Unpacking "Marriage-Baiting" & The Failings of Our Public Health Care System

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Unpacking "Marriage-Baiting" & The Failings of Our Public Health Care System

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In today’s episode of their podcast, Caiah and Mpho again unpack topics in a way that is both honest and informative.
The podcast episode is split into four segments, with the first being a life update - a chance to catch up on the past week and what’s new in both their lives.
In the second segment, Caiah and Mpho discuss a usually female-centric topic [ which can prove quite educational for both genders ] . Their topic of choice in this episode is : The reality of public health and their experiences with both private and public healthcare facilities!!
The third segment is a short game, in this episode, they will be playing a fun game of who’s most likely to where see how well our hosts know each other.
Finally, the crux of the episode is their breakdown on “Marriage baiting” - what it is and their personal experience of the dynamic. Their discussion is arguably cause for introspection !
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@TshepangHlalele-nq9zw 4 ай бұрын

This podcast is a girl’s best friend…it’s a friend I never thought I needed 😢❤

@cebomangqawa6009 4 ай бұрын

exactly what i was feeling throughout the episode😭

@lebogangshantel6269 4 ай бұрын

Period ❤❤😎

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Ah guys ! That’s exactly what we were hoping for !😭🥺

@charlottemygal528 4 ай бұрын

Right?😢❤

@akhanisopangisa3549 4 ай бұрын

These ladies are so relatable it’s craze🥹 Defs here to stay 🫶

@Kaleyakankwende 4 ай бұрын

I feel like being married is 1. A God thing, 2. a calling, not everyone is called to it, 3. An image of the Jesus and the bride. However a lot of us are trying to do it without the creator of marriage and without the being it represents. The moment we look at what the original idea of what marriage is, first we wouldn’t be entertaining of things, being using marriage loosely and you would actually know it’s hard, yet a beautiful thing, a sanctifying, holy process and the most sacred and intimate thing God has ever created. And to reach the level of intimacy that we all crave it needs to honour the one who created it❤

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

No one could have said it better !

@yenziledlamini7708 4 ай бұрын

Amen

@alterego4832 4 ай бұрын

This is marriage through the Christian lenses, beautiful, and yet I don't think marriage is a calling. It can never be a calling but a commitment. The apostle Paul's words on marriage give a vague idea of what it is.

@Kaleyakankwende 4 ай бұрын

@@alterego4832 I hear you❤️ I just thought about it in the same sense that not everyone is called to be a pastor typa vibe

@thembelihlevivian435 4 ай бұрын

what a mouthful 👏👏

@vuyisaavuzwa5206 4 ай бұрын

Mpho & Caiah eat up EVERY EPISODE 😭❤️

@IndlovukaziYaseKemet 4 ай бұрын

I can't believe you guys are in your early 20s. So much wisdom, maturity, and big sister ntoz👌🏽 I'll plug my 18 year old niece with you podcast❤

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Yesss plug everybodyyyy💃🏾💃🏾

@Lulue-ql6yf 4 ай бұрын

As a 28year old (1 year married) woman l would fully agree with you guys never do wife role whilst you still a girlfriend, what worked for me more was keeping my virginity till marriage,that made me realise who was in my life to stay and it created a lot of respect for me,ukuzogcina guys is everything ❤set boundaries for yourself don’t just be a loose somebody

@nanadi1745 4 ай бұрын

Moment of silence for those who haven't found this channel..missing out😭❤love tou guys

@tshepisokebotlogetse1675 4 ай бұрын

Mammie dearests growth is INSANE GIRRRLLLLLLL!!! You the girl you think you are. ❤

@Myrtle_kari28 4 ай бұрын

I agree with you bruh I love her she's matured❣❣❣

@timbasibongile 4 ай бұрын

This podcast is the best production out of Rampedi media ❤for the girliess.....the hosts are top notch and very wise and mature!!!! Cherry on top is they are Spiritual!!!!!!c'mon mahn 🔥

@thatomasoko6533 4 ай бұрын

I need these girls to drop an episode daily

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

😂😂let’s start a petition to Rampedi Media !

@thatomasoko6533 4 ай бұрын

@@CaiahM 😂I’ll start!

@Walubita_Charity 4 ай бұрын

Nah this podcast keeps getting better each week,this was tew good👌

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Yaayy !! 🥺💃🏾 I’m glad you think so !

