Well said. My ex-wife cheated on me when my daughter was three and I filed for divorce within a week. I was able to get custody and she had to pay child support, or was supposed to. I didn't want my child to grow up in a divorced family as I did, so a year later her mother and I tried working things out and re-married in about 6 years. This was the worst mistake I ever made. I supported her as she jumped from job to job. I encouraged her to stick with one that would have been a great option for a career even though she wanted to quit. She finally got the promotion and was doing well. So well, that she decided she no longer needed me and filed for divorce. This time is was more of a mess, but I still was able to get custody of my daughter, 13 at the time, because she told her mother when she heard us arguing that she was staying with her dad. She tried everything, even going so far as to try and get me to hit her, but I'm not that kind of man, so she failed. After she left she tried twice to come back, normally when things weren't going her way in life, but I was no longer her safety net. I learned my lesson the hard way and while I have been in other relationships, I have not married again. I haven't met a woman that shows me any benefit to marriage, not for the man. Was I perfect, no, but I am loyal to a fault and would have worked to keep our marriage. She was so quick to break her vows and punch out when it suited her. If someone shows you they don't want you, believe them. Semper Fi, gents!

​@@captainaudistay strong, you got this

@@captainaudi Many of us have been in your position but we came out hurt and came up stronger

@@captainaudi She's only hurting you because you're letting her.. Don't dwell on her.. Even though I don't know you I know your pain.. I moved away from my family for my ex-wife and then she divorces me for a bunch of superficial B.S. Only to be a girl afterwards I knew form childhood, thought it was destiny, that we were meant to be toghther.. I move back home to be with her.. And then years later she breaks up with me over the phone because I going through tough times and then finds another man and buys a house with him.. I can't promise you that you will find someone else but I will promise you this.. There will come a day when you are glad she didn't stay in your life.. Again I don't know you or your story but I doubt that you went throguh the heartbreak I went through not only once, but twice.. Listen to Tate's message and let all of that sadness and angry constructively.. If you do this no woman will never hurt you again.

Thank you brother

@@Cracker__r wtf

😢

Same Here. We will win. No we are winning who wants to drag an unhappy unfaithful soul

move on at the speed of light women are not like men.

Reza I’m sorry to hear about that but I believe you dodged a bullet can you imagine if you were married the girl?

@@Americanpatriot-zo2tk yes I probably did, I thank god for this. But it’s getting better by time. Thank you ❤

@@momisoma6477 you are going to make it! Believe me that’s a big deal coming from someone like me. I’m impressed with your tenacity.

Literally 2 days ago🤦🏾‍♂️

@@deletroiswhat’s the prob? It’s fresh and he’s trying to move forward

@@TCGhits Um actually it’s no problem. The same thing happened to me at the same time so I was agreeing sir…anything else?

@@deletrois I pray for you as well! Keep marching forward, become stronger and win many battles that lie ahead. Don’t give in and out your faith in God. 🙏🏽 best of luck to ya.

How are you guys after a month?

Yes, that’s the spirit!👏

Ahmen now its time to get to work mfer

it is that time for all of us

Amen brother!

Get over the past, but learn from IT, accept it as a valuable lesson. Dont feel bitter or angry at yourself.

Get your fucking gains dude, show her what's she's missing out on

Stay Hard bro.

How you feeling man had the same

I'll be here

You still sad?

Motivating😎

love ya Brother me too i will get there like you i did the same!

Anger drives me i turn into postivtive energy

I went through exactly the same thing

Good to hear brother!

I pray for your healing 🙏🏾.

I believe in you. Have self respect and move on you'll be better for it. Don't let her win.

respect from one brother to another.

Same here

Wasted years, dont do that. Wish ibfound red pill earlier

Best of luck bro.

Good Luck brother…peace & fulfillment is possible without her ❤️‍🩹

A new day Awaits you mate.

Me too, then an awful relationship with an escort I met. Basically wow yes the video is good

Remember, you got her good years......

and would you accept her or not?

@@deenizmpr I've honestly told her I won't as I've had my mental closure and joyful about my new life without her.

@@DaWitOnethen you truly never loved her to begin with. When you really love someone to the point of obsession, you are willing to do whatever it takes to get that one person back even if the odds are all in your favor in the end…

No. Maybe she went out and got plowed by 35 men since the split and he wants nothing to do with that filth. End of of story.

@@christianchavez8848 And you're thinking about this because? I don't know how broken you have ever been, but a solid man would not do whatever it takes to get that 'one person back' as it is a time bomb. When someone shows you their core values and character would ruin you long term, you will suck up the pain and move on. There is a lot I went through that I would not disclose here. To create a healthy and sustainable relationship, you need more than just love - respect, loyalty, selflessness, thoughtfulness... And the love I have come to embrace is not the Hollywood magical love with sprinkling dust, but a complete thoughtful series of actions that solidifies a bond that stands the test of time.

