I literally let go of someone I loved very much because of this exact situation. And I told my mom I said I feel like he uses me for my energy my presence but that’s it. Like a spiritual leech, and I bump into these kinds of people OFTEN.
@NoelDyanasty2 ай бұрын
Same here for me right now
@prophetess8672 ай бұрын
I already been through this sooo annoying and emotional draining but will tell them quick boundaries!! I will quickly remove myself from someone like this in a sec. I protect my peace at all cost.
@gerritjooste92692 ай бұрын
... Esp with narc empath dynamics... Its like a bottemless pit that siphhons your energy that can never get filled no matter how much you pour in...
@AhavaMorgan2 ай бұрын
No one gave to me, I always poured into others.
@raymondgoriah56672 ай бұрын
This is exactly what played out today with me trying to gave advice to my family member.
@Jiemba5552 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephanie, I just received a clear confirmation again they're not ready for change! My prayers for change grow stronger day by day! 🙏🏼❤
@aracelismith65072 ай бұрын
I'm going through the same😢 we have to move forward and pray for them but keep them at a distance 💯 🙏
@ehuysandra96982 ай бұрын
Same here 🤲🙏🏾
@lydiaosward18722 ай бұрын
😊
@PrettyIndependent12 ай бұрын
I feel like a lot of us need to stop being fixers. And when someone tells us about their problems instead of giving advice simply say, “I’m sorry you’re going through that. What are you planning to do?” And have them come up with their own plan and stay out of it. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink. Let people do what they want. Free will is from God. Sometimes hitting rock bottom is the answer for a lot of people, so I’m going to stop trying to Rob them of that and let their chips fall where they may.
@DestinyKnJ2 ай бұрын
Wow thank I will use this growing forward from it all
@RoseRiseANew2 ай бұрын
This is a very good perspective. Thank you for sharing it
@patriciaagoodwin20962 ай бұрын
Yes, this is MY CONFIRMATION! THANK YOU FATHER☝🏽🔥🙏🏽
@shellybarnes95862 ай бұрын
This once was me the person keep asking for help with the same problem praise God for growth and development
@stachiano2 ай бұрын
so happy for you sweetie! God is fab❣️
@Maria__572 ай бұрын
I AGREE..& i TY FATHER GOD..only you can change & save them..❤.
@TeddieBear19682 ай бұрын
That is the perfect statement!!! They dump the problem/ situation on you!!!🎉🎉🎙️💯
@jaislayzNprayz2 ай бұрын
I hear you loud and clear! Holy Spirit, break loose everything that's holding up the heavenly promises you have for me and my children in Jesus' Holy name, amen. If someone doesn't want my help nor respect the time I've invested to help them, please show me so that I can limit access and increase my boundaries by the power of Jesus amen🙏🏾
@mariuwu7892 ай бұрын
I believe this could be a piece of advice for anyone who's in need. Sometimes, my hunger to bring people with me to the next level, to not lose them is so great that I tend to help too much, even when the person doesn't seem interested in my advice at all. I'm conscious that I need to learn to detach and let some relationships go. Everyone has their time to learn something, and most of the time, the same thing will happen to us as well. Anyway, I'm happy because I was able to see this video, it serves as a reality check for me. God bless, sis.
@KalynDianne2 ай бұрын
Yes, this was CONFIRMATION!! 🤦🏽♀️😩🙌🏽
@colleencampbell46772 ай бұрын
I know they don't care. They wouldn't be bullying & abusing. You can tell that they don't care. Spiritually it shows.
@DestinyKnJ2 ай бұрын
Wow literally been telling me boundaries and I know where your going with this word thank you Lord for speaking through your daughter
@Swankmami212 ай бұрын
I was just talking to god the other day about how people come to me for advice & help . And I felt like I need to stop because I feel like it's a waste of my energy. And why come to me if they not gonna follow my advice .