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

Glad you think so🥺❤️

@AndiswaVilakazi-jx5qf 4 ай бұрын

I don't think I'd ever get tired of listening to you, great work❤

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥺❤️

@hallowedconvos216 4 ай бұрын

I had a boyfriend who wanted to have kids first then marry me after, hearing that it’s being marriage baited, makes me sad. Men really do what you guys have mentioned. I’m glad that I got out of the relationship because of the principles I live by, no man that loves me would bait me♥️really love y’all sooo much and continue spreading the word of God and his wisdom through your topics

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

It’s true ! No man that loves you would bait you . I’m glad that you made the decision that aligned with your principles ! Thank you for watching ! We’re happy to have you🫶🏽

@prettymngomamngoma6461 2 ай бұрын

Long topic for today is 🔥 I've been there for 4years, guy introduced m to his family in a matter of 2months. Asked m to pray for us daily. Soulties almost killed m Koz I became so connected to em that I could feel when he's being unfaithful, sexual activite. I was literally on that relationship alone Nd fighting battles. I was in my first year in university. 5years later still not finished WD my studies Nd lost bursary...I went back to Christ let em go Nd gathering Lil pieces again. God is good all the time

@SenzoMzinya-hj5cb 4 ай бұрын

I'm a guy but I'm loving this podcast 😍

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Fr !? 💃🏾 music to my earssss

@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii 4 ай бұрын

Caiah is so relatable. I want 15 kids but everyone is judging me😭

@OfentseMk 4 ай бұрын

I want a netball team 😭😭

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

They mustn’t judge us chomi😭 WE CAN DO THIS

@gigichota2097 4 ай бұрын

"" People feel like marriage is a big commitment but they don't think kids are a big commitment "" Mammie u cooked 👏👏👏👏❤️

@Rethablee3 4 ай бұрын

I love how structured and effortless the conversation is..... 💯♥️💫

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

You see our hard work 🥺❤️

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

🥺🫵🏾🫶🏽

@tumimutshekwane 4 ай бұрын

I really appreciate your conversations ladies. You ladies are stars, I love you you are bringing God and the Gospel to us using this platform . Keep shinning ❤

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

💃🏾🥹thank you so much!

@phethehojenifermoleleki3973 4 ай бұрын

I truly believe its important to wait for the right time to get married. Don't jump into marriage because of a time frame. If you are not ready - don't do it. I promise you. It will save you from unnecessarily.

@zanelem. 4 ай бұрын

Go monate mo Thought Digest with Caiah and Mpho hle ❤️ loved all the segments we dived into

@Kazi281 4 ай бұрын

I am learning a lot from you guys even my vocalbary is improving. Yhoo! Talking about marriage baiting, I was once married baited and I knew that It was a red flag and he was too good to be true. He told me that he is looking for something that is serious because he wants to get married. His actions said otherwise and so, I removed myself from that equation from the get go. I haven't seen a doctor since I was born, I just hate anything that has to do with hospital. Now that you have mentioned it, I feel like I need to do better. Thank you so much for this incredible podcast. I so wish you could post twice a week. ❤❤

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

Please do see a gynae ❤️ and I’m glad you removed yourself from that toxic relationship

@ZuriMntungwa 3 ай бұрын

33:14 Rewatching this episode, particularly at the part where they talk about marriage baiting because I just realized I was love bombed and a victim of marriage baiting. I literally couldn't understand why I'm still sad about a month-long talking stage that didn't work until I remembered uba the guy had painted a picture too perfect for me to want to get rid of. Guy had me thinking I lost out on a really good guy and he is the prize. I'm still trying to get back to knowing my worth. This is actually really recent you guys, I feel like crying and cussing everytime I think about him. I'm just venting y'all, don't even know if this makes sense. Please pray for me😭. Men are ruthless!

@montiedearest5379 4 ай бұрын

Mpho be getting deep and i love it cause i genuinely relate so much❤

@Watermelon_media01 4 ай бұрын

I'm so glad yall highlighted the poor state our medical facilities are in...I got turned away from both S.H.Joseph hospital and UJ clinic to get something as basic as my first HIV test.(M23)

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

That’s ridiculous ! Health care should be accessible to EVERYONE. It’s a basic need. No matter who you are. No one should be refused medical care. I’m so sorry that happened to you

@makhosazanasibiya7890 4 ай бұрын

Is it me or was the main topic a bit shorter? Arg I just love you guys. I have no long detailed message this time, I've just got mega love for you guys. Also made sure not to skip any ads 😊

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Didn’t skip any ads ?😭🤝🏾you’re a real one yoh ! Luv u loads

@Vee_Pram 4 ай бұрын

I think I love you guys !!!! 🥺❤️❤️ Pleaseeee also keep the Godly topics coming I love how Spiritually wise you guys are 🙏🏾

