Doctor Mike and Mortician React To “Six Feet Under”

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3 жыл бұрын

Caitlin Doughty is the creator behind the KZfaq channel “Ask A Mortician” where she normalizes death and educates her audience about what happens after… well… you know. Being the brilliant mortician she is, I thought it would make a lot of sense for us to not react to a medical drama, but a death drama, so we watched HBO’s Six Feet Under. Despite my years of medical training and experience, there isn’t a lot I know about what happens to the human body after it dies, so Caitlin enlightened me to things such as what happens to prosthetics, the smells of a mortuary, and what happens to your various orifices.
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@kitsunecookie372 3 жыл бұрын

I see Caitlin, I click. I am but a simple Deathling.

@emilymatthews2990 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@auditoryeden 3 жыл бұрын

same same. i'd never seen this dude before, though i had heard of him. he seems cool.

@h.calvert3165 3 жыл бұрын

She is our Death Mother, after all. ☺

@baileybritton4138 3 жыл бұрын

TRUTH

@melaninqueen1286 3 жыл бұрын

Ikr I love her sooo much😁

@carollyncheeyen 3 жыл бұрын

Caitlin: "If you don't take care of yourself soon, I will."

@StratospheralNurse 3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment! Hilarious and true.

@LarryOfilms 3 жыл бұрын

You can always count on a sassy zinger from her!

@-danR 3 жыл бұрын

I think she saw Final Destination and thought Dr. Bludworth was the hero.

@integralinsanity1641 3 жыл бұрын

Ahahhahahahaha what XD love her

@shugadaddy4841 3 жыл бұрын

😳😂

@morphman86 3 жыл бұрын

Caitlin: "I was studying medieval history, and in medieval times, there was a lot of death" My brain: "Oh my god, you're right. Everyone who lived in medieval times are now dead!"

@clandez6021 2 жыл бұрын

If I recall my textbooks, life expectancy was late 30's to 40's in those times

@johnpeace971 2 жыл бұрын

@@clandez6021 The bad part of this is we live longer now but our bodies are only designed to last as long as medieval times. After 40 everything breaks down and you need more and more artificial ingredients to keep it going. So YAY we live longer, but BOO the 2nd half of our live is constant and unbroken pain

@miss1of2 2 жыл бұрын

I heard her little "the middle ages were magic!" Transition... I like her channel a lot

@morphman86 2 жыл бұрын

@@johnpeace971 I hope you do know that average lifespan doesn't mean people died at that age. It means there were so many that died in childhood that the average got lowered. Most who lived to adulthood would be between 60 and 90 when they did back then too. Higher average lifespan just means not as many die young.

@neonnnn110 2 жыл бұрын

@@clandez6021 That’s from averaging infant mortality rates. Lots of people who survived childhood lives into their sixties. And there are accounts of people for example Edward III of England living to around 64, give or take. So old was still old not 40.

@funglegunk 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way Caitlin phrased speaking about the brain. 'You're holding the seat of the soul.' 'It's a privilege.' Pretty cool.

@gennymoore1830 3 жыл бұрын

"The middle ages were magic"

@bandgeekonflute 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@shannon890 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!!!!

@sophierobinson2738 3 жыл бұрын

Bentham's head...

@SL-fd5fp 3 жыл бұрын

Secret porpoise

@baylichelsea1041 3 жыл бұрын

... WITCH!

@antoniodelarosa6549 3 жыл бұрын

Titanium hips post cremation are made into signs? So when the sign says "stop", that's a dead person telling you to not get hit by a car.

@dinazwitscher9872 3 жыл бұрын

Why do you have to make it creepy lol

@sallyintucson 3 жыл бұрын

Antonio De La Rosa BAHAHAHAHA!!!

@CorvusCorone68 3 жыл бұрын

@@dinazwitscher9872 and how about airplane parts, the next plane trip you take could partially be cuz someone died

@ruthm8133 3 жыл бұрын

When hearing about replacements being recycled into planes i was kinda chuffed for that person that always wanted to fly, be a pilot or even be a plane deep in their heart❤️✈️ 😊

@nawaffleplayz1352 3 жыл бұрын

Hey I died by a car don’t do it too

@powerstation0872 2 жыл бұрын

Their conversation about seeing random bodies vs someone you know is so real. When my boyfriend died, I spent some time with his body shortly after. And it was an incredibly eerie, but also heartbreaking experience. There's something about the way a dead person looks, particularly with the eyes. It was so uncannily sad to look into his eyes, and for the first time know that nobody is looking back at you. He didn't look asleep, he looked dead. He died with his eyes open wide. And I'll never get that image out of my head. But still, I don't regret it. I got to spend one last intimate moment with him.

@AG-iu9lv 9 ай бұрын

My little cousin was 29. He looked so old, or his body did, anyway. The stuffed, sewn shut eyes drew me in and I could not help but count the stitches.

@Becksnnc 8 ай бұрын

This made me cry.

@brettjones4733 3 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss , that must have been incredibly hard 😢

@DancingOnGlass89 3 ай бұрын

I am sorry for your loss, but very much appreciate you sharing. Your words were quite elegantly put I must add.

@user-zy9dc9ss6n 2 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad you got to be with your loved one at that time. You got to say goodbye to him when no one else was there. My husband passed away very suddenly, unfortunately he was out of town in another State. I was in no shape to drive to the State where he died by myself. So, I never got to say goodbye or see him until the mortician brought him home for the funeral. God Bless.

@carmenmb94 3 жыл бұрын

I read her book "Smoke Gets in Your Eyes" years ago. I've been a fan ever since. The idea of my family spending thousands of dollars to preserve the shell I used on earth, store it in a pretty box inside a glorified septic tank is absolutely ridiculous. I've been eating animals all my life. It's their turn.

@Sassy-pants68 2 жыл бұрын

Animals are going to eat you, the bugs are “The bugs always win”… Gil Grissom CSI

@VeronikaCheb 2 жыл бұрын

That's what I say

@UncleAnaesthesia 2 жыл бұрын

[Spoilers from a 20 year old show In the show, Nate asks for a green funeral and to be quite honest, I want it that way as well: wrap me into a white sheet, in a hole in the ground, simple stone marker.

@LDXReal 2 жыл бұрын

@@UncleAnaesthesia I want that too, to just decompose peacefully, i hate the idea of being in a coffin

@kaspianepps7946 2 жыл бұрын

For a moment I genuinely thought you were saying that your family are vegetarian and you want them to eat your corpse - probably a sign I should go to bed.

@henriquekonradt541 3 жыл бұрын

You have summoned the Deathlings Doctor Mike, things may get a little weird arround here now...

@thatdudedorian 3 жыл бұрын

you are rIGHT

@emilymatthews2990 3 жыл бұрын

Yasss!!!

@pollyrg97 3 жыл бұрын

Yep. Had never heard of this guy, but, Caitlin.

