What’s up PandM Fam! Share some other first date Do’s and Don’ts 😊😊
@miguelramirez12676 жыл бұрын
Don't talk about yourself too much is a big don't
@virgeleyp.40406 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan what would be ok to wear?
@melissaowen996 жыл бұрын
Don't hint at marriage with the person.
@speaktheunspokentruth6 жыл бұрын
A genuine compliment is not too much on the first date, it tends to make me feel more comfortable with the person because I don't feel like they feel forced to be going to dinner with me
@jessimitchell20516 жыл бұрын
Compliments are always appreciated! But as far as being picked up, I would rather drive myself for a couple reasons. Driving myself prevents any sort of terrible situation from happening, like a kidnapping or them taking me somewhere we didn't plan on going. I know that sounds bad and like I'm not trusting, but it is better to be safe than have something incredibly bad happen. Maybe as a Christian woman I think this because I want to be skeptical due to all the bad date experiences I have heard of. The hope is that I would be going on a date with a nice and trustworthy Christian guy and that nothing bad happens. Driving myself simply takes the risk out of it. Also, driving myself allows me to have the opportunity to leave when I want right after the date or if I am uncomfortable with the person during the date. Just wanted to throw my perspective out there to you guys of why I would rather drive myself because maybe you've never thought of that.
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
What you’re saying makes sense :) appreciate the perspective!
@Liv2Pnt5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! I was in a situation like that, and it can get very uncomfortable. We had reconnected after several years and gone to dinner. In the process of reconnecting prior to going out, he said all the "right" things, but then wound up taking me down to a secluded area, and actually got mad (like legit ANGRY) when I wouldn't make out with him in the car and demanded he take me home!
@mistymountain37706 жыл бұрын
I think it is great to compliment people, as long as it's genuine. If one or both of you are just out to flatter the other person, then I don't think it's wise.
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Misty Mountain Right on! Glad we’re on the same page😊👍 Just be real
@missatomicbomb93336 жыл бұрын
I was advised and would advise that Christian dating couples should never be in a car alone together because it could lead to temptations, resulting in sin. Driving separately and meeting in public is much safer. That way you get public privacy. But even when in public or private, the safest course is a chaperone. Always use discretion, don't be naive, and do anything you can to guard and protect your relationship with God.
@lilamontoya56095 жыл бұрын
I appreciate a gentleman who picks me up and opens the car door
@valerieblake12656 жыл бұрын
I would feel wayyy more comfortable driving myself the first date haha
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, agreed :)
@justincarter2500 Жыл бұрын
"Just be genuine." Amen. PREACH!!!😁😁😁
@missatomicbomb93336 жыл бұрын
I was advised and would advise that Christian dating couples should never be in a car alone together because it could lead to temptations, resulting in sin. Driving separately and meeting in public is much safer. That way you get public privacy. But even when in public or private, the safest course is a chaperone. Always use discretion, don't be naive, and do anything you can to guard and protect your relationship with God. Personally, this tells me much about a mans standards if he is comfortable to ride solo with me. I find it much easier to respect a man if he takes steps to either provide a chaperone or to ride separately and meet me in public. I feel this shows respect for my relationship with God, and its not something he wants to jeopardize.
@rosemaryn.1455 жыл бұрын
To pick up or not: depends on the circumstances. Never if I don't know the person well enough/trust him. It's a matter of safety. Depends on the circumstances if I do know him well and trust him. Sometimes it's just not practical. Sometimes I just don't want to. Sometimes I would like to be picked up.
@dhall46045 жыл бұрын
I would just say... Be careful of putting all of the pressure on the girl to speak during the first date. This may amplify the pressure to impress you (the guy), and give you a distorted view of the person that you are sitting with. It makes a girl feel that you are mature/responsible/honoring them, and that you are somehow acknowledging the fact that you are both going out on a date with her parents--if she is living with her parents--if you pick her up in your car. Great advice otherwise (and in spite of;) )! Curfew suggestions? (Although that may be touched on in other videos.) Love the videos guys! Such a great witness and training grounds for our young people!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your opinions :)
@CluelessMamaD6 жыл бұрын
Conversation is so important and yes get the big things out of the way although sometimes it pushes Guys the wrong way. Kenny has talked about his exes so many times lol but I knew I married a man with no filter so it’s all good
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Clueless Mama D Baahaha you gotta appreciate an honest man, so go Kenny :D
@Candace-M-6 жыл бұрын
I am so glad I didn't go on first dates 😀 I would be SO nervous, especially if it was a blind date or someone I just met. I went to Starbucks on my first "date" with Jon after being friends for 5 months. Now we're married. Good advice and tips though 😄 I'd have to know those important things before deciding to go on a date, too. Good reason I'm married now and don't have to worry about meeting someone. Phew! 🙆🏽 My husbamd told me he loves me on our first official date, sooo.... I don't have good advice😂
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Candace McMasters Wow I love you in the first date! #boldness 😄 Yep, first dates can be pretty intense, but they can be fun too!
@Candace-M-6 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan Yeah, I decided it's not smart to tell young people who are dating my story bc then they'll think it's okay to do and don't understand that God already brought me and Jon together. We just had to make it official :D
@tessadebora56356 жыл бұрын
I’m going to ask a friend of my from church out on a date to starsbucks this week, i’ve known him for a year now and i think it’s time for me to take the first step 😜
@joshuaupke4584 жыл бұрын
Tessa Debora how did that go for you?
@meganmartin92545 жыл бұрын
Some advice 😁 don’t feel pressured to kiss at all on the first date. Just like Paul said, go for a simple side hug. Girls, don’t wear low cut tops or revealing clothing. Be discrete. It should be about what’s inside of you and not what is on top of you. Go to a place so you can create a conversation, for example, bowling!
