I couldn't agree with you more. Enjoyed reading your commentary.

Well said Mr. Right on the money

Yes all true

I'm an old school feminist in my 50s. Married almost 20 years. 5'7", dress size 8/10. I feel a great deal of concern about how the feminist message has been mangled by younger folks in particular. And there's a lot of mangling! I was reading a metastudy earlier today about misperceptions of feminism. In reality, feminist identifying women resent men less than non-feminist-identifying women. Feminist couples tend to be happier and report more harmony and greater happiness. I can easily great it. My worst relationships were with men hostile to feminism. Hands down, they were the most controlling and disrespectful of all my relationships. The feminist message is about respect on both sides. Self-awareness. Creating something that works for both partners. It feels like Feminism Lite is destroying women and relationships. I'm not sure I recognize those ideals in young women today. The callers to this show sound just delusional! Meanwhile, I'm almost 20 years into a blissful marriage to a great, passionate man who is strong, capable, and respectful. He treats me like gold and I treat him the same. Our day to day lives look pretty "traditional" and that works for us. What makes us feminist is that we respect each other. I've been in a traditional looking marriage with a fundie before, and his sheer disrespect for me ultimately turned into contempt, control-lust, sexual abuse, and eventually threats of physical abuse. It's amazing how different the first husband was from the second in terms of basic civility and humankindness. In fact, I only knew two couples out of hundreds in my church days who were happy. They'd have killed for what my husband has now. On that note, I was reading an MRA space the other day. A dozen of these anti-feminists were fantasizing about marriage with women who treated them kindly. Who worked alongside them to build a life together. Who could be trusted and even depended upon. And I thought about my wonderful husband, who told me just yesterday how grateful he was that he could count on me to work with his budget and bake bread for him to eat, so he doesn't need to order out for lunch. (I love him so much. We're not rich in money, but I could not care less.) I consider feminism to be what makes me a worthwhile wife to a high quality man like him. It makes me self aware enough to maintain my body and contribute meaningfully to my family. It makes me happy to cook and tend house and get him drinks after work. That's feminism to me. Anyway, just some thoughts. I'm not the speaker for all feminists. This is just how I interpret it and how it's impacted my life. Best wishes. (My tablet has it in for me. Please excuse typos.)

Facts and truths!

Lmao

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That was so gangsta

Yeah but men are free because men set them free too. Also, men and women were not free because of men too. Beside that nonsense it's silly to think that women weren't involved or an influence in everything that men have done throughout his life from the day he was born.

@@Cynnas men aren’t the ones who say they don’t need men. Nor or men the ones saying that men are useless. Check yourself and your “sistas” for they rhetoric y’all use. Not me.

This made me tear up! Miss him so much 😢

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I agree...he gets the comments flowing🙄🤔

Shit popping

Yup I am thoroughly entertained to say the least

Facts. He is providing content that our community needs, I’ve met the women he describes. I hope our people come together have more love, and stop living in fantasy land.

I have to strongly agree with you.

Dan 240Z I had no idea the percentage was that high 😮

FACTS, LG (and I don't mean Life's Good). Ya dig? Very good point you made there. I thought the same thing as each woman called in to the broadcast.

Facts bro

I don’t know why anyone would expect someone else to raise “their” kids

There are many men that would take on a woman with kids. I'm just saying get with those men. If she makes 40 with kids and he makes 50 then get with him and rock that 90. In south eastern mi that's decent enough for a 3 bedroom 2 car garage 1400sqft home. $1300 a week after taxes. Be happy and grow together to 100 or 120k. But this fantasy of being a power couple on TV requires a history of working toward that in which could still be done with an average Joe. In fact a relationship would be powerful if they grew together. Hence power couple.

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Yeah, I didn't know what she was saying or attempting to say. Jesus christ 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

I was like what ?!...but then said in aesthetics 🥴...I’m convinced she meant something else she couldn’t pronounce 🤦🏾‍♀️

That was horrible. And she repeated it as it she was correct. At 23 she really struggled pronouncing something she has obtained.