@chloehudd9650 3 жыл бұрын

Best comment ever

@deedee5825 3 жыл бұрын

Yeeeeeeeessssssssss

@hydrashade1851 3 жыл бұрын

"sometimes its made into airplane parts" good to know I was probably flying on someones titanium hip

@ritab5153 3 жыл бұрын

at least it's not a stop sign!

@wolfiestar5185 3 жыл бұрын

@Bjorn Arnesen Billy: Wha- Mommy! I’m scared!

@teamadventurebeagle4392 3 жыл бұрын

I got this weird witch on a femur with a hip image, so that's fun

@robloxgod3348 3 жыл бұрын

its scary to think that someones titanium hip can be the propeller infront of me

@ethancarbine6458 2 жыл бұрын

Even crazier thought is having helped handle and shape a titanium piece of metal that was later put into a plane. That años happened to be recycled from a crematorium.

@chloemiller2483 3 жыл бұрын

My aunt died very recently and I immediately went back to work at the “body farm” at my school and the first donor I put out I actually sobbed because all I could think of was this was someone’s family that died just like my aunt. Luckily my anthropology teacher was there with me and told me it didn’t mean that I was “weak” but that I was feeling normal emotions that would pass. Seeing a dead body is always strange but I guess I had gone callused to it until I lost someone very close to me.

@flippinfajitas 3 жыл бұрын

Do you go to UT?

@Kinobambino 2 жыл бұрын

How are you lovely

@zipp4everyone263 Жыл бұрын

Doing the job you and your peers do is hard, and feeling sad once in a while is actually good. Humans are adaptable social creatures and as such we are usually afraid of death but can be trained to put those emotions aside. I think its entirely natural to feel sad and cry when someone close to you dies. Working with dead bodies or studying death... i dont think youd be able to stay sane unless you found a way to separate your feelings and your logical nature. I dont know what you do or what your job really entails but id strongly suggest having a professional to talk to. Not because you'll go crazy but rather so that you have a way of dealing with your own thoughts and dont get depressed

@mylovesongs2429 11 ай бұрын

my aunt died recently. she was cremated. my uncle suspects arson.

@user-fd4vy4py9w 11 ай бұрын

I think that’s the thing about life. We are spiritual beings in a physical vessel and once we die we leave our vessel behind. That’s what gives me hope of an after life. The fact that we can die and vacate our physical being.

@abigail1023 Жыл бұрын

Words cannot describe how much I loved Six Feet Under, as a show that could have me crying and laughing hysterically in the same episode.

@lowcalmoon3305 3 жыл бұрын

“I work on preventing people from becoming corpses” must be the best description of a doctor’s work that’s ever been made.

@p1rgit 3 жыл бұрын

more accurate'd be to say: 'i try to postpone people's becoming corpses a lil bit' :D bc now one avoids this forever, to be honest.

@Usual_User 3 жыл бұрын

@@p1rgit So like "IL put death little bit further" ?)

@mushtashio9902 3 жыл бұрын

Read this while he said that

@withlessAsbestos 3 жыл бұрын

My teacher: Laughs in Doctor of American history.

@sholem_bond 3 жыл бұрын

well, I can think of at least one subset of patients he's failed to do that with... of course, from his perspective, they were already sick and not complying with treatment, so he might just consider it a lost cause there. Because if he wanted to effectively prevent those people from becoming corpses, he'd tell them, "just exercise and eat healthy and try not to worry about your body size" (be pro-HAES) instead of assuming weight loss doesn't work for 95% of fat patients because they're ignorant, lazy, or have no willpower (even when his own guest at the time was like "no, it's systemic factors"). I don't know how many corpses he's created with that kind of mentality.

@KeilaAnn3610 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing makes me happier than seeing Caitlin in collabs.. More people need to know her name and her message.

@KaylaD1116 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I am beyond excited to see this collab!! She's amazing and not enough people know about her.

@pranavkakkar7637 3 жыл бұрын

She deserves a lot more subscribers!!!!

@taytaysharrard 3 жыл бұрын

same! I wrote my undergrad anthro thesis on the death positive community

@MattPhonee 3 жыл бұрын

Yep. Death Positivity should definitely be more mainstream. It's kinda funny. A collab between a doctor/surgeon and a mortician, both careers I'm considering...

@JackDenn 3 жыл бұрын

Same! It’s super exciting to see these two in one video. 🥰

@SuperStarr817 2 жыл бұрын

My aunt had medically assisted death, she was in unbearable pain from cancer. Seeing the heavy painkiller go in so she could enjoy some time with us and then when the big injection going in, seeing the colour fade from her face and her eyes close was so emotional and extraordinary to see as it was happening.

@tafellappen8551 3 жыл бұрын

at my grandmother's wake i just remember thinking "oh, look at your hair! it looks so good." and remembering how happy and refreshed-looking she was whenever she got something done with her hair. still whenever i think back to that day i just see her smiling ear to ear about her hair again. so contagiously happy. it means so much to me.

@lil_thiccpeach9067 3 жыл бұрын

Her aesthetic, her black clothes, her rings, her hair, her voice. I’M LOVING THIS

@brittanystites3173 3 жыл бұрын

She's incredible and so happy these two had a collab!!!

@mandype576 3 жыл бұрын

Inhave a full death plan and have had the conversations with the people I need to because of her.

@Kenny-wr3ky 3 жыл бұрын

She could be a Mortitia Adams lookalike.

@ConstantChaos1 3 жыл бұрын

I love her to bits and I think she is fascinating

@savannahwhitney8792 3 жыл бұрын

Shes also an Auther of a few books my favorite being "Will my cat eat my Eyeballs "

@Msliliheart 3 жыл бұрын

The video is too short. We need more of this collab.

@Rehptawr 3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same!!

@bertelsenandassociates8885 3 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah

@davidhollenshead4892 3 жыл бұрын

I was hoping they would tell me how to clean the trunk of my car, as the smell lingers...

@domundtgregor6683 3 жыл бұрын

Cathy could do half a dozen vids alone with the magic of Rico's best and most successful 'restorations' remember the episode where the girl gets her head smashed form a road sign ?

@sarakhreawish6322 3 жыл бұрын

@@davidhollenshead4892 oop-

@andrewdonaghy1248 2 жыл бұрын

She has genuinely helped me go from terrified of death to strangely kinda excited for my natural burial 😂

@kathleengaetano1956 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve recently discovered Dr Mike and love his channel. I am a huge fan of Caitlin for like 3 years. This is the very collab I needed to see. “The Middle Ages were magic”

@emmettbeech5441 3 жыл бұрын

The A-V Plugs explain why zombies walk so awkwardly.

@laurajaynenolan2149 3 жыл бұрын

😂👌🏽👏🏽

@chrisucl 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@guillenvieira 3 жыл бұрын

That caught me off guard LMFAO!!!

@mickieminton6940 3 жыл бұрын

Unless you have a kinky professional of course. Then you might need ex large plugs, lol.

