DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT | Omeleto

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Omeleto

Omeleto

8 ай бұрын

A young woman tries to overcome her OCD by doing weird therapy exercises.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT is used with permission from Melissa Kong. Learn more at / dontworryaboutitshort .
Hannah is in intensive therapy for debilitating contamination obsessive-compulsive disorder, which has affected her life and relationships, especially after the recent death of her father. Her therapist gives her a series of exercises as part of her treatment. As Hannah works her way through these, she becomes part of the clinic's community, even helping others with their exercises.
When her latest exercise involves eating a cookie left on a toilet seat, it's a step too far for Hannah. But to move forward in the treatment and confront her OCD, Hannah must complete it -- as well as deal with the grief and guilt she feels over her father's death.
Directed and written by Melissa Kong, this dramedy short is a finely tuned balancing act of tone, blending sincerity, humor and somber reflection as it traces the efforts of Hannah to get through her treatment for a misunderstood condition. OCD is often portrayed as a collection of tics or behaviors that look odd on the surface, but the short delves into the complexity of it with a disarming blend of comedy and heart.
Excellently written with a restrained, straightforward visual approach that puts the focus on performances and dialogue, the storytelling finds bleakly comic moments in the absurdity of some of the therapy exercises portrayed in the storytelling, both for Hannah and the other patients at the treatment center. By taking the time to construct the wider community of the clinic, we see the different ways that OCD can express itself, from intrusive and persistent thoughts about sex to Hannah's manifestation, which is an aversion to touching people and objects that could "contaminate" her with germs.
There's a lightness in the first half of the film as it establishes character and milieu, and in a less sensitive, empathetic film, it would be all too easy to keep portraying the clinic and its patients as overly quirky. But as Hannah's story deepens, we understand the very serious costs that having OCD can have on life and relationships. For Hannah, it curtailed a key moment between her and her father before his passing. Actor Hanah Chang is dry, droll and witty as Hannah as she navigates the series of seemingly silly therapy exercises, but when she confronts her regrets about her father's death, she is deeply moving, and the depth of her performance helps the film to achieve considerable empathy and resonance.
Based on the director's personal experiences, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT has authenticity and authority in its accurate portrayal of OCD. But it's also a powerful portrait of grief and fear, and how they can hold us back in life if we don't examine them. Hannah learns that she must face her pain and suffering over the events in her life, which helps her confront how insidiously OCD has intruded upon her autonomy and her relationships. That insight gives her the power to face her fear and move beyond it -- even if it's in the shape of a cookie in a place where no one should be eating.

