“Does This Not Feel Weird to You?”

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@tylersanders2388 21 күн бұрын

That's a mess. They're hardly even married. I'd say they are nothing but roommates, but honestly they're not even very good roommates if he's coming up short on the housing payment.

@fhuber7507 20 күн бұрын

Roomies with benefits in the bedroom and idiotic kids about everything else. She's as guilty as he is. And this is just carrying over the bad habits they developed in their previous relationships.

@JoshuaaColin 21 күн бұрын

Hate that kids are involved. They’re clearly gonna divorce soon. Sad situation.

@lav7161 21 күн бұрын

They won't. They can't afford divorce.

@hiteshadhikari 18 күн бұрын

@@lav7161i think this cheaper to keep her doesn't apply here, he will be better getting rid of her

@tpeters85 13 күн бұрын

@@hiteshadhikariyou think she’s the problem? Did you even watch the video?

@tiffanyjohnson2834 21 күн бұрын

She has to understand that they can’t afford private school. With his money or not! And if they don’t bring more income nobody is going to have a good outcome. The old saying I can do bad by myself. And her husband doesn’t want to let her know what his income is. It is ok to say I made a mistake by marrying this man. Love don’t pay the bills!!

@BeyondTigerMilk 21 күн бұрын

But it's important to her for others to know her kids go to private school and that her family pretends to have values.

@jeraldbottcher1588 21 күн бұрын

Her husband not disclosing what his income is a big issue.

@jamesseurat8679 21 күн бұрын

@@BeyondTigerMilk I don't get how you can spin this to be her problem. She even admitted that cutting out their private school was a step she's willing to take... the husband not bringing her in and treating their finances like they're one is the root of the issue, not private school.

@BeyondTigerMilk 21 күн бұрын

@@jamesseurat8679 Marrying wrong is her problem. Enrolling kids in a school you can't afford is her problem. Divorcing and remarrying a man who doesn't want to integrate lives is her problem as much as it is his.

@jamesseurat8679 20 күн бұрын

@@BeyondTigerMilk So everything is her problem and nothing is his? I don't understand how you can be so delusional to assign all of the blame to one person.

@DakotahMe 20 күн бұрын

We I got divorced, I showed the judge a spread sheet showing his WHOLE paycheck went to his expenses. Zero to the household. The judge made him sign over the equity in our house in a quit claim deed. His selfishness needs to end today!

@sandrasimplytoday7772 20 күн бұрын

This was a great idea. I wish I would have fought harder and kept more of my equity since I paid the majority of the bills.

@marshalltille7770 18 күн бұрын

‘We I got divorced.’ What does that MEAN.

@dayfin1843 17 күн бұрын

@@marshalltille7770 "When I got divorced" probably

@scottlaux6934 19 күн бұрын

Catholic school for 3 kids isn't as important as not having a home to live in.

@AllynHin 20 күн бұрын

He *needed* a new car so *he* bought a new car. I wonder how much that car payment is. Who can possibly think paying for private school is more important than not being homeless? I feel bad for the caller. Her life is a mess.

@socketyellow3 17 күн бұрын

So did I, but she seems to have this problem and being a tool. Also where are the kid’s dad? Is he dead? That’s still going to be income from the state, is he incarcerated? Doesn’t looks good for her to have multiple kid with him or with other guys. Guys a POS and she’s too used to letting people walk over her

@sarahp8937 20 күн бұрын

I don't understand why people don't talk about this together before marriage

@gdolly166 21 күн бұрын

So many red flags...can't keep up. She gained another 2 children not a husband. Sad.

@fernnoli 21 күн бұрын

Sounds like she didn't do her research on why he was actually divorced.

@luisvigo3777 21 күн бұрын

She’s calling to have other sh** all over the husband with just her side of this story.

@Dbeaves2493 21 күн бұрын

She also had to have known.. it's been less than a year

@ryanray6215 20 күн бұрын

@fernnoli . No ! Why she was actually divorced ?