@vuvuvu6291 3 жыл бұрын

Prevent them to run

@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын

At my grandpa's funeral, i told my cousin, "It doesn't look like him." My cousin said, "Remember, that's not really him. It's just a shell." That made it much easier.

@nancydesigns6983 3 жыл бұрын

I bet it was

@rebecca75588 3 жыл бұрын

Well & his spirit.....

@elizabethennoshita8713 3 жыл бұрын

This helps me deal with my own mortality. It’s like I’m a pistachio.

@ijustlikebees 3 жыл бұрын

Was he a snail?

@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын

I don't think so, @@ijustlikebees, though as a farmer he probably had a keen appreciation for (and dislike of) snails.

@joliebokeh1958 2 жыл бұрын

I love Caitlin's comment about handling the brain, the personality, thoughts, memories, the soul of a person as a privilege. 💜

@greggoodbar632 3 жыл бұрын

Doctor Mike, You are spot on about giving life changing news to a patient. When my ENT told me my biopsy was positive for cancer, it was first thing in the morning and he didn't candy coat it. It was straight out. I was really appreciative about that. Luckily my cancer, so far, was successfully treated and I'm still here. Not ready to give Caitlin, or her friends in the biz, any business!!!

@pinesyeet 3 жыл бұрын

"You see that turbine? That's my grandma's hip"

@LoreCatan 3 жыл бұрын

what a line!

@TheBeetrootman 3 жыл бұрын

She's still waving!

@pinesyeet 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBeetrootman LOL

@gray1177 3 жыл бұрын

And when the plane crashes it might be your granny wanting you to visit her ;)

@pinesyeet 3 жыл бұрын

@@gray1177 Ghost Granny throwing a tantrum LOL

@marylucy8651 3 жыл бұрын

Before my Mother passed away, she left strict instructions on what was to be done. She didn't want to be embalmed and no open casket or church service. We respected her wishes, but when she did pass, my sisters and I washed her body with oils and water like they did long ago. The most intimate moment, taking one last care of her. Washed, dressed and did her hair one last time. We were able to respect her wishes and help our grieving at the same time.

@jackthorton10 3 жыл бұрын

Even in death the dead deserve to be dressed with respect

@yogadork_namaste 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful. This is what Caitlyn urges people to do. To take a part in caring for the body to help you through the grieving process.

@updownstate 3 жыл бұрын

My grandmother washed and laid out the dead as part of the job of being a minister's wife. Here's a fun fact: houses that were built before the invention of the funeral home had one of the interior doors hung with what are called "coffin hinges." Instead of having to remove pins to get the door off the pins are fixed and the door is lifted off the pins and then set on chairs to put the coffin on.

@nancydesigns6983 3 жыл бұрын

I personally dont think I would be able to do that

@nancydesigns6983 3 жыл бұрын

So brave and awesome of you

@TeXXicJA 3 жыл бұрын

When my mom died from cancer, looking at her body, I knew it was just her shell. That wasn't her, and I was okay. acceptance came swiftly. Depression took a while to move on from. 😔 Great collaboration. I like her!

@amecocoa3829 3 жыл бұрын

I would love to see another collaboration with these 2 wonderful people. Six feet under is where I saw the mom and her friends wash another friends body and sang her out. The song was "Calling all Angels" by The Wailing Jennies. Then they washed Nate's body at the end of the series. Heartbreaking but so moving.

@mikalesa 3 жыл бұрын

OMG I can’t believe, best collab EVER

@yalllouu1094 3 жыл бұрын

HDSJHSH IKR

@arianedennison2395 3 жыл бұрын

I KNOW! I'm totally fan-girling over her😱

@akendlefg6871 3 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ocmfhNanvLrWeI0.html

@dianaartdent1592 3 жыл бұрын

@@arianedennison2395 Same here, omg fangirling! I can't believe he collabed with Aak a Mortician! Loved it!

@tomboyiam 3 жыл бұрын

I’m squealing 😆😆😆

@noisycarlos 3 жыл бұрын

She's exactly what I'd imagine a mortician looking like. Edit: Wow thanks for the likes!

@Littlewings1211 3 жыл бұрын

She reminds me of the goth chick in NCIS

@cowslane1 3 жыл бұрын

Check out her channel and you can see her house with all her knickknacks. Exactly what you'd imagine a morticians house would look like.

@haicoai6269 3 жыл бұрын

H wowkzfaq.info/get/bejne/sKx6ZaR_xKm-eGx9.html

@kimberley9089 3 жыл бұрын

She even has a fake skull and a taxidermy ferret

@Perktube1 3 жыл бұрын

Morticia

@zkarebear 2 жыл бұрын

I will never not be thankful for this episode because it introduced me to Caitlin ❤️ Watching g Caitlin’s channel took me from almost having a full blown panic attack at the hypothetical discussion of death and end of life planning to me having plans and requests and conversations that I never before thought I could have.

@Terri_MacKay Жыл бұрын

I love Caitlin, and I'm so glad that Dr Mike had her on his channel. The more people who can be steered towards Caitlin's channel, the better. We need more Deathlings!! 🙂

@ctrlaltdelete2404 3 жыл бұрын

“A dead body should look dead” ~Caitlin 2020

@SmileFromGlasgow 3 жыл бұрын

Dead people should be dead! - Doug from Scrubs, circa 2006

@rosin_eater 3 жыл бұрын

Mhmmm yes the floor is made of floor here.

@mekkio77 3 жыл бұрын

She wrote a book called, "Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?" It's basically mortician themed questions kids have sent to her and she has answered. It's very informative and interesting. It's a great way to dip your toes into her world. (She has other books as well but like I said, if you are new to all of this, start there.)

@tarnishedsoul2749 3 жыл бұрын

And check out her channel! She is amazing!!!!

@amalil2562 3 жыл бұрын

Yes all her books are fantastic!!

@hanabee7283 3 жыл бұрын

Currently reading this book and thoroughly enjoying it! It's surprisingly informative while entertaining - who knew a book about death could fall under both of these descriptions haha

@AnsleyHyde 3 жыл бұрын

I have her book "Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory." It's a super interesting read (and quite funny at times).

@LannasMissingLink 3 жыл бұрын

She has a a 3rd book called from here to eternity too! I want all her books so bad!

@pauljames5826 Жыл бұрын

I love this woman’s take on death and its attendant rituals/mystiques. Her humor is amazing given her profession❤️

@godrickstockwell1505 5 ай бұрын

She did a wonderful video, I think it was the first one I watched of her, about the funerary traditions of African American folks vs White folks here in America. She brought in historians and experts who actually were POC and had them talk about why things are done the way they are and how it started. I won't give any specifics here because you should watch the video but yeah really good.

@gordon4385 2 ай бұрын

You should check out her channel, or any of the books she wrote. Great stuff.

