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Me watching this and realizing I flirt like a nice guy interested in a woman 🙃

So I'm pretty sure that not a single man has truly liked me at this point. Time for some self love instead!!!

It's the face he makes when he's pretending to be the non-interested guy. 😂

Current bf before we started dating, literally stumbled out the door backwards because he was too busy staring at me to see the door behind him. That’s when I realized he was into me. I’m kind of dense...

A lot of these "he's just being nice" sounds like the guy I recently dated. We dated for almost a month. He also hardly texted me first. The final straw was when just last week he canceled a date for no reason. I let him know I wasn't happy about but he just brushed it off. I decided to do the lean back approach to see if he would reschedule. Nope. Haven't heard from him since. I'd much rather he flat out told me he was not interested in dating me anymore instead of leading me on.

I see alot of women chasing men, like literally throwing themselves at em and ignoring all the "I don't want you signs." In my experience...when a man wants you he will in most cases make it known. They're wired that way. Ladies stop chasing then you won't have to guess if he likes u

He really did offer to fix something on my car and also offered to help me cut the trees in my backyard 😂😂

The sad news is that at 37 after several, committed relationships, I can confidently say no one ever LIKED me. They didn’t respect me, either, so I’m not surprised.

Is it just me or does his “just being nice” guy remind anyone else of Ryan Reynolds? I can’t un-see it now 🤣

I absolutely LOVE the change in the tone of your voice when "He's just being nice to you." 😄 I also mention it in Part 1.

I started liking him after I caught him glancing at me a lot while I was leaving the place where our co-op meets. Now I think he's just a nice guy which is why I like him. Now I like him and idk if he likes me back and idk what to do!!!

Welp... now I know my man has a crush on another girl cause he behaves like this when she’s in the room 🤦‍♀️

I remember on St. Patty’s Day my crush was being so nice and protective of me it was adorable 🥰 He’s a nice guy in general but the things he did made me question his intentions with me. He was being playful with me by cracking jokes, being touchy feely, curious about my long term career goals, he gave me his jacket and hat to keep warm (since it was a bit chilly at the bar), he told he wanted to finish a convo with me before heading off to talk with his other friends, he remembers small details about me, he asked me if there was anyone at the bar that I had my eye on, he was worried about how I was gonna get home and even wanted to contact my brother to make sure I got home safe, and a couple of his friends were telling him “you better go take care of your friend” to make sure I got to my cab safely.

I always laugh when you say, 'A guy who's just being nice to you...' The vid effect is absolutely effective! 😂

The signs Ive taken note of and not sure of are: 1) He talks to everyone very easily but hesitates when it comes to me. So I had to approach. 2) Direct eye contact. 3)Statue-like while sitting. He did all this at a time.

Every time I watch him I’m reminded of the first “does he like you...” video. Remember the one where he said if a guy’s eye brows are constantly up when he’s talking? Yeah, I think Ryan has a crush on us.

The way you make your videos and talk to your audience is a masterpiece!! I love all of your films - short and with the most important info!

haha he did all of this and still ghosted me after 2months dating 😂😂 gurls stay independent and dont date if u dont want to waste time 😂

When the guy you like keeps writing you back! 😍😍

Ooo thank you thank you! Perfect timing cause the guy I’m interested in is very kind and I’d like to tell the difference 🙌🏼🙌🏼

I have a coworker who once turned me down and stood me up for a coffee date. He is clearly not interested, yet always open up to me about his life, laughs at all my jokes, and holds interesting yet intelligent conversations with me. Either he is lying, or I'm the best therapist ever.

For me one thing that comes up to mind is when guys try painfully to impress you with any kinds of weird stuffs.

Let's just appreciate seriousness and incredible acting skills !! He is so funny omg

The escalating the interaction can be a bit too much for me. Like sometimes, a guy is trying to move too quickly and in my head, I'm like this is too intense. I think there's a nice middle ground where someone isn't trying to move things from 0 to 100 too quickly

The black and white sections are my favorite 😂 He always cracks me up, and thanks for the great advice, this was really helpful!

When they stare at you intensively and hold it for longer than 3 seconds continuously but then say they're not attracted to you?

He remembered my birthday and showed up at the rink (I'm a skater) when he knew I would be there. He HATES that rink! He lives pretty far from it too. None of my other friends who were there knew it was my birthday until I told them. Unfortunately.... even though we used to text a lot, he hasn't in weeks! He used to like me and showed A LOT of those signs back then.

“Do you like bearded dragons or any similar type of reptile?” LMAO 🤣

I love your sense of humor so much 🤣🤣 And your advice is very spot-on!