Time heals and spirituality is always good

Time bro, that's all.

@BugattiFlow. It’s difficult. You must talk to god. Ask to be shown the way, thy will be done. Let him know you need help my friend. The pain sucks, try to remember it’s temporary and will not be forever. Don’t give up.

Do you go to the gym everyday? Signed in there a year ago with my girlfriend but i havnt been there very often. She was my first girlfriend and broke up with me in december and first i was a fucking zombie but now im going to the gym everyday and its fucking great. You can do it too bro! just go every day 💪🏻💪🏻

There is light ahead brother. I was exactly the same. Slept 1 night in 6 weeks when we split up. Couldn’t think, focus, eat. Time IS the healer. Hard to accept. Keep on practicing routine. Gym and work. I feel your pain, but don’t let some fucking bitch destroy you who doesn’t give a fuck about you. Stay strong brother

I made that choice a few months ago, best choice I made. I'm focusing more on myself, gaining a lot of self confidence, and working more on my goal. I'm done putting off my goal, I put it off way toooo long.

Patrice O’Neal taught me that! If you haven’t been down the Patrice red pill rabbit hole I whole heartedly recommend it. You will learn ALL YOU NEED TO. RIP Patrice 🙏

Needed to hear this as confirmation lol. Thanks g

Or if she wants you back, put next to no effort in, get her to organise things, get her to make the effort and get her to pay for stuff so you getting your money back you spent on her the first time then see if she sticks around. If she can’t even do that and leaves again just don’t even care. Also depends on what she did to take her back, if she cheated then never, if it was just her being disorganised and too comfortable to be disorganised on the things you organised for you and her, like forget a date or not being on time for a meal we organised like I split up for then it can work, she’s come back and now I’m letting her do all the work

@@KetoFatty yeah but I’m not killing nobody that’s just horrific

It ends

It’s does end it’s does dull trust me bro I can look at her pictures with her and her new bf and I don’t even feel any emotion at all it’s just a random person. that I think I used to know

Needed to hear that. And find this video. Respect 🙏

Thank you

Block, delete and never message again. Use the conviction that you have in the strongest area of your life and channel it into no contact. 😊

You wasted for 6 freakin years?!!! For real mate??!!!

I'm sorry you have to go through that but now you know how it feels because many many many men do this to women all the time. Selling you the dream. It hurts doesn't it. Its interesting reading the comments from the guys because it's like it's the end of the world but I have spoken with men many about how us women should accept men's lying and cheating and being taken for granted because he may do all this but he comes back home to you. It's different for men, men can have sex without feelings so we should be happy with that. Now you feel a piece of what I have felt as a woman constantly, not just once.

That’s not your faurl

us

Bro I feel you man but you have to be strong I hope u find urself in a better place

💯

love this comment

Sorry for what happened bro. Did she cry when u confronted her?

Fuck man! I wish you all the best. Hope you will be better soon and have a wonderful live after this nightmare ends.

I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy bro hope it works out for u fam

Yes!! There ya go! Hope you rebound massively! Keep God in your mind and prayers and you shall defeat the serpent. 🙏🏽

Stay strong

Don’t take that disrespect

She wouldn’t b alive if I were you

Stay strong brother, we are alll here for you. Reach out if you need someone to talk to, my mail is on my channel

Move as far from her as you can if posible. If not, do what’s best for you and don’t waste your time like i did. Good luck brother.

I’m going through relationship shit aswell we broke up a week ago. Don’t play victim play predator

don't forget the gym. Helps a lot with your self esteem and will get you actual abundance with options

@@zeppkfw most def. The gym has been so great for my mental health and stress. Thanks for your kindness 😊

Quick recovery. Just focus on yourself. You cant revenge. The best revenge is to get busy.. work out, have multiple jobs.. in short focus on yourself and you will forget about him forever. Assume he is d3ad,_ mourning lasts for a week and everything gets back to normal.

Yaaassss queeeen

And you are worthy as well 🙏

May I learn why you are still watching this video? For another woman?

@@ahmetyuksel4360 A person cant click on this video to give advice? Or what if he's just trying to gain more knowledge? that's like someone trying to teach you how to make more money but you're already making money

U aint bull shitting

😂😂😂

speaking from experience

Yes brother. I have no idea who you are but wish you best. I am 38 now, two years ago my fiance decided to dump me. I moved on, but still had hope to come back. Gave her time, while I worked on my career. Now she decided to risk her new chapter with somebody else. My heart is shattered... But now - I am starting to move on. Scared as hell that it might be too late to find true love... But - we will get there. The world is cruel place. WIsh you all best

Feel you. Mine was 3 years and she immediately went cold on me. Now I'm on a relentless self improvement journey. She will regret losing a good man who is working to become even greater.