@simonnachreiner8380 3 жыл бұрын

Recently my cat died and when we found her rigor mortis has set in and the experience was very enlightening. Holding my cat before you can feel all the idiosyncrasies of life skin moving, lungs breathing, muscles flexing. Holding the corpse it was very stiff, all those little processes had become still. It kind of felt like an overly hard cushion is the best comparison I can find. There was a noticeable difference between alive and not the body I had found was very much in away not my cat even if it was her body. We buried her under a tree sapling in the backyard wrapped in a towel for a shroud. Something to note for people outside the death industry is we are very disconnected from what goes into laying a person or pet to rest and I really do feel that being part of that process did a lot to help me move on. Just my thoughts on what will hopefully be my closest experience with the difference of alive and not.

@BlackReshiram 3 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate how the mortician lady addresses that it's okay not to react a certain expected way when faced with the death of a loved one. When my grandpa died, I was entirely unable to cry, yet I was grieving. As opposed to when my cat died, where I basically broke and couldn''t stop crying for 10 days, and was completely hysterical. When you love someone, your reaction to their passing can vary as much as the relationships themselves did, and that's okay. You're still grieving, just in your own way.

@lavendergold6379 3 жыл бұрын

Very true

@kitdubhran2968 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate it too. I was sort of upset that I wasn’t more upset when my dog died. And when’s my nana died I was more upset for my mom than sad about her passing. It took a while to work through my feelings. It’s important for people to give themselves permission to feel whatever they feel, and not be upset with themselves for not “mourning correctly”.

@kaitpotatoes6418 3 жыл бұрын

She’s one of my favourite KZfaqr for how she addresses things like this

@adelinedumas7801 3 жыл бұрын

You should read her books, they are incredibly amazing! She also narrates the audiobooks for them.

@michelleterra 3 жыл бұрын

@@adelinedumas7801 she narrates them? I just got two of her books from the public library, now I have to listen to them too. Thanks for the info.

@yalllouu1094 3 жыл бұрын

The hot doctor is collaborating with the hot mortician. *HELL YEAH.*

@aimeem9867 3 жыл бұрын

YUSSS! 🙌!

@andifishgallery9400 3 жыл бұрын

*why am I getting bisexual energy even though I have no sexuality yet-*

@Cthulhoop 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a straight man so I can't really comment on Dr Mike. But Caitlin is a looker.

@andifishgallery9400 3 жыл бұрын

Cthulhoop I’m too young to know who is or isn’t as hot lel But they are both really cool people!And very brave for helping this society :0

@sunyoun4698 3 жыл бұрын

@@Cthulhoop who told you that you compliment other men while being straight ?!😅

@tiberseptim8330 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly I love Caitlin's voice. It's so soothing. I would definitely be comforted if I went through the death of a loved one

@amberwolf5371 3 жыл бұрын

It really is wild how different and personal the grieving process is for people. I thought I was going to be a wreck when my grandmother passed away. I was sad and cried some but was holding together better than I expected. Then, a few weeks later, as I was alone and cleaning out her house I pulled out her night stand and a pile of tissues that had fallen behind it kind of tumbled out. I don't know what it was about this little reminder of when my grandmother was alive with a simple act of sitting in her bed and blowing her nose but I just broke down and started sobbing and couldn't stop. I had thought I was over the worst of it after her funeral but it didn't actually hit me and feel real until that moment.

@godrickstockwell1505 5 ай бұрын

Grief is weird. My friend Jeff has a really good way of describing it, "Grief is like a ball bouncing in a box and inside that box is a button that causes distress when it's hit. At first the ball is really big so it presses the button almost constantly. Over time the ball shrinks so it doesn't hit the button as much. Sometimes though it can hit that button out of nowhere and it feels just as raw as when that button was being pressed all the time."

@JamesCourse66 3 жыл бұрын

Patient: “I go to Doctor Mike to take care of me.” Later, Caitlin Doughty: “You came to me, I’ll also take care of you.”

@Rehptawr 3 жыл бұрын

She don't want you to die But when you die, she wants you Lol 😂

@yatwelp 3 жыл бұрын

That's very beautifully stated.

@Siansonea 3 жыл бұрын

Love Caitlin, I would let her handle my brain. I mean, when I'm done with it, of course.

@vph1r819 3 жыл бұрын

OPEN UP

@cottagecorn3425 3 жыл бұрын

NO WAIT IM STILL USING THAT CAITLIN NO-

@rebecca75588 3 жыл бұрын

Caitlyn is better than that chick in mortuary

@Siansonea 3 жыл бұрын

@Ahmet Özer ah yes, the Instagram Look™. ;)

@VeronicaGarcia-hf7jb 4 ай бұрын

Morticians are so important and I think generally undervalued until you need them. Not everyone can do that job. I’m very grateful for people like Caitlin who can!

@patrickhasachannel 3 жыл бұрын

I'm in my late 20s and I only learned about Caitlin's work last year on a YT rabbit hole adventure. Having experienced a life-altering medical crisis when I was 19 was difficult but the more I learn from her videos and books the more at peace I am with living the life I have. Seeing these two talk was fun.

@manicpixiecremegirl 3 жыл бұрын

"The only way out is through." Fantastic way of reminding people how to process their feelings.

@cyrcara5528 3 жыл бұрын

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@teresahowick5197 3 жыл бұрын

😊 ❤️

@_the_ 3 жыл бұрын

That's Robert Frost, right?

@alexisjones7633 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I had to learn that the hard way, & I did by watching Six Feet Under. The Fisher disfunction was real lol, between that & the deaths I processed so much.

@teresahowick5197 3 жыл бұрын

@@_the_ is it? I’ll have to look that up.

@SassyWinterFox 3 жыл бұрын

I found Caitlin before I found Dr Mike. Her novel "The smoke gets in your eyes" was an enlightening read and actually helped me get through my anatomy unit at university where we worked with human cadavers. I learned to be less afraid and see it as a part of the journey in life and I worked in a respectful, confident manner on my cadavers which were so kindly donated by the living before the end.

@SassyWinterFox 3 жыл бұрын

Also, YES to the formaldehyde smell I can recall that scent perfectly.

@haicoai6269 3 жыл бұрын

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@prochey69 3 жыл бұрын

Her books have truly changed my life, I reread them all the time

@mirjanbouma 3 жыл бұрын

People, don't click on that link, it's spam.

@user-rl4nb3fv4f 3 жыл бұрын

Mirjan Bouma what does it lead you to?

@Bluesclues-here 2 жыл бұрын

I love Caitlin’s channel, Ask a mortician. It’s like death education. I feel like we should all become more comfortable and familiar with death, which is the one thing that is certain in this life.

@hiyahandsome 2 жыл бұрын

Two of my favorite KZfaq stars together in one video! I love how professional and how humane you both are and your wit, intelligence and compassion shines through.