@parkermarsch646 21 күн бұрын

As a husband WITHOUT kids, I couldn't imagine not caring enough to just let my wife and kids be put in a terrible situation like this. Stumbled across Dave due to $5K in CC debt and $10K in car debt. Worked 80hrs a week to get that cleaned up and a proper emergency fund in place. This dude is like "lol, not my problem that your account is negative. Have fun taking care of the kids though"

@CarlGorn 20 күн бұрын

Agreed. I don't understand how another man can get married and act like this. If he were my brother, I'd be asking him, "Do you want a wife, a divorce lawyer, or a bed in the morgue? Because the way you're acting is going to end in one of the last 2, guaranteed."

@mahoganyrn5611 19 күн бұрын

What kind of job did you work when you were clocking 80 hrs a week?

@parkermarsch646 19 күн бұрын

@@mahoganyrn5611 engineer / project manager as my career from M-F. I’d log off at 5 and helped a contractor with additional labor for evening and weekend projects he had. Any other spare time went to Door Dashing / Uber Eats.

@MarcusKiner 19 күн бұрын

@@mahoganyrn5611plenty of service industry jobs that you can do this in.

@kayn2756 20 күн бұрын

Some people don't need to be married.

@God.Almighty 18 күн бұрын

my hands are up. way way up.

@tracybrovan3997 21 күн бұрын

Their marriage is going to end in divorce soon.

@djpuplex 21 күн бұрын

Briffault Law.

@miketheyunggod2534 21 күн бұрын

Ok Dave. 🙄.

@kristoferchandler8294 21 күн бұрын

Take it easy there tiger

@busam1578 21 күн бұрын

Relax, y’all always jumping to divorce without trying to fix things.

@djpuplex 20 күн бұрын

@@busam1578 It's a second marriage and the moneys not working like she thought. It's over.

@adammoss7707 20 күн бұрын

Private Catholic school and behind on the mortgage lol

@darrellm.9622 19 күн бұрын

What's funny no different than u behind on ur car payment but u paying for online gaming 😂😂😂

@Ashley-ku7is 21 күн бұрын

OMG, what is wrong with the Husband? What a weirdo.

@sophie20001 20 күн бұрын

He doesn’t trust women.

@analyticalchick3064 8 күн бұрын

He didn't want her. She probably didn't want to be a single mother and took what she could get.

@dominiquejones6758 21 күн бұрын

She has three children and no husband!! Heck no!!

@benmyers9030 21 күн бұрын

She is sending kids to catholic school. She is the ignorant child

@khrisstake2210 21 күн бұрын

That's pretty harsh isn't it

@costco_pizza 21 күн бұрын

The truth is a lot of people are struggling out there. We are suffering and don’t know where our next meal is coming from. A proper UBI and student loan relief would go a LONG way in helping us all out. We could pay our bills and put food on the table. Why don’t Rachel and Dave want that for us?

@vbelbel490 21 күн бұрын

@@costco_pizza Why should I as a tax payer relief your student loan?

@tonytoni1150 21 күн бұрын

@@costco_pizza most people aren’t on a budget and living below their means, that’s why so many are struggling. Not because of student loans. It’s because they’re not disciplined financially.

@Kysen10 21 күн бұрын

She doesn't have a husband she has a room mate.

@pamt3915 21 күн бұрын

Besides that this is primarily a marriage problem, what’s their income. Since she’s not willing to give up private school, it sounds like they live well above their income. Why didn’t Dave ask for their income & debts?

@bradleygraves5915 21 күн бұрын

Probably because none of that matters if they aren't working together like a married couple should. Nothing else matters if that is not happening.

@pamt3915 21 күн бұрын

I already stated that this is primarily a marriage problem. Their income/debts are also important because she is unwilling to stop paying for private school. Dave has repeatedly had people making over $150,000 year whose spending is out of control & they aren’t willing to give anything up.

@119jle 19 күн бұрын

Two jobs people. I drove FedEx nine hours then did security eight hours after. Not hard to do. Two pay checks six hours of sleep a day for two years. Man up! $90,000

@johannesswillery7855 19 күн бұрын

Yes. I've never limited myself to one job or forty hours per week.

