Does your Narcissist Want You to Leave?

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Does your Narcissist Want You to Leave?

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Жыл бұрын

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@lorrainefrasier4096 Жыл бұрын

They want you to leave so they can play the innocent abandon victim and garner sympathy because you left them and they have no idea why. When you leave, you do not go back

@martaszyszka7654 Жыл бұрын

Exactly!! The way they turn everything upside down, and have no idea why you left...🤷🏼‍♀️ I said enough after he broke up with me when I was 7 weeks pregnant. He tried to come back 2 weeks later but I had already made up my mind.

@emmarae4322 10 ай бұрын

They push you to leave them during discard or cheating so they can call you crazy. Cowards till the end.

@RawMotivations 10 ай бұрын

100%

@gabitanew Жыл бұрын

You just hit the nail in it’s head with this, my husband doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore but he won’t leave nor divorce , he said that if I want I can leave and divorce him , it’s about the money . He keeps saying that is his house and I am free to go anytime I want . Wow , you just described my whole situation .

@oceaneyes2367 9 ай бұрын

Same. He said the same things to me. However, I’m the one who’s asking for divorce. He said that’s what you want you leave I’m not going to divorce you. Terrible!

@avgonyma1 Жыл бұрын

LOL! I love how you described how they think about money. They are so cheap. So shady. All their money is for them.

@IsabellaPiesch 11 ай бұрын

Their image is all for them.

@cassiebennet4262 5 ай бұрын

They are incredibly stingy. One of my responsibilities was buying all the food for the household (totally fine). I spent about 750 a month on a 4 person household. I fell short and needed a little help once. He basically threw a temper tantrum because he had to spend 40 dollars on food. He eats all the food like he's starving to death all the time, but when he had to buy some he copped a resentful attitude. Then raged about something unrelated later. I knew it was about the food.

@yulandarowe6166 Жыл бұрын

I still don't get it. I never cared if he stayed, left, came, went. Or anything else. I was done way before he had sense enough to know it. So all his shenanigans were on himself and whomever else he involved. All I did was laugh at him.

@memes.1114 Жыл бұрын

They really believe you dobt get over them. Yes, there is a stage where you hooked and in the fog but once all that clears you truly can care less about them and their wasted bs tactics 🙄 its more annoying than anything else 🙄

@jennygreenwood1756 5 ай бұрын

Narcissists will treat you so bad that you are forced to leave for your own protection, sanity, and health. They have no morals and think they are always right.

@drlarrymitchell Жыл бұрын

They will run to the neighbors with the absolutely worst version possible of whatever you do. If you know that they're gonna cry and play the victim, make damn sure their tears are real.

@cherrybacon3319 Жыл бұрын

When you get out of something like this and you look back on your experience the while thing seems si surreal. 🍒

@karenolsen2983 Жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness..couldn't agree mòre!!!!!

@tammymorris1473 Жыл бұрын

Oh my damnit yes he has an impeccable image at work n with everyone outside our home. It makes me sick.

@mandeetee71218 Жыл бұрын

I really did no contact block and got rid of my narcissist and finally I'm trying to stay away

@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын

Good for you !!🙂

@StarPanda7 Жыл бұрын

My narcissist ex wanted me to leave so he could get on dating sites and look for new supply. He eventually broke up with me. Then came back recently (4 months after breaking it off). Unblocked me to "check" on me. Because hes so depressed bc no girls match with him on dating sites the two dates he went on they ghosted him. Why do they feel like they can come back crying?? Just because they cant find other supply? * he lied to me and I found out. So he broke it off because I got upset he lied.* 😳 He definitely cared too much about what other people thought. He keeps telling people I am "crazy" then tells me I am the only person he wants to talk to or see. He has no friends or family here. So if he doesn't have a girlfriend or new supply. He comes to me.

@nicolesiemens8727 Жыл бұрын

He tried to discard me about 3 times, saying the "it's been fun, I still want to be friends" game, and I just said point blank each time, "No. You don't get to leave. I've done absolutely nothing wrong, only loved you this entire relationship, you don't get to act like an innocent person and just start treating me badly and up and leave." The last straw for me was I had to go to emergency, and told him- he didn't even care, and I just had a gut feeling he was checking out other women online. Went and checked, sure enough- in that moment he was liking other women's pictures on Twitter. I told him to not speak to me the rest of the night. The next day I pulled up a bunch of women's profiles he was following with them standing in bikinis. I asked, "where's your heart at?" He immediately got mad. The next day I said nothing. Looked at his "good morning" text, and deleted him. Said nothing for a month , and blocked him. Don't ever let a narcissist try to manipulate you emotionally. Don't play their game, don't say a word and just block them and never look back.

@nancybrooks5696 Жыл бұрын

So true in intimate relationships, Ben. There is also the long term friend in a friend group, who wants you out of the friend group. They abuse, gaslight, project in your one-on-one relationship. THEN-when you try to talk to them about it-but to no avail of course-tell you if you now need to pull out-because of THEIR under-the-radar abuse (that those in the friend group don’t see), it needs to be TOTALLY your decision, in order to make you the bad guy.