I just had to next a man on a dating site who is writing 2000+ word messages to me but is not interested in meeting. So frustrating.

this is so funny to me bc one of my pet peeves is when a guy mirrors my body language, I have trouble maintaining long conversations and especially deep conversations with men and I will instinctively refuse invitations to do things outside of work 🙃 so I see why I’m single

Continuous eye contact, telling me he's proud I killed my first spider but then handshake goodbye...

The 'guy who's just being nice' the monotone reactions really cracked me up😂😂 BUT, I hope this isn't what I get someday nonetheless, I want the first reactions🥰❤

The way he winked at me today when I mentioned letting him know I would be in touch about the next day he could borrow my truck to take a load to the dump together again. Lol that wink kills me everytime I think about it..

Your version of the guy who's just being nice is making me wheeze 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I realize when watching this that i get intimidated by the ”guy who likes you behaviour” and pull away. And prefer the ”just being nice” and is more likely to feel attracted if a guy don’t suffocate me with his constant precence and wanting me to give him attention, i like space especially in the begining when i not sure how i feel. Guess this is a default that leads me to fancy the guys who isn’t interested..

My guy friend likes to mirror my body language and leans in. He lights up everytime he sees me.

Can you do more videos about long distant dating? Would love more of it! Especially if you can’t see them until the pandemic is basically over 😭 not sure if he likes me just through video chats/texts

So this is about a work colleague. He is super bubbly and laughs all the time with EVERYONE so it's really hard to tell if he likes me. The first time we met he was asking me a lot of personalish questions, like what my hobbies were, where I lived, who I lived with, and we really had some great conversations. I was super into him, so I made lots of comments about how well he was performing at his job on purpose to boost his ego, and after I did this he started trying to show off a bit by showing me all the codes he remembered and how many boxes he could lift etc. I acted really impressed even though I wasn't really lol. I just wanted to make him feel good about himself to hopefully boost his interest in me. At first I thought it worked, but then I noticed he wasn't initiating conversations with me. It was mostly me initiating the conversations. So, I stopped trying to talk to him and started talking to other coworkers and laughing with them and genuinely having fun. I was convinced he was just being nice so I moved on. BUT THEN he started coming up to me more, and I notice everytime he talks to me he gets REALLY really close. Like, I was at a computer and he checked something on it and came way closer than was necessary. Then, a day later, he was standing unneccesarily close to me again and he looked at me and said how nice I smelled and asked what I was wearing. I told him he smelled really good too. The other day he said bye to me twice when he left work. He said it once as he was going to the back to get his stuff, and then again as he was walking out the doors. I don't ever hear him say bye specifically to others like that. And, I noticed on days that we are scheduled together he dresses really really nice. Whereas, there have been times I've come in on overtime and he is always wearing something more frumpy. I really can't tell. I keep going back and forth between thinking he likes me and thinking he is just a friendly and nice person. Oh and I forgot to mention that our forearms touched once because he was standing so close but he didn't move away. I'm trying to be more obvious but I don't want to creep him out if I'm totally misreading everything.

My coworker does #2 all the time and it’s not even loud in the room 😂😂😂

I have had a guy start to stutter in front of me the second he saw me and couldn’t stop so he had to leave. Idk I guess I make people really nervous. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

He mirrors ur body language 2.he pretends he cant hear u 3.he will.minized any sorrounding distractiions 4.he ask questions 5.he recalls unimportant things u told him 6.hell dig common interest u share 7.hell have trouble ending d conversation 8.hell find reasons to see u 9.he constanstly be escalating an interaction 10.hell have his game face on.

lmao i had a guy friend who i used to like; who would pee when we were on the phone and me who had low self esteem back then felt so “honoured” and thought it was cuz he was so comfy w me, that i never noticed the disrespect ✌🏼

This video came at the absolute perfect time for me. Thank you!!

Mannn, number two was my primary technique during high school and I used it over and over again with my crush because I couldn't think of anything else. I think my crush liked me back, but I also think they got (understandably) frustrated with me not seeming to hear them and moved on. All's well that ends well, happily married now. Thankfully I didn't overkill technique number two when I met my spouse 😂

The black and white and monotonous tone is the best part of the video. Great tips I don’t why but I’m fascinated with guy attraction. You’re cool😎

I like honesty. I feel worse if a guy is just pretending and I can tell if he's just faking it and is just being polite. I don't like that. He needs to just be real.

He likes me, thank you Ryan! 💙

Omgosh great advice and entertainment you crack me up. 😂 You're facial expressions reminds me of some of the expressions of men I dated. Priceless.

