Doja Cat DRAGS her deadbeat dad! Saweetie better than Ice Spice? Ice Spice loses fans|Victoria Monet

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00:00 Intro
00:09 Doja Cat drags her estranged father Dumisani Dlamini
05:30 Victoria Monet broke up a happy home?
07:51 Does the public prefer Saweetie over Ice Spice now?
10:06 Ice Spice is losing popularity
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@SannyDaylight Ай бұрын

For people complaining why Doja never date black men, I understand…

@ntuthukomdluli-pd9jv Ай бұрын

Yes I understand as a black man,but Why alot of black women get treated poorly and still get impregnated by black men

@empressbonniemonjahras930 Ай бұрын

Yep.🎯💯

@candiicaine5596 Ай бұрын

Why do people care anyway? That's her business.

@velvetthunder3856 Ай бұрын

Is he a representation of every black man? That's unfair

@Aries16603 Ай бұрын

@@velvetthunder3856the collective of BM share this pathology. Statistics don’t lie. Instead of defending them, you need to hold them accountable. Thats the problem.

@kuronvernon3990 Ай бұрын

Deadbeat fathers always wanna come around and acknowledge their children once they become successful but that sh*t is hurtful af fr. They’ll never know what it took for you to become the person that you are today.

@TheJoseGarcia325 Ай бұрын

Exactly why i dont blame fatherless celebrities like doja cat rejecting or hating their fathers when they do come back around cuz they shouldve been there since day 1 🤦🏾🤦🏾 ppl can change but they gotta go extra hard for them to reciprocate so the pops cant be mad cuz of her reaction

@NubianSoulChildd Ай бұрын

Selling their soul..... that's what it took....

@kuronvernon3990 Ай бұрын

@@NubianSoulChildd Ngl she did what she knew. Her own people didn’t give her proper guidance.

@tenwaystowearit Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@AA-yc9dq Ай бұрын

Not only that but it’s a big way of saying “my love is conditional and I love what you do not you as you are”. Quiet as it’s kept, most parents are like this.

@teacheriggy5146 Ай бұрын

The crazy part is that us South Africans dragged the sh*t out of Dumisani when we found out that he abandoned his children and their mother. Like, all our lives this man was a national star and to grow up to find out that a man with his fame, position and means willingly left the family HE CREATED made us insanely angry. Especially knowing that many South Africans grew up fatherless, so many people saw themselves in her. Yet, he has the gall to post her pictures and like her posts? We should drag him again!

@deejones6446 Ай бұрын

Repect! ✊🏽🫶🏽🙏🏽

@MsAge-she Ай бұрын

Thank you for this!!! Drag him again yes!

@syrensanti7 25 күн бұрын

i really hope you all did!! bc that is not right

@sadecoco1502 Ай бұрын

As a South African, I am very disappointed at Dumisani !! He is only reaching out now that she is famous, nobody should leave their child like that.

@JaxMchunu Ай бұрын

Nami ingiphatha kabi indaba ka-Doja nobaba wakhe 💔💔💔

@NJABULODOCTORKHUMALO-mo6hi Ай бұрын

South African men are known to be deadbeats. And that is a Fendi fact.

@lotusphoenix8 Ай бұрын

Sis man! What an embarrassment. Wa nkwatisa

@Mamakhe048 Ай бұрын

Ohh please as if shaka zulu's father was never a deadbeat!!...it's in the culture heey!!

@cherishxoxo2738 Ай бұрын

And nobody should ever have to find their parent, they should be in their child’s life. If your child has to find you and reach out to you you’re pathetic.

@angelpleasure4866 Ай бұрын

“ gave me a lazy eye and dipped” is diabolical🤣🤣

@Thisisbrobe Ай бұрын

I don’t get it 😢

@Vashalasjewels Ай бұрын

@Thisisbrobe she's saying he gave her his lazy eye gene

@kuronvernon3990 Ай бұрын

Ngl I cackled 😩🤣

@JazzeFa Ай бұрын

That’s not diabolical. Find a better adjective

@beemocha Ай бұрын

lol I seriously never noticed Doja had a lazy eye 😮

@Anukii Ай бұрын

I WAS WAITING ON THIS DAY! Her daddy a SUPER DEADBEAT! NOW he wants to claim her?! Never even met her! 🤢

@VivaLaJuicy1991 Ай бұрын

So have I. I just think it's sad

@pareeshaslaughter6798 Ай бұрын

The men in my family ain’t shyt either. I just had a daughter one month ago…..I don’t plan on having the father in her life at all. They just mess shyt up

@Anukii Ай бұрын

@@pareeshaslaughter6798 Protect that innocent life from the damage that kind of dysfunction can incur! If they are a true danger to that child, their safety, & their mental health, keep those men away & let the parenting be a child support check. Too many children grow up to be adults saddled with issues because their parent failed to protect them.

@katgreer6113 Ай бұрын

@@pareeshaslaughter6798 why get pregnant for him in the first place then...? Or maybe it was one of those cases where he only showed his true colors later? A lot of men do that sometimes. I just think its disappointing how many of our kids grow up in a one parent household. It might take a strain on both the child and the parent. It's not easy at all. For anyone. I do hope you have a lot of help with her though. Children that grow up without fathers, however, are found to suffer more from more mental health issues than those with fathers. Children don't necessarily need a father figure, but I believe it's best to have more than one person they can look up to in times of need.

@deej5608 Ай бұрын

The men in her family seem to be horrible matter of fact let me correct myself they don't seem to be they really are. Her brother punched her two front teeth out and her sperm donor AKA her dad ain't shitt

@Aight7 Ай бұрын

Some men are disgusting... Your own daughter has tried to reach you and connect with you and what does he do? Ghost her until he notices who she has become. Another narcissist...