@Avistew 3 жыл бұрын

When my husband died, I was allowed to see him almost straight away, and he looked exactly the same, just paler. It looked like he was sleeping, and I swear it even looked to me like he was breathing. He was room temperature, not cold, but not his usual warmth. The next day he looked exactly the same, but he was extremely cold. They had moved him to a refrigerated part of the hospital. I was surprised he didn't look any different from the day before. I expected something to be different. After that I wasn't allowed to see him again and he was cremated after a week. I'm glad I got to spend some time with his body. If he had died of covid, I wouldn't have had the luxury. He wasn't the first person I saw dead (his mom had passed seven years earlier) but my entire life had been planned around his continued existence and I'm not done dealing with his abrupt removal from the rest of my life. He enjoyed both of you guys' channels. I remember seeing him watch this video back when it first came out and I'm glad I finally got around to watching it too.

@treebles 3 жыл бұрын

my deepest sympathy to your broken heart. i can not imagine! 💐

@Avistew 3 жыл бұрын

@@treebles Thank you so much :)

@meh8396 3 жыл бұрын

Hope youre doing well mate

@Avistew 3 жыл бұрын

@@meh8396 Thanks! I'd stay under the circumstances, I'm doing as well as could be expected. Thank you!

@ToutCQJM 3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@juliart9895 3 жыл бұрын

She's sooo excited when she talks about dead bodies ,which is sooo cool.

@Cassxowary 3 жыл бұрын

Juli Art dead* bodies,* but it is exciting and cool

@AxxLAfriku 3 жыл бұрын

KAKAKAKAKAKAK this is wonderful! PRANK! It is terrible! I looked in the mirror and saw something UNPRETTY: my face. KAKAKAKAKAKA! But I am happy agayn because I have TWO HOT GIRLFRIENDS and I use them to get views on my videos! KAKAKAKAK!!! Good day, dear jul

@cyrcara5528 3 жыл бұрын

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@juliart9895 3 жыл бұрын

@@Cassxowary thank you for correcting me.

@nhdoodle3167 3 жыл бұрын

I love this. Having lost family members and being a Health care professional it is very interesting to get these two perspectives.

@Heathobsessed 3 жыл бұрын

I love how this kind of became an impromptu therapy session for Dr. Mike 😭❤❤❤

@jameskandy 3 жыл бұрын

I like her so much. I love how real and authentic she is.

@3DegreesNorth638 3 жыл бұрын

Same! I absolutely love her!!! She’s a lovely person... And her channel is amazing.

@misslittledove 3 жыл бұрын

If you liked this you’ll love her channel! Her vids are super informative without seeming macabre or icky.

@andrewdonaghy1248 3 жыл бұрын

Her channel is amazing

@FutileGrief 3 жыл бұрын

"There's a lot of death in the middle ages" Me: ♫ The MidDdLe aGeS wEre MaaaaGiiCcc ♫

@MFCheezy 3 жыл бұрын

And it’s funny too because if you did any tricks or magic in the Middle Ages, you would be executed

@ladydiamondprisca 3 жыл бұрын

Bentham's head!🎵!!🎶!!

@AmyHoldaway27 3 жыл бұрын

Omg I love her cx havent been so active n yt recently but seeing this….I have to catch on her stuff cx

@kaltziferYT 2 жыл бұрын

Actually, i found out that everyone who've lived in middle ages they all have died. Everyone. A lot of death.

@stephanieoregan 2 жыл бұрын

Lol nice one 😆

@munchcat 3 жыл бұрын

This episode totally turned me onto Caitlin's channel! Thank you so much for doing this collab!

@amandaverbeke42 11 ай бұрын

You and Caitlin need to do another segment...this is probably one of the most interesting colabs ever done. I learn a lot from you both. I know neither of you will see this but I just wanted to say that you both are amazing teachers and help us that have not been in school to understand how things work, how they can happen, and what you, as a person, can do. So, thank you to you both.

@katelynsinn8788 3 жыл бұрын

My grandfather heard that they throw away your hips when you die and he doesn't let anything go to waste so he wants me to ask for his hips and make them into wind chimes. The rest of the family refuses but I will probably try to do it.

@Rachel-lq9vl 3 жыл бұрын

you totally should! plus since he approves of it, it would be great to have something so sentimental

@andreaedginwynn9171 3 жыл бұрын

You absolutely should!!

@heidibaltom8138 3 жыл бұрын

Yes since he wants you to do it. All you can do is ask. It will also be something to remember him by. He sounds like he has a great sense of humour too.

@IveGotItTwisted 3 жыл бұрын

Coolest wind-chime 🎐 ever

@katelynsinn8788 3 жыл бұрын

@@heidibaltom8138 I don't know if its his great sense of humor or his penny pinching ways thats driving the decison but I certainly find it funny. He likes to build and craft so that also has to do with that. I honestly want to do it but the rest of my family says its weird and creepy and they are just gonna assuring he we will do it and then not follow through.

@sonyxa1957 3 жыл бұрын

We get too comfortable with pretending that death is not a part of the whole game, but it is. Having someone talking about it in a respectful manner whilst not making it a kind of taboo is really important! I really enjoyed this video! (edit: typos)

@Cassxowary 3 жыл бұрын

Sony XA1 it’s also because people believe and are afraid that it’s the end but it’s really not so all the more reason it shouldn’t be a taboo

@cyrcara5528 3 жыл бұрын

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@sonyxa1957 3 жыл бұрын

@@cyrcara5528 how very interesting! I love everything Africa related ☺️

@Luumus 3 жыл бұрын

Check her youtube channel if you haven't already. It's even better. Very informative but still with a touch of humor

@drrocketman7794 3 жыл бұрын

Part of the journey is the end.

@alabaster193 9 ай бұрын

I've been a fan of Caitlin and her channel for years and Six feet Under was such a great series.

@shialtin 2 жыл бұрын

Two of my favourite creators in one collaboration...Love ya both, and all that you do for your respective patient/clients. The world needs more of you x

@andybrinegar8861 3 жыл бұрын

“I want you to give me my terminal diagnosis when the time comes.” Same here sis, same here.

@johannatallgren5508 3 жыл бұрын

And to offer comfort..

@WarriorAuranae 3 жыл бұрын

“I think a dead body should look dead." PLEASE BE MY MORTICIAN, oh my gosh I have thought this for years and really hope my wishes will be respected when my time comes. I actually attended a wake for a girl who went to my high school - killed in a car crash in her senior year, a real tragedy - and when I got up to the casket, they had put so much makeup on that she didn’t really look any different from when she was alive. It looked like a lie, and I swore to myself I would not end up like that - death is death, I understand covering up any wounds or gore but let me be pale, geez. 💀

@Saknika 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely go to her channel then and watch her videos about different ways you can have your body handled postmortem! Sounds like you want a natural burial, like me. :)

@michelleterra 3 жыл бұрын

@@Saknika not only that, but she also has plenty of videos on how to make sure your wishes are fulfilled when the time comes. Her channel is amazing, check it out.