@lexibewatchin6 жыл бұрын
my fav first date was getting ice cream and sitting my the beach! we talked for hours
@raeband916 жыл бұрын
Personally....my first date was a let down. We went to a very casual place. I never told him that it wasn’t quite what I expected, of course. That would have been so mean 😬 My vision of a first date is a nice restaurant...one that I have to dress up a little for. And I enjoy intelligent, engaging, funny and sometimes deep (but not overly personal) conversations. Just my thoughts 👍🏻
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
:)
@juliaolliges91086 жыл бұрын
Pick the girl up! 💁🏼♀️ and open the car door for her😍 I am not a feminist so I appreciate a gentleman ;)
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Baahaha I hear you😜
@itsliterature30986 жыл бұрын
Yes, pick her up and be a gentleman! But you can also be a feminist and appreciate a gentleman. Men and women are complementary :)
@Thegleechick6 жыл бұрын
You can be a feminist and appreciate chivalry at the same time lol
@conniek10396 жыл бұрын
I'm a feminist and I definitely appreciate gentlemen being chivalrous, feminism is not about hating men, but about empowering both women and men 😃
@andrewanonymous11065 жыл бұрын
The world needs more women like you 🤣
@dariabogdanov61176 жыл бұрын
Compliments are great, but only if said genuinely and not disrespectfully, like i wouldnt be too happy if my date came up to me and said “so hot” or something along those lines. Like later on sure, but not at the beginning😁 great vid😁
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
😊👍
@lydiasmith98425 жыл бұрын
He looks so much like Morgan!!
@carmenvillalba30825 жыл бұрын
I always appreciate compliments, but I know that some girls are different
@savanarambeau62195 жыл бұрын
I do the same, I ask about their relationship with God before I date
@jazzye_925 жыл бұрын
When he used my name in an example and I wasn't fully paying attention haha... Like uhh yes Paul? Lol
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that’s awesome
@julianbender26425 жыл бұрын
On a first date would ice cream be an option
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Oh yes!
@Maddie567804 жыл бұрын
I would be more comfortable being picked up but that’s because my anxiety would be going crazy about the location and the time and I would be doubting myself
@lilibetmera50274 жыл бұрын
Panera should pay you Paul! 😂😂😂
@PaulandMorgan4 жыл бұрын
😁🙌
@tabbyrh9786 жыл бұрын
Haha I love how you always link the single guys' Instas :P Cracks.me.up. Another great video, guys!
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Tabby RH bahaha you know it😜 Thanks Tabby!
@Killermillerstudios4 жыл бұрын
Complements are very much appreciated I’ve never been on a first date before and I’ve never really been complemented by a boy but I can’t wait for that day when I am allowed to date! I am very excited 😆
@PaulandMorgan4 жыл бұрын
😊
@gabbyvonmeier56706 жыл бұрын
Put him in more videos!!
@toliseadkisson71245 жыл бұрын
This was great!!
@brandonburrell85174 жыл бұрын
Don't fart on a first date. Don't talk about your exes. Got it. First one might be hard though.
@makersjoseph32636 жыл бұрын
What type of video camera do you use? Nice video
@PaulandMorgan6 жыл бұрын
Makers The Great thanks man. This was an IPhone 7 :)
@tamsonite86746 жыл бұрын
I love this video ... what is your view on guys and girls saying that a person is sexy ... personally to me its degrading ?
@jasontlaige62345 жыл бұрын
you guys make a cute couple
@nicolerice31515 жыл бұрын
1:15 so true! I was on a blind first date with someone that paid for a fancy dinner and a show, and it was not good 😬 Pick up for the date... I usually say no for a first or second date, but I guess it depends on how well you already know the person 🤷 Just kind of a safety thing sometimes
@Marissa123956 жыл бұрын
You guys are awesome
@spyrobotonis454310 ай бұрын
How can you help me to find a date for me I could use the help
@gissie3916 жыл бұрын
not even side hug.not first I font want to talk all time.I wouldn't complement straight awsu I'd be careful as if someone has asbergers someone can.jisy do all right things.I don't like being walked home.goodbye formal no side hug!
@megannelson45064 жыл бұрын
Hey Pual and Morgan. Is it ok to go on a second date with someone who you do not see yourself getting into a relationship with?
@KellBell-oz3cu5 жыл бұрын
My Christian male friend picked me up and it was just him and I in the car....he took me to church, but I like him and so it was a bit awkward kinda I thought of it more as an “awee” way not a date or anything cause taking me to church isn’t a date But only meaning it as friends?
@kristinchappell66775 жыл бұрын
The real question (because this is the first time I've watched this video) is, is Kyle still single? Lol
@alethacates24974 жыл бұрын
I Like a nice compliment
@noahwernert47986 жыл бұрын
I went to school with "fellow dating expert" Kyle Hawley and no he was not
@christianwisner2675 жыл бұрын
If a guy were to compliment me on a first date I wouldn't mind. They don't need to but it would be nice
@patrinarichards2435 жыл бұрын
No not Panera lol
@kaylynbogatzki32426 жыл бұрын
I work at panera🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I can't eat much there
@juliahawley64524 жыл бұрын
My last name is Hawley, probably related somehow lol
@PaulandMorgan4 жыл бұрын
Haha nice! Maybe 😊
@msmollybk6 жыл бұрын
Ding ding ding Panera
@imanpa59235 жыл бұрын
❤️
@johnnynapoletanojr62446 жыл бұрын
It should have the right to choose from one got to the other You should not have a rights but all that should be pulled from them Any my respect men Know these guys who want to go with these women their little simps You 1 after 1 thing sex and that's it The women are smart they know that and take you for what They can Get Is it that women any more than a little girls but 14 year old minds In doesn't change the matter How old they are