Co. Sign

The powers that be wont allow him to go mainstream. You have to kiss up and BS people to go mainstream. This platform could serve to correct bad behaviors amongst alot of people of color...., so it wont be allowed

I hope so, but he's a little out of touch.

@@egavasr8462 How so?

@@GnosticCushite I think he's working at of an old rule book, situations change. The world changes. Not saying he's completely wrong, just a little unrealistic

hey just wanna say hi, i live in Virginia beach Virginia, but originally from Huntington L.I.

Likewise.

@T Martin Oh yes. My wife now wears a ring that’s the size of doorknob. 💍I greatly appreciate her time and patience.

It's hard for me, I'm an immigrant with no green card. I'm handsome, talented, & the issue is being broke & not having a legal 9-5 cuz of my work permit.

@@realjcoop182 there is someone for everyone...just keep working my friend.

@@thesaintsification you were an actual good man who just fell on hard times. Women today choose a mooching bum and then are surprised when they never get a ring at all. You actually had a plan for life. Many women assume a man in your position is a bum who isnt worth the time or patience.

iSprint4GEyes they’re also more concerned about height that actual characteristics that would make a partner suitable. They aren’t serious at all

Erick Lavingston dude did you even read his comment? He mentioned height. The VV girl was cute, she just need to stop playing with her life like it’s a game. Ain’t getting younger smh

Damn this was the real 👊🏾😎

This chick on the phone sent me a throwback pic talking about she 5’2 I’m 5’5 I pulled up she damn near obese. Like 5’9.

@@asiatic_black ouch. That's what get me. When a chick have nothing but her sexy pics up in her heels and skirts looking cute BUT no other natural looking pictures you just know when yall meet she gon look 5 years older and no efforts will be into her appearance. I'm like show me what I'm getting not your girls night out seeking attention only BS

When 90 percent of black America is raised without father figures

Real talk 💯

gotdammit this was a real statement

Ding

Facts

@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest because men that you want have opinions first. he wants a wife do you know how to be one? how old are you these men usually want kids. do you know any man that make 100,000? do you know what these men want? there are a plethora of things that go into this. like are you aware that only 10% of men make 100,000 or more? 80% of the women want 20% of the men. so what makes you think he would even want you? but I digress tho.

Because people on both sides BW and BM think if they marry or date out of their race all their issues will be solved and that's not always the case

Its Definitely a myth. And its blown out of proportion by bitter BW

@@star782jones9 but dating a non black woman is less problems. Lower chance of overweight, fewer baby moms, fewer women out of broken houses etc

@@piotrjeske4599 wow...smdh

@@paulbunyan9436 I've never twerked and I'm soft-spoken. Quite frankly, most of us don't want to marry Africans or Islanders. Glad the feeling is mutual. Thank you very much.

Aww. 😂

@Gravity Pull On Earth I agree 💯%

KS is repackaging "prejudice and bigotry" spraying it with "eau du parfum" and selling it back to the black community, everything bad in black communities is on the shoulders of black males

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If they don't cry, then they are just confused even more when the conversation is over. They just have to find themselves in life.

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It's Mrs. Bossy Trick Ask yourself why you just had to reply to a comment you say doesn't apply to you. 😆

I never liked or go parties, for me is a waste of time, money and sleeping 😝

Spot on!

AAAAAAMEN!

Western women have become absolute sh.t...they ask for everything and give nothing back !!!

Bless you. Sista. Ebony. I’m glad you have heeded The Godfather’s. Advice . He has you’ll (Black Women). backs

✌️✌️ N. ❤️❤️

He is very insightful at catching deception and distraction.

Yes he is yes he is

Loud angry mean black women

It's working because those were the answers to two different questions. The first one was if she wants to work when married. The second answer was to the question what is the top she could do in her job. But yeah.... She said she plans to start studying. Maybe she was talking this is what she would do while waiting to find "the one".