@user-se6ww2xe9q 17 күн бұрын

My ex had me in debt with 10 credit all max out I had to wait 7 years to start over she's gone now had two grown kids from another man I'm happy 😊 she's gone I'm doing good today financially I'm bless

@vioxx111 21 күн бұрын

As a man with a wife and two kids, I couldn't look myself in the mirror when I woke up if I wasnt providing for my family

@khrisstake2210 21 күн бұрын

And this is why we have the societal problem now

@miketheyunggod2534 21 күн бұрын

It’s called equality. The woman should also be the sole provider in marriages.

@chazzkramer7676 21 күн бұрын

@miketheyunggod2534 Umm... sole means 1 dude.

@289Mustang67 21 күн бұрын

@@miketheyunggod2534 Do you know any marriages in which the man and the woman are both the "sole" provider?

@khrisstake2210 21 күн бұрын

@@chazzkramer7676 that's the point

@johnjeremih 21 күн бұрын

This is the reason why you should NEVER move a man to your home!

@BenState 18 күн бұрын

weird arse comment

@donaldrichey3318 21 күн бұрын

Stop writing checks when you don’t have money.

@SoUnDMaN831 21 күн бұрын

Assuming the overdraft fee is still $25, she’d have to overdraft her account 65 times to get $1,300 in fees. That’s a huge red flag for this couple. They probably should get divorced. She’s overwhelmed and he seems completely disengaged from being a supportive husband.

@miketheyunggod2534 21 күн бұрын

Many customers use overdraft like it’s their money.

@firefly9838 20 күн бұрын

@@miketheyunggod2534 why don't people use overdraft protection?

@Bruin2002 20 күн бұрын

Why overdraft fee is his problem? If they have separate accounts and she paid $1300 in overdraft fees, that tells me she is grossly negligent to her accounts. Also, she says her account is -$600 after the overdraft, that means her account would have $700 otherwise as long as she paid attention and transferred the money before the fee occurred. Also, I believe most banks would send notifications when account is overdrafted and she usually has a day to transfer the fund, so she could easily avoid the situation if she simply paid attention.

@SoUnDMaN831 20 күн бұрын

@@miketheyunggod2534I don’t understand how a bank can let a person overdraft that much. They’re probably giving money away by doing that. I say probably because I don’t know how much money was pulled from the ATM each time, but I’m willing to bet each withdrawal was more than $25.

@SoUnDMaN831 20 күн бұрын

@@Bruin2002The overdraft fee is not directly the husband problem, but at the same time you can’t just let your wife sink like that. Why even get married at all if you’re just going to sit back watch your wife destroy herself? He needs to step in to be the voice of reason and say, “this is a big f-ing deal and we need make a plan to deal with it properly”. When you get married you’re a team. You can’t just throw your wife out to the wolves when she messes up.

@JoeyNYSDnomad 21 күн бұрын

2nd and third mariages, come on people learn from the first time, get a dog.

@mike112079 21 күн бұрын

lol. No, this time it will be different 😂😂

@odessajackson4551 21 күн бұрын

Uncle Dave now you're a marriage counselor 😂😂

@sitcomchristian6886 20 күн бұрын

UN checks out 😂

@bradleygraves5915 21 күн бұрын

There are months and months of bad decisions coming to fruition here.

@fluffyspunsugar 16 күн бұрын

My ex-husband did something similar to me. His excuse was I brought debt into the marriage, and if I didn't have personal debt, that money could go towards rent, utilities and food, and he wouldn't need to contribute to our finances. He said it wasn't his responsibility to make up the difference. And since he had no debt, he didn't have to work. When I said he needed to help with shared expenses like rent, he'd circle back to my personal debt and say if I didn't have it, then the whole rent would be paid. That was his mentality. That's why he's the ex.

@MarkYeung1 21 күн бұрын

Seems like they have a serious marriage problem

@mike112079 21 күн бұрын

Yeah, they shouldn’t be!