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@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Hi everybody! It's Melissa here, the writer and director of DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT! I'm blown away by the incredible responses the film has gotten so far. Please feel free to ask any questions. Thank you for watching and please share it with your friends!
@Avery_4272
@Avery_4272 8 ай бұрын
I think your direction was spot-on, and all of your cast did a wonderful job! Very natural performances. Perfect combination of comedic and poignant moments. Loved the camera work/editing, as well.
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
thank you so much!@@Avery_4272
@nicoquet
@nicoquet 8 ай бұрын
you capture pretty well the constant facing the fact of being your own unreliable narrator, knowing forcibly something isn't real even when it truly feels true. did you write this? do you know someone with ocd or have yourself?
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
thanks! Yes, I wrote this and it's based on my personal experience with OCD.@@nicoquet
@nicoquet
@nicoquet 8 ай бұрын
@@melissakong142 did you get cognitive conductual treatment, the short reminds me of it
@XanWotomaki2
@XanWotomaki2 8 ай бұрын
Ok... I have ocd and my dad died just under a year ago. I wasn't expecting this to be this relatable. I just wanted to watch a short film to start my day and now look at me. Crying before work. Great job!
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and sharing your story! It means a lot that this film resonates.
@michaelmoffat2296
@michaelmoffat2296 8 ай бұрын
Aww I am so sorry about that! I lost my dad seven years ago now, and I still really miss him! Love you so much! XOXO ~ Mike
@whoathatsanicememe3093
@whoathatsanicememe3093 8 ай бұрын
My husband and 2 of my daughters have OCD with intrusive thoughts, my middle daughter being the one with compulsions...I appreciate this short so very much. They all work so hard just to feel "normal" and I'm so proud of the progress they've made. I love them all and I wouldn't trade my little family for anything in the world.
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Thank you! It's just as hard on the family. I'm sure a lot of the progress they've made is in due to your love and support.
@ismewhat1234
@ismewhat1234 8 ай бұрын
Hey make your hair on your profile picture beautiful⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️. Is been 25 years I lost my best friend it did a # on me R.I.P dad🙏. God bless you all 🌞
@conniehanses
@conniehanses 7 ай бұрын
@ismewhat1234 OH, I'm sorry. It's really jarring to lose your confidant. 💙🌎
@SharonNolfi
@SharonNolfi 8 ай бұрын
Excellent film. Thank you for showing OCD with realism and compassion.
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Thank you! It was definitely my goal to show a respectful and authentic portrayal.
@rachelroth3141
@rachelroth3141 8 ай бұрын
As a gardener i'm used to get my hands dirty but that cookie and shoe to face thing ... 🤢
@Thelma26Calina
@Thelma26Calina 8 ай бұрын
I do not suffer from OCD but eating a cookie from a toilet seat, I wouldn’t be able to do that at all! It’s disgusting and so unhygienic… What about germs? 🤢
@gemstar7286
@gemstar7286 8 ай бұрын
Exactly even people without OCD wouldn't even do that, it's gross for sure.
@WPA33SC
@WPA33SC 8 ай бұрын
If you notice, when the lady goes in to pick up the cookie off the seat she blocks out the act of picking up and then the camera angle changes before she puts it in her mouth. Plenty of chances for the ole switcharoo. I really doubt she ate the cookie that was on the toilet seat. And FWIW I wouldn't have either.
@Thelma26Calina
@Thelma26Calina 8 ай бұрын
@@WPA33SC You really got an eye for details… I didn’t notice that. I’ll go watch again 🤭
@kimkim3827
@kimkim3827 7 ай бұрын
There's a truth to when she said that toilet could be much cleaner than doorknobs. For example, it's proven that phones are dirtier than toilet seats. "In most cases, it's safer to make a salad on a toilet seat than it is to make one on a cutting board,"
@smashy_smasherton
@smashy_smasherton 8 ай бұрын
Great. Bravo. First film I’ve ever seen with an honest portrayal of what some of us actually go through.
@aimeevonarx1748
@aimeevonarx1748 8 ай бұрын
Melissa, this is such a moving short film! Thanks for making it and sharing it with the world.
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Thanks Aimee!
@courtpotter611
@courtpotter611 8 ай бұрын
My OCD got worse when my mom died. Very relatable film
@HopefulMathGirl
@HopefulMathGirl 8 ай бұрын
I fear that, when I would have to live without them
@sabresfan7580
@sabresfan7580 8 ай бұрын
Whew. This hit home. Thank you for showing the complexities of OCD.
@JavierMartinezUy
@JavierMartinezUy 8 ай бұрын
Excelent!! Loved it. I have general anxiety disorder, that lead into an agoraphobia. I've been wrestling with it my entire life. Its actually pretty diferent than an OCD, because of the realistic feeling of dying mainly. But anyhow, exposure is the only way. Just regret that my life is going to pass by and i wont be able to have overcomed from this. I wanna see the world, travel, im adventorous, but im draged down by this enormous power that controls my body. Wish all of whom are going through something similar, the best of succes!!
@mariannadelossantos4736
@mariannadelossantos4736 8 ай бұрын
Whatever has lead you to have this problem, I believe you can overcome it
@JavierMartinezUy
@JavierMartinezUy 8 ай бұрын
@@mariannadelossantos4736 Mainly a chemical disorder that generates more than panic, terror, in situations that are not rationaly dangerous. Its like a software programmed that has to be rebooted. Thanks for your nice wishes! I certainly hope so too!!
@HopefulMathGirl
@HopefulMathGirl 8 ай бұрын
I'm really sorry you're going through this. There's a really high change you'll overcome this before death, like 99%. Time changes.
@JavierMartinezUy
@JavierMartinezUy 8 ай бұрын
@@HopefulMathGirl I hope so but probabilistically at least the percentage its really low. But ill choose to believe you 🙂
@HopefulMathGirl
@HopefulMathGirl 8 ай бұрын
@@JavierMartinezUy that's really nice, hope it gets better ❤
@-Cinderman
@-Cinderman 8 ай бұрын