@Jess-yp9fo Ай бұрын

Yup. He fighting hella demons smh ole self loathing self

@pareeshaslaughter6798 Ай бұрын

Doja cats dad is just another ain’t shyt person………….doja should take the high road and BLOCK HIM.

@Spiritualjessy92 Ай бұрын

But first she has to make money with that topic😂

@shippendales8543 Ай бұрын

@@Spiritualjessy92as she should for years of overdue child support lol

@anka6356 Ай бұрын

@@shippendales8543 lol

@anka6356 Ай бұрын

@@Spiritualjessy92 Nothing wrong with making money. people are hungry for drama and chisme cause their lives suck

@ladytino5715 Ай бұрын

Not a social media dad . That's another level of sad. 😮

@listen-learn-speak2465 Ай бұрын

@ladytino5715…. Lol, is he the father? He probably was married cheating

@nshaboo101 Ай бұрын

Right. The new version of a deadbeat dad 🙄😑😒😒

@californiagirl1579 Ай бұрын

That part

@tenwaystowearit Ай бұрын

That part.

@minahtheweirdo Ай бұрын

My sons dad is like that

@avianalaureano8264 Ай бұрын

Poor Doja daddy issues are not fun but him caring now that she’s blown up and is famous is crazy

@mgueye2mgueye261 Ай бұрын

Fr and people are hating on doja for not “wanting to be black” when in reality her black dad left her with her brother and white mom

@avianalaureano8264 Ай бұрын

@@mgueye2mgueye261 you know what I’ve never thought about it that way but maybe psychologically that’s why she has a hard time with her blackness she was only raised by her white mother

@D-Will2k Ай бұрын

So true.

@amileshezi2858 Ай бұрын

@@mgueye2mgueye261but yall be angry when black men say they date white women coz black women treated them wrong and yall say not all black women are the same he hates himself but when it a woman now she can group all black men the same

@JordaniRoss Ай бұрын

@@Cease-gn2dk The guy knew and even promised to come back for them but never did. Not comparable to your husband’s situation at all

@Gaiaschosen Ай бұрын

"Ponytail move"? Im old enough to remember it USED to be called "Pullin an Alicia Keys" 🥴😂

@TheFinemocha Ай бұрын

What does pulling an Alisha keys mean?

@thesella Ай бұрын

@@TheFinemochaAlicia did what Victoria did to Moshonda and Swizz Beatz

@vladimirbatroni8499 Ай бұрын

I laughed so hard when I heard that.

@_JONGFIRE Ай бұрын

That Part! Poor Mashonda

@ShantayNorth82 Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 I’m old enough to remember

@ebonydaise9403 Ай бұрын

I can relate to doja , the fact that she tried to reach out and he refused as a young kid is horrendous.

@kebabell3729 Ай бұрын

🦅🦅🦅

@headbarb9881 Ай бұрын

Hey I understand how doja feels lmfao something disrespectful about a parent who stepped out claiming you when you turn out to be something worth bragging :/

@shavondarobinson8474 Ай бұрын

Right

@wakandavibranium5053 Ай бұрын

Typical deadbeat African dad

@velvetthunder3856 Ай бұрын

In 1999 when Mpule Kwelagobe won miss universe her deadbeat dad started to claim her, when asked she just said "my mother is mother and my father" 😂😂😂

@nomondetamiamkhwanazi Ай бұрын

Plus he’s rich and he’s an actor, producer and a businessman he has aloe of kids

@loryndabenson2118 Ай бұрын

I grew up with my dad in my life but he would say hurtful shit like"you didn't give me bragging rights" if I didn't get all A's on my report card. So I'm only valuable if I do exactly what you want? TF? Anyway I understand how she feels. Not to mention we were getting our asses beat over little things.

@coolbeanz9830 Ай бұрын

I am South African, I am very familiar with her Dad because he is a big star here in SA however I understand Doja South African men are dead bets and see nothing wrong with it. These men are diabolical

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

Agree, Black South African men are deadbeats (similar to Black American deadbeats)not Indian, White and Coloured SA men though. Let’s be clear on that but I agree with you; he should be ashamed for even trying to engage vial social media when he’s not been present o her life

@noirlily3413 Ай бұрын

It's not an "African" thing... Shitting on African Men whilst you're an African in Africa for the sake of Doja is SO dumb!!!

@specialkay4329 Ай бұрын

Wow

@obakengmeso6051 Ай бұрын

Indeed most South African fathers impregnate and dip it’s sad actually I’m South African and a product of a dipped father as well… I hope she heals… daddy issues are a real💔 I experienced em myself

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

Sadly Black South African fathers are absent, similar to Black American men. But white, Indian and Coloured South African fathers mostly present. It’s social decay & disregard for traditional family structures that’s quite normalised in many Black communities globally, I think

@LoveisKiing Ай бұрын

Victoria better be careful. If he can do it to his ex, he can certainly do it to her.

@destinymcgowan5328 Ай бұрын

I just said the same thing!

@lolab1917 Ай бұрын

Yep, you reap what you sow

@charmaineespeut4627 Ай бұрын

Yup let a richer woman bat her eyes at him. He is gone

@lightquest2 Ай бұрын

she already has the bloodline started so🤷🏾‍♂️

@yolandabryant210 Ай бұрын

Unless he was married then he can choose to date whoever he wants. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@lovelybelleee Ай бұрын

I feel bad for Doja because she has talked about this for years. She’s never met her dad. He’s always been uninterested in her. Until the point where she has become successful and famous then he shares things about her on social media. She leaves the door open for him, but he still makes no effort on meeting her or getting to know her. People like to talk about her, not wanting to be black or half black or whatever. But perhaps this is a lot on why she is the way she is. Not making any excuses, but she relates to things that she’s been surrounded by which is her mom and whatever her mom taught her. Her dad is a famous person and he still chose to not be around or get to know his daughter.