I think Kevin was talking about speech therapy for this one! 😂

Amen ma'am I think a lot of women lack this standard and are extremely selfish with entitlement but won't look at themselves to understand they are their own worst enemy the way they want to leave their relationships just acknowledge accountability and do the work

She wasn’t that bad to me. She just need to have a solid plan for her next chapter. A lot of millennials are living at home.

Trav I think she might be making decent money. She need to stop acting like a man is going to pop out the sky without any effort to relocate or present herself. I have faith in lil mama

Just completely out of touch with reality 🤦🏿‍♂️

She made my head hurt because she sounded like she wasn’t taking it serious. Somebody will still wife her up. She knows it too

Yeah she needs to sit down with herself & be honest about her goals. She could have what she wants if she works hard for it. She gotta get out the boondocks & learn to live for herself.

T Martin For women only. You would be hard/pressed to find 3 episodes that mentioned anything about what a woman should Bering to the table. It was ALWAYS about what a men should do, should bring to the table, etc... and these women think that it’s ALL about them and they don’t have to do anything. Which is why his show ended up getting replaced.

It's not just Steve Harvey, this is a generational thing that has gotten worse and worse, starting with baby boomers.

@@cw5971 I agree 100% with you!

He’s not the only one, blame derrick jaxn and the entire generation of pander bears.

True. Steve Harvey has deceived a lot of people. U will not get a man women there got their checklist on hand ticking with a red pen.

That was embarrassing..

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I was rollin when she said that.. like WTH

I was in tears, B

LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That video was a wake up call for all women

GOD bless you all. GOD loves you all. Have a blessed day everyone.

@Nick M I know bro. She fooled all of us. I saw her response video over the weekend and I was like this 😳🤦🏾‍♂️....

I think she may be something to work with. She didn’t seem loose, just socially awkward. She stacking money so can’t take that away from her

@@adetayow6213 yeah thats the only bone of contention i have with kevin, its an out of date, silly boomer attitude that young people should be out living in their own.

Natty Kadifa exactly. Many other cultures don’t even expect their children to live on their own until they’ve finished school or about to marry. She mentioned something about her culture so I don’t think she’s American. I could be wrong.

I honestly think he heard that sociology degree & it was a wrap for him. 💀 she wasn’t shabby. She needs a dating coach & imagine consulting because she’s not looks challenged

Glad he offers parity to men when assessing her situation because this is what we think.

hats off to you, best story ever, only our sister's not all but alot of them think that way. if they come up they automatically think they are better than others.

@@johneleazer5232 on God my brother... salute man 🙏🏾💯

At all! Shit is appalling

You hate to see it 🤦🏾‍♂️

Well yeah she was taught/learned to believe that she deserves anything she wants from her parents and society.

@NGU Caesar Exactly, I didnt miss the point maybe I wasnt clear or didn't explain what I meant well. I mean to want things and receive those things without putting in work like you point out. They are taught to want things and expect to receive those or feel like they deserve those things without putting in the work to get there. That just existing is enough.

Most women don’t qualify for the men they want,

Sad reality to witness. The older generations of women did a number on them.

Feminist have ruined this generation of women. The reality is that the earliest feminist were all lesbians trying to recruit others by making them unattractive to men.

Can you provide solely based on your salary

Sadly this is true.

GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...

@Barnet not as a courier but as a cdl triples and doubles team driver.

@Barnet It's not the dream they're selling you, most people are living check to check.

@@jgun4125 right it's really hard in America unless you work all day

Bruh how short are you. I’m 5’7 and this doesn’t stop anything. Women use shit test and most of them honestly know they can’t get what they think they can catch but she does shoot for the stars which is nothing wrong with that. Women give in faster because they know what level they are on.