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

We’ll definitely discuss more spiritual topics in the coming weeks !💃🏾

@keabetsoemqwati3837 3 ай бұрын

Even though staying in a relationship for longer than 5-6 years without marriage is a major red flag, let's not forget that there are exceptions to it. For example high school sweethearts😭sana I can't expect that man to marry me while we're both students. Like kanjani

@z3us02 4 ай бұрын

I could listen to y’all all day This podcast is so informative 😭💕

@phe.nyo_m 4 ай бұрын

I genuinely have enjoyed your conversations🥰🥰❤ I do think they will help a lot of young people to have a better perspective and go against the norms that we continue to see in society. Bringing a lot more purpose and intention to more people, in a society that lacks purpose and intention. You guys are doing great!! Well done❤

@NolwaziSibiya_ 4 ай бұрын

He was a very handsome pharmacist 🤣

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

He honestly was 😂😂I’ma go back to Dischem just for him

@user-jz9zt2um3o 3 ай бұрын

Every episode have a life lesson Thank you so much girls for this kind of wisdom and maturity we love you ❤❤❤

@Siphamandla_Mrright 4 ай бұрын

You guys are cooking and I'm in the pot and I love it over here❤

@joylin.n3906 4 ай бұрын

Already can't wait for the next episode of thought digest.. Love you ladies ❤

@nozizwetwala5869 4 ай бұрын

I honestly subscribed to this channel for you guys'❤so much wisdom from you ladies..I really hope and pray that God blesses and enlarges you guy's territory..this is definitely what a girl needs every week. Keep up the good work🙏

@naledimongoma5927 4 ай бұрын

I love Mpho so much argh 🥺😻.

@leratoleechannel2760 3 ай бұрын

I am glad i found this podcast..The gems these ladies are dropping...Wisdom galore! thank you.

@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii 4 ай бұрын

I'm taking this as a sign to go to the gynae😭I've been postponing it for so long. And recently my body has been telling me that I need to go😭but I'm so scared. First thing I'm doing tomorrow morning, is to make an appointment at Marie stopes

@Innocent-06 4 ай бұрын

You ladies are all we needed🥰🥰

@omphilemakwetla8764 4 ай бұрын

Eish these ads though...but i stick it out because i love Thato and Rampedi media

@kananelomlangeni5536 4 ай бұрын

Love this 😭❤️💐🔥👏 Y'all deserve your flowers 💐 ❤

@mounandamonako1264 4 ай бұрын

Can you please talk about Gender based violence😢. .

@SecretlifeofoneT 4 ай бұрын

I stopped going to the gynae because…..pregnant women are prioritized! Ka nako yeo I have been diagnosed with PCOS. I was just tired so gynae will skip me please!!!!!

@charlottemygal528 4 ай бұрын

What a relatable episode 😢 i kept saying mmmh exactly the entire episode. Loved this so much❤ virtual hugs to you guys🫂❤️

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Virtual hugsssss🫂 ❤️

@OfentseKgwane-fl3kq 4 ай бұрын

You guys are cooking❤❤

@yanos._02 4 ай бұрын

Watching this from the West Coast...lm loving this Thatoo

@ousieasanele7929 4 ай бұрын

Love this it’s very educating 😊❤

@shaunellekulshekaran 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely LOVED this episode ladies 🌸💖

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

So glad you did 💕🥺

@boity_content3838 4 ай бұрын

ahhh you guys eat every single ep goshh😩❤❤❤‍🔥

@khomotsomatsena2966 4 ай бұрын

Ive never been to the gynecologist i should go

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

Definitely ❤️

@liisaimmanuel 4 ай бұрын

Love the color co-ordination

@user-pf8zq4zz4z 4 ай бұрын

Powerful ladies❤ more of God in your lives

@TsogoMogale 4 ай бұрын

Stephanie ike said this (paraphrasing) "everything or every role we play we are there to serve, so for example marriage, the both of us are there to serve each other more than to get something from it, so if you do anything marriage included and you are there for that thing to fulfill you YOU MISSED THE POINT

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Oof ! Powerful

@user-dl7rc3zr7e 4 ай бұрын

i love being here!!!

@leximhlongo7169 3 ай бұрын

I love this. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us all❤

@KaraboMabote 4 ай бұрын

Honestly this podcast has show that delulu is definitely not the solulu 😔💕

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

😭it really isn’t bandla

@aglanceofp 4 ай бұрын

Cant say how much ive learned in just 3 episode 💘💓

@p.bunnyy 4 ай бұрын

i def. feel like mammi is misunderstood, saying this because i was one of the people that didnt like her because of seeing her on other people's videos, but i think now that im seeing her personal POV and getting to know her, i LOVEEEEE her🥹

@yenziledlamini7708 4 ай бұрын

I really needed this 🥰

@sharonmlambo274 4 ай бұрын

My new favorite podcast ❤ Anyone who know the song on intro and outro

@kamogelocarol2217 4 ай бұрын

I just confirmed what Mammie was saying about not washing chicken and its surprisingly true.