@Saknika 3 жыл бұрын

@@michelleterra She sure does. I've watched all of them at this point. :) And yet I am still a terribly negligent deathling who has not made her advanced directive yet. LOL

@TryingMyWorst 3 жыл бұрын

I went to a funeral for a friend in high school as well. Unfortunately she overdosed. I hated seeing her in that box. She looked like she could be alive aesthetically, but all of the life was gone. She was such a vibrant soul in life. So the lack of her personality and the juxtaposition of the perfect face was so jarring to me I understand it can help for some to view the body but I dont ever want to go to an open casket funeral again. And mine will not be either, keep the pretty boxes, chemicals, and make up away. I just want to decompose naturally and return to nature

@heidibaltom8138 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with everyone. Definately watch her channel. She has great advice on how to get what you want when you die and things like that. I know someone who went to a funeral in the woods (its a certain area people are alowed to be buried a bit like a crematorium or burial sites just in the woods) they had a cardboard coffin and everyone wrote a message on it in coloured markers. People brought their dogs along and everyone was in wellies. She said it was lovely. Also nothing was done to the body. Sorry for the tangent it juat sounds like you wanted something natural. But watch her channel its great

@melissag3642 3 жыл бұрын

Deathlings absolutely unite! Love when doctors and death workers assist each other in their understandings.

@orlitamarov 5 ай бұрын

Caitlin is simply amazing. She is so tactful and respectful, even though sometimes her videos might seem macabre. But when she refers to Mike’s mom passing, it’s not awkward “I’m so sorry” a lot of us tend to say, it seems that she know what to say to make him feel better.

@mysterylovescompany2657 3 жыл бұрын

Dr Mike referring to a corpse as a "patient" when talking to Caitlin is the most out-of-depth thing ever, & I love it.

@Kinobambino 3 жыл бұрын

Ikr lol it's so endearing

@DracoMalfoyable 3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mike: “tElL mE aBoUt ThE sCrEwS” Me: “Please DONT tell me about the screws”

@inesepaegle2631 3 жыл бұрын

Oml I read that comment and then he said that

@NuttyVladdyTTV 3 жыл бұрын

"Just like swirly buttplugs" hahahahahahah

@hollymchale440 3 жыл бұрын

@@NuttyVladdyTTV best line of the whole video! lmao

@Clownbunnycosplay 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching Caitlin!! She teaches us about how people Who’ve died, would be profited from or used in a show off like eye

@NuttyVladdyTTV 3 жыл бұрын

@@hollymchale440 I know right?!?!

@evaseq2238 3 жыл бұрын

When you guys where talking about humans looking at a corpse I really realized that horses and humans aren't all that difference. When a horse dies the hardest part is leaving the horses body in the past for as long as necessary for the herd to say goodbye.

@jimkreider9997 9 ай бұрын

My cousin died and lived alone. They thought he was dead "at least 10 days". We then found out that we had to have him put into this bag since he had turned basically into water. We had a closed casket. The only reason he was found was due to the smell coming from his apartment. It makes you realize that you really need to keep in touch with someone, anyone and if you don't hear from them for a couple of days give them a call, keep in touch. How long is it in reality a body does basically turn to jelly.

@greenapple9477 8 ай бұрын

Dear god, that's horrific.

@rachaelosborne6695 3 жыл бұрын

We lost my beautiful grandma last year, she was my best friend -- my everything. She cut my cord when I was born and I was adamant I was going to be with her as she left this world. For 7 long days and nights I sat by her (only leaving her to go to the toilet or to shower), waiting for her to go. It was traumatic to see someone I loved go but I would do it again and again to know she wasn't alone (and she's no longer in pain). What Caitlin said about the body seeming like a shell was my reaction after she had passed. That lady who had now stopped breathing, and her heart stopped pumping was not my grandma anymore, she was a body. Her laugh, her smile, her voice were now figments only in my memories. I felt so guilty at the time that I felt so disconnected to her body but now, a year later I understand that it was my coping mechanism and in the long run helped me be at peace and grieve. Thank you for validating my feelings with that response -- I often wondered if something was wrong with me to feel that way...

@rachaelosborne6695 3 жыл бұрын

Em I absolutely agree. I felt so many different emotions from sadness to relief. It’s so individual! I went and subscribed to Caitlin immediately after the video. As a halloween baby I’ve always had a fascination with mortician work (though don’t think it’s something I could do). I think I’m more interested in preventing death than being around it. This was truly the video I didn’t know I needed. ☺️

@jehovdutta3509 3 жыл бұрын

I too lost my grandma recently and felt the same emotions as you . I thought something was really wrong with me . I was feeling really guilty about . Its comforting to know thatI'm not alone and your in peace with yourself.

@gingerhowe5247 3 жыл бұрын

That makes perfect sense to me. I've lost both my moms and my dad in the last 10 years and of course I cried when they were gone. But my reaction to everything as far as seeing them gone I was actually quite calm because I said that's not them that's just a shell and they are already gone. My family always thinks I act strange why do that but just just the way I cope with it and say they're already gone that this is just a shell or prop

@wo2wz_ 3 жыл бұрын

Wow

@andrea-rq1fe 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, I watched my mom pass and I was shocked at how quickly it didnt look like her anymore, like an empty shell. I couldn't look at her face once it went gray because it just wasnt her anymore

@kmse1000 3 жыл бұрын

“From here to Eternity” by Caitlin Doughty is a really good book about how different cultures around the world celebrate and mourn death.

@xdevilxbabex2003 3 жыл бұрын

I thoroughly enjoyed that one, it was a real eye opener to me for what different cultures do, the one particularly about the family's who keep the dead at home for months even years, until they can afford a proper funeral for them was a real eye opener for me.

@kanpaisou 3 жыл бұрын

I'd recommend "Will my cat eat my eyeballs?" By her too. It's such a fun read. If you're into audiobooks, I highly recommend the audio version, she does it (I think she does the audio for all of her books). Anyway I think it's a nice book to recommend for people who are interested in Caitlin and watch doctor Mike

@haicoai6269 3 жыл бұрын

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@jeanval2075 3 жыл бұрын

Suchhhh a good read!

@JSandwich13 3 жыл бұрын

That was a fantastic book

@RossLinderman 3 жыл бұрын

This is a great collab. I've seen Caitlin in my KZfaq recommendations, but have never before clicked on one of her videos. I will now.

@heavenbound32566 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome collaboration. Love both of you and all you do. Thanks so much.

@andreaedginwynn9171 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a Hospice nurse, and a patient told me something years ago that was so meaningful. He was asked about what he would like to be done with his body after his death, and he laughed and said "Once the nut is gone, it doesn't matter what you do with the shell." He was 94, and one of the best men I've ever been priveledged to know.

@UnicornsPoopRainbows 3 жыл бұрын

My mom was the same. She said to just put her in the cheapest box we could find. We ended up cremating her and burying her with her stillborn baby. BTW, you guys have a very difficult job. My mom had hospice nurses for the last month of her life. They were so great and so caring. They appreciated we tried to still have fun with her while we had her, teasing each other and joking around. We appreciated that they were there to help us take care of her and took care of us mentally just as well as they took care of her. So supportive. Mad respect for your field. Such an emotionally draining profession but you make a huge difference to the surviving love ones ❤️

@maggierex5675 3 жыл бұрын

I strangely love that the titanium hips are recycled and not simply thrown out.

