...
@Nelafyed
@Nelafyed 3 ай бұрын
Hygiene hacks: putting a portable pack of Sta-Soft in your closet is scent lifesaver.
@amahlebuthelezi6965
@amahlebuthelezi6965 4 ай бұрын
Nice episode but Mammi the way you keep on interrupting Caiah😭😭 Please allow her to speak more. Please work on it sisi and please ask her back questions if she has asked you. (This is not an invitation for hate)💸💸💸
@itumeleng2092
@itumeleng2092 4 ай бұрын
We love constructive criticism 🤝🫵🏾
@lebogangshantel6269
@lebogangshantel6269 4 ай бұрын
I totally agree
@BrawnsWithNosihle
@BrawnsWithNosihle 4 ай бұрын
Exactly what I’ve been thinking.. I love these two ladies but Mammi, please give her a chance to speak
@Nelafyed
@Nelafyed 3 ай бұрын
All my handbags are small in size and what I keep in them is lip gloss, Powerbank, tissue, earpods, sanitizer and my phone cable.
@Thomasma-s9n
@Thomasma-s9n 4 ай бұрын
Fan base name: digesters
@ItsRauha
@ItsRauha 4 ай бұрын
Love love this Podcast.❤
@paballomakwetla3564
@paballomakwetla3564 4 ай бұрын
we are THOUGHTERS 😍
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 4 ай бұрын
Such interesting conversations💜💜
@lindiweQueenFoko
@lindiweQueenFoko 4 ай бұрын
So much wisdom gosh,y'all make so much sense together❤
@billionaireclub3372
@billionaireclub3372 4 ай бұрын
I hope we have guys watching this podcast, boys Y'all better wake up having a feminine woman is very expensive. So y'all better not be lazy.
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😭feminine women really are expensive
@user-MC9508
@user-MC9508 4 ай бұрын
You can never go wrong with vaseline❤. Also,alum water helps with breakouts.
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
What’s alum water ?🤔
@user-MC9508
@user-MC9508 4 ай бұрын
It's a salt type of chemical in powder form. Mix it with water,spray it after you wash your face, and leave it overnight.
@user-MC9508
@user-MC9508 4 ай бұрын
My bad,I described alum, cos you can buy it as a powder and make your own alum water.
@thandi_khesa
@thandi_khesa 4 ай бұрын
Ey mina I'd rather be rich and sad bafethu, life revolves around money. What will I do in this life without money? Aowa But I don't wanna be sad keh to be clear on that so I'd rather be rich and happy if that's also an option 😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😂😂my exact sentiments
@evrol-bionnekhomo2717
@evrol-bionnekhomo2717 4 ай бұрын
“The Thought Digesters!”😙
@Ms._seraphic
@Ms._seraphic 4 ай бұрын
Love this 😂❤especially the way Mpho is soo relatable 😅😊
@naanhuleamu9909
@naanhuleamu9909 4 ай бұрын
💸💸💸💸💳You two lovely ladies are so insightful! I loved every minute of this, and yes I'd rather be rich and unhappy than being poor and happy😂. Love you guys❤!
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😂❤️glad we’re on the same page!
@Nelafyed
@Nelafyed 3 ай бұрын
Garnier roll on is my fighter 👏🏾🔥
@YangaKhetsekile
@YangaKhetsekile 4 ай бұрын
Here for Mommy dearest pleaseeeeee🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
@eddysweets
@eddysweets 4 ай бұрын
Im hare already for the Queens
@Sego.rm7
@Sego.rm7 4 ай бұрын
Notification gang.🤭
@blossomsdiary
@blossomsdiary 4 ай бұрын
every episode makes me love Mammi even more
@micklaston2733
@micklaston2733 4 ай бұрын
Please make sense ....if love Is given from your parents..it's conditional 😢.... Two each their own 🎉
@Nelafyed
@Nelafyed 3 ай бұрын
I lowkey underestimated uu both as individual KZfaqrs and this podcast removed that perception 🥺🙏🏾. Literally gonna start binging on both yoll's channels - TODAY
@LethokuhleJuly
@LethokuhleJuly 4 ай бұрын
We need a merch to rock on Mondays as we watch thought digest😭🤍pls
@chegenelius
@chegenelius 4 ай бұрын
You are both glowing 💯😘 Much love from 🇰🇪🙂
@Mamgcina30
@Mamgcina30 4 ай бұрын
Some advice what about dating an unemployed hun thats doesnt want you anymore because she wants to solely be dependant on you financially but your the sole provider back home
@Xoliswa_ngwenyah
@Xoliswa_ngwenyah 4 ай бұрын
Baking soda for armpits. Make a paste and rub it on your armpits overnight ❤
@thandi_khesa
@thandi_khesa 4 ай бұрын
What does it do chomi, is is for the odour or the hyperpigmentation?
@Xoliswa_ngwenyah
@Xoliswa_ngwenyah 4 ай бұрын
@@thandi_khesa for odour.
@ndumiii
@ndumiii 4 ай бұрын
Omw, I’m late to the party but I’m tuned in now that’s all that matters 🥰
@ntombifuthichombo5544
@ntombifuthichombo5544 4 ай бұрын
I think "Thee Digesters" would be a lovely name for us Thee Lovely fans of this amazing Pod❤❤❤
@mbokie1807
@mbokie1807 4 ай бұрын
SMART LADIES ☝️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@leonasmart22
@leonasmart22 4 ай бұрын
Ohhhh Caiah mentioning all my faves....Niko ,Aj and ofcourse Tumii❤❤❤
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
YESSSSSSSS THE YT KINGS AND QUEENS
@Phindu_M
@Phindu_M 4 ай бұрын
love this podcast 😍
@SadeRulumeni
@SadeRulumeni 4 ай бұрын
May I please hear your thoughts on the movie Acrimony because wow, what a movie 😭😭I'd like to hear what yall have to say.