LMAO.. Ryan you hit the nail on the head and I LOVE the voices and humour! Best advice vid yet!!!!

Ending interaction is a huge situation I am going through. He also will leave conversations online if there’s a group of us but if it’s him and I... he will stay up for like another 30-40 mins... and he works super early the next day. 😊

This was so fun hahaha the voice changes and weird examples🤣🤣

I was at a group dinner with a bunch of people and the guy sitting next to me reached over and gave me a hug from the side with his arms around me like cupping my back. It definitely felt like more than a friend thing

Do you BREATHE? YES? OMG THAT'S INCREDIBLE, ME TOOO! That s crazy

🤣 the guy with the funky voice has me cracking up… do u like cherries? No?… 🤣🤣🤣

Part 3 please 😄 🙌🙌 love your videos ❤️

Dating is so hard so Thankyou Ryan!! This helps so so much!!

I mean, I already knew, but both your videos confirmed that guys are just nice to me.

That was enlightening 😊 I met new people at a picnic on the weekend. The two guys were paying a lot of interest to one of the women, who tried to dominate the conversation. When we all went for a walk, I had the impression that one of the guys started psying me more attention, told me about his background etc. When we got back, he mirrored what I was doing etc. Am I imagining that he's interested in me?

I've been wearing pink on Wednesdays since I started my new job and last week my coworker did too and singled me out for one on one conversation. 😊

🤣You are so funny! It's no wonder you have such a big following. Thanks for always making us laugh and for the great advise. Its much appreciated. 👍

I like you Ryan. Your edits are fantastic. I like the contrast in the way you presented nice vs interested. Very clear understanding I have now. Thank you..

I really liked the black and white videos, so much fun. By the way I think number 8 and 9 are really important. I had a guy who was just texting or chatting and never talked about seeing in public or even calling on the phone, so I took Ryan's advise and said: "NEXT". :-)

Cherries are my favorite fruit! 🍒 and I have a bearded Dragon! 😂 what are the odds? 😂

The first time I see your channel and I already love it because you are so funny in an original way 😂

“If you ever find a guy talking to himself” lmao 😂

The guy I like is all over the place. One minute, he acts like he always does with me, and then the next, I find him staring at me from across the room, and quickly looking away when I look in his direction. He always talks to me and keeps eye contact all the time, but we never get a chance to have real conversations. We're always close to each other, and I find that just about every time we hang out, we brush shoulders or hands or our feet touch. In general, he's just a super friendly person, and he doesn't do any of this with anyone else but, it's impossible to tell what he thinks of me, even one of my friends who's known him for longer can't tell either.

This was a great follow up. Thank you!

Being nice

Very entertaining and not depressing even if I saw a lot of signs that my crush is just being polite to me

Years ago there was man who just kept laughing every time he was near me. My friends kept telling me that he was nice and I should give him a chance, but I just thought he was creepy.

Lmfao me and 2 other coworkers mirror each other all the time when we talk in a triangle. It's just funny to notice, I'm sure it means nothing romantic but it's so funny to see us all eventually do the same thing.

I met my coworker for the 1st time at a happy hour. He talked to me the whole night(even though there were 15 others at the HH). He asked me millions of questions about myself... We stayed after at my car when everyone left got an additional hour and he hugged me goodbye and he hasn't said one word to me since. We work remote but geesh I was for sure there was a vibe. 😭😭 he was so handsome he really caught me off guard.

Do you like Cheetos? Lmao 🤣 Ryan tho it’s a painful- lonely hearts club….You crack me up 😆

Well, my guy friend and I were hanging out and he asked me "what would my ideal date look like". I was quite taken off guard when he asked me.

The guy I’m talking to does at least 4 of the signs you talked about; He’ll have trouble ending the interaction, he remembers unimportant things I told you, he constantly moves the interaction to the next level. I haven’t had a guy do that so it feels really good when he moves the interaction at a steady pace. Thanks for part 2

Okay. Thanks. He doesn't like me. It's time to cry and then slowly move on. Someday

Thank you for making straightforward and short videos! 🙏🏻 much easier to watch and not boring

Not all men are the same. My boyfriend ( my then friend) was very shy and he did a lot of these things that would be interpreted as just wanting to be friends. But mirroring? That is a sign that he is in love with you! Talking to himself?! 💯 accurate!! He likes the hell out of you and it's got a lot on his plate. but not too much that he doesn't want to be with you all the time.❤️❤️❤️

I love the grey parts hahahah loved them before, love them here

Your presentation is so fun!!