@keneilwesebonego2140 4 ай бұрын

You guys,wow... I always look forward. Love love😊

@Annedee1 4 ай бұрын

I don’t know why most females don’t have good experiences with female gynaecologists. We go to them thinking we’ll feel seen and heard meanwhile no!🥺

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

Dude ! Tell me about it ! If there’s any place we should be seen and heard, it should be with a gynaecologist. But no 💔

@seipati_ 4 ай бұрын

What ever Caiah said about idolizing marriage yoh I felt that🥹

@Lurdesdaniela 4 ай бұрын

Every time i come here i am abused.😂 But on a serious note, I am loving every episode .

@itsrixiie 4 ай бұрын

U guys are doing tooo muchh❤❤❤😊😊😊 Love this ❤

@thembelihlethema2510 3 ай бұрын

Yoh a podcast I didn’t know I needed 😢

@user-px4ln2fk8t 4 ай бұрын

I think we need two podcast a week please guys

@jakobmarta4951 4 ай бұрын

soo informative vakwetu❤❤❤

@radebeandisiwe2548 4 ай бұрын

I enjoy this podcast alot these girls are doing the most❤❤love lots girls

@zondwatyalana5740 4 ай бұрын

I LOVED THIS

@kattiekondowe 4 ай бұрын

Mammie dearest hit home

@BotlhaleSetshedi 4 ай бұрын

WASH YOUR CHICKEN!!!!! INFACT BOIL IT, HAHHAHAHA

@ntombisiro 4 ай бұрын

sin is tiring. I feel attacked because I am in a longterm relationship.

@I_AM_TT29 4 ай бұрын

I feel like a drug addict. Can't get out of it. Knowing it's wrong, but it just feels good 😢😢

@tshegofatsomangena 4 ай бұрын

You just need to go to God and talk to HIM. Cry to HIM. Trust me, HE wants to hear from you. 🤍

@ndumiii 4 ай бұрын

I love the podcast❤

@nhlanhlanhlapo8210 4 ай бұрын

U guys are so relatable ❤

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

🥺mission accomplished !💃🏾

@SamanthaMotseki-wd4zu 4 ай бұрын

❤ Mondays are for girly chill

@HopeASMRR 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful episode ❣

@nkazimulo-m3474 4 ай бұрын

I'm empowered ❤

@dimphoselepe4542 4 ай бұрын

Stop making life time decisions for someone who has not made life time commitment to you

@cebolenkosikubeka759 4 ай бұрын

❤❤🙌✨️Thank you so much ladies

@keabetsoemqwati3837 3 ай бұрын

Hauu we didn't drop an emoji this time? 😭

@Kaleyakankwende 4 ай бұрын

Ohhh also it’s possible to be married and not living a life of purity😉

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

You Spitting 😭❤

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

YEEESSSSS SO TRUE

@omphilemakwetla8764 4 ай бұрын

Where can i find a Mary stope? I wanna go

@NyandanoSipholi 4 ай бұрын

they are preaching

@banyanam100 4 ай бұрын

😭😭 I can’t believe some guy made Caiah pay a bill😭

@CaiahM 4 ай бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I CANT BELIEVE IT EITHER . NEVER AGAIN

@zee_m778 4 ай бұрын

26:01 So embarrassed at my big age I haven't seen one 😭.

@Samanthakp12 4 ай бұрын

Best podcasts ❤ may God bless you content in Jesus name.

@Thokozane_Raidar24 4 ай бұрын

And that is just my opinion and don't take in a bad way , am not against you hence am always tuned in

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

We gave a disclaimer in ep1, that most of what we say is based of our own experiences up until this point in our lives, if our views and opinions change we will let our audience know. And because of the fact that what we say is experienced based, our opinions will mostly be feminine and cater to women. If you or anyone else thinks differently you are more than welcome to interact in the comment section and tell us your views ❤️

@Thokozane_Raidar24 4 ай бұрын

@MammiDearest I hear hence am saying understand every other part of it but reason I commented only on this episode is simply because you guys spoke on marriage...and you have no experience there...or rather I don't think any of you has over 3 to 5 years in a relationship???...I might be wrong

@MammiDearest 4 ай бұрын

@@Thokozane_Raidar24 I reiterate, if our views and opinions change we will inform our audience ❤️ Thank you for watching, appreciate it ❤️🙏