@@popa213 but fuckem lol

Good start

Truthfully if the guy works and respect you then you might have to reevaluate your decision especially at 44. Most men in the 40s to 60s that are in shape with money would rather deal with younger women to have fun. Especially if they were divorced

I feel at 44 your values should be on a more realistic standard. Exercising is good for you but shouldn’t be just to get a man because if you get him you will gain the weight right back. Most women who are older and attracted to the same guys they wanted in their 20s usually feel like they missed out. Every older woman I know usually just want a man that will love them whole heartedly and not run out on them Lol. This is an example of why older men date young because if he’s going to date a woman that’s delusional it might as well be a young tight woman that hasn’t aged yet that he can mold into what he wants mentally and sexually.

@@popa213 The thing about older men who do that is they don’t usually don’t see what’s to come. She’s young and women who date older men don’t actually WANT older men. They just compare older men to the men their age and the older men are more stable and the younger men you’d have to actually go through that process WITH him rather than just walking into it! But when the woman gets older herself and now all the men her age are older too, her man just looks....old. She stops seeing him as this great Superman and she realizes he wasn’t so much better than the other men he was just older. Then her man who was “better” suddenly becomes the “least” option because she can get a man who’s not old and is still stable. That’s why most men with younger women get left. Men and women have to realize that they BOTH need to be realistic! No young girl WANTS an older man. She’s just too young and inexperienced to realize he’s just an older man and that’s the only reason he knows to do things young men don’t. He’s not special....he’s old! I work with women ALL the time that married and dated and are now leaving and divorcing older men and they say “He trapped me.” “He took advantage of me!” “I was too young for him!” And the men are confused about what went wrong! Both men and women are delusional if you ask me. Everybody wants better than what they qualify for. Including older men who are delusional enough to think young women genuinely want THEM and not just their stability. Men who think young women are actually going to stay in that mindset he “trained” her into when she sees her peers with men equally as stable as her old ass man but much more strong and youthful with ten times the stamina! It’s delusional to think a young woman wants a older man without being confused or having an issue driving her in that direction. But both men and women have their delusions broken in the end.

@@popa213 And the delusions stem from nobody wanting to put up with each other’s shit. Everybody wants to dodge “settling” just to get a wake up call in the end! Men are not settling for women their age when they get older and women aren’t settling for men who are decent upstanding guys but not meeting every mark. Both are in fact playing themselves!!!! Men play themselves dating younger women and women do the same by curving men they could have build great lives and foundations with. It’s all the same, just a male version and a female version. Men like to tell women what men want and claim we don’t listen but they don’t listen either when we say young women don’t want you!!!! We’re women! We KNOW they don’t want you and if the young woman HERSELF is too undeveloped to know it right now, she’ll know it one day! I coach them ALL the time divorcing some man who’s just an old geezer to her now. Old men can’t beat young women off with a stick because they’re running from having to actually build with a man their age the same thing she can walk into and benefit from with an older man. When I was 22 I remember older men liking me and my friends and we’d be like ugghhhh he’s like 40! And there’s always that one friend who’s willing to date him for the stability after we all called him old and said ughhh including her! Nobody pays attention to how in those relationships you don’t fit in with his peers and he doesn’t fit in with yours. Now he the dude in his 40’s and 50’s with a wife in her 20’s that his friends wives don’t want to hang with because nobody hangs with 25 year olds but him. Then you going to your homie tryna get him to get his wife to hang with your wife because she needs guidance and is at an irritating young stage of life you BEEN passed. And now your wife is the kid of the group that everybody else’s wife calls suga and sweetheart and tells her to hand them shit in the kitchen but nobody takes her seriously. And you’re her older man her peers can’t understand why she’s with and might even think is gross. I have seen it ALL kinds of ways except the way the man imagined it in his delusion. I got a friend almost 50 with a 28 year old he had since she was 23 and she just posted flat out that she sick of him on social media!!! Lol. But hey, 28 years olds do that kind of stuff, they often post everything on social media! I’m sure he’s annoyed with the immaturity of it all. Lol. Delusions are always better in theory than in real life!

The crazy thing is there are a crap load of Grant's for women to join the stem field

@Lions Hunt her stem job would be helpful to any man lol

@SeventhkeyOmega Revenge I work in the stem field and most of them do. The don't respect them but alot of them do. We got the strong independent types too. Most cant date men on their level because they want to be in charge. And the stem chicks look like the stem dudes lol

@Lions Hunt your missing the point. If a women can be a team player her income would be a asset to the family unit as a whole.