An absolute beauty, this. Perfectly stitched. 💚
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🥰🥰🥰
@yeeepersgeepers7574
@yeeepersgeepers7574 5 ай бұрын
This is the most accurate representation I’ve seen, thank you. As someone who’s struggling with OCD, I also do a lot of these exposures.
@mjhay1830
@mjhay1830 8 ай бұрын
Loved this, beautiful script. Especially the line at the end. 😅
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching! It's my favorite too :)
@NeonStreetPro
@NeonStreetPro 8 ай бұрын
Eating a cookie off the toilet? Just imagine one of those gas stations in the middle of no where, north Texas 🤐
@nadiastewart30
@nadiastewart30 6 ай бұрын
I lost my dad in Oct 7th every word she said when she explained…every emotion when my dad died to “what if he didn’t know how much I love him” weighs on me constantly, so I pray
@anti1training
@anti1training 8 ай бұрын
The first image tho 😭
@HopefulMathGirl
@HopefulMathGirl 8 ай бұрын
Thank you, it was really helpful :)
@thestinger5047
@thestinger5047 3 ай бұрын
I’m so proud. You go girl 🥲!!!
@D.M.S.
@D.M.S. 8 ай бұрын
The cookie thing seems weird. No person would do this in real life, so why force it upon them?
@Dayvit78
@Dayvit78 8 ай бұрын
She didn't force. Also she probably cleaned the toilet seat really well - she said she would eat it.
@durasaxon5131
@durasaxon5131 7 ай бұрын
Well done, everyone involved. There is no end to legitimate caring. ✅
@paulg903
@paulg903 8 ай бұрын
The lead actress was so adorable in this
@impermanent-being
@impermanent-being 8 ай бұрын
Wonderful story
@daveldma
@daveldma 8 ай бұрын
I'm going to get evaluated for ocd. I've had it all my life i think, pretty much. I could live with my compulsive hand washing, but I've started having intrusive thoughts about a bad relationship from my youth. Its driving me nuts. I hadn't thought about it in years, and there isn't really a need to think about it. A neurologist gave me a referral to get checked for ocd before the pandemic but I blew it off, I went in for a tic disorder I developed about four or five years ago.
@conniehanses
@conniehanses 7 ай бұрын
The pandemic really kicked me more into my agoraphobia and made it worse when I was hospitalized due to covid..just moved, and my kids are now helping me slowly get out in my new small town. I'm glad to have them and their slow and respectful guidance. I'm working on it..stressful finding new doctors though..ugh but I'll get there..💙🌎 Sure is easy to blow things off, but I'll get it together ❤️
@llllllllllllllllllllllllll5603
@llllllllllllllllllllllllll5603 8 ай бұрын
Why did that cookie end up looking so delicious?😅
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 8 ай бұрын
lol b/c it's chocolate chip!
@vicmarmil2843
@vicmarmil2843 8 ай бұрын
So delightful. A wonderful, funny, dark, sad, relatable story.
@voice2skull.
@voice2skull. 8 ай бұрын
😂 not
@dandeliondreamer3365
@dandeliondreamer3365 8 ай бұрын
Pretty good 👍 I don’t have OCD and I couldn’t eat a cookie off a toilet seat, but I know that’s not the point.
@georgeduncan8946
@georgeduncan8946 8 ай бұрын
Coviid created a huge wave of this..... 🤔🤔
@Interlude956
@Interlude956 8 ай бұрын
With your films we see unexplored corners of dramas
@rogerq7369
@rogerq7369 8 ай бұрын
Really good. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@TheSemtis
@TheSemtis 8 ай бұрын
What the last walk means?
@jen204
@jen204 8 ай бұрын
She was going for the cookie - after the cemetery, it wasn't as frightening by comparison.
@kimkim3827
@kimkim3827 7 ай бұрын
So many dummies in the comment section not understanding the purpose of the cookie on the toilet seat.
@1SwiftAngela
@1SwiftAngela 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely not yeah, I definitely have OCD! Not severe and the first opening scene was completely unnecessary. I almost didn’t watch this seriously😮
@sidilicious11
@sidilicious11 8 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@spacejelly4600
@spacejelly4600 8 ай бұрын
Nope! 🤢🤮
@conniehanses
@conniehanses 7 ай бұрын
Made me feel not so alone in my unfounded fear..I feel like I can eat the cookie today. Thankyou However, did Have To Edit to make my I an uppercase...😑
@TheSpiderGod2099
@TheSpiderGod2099 7 ай бұрын
Hi do u have ocd?
@conniehanses
@conniehanses 7 ай бұрын
@realpavan11 ya, thought I had it beat when I was younger, and I did. But when I get anxiety, it flares up. Also, as I'm getting older, it seems to be more often, but I'm working on it. Thanks for inquiring, though. Have a great day.✌️
@69me247ifuwant2
@69me247ifuwant2 8 ай бұрын
Wtf is an exposure?
@iguanazilla
@iguanazilla 8 ай бұрын
Exposure is doing something that triggers you in small steps until your anxiety from being exposed to it goes from a 10 (high) to a level that is more manageable ( 1 or 2). Eventually being able to overcome that compulsion/ fear.
@kushshroff2012
@kushshroff2012 8 ай бұрын
Eating cookies from toilet seat is not OCD eww nobody ll eat that
@user-le5mi3jh3o
@user-le5mi3jh3o 8 ай бұрын
I love you video
@bloxjumpers6216
@bloxjumpers6216 8 ай бұрын
That thing is filthy!
@AI_guy63
@AI_guy63 8 ай бұрын
Fugget about it
@robynskei
@robynskei 8 ай бұрын
Wow, I’m actually early ♥️
@narvaezra
@narvaezra 7 ай бұрын
Wow, just wow. As an AAPI woman with OCD and whose father passed away, I SO MUCH related to this story because it IS my story. I've struggled with Pure OCD for over a decade. I wish films like this existed when I had no idea what was going on with me, but I knew I needed help. I'm thankful that apps like NOCD exist where there is a community full of people with OCD who can relate to each other and therapists who are trained in ERP. @melissakong142 Thank you for creating a film like this that brings awareness to OCD and realities of Exposure Response Prevention therapy. And kudos to the main actor! We need to see more AAPI representation on screen!
@melissakong142
@melissakong142 7 ай бұрын
Wow thank you for your feedback! I'm so happy it resonated with you. It means a lot. And, yes, more AAPI representation especially about mental health.
@tunkycool
@tunkycool 8 ай бұрын
COVID gave me OCD. 🥲
@telayajackson2.023
@telayajackson2.023 8 ай бұрын
I wonder would this facility work for autism.
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