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I am finishing my bachelor's next year, and I am 53 years old. I plan to pursue my master's in clinical mental health counseling to become an LPC. My cousin just did it at 58. I am inspired.

The Lord really had me click on this episode to get free from the pressure of the timeline. I'm sitting here ugly crying over the Alpha and Omega-ness of God. Dr. Anita, thank you for sharing your story for us youngins (27) to let go and just live life instead of trying to "prepare" everything or "fix" everything about us to "get ready" for God to use us like He wants to. I needed this today and God knew it.

22 years ago, my husband died at 35, and God told me "I could tell you why, but it won't heal your pain." I accepted it because I knew and know he is sovereign. In time, I got what i needed not a answer to my question. So good!

The way my mouth keep dropping is crazy lol “the way we pray for acceleration is a cultural demand and not a spiritual inspiration” GOODNESS GRACIOUS MAAM DR.ANITA PHILIPS. My 26 year old self don’t know NOTHING LOL this is so much wisdom thank you Tim 🤍🙏🏾

My family suffered a great loss in year 2023. A tree fell on our house while we were inside . This all happened during the hurricane Idalia . Thank our Lord I Am that we were safe Now our life has changed. Holy be his name! We lived from a tralier to a house . I am 11years , so it was hard for me to move away from my home town . When my teacher prayed for me , i felt more better. I felt that God left me with no hopes. But when i heard this song , i looked back and i noticed how i been focusing on the bad things , that i had no idea i should be praising Him☝😇 !! Now i am in a youth group at church and whoever read my testimony thank you for reading this Long messege. Blessed be your name ,Lord Jesús ❤🙏🙌

"Generational trauma is the enemy of generational praise" A WHOLE WORD 🙌🏾🙏🏾

God you knew I needed this before I was even born. A few weeks to my wedding and finally I feel healed.

These 2 are slowly becoming my favorite ppl to let pour in to me!

Mid-wife analogy was On Point....I Overstand.....

Whew chileeeeee. The amount of pauses? The amount of rewinds? 😬👀 Thank you for being transparent & sharing truth! Y’all stepping on all kinds of toes & it never hurt so good!

The most SPIN CHILLING thing I have ever heard was “ Drop it “ I plan to get that tattooed on me as a consistent reminder that the Answers to the QUESTIONS of WHY will never matter and I need to just ALWAYS ask to Heal the need… 😮‍💨

This conversation is so rich and needed. Deliverance took place in me. Thank You, Jesus!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

As a genocide survivor, I appreciate both of you how you talk about trauma. I would love to meet you both. You are amazing 🥰

Dr. Anita I’m throw my phone!!! We have to be willing to be healed than answered. My God!!! Whew, as a therapist and a Christian. This is soooo right. GOD still heals.

I started the book in November. I am still not done. You can’t just read it, you have to sir with it, process and re-engage some of the lessons. It is mind altering and I am grateful for this body of work. Amazing conversation as usual💞

Oh my goodness. I’m with Dr.Anita! I don’t want God to stop blow my mind! Lord you are so intentional!

I’m grateful to God to have stumbled upon this interview 😭 I’m grateful for Tim Ross and Dr Anita. This is next level revelation 🔥🔥🔥

“Thats a God I can rest in!” WHEEWW🙌🏽🙌🏽😮‍💨😮‍💨

flabbbberrgasted!!! that drop on the biology lesson!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So I'm at 18 mins, and I could leave cause 🤧🔥🔥🔥 All I needed was that "Chill out". I'm 30 like nooooo my life is over 😭😭😭 And the way she broke the Scriptures down, what a mind 🫠🫠🫠

"Generational curses and blessings present themselves to each generation as an invitation that you either accept or deny"

I needed to hear this 12:02 Thank you so much 13:30 God is so much ahead of me, and I'm here stressing, i couldn't sleep the whole night "last night". Thank you for relieving me from my own time timeline stresses.

Dr Phillips my mouth is open. This conversation provided me with revelation and inspiration to seek God more through His word. Thank you. May the Lord continue to provoke us to greatness.

my eyes literally won’t stay dry. this was SOOO for me! won’t take it for granted.

Every time Dr. Anita said something that shook me in the bones of my spirit, I'd pause and rewind/forward to see Pr. Tim's facial expression...and EVERY TIME, I've thought to myself, "Same Pr. Tim. SAAAMMMEEEEE!"

Thank you for this podcast!!! I heard about Dr. Anita and read her book early this year. Was searching for "answers". I got them, but in the middle of reading her book, I got healed. I don't even know how it happened, I was just delivered and set free from a lot of trauma induced fear, anxiety, panic and doubt. I could now rest in God and trust him a lot more. I could continue to keep His peace and believe in his love for me, more than I could before. I was praying for healing, but I didn't know what I needed or how to get it, but God did.

Omg!! I have listened to probably 100s of podcasts but this one here!!! This one here!!! Yall are speaking the “language “ God has been preparing me to speak!!😮🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

My God, these two, are brilliant Thank you God

Dr. Anita on a roll & thank you for the insight and a new perspective.

Listen I saw the clip on IG and immediately came to KZfaq to find the full video. Just off the small clip I thanked God and gave praise. Now about to watch it!