@@kevikev214 Yop, and they can provide as many grants as they want, but they can't guarantee "equal outcome", only "equal opportunity" (and waste resources). Men and women are different. But what do we expect from a society (the Left) that believes the nonsense that "gender is a social construct" and has nothing to do with biology?

Right, what kind of deal is that for the men? 🥱

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@It's Mrs. Bossy Trick an overwhelming majority of the population legitimately CAN'T afford it. But then there's the other part that do it only on gov't assistance....

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TheDCGuitar13 right he really is passionate about what he’s talking about. He could just sit back & watch the train wreck like the rest of us 🤣

Does the same thing apply to Larry Elder & Officer Tatum? Are they "Bashing" Black people or is it love?

Erick Lavingston sometimes he does!🤣😂he will just let them ramble on and then catch them in a lie 5 secs later🤣

They’d rather be comforted with a lie than spared by the truth. Damn shame

GOD bless you all. GOD loves you all. Have a blessed day everyone.

Classic

These ladies need to know. They're watching too many videos. Before Kevin Samuel recently died he spoke the facts. Sounds like she may have listened to Kevin but didn't absorb the key points. I miss Kevin.

I believe he's on the road.

It’ll be back. He’s not in his home state right now

Women don’t care... they never do until they have their own son. Then their eyes open and they see all the hoeness...

Christian Lara Lol true

Amen sister

Your son is definitely going to bring home a Becky, Lucia, Hiroko or a Priya. Will you be ok with that?

You pretty much said it. Your son is being raised by both you and his father. Compared to most Black kids that makes him different. My daughter is in middle school. She has talked to my wife and I about feeling disconnected from the other Black girls. And honestly, as a parent, I see exactly what your son sees. Most of the Black girls at her school are hood. And this is at a school in a "nice" neighborhood. The things I see with our Black kids, particularly the girls, blows my mind. I had to start talking to my daughter about sex in elementary school because of the things girls were saying at her school. Not the boys, the girls. There's so much more I could write. But you get the point.

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I scrolled for a long time looking for this😂😂😂

Everytime

When you live in a tyrannical state, telling the truth becomes an act of treason

I was the same way unfortunately. Until I finally just said let me go. No time would be the right time like I thought. Going through the struggle taught me about those things. Sometimes if we don’t listen we can remember the lesson later.

Exactly. They’ve been coddled all their life & can’t even handle honest feedback. They’d rather argue like they know what men really want. Gotta eat the meat & spit out the bones

@Ted Tillman Point taken.

@@tiffanypearsall6219 I think feminism is poisoning a lot of black women's minds against their men. I am in the United Kingdom and I even see it here. It is frustrating because so many black men want to settle down with black women. In America most high earning black men are married to black women though. Black men under 40, who earn $100K and more, marry Black women about 70% of the time. However, Black men under 40 who earn $35K and less, marry Black women about 60% of the time. So all hope is not lost and it is not that bad yet. These stats are extrapolated from US Census Bureau data.

@@_Svndxy it's going to require a lot of mental deprogramming from generations of being pack mules, overly independent, abrasive, and self-neglect. A lot of women watching Kevin's channel are waking up and being receptive to these hard truths. Unfortunately, some lessons are being learned too late, but better late than never. It's just a matter of bw being able to learn this info en masse for major change to happen.

@@tiffanypearsall6219 Yeah you make some good points..BW are having a hard time because reality hits them later in life..As men, were forced to face reality early in life...So we either make the proper adjustments, or pick our lanes and move accordingly....Women have a much harder time because for so long they're put on a pedestal and fed a fantasy...So later on in life, anything that doesn't feed the fantasy, is seen as negative

Right. Can’t be mad that she moved back to a cheaper area to save. She sounded like she has a plan.

