the ex one is so true. it’s someone you once loved. unless they did something absolutely horrible, don’t speak about them as such

"A relationship is alot like a fart, if you force it - its probably shit" ~master oogway or someone

" i like to go camping" " i know🙂" 😂😂😂

Can’t accidentally talk about exes if you don’t have any 😙✌️

"do you know how weird it is for someone to know everything about you??" Marinette: 💀

shes the older sister we all need edit: "mom im famous" "go do the dishes"

I actually just straight up confessed to my crush and I thought that it was all over and he would hate me. It's been 2 years now and we are very happy :))

The last fact: !!!Don’t stalk them!!! Miraculous ladybug: oops 👀👀

Another one is to not tell ur friends because it could end up really badly. For me I told my friend and she told most of the people in my year/grade. She never talked to him before but now she is always talking to him. Whenever me and my crush talk alone talking or walking to class together she'll start running towards us and just start waffling about some random stuff. So moral of the story is not to tell your friends. Edit: I decided to talk to abt it to her and now she texts him at night and always interrupts me when I'm talking to him and is just getting worse. She apparently has a boyfriend now in a different school but I think she's lying to cover up that fact she likes him. I don't mind if she likes him because u can't control your feelings but at least be honest so we can both back off and just be friends.

The ex thing, at least in my experience, also shows you that if you ever break up with that person, that's how they'll talk about you. You'll be the crazy ex they're talking about

“I had a crush on you since I was 6” “Dude I just murdered your entire family”

The second one is so real. There's a guy from my school that has a crush on me and my house happens to be on his way to school. *He will purposefully wait for me in front of my house so we can go the rest of the way together, even though we never made plans to walk to school together*. I do very much feel smothered and it's actually a little creepy how he will go out of his way to literally stand in front of my home until I come out even though I never invited him to do so. And this all happened literally because I was just nice to him on the first day of school, I think. He's pretty unattractive by conventional standards, so I guess not many girls were nice to him before me, and now that I slightly acknowledged him he's immediately obsessed. He isn't even a bad friend, he's very funny and generally nice, but I wish he could get the hint that I'm not interested in anything more than a friendship and leave me be. He also sits next to me in three of our classes and whenever I feel stressed because of the work, he'll rub my back in a "comforting" way, even though I repeatedly told him not to touch me. I mean, I don't have to tell him twice in a day, if I tell him to stop, he does. But then he repeats it the next day and it's just so frustrating and awkward. I know he won't go farther than that and hurt me, he's not that typa guy (though even if he wanted to I could easily overpower him, he's shorter than me by far and built like a french frie). I don't know what to do at this point. This kinda turned into a vent, and I'm sorry, I'm just trying to get people to see how uncomfortable it can be for a person on the receiving side when someone sticks to them 24/7.

Oh yeah, I stalk my crush on social media, she posts things and I found out stuff about her, so I use it as conversation topics without it seeming like I've been stalking her and it works.

best approach: stalk, never communicate, almost faint when they're around because you genuinely cant communicate like a normal human being, then judge them for dating a chick shorter than the one you're dating and lose interest

The looking at your crush one is so true tho omg like just seeing them naturally feels so much better then forcing it

1. Don’t talk about exes 2. Don’t force situations 3. Ask them for information about them instead of getting it another way.

Yes. Agreed so much. I hate the people who are like, ‘My ex, they are just terrible. I absolutely hate them.’ That was once a person you loved, and just because you’d broke up, doesn’t mean you now think they are a trash person. I mean, if they cheated on you then I’d understand if you wouldn’t like them, I guess!

me who doesnt have a crush(not including celebrity crushes): ah yes i will remember these for always

My classmates know where I was born, but they don't know my birthday.