@donaldladner42112 ай бұрын
Love You Stephanie GOD Bless You, HOLY SPIRIT I Give You ALL The Glory Amen 🙏 Hallelujah JESUS
@jimmypickett1082 ай бұрын
That hard head dude I kept telling him stop chasing that girl she do him dirty every week he don’t get paid but the week he get paid. She is best friend I’ll talk to him and he run back. He run back to me and say you was right but he still dealing with that so I left it alone.😢💯
@vedaphillips78612 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your confirmation! Thank your Jesus Christ of Nazareth🙏🙏🙏
@KR-os6nn2 ай бұрын
Yes Steph, this is exactly my situation. ❤. Praise God! Thank you for confirmation ❤
@Kttex22 ай бұрын
My first time responding on this channel😇…I watched this earlier, but didn’t get to respond. However, this was EXACT confirmation for me since I had just spoken this out loud to God at almost the exact hour that the vid was posted 🙏🏾. I’ve also had 2 people prophesy (on 2 separate occasions)the EXACT thing to me about not being able to help everyone (allow God to do the work on them)…So I just want to say thank you for sharing this word! Right on time 🙏🏾
@GoldenBlueButterfly8882 ай бұрын
😭 this is a major confirmation
@carmelabrand35112 ай бұрын
Yes, this is definitely me , My sisters depend on me for everything, and they feel like , It's my duty , and it's draining me , God told me he is moving me because of this .He is relocating me
@MrSa4582 ай бұрын
Well, you know what, Stephanie, I just want to say anything I want to get is my God ordained spouse even though I know that this isn't a marriage word But anyways, God bless you, Stephanie, and your awesome family 👩👧👧keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of Heaven with the encouraging words that you're giving right now 🔥🙏🏽✝️🙌🏿
@RobinRaynor-gy6nz2 ай бұрын
Well, I had this experience this morning! Thank you.
@lmb8882 ай бұрын
Yep, these people just don't care. They don't and they gave these kind of people my child.
@user-pk2ej9hj3f2 ай бұрын
🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖 I THANK THEE MY HEAVENLY FATHER AND THE SON JESUS CHRIST OUR SAVIOUR AND THE ALMIGHTY HOLY SPIRIT AMEN 🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖
@cynetteblove2 ай бұрын
True Stephanie, I Blieve that If I have done My Part, Out of Love,To Steer Someone N The Best Direction for Them and their Soul, And Also still having Healthy Boundaries, Than I have done the Rt thing, Out of Love and Care for their Relationship with Our Father too, Thank U Dear 🐦💙🌻👑
@ShannnenIrmaBasson962 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephanie for this word, and God is definitely teaching me to set up Boundaries this season ✨ I am on the right path 🙏 praise God for people like you too 🙌
@ronnieblden29072 ай бұрын
Amen prasie the Lord GOD AMEN THANK YOU JESUS CHRIST MY LORD OF LORD AND KING OF KING AND HEAVENLY FATHER and HOLY SPIRIT THANK YOU Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
@alexispickett85042 ай бұрын
Amen.....THANK YOU ""GOD """🙏🙌🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Hereforthegloryofgod172 ай бұрын
I believe it always takes that one to care in order to get the help from one another , thank you Jesus for helping my sister all the way through her storms and being that one to care like no other in Jesus merciful and gracious name Amen as I receive this message for her with praise giving Glory to God🙏💍🙏
@EmbracetheGRACE2 ай бұрын
Seemingly my every interaction including with my son ... To my detriment on a regular... However to whom may I serve in his name
@raethebeautyrebel59532 ай бұрын
Confirmation!!!! HALLELUJAH! Praise God for your obedience to share this word Stephanie 🙏
@jeremishafrazier13472 ай бұрын
Wow, Confirmation!! Thank you, Lord! 1 hour before you posted this video, I was having a conversation that turned south quickly about why I will continue to inforce and stay true to my boundaries with toxic people. No more trying to help people understand things they can't discern because they are in fact the enablers. Such a relief!