I was attempting to upload another Podcast that I follow, but it became "stuck" in the uploading...So I pressed "forward" to the next podcast in my newsfeed...and Voila!...Here I am...started listening because I ALWAYS get GEMS 💎 of Life and Spiritual Wisdom whenever I listen to Dr Anita and Pastor Tim...meant to be....Phenomenal!!... On my way to being HEALED instead of ANSWERED....Hallelujah!🙌🙌🙌🙌....Praise God for you allowing HIM to use you and your Gifts... so Fully!

I’ve got to stop at 1 hour and watch the rest tomorrow.. sheesh, so much to pull from this

Listening to this the third time, and I hear something new every time. Think if we get the answer to the why will remove the pain. No, God will bring healing to the wound that is causing pain. I remember one time asking God “why did the gang rape happen to me?” . God answered me immediately by removing the burning desire to know “Why” and I never asked “Why” about anything after that. That’s been 30 years ago. 1:14:50

Also , they conversation is so deep … I’m in 30min and I just have to study it and make notes 😅

I'm inspired by this podcast. I'm 62 and pursuing my master's as a social worker with the goal of taking the test to become an LSW so that I can continue to help people in whatever way I can after "retirement" from a company

Great reminder that I need God more than I need the answers/direction/vision I've been seeking.

20 minutes in, I just knew, I knew… so I hit pause, grabbed my Bible, my notebook, made some tea and grabbed some tissues cause I knew, this was gonna hit different …And It Did!!! I’ve already ordered her book and it should be arriving tomorrow, gotta love Prime lol This episode gave me all the emotions and thee most bomb revelations, easily my favorite episode!!! Thank You ✨🫶🏾🥹

THE FIRST 10-15mins 😳😳🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

Oh, the Nuggets I received. Hallelujah. Thank you. My language will change, and my prayers change. Wow!! I'm today years old.... when I understood.. my garden

I could write a book about my life and me feeling like I needed answers to things that has happened in my life. So I just want to share with anyone who wants to read this. When I was 11 I found my father deceased in our family home (he had a stroke and a brain aneurysm). When I was 21 I found my mother deceased due to health complications. I wanted to know so bad why God would put me through that. It wasn’t until I built a personal relationship with God that I no longer felt the need for answers. I had to let it go to really enjoy the memories of my parents and to be a great parent. I couldn’t be a mom or be a person searching for answers that I would never get. I was literally angry and not present searching for something I would never get thank God that he has healed me.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I have not finished this episode but already appreciating the confusion, shock, and awe of perspective I experience.

This has been the most healing pod i didn’t know i needed!!

The analogy of the soil and the heart, mind blown 🤯

It helps to know where it came from! Thank you for this moment. This is the truth. To know that gives you some strength.

I’d like to believe I’ve had encounters with the holy spirt but there is something about this podcast resonating with me so deeply and profoundly had me WEEPING! Lord, I thank you for your timely message, the vessels divine obedience and my weary spirit. I can SHOUT right now!!!!!!!

Dr. Anita! Mic drop! amazing on everything you share!

I have been crying from all the revelation my goodness she’s so brilliant thank you 🙏

I can't wait for that bible study. Gosh I remember waiting for the Garden within. This Doctor is something I tell you.

So so good and such a much needed topic. We want answers but a lot of time the answers, the reality of your situation, I mean your situation exposed in the spirit, sometimes that awareness brings even more pain so sometimes, healing is crazy necessary before the answers come so that you are in a place of wellness to be able to deal with it efficiently and effectively while fully in the will and presence of God! Lord I thank you for this podcast.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

I want to meet and hug this woman and thank her. God is ministering to my whole soul through her! These words are like water to my thirsty soul! Thank you God!

If y'all don't have Dr. Anita's book already, go and get it. I have it on Audible, and I've already listened to it a few times. She's dropped so many gems. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

you can't see the future; God's there!! God already being there in my future now is just... wow.

Hands down, the best podcast interview I've heard, all year! Thanks for sharing this pivotal moment and message(s) with us! Now, for the workbook please?!

I just wanna thankyou for being you❤...that means the world...God bless you🙌

High Level Conversation❤️‍🔥There are so many takeaways to apply & practice in our lives. Feeling Grateful. Blessing🙏🏼✌🏼

I saw a clip of this episode on instagram and came here straight away. I did not know I was going to be crying and blessed by what Dr.Anita had to say but let me tell you a weight has been lifted in some areas and I am excited to get her book and workbook. Thank you for sharing this❤

48:23 now hold uppppp. My 10 yr old daughter was learning about plants in her last semester & I literally had to show her a bio book to compare the two. Some plants almost look identical to female anatomy. 😅 it’s really amazing!

This pod is for me. I needed to be freed from the burden of my sister’s mental illness and the guilt, fear, and frustration that came with it. I needed freedom from trying to solve or explain my pain and the pain of the people I love.