My crush just sent me a pic of him in the mirror being full of muscles 💪 😂

As a counselor who has had extensive trainings on domestic violence and intimate partner violence, I can tell you right now that when someone starts talking about how crazy their ex was (particularly if it was ALL of their exes…pretty coincidental, isn’t it?), my 🚩red flags 🚩 are automatically raised because it makes me wonder what is wrong with THEM. Of course, many times, it turns out that they did actually have a crazy ex. But, then again, particularly if it’s someone whose exes were all supposedly crazy, that makes me wonder who the crazy one is. This is a big tell for potential abusers. They will almost always shit talk their ex(es) in order to justify (even to themselves) their abusive behavior. Abusers and/or narcissists. Like I said, sometimes the ex is legitimately crazy. But, please also be cautious about the person and look out for any other signs that they might be a potentially abusive partner, such as: -They’re very controlling (this might start off as cute or endearing even, and make you feel like they really are just super into you, but it can be a huge 🚩red flag🚩) -They get jealous very easily (same as above, it might seem “cute” at first and some jealousy is normal and totally okay, but if they start making demands about going through your phone when you come home, constantly accuse you of flirting (or worse) with your coworker or classmate, and start making demands about who you are “allowed” to go out with-run 🏃 away because this is a huge 🚩red flag 🚩 and the end goal will eventually to isolate you from all of your friends and family and, Before you know it, you’re only allowed to spend time with your partner or it simply isn’t worth the trouble of having to argue with them. I know a lot of Jayus’ fan base is young and I wanted to share this with you all because it is extremely important information I wish someone would have told me when I was younger. If you want to learn more about abusive relationships, I highly recommend Lundy Bancroft’s book, “Why Does He Do That?” He actually has made it available for free online if you google it. And it’s not just about male abusers or heterosexual relationships, he just uses male pronouns for cohesion and readability and goes into detail about same sex relationships, as well. It’s just that, statistically, men are much more likely to be the abuser in a relationship. That’s not to say there aren’t many vile women out there (I’m looking at you, Amber Heard). Anyways, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. I’m always happy to share my knowledge and experience-whether it be my professional or personal-with people if I think it might help someone. Just remember, if you have a bad feeling about someone you are dating, trust your gut instinct!!! Chances are, you are right. ❤

People who have fictional crushes: I see this as an absolute win

“Don’t talk about exes” Got it 👍👍👍 “Don’t try to deliberately interact with them” *nah I can’t do that*

Lmao the last one is such a problem for me since I'm usually a quiet kid so people will tell me things they wouldn't tell anyone else, knowing I won't say anything or tell anyone and then proceed to forget that they told me

I can't even talk properly, walk properly, breath properly when I'm around them let alone do all these things mentioned in the video☠️

Lucky me that i need an emotional bond with someone to develop a crush 😂 yea anyways i tell them immediately in the manner of "hey listen, i have a crush on you. It is not a question and you don't have to respond to it if you feel uncomfortable but i just want to make you aware of the fact in case you think I'm getting too close for your liking" I want them to be aware because man it sucks when you think someone was a genuine friend and they start hitting on you the moment you are single. I don't want to be that person

The first time I approached my crush, she literally froze and couldn’t even say hi, and then someone immediately came and saved (or interrupted) the moment . We never saw each other again and I don’t even know what’s her voice tone like. It’s been 5 years.

If someone has always had “horrible crazy narcissistic exes” and not a single positive one then they are the common denominator.

Basically I knew my crushes like whole life story before he knew i existed I think

I already told my crush exactly how I feel, it's on her now when she's ready. Being genuine shouldn't be seen as weakness.

Thanks for mentioning the last point. I love spying on people through social media, no matter if it's a guy or woman. I would do it. Especially with my crushes lol. Idk, it just makes me feel reserved and know in some way beforehand with who am I dealing with. Maybe I should become a detective one day 😂.

4: I don’t like people unless I’m comfortable being around them😉

" DO NOT DO THIS THINGS" me listening with a four year relationship

The social media one is so true 😂 we all do it, but don't fkn say you've done it, if you know what school their mom went to through sm stalking, keep it go yaself! And if they tell you, act surprised 😂

Never tell your crush how you feel unless you're 100% certain they feel the same way or they'll 100% reject you.

That Bowie mugshot is 🔥

When you don’t have that problem because your crush is someone from an anime since you’re mental 😌😌

There's this guy who has a crush on me. It was sweet when I heard, I didn't like him back and still don't. He's in my english class, so i was like, "Sweet, he'll probably be seen there and nowhere else." Thats when I realized hes at my lunch table. I didn't really care until I found him staring at me every lunch. He still does. How do I let him down lightly? Both of our parents are friends and my mom is telling me to let him down slowly but I really want him to stop staring at me and theres no good way to phrase it!!

OK finally the one woman I have been looking for to give me good advice I can resonate with. THANK YOU!