@jlove_32 ай бұрын
Amen I receive this prophetic message in Jesus name Amen 🙏 🙌 ✨️ ❤️
@KingDavidsSperm72 ай бұрын
Amen, set boundaries, and don't come off them😮
@cherineeises95182 ай бұрын
Yes its what I'm going through and I'm ready to move from that environment today. Those people are draining me❤
@briannabubbly59272 ай бұрын
I usually see these people/situations before they really manifest and one thing I wanna know is why would anyone want to make me deny my intuition, which is knowing that certain individuals have ill intentions behind simply just asking me questions, opinions, etc. They're just trying to drain my energy or distract me!! I see it, yet I am told that I am being paranoid, that I'm being mean if I don't spend time with certain people..like hold on...who are you to say that I am mean because I don't wanna be around someone with bad energy/has ill intentions! Im just saying.... I know that God is love and light but God also does not want me to stay down and be a lapdog for the enemy, I am to speak up and use my truth to be delivered.
@venesianeely59702 ай бұрын
Amen! This is my word. Thank you Jesus!❤
@spanisht36332 ай бұрын
Omgggggggg Stephanie, am sitting in my gallery porch with tears feeling frustrated dealing with a specific family mbr..just this morning i had to deal with again..AM TIRED😫😫😫ON POINT SISTER..THANK YOU LORD FOR THIS MESSAGE. 🎉🎉CONFIRMATION🎉🎉
@godschilddiary2 ай бұрын
❤Thank You so much for this Sister,this is my orayer last night asking God for confirmation because i set bounderies with my family that i had confronted with a week ago because i want to help And when i woke up your video about setting boundaries i wasnt really Convinced its confirmatiom from the Lord that This His will That I Have to set boundaries with Those people that draining me Coz i thought its my fault and i disrespected them For telling them what to do and How to change...Thank You For This thank You Daddy Lord for confirmation I will be at Peace Now and Moved on.Hallelujah🙌🔥Godblesss You More sister steph❤
@TheSoloQueue2 ай бұрын
✅️ dang steph there is so much accuracy in what you are saying 🙏🏽
@julioolivos42712 ай бұрын
All The Glory Be To Our Heavenly Father. I Come Into Agreement With This Word In Jesus Name Amen!
@InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq2 ай бұрын
Real talk sis and im tired of it period, Revelation and Confirmation Abba Thank you Always 🙏💜
@natashawest2 ай бұрын
Glory Amen 🙌🙌
@2bAmazing2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Stephanie, for confirming what GOD has already told me! Amen!🙏🏽⚘️🤲
@joanpulley8592 ай бұрын
WoW and AMEN Stephanie - this is good and righteous counseling. God bless you 🙏🏽
@joannaxoxo2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤Love you Ms.Stephanie!❤❤❤❤
@LAPATILLA2 ай бұрын
👏Stephanie, I believe this confirms me again they're not ready for change! I believe that If I have done my Part 🙏Out of Love,To Steer Someone to GODs 💡 for The Best Direction for Them and their Soul, And Also still having Healthy Boundaries, Than I have done the Rt thing to Care for their Relationship with Our Father in the name of JESUS amen 🙌🤲🗣️✅
@jamescanterbury73022 ай бұрын
Amen thank you GOD 🙏🙏🔥🔥🙌🏼
@michelinelanglais87862 ай бұрын
Yes my confirmation ❤️🙏Thank you ❤️
@gotrane2 ай бұрын
Never lend friends money; it gives them amnesia.
@gloryglory78102 ай бұрын
I'm done Stephanie. I can lead a horse 🐎 to the water. I can't make him drink.