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Ай бұрын

It's kinda weird that neither of them make any effort to meet each other in person even though they communicate with each other on Instagram and they have money to jump on a plane to meet up so what's preventing them from doing it ..really sad

@alkahinat4558 Ай бұрын

@@tunnelvision24-ge8fqwhy would she need to make the effort to meet him? He’s the parent, not her.

@mellypete2736 Ай бұрын

@@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Doja has been making an effort since she was a child. That's really sad that children are expected to reach out, even though they never asked to be born.

@rebeccasmith1008 Ай бұрын

I bet @tunnelvision is a male, thus is what they do, avoid accountability and place the burden on the woman to bare. Can you imagine blaming the child for not making an effort to see their parent?! The person who brought them on this earth, the person whose responsibility it was to provide and protect! Parenting should be a privilege because many of y'all shouldn't be parents.

@pastelpastry Ай бұрын

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Why would she reach out to a man that abandoned her as a child? I'd wait for him to reach out just in case I reach out and he tells me "I left because I didn't want to be a father back then. So why would I still want to be a father right now?"

@lichi1244eva Ай бұрын

Being an IG pappy doesn't count, sir. Doja is still that hurt little girl. Her trauma is deep. It is not up to her to reach out, it is up to her father to go to her and apologize for not being there, for the trauma he caused. He's got money for a plane ticket. Do it or leave her completely alone.

@Speak.s5218 Ай бұрын

Yall don't kno shit so hush. Doja seems really rude so maybe that's a reason he wants nothing to do with her. She needs to explain the whole situation. Maybe was a side child with her mom. Yall love saying things when yall don't have facts.

@tiatia3977 Ай бұрын

@@Speak.s5218 Her being rude is a good reason for him to abandon her when she was a baby? She said ahe hasn't met him, so how does rude play into this? If what she is saying is truth then is he lower than the chewing gum under shoes.

@lichi1244eva Ай бұрын

@@Speak.s5218 you hush - was Doja rude as a baby for her father to just not be around? Your critical thinking skills and empathy are lacking. And if he's gone let him stay gone, stay off her socials. I'm not even a Doja Cat fan but I can imagine the impact her father's absence had on her and some of her behaviors, actions, preferences, etc.

@deej5608 Ай бұрын

@@Speak.s5218so what was his excuse when she was a baby and he deserted her, her mom and her brother to fend for themselves?

@KB.23 Ай бұрын

@@Speak.s5218you don’t know shit either wtf is your stupid ass saying?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@MALXCX Ай бұрын

Saweetie always been better than Ice spice, this shouldn’t even be a topic.

@september5671 Ай бұрын

both flops

@keller109 Ай бұрын

I mean- that's not saying much. They're both trash....

@Happypotato917 Ай бұрын

Well…we can go bars for bars ns

@user-bw3yj1vy5r Ай бұрын

😂😅😅😂😅😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🫠

@istayinpa8222 Ай бұрын

Yea rite😂😂😂😂 Ice got hits, Sweetie got flops😂😂😂😂

@CHINEE119 Ай бұрын

Doja's comment about giving her a lazy eye & dipped will have me hollering everytime.😂😂😂

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

That was savage 😂

@ire80east46 Ай бұрын

Can someone explain what this means? Apologies I'm British **sips tea**

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

@@ire80east46 Doja has slightly slanted eyes( the common east Asian eye shape) like her father, but one of those eyes is smaller and looks slightly droopy; that is what the lazy eye refers to and dip just means he ran away from his responsibilities…dip means run away or abandon

@leena5875 Ай бұрын

@@thandisilec835a lazy eye is when one eyeball deviates from being straight because of weaker muscles it has nothing to do with the shape

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

@@leena5875 I didn’t say it was, I merely explained her eye shape to give full context on how her overall eyes look. her eye shape is inherited from her father but as well as the lazy eye. What I said to be a lazy eye is a “droopy eye” which is same as what you’ve said

@Brenda-uw3jk Ай бұрын

Doja’s dad deserves all the smoke. But I do hope she heals

@MsDisneylandlover Ай бұрын

Maybe it explains some of her behavior.

@Brenda-uw3jk Ай бұрын

Definitely does. I’m still dealing with childhood trauma

@play030 Ай бұрын

Her daddy living rent free in your heads. He is enjoying life with other jump offs.

@Brenda-uw3jk Ай бұрын

@@play030 You sound just a stupid as her dad. LOL

@TikaRose222 Ай бұрын

@@MsDisneylandlover If this explains her behavior, whew the whole Black American Community, didn't have a chance...

@dhqbrandi Ай бұрын

Not having your father can make you not like anyone who looks like him. It's a trauma response. You're mind literally won't let you bond if you make that association.

@co_7523 Ай бұрын

True.

@chayo4537 Ай бұрын

Hmmmmm

@chayo4537 Ай бұрын

FUCKYOURTRAUMARESPONSE

@FNJ720 Ай бұрын

Whoopi Goldberg trying to stay out of it is awkward….

@hopedesire5936 Ай бұрын

I saw that too 😂😂😂😂

@NubianQueen100 Ай бұрын

She was hella shocked, confused and curious all while minding her business all at the same time...😅

@SupernaturalLove100 Ай бұрын

What are yall referring to? Haven’t finished it yet and wanna skip to it

@jaymonster125 Ай бұрын

What's awkward is Whoopi probably knows him better than Doja does.