Today, I made plans in a group chat directed at one specific person. Technically, neither of us are allowed to date yet, but whenever we see each other, it’s like the entire world is blocked out

True. A guy that liked me was chatting with me and someone else in the parking lot. He kept starting his car and then turning it off cuz he didn't want to leave but he had to get going. Pretty sure he did this for 30 minutes or so. We dated for a couple years and then I broke up with him. Wish I hadn't dated a coworker, but he started IMing me and coming by my desk a lot. He also had a party and invited me... took pics with each person at the party just so he could get a pic with me (he told me after we started dating).

Omg, Ryan, I always laugh to tears when watching your videos 😂😂😂 thanks for sharing useful info in such a funny manner!!

He doesn't like me at all. It was all in my head😂😂

Love the commentary examples in grey , just cracks me up 😂😂. Very animated an helpful too!

You're right Ryan he does that like almost every time we meet up,he's like I can't hear you the music is loud or it's noisy,but I believed I was audible enough and didn't really check it out till now,thanks

So, I have a guy, who does majority of everything you said in part 1 and part 2 with me.... we we're working together this past summer which is how we connected. He compliments me on being the funniest person he's ever met, and months later out of the blue sat beside me and just said "I can't wait to see you win an Oscar one day and I'll be in the audience cheering you on and when we first chatted months prior he asked me about my passions and dreams and knew what they we're but found out through someone else and this was the same convo that allowed us to be vulnerable with each other and talk about our fears, ambitions which was so nice and one of his buddies also told me that he said, "I was his favourite new person in the job we were doing" after a week of meeting me and yet we never spoke (so I guess he was just watching me from afar.....). He's insanely sexual with me and has even initiated interlocking his hands with mine on a night out; kissed the back of my hand when we we're at the bar and then at a few parties; kissed me on the forehead and then kissed my friend on the forehead beside me. I'm a pretty sensual dancer and I just love a fun time on the dance floor and so he'll try and find me every night we go out and watches my body, tells me that he loves me and adores me; but the catch is that he was in an open relationship and idk the status of them now.... but he also makes me think he doesn't like me cuz I've tried to be like; well lets watch a movie and he'll pause and then be like nah I'm going to bed, or sometimes when he catches himself being flirty and then he retreats. He also leaves me on read sometimes if texting and has told me he's bad at texting.... I also don't know their status of relationship after we wrapped up working so I'm more just friendly than anything with him or keep a distance but his actions have me confused as I did start to develop feelings. Help a sister out.

I would love to know if this is a sign. So the guy I like, we hung out in a group setting with mutual friends once, now we've been hanging out every weekend for the past month. There's been two times we got together just us two to get food. One of those times when we were packing up our leftovers at the Indian restaurant, he just started filling up my box for me. It just felt like something! Nobody's ever done that for me as a friend, and it felt like he was showing a sign he wanted to take care of me. The second time was this past weekend. We were habging out with a group of friends and I asked him if he wanted to get some dinner beforehand and he was like, "That's a great idea! I'm so hungry. How about 7 at this great mexican restaurant?" And it was so nice. I was waiting in the parking lot. Texted him to text me when he got there, and instead he called me when he got there! He chose a table away from other people and it was wonderful. It feels like when we go out together we're on dates just energy wise and i wish they were. I wonder if he feels it too! Would be interested to hear your opinion :)

Im watching this and scared if he dosent like me too 💔

This guy saw me doing math problems on my computer while I was sitting down.Then he just when up to me and started helping me with math when I didn't need the help and he go so so so close to me and looked at my lips.

I'm going to meet a guy from online for the first time and he seems very polite with how he text. It was kinda refreshing but still have my guard up

At first I was confused on the distracted part but when he explained the last part makes sense, because my partner doesn’t like showing off his video game skills especially one of his favorites and I think that pretty cute and cool Edit: Forgot to say he shows me when he plays or plays when I’m talking to him and he talks to me and it’s fun on both parts in my opinion

the way i’ve exposed myself with these 🥴. if he were to see this kind of video he would know i kinda like him lmao. the way i’ve done like half of these things on the video lol

Ryan! This is good! I immediately could think back to times guys had the signs they were just being nice to me! This will help me on those first phone dates and meetings from dating app interactions. Mirroring your body la gauge is a good one. I like the laying your head on your hand investigation. Thank you 🙏

Ok, but how do we know if they like us in a friend way or romantic way?

Yaay I just found your first one earlier, so glad there is already a part two

he was angry all day but when he noticed me waving he smiled and acted like nothing was wrong

Had a few of these in my last relationship but it was all false to win me over and manipulate me. The attention and mirroring were over the top towards being a bit odd. A guy I work with makes good conversation but he has a partner, he makes it like a mission to have a in-depth chat