This is why I force my friend and his crush to be closer, so she starts to think he’s a weirdo

This shouldn’t have to be said, don’t randomly send nudes to someone you just started talking to. It’s creepy.

These are all great advice.. personally I kinda Have to talk about one of my exes cause before I could do it myself, she outted me on NATIONALLY SYNDICATED RADIO, after we broke things off cause I wanted to come out. Sucked pond water when it happened, but it's a Great story now, especially since it's so indicative of how my life really is

I keep asking my crush on text if he likes peanut butter, he hasn’t answered but saw the text. And he also saw the video i sent him of some doll baby’s dancing 😂😭✨💅

I do the exact opposite of the second one bc if I see her somewhere I make a 180 and start running away

This is such good advice.

If you are a stalky type person take the same path everyday. Don't actively seek them out, if they feel weirded out and go a different way they're probably seeing if you follow them. Take a path that they're on regularly and give a small smile or wave if you make eye contact regularly and keep walking. Online, don't talk about specific stuff. If you see they posted a review about a movie they watched, if you talk to them say a couple days later if they've seen any cool movies recently or something vaguely related to what they said it that post. Don't be the stalker type but if you are, refrain. These might help.

everyone writing quotes or relating this to miraculous ladybug: meanwhile me: “how many mirrors does this girl have in her house?”💀💀

Pov: you didn't do any of these but still your crush told his friends you are weird (4 times)

Me who stalked my crush on social media to find her other handles after she stopped using the one (1) platform we contacted each other on and now we're better friends than we were before 😂 Yeah I think I'm okay lol

Stalk the hell out of their social media, because they're doing the same thing to you. Eventually you'll need whatever ammunition against them you can find because love can be a fickle bitch. 💔😭

Me watching this while I never had any crush.

The first one is so relatable… There’s this one guy who dates someone and when they break up he just suddenly hates them after. I know this because he dated two of my friends. The first one he broke up with he just suddenly hated her for no reason whatsoever. Then he got with someone else, and they just recently broke up. Now he’s talking crap about her and hates her. Now, he’s dating the first girl I talked about again and he just suddenly likes her again. He looks to be a decent boyfriend and all but after the breakup he’s just bad. He hates them for whatever reason he has to.

Marinette rn: 👁️👄👁️

Lol, trying to find them in the hallway is so relatable.😂

“You know how weird it is when someone knows everything about you but you didn’t tell them any of those things?” As someone with celebrity/fictional crushes, I feel attacked 💀

💀my crush asked and i said “ye we passed that things didn’t work out”💀its so awkward talking abt my ex with my crush

The social media one is so true 😅 I had a guy who liked me and stalked my social media a lot so I blocked him And he made another account to which I ignored, days later he called and started a conversation on things I never told him, it was awkward and I blocked him on everything

love the musician pics on your wall hendrix fuxking rules

With the ending up in the same place thing, I forgot some people have crushes on people they aren’t already friends with lmaoo

POV : you accidentally called your crush for the first time and cut it as soon as they picked it up.... yes, that's me : )

My last ex (still very good friends) knew exactly how bad my ex before him was because he got me out of that relationship. Helped me realize it was abusive as hell by just asking questions and letting me figure it out from there. There was a long time between both of them as well.

I love her hair!

CHAT, I'M COOKED.

Me, who befriended my crush: Ok, I know I messed up on this, but now I can hang out with him. We did talk about our Ex's, but that was because he brought it up and then we switched topics.

Me watching this as if I’m ever gonna meet my crush

Me and my crush : agressive Math solving for an entire year. And competing in anything against each other.

Stalking their social media isn’t an issue with celebrity crushes. Although, I still feel guilty for doing it. Not really their social media, if they don’t post there often, but more so what I find of them on fan accounts, Pinterest, etc. As for my “IRL” crush, though, I’ve suffered a lot with having to only see her “luckily”. So, really only seeing her in the one class we’re in, and the two rare instances I got to see her outside of class. (She’s in a relationship, by the way. I don’t have any chances to become more than a friend.)

I just made pasta salad and it's better than any life choices I've made 💀🍝🥗

The ex one is also true because they may realize that if all your exes are “crazy” then maybe not all the exes were the problem. This may or may not be true but some people do look this deep into it.