@eva-doosh4705 Ай бұрын

@@jaymonster125that's what they don't know and he might not be that terrible but mothers have a way of spinning everything around for children to hate their dads

@BarbieDawl.__ Ай бұрын

You can never take a man from a woman that is very true but always remember how you get him is how you lose him.

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Ай бұрын

That's what I was thinking ..he gonna cheat on her cuz that dude is too dam fine omg!!!

@LexiiHearts Ай бұрын

@@tunnelvision24-ge8fq No he’s going to cheat because he’s a cheater. How he looks has nothing to do with his shit character

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Ай бұрын

@LexiiHearts I mean u right about that ..she better keep an eye on him cuz that dude is way too hot and he can get whoever he wants looking like he do ...I just hope for the baby sake that he doesn't cheat on Victoria...

@kristinafoster9885 Ай бұрын

Doja & her Father are TWINNING 😮

@Divinatonio Ай бұрын

That's the worst part, looking like your deadbeat dad 😭

@Black_Lotus-tv8ps Ай бұрын

They literally have the same face my God. I couldn't believe that side by side comparison. I'm glad someone else saw it too.

@zikhonamnyayiza740 Ай бұрын

It's sad... to look like someone who low key doesn't like you

@Exoticbarbie. Ай бұрын

And their faceshape and chin is on point

@danipace432 Ай бұрын

Saweetie is way better than ice spice in my opinion

@beaberrylious Ай бұрын

She says more words such as like , she know she a baddie, poopie, who better than her. 😂 Saweetie gets criticized and all at the end she improves and stays in her own lane.

@caid733 Ай бұрын

True but theyre both pretty bad (double entendre)

@taelorjoyce1552 Ай бұрын

@@caid733right

@TheLovesnowangel Ай бұрын

Which says a lot because saweetie is terrible too

@gh0stface_luv2 Ай бұрын

Y’all remember icy girl !!!

@jameel.world_ Ай бұрын

Doja saying you got to meet him to Whoopi is HILARIOUS and insane, true comedy, true trolling

@rtmusicvideos431 Ай бұрын

Whoopi looked so awkward when Doja said that…I wonder what was running through her mind lol

@Tabbyomwenga Ай бұрын

It's kinda sad when u look at it deeply..like here's doja meeting Whoopi..who has worked with and seen her father and that's all she ever wanted growing up..to meet a man who basically ddnt give a fuck untill she became a superstar

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Ай бұрын

Actually it wasn't funny it was kinda sad ,well that's how I felt for her because I know what it feels like to be abandoned by your father..and she seemed to be almost about to cry when she said that to Whoopi..

@Tiajones333 Ай бұрын

Yup

@Tiajones333 Ай бұрын

@@rtmusicvideos431yup

@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis Ай бұрын

Her father was not apart of life and he abandoned her. These deadbeats spin the block when they are old. She doesn’t owe him a relationship. He’s looking for clout. She’s going to be disappointed pursuing a relationship every time. He had time for everything except her.

@Honestabouteverything_ Ай бұрын

Well if you’re going to have kids be ready to raise them. Because you can’t get mad when they grow up to become your enemy and call you out for being a terrible parent.

@CrystalM1917 Ай бұрын

Enemy is an interesting choice of words.

@SportNewsNMajozi Ай бұрын

As a South African dead beat dad's are common it's sad😢

@babygirlshaniah1404 Ай бұрын

That happens in the u.s. as well, black men statistics is their are deadbeats.

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Ай бұрын

As a person who is black in general dead beat dads are common this has to.stop

@user-xf2vf9wn5j Ай бұрын

Why just South African? A Swedish friend recently commented on the number of Africans she knows with half siblings. I have three from two different mothers. Some of these careless men just can't keep up with themselves.

@adriannakelly5533 Ай бұрын

But it's true south african dads don't want anything to do with there daughter's

@theshadysunshine Ай бұрын

Speak for yourself 🙄

@lpgilber Ай бұрын

Doja looks just like her dad.

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

Yes, good looking both of them

@tunnelvision24-ge8fq Ай бұрын

Only because she shaved her head and eyebrows before she did all that she was really pretty..I bet once she reads all you people thinking that she looks like her deadbeat dad she'll grow her dam hair back cuz I'm tired of this version of doja this balled head look gotta stop

@Naiki29 Ай бұрын

Right

@blessingmamabolo1682 Ай бұрын

Duuude. So much.

@user-by3ge9qw2v Ай бұрын

I been in her shoes. I had to just accept I would never know what a father-daughter relationship is. I cut my dad of completely because my heart couldnt take it anymore. Here today and gone tomorrow. I just chose to focus on the health of my kids relationship with their father. Its crazy seeing your kids experience something thats so foreign to you but it really is a motivation to keep moving on.

@Rascalbeans Ай бұрын

Not these dead beats again, Chile. I’m gonna go hug my dad, I’m freaking lucky!

@Bree5three Ай бұрын

That's what I said. Father's Day is coming up and it really hits home that not only did mine stay when his own father (my grandfather) didn't, thus breaking a generational curse; but that he's a good dad too. Some fathers are hell-on-wheels and you dang near wish they'd be a deadbeat instead because they traumatize their kids in a whole other way, only this time with their presence as opposed to their absence. Love my daddy!