@enkosidwane5562
@enkosidwane5562 4 ай бұрын
Ekzakliiiiiii!!!!!🤌🤌🤌🤌
@buhleshezi5222
@buhleshezi5222 4 ай бұрын
Ya’ll are so pretty ❤❤❤
@gontsemothibe9911
@gontsemothibe9911 4 ай бұрын
It is sad Mpho, giving your manz money is sad my girl 🤣🤣
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
Terribly sad 😭
@kealeboga_k
@kealeboga_k 4 ай бұрын
Going 50/50 or 80/20 just made be in my feelinga cause sometimes as a woman that i am, i want to do something for my guy too but can't do 100% alone Love & Enjoy What You Guys Are Doing. God Bless.❤💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸
@palesazulu5158
@palesazulu5158 4 ай бұрын
😅yesss Caiah, Nara Smith vibes
@mbalimngunii
@mbalimngunii 4 ай бұрын
Another banger ! Thank you💸💸💰
@Tumikekanaa
@Tumikekanaa 4 ай бұрын
The digestives 😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
😂😂even YOU are laughing at that name
@Nelafyed
@Nelafyed 3 ай бұрын
​@@CaiahM😂😂😂😂😂
@Remza-Luv
@Remza-Luv 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂i agree Mpho, theres no such thing as a broke woman ❤
@thick_titi
@thick_titi 4 ай бұрын
I enjoyed .❤️❤️❤️✨
@Thokozane_Raidar24
@Thokozane_Raidar24 4 ай бұрын
Caiah is very smart and very open minded...I just wish the girl next to her can think the same...the allowance topic
@cleviiie
@cleviiie 4 ай бұрын
Cool, girlie but that’s her opinion. If you do not agree with her that’s fine. We all think differently and have different perspectives and opinions. No need for shade
@Thokozane_Raidar24
@Thokozane_Raidar24 4 ай бұрын
@cleviiie opinions are like ass hol*s everybody has them , but in this situation it is used as a escape word...I personally still believe In love and I will forever will and if you are going to influence other females to think that Allowance is a must and say it's just your opinion on a Public platform...it's totally wrong some opinions are should be bottled up
@akhanisopangisa3549
@akhanisopangisa3549 4 ай бұрын
Than see him everyday but we’re hungry 😭😂Mpho! Lol mna I hear you
@KhanyiMarez
@KhanyiMarez 4 ай бұрын
Digest Squad!!!!
@abigail07.25
@abigail07.25 4 ай бұрын
Lovely conversation ladies!!🔥👑
@Tunes_by_Tee
@Tunes_by_Tee 3 ай бұрын
I think if you can love God unconditionally then you can love your neighbor unconditionally.
@jessy-kay7092
@jessy-kay7092 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful episode👌🏾
@kaboskreations2000
@kaboskreations2000 4 ай бұрын
💵💵💵💵 I absolutely love them
@daisydaisy5296
@daisydaisy5296 4 ай бұрын
I know this is not related but I need a plug ya Caiah's watch😍😍 I was looking at it the whole time
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
American Swiss🥺❤️
@user-gf4uq9pv5o
@user-gf4uq9pv5o 4 ай бұрын
mpho not to come for you or anything, i think you should learn how to listen & please dont go off topic Love y’all tho💋
@MammiDearest
@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Tunes_by_Tee
@Tunes_by_Tee 3 ай бұрын
You could call your audience the thinkers. They think and digest their thoughts
@yenkosithulamthembu
@yenkosithulamthembu 4 ай бұрын
DIGESTERS!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕😍
@itskay6328
@itskay6328 4 ай бұрын
I love it here💰💰💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑🤑
@phodisosehere9712
@phodisosehere9712 4 ай бұрын
Love you guys so much💵💵💶
@Kalla-Wise
@Kalla-Wise 4 ай бұрын
How about Thought Digesters? Anyways, profound episode as always😂💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰🧾
@user-pearly.ray_
@user-pearly.ray_ 4 ай бұрын
46:46 word.✊🏼
@busisiwediamond7
@busisiwediamond7 4 ай бұрын
❤Love you guys ke sana
@Thokozane_Raidar24
@Thokozane_Raidar24 4 ай бұрын
A Girl friend allowance is exactly that a waste of money...why should you get paid for being my girlfriend why really...Mpho now am seeing a side of you that I never thought you had awoa
@Angelina.b_
@Angelina.b_ 4 ай бұрын
I loved ❤this It’s eye opening for a teen like me 💵
@keabetsoemqwati3837
@keabetsoemqwati3837 3 ай бұрын
🤑🤑🤑Can't find the money emoji mara you gets mos🤣🤣 I agreed with you guys in everything, akena le opinion🤣
@eunoiamarinela3087
@eunoiamarinela3087 4 ай бұрын
our name should be the Gesties for digest, get it ?????
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
Bruhhh this is the best one yet !
@eunoiamarinela3087
@eunoiamarinela3087 4 ай бұрын
@@CaiahM im genuinely going to faint if you guys choose it 🤣🤣
@rock_y-y5w
@rock_y-y5w 4 ай бұрын
Thought-digesters!💞
@LisakhanyaTyibilika
@LisakhanyaTyibilika 4 ай бұрын
🎀🎀🎀 The only reason I love Mondays 🫶🫶🫂
@TraceTheFace62
@TraceTheFace62 4 ай бұрын
Honestly 🥹
@tracygorata8297
@tracygorata8297 4 ай бұрын
Why can't i download???😢😢😢😢
@maverickmawele7557
@maverickmawele7557 4 ай бұрын
Digesteez/s❤😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын
🤔you might be on to something !
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