One time I told my crush with the whole class that I have a crush on him and my classmates told me that he is dating someone and I said ik and he said “are u stalking me on TikTok?” and I didn’t knew that he was on TikTok and I thought that he was still dating his ex

Me who just looks for people i know 24/7 because im socially awkward….

Bro I'm 15 and my ex "guy bestfriend" forced me to be in a relationship with him and commented about my body and stuff in front of everyone. And it was like a year ago... I hate relationships and stuff because I want to focus on my studies and career but this guy forced me to be his bestie and then eventually his girlfriend It was HORRIBLE. My current guy bestie saved me from him and got me out of that "relationship" and now I'm happy that I got a bestie like him

I do, in fact, know how weird it makes someone feel when I know everything about them. It's a satisfying feeling when you know that they are scared😌

Having a good memory and an extreme fear of silence is annoying because you remember shit they told you years ago and you once you remember you want to say it the moment the conversation slows down

I asked my crush out when she invited me ti a date she rejected and said "This isint a dtae this is just a friend dinner"i ended up making her pay and i went to a alleyway and burnt the flowers she rejected from me

Guys if you have a crush on someone don’t try to choke them out… speaking from experience here

I'm getting all this great advice from jayus about how to act around my crush and deal with relationships. It's great! Now I'll just wait until I actually get a crush for the first time in my life lol

My problem is that im really good at remembering things about ppl even when they forgot they told me. ill just have these little details in the back of my head and sometimes i drop in the middle of a conversation that i know what they dressed up as for halloween in 2011 and get sideeyes bc „how do you even know that?“ girl you told me two months ago ok

Also learning about someone via talking to them/spending time with them is much more memorable and romantic

He's an INFJ and so cute and charming. I've had a crush on him since fifth grade, but it was like the type of crush where you never expect them to like you back, but now he does. I'm learning that we don't get along very well. It's kind of a situationship, he calls me his fiance with other people, but when I asked him what we are, it's "just friends," and yet we still hold hands. One of my close friends also asked him and he said simply, "something." He had a crush on a girl and got rejected, but that was a year back so I'm not sure if it affected his answer. We don't have the best chemistry, but I still want to be more with him. Who's the manipulative one?

The second one is something my ex friend needed to learn. He literally joined breakfast club to sit near me and came up to me all the time, I found it creepy. Found out a while later he has a gf in another city. Last weekend she broke up with him for like the 4th time and actually blocked him on everything.

Wish I would’ve found this sooner lmao😂

That's some of the best social advice I have ever heard.❤

Uh oh... I do that all the time! Talk about the jerks I've dated. Then I end up realizing the newest guy is a jerk too. Plus, I end up having sex with them too soon and end up being treated like a booty call. It sucks. Even guy friends I've known for years will come out and say they wish they had of tried it on with me years ago. I've lost friendships because of guy friends crushing on me too. They take my friendliness for liking them back. Guess it's not a good idea to come across as damaged goods or "easy" 😂

Thx 🙏 for the advice

Never tell anyone that you have a crush on that person, cuz the whole class will know it in less than a week

OH I had that last one happen to me before!! Can confirm is very creepy, 0/5 would not recommend

Honestly, it's fine to stalk your crush on social media so long as you don't tell them that you do it.

The fact I have a crush on my best friend really defeats all of these lol

up the irons! 🤘 love the shirt!

Jayus fr called me out with the last two

When we talk about exs, I only have talked about 2. The one that made me realize how toxic I used to be, and the one that is a sex addict. I hope I'm not a toxic person anymore since I learn from my mistakes, and I talk about the sex addict because I don't want to have sex 24/7. I do also make it clear that I just genuinely don't have a huge desire for sex outside of that too.

Not me who ignores my crush's existence😂😂😂

at one point we all did at least one of thes things

Yes this is so true.. at first i thought we are just casual friends till he said can you stop talking abt him.. .. weve been talking in social media for 9 whole mos...and now im falling for him already lol

Fun fact be yourself (respectful still and have manners) but be yourself and you will find the one it works

The last one is so real like there’s this girl in our class and she stalks me on all my socials and everyone’s socials. She found my whole family tree and knew I had pen pal from Switzerland 💀

her hair is so pretty omg

She killed it 😂 completely

The 2nd one is true I always find out his classes and try to find a way to see them but I think he figured it out bc he saw me upstairs and then he moved the other way💀😨