@kaylabean3693 Ай бұрын

@@Bree5threeheavy on traumatizing their kids and making them wish they were absent instead😭😭😭yes go hug your daddy

@teawithshayyy6802 Ай бұрын

I keep hearing that Austin powers song “Daddddyyyyyy, daddy wasn’t there, to take me to the fairrrrr, to change my underrrrrweaaaaaarrrrrrrrrr……..Daddy wasn’t there”

@aundreanaphiffer3572 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@iammrcarter5099 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@breaunahumphrey1757 Ай бұрын

It seems he doesn't careeeee . Daddy wasn't there 😭

@pareeshaslaughter6798 Ай бұрын

Yall really ain’t shyt for that 💀💀💀

@geniasmith5791 Ай бұрын

I'm so sorry folks but that's hilarious best comment yet now I'm going to watch Austin Powers tonight 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@user-np3zc1ps9w Ай бұрын

She look just like her dad

@listen-learn-speak2465 Ай бұрын

@user-np3zc1ps9w… you think? I don’t see it

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

Yes, she does kind of look like him. She’s pretty

@Alejandra.answers Ай бұрын

Not having one or the other parent will majorly mess up your mental

@Whereyoubelongg Ай бұрын

Doja is completely valid for posting what she did

@TheSamanthaEdit Ай бұрын

Saweetie's song 'Richtivities' is a bop too

@pwetty4r4 Ай бұрын

Saweetie has been getting blacked balled ever since the quavo thing

@destinymcgowan5328 Ай бұрын

I don't think she's getting blacked balled. She's just not making music that people want to listen to. Her first mixtape was good back in 2018.

@riyahworld Ай бұрын

Why do you think that?

@travistheentertainertv6870 Ай бұрын

The funniest comment ever......

@WeObsessOverPopCulture Ай бұрын

Oooorrrrrr her music just sucks and no one is interested in it🤷🏾‍♀️

@Hephbeu Ай бұрын

You can’t “take” a disloyal man. He was NEVER loyal so switching sides comes easy. You lose them exactly how you get them 👍🏾

@Tam... Ай бұрын

For the love of God, stop having children if you dont want to be a parent!!! Im sick and tired of the reality that MAJORITY of us can relate to a fatherless home...I can't STAND a deadbeat🤮

@tarag7292 Ай бұрын

Deadbeats are the worst non-criminal people in the world. To have no love and humanity for a child that didn't ask to be born to you. How heartless.

@Naiki29 Ай бұрын

It starts with the women. They have to stop giving their bodies to these men.

@Jess-yp9fo Ай бұрын

These narc/weirdos don’t care! They’re too self hating/ unaware enough to have relations with ppl they actually like let alone have a kid by them. Just terrible

@Ayy_leah Ай бұрын

Why does the public go after the “mistress” when a man leaves a woman for another?

@ntuthukomdluli-pd9jv Ай бұрын

Why not, there's something called morals

@candiicaine5596 Ай бұрын

@@ntuthukomdluli-pd9jvFake self righteousness

@LotusFlower420 Ай бұрын

Sides/mistresses need to stop playing victim 😒 They kno exactly wat they be doin... they're not at all innocent

@xoxdesire Ай бұрын

@@LotusFlower420 Exactly. If the woman knows he's in a relationship then she should be called out too. The man in the relationship is def more responsible but how could you possibly wanna mess with a taken man?? how you get them is how you lose them!

@Moicesy Ай бұрын

⁠@@LotusFlower420 I can’t take anything you say seriously with that type of vocabulary. Your vocabulary alone already tells me what kind of person you are. I can tell you were yelling your statements out loud while typing them.

@stellabellafontay9366 Ай бұрын

I remember seeing Doja's daddy in the play Sarafina, when I was a kid. His character was a playboy type and the women in the audience would go WILD every time the man would breathe! He's full of himself. I admire Doja for communicating with him at all.

@tarag7292 Ай бұрын

I guess art imitates life, in this case.

@lotusphoenix8 Ай бұрын

@@tarag7292More often than not 🤮

@Kuttdog Ай бұрын

if u have to compare an "artist" to ice spice and sexy reed they have already failed lmao

@along58 Ай бұрын

My exact thoughts! Lol!

@chayo4537 Ай бұрын

All these irrelevant azz male rappers and yall focusing on the same grouping of females when the males outnumber them in mediocrity

@lolo_z Ай бұрын

I didn't realize how much Doja Cat and Dumisani look alike its so cute but also sad consudering their situation

@BradsTrashIsTyronesTreasure Ай бұрын

They get the same blk man and blk dad.

@colormelilac Ай бұрын

Right!

@TheLovesnowangel Ай бұрын

Yep basically!

@Antwannnn Ай бұрын

History likes to repeat. You have good parents then it's more than likely you'll be attracted to good people. Hence we have the stereotype saying of "she has daddy issues" when referring to a misandrist or pornstar.

@scroogemcduckrich9705 Ай бұрын

😂😂

@chayo4537 Ай бұрын

And you get a same damn white man

@user-ci2sy5jb2j Ай бұрын

Saweetie has better bars and music than Ice Spice she just needs to seriously work on her delivery

@MakaykayLAMB Ай бұрын

“Gave me a lazy eye and dipped” IS CRAZY 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 DOJA IS SOMETHING ELSE.

@9thborn Ай бұрын

I feel bad for Doja.. I don't like her recent antics, demonic worship, whatever the heck she is doing but what I see is a little girl who yearned for her father and he didn't give her the time of day. but would like to capitalize and get clout off of her fame Such a shame

@mphosa995 Ай бұрын

Dumisani is already famous and a successful actor in SA, he doesn't need to capitalise with Doja's name. He only started speaking about her after Doja revealed he was her father and people started coming for him. Had it been Doja had never revealed his identity, I don't think he'd have ever talked about her.

@mphosa995 Ай бұрын

@PennyPastor-yk1cg so what? It's not like we South Africans know all American actors...And how do you expect him to be popular worldwide when he mostly acts in his native Zulu language? I've been a big fan of him since the early 2000s, but I don't know any song from Doja. Doja is not even popular here in SA, most of us only know her as Dumisani's daughter.