@aliciawilliams43582 ай бұрын
Thank so much for this confirming word and your obedience 💨✌🏽 in Jesus name❣️
@fieldskim3852 ай бұрын
Hi Stephanie Thanks for sharing. Appreciate your time and effort
@abundantmason58182 ай бұрын
🔥🔥Amen! Amen! Thank you! God bless you! Shalom❤
@christopherweous89002 ай бұрын
Eya Amen 🙏 Mii gwech Lord God, Mii gwech Stephanie. I love y'all too 💖💯 Shalom 💜✝️🛐
@Holyspiritspeak452 ай бұрын
In Jesus mighty name keep speaking truth hallelujah Amen 🔥💍🔥🤲🩸🤲
@tarekajackson46102 ай бұрын
Thank you for this word sis❤btw,your hair is beautiful 😍
@FREEDYITHEREALKING2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ Amen Jesus Christ of Nazareth JESUS CHRIST IS KING 👑
@Psalm23_Javie2 ай бұрын
Praise Jesus ❤️
@wendismith-pasa39262 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephanie
@wendismith-pasa39262 ай бұрын
Great word
@sharekascott95782 ай бұрын
AMEN. I RECEIVE THE MESSAGE. 🎉🎉🎉🎉😂
@scoopteamhub2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this word Remain blessed 🙏APTTMH🙏
@gerritjooste92692 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing... I needed it... Will take heed🙏🏻
@GATLIN210002 ай бұрын
You speaking to Me God bless you 😇♥️🌸
@integrity28482 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message Stephanie p 🙏🏾🤍🦋
@JustMe-cb7dl2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing the message with us all. 💜
@virginiawashington29662 ай бұрын
Clarity 💞...God bless you 🙏
@dacgoddess9542 ай бұрын
Yes....a neighbor smh....444 protected 🌀☯️🌀♾️💚
@lovelove-zy8pn2 ай бұрын
Word was so powerful ❤
@pjince59822 ай бұрын
I appreciate your message Stephanie. Good explanations! Thank q!
@shantellberry88762 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the message, Stephanie! Thank you GOD for always being there for us in everything and for divine wisdom and discernment!!!
@sherricoffman2 ай бұрын
ThankYou4Sharing Beautiful Sis!!! ❤ 🕊 MuchLove!!!
@esmis.s.4268Күн бұрын
I'd rather put all that help into my own relationship. Do you notice that those people you wanna put on or help have families. If you do not have one yet, that is your answer. Some of these characters PRETEND to need help in order to talk and bond with you, in the hope that they will further their real agenda. Just offer advice and pay attention to your own exam paper.
@AwordfromJacquelineWood2 ай бұрын
This has happened before and I inde😅got drained ℹ remember this all too well
@GraceChiso-lg3zf2 ай бұрын
Thank u Lord
@ReaUnique2 ай бұрын
I needed this word today. ❤
@stanbegley48422 ай бұрын
I know this is true. I'm done going through this stupid trash. It has now became sin I'm going to stop this crazy crap and stick with the people that I know. Say their name and they will know who you are talking about.
@user-nq5ev4jn7t2 ай бұрын
AMEN AND AMEN
@user-yk8st8rs7g2 ай бұрын
God. Bless. You. Amen.
@jaquelinejimenez2 ай бұрын
You look better with this hair color 👍🙏
@lmb8882 ай бұрын
I did, it got me trapped.
@HappyBeach-nt9vc2 ай бұрын
Literally they see your situation in wonder why would I listen to them they will try to blame you once its really over omg
@jimmypickett1082 ай бұрын
Wise person learn from others mistakes 💯 smart people learn from their own mistakes💯 No disrespect but people that are easily fool fall for the same trap a million times fold still can’t get right😢
@BeautifulCrazy20232 ай бұрын
This is my exact situation
@Dmp3702 ай бұрын
Im trying steph im taking more losses than gain
@ZuleigaBowers-hh6us2 ай бұрын
It's so true I'm going trough it
@yadip652 ай бұрын
Yes Lord 🙌🏽
@kaydeen57392 ай бұрын
💯Facts
@elexisnique31742 ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@miaholden11572 ай бұрын
They definitely don't care. I'm worrying about myself for now. I do not cast my Pearls upon swines
@gerritjooste92692 ай бұрын
💯🎯
@FREEDYITHEREALKING2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ Amen Jesus Christ ❤
@coreydupree51142 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@J_HOWARD.Cl.a.q2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@marie23972 ай бұрын
You can bring a horse to water but you can’t make it drink 💯
@tommodog85732 ай бұрын
I’ve come so far My meth addicted daughter has asked me for help to spend my only day off Thursday from my other kids and her baby who is in my care to help her to search around for someone should can help with housing she chooses to live on the streets I’m so tired and I’m so anxious about it I know in my heart she isn’t ready to repent and change Oh God how will I say no I know this is for me She’s so sick and so young and little I was trusting in God surrendered her to Him I will have to tell her no I’ve come so far I’m risking so much