@TheTRADMOM 11 ай бұрын

My life literallly. Making me and two kids fearful around the house to force us to leave. Despicable

@IsabellaPiesch 11 ай бұрын

Money is always an issue with them. They can´t deal with money... So it doesn´t matter if you stay or not - you have the ,,bad" checkpot with them. You can only prey. With time people will see with whom they deal --- it is only a matter of time (sometimes longer - sometimes shorter). I don´t worry about that. Now I worry only about myself and the kids (nothing more). I will never go back that is for sure.

@ru.m.6119 2 ай бұрын

I just walked away today, and he doesn't want to leave even though he low key told me if I can't handle him to pass the torch to another. 😅

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@ru.m.6119 Ай бұрын

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@ru.m.6119 Ай бұрын

@@RawMotivations I see it, but I am at work at that time but will try my best.

@Ballpython77 8 ай бұрын

my old best friend NEVER paid child support....2 years ago, they finaly tracked him and send him a bill of $60,000 owing in child support. how this guy avoided jail all his life is fucking amazing with everything he did.

@brendadean9291 5 ай бұрын

I did not give my ex a chance to even think. I filed for divorce and never looked back. Unfortunately I had to keep in contact with him because of the kids ages 2 and 6.

@maithaalkaabi5961 Жыл бұрын

True, my ex wants me to leave because he has another supply after 11 years with me. He was hesitant because I think more primary supply and he was risking this for someone else just he knew because of status ( marriage). I did not know that he was dating me for sick of this.. cut long story short No contact.. it has been 6 months no contact ( blocked him) in all social media and I am sure his story for the new supply that he left me 😂😂

@tiklytahir Жыл бұрын

As a narcissist, does this platform with so much followers and so much attention on you , so many people listening to you , is that supply to you?

@memes.1114 Жыл бұрын

Of course it is 🙄 . At the same time he uses terms that appear to make him sound empathetic while keeping us playing the victim. We are not supply, regardless of what some idiot thought of us. Alot of emphasis is placed on our victim hood while excluding their weaknesses. They are really vulnerable and weak constantly worried about others and how they're perceived. They wouldn't have the balls to deal with the reverse switch they're not at desensitized as they claim unless they're boarding on sociopathic behavior. If you cheat on them it crushes they're very fragile ego😐if you talk ish about them they get unnerved and uncomfortable and they're not as smart as they believe. We all know what they're doing we just choose not to accept and they believe they've pulled the wool over us. They're really worthless humans not worth spending time talking about

@mimi42428 10 ай бұрын

It definitely is. I don't know Ben personally so I'm speaking in general. Narcs love attention of any kind, negative or positive. In this instance he appears to have developed a way for himself to get positive supply. Giving out information and educational material on people like himself. This is definitely supply. But in a positive way.

@mandeetee71218 Жыл бұрын

A lot of people don't have money so what can we do

@bdrm2009 Жыл бұрын

Are you married or just together?

@mandeetee71218 Жыл бұрын

@@bdrm2009 I had someone speak to me through live chat earlier but we aren't together anymore I went no contact with the last one finally but the other I have a child with so it's hard and he's through spurts of asking but he tries to use sex as a weapon because like most of the people who have sex with certain types of narcissist or a guest narcissist in general I don't know it was like a basis connection because I had never felt that before

@Pinkdiamond12 Жыл бұрын

This is so spot on

@marycummings6044 Жыл бұрын

Hello, this is definitely where I'm at with my husband with npd. Would you please speak to how fast a narc starts cycling through the breadcrumbing, devaluing and discarding when you're in the same house? He keeps leaving and having a secret life in a different town. But the intensity is amping up and also the frequency. Exhausted!! Help..

@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын

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@dawnserrano737 Жыл бұрын

Pretty sure he was trying to deal with the sidechick

@amyp60 Жыл бұрын

You need to listen to Sam Vaknin , he’s the father of NPD related content . You won’t regret it

@user-ej4sk8bc2l 6 ай бұрын

Stupid.Mine sabotaged my job.Could've made it easier for me to leave.Could've told me I would've agreed to keep the secret.The damage was toooo MUCH

@sunshinestate4001 Жыл бұрын

Just like my ex....what kind of man are thees whom can even tell the partner I want out?

@jenniechurch5337 Жыл бұрын

Well then go to DSHS, and the narc won't have a choice as to where his money goes!!!

@rgch-raw729 Жыл бұрын

No, narc is not a victim after 25 cheats … cheating is the the reason why she left the narc finally

@nopereradicator Жыл бұрын

Reverse discard. Your life will be a live action version of Uno. Your life will be full of pile ons.

@calliop31 Жыл бұрын

I feel everything you said because my gf or ex girlfriend whatever you want to call her is doing this but we live together idk if she wants me to say or go because I try it before and she told me where are you gonna go you don’t have anyone out here 😞 I rather be on the streets at this point

@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын

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