@esotericchocolota Ай бұрын

@@mphosa995 idk how you can be a fan of a dead beat. The fact that he's famous with money makes it worse. he can literally wipe his butt with the plane ticket money to see her. He deserves nothing and karma will get him for suree.

@mphosa995 Ай бұрын

@@esotericchocolota so are you saying that I'm not supposed to be a fan of him despite him being a good actor just because he's a deadbeat father? Come on, I can't hate his good acting skills based on his personal life, even tonight I'll be watching one of the film he starred in on Netflix... And most of us only got to know that he's her father around 2019 or 2020 when Doja revealed it during her interview with whoopie Goldberg. And me being his fan doesn't mean I support what he did to his ex wife and children... There are many American actors and musicians who are also deadbeats, but you guys still support them because they're good actors and musicians. What we should be doing is encouraging peace and forgiveness between Doja and her father... Because her tantrums won't help her with anything right now... So far Dumisani acknowledged his wrongs and didn't deny being a deadbeat father and he even apologized publicly.

@chayo4537 Ай бұрын

Are you religious?

@hughw2377 Ай бұрын

Deadbeat dad, I do feel bad for doja 💔

@user-zi4iu5lj6z Ай бұрын

It’s so sad. I dated a guy who never had his dad in his life and it was horrible. The distrust, self sabotaging behaviour was crazy and I see the self sabotaging in Doja when she tells her fans to stop following her. I pray she gets some counseling so she can move past the trauma.

@MultiBizOwner Ай бұрын

There’s no such thing as a “Homewrecker”. No woman can “wreck” another home if the man doesn’t entertain her or find her interesting. It’s ALWAYS the man’s fault. No one can “Steal” a man from someone who’s dedicated to the woman he’s already with.

@KrystalAtiny Ай бұрын

💯

@LittleMsLibra8 Ай бұрын

Blaming women for your man leaving you is maximum level delusional. Men are not objects, they are people who can make their own choices. We have to grow up about these things..

@Bree5three Ай бұрын

It is blame or simple acknowledgment that this woman knew about the gf and still entertained the man? Also it wasn't even the woman that said this, it was a random and her brother confirmed.

@Jess-yp9fo Ай бұрын

Well some women ARE the reason men leave. What if the woman is a narc sabotaging and making ppls lives a living hell for the fun of it (like my mom was) my dad was also absent and not a very good dad to me either

@brielle0808 Ай бұрын

I’m not a fan of Ice Spice or Saweetie. Their music is just not for me. But in terms of talent, Saweetie is better. She has a better rapping style, better visuals for her music, and a better image. Ice Spice seems like she’s might be just an influencer that makes music rather than a rap artist.

@slicksweet1 Ай бұрын

Ice raps better imo

@user-ip7ph9vn5r Ай бұрын

@@slicksweet1 Ice can actually rapper people are just harder on her because when she came out a lot of people loved the way she looked

@lyrihills8624 Ай бұрын

@@user-ip7ph9vn5r no she cant.. she uses the same verses every dang song, shes not even talking about anything at this point, its aalways her body, taking someone elses man, and that shes the shi 😭 its boring asl. anytime u gotta rap about poop and farts, u done already lost the plot.

@monaalona4744 Ай бұрын

Funny cause I remember people saying the same thing about Saweetie calling her an influencer. But I’ll choose her over Ice.

@tk-ns8lr Ай бұрын

@@user-ip7ph9vn5r They loved the way she looked? I remember her getting dragged over that Annie wig...

@tresvegan3633 Ай бұрын

Poor Doja. My heart goes out to her because being without a father or a mother is heartbreaking. It’s your first REAL real heart break in that you never fully recover you just learn to live with the consistent pain and longing for the unconditional love only good parents can truly provide. 💔

@LotusFlower420 Ай бұрын

Ice has 0 talent and personality 😂

@dazzleladyify Ай бұрын

Exactly people have too stop making untalented people famous

@destinymcgowan5328 Ай бұрын

She should just model and get some sponsors

@RingsOM Ай бұрын

U right

@amazing5392 Ай бұрын

-0

@amazing5392 Ай бұрын

I still think she is slow, she even looks slow

@metal-k9069 Ай бұрын

Men like Doja’s dad make me so angry, how could you not understand the rejection your innocent children feel? They don’t deserve that.

@aimstar11 Ай бұрын

You can’t choose your family - time to give up and let them go they aren’t worth the time and effort 😞

@brettaniapierce588 Ай бұрын

I grew up watching Sarafina.... I hurt for Doja. A father's love is so important.

@msbrownif75 Ай бұрын

No hate on VM but its funny how some of y'all will give y'all favorite celebrities a pass and condem the 1s y'all dont like. While most of the blame goes on him she still played a part. But hey it is what it is they got a whole baby now 🤷🏾‍♀️

@TheMsSCandyScott Ай бұрын

FACTS 💯!

@c-anime23 Ай бұрын

How about y’all stop running with narratives about people with zero evidence or proof to back up no tangible claims

@mmabasothoraditladi2718 Ай бұрын

Very true,she's a snake too

@Nashae-kz5bc Ай бұрын

How does she play a part? It seem like he told them both lies.

@oliviawhitehorse3287 Ай бұрын

I’ve noticed in the beginning of dojas career, EVERY interviewer would bring up her deadbeat dad and ask about him and ask if she’s going to meet him just bc he’s “famous”. i always thought it was odd and disrespectful af of them. I knew this would happen for sure. everyone keeps trying to tie them together! i have a deadbeat dad and she’s been handling this situation with A LOT more grace than I would I’ll tell you what

@MsTwilightSpeaks Ай бұрын

1:50 Dang her dad got moves!!

@tylerhackner9731 Ай бұрын

I feel bad for Doja

@elenaofavalormoanadisneypr6893 Ай бұрын

Who cares I don't. She brought this upon herself.