@ljljlj9263 21 күн бұрын

Nah sis, you got 3 KIDS!!! GET OUT 🏃🏾‍♀️💨

@Rebecca-ci3zc 19 күн бұрын

So easy for you to say. I suspect she married him for security, financial and otherwise and needs his income too.

@lombardo141 21 күн бұрын

The 13,000 is an obvious typo. Relax commenters, give them time to fix it. 😂

@bobmcdoggish9659 21 күн бұрын

There's not enough information here to make a judgment call.

@jasonjason5325 19 күн бұрын

Agreed 👍

@TMPS93 21 күн бұрын

$1,300 not $13,000

@jimmymcgill6778 21 күн бұрын

CLICK BAIT. They've been doing that a lot lately.

@lombardo141 21 күн бұрын

I think it’s a typo…they don’t need to click bait.

@BlakeWheelersBurnerAccount 21 күн бұрын

It’s actually 1.3 million in overdraft fees 🤭

@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477 21 күн бұрын

I don't even think that it's possible to overdraft that much and if it is it shouldn't be!

@chazzkramer7676 21 күн бұрын

Where did you get $13,000?

@amydoran9987 21 күн бұрын

She sounds really unhappy. It also sounds like he’s about himself and the previous marriage is causing stress and many issues. They just got married and it sounds like a train wreck. Her life may be difficult if they stay together.

@zvmZvm0102 18 күн бұрын

Yeah poor guy, she sounds like a nagging wife

@rabbidginger 21 күн бұрын

$1,300 in fees, not $13,000

@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477 21 күн бұрын

I don't even think it's possible to have $13,000 in overdraft and if so it shouldn't be! Why apply for a loan or credit card if someone can just overdraft lol.

@1965mymaria 20 күн бұрын

He has another life.

@lindacondilli6494 18 күн бұрын

Why didn’t they ask about their debt, their income, tell them to sell the new car, the house. Etc.

@eldorado1244 21 күн бұрын

They should get divorced, its not going to work out

@Daveyboy28 20 күн бұрын

Make men men again

@Knyght100 20 күн бұрын

Incredible how not a single thing was said about her thinking going to private school is more important than food and shelter. Absolutely incredible. What a joke.

@SpicyKimchi- 21 күн бұрын

I probably have accidentally over-drafted a hand full of times due to timing (I don’t keep extra money in my checking), my bank has always reversed the fees.

@michaelcatalanottohandyman 21 күн бұрын

Even $1,300 overdraft fees is absurd. No need to exaggerate it to 13k.

@lombardo141 21 күн бұрын

I think it’s a typo. Video just came out. Give them benefit of a doubt

@alluringbliss4165 21 күн бұрын

I was afraid to click 😂😂

@jeraldbottcher1588 21 күн бұрын

That husband is a deadbeat dad without being divorced. He needs to put his full paycheck into the accounts. Then pay the bills including the car payment. If he ends up being a little short of cash he has to suck it up. I bet he is walking around with plenty of cash in his pocket.

@khrisstake2210 21 күн бұрын

Naw. Women asked for this. This they will get

@JonathanIvy221 20 күн бұрын

That’s not a husband, that’s a roommate

@lizacopeland2388 21 күн бұрын

My husband and I have separate accounts but we pay bills together and about spending discretionary money together. This guy can help too.

@analyticalchick3064 8 күн бұрын

Yeah, us too. He pays anything you write a check for and I buy things in person-take out, groceries, Walmart, car repairs, vet bills for cat, Amazon (ok that's online).

@davinasquirrel7672 20 күн бұрын

I would have liked to know how much the husband spent on the car, what the repayments are, etc, because it does sound as if it hit the fan with the car (or was it a stupid truck?). The husband seems to be playing "what's mine is mine, and what's yours is ours'" game. That usually ends in divorce.

@ppoppoiop6336 20 күн бұрын

Choose right the first time, y'all.

@fhuber7507 20 күн бұрын

It's just stupid to keep writing checks when you don't have money in the account. And they've chosen the stupid separate finances.

@fhuber7507 20 күн бұрын

And we will never hear his side... about her spending like an idiot on crap from Amazon.