She didn't break up with you. She set you free. Go enjoy life without the baggage holding you back.

@@justinhunstad1760 💯

Girl of my life broke up with me and im struggling knowing theres no future with her no more

@@msl2796You were a man before you met her, you can be a man once again. When you’re there, be better. When you’re better, don’t stop, keep going, be EVEN BETTER. The second you give up is the second you deserve whatever negativity you’re feeling. 🤝 You got this brother.

Good excuse

shut up

​​@@CollaborativeGlobalMarketingHe's not saying don't go the gym or be successful. He's saying don't do it for somebody else, do it for you.

@@inkwyvern5171the commas were jibberish. Hence the sarcasm.

Bro what are 3 months that’s nothing, I don’t want to be rude but that’s nothing. We broke up 2 days ago I was 4 years in a relationship with her from the age of 16-20. feels like I’m dying inside. But I have to do what has to be done. Build yourself get a sixpack, get rich. I feel the depression kicking in and it gives me motivation because I don’t want to live that live like that.

Same bro, use that energy

Little Update, been going to the gym consistently, now made my first 200$ this month on posting Tik Tok videos of other people’s content. Trying to build a Shopify site which I sell some random ass products. You guys are gonna hear from me in the future.

@@TheNoobiconmonths years people feel what they feel bro. Either way we support each other and kick ass daily

Weak just work on yourself

It means you have a beautiful heart... It's ok.. I get you 100% These people are Narcissistic... Just pray to your higher being for more Serenity.. and that what you do won't hurt your inner self, your true essence..You were made the way you are by God, not by this dude or that dude... Work in yourself and work for your goals. Live, Love, Learn... It's ok if it's not perfect... NOTHING AND NO ONE IS PERFECT... NOT EVEN A WOMAN.

Absolutely especially when you know they ARE NARCOPATHS. 😂😢

​@@jacobramirez3026His empathy being in tact after his women betrayed him is an extraordinarily powerful sign of emotional quotient. It's strength, not weakness. People who shelter in their own shadow stonewalling their emotions have already submitted the greatest part of the human experience; to feel. This man even feels bad for his girl, knowing she's gonna be worse off after fucking up and leaving him. Think of it this way. After he's demonstrated that kind of durability, do you really think calling him weak is gonna have any affect? You're trying to blow a wall down with your lungs. You're wasting your breath.

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Hell yea man, love to hear it. I wish you well.

@@07stanggg6 thank you!!

Good luck brother. I’ve been through the same. Everything will work out how it’s supposed to be. Can’t control the future, just your mind. Just keep on listening to these vids. And keep your head up bro

@@MrJacob028 Thank you brother. I keep telling myself it’s for the best and just move it. It hurts but I will be better then ever. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@@theboy466 Thank you my good sir. I appreciate the love.

It's a process bro I am going through same we have to go through the pain and thoughts in order to come out better 💯

You'll heal...took me 6 months

Bro she texted other guys behind my back and told me its normal...im her bf i told her its not normal and i told her if she really love me delete all those guys contact which she's just saving for her own chit chat.....she told me me she can't delete all....i ask why...she never answer...she keep saying only some she can delete....while i delete anything for her....i cuaght her flirting soo thars why i ask her to delete those guys...but she's not willing to delete everything and told me she'll delete only the ones i caught....tell me what should i do bro

@@doubleJJ01 time to move on. respect yourself.

@@doubleJJ01its hard, but if she doesn’t respect you, then she hasnt deserved you

@@parmaso6634 thank you...ill keep in mind

​@@doubleJJ01dump her. That's disrespect. Your kinghood will be gone. Reclaim yourself before Oneitis take care of you.

She ain't worth it. Hit the gym bro.

You're crying from a man's speech, far out get a grip are you PM'S.

​@@peterlawson8040shut the hell up. Anyone can cry and let it all out of they need to. Bein a hard ass won't help you move on.

Not going to the gym when you get with a chick is one of the worst things you can as a dude. She isn’t going to thank you for dropping the gym “for her”. In fact she lose attraction when you veer off of your purpose.

​@jermaineayivoh8263 🎯

You stopped doing the things that made her attracted to you in the first place. It's very common, we think we have her and can relax and then it blows up. Gotta stay on your purpose/gym at all times. Learned this the hard way too..

@@kendog0311 did this on a daily basis for 8 years, once i got into a relationship she liked my looks, prett solid abs and all that shit, till that turned on me calling me obsessed even though i went only for 3 months in 2 years. Calling or acusing me i want to to fuck chicks or cheat on her. Never flirted, liked a photo, cheated or anything. So it was always walking on egg shells or sabotaging me to eat chips because i am not fun if i don't do it. I am boring.