@Inkbkank.2029 Ай бұрын

And colorist she’s grabage

@qwertyboo Ай бұрын

@@elenaofavalormoanadisneypr6893 Her dad IS a deadbeat though

@muffymariah2889 Ай бұрын

@@elenaofavalormoanadisneypr6893 how can a child bring a parent to not show up to raise them🤔😒

@elenaofavalormoanadisneypr6893 Ай бұрын

@@qwertyboo why is your KZfaq channel is fake? 🤥

@traveline52 Ай бұрын

Doja's brother is crazy like Mariah Carey's brother used to be.

@CrystalM1917 Ай бұрын

White mother deadbeat black father. Mixed son. Who's surprised? Look at Drake..😮

@kemartini Ай бұрын

She let him play with her long enough with the fake proud comments. She’s not breaking down she’s speaking up.

@thedivadanner Ай бұрын

I flew Delta to these comments! 🛩

@listen-learn-speak2465 Ай бұрын

@thedivadanner… 😭

@biancalord488 Ай бұрын

Flying Delta this weekend 😅

@_haitian_barbie_ Ай бұрын

Lol! The same !

@Cubandragon99 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@marjorieaugustin7893 Ай бұрын

@@biancalord488 I flew Spirit Through the Turbulence 🤣🤣🤣

@nyahszn Ай бұрын

Victoria talks about how she met John in some of her old interviews Apparently the original guy Victoria was gonna get for that mv called out on her so she randomly asked John if he wanted to be in it and also they were going to the same gym😭

@mirandaholley9797 Ай бұрын

Nah, she was eyeing him earlier.

@tamearolle293 Ай бұрын

She literally said she met him at the gym idk where people are getting these other assumptions

@Jess-yp9fo Ай бұрын

Why she has his number if he has a girl 💀

@deb0rahh Ай бұрын

if Doja drop a whole album abt her dad, it will sell. The absence of fatherhood is something a lot of people will relate to. Especially if she goes the Planet Her route, it will be a massive hit.

@nlackey3358 Ай бұрын

Deadbeat fathers make me angry🤬🤬🤬 broken children everywhere 😤

@tbrown2539 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@richelledeshazier810 Ай бұрын

VM said in a interview that she saw him in her gym. She asked him to go to Africa for her video shoot and that’s when their relationship started. Now reflecting on the interview it sounds suspicious. 😕

@Happypotato917 Ай бұрын

Whole time

@MsE711 Ай бұрын

I’m beyond disappointed in her as I’ve been a fan of hers for years. I’m sorry but I can’t rock or support someone who gets with another woman’s man. Reap what you sow.

@charmaineespeut4627 Ай бұрын

Yeah because how are you an up and coming super star getting pregnant by a personal trainer you JUST met? They definitely had a relationship prior

@prim.an.propher1505 Ай бұрын

You can’t take no one’s fiancé. He was a willing participant.

@JM_HUh Ай бұрын

Exactly. Is it wrong? Yes but certainly voluntary

@sylviaforest3001 Ай бұрын

Doja inherited all her dad’s talents cause her dad is very talented as well maybe that’s why she relates to him so much despite never meeting him…there is nothing as painful as dealing with a deadbeat he has all the resources to go visit his child or even invite her to SA but he won’t cause he doesn’t care which is so sad he just acknowledges her on his social media cause she got famous!!

@eveheart2876 Ай бұрын

I love ur pov. You can’t take a man from someone else. Secondly , someone who doesn’t want to be taken will act right by setting boundaries

@babygurll7 Ай бұрын

Saweetie being compared to Ice Spice and being the preferential pick is NOT a compliment. They are literally comparing to see which one is worse... it's like comparing a trash can to a dumpster.

@tashibalampkin8555 Ай бұрын

Nick Cannon bout to get blasted like this in the future.

@alkahinat4558 Ай бұрын

Yup! You called it But his will be even worse, because of the sheer amount of reckless reproduction he’s done

@Vanessa-iq3vt Ай бұрын

This sudden enlightenment on ice spice’s talent is crazyyy 😂

@alkahinat4558 Ай бұрын

It’s honestly hilarious 😂😂😂

@RayJamil Ай бұрын

That’s probably why it feels like Doja don’t blend with her black card that well … the black men in her life had a lot of healing to do

@nedunedu747 Ай бұрын

“Black is a term given by colonizers. Doja is SOUTH AFRICAN. She doesn’t need to blend with some stereotypical “black community” nonsense.

@RayJamil Ай бұрын

@@nedunedu747 your arguing a point I wasn’t making. Go argue about that by yourself because I don’t see the benefit of it when I actually agree with your point. I just don’t know how to say what I’m trying to say to meet your standard. So doja South African men have a lot of healing to do… make you feel better?

@sve5543 Ай бұрын

@@nedunedu747fyi as a black South African, South African is not an ethnicity it’s a nationality South Africa was formed when they stole different tribes land and formed one country in 1910 therefore ethnically black South Africans refer to ourselves as our tribes Zulu ,Xhosa , Sotho, Tswana , Venda and many more Hope this helps

@uniniversalstar1974 Ай бұрын

You can’t be mad at Doja. She has tried to respect and protect her dad for years. Thinking of excuses for him when asked about him. Enough is enough she’s fed up and I don’t blame her.

@sevenkings2354 Ай бұрын

I used to be a Doja cat fan until her demon phase smh I’m praying for her as a child of a horrible father; I can relate. Like dude you couldn’t fly in to see about your child??? Smh he’s a bird 🦆

@chayo4537 Ай бұрын

You believe in the devil now? 😂😂

@sevenkings2354 Ай бұрын

@@chayo4537 >> If you believe in GOD as a Christian then you know that satan is real. I’ve seen a person I know that was possessed by a demon ; I was 12. I know what I felt and heard. I ain’t tryna convince NOBODY. I don’t play w/ demons or ppl who promote them…..