@icouldjustscream 3 жыл бұрын

Titanium is very expensive.

@irrelevance3859 3 жыл бұрын

@@icouldjustscream yeah so it's important it's recycled

@zipp4everyone263 Жыл бұрын

The part about seeing a dead relative being helpful in dealing with it; I absolutely agree. My mom was in a lot of mental and physical pain at the end of her life. She died suddenly (heartattack) and i never got any clear information about the fact that she actually was dead before i saw her dead body in the ER. Traumatic? Absolutely, one of the worst days of my life (and ive had a lot of those coming from a dificult family situation with a psycopathic and abusive dad) hands down. Being able to sit there and hold her hand, say goodbye and just feel relief that she wasnt in pain anymore... might sound wierd but it made me happy for her. Do i still miss her after 4 years of sorrow? Every single day. But at least i know she will never be in pain anymore. And i think the time after the fact, being able to see, touch and say goodbye to her body really helped me in understanding what happened.

@godrickstockwell1505 5 ай бұрын

I agree. Two of my deepest regrets are not being able to say goodbye to my grandfather and not getting to say goodbye to my sister. For grandpa we didn't have a funeral per se because it was the beginning of Covid and everyone was quarantined; he was cremated then as much of the family who could, I had to threaten to quit my job so I could fly out, got together a month or so later on his birthday to talk about him. For my sister, she had gone into hospice and only dad knew because she didn't want everyone to make a fuss over her. I found out a few hours after she passed that she was gone. When I told work they refused to let me take time off for her funeral, threatened to fire me if I did anything more than take that night's shift off, so I stayed here. Her husband has her ashes and none of us really know what he did with them. Dad just a few months ago got her marker finished.

@lisalynnn 10 ай бұрын

The only advice I ever give to a friend or family member who has lost a loved one is to slow down. The way we speed through the entire process from the last breath through the burial or cremation doesn't give people enough time to deal with their emotions. I'm not sure exactly what it's like in other areas, but in Tennessee and most Southern states, the bereaved are expected to play host and comforter to guests and other people who come to pay their respects. We typically go to the funeral home on the same day or the next after someone dies. We hurriedly make plans while still reeling from the shock of death. We book a time for visitation and the funeral. It all usually takes place in the matter of a couple of days. Rushing through my dad's funeral process left us without the chance to just take our time with his body and each other. I can't remember even seeing my brothers. We were all children and we were smothered by grieving adults who were leaning on us for support in their pain instead of the other way around. Now that I've experienced more loss, including my husband, I take things much more slowly and relaxed. The "that's just their shell" mentality has never sat right with me. I know their spirit, soul, life force, or whatever you believe no longer exists, that is still the earthly physical representation of that person. I remember looking at my mother's hands and just memorizing everything about them. Her body grew me, sustained me, and held me and all of the wonderful things mothers do. In the Christian bible, humans are referred to as body and spirit/soul. Just because one is no longer alive doesn't mean their body means nothing to their loved ones. Anyway, that's my long-winded way to suggest that you should slow down, take your time, and, if possible, spend time with their body. It has helped me tremendously. It may not work for you, but offer the opportunity to the others who loved the deceased. Also, regardless of your age, make a plan for your funeral. Just picking out a casket helps tremendously. ❤

@mcurry7938 3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mike checking out Caitlin after saying the brain is her favorite part of the body, like 😲😏😍😎

@cath7782 3 жыл бұрын

PLEASE NOT HIM LIKING IT 🖐🏽🤠

@mcurry7938 3 жыл бұрын

@@cath7782 he apparently *did* like it.

@siesaw1 3 жыл бұрын

LMAO HE LIKED IT

@juliagulia1971 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I've been scrolling for this very comment for 100 years meow. Thank youuuu.😁🔥❤

@___LC___ 3 жыл бұрын

It may be time for Dr. Mike to ditch the “beauty queens” and find a mortician. I’d ship that.

@jeffkokes1360 3 жыл бұрын

I find it hilarious how she actually looks like somebody who would be a mortician lol. I just think it’s funny when somebody matches their stereotypes so well

@bisma1352 3 жыл бұрын

there's a running gag where most people she interacts with are badass women with bangs. Seen in a few videos especially the one where she's showing ask a mortician video planning meetings in a vlog lol. But still to me she's actually broadened my mind on how i imagined morticians would be like. I would reccomend many storytelling videos of hers to get a sense of how respectful, educational and charming she is.

@Name.......... 3 жыл бұрын

I mean I disagree I don’t think she looks like what I thought of for stereotypical morticians. I’ve never actually thought about it but dark brown wavy hair comes to mind instead of black straight for some reason.

@KristenK78 3 жыл бұрын

Caitlin fully embraces the dark goth aesthetic, and we love her for it!

@___LC___ 3 жыл бұрын

I can only hope to find my mortician Betty Page someday.

@ChainsawBunny92 3 жыл бұрын

Lol she’s looked like that pretty much all her life. When you love learning about death, it happens lol

@RDLondon2023 3 жыл бұрын

2 of my favorites in 1 video!! You guys are amazing.and yeah the middle ages were magic:)

@threefurries 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a fan of both Mike and Caitlin, this collab brings me so much joy.

@matchmadeinmedicine3727 3 жыл бұрын

Mortician: I don't know how many corpses you see Doctor Mike: ...

@emmanuelajumbe484 3 жыл бұрын

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@bluetube364 3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mike I don’t really see corpses and my job to make sure bodies don’t become corpses.

@obviouslymatt6452 3 жыл бұрын

Blue Tube shut up

@natashaguevara3572 3 жыл бұрын

so...she just promoted her funeral services...ok, I am definitely following her channel LOL

@lmla2022 3 жыл бұрын

Her videos are definitely binge-worthy!

@cata4018 3 жыл бұрын

You will not regret it

@mylovesongs2429 3 жыл бұрын

you will be quite pleased! Check out her video about eye shadow.......oh wait....i meant NECROPHILIA! 😉

@insert_smiley 3 жыл бұрын

she's hilarious, her videos are fun to watch

@paytonhowland1568 3 жыл бұрын

I love her videos!!! She is so blunt but so sweet about it...

@Its419games 2 жыл бұрын

This was great. I love Caitlin! She has such a great way of presenting things.

@matthewsapp3627 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for doing a video with Caitlin. I love her content and have followed her channel for a long time.

@kristicollett7887 3 жыл бұрын

When my daddy died, I was holding him, I actually pronounced him and my time is what was used on his DC, I laid in bed with him and held him. I talked to him, rubbed his face, his head, held his hand. I promised him in life I wouldn't let him die alone, that I'd be there to comfort him, and I was. Rest forever peacefully, Daddy. "Remember I love you "

@mklaebel 3 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful.