@ugladden 17 күн бұрын

Her Logic: School > Roof Wow!!

@michaelmadsen1222 20 күн бұрын

It is weird to me how many married couples don't have their finances combined. I didn't even realize that was a thing until I started listening to the Ramsey show.

@maoak5470 17 күн бұрын

My spouse and I have separate finances. Its the best way to go with a second marriage with kids from the first marriage. The problem with this couple IMO is not that they have separate finances. The problems are that her husband is a deadbeat and she is clueless as to how much he even earns. He needs to be coughing up either half of the household expenses or a proportion based on his salary relative to hers, in addition to his own personal expenses and those of his kid.

@danielfair4675 3 күн бұрын

That's because they're not idiots. Your #1 job in life is to protect your future. If you can't at least provide for yourself, you're incapable of providing for others. #2 marriage is NOT a guaranteed life event. Chances are 1 of the 2 involved people are going to screw the other over in one way or another should things go bad. Any combined account could be wiped out and you'd have nothing to fall back on if need be. I'm 59 yrs old, and have never had one. My parents were married 45 years when my Dad passed away, and never had joint accounts.

@michaelmadsen1222 3 күн бұрын

@@danielfair4675 I'm glad it's worked for you, but I always felt like when you get married you become one. For us there is no such thing as mine and yours, it's all ours. That's the way divorce court would see it too. Glad you've found something that works though!

@andresosa8842 15 күн бұрын

They failed to ask who owns the house. More likely is hers and she got prenup. So he feels like he’s not part of it . Not saying he is right, but that adds to the issue.

@kathyharmon2093 18 күн бұрын

Every time I think about being alone I just listen to these people’s stories and remind myself what it was like to be married, NOPE NOPE NOPE

@zvmZvm0102 18 күн бұрын

Marriage is great; most people i know who don't "want" to get married usually are undesirable people.

@AmyBethB 19 күн бұрын

He is putting himself #1 and forgetting her!

@theplaintiff5450 19 күн бұрын

I guarantee he is making more than what he is telling her.

@cyoohoos 20 күн бұрын

Less than a year of marriage? But it's hard to feel sorry for this when they prioritize private school over food

@IrishMexican 20 күн бұрын

Hold on. This married couple are devout Catholics, yet they have split finances? WTH?

@danielfair4675 3 күн бұрын

Being Catholic has "0" to do with the issues

@coolaunt516 21 күн бұрын

Finally a regular call from regular people.

@Paul-ou1rx 19 күн бұрын

I think he knows exactly what he is doing. In no world does the husband have an income and zero goes twords the responsibility of the homes finances. Unless the couple decides to live on one income to get out of debt or make a major purchase in the future.

@mhodge0890 21 күн бұрын

Been there done that. I had a -2000 back in 2020

@Dreamprism 18 күн бұрын

1:25 The husband and wife need to get on the same page with how they're financing their life.

@Neddie2k 21 күн бұрын

This guy moved in with her, looks like it’s her house not his. Looks like the guy has checked out mentally for whatever reason.

@zvmZvm0102 18 күн бұрын

It was probably her ex-husband's house to begin with.

@analyticalchick3064 8 күн бұрын

@@zvmZvm0102 He probably didn't want her but it looked like an easy opportunity to take advantage.

@Fe26man 21 күн бұрын

I used to bank with Wells Fargo and they gauged me overdraft fees, even when I wasn’t negative. I bank with a money market that has overdraft protection. If I can’t afford it- I can’t get it. As it should be.

@lizh4933 21 күн бұрын

Wells Fargo. Bank fee thieves.

@MrTmenzo 21 күн бұрын

I have Wells Fargo and no fees

@front331 21 күн бұрын

I bank with Wells Fargo too and had that problem 20 years ago when I was 16. Never had that problem again because I don't live paycheck to paycheck. You shouldn't either.

@Fe26man 21 күн бұрын

@@MrTmenzo this was a decade ago… but that’s why they lost me as a customer. At that same time, the only way for my parents to get free checks (that’s how boomers pay) WF made it so the only way they got free checks was to maintain a minimum balance of $20,000! That’s just stupid. They got smart faster than I did!