@sevenkings2354 Ай бұрын

@@chayo4537 >> If you believe in GOD then you know the devil is Real. Chile truth is stranger then fiction…..

@intheshadowstarot Ай бұрын

i can really empathize w doja cause i never met my dad either, and never had a real father figure and it still got me messed up. its a strange void to explain that ive tried to fill in unhealthy ways . anyways my love and heart goes out to doja. couldnt imagine the social media aspect on top of it

@alkahinat4558 Ай бұрын

Her trying to find him when she was 14 made me cry, it’s so heart wrenching. Kids just want to know their parents 😢

@aliayussuf9267 Ай бұрын

I grew up watching her dad! He is a great dancer and actor but it’s sad he never connected with his kids. 😢

@Rosedaddy7A Ай бұрын

Crazy I just watched Sarafina last week. Doja’s father played Sarafina’s boyfriend.

@neema1 Ай бұрын

Doja just find peace and healing and leave that deadbeat alone. They never change, they just frustrate thw hell out of you

@noahabdul Ай бұрын

If we can call out Ariana Grande, she should call out Victoria Monét too.

@sammyjones8882 Ай бұрын

I was just about to say, people were literally slut shaming her, but because the dude is actually good looking it’s ok? Talking about “temptation “ girl byeeeeee.

@healthywealthynwise5009 Ай бұрын

AND... ...PLENTY.....MORE ‼️

@fifinzita3825 Ай бұрын

Exactly she dragged Arianna and gave Victoria a slap on the wrist 👀 I clocked that too.

@obakengmeso6051 Ай бұрын

The way you pronounced Dlamini took me out 🤣🤣🤣 I’m South African but damn you really tried I love your videos… new subbie❤

@MarioMusiczx4Lyfe Ай бұрын

I honestly feel bad for Doja and all the people who relate to her situation parents dont care about their children until they get famous..... And Honestly Saweetie should've gotten what ice spice had Saweetie from the beginning she should've been the one to get collabs with rap legends like nicki minaj and should've been pushed out more by her lable beacuse at this point....ice spice is just mediocre and needs to change up her style and FAST.

@mgueye2mgueye261 Ай бұрын

Exactly saweetie is way more talented than ice spice

@gabbiebobbs3543 Ай бұрын

Saweetie has always been that girlie! But she is more of an influencer that happens to rap! however!!! If she really wanted to only focus on music and not endorsements… some ladies would be outta business! lol

@Happypotato917 Ай бұрын

The shade honey

@SideEyeee_ Ай бұрын

Because Ice Spice is not?

@rosalindhenton6867 Ай бұрын

I feel Doja & can relate. Men have no idea what it does to a woman when she is abandoned young by her father. It creates a unique type of woman that may take many forms.

@tbrown2539 Ай бұрын

Well said

@WoeisBriee Ай бұрын

The more I find out about Doja, the more empathy I have for her. Her father being absent in her life and only celebrating her accomplishments on Instagram like she’s a trophy or like he contributed anything to her artistic development and success must hurt her even more than his complete absence. Her brother abused her and her mother as well. She’s been failed by the most important men in her life and I just hope she finds peace and healing. Her outbursts and social media antics make a lot more sense now- she’s hurting.

@jsmith2609 Ай бұрын

I am ready for the tea! 🫖🍵🫖

@rajeenebryant3312 Ай бұрын

So Sad for Doja seems like a cry for help

@beautyistifanus8794 Ай бұрын

Now I understand why she is a good dancer❤❤

@Treemonieee Ай бұрын

@PennyPastor-yk1cgNah. Her rhythm is in her blood. In her DNA. Classes don’t give natural rhythm..

@t.l1357 Ай бұрын

Thank you for highlighting this. Doja needs to be in our peayers. You can see tge teauma in her songs and life over the past yrs. She's really hurting and i hope she gets some peace of mind

@harperellis_ Ай бұрын

I always felt her change in image and music was influenced by something deeper, and maybe this is a part of it.

@thandisilec835 Ай бұрын

He also definitely influenced her artistic gift, he’s very talented and Doja definitely gets it from him

@tylerhackner9731 Ай бұрын

No one will ever make me hate Victoria Monet

@TheSamanthaEdit Ай бұрын

Me either. I'm so happy she's finally getting her just due

@candiicaine5596 Ай бұрын

She's so talented and slept on.

@xoxdesire Ай бұрын

Idk if the story is true but man her bd is so FINEEE. Shes gorgeous and the baby is a doll!!

@RingsOM Ай бұрын

She’s truly talent

@victoriajones3368 Ай бұрын

Literally nobody I love her !

@ILoveDakaya Ай бұрын

6:59 It’s think the origin story of VM and her BD is deeper than that. I saw an interview of her saying he was actually her trainer or someone who worked at her gym and the way he ended up her video was cuz she didn’t have a guy and last minute asked him since he was cute 🤦🏽‍♀️😭

@demitriwelling1348 Ай бұрын

A father and a parent are two different things.

@shirleyjackson9480 Ай бұрын

I honestly feel so bad for her. I know she's probably hurting on the inside. The fact that she tried to reach out to her father numerous of times when she was younger only to get rejected by him. He never made an effort to make arrangements to find his own daughter or try to meet her in person to get to know her. I just find it sad that she wanted a relationship with her dad and he wanted nothing to do with her until she became famous. I wish I can meet her in person and just give her a big hug. I know what it feels like to not know your father and to feel resentment and bitterness at the same. Wishing her and her family peace and love.