I think that the caller is going to be just fine. She just needs to move. She was pretty to me

It is but there is nothing out there. She better get out while she can. That is nuts to me.

I moved to Victortville/Apple Valley Ca. 4 years ago. When I moved to California in 2014 I lived in Santa Clarita. Beautiful area but expensive. I bought a brand new house in Apple Valley for 255K. 3 bedrooms, 2 baths, 1600sqft. on 1/2 acre of land. There's plenty of things out here, unless you are looking for clubs, partying, etc. The new high speed rail will start in Apple Valley and go to Las Vegas. This will be completed in 2023. This will bring people from L.A. to the area to travel to Vegas. I've got my business plan ready to open up a business at or near the train station.

GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...

Right!!! Grown ass living at home with a decent job, not paying rent!, and only got 5k saved. Kevin hit it on the head!!

He say women like her are female losers and he's not wrong I had few of those in my family.these particular women will free load off their family for years then have the nerve to blame their problem and short comings on others

Guys say this but would kill for the content she makes 💀 Demand something and get angry there's a supply?

@@badger6882 nope nobody would kill for sexual content lol and stop assuming all men pay for onlyfans

@@jankhank3894 It's a hyperbole lol

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Lmaooo this made my night 💀💀🤣

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When I heard that I was like. (Wait? How did you get that wrong?)

I bursted our laughing at that

Plastic surgery is big bucks

I’d contact him for a preliminary plan for your career, social circle/skills, religious application. He’ll take you more seriously when you’re at work full time. I, personally, learn more from people’s mistakes. So, I watch for the business, social, dating, financial gaffes ie get educated, don’t be a loner, and make 3 times your wage.

Being a father of two kids, I can easily tell which doctor is doing it just for the money. I avoid them like the plague.

As a physician....look for a spouse while in med school if you're a woman. If you're a man, you have time

GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...

Bruh i just made a comment about that and wondered if anyone else caught that 😂😂

Both are correct ways of pronouncing the word.

I almost fell out the chair when he said it like she did 😂

Don't feel bad, I make less than shit, just find a way to improve

$80 +K is good money...

U a nurse bro?

Bruh I bring in 100k plus and that is not nearly enough, I don’t think it will ever be enough.

@@selwynedwards8964 well said.

fOR rEAL, i RATHER, sTORM, cHOKE.

Exactly, I think that Kevin missed the mark with that call. I do think that she will have no problems. She seemed very optimistic & receptive.

Leroy Green I don’t think she ever left

Yeah that town is like a black hole. I hope the best for her. At least she’s saving up

moblack that’s what I was thinking too. Seems like she’s sheltered & out of touch with the real world. Somebody will wife her tho

She needs life coaching & a stylist. She should be able to make things work in her favor. And ppl say that BM aren’t supportive towards BW. All I see is constructive feedback because we actually do care. I’m still getting my jokes off though lmao

She's dumb

Maybe she just needs a bit of training, she's still young and life is hard if you don't have anyone to show you the ropes so don't be nasty.

Nah 1:45:00 😂🤣 fawkkk ya mean

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hey my Caucasian brother, my name is john Eleazer. just saying hello, because you don't often see our last names

@johneleazer5232 You sure don't! It's funny, because many of the few other people I've come across w the name have been black. Good to meet another Eleazer.

@Aaroon R you are absolutely correct. A full understanding of math will benefit you in any field. I am glad you broke this down for everyone to see and fully understand.

@LegalTender1 trade schools first, then go to college

@Dan 240Z both. a man only becomes serious after 35. he has a lot of time. All he needs is guidance.

@Dan 240Z successful men are not born, they are mentored.

LegalTender1 believe it or not but law enforcement is having Hugh problem with getting people to apply for jobs. And the pay has goin up in major cities due to the fact of stigma associated with job and public perception. most officers I KNOW make between 90 to 100 with little overtime, and it’s s guaranteed retirement pension. No education beyond hs diploma needed but those that do get paid extra.

A woman can make bank running a daycare from home, especially if she gets with a county program that pays for low-income children.