@Fe26man 20 күн бұрын

@@front331 I don’t! But I do make money with my money :-) I’m a decade later than the overdraft fee of myself! But it was down to being off by Pennie’s and being charged $35 each time I rounded wrong! Never again!

@sophie20001 20 күн бұрын

Would love a follow up call.

@tituswillb 21 күн бұрын

yikes .... she must be terrified

@DamonMoves 19 күн бұрын

I feel for her, I’ve been in that same position before minus the marriage. Overdraft fees are a different kind of debt, it is more urgent and you feel more overwhelmed because you don’t have the money and each time something is taken out you get charged for it. I don’t blame her for feeling overwhelmed.

@sophie20001 21 күн бұрын

Always know how your partner is with money before you marry them.

@TheEckoEcho 20 күн бұрын

Child support hit the husband hard

@Beginningtopeak 21 күн бұрын

Is the husband not contributing to the mortgage? I don't remember if she said it or not.

@jeraldbottcher1588 21 күн бұрын

IT sounds like he may think he is but he is just giving her money when she asks for it and does not know or even care if there is enough money to pay the bills.

@lav7161 21 күн бұрын

This is why I don't have kids. Because I don't have money lol

@iluvworldofwarcraft 21 күн бұрын

Having her kids in private Catholic school is important to her? You know what SHOULD be important to her even more? Getting out of this financial hole. What we WANT and what we NEED to do in order to survive are two different things. Those kids need to be in public school, at least until mommy and daddy can fix their issues.

@kathyharmon2093 18 күн бұрын

Or homeschool

@iluvworldofwarcraft 18 күн бұрын

@@kathyharmon2093 right!? That's a choice too

@Fred2-123 21 күн бұрын

Two people who each have been divorced. Odds are not in their favor.

@danielfair4675 3 күн бұрын

Common now days

@Here2Comment 21 күн бұрын

I feel like we are not hearing the complete story.

@cljerjr31 21 күн бұрын

Albany- my home town!

@barryetherton4889 20 күн бұрын

I feel for her, but still like to hear his views.

@ianmowbray3284 20 күн бұрын

They can always live in his new truck omg this is so wrong 😮

@sprint7412 20 күн бұрын

Comments are saying husband may not want to combine money because she is bad with it but that doesn't make sense. If he is the responsible one then he would be making sure the mortgage and other bills get paid before anything else. But he isn't doing that.

@joeh2401 15 күн бұрын

My friend switch cultures and the same thing happened. They got a new car and their kid was more important.

@sarah345 14 күн бұрын

If they had joint accounts, he would just be spending all of her money too.

@juicysmith38235 21 күн бұрын

I have auto draft protection. This is just sad wtf

@kimadams1548 21 күн бұрын

I, too, have overdraft protection.

@pahanin2480 14 күн бұрын

When cars are involved, its over

@RealWallyGator 20 күн бұрын

How much does he make? How much does she make? How much are all their bills? Dave just threw the husband under the bus without asking questions.

@rayhill5767 20 күн бұрын

I’m sure that third or fourth marriage will work out fine.

@Hoped4 21 күн бұрын

He is not providing for his family

@jimbrown3366 21 күн бұрын

Only one side of the story

@graceweber2822 21 күн бұрын

Maybe he is not enthused about supporting her kid.

@whothou 21 күн бұрын

Incels out in full effect 🤣. Why the hell are you getting married to someone if you're not gonna take care of each other's kids from the ex? Especially if the kids live in the same house as you. Tbh it seems like the deadbeat husband doesn't want to support the lights staying on or food on the table. @@graceweber2822

@miketheyunggod2534 21 күн бұрын

Feminism.

@289Mustang67 21 күн бұрын

@@jimbrown3366 Would you say that if it was a husband complaining about his wife?

@Chet_24 21 күн бұрын

Dont overdraft the account, and this wont happen

@yourgooglemeister6745 16 күн бұрын

Responsibility is Kryptonite for women

@David-wo9un 21 күн бұрын

She said the fees are ridiculous, but how many incidences were there? A bank might forgive one or two but you’re not getting off totally free if you had 50+ different overdrafts.