So true. I made a mistake when my fiance left me two years ago. I didn;t processed the shock. I "moved on". I mean I wished she will be back after a while seeing me succeeding in life. Did I succeed? Yes. I make few times more money, traveling around, my career looks good. But! But - she moved on. Decided to start a new chapter with someone else. Now I feel the whole pain like never before. Don't make my mistake. Don't numb the pain, let it pierce you, fight it, and then hopefully accept it and move on for real.

Going through that right now, your not alone.

🙌🙌🙌@@quintanillafam94

how you holding up man?

Been there. Hang in there and do the work. Claw your way out.

Who’s gonna carry the boats & the logs 💪👊🏼

Fark bro three years? No Hoe is worth that…mine left me took the house got remarried and moved her simp husband in with her and his kids…I decided to to got them gym go harder in jiu jitsu Im now coach i never looked better at 46, my two boys respect me more than their step dad and I got myself a beautiful young wife 21 years younger…and I’m honestly not showing off but what I’ve done is like Andrew said I’ve used that negative energy to rebuild myself…you can do it and possibly get to a better position than I’m in.

@@MoJoJoJo747 Damn ur a G

@@MoJoJoJo747Woowww i needed this. Letsss goooo. Goinn thru a breakup now for 2 months. Today was my first day in the gym. Time to let goo and rebuild

Hypergamy is almost never satisfied

You will💪

Bro, thank you! I’ve been trying to find out who this guy is. He said some very powerful and impactful things in such a forceful way. I’m going to start following him.

Yup. I think we men need that. I am 38, devastated after my ex-fiance moved on... feeling completely lonely. No friends as I sacrificed everything to her and moved out to another country for 7 years... Life is hell. But I need this kind of videos. Resonating better with me motivating to do things instead of analyzing every bit and piece of my life.

@@HCforLife1 I'm also 38 (for a fortnight lol), and also had to deal with that same pain after sacrificing everything and getting disrespected like that. It's so massive to how a bloke feels inside, but, please know you ain't alone in dealing with such pain, I've been there before mate... as have most dudes.

Keep on trucking brother. In 2017 I was homeless, addicted to heroin, zeroed out, with a bankruptcy on my credit report. Now I own my home cash, I’ve been clean for 6 years and rebuilt my credit up to 720 (bankruptcy falls off the report in 2025). In the past few months I’ve lost 60lbs down from 420lbs, I’m 6’6. The next year is gonna be centered on getting down another 140lbs to 220lbs. It’s possible but nobody is gonna do the work for us. I got tired of watching my friends die or wish they were dead while people like Tate are walking on clouds. 🚀

​@@zebrapleco7895damn man im anchoolic 21 years old this shit made me time out(think)

Thanks for sharing that. 👏

Go chase that bag big guy

I am still dead XD

I’ll be praying for you brother . Just be careful with those feelings your keeping for her because if she never wants to get back together we’ll then your hurting yourself .. cause your not opening yourself up to be looking for someone else who will love you and you can cherish her.. stay civil with your X to co-parent successfully, so you still get that time with your children.. Then in due time I would be asking to spend time with your children only. This whole hanging out with your kids and she’s there is wrong. Especially if she has No plans of getting back together with you. So if that’s the case i know it will be hard to, but you’ve gotta accept that and move forward with your life brother. I pray everything works out for you to where your the happiest you’ve ever been.. stay tough stay strong.

@@robertnance7522 thanks for this yeah a few friends have said the same . It’s not right but I love her so much and don’t want the kids to grow up with step parents . I grew up like that and it was awful . Oh it’s so tough

I feel this and in the same boat as I rebuild my life and business in a town we used to live in. My daughter is the one who suffers the most and the beer is something I’ll never touch again. I’ve always been the one people turned to for strength with my work and attitude. Now I’m asking Him for a spot instead of a fellow trainer in the gym. It’s hard and my wife is stronger then I ever knew.

Godspeed

@@traps361I feel ya too mate . I’ve always been the positive one for others now I’m just a broken man

That part changed my life 24 hours ago and now I'm trying to find out who that was. Any idea?

@@sneakybidder4584 TD jakes ..he’s a pastor

Yea me too …I wasted decade with one woman…I’m just trying hard to move forward

@@yihuda7459 I wasted decade as well. 8 years together. 2 years working on myself and wishing she will be back. She said that she moves on with someone else. Devastated, heart shattered now. But I learned the lesson, if someone leaves you. Don't wait again. Just move on for real. Otherwise you will be broken more than before.

Same man

@@pestifygaminghacks4713 we will be fine Kings..we will rise and never fall again..

We all there, I got left by my borderline personality disorder ex, even though I know it’s for the best I still feel sad but the mindset needs to change!

@@jaybenh9940 me too bro The abuse continues Stay strong Andrew is right

@@stingyringpiece Men should look out for men, not fuck each others ex's lol! #Manpower!