Oddly enough I ordered Dr. Anita's book after watching this and the package got stolen...hopefully the person actually reads the book lol so I decided to just re watch this and buy it at the store ❤

🔥 Mr. Timmmmm!!!!! Please have Dr. Anita Phillips back to help explain, “How women carry the Word in us”. I’ve received Word within me that I have not received from reading, preaching, nor teaching. I gratefully appreciate it. I also appreciate you and your Mrs. Juliette way more than you guys know. ❤

So much truth ✨✨✨. Just thankful my heart can receive the blessing & the revival 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I wish this was an audio podcast that I could stream. Yall got me in my office wanting to RUN!! My wedges stopped me!!

When I mean I literally CAN NOT put this into words HOW GOOD AND FREEING THIS WAS TO MY SPIRIT....THIS WAS GOOD DOWN TO MY SOUL‼️ I LITERALLY CAN NOT EXPLAIN IT😭🙌🏾

Downloaded her book on audible IMMEDIATELY! I pray it helps me. 😔❤️✝️

We are planters and waters. They are God’s children, sons and daughters. I am God’s creation. What a blessing this episode is!❤

So many jar drops and I'm barely an hour in... Wow the wisdom in this conversation

Thank you for this interview. I have been struggling with needing healing vs. needing an answer. And I appreciate how you were able to lay it out for us to understand it. Thank you. 🙏🏾

Wowww! Dr Anita is an angel send by God on the earth, such an incredible woman, hallelujaaa, glory to God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Tomorrow will be a month since My Mother went home and this was so healing to me on so many levels…. thank you Doc🥰💕 This was good. 💚

MAAANNNNEEE! (in my doing the most Memphis voice) This right hurr hurr. I have NO problems with listening to pods that are 2-3 hours, but when I tell you that it is taking me sooo long to get through this episode. I am much like my brother Tim, I have to stop and pause to process the weight, height, and depth of what's been said. Mind blown!!!! I have been blessed by this pod and these amazing people. Thank you for the amazing content. Keeping it coming. Love you to life.

“Healed as opposed to being answered”

This woman is incredible 🥹

The Garden Within is THE most important book I’ve ever read. Just want that on the record

This message is the answers to my prayers! Wowww

Thank you for this conversation. Thank You God for using Tim & Anita to confirm the Truth of the power of Your presence in healing to make us while so we can let You transform us to become who You created us to be. Thank you so much for this conversation

GIRRRRLLLLLLL YOU ARE THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NO LOTS ARE DETECTED!!!’ HELP US LORD!!!!

The explaination of the variations between cultural demand or influences as opposed to the spiritual deman...my mind blown!!!

This among others, just answered questions I did not ask outloud. I really enjoy Tim's chemistry with his guest. Dr. Anita is always dropping realness and love nuggets. I love multiple messages inside this talk. I look forward to the books and videos that bless me to be a better disciple of Jesus Christ.

tim said “are you serious right now?!” lol

I honestly did not want this interview to end. It was sooooo good.

I was captured by the title… can’t wait to listen to the new show

lol tim’s reaction to her every response. lol she is LOADED with AMO .. love this!

The most i can say, God bless the both of you. You made me realize even more I'm only scratching the surface in my Becoming. So much family issues that affected me and my relationship that I knew and some I didn't even see because of pain. But I'm working on myself every day thank god.

For me I ex drug user , what I get out of it was pop off and live life . To except who I am and what I've been through cuz it's who I am . Live life and enjoy it and just trust Papa Abba bcuz what we imagine is way different from what God does . Bside u guys r amazing you've help me so much , Paster Told , the Garden within book Dr Anita Phillips God give me the wisdom to lov myself and push through that I'm not my trauma that I hav something in side me that is special . I'm so comfortable I understand who I am as well as the powers that I have , it's mine and in no rush to share with anyone that don't understand .My history will guide me in the future . My relationship with God is my everything .

This episode has had me crying, convicted, and constrained! 🙌🏽 I have never had to pause and pray like this before… thank you both for what you are doing for the Kingdom! ❤

Man! This was good start to finish!!!!! I’m resting in all words, phrases and conversation topics! THANK YOU! … and Dr. Anita , I ordered my book! lol

Wow I thought she was a Ice Queen in Baltimore, this brings clarity.

I heard all these thing From the Spirit many time 43yrs teaching Children #IjustDroppedIt582024 #1CHOSENBYGOD #THANKGOD4TIMANDANITA #CANTSTOPPRAISINGHIM

I appreciate the idea of Josephs preperation being about learning a language but I also notice Joseph learns to lean on God to interpert dreams. When he got the dream abt his life he just leaned on his own understanding and shared it with others but when he was in the prisom he LEARNED enough to say "is not not God who interperets dreams" and he seeks the Lord for the wisdom to imterperet the dream. Now that hes learned to do that hes prepared to interperet pharoahs dream

Thank you.

Bro Im 20 minutes in and just had to pause bc whaaaaatttt my gosh it’s too good

i needed to hear this this morning.

So eye opening,

This is amazing !!!

This was sooo good. I am FULL

This has blessed me beyond anything and came at the right time... I thank God for your lives. God bless and preserve you both and may His boldness keep on residing in you 🙏🏽 ❤ #justboughtthebook

The two of you together, Fabulous!!! Thank You!

Amen.

Thank you for this episode.