@bovinebeautymoo2884 21 күн бұрын

After kid #1 and her Spouse was STILL doing this… It was PAST TIME for her to . or get off the 🚽

@EsiriE 20 күн бұрын

They don’t have children together. Just from separate relationships

@StephanieJoRountree 21 күн бұрын

They don't have money for a counselor!

@odessajackson4551 21 күн бұрын

So why she didn't call the bank before calling Uncle Dave so he can wave his magic wand and make it all go away.. wtf is up with the husband.. Make it make sense.. private school 😢

@jessicanoble1834 21 күн бұрын

So random I know, but I’m LOVING Rachel’s new haircut 😍❤

@lanetollen7909 21 күн бұрын

$13,000 over a period of a Couple of years could definitely add up to $13k e.g., $28k on 2 cards equal approximately $600/mo interest if you are making monthly minimum payments. If you're unable to clear your CC balance(s) monthly you can get in trouble very quickly. Sad... 28

@Joce123 18 күн бұрын

I wish I could hear the husband's side of the story. I don't think we are hearing it all.

@hollyb6885 18 күн бұрын

I would never put up with “my money/his money” crap. I know someone who lives like that and she has NO money for herself or their kids. Her husband gambles, plays sports, goes to the bar with his friends, etc…with HIS money.

@janise01 17 күн бұрын

So is none of the money he earns going to their household expenses and kids or does he just make significantly more so he has money left over for other activities?

@hollyb6885 17 күн бұрын

@@janise01 They make about the same money. She can ask home if she’s short on money to pay bills but he always says he doesn’t have any to give her.

@janise01 17 күн бұрын

@@hollyb6885 That doesn't really answer my question. Is he not paying towards their bills or expenses and it's all on her? I'm not understanding why she wouldn't have money and he does if they make about the same and split expenses.

@hollyb6885 17 күн бұрын

@@janise01 They don’t split expenses. She pays the household bills out of her money. He spends his money on himself. Two separate bank accounts. If her paycheck isn’t enough to pay that month’s bills, she asks him for some of his money. He may or may not give her any because he spends all of his money on himself.

@janise01 17 күн бұрын

@@hollyb6885 Oh ok so it's not really a "her money/his money" issue as under that dynamic both are still responsible for their split of expenses. He's just a user and would be doing this crap even if the money all went into the same account. She just needs to leave him.

@robr268 20 күн бұрын

Show me the numbers! I have a feeling even with combine incomes you don't make enough.

@mimosahoney5617 20 күн бұрын

I feel you a feeling of money gone ...Hope you get help to find the way at the end of tunnel!💖

@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 20 күн бұрын

How do you get negative in a checking account? All overdraft fees?

@mikeshaw4610 19 күн бұрын

When you get married there is no longer his and your, it all yours - together.

@kathleencooney1518 20 күн бұрын

She didn’t know how he would behave before they got married. My parents sent us to Catholic schools & I wish they hadn’t, it was something they couldn’t afford. We would have been just fine attending public schools. Thinking of the stress my parents had makes me sad.

@paulstandaert5709 19 күн бұрын

I would like to hear the other side of the story first before suggesting anything here. But off the top, as a single guy of age 42 who can barely even get a date, I don't like to do it, but I blame her almost as much as I am tending to blame him. Why do women pick such losers?

@codyrichardson6348 21 күн бұрын

Why send kids to a Catholic school when he doesn't act like a Godly husband at all.

@afjm7499 21 күн бұрын

So curious what their total household income is. And how much debt they have besides the mortgage. Surprised Dave & Rachel didn't ask. Hoping for their sake and the kids sake the solution will be as simple as combining everything and working together like adults. Also - send your kids to public school or sell your house before having a negative balance in your bank account.

@christinebutler7630 21 күн бұрын

Public schools are a dumpster fire. Send the kids to the grandparents to be homeschooled if they cant afford private school. Or apply to the archdiocese for scholarships.