@rachelhill5023 3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could have been there with my Daddy when he died. I was living overseas and I had to wait on a red cross message to come through to even be able to fly home to see him.

@kristicollett7887 3 жыл бұрын

@@rachelhill5023 I'm so sorry sweetheart. Hugs

@rachelhill5023 3 жыл бұрын

@@kristicollett7887 hugs to you too!! I'll see him again one day and give him the biggest hug ever.

@reigndeer1573 3 жыл бұрын

Aww. I love this.

@r3nmgod 3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mike: Your test results are in, are you available for a 7am appointment? Me: oof

@kyndramb7050 3 жыл бұрын

Out Of Facility?

@samueldykes2938 3 жыл бұрын

@@kyndramb7050 it sorta just means 'ouch'

@MsEsquire83 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah... it's usually never a good sign when results are in, they're unreleased in your EMR, and the doctor wants to have a chat in person to "go over the results." But it did go well once lol

@cassievining340 2 жыл бұрын

Omg, I was JUST trying to remember where to go to suggest a collaboration because I ADORE Caitlin Doughty and wanted you to do a video with her! I think pursuing the idea of "death positivity" is something we need more of, and I'd love to see you do more collaborations with her!

@gemskii42 3 жыл бұрын

On the day my Mother died, she did just look like she was sleeping, but 5 days later I viewed her body in the chapel of rest, and completely disconnected with it. I remember saying out loud 'you're not in there' and I didn't want to get close to her body at all, because it just wasn't her anymore. It was upsetting, but it did help me separate her soul from her body. You've both described it down to a tee in terms of my experience!

@mymak-jq1hy 3 жыл бұрын

As soon as I saw “mortician” in the title and thought “I hope it’s Caitlin!” And it was!

@ConstantChaos1 3 жыл бұрын

I love everyone from undertaking LA, one of the other morticians was on the trixie and katya show and she was great too

@eddiew2325 3 жыл бұрын

@@ConstantChaos1 lol I just found our name is Constance

@ispentalldayatYT 3 жыл бұрын

I agree when she said "dead should look dead" when my grandpa died they put so much makeup on him that he looks like a different person they wanted to make him look like he was alive but they just made him to a different person. I don't care if he wouldn't look good I want him to look like my grandpa I want to remember my grandpa, not the 4 pounds of makeup that's on his face

@XSemperIdem5 3 жыл бұрын

She speaks a lot about more natural burials in her videos and because of everything I learned from her KZfaq channel I now know I don't want to be embalmed and slathered with makeup when my time comes. It feels so unnatural to me and I don't want a viewing with open casket because if I hate being the center of attention in life, I certainly don't want to be in death. Natural burial all the way for me.

@ChrisSunHwa 3 жыл бұрын

@@XSemperIdem5 My maternal grandmother did not want a funeral at all. She said she wanted to be cremated because she didn't want all those people staring at her. She wanted us to have a celebration of her life. I went home early because of a migraine, as I recall, but I know it ended up with some karaoke. My grandmother would have been pleased, I think. :)

@MattPhonee 3 жыл бұрын

Yep. If they're dead they're dead, don't try to make them look "alive" by slapping some makeup on them. Just let them look dead for Pete's sake

@Lill2895 3 жыл бұрын

@@SmogValley she has a video about posing the dead including pets. They should look dead, but you can close the mouth and eyes and place them in a less concerning position. But ppl also embalm their pets which makes them look weird.

@coweatsman 3 жыл бұрын

No point looking your best when no one is going to visit you underground.

@lifelovergrupp 3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE that two of my top KZfaqrs did a segment together. Made my day!!

@terryallen7356 3 ай бұрын

I've watched Caitlin Doughty for years and love her. It was great seeing her on your channel.

@emmajent267 3 жыл бұрын

I didn’t know I wanted you guys to collab But this is the best thing ever

@akendlefg6871 3 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ocmfhNanvLrWeI0.html

@kerielwatson3197 3 жыл бұрын

Same! I am so here for this.

@LinariaFreeze 3 жыл бұрын

I know! I needed this!

@kaykay7322 3 жыл бұрын

Right!?!? I'm just laying here, catching up on Caitlin and BAM Doctor Mike shows up... I was so excited!!!!!

@LinariaFreeze 3 жыл бұрын

@@kaykay7322 haha, I know! I don't even know who I was catching up on, it was just there! Both!

@pigpjs 3 жыл бұрын

The mortician who took care of my friend's body after she was murdered was a true artist. She was ripped from us and he allowed everyone who loved her in life to say goodbye to her in death. Forever grateful for that gift he gave us.

@haicoai6269 3 жыл бұрын

wowkzfaq.info/get/bejne/sKx6ZaR_xKm-eGx9.html

@krspykreme5951 3 жыл бұрын

@@haicoai6269 stop wtf is the point of that video

@pootoobaby738 3 жыл бұрын

@@krspykreme5951 spam to get people to watch. just report him

@krspykreme5951 3 жыл бұрын

@@pootoobaby738 ye i just did, not the first time that video has been linked in a comment aswell smh

@BZY-bu9wr 3 жыл бұрын

@@krspykreme5951 What video was that

@llanimay 2 жыл бұрын

I really like the idea that you guys were just chilling watching a movie together on zoom, talking nerdy about doc and death stuff, and were just able to make a great video out of the content ahaha

@amyg5149 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful, eye-opening video about such a thoughtful subject. The open presentation was surprising, enlightening and helpful.

@bandgeekonflute 3 жыл бұрын

Am I the only one that sang "the middle ages were magic!" When she said she studied medieval history?

@bastetlxix9251 3 жыл бұрын

Nope! You are not alone, I did it too!

@tarahoover3274 3 жыл бұрын

Haha me too!

@patpierce4854 3 жыл бұрын

Me three!

@deedee5825 3 жыл бұрын

Yup def did too

@mylovesongs2429 3 жыл бұрын

that song bite is the 💣!!

@ROyler-rs6nh 3 жыл бұрын

THE COLLAB I DIDN'T KNOW I NEEDED My father died 1.5 months ago now, and having watched Caitlin's videos and read her books, it ended up being such a comfort to me and helped me much more comfortable with his death and with his body. I think it is so much better to embrace and understand the process, and not let it be so "distant" and unfamiliar like we are not accustomed to in the USA.

@yvonnenesler5540 11 ай бұрын

Two of my favorite influencers on KZfaq! Great video!

@clarev5099 3 жыл бұрын

Her point about how the body is different from the person and it can be a form of closure is so on point. My dad and my granddad both died last year. I saw my dad twice after he died, both on the day (he passed at home) and later on at the viewing, while with my granddad passed in the hospital and he didn’t want a viewing so I never saw him afterward. With my dad, it was so real and undeniable but with my granddad, it was almost like my brain didn’t acknowledge that it happened. Now it’s obviously different for everyone but personally I think